Sermon
You don't bring me flowers anymore
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okay today we're reading from revelation chapter 2 verses 1 to 7
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to the angel of the church in ephesus write the words of him who holds the seven stars in his
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right hand who walks among the seven golden lampstands i know your works your toil and
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your patient endurance and how you cannot bear with those who are evil but have tested those
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who call themselves apostles and are not and found them to be false i know you are enduring patiently
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and bearing up for my name's sake and you have not grown weary but i have this against you
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that you have abandoned the love you had at first remember therefore from where you have fallen
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repent and do the works you did at first if not i will come to you and remove your lampstand from
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its place unless you repent yet this you have you hate the works of the nicolaitans which i also hate
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he who has an ear let him hear what the spirit says to the churches
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to the one who conquers i will grant to eat of the tree of life which is in the paradise of god
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okay uh well good morning everyone my name's david it's uh great to be gathering together as
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christ people uh would you pray with me as as we begin let's pray
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father in heaven you know our hearts and you know that we are quick to listen to the world around us
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and we're slow to listen to you we're often quite deaf towards you
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so lord we need you to give us a spiritual ear to hear your voice to hear your truth
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we can't create this ourselves we ask that you give it to us please speak to us so that we might
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find life in you i pray this in jesus powerful name amen
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well uh when em and i moved to sydney for a few years we had to go church hunting
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uh it was a good experience to help us work out what makes for a good church what's essential and
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what's just our personal preferences and after this one particular church service
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uh i decided to do a little experiment to see if it was a good church on them
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in a crowd of around 200 people all around there's guys hugging each other welcoming each other
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laughing together i assure you this is before covid came i walked into the middle of the crowd and stood
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there by myself to see how long it would take for someone to come up and welcome me
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i didn't time it it was probably only five minutes standing there by myself but it felt like an hour
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it was such an awful feeling needless to say i didn't feel very loved or welcomed
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except for one young guy who came up and spoke to me
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i think being authentically welcoming is a good mark of a healthy church isn't it is that your experience
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if the lord has welcomed us to himself as we are surely we will extend that welcome to others
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what other marks would you look for for a healthy church would it be the quality of coffee at morning tea
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obviously we're all missing john's coffee while we're online maybe you look for engaging teaching
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the quality of music a children's and youth program an invitation to lunch after the service
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what what do you look for what's your criteria imagine you're moving to newcastle again
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and you walk into grace evangelical church at clandale
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what criteria would you consider essential and what's just your personal preference
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have we been a healthy church while online will we be a healthy church when we regather at glendale
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i've got a book about this very thing it's called nine marks of a healthy church i'm just going to
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list off what's in the contents page i think there's some good stuff in here number one
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first mark expositional preaching what we're doing right now going through a book of the bible bit by bit
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letting god set the agenda for the topic not the preacher listening to god's word bit by bit
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as our daily diet number two biblical theology seeing the whole bible as a unified message pointing to
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christ number three being clear on what the gospel is and what it isn't number four a biblical
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understanding of conversion number five of evangelism number six of church membership number seven
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of church discipline taking immorality seriously as a community number eight a concern for discipleship and growth
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mature spiritual maturity and number nine biblical church leadership
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now i'm not here to plug this book even though there's a lot of good stuff in it
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i've got a different point to make according to these nine marks i'd say we're a healthy church
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and i would gladly recommend any newcomers to many more healthy churches in the hunter region
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the church we're about to hear about in revelation 2 the church in ephesus from what we know of it
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and according to our criteria they were a healthy church
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but as we lift the veil between earth and heaven christ reveals what's really going on in his church
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how does he see it because how he sees it is what is actually true
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he says ephesus had a fatal flaw
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so whatever our assumptions are about what makes a healthy church
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we need to listen to christ's assessment of his people
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and that's what we're doing in this series listening
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to the letters to the seven churches
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so before we zoom in or i didn't mean to use that phrase as before we focus in on ephesus
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let's just briefly survey what christ thinks of his seven churches
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historically there was at least 10 local churches in the asia region at the time of john's vision
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so why only seven letters as john spoke about earlier seven is a pattern in revelation
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there's a rhythm to this book there's seven scenes it's in this picture book
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and the first scene is focused on christ's church
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and each letter has a seven point structure to it
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and where where a letter doesn't follow that seven point structure
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we should pay attention and ask why
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so seven seems to be important in revelation
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it seems to be a way of saying
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this is the complete story
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this is what the church is really like
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from a heavenly perspective
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it seems most natural
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to take these letters as speaking into real churches
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with real situations
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but
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every church
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needs to read every letter
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because
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it deals with topics
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that are relevant
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to all god's people
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at all times
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so we need to listen up
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and we also need to hear
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all seven letters
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not just align ourselves with one of them
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if we just pick one of them
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then we're taking charge of our own assessment of what we're like
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we need to listen to christ's complete word to his church
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to see what the church looks like from his perspective
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and notice something else
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that the local church are pictured as golden lampstands
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this reminds us of the lampstands
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in the lord's
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tabernacle
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and temple
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in his holy presence
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this is a priestly picture
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as christ
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was the faithful witness
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of god to us
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so now the local church
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is to be the light of the world
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witnessing to god's truth and love
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put simply
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lampstands
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are meant
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to give off light
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amidst the darkness
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so what
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does the risen
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and glorious christ
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think of his local church
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well the main thing
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to say
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is out of all heaven and earth
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local gatherings
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of his people
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are his primary
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attention
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he who loves us
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and has freed us
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from our sins
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by his blood
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and made us a kingdom
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priests
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to his god
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and father
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he died for his church
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and he is present
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walking among
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his people
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relating
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speaking
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through his word
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we might
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look at our church
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we might look at
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other churches
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and
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we might think
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they're pretty ordinary
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during lockdown
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society might
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conclude
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that churches
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aren't
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essential
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but as the veil
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is lifted
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between heaven
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and earth
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we see that
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christ
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christ
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consuming
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passion
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is his
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people
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and so
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our
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consuming
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passion
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should be
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to reflect
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christ's
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passion
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okay
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so now
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that we've
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spent some time
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looking at the
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big picture
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of the letters
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let's
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let's focus in
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on what christ
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says to ephesus
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and says to us
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in as much
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as we share
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in common
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with ephesus
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so have a look
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at verse one
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to the angel
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of the church
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in ephesus
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as david
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mentioned last
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week it's
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difficult to be
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precise
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whether the
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seven stars
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which are the
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angels
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represent human
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preachers
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or are they
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literal heavenly
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messengers
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whom the lord
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assigns
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to look after
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his local
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churches
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it's hard
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to tell
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but everywhere
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else in
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revelation
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angel
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literally means
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heavenly angel
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whatever the
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case
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it's clear
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by the content
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that the whole
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church
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is meant to
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hear and
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respond
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to the
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letters
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and who's
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speaking
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is it just
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john
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it's not
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just john
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the words
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of him
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who holds
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the seven
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stars
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in his
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right hand
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who walks
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among the
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seven
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lampstands
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the lord
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who has
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the armies
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of heaven
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at his
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disposal
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as his
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church
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in his
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firm grip
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they are
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protected
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in his
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hand
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and no
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matter how
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ordinary
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our worship
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of christ
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seems on
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any given
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sunday
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whether the
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sermon is
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dull
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or our
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singing is
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a bit
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off key
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or our
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prayers are
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a bit
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muddled
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here we
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see what's
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really going
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on
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we are
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relating
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with the
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risen christ
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he is
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with us
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as in the
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garden of
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eden the
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lord is
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walking
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among
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his people
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he is
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near
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to us
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and so
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he sees
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the
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ephesians
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zeal
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and he
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praises
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them for
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it
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i know
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your works
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your toil
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and your
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patient
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endurance
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ephesus
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didn't put
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up with
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false
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teaching
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that leads
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people
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away from
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god
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and to
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death
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they hate
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the
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practices
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of the
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nicolations
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which
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christ
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also
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hates
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now we
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know little
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of the
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nicolations
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except
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by the
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teaching
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by their
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teaching
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they led
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people
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away
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from
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christ
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this
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wasn't a
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threat
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from
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outside
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the
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church
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it
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was
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people
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inside
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the
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church
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claiming
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to be
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the
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true
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and
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better
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version
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of
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christianity
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but the
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ephesians
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tested the
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teachers
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according to
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god's
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word
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and they
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found them
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to be
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false
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they love
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truth
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they love
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goodness
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they didn't
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put up with
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evil
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behavior
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they didn't
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put up with
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immorality
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they're even
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willing to
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endure
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hardship
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simply for
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being christians
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defending
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gospel
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truth
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hating
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immorality
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persevering
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for christ's
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sake
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even when
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other people
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despise them
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for it
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christ is
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here
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he sees
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he knows
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and he
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praises
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what is
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genuinely
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praiseworthy
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i think we
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should remember
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that the
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next time
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you don't
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feel
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appreciated
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christ
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sees and
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he knows
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let's do
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it for
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his sake
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ephesus
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was a
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solid
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church
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it
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looked
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really
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good
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but one
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thing's
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wrong
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despite so
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much good
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the one
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issue
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is so
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serious
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that christ
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warns i will
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remove your
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lampstand from
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its place
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i will come
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and shut
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the church
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down
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one thing
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what is this
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critical issue
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verse 4
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i have this
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against you
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that you have
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abandoned
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the love
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you had
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at first
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is this
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love for
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christ
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or love
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for one
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another
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in the
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church
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that they
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have
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abandoned
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perhaps
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that's not
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even the
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right question
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love for
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god
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and love
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for one
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another
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are
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inseparable
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but
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one
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is first
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one is
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primary
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and leads
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to the
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other
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a heart
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consumed
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and devoted
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to the
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lord
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overflows
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in love
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for his
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children
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the church
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at ephesus
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they had
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the form
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of being
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passionate
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followers of
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christ
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but in
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their heart
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they weren't
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loving him
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they weren't
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worshipping
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him
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they had
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the form
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of a
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solid
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gold
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lamp
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stand
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but their
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light
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was barely
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flickering
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how does
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a person
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and a
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church
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get to
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this
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point
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how can
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we
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abandon
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our
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original
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love
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we're not
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told
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exactly
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and perhaps
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it's left
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open
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on purpose
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so that
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you and
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I reflect
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on our
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own
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hearts
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it's
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probably
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gradual
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bit by
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bit
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over
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time
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a man
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doesn't
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wake up
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one morning
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and decide
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to commit
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adultery
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that day
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it is a
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gradual
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redirection
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of his
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attention
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and his
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heart's
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desire
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the very
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deeds
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of serving
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his wife
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that once
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were the
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overflow
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of his
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devotion
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and passion
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for her
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can become
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the very
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excuse
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for letting
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his heart
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wander off
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somewhere else
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Christ
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is
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jealous
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to have
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your heart
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he is
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jealous
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for the
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heart
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of his
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bride
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the church
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I think
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we've got
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a choice
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now
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will you
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hear the
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Lord's
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criticism
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as unfair
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and harsh
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because all
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the things
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you do
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aren't
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enough
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or you
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hear his
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call to
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redirect your
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passion back
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to him
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as the
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words of the
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one who
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will not
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settle for
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anything
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less than
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wholehearted
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joyful
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intimacy
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with him
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now I
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don't think
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true passion
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always burns
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with high
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emotions
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so if
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you're not
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feeling high
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on emotions
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feeling close
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to God
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I don't
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want you to
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feel guilty
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about that
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but
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we all
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know the
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difference
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between
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doing
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what feels
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like a
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joyless
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duty
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compared to
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when your
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heart is
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consumed
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with something
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so much
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so that
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your passion
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for it
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just propels
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you into
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action
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we all
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know the
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difference
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Christ
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wants all
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of our
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heart
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our soul
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and mind
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and strength
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so how
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does he
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call us
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to respond
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he gives
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us three
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steps
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for us
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to do
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look at
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verse 5
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remember
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therefore
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from where
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you have
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fallen
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repent
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and do
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the works
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you did
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at first
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so number
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one we
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need to
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keep
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remembering
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our
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original
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passion
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when we
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think back
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to when
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you first
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grasped
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how much
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God loves
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you
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in the
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death of
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his son
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for you
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how
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satisfied
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was your
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heart
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it felt
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like you
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need
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nothing
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else
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that was
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enough
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that
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commitment
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to change
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your entire
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life for
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his sake
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that desire
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for everyone
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around you
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to experience
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God's love
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as you
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have
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keep on
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remembering
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that state
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of total
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worship
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from the
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heart
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and see
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where you've
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fallen from
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don't settle
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for going
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through the
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motions
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now my
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personal
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experience
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is that
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this is a
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daily battle
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my heart
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does not
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wake up
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in the
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morning
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in love
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with Jesus
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it wakes
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up in love
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with the
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world
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I think
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this is a
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constant call
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to remember
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and not
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to settle
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secondly
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we've got
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to repent
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this is a
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conscious
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decision
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to take
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action
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don't wait
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until you
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feel something
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before you
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do anything
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about it
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it's
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impossible
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to conjure
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up passion
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from within
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yourself
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you need
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to go
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to the
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object
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outside
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of yourself
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to stir
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up your
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heart's
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desire
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we need
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to go
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to him
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listen
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to him
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see him
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afresh
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then
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when you
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find him
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or he
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finds you
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the third
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thing is
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do the
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works you
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did at
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first
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here's the
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fruit of
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the first
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and second
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step
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like a
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fountain
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a heart
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that is
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satisfied
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in the
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love of
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Christ
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will
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overflow
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when you're
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contenting
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him
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you will
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overflow
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in love
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for other
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people
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the
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Ephesians
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were
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commended
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for their
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hard work
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but there's
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a difference
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between
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slogging
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it out
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and the
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loving
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service
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that is
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motivated
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by a
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content
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heart
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in him
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and we
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don't need
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to wonder
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where to
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find him
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we don't
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need to
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have a
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mystical
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experience
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or go
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to a
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lofty
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mountain
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we're told
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right here
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how we
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meet with
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him
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the Holy
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Spirit is
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speaking his
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words to
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us
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the
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Spirit is
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continually
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speaking
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the words
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of Christ
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written down
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for us
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that's
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where we
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meet him
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primarily
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the question
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is do we
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have an
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ear to
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hear him
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do we
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want to
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hear him
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and here's
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what's
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promised
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to you
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if you
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do
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to the
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one
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who
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conquers
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Adam
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in the
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garden
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was
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expelled
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from
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God's
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presence
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cut off
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from
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eternal
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life
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found
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only in
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relationship
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with the
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Lord
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and we've
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all followed
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in his
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footsteps
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our
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natural
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inclination
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is to
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follow the
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rest of
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the world
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to live
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apart
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from
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God
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but it
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doesn't
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work
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what faith
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looks like
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is to
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actively
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fight
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against
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that
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natural
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inclination
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and the
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ways of
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this
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world
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it is
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to believe
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that life
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can only
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be found
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walking
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with God
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in peace
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and fellowship
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faith
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is a
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struggle
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for a
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heart
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satisfied
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in
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Christ
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if
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you're
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struggling
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excellent
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that's
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great
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that's
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what you're
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called
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to
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that's
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why we
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gather
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as his
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people
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to help
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each other
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in that
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struggle
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do you
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hear
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Christ
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promise
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to you
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the
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struggle
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will
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one day
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be over
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and we
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will be
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satisfied
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fully
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in the
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presence
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of God
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Christ
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alone
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has the
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right
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to give
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it to
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you
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this
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struggle
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isn't
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an
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earning
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he's
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already
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got the
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victory
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over
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your
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sin
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by his
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death
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on the
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cross
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but we
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need to
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struggle
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to keep
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fighting
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the fight
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of joy
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in him
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he promises
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this is
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your reward
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you will
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have your
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heart's
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desire
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so
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are we
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at grace
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a healthy
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church
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if we
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think
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solid
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ministry
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programs
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and
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reestablishing
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all the
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good
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external
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marks
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of a
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healthy
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church
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is what
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will keep
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our
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light
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burning
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in the
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community
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then just
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as we're
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presuming
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that we're
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about to
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open the
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doors at
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Glendale
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Christ
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might be
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on his
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way to
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shut
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it
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down
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external
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form
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is not
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enough
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let's
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not settle
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for it
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let's
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let our
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light shine
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before the
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world
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what will
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determine
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our health
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as a
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church
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is down
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to each
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one of
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us
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to
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continually
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check
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our
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hearts
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returning
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again
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and again
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and again
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every day
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to our
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original love
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of Christ
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and we're
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not alone
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in that
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the spirit
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is here
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helping us
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and we
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are a
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church
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called to
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serve one
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another
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in helping
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one another
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keep that
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passion
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going
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if you're
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like me
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you might
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be fearing
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you don't
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have it
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in you
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to produce
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this passion
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and that's
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true
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you don't
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I don't
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I don't
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have the
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power to
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change my
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heart
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but there's
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one who
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does
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the one
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who holds
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the seven
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stars
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having all
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authority in
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heaven and
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earth
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whose words
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are like a
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sword that
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breaks through
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our hardness
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of heart
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he alone
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has the
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power to
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give us
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a spiritual
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ear to
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hear him
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I think we
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need to keep
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asking him
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for an ear
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to hear him
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he has
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the power
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and even
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if he
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feels a
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million miles
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away
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the curtain
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has been
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lifted
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remember
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he is
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with us
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he is
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walking
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among his
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people
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his spirit
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is speaking
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as we sing
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together
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and learn
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together
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and pray
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together
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and encourage
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and cry
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together
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as a church
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family
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let's do
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it in a
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way that's
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in tune
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with reality
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what's
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actually
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going on
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that Christ
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is present
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with us
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our passion
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will revive
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in as much
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as we
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anticipate
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the future
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he promises
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us
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one day
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very soon
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you're a
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day
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you're a
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week
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you're a
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year
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closer
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we will
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be walking
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with the
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Lord
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in his
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paradise
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we have
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a taste
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of it
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now
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in the
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church
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but gee
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it's going
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to be so
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much better
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we're going
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to be eating
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from the
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tree of
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life
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as a
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free gift
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going for
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an afternoon
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stroll
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in the
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cool of the
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day with
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the Lord
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trusting in
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his power
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trusting he
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is present
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trusting his
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promise is
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going to keep
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our light as
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a church
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shining
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will you
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pray with
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me
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let's pray
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to finish
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Lord God
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in heaven
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we thank
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you that
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you do
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have all
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power
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that you
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have conquered
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death
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that you
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have conquered
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our sin
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that you
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have conquered
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satan and
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the world
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that you
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hold us
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in your
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right hand
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that you
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are with
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us by
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your spirit
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through your
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word
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Lord we
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thank you
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that by
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your grace
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alone you
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promise to
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give us
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life in
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abundance
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with yourself
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Father I
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pray for
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each one
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of us
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that you
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would take
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hold of
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our hearts
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give us
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hearts that
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are consumed
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with you
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you know
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how prone
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we are to
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wander away
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bring us
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back again
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and again
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Lord bring
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glory to
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your name
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through grace
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evangelical
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church
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make us
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a people
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who
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love you
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from the
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heart
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and show
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it in
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love for
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one another
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keep us
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from
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just mere
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external
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works
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we pray
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in Jesus
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name
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Amen
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thanks for
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listening
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Amen
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or
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you
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are
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going
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