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The Blessing of God

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  1. yeah so Genesis 26 sorry 27 6 to 29

  2. Rebecca said to her son Jacob I heard your father speak to your brother Esau

  3. bring me game and prepare for me delicious food that I may eat it and bless you before the Lord

  4. before I die now therefore my son obey my voice as I command you go to the flock and bring me two

  5. good young goats so that I may prepare from them delicious food for your father such as he loves

  6. and you shall bring it to your father to eat so that he may bless you before he dies

  7. but Jacob said to Rebecca his mother behold my brother Esau is a hairy man and I'm a smooth man

  8. perhaps my father will feel me and I shall seem to be mocking him and bring a curse upon myself and

  9. not a blessing his mother said to him let your curse be on me my son only obey my voice and go

  10. bring them to me so he went and took them and brought them to his mother and his mother prepared

  11. delicious food such as his father loved then Rebecca took the best garments of Esau her older son

  12. which were with her in the house and put them on Jacob her younger son and the skins of the young

  13. goats she put on his hands and on the smooth part of his neck and she put the delicious food and the

  14. bread which she had prepared into the hand of her son Jacob so he went into his father and said

  15. my father and he said here I am who are you my son Jacob said to his father I am Esau your firstborn

  16. I have done as you told me now sit up and eat of my game that your soul may bless me

  17. but Isaac said to his son how is it that you found it so quickly my son

  18. he answered because the Lord your God granted me success then Isaac said to Jacob please come near

  19. that I may feel you my son to know whether you are really my son Esau or not so Jacob went near to

  20. Isaac his father who felt him and said the voice is Jacob's voice but the hands are the hands of Esau

  21. and he did not recognize him because his hands were hairy like his brother Esau's hands so he blessed him

  22. he said are you really my son Esau he answered I am then he said bring it near to me that I may eat of

  23. my son's game and bless you so he brought it near to him and he ate and he brought him wine and he drank

  24. then his father Isaac said to him come near and kiss me my son so he came near and kissed him

  25. and Isaac smelled the smell of his garments and blessed him and said see the smell of my son is as

  26. the smell of a field that the Lord has blessed may God give you of the dew of heaven and of the fatness

  27. of the earth and plenty of grain and wine let people serve you and nations bow down to you

  28. be lord over your brothers and may your mother's sons bow down to you

  29. cursed be everyone who curses you and blessed be everyone who blesses you

  30. it's good to be back at church and especially seeing Alex and and and Liz

  31. giving us in music as well and also glad to see the Smith family back with verses too

  32. for these two weeks I'll be talking about the story of a cha ego it started in March when I promised the church in Malaysia that when I when I

  33. went back or go back there supposed to be next week then I'll be

  34. helping them out because they don't have a pastor to preach for three weeks three Sundays and I said I will be talking about the story of

  35. a cha ego

  36. a cha ego

  37. why is that so it's because a lot of time when we especially when we go back to Malaysia and attend weddings

  38. the if it's a christian christian wedding then the pastors or people there will in prayer they always say god will bless this family and and that is the the main theme almost in all the christian weddings and it's about god's blessing and the

  39. and it's about god's blessing on the families

  40. however I always have this feeling that maybe people don't actually understand what it meant

  41. to be blessed by god

  42. do you do you really want to be blessed that's what my mind is thinking when when people are using this word blessing so

  43. lightly and as if it is

  44. something that is comfortable or easy

  45. in the bible we shall see that is not or that

  46. that is the case not the case

  47. I think

  48. we

  49. you could

  50. blessing with happiness

  51. or blessedness with happiness

  52. but in the bible

  53. blessing is a type of happiness

  54. but it's a type of happiness that can only be experienced if

  55. you're holy

  56. so it comes to holiness if there's no holiness there's no blessedness and that's why if we may ask god why are you so busy trying to make us holy just make me happy but god will say i can't make you happy until you're holy otherwise the happiness you're you're going through is not the real real thing and we shall see that in in this story in this coming today and next week hopefully I as I prepare this sermons I

  57. I just get so so much out of it I it's just so much to talk about

  58. even in

  59. I thought even in three sermons for back in Malaysia if I go back eventually it won't be enough to

  60. to finish

  61. the story

  62. and as you read even as just you read in the bible you read that

  63. Jacob told his mom

  64. my brother is a hairy man

  65. and I'm a smooth man

  66. even even if that has this

  67. very interesting

  68. double meaning in it

  69. he's definitely Jacob is a smooth man

  70. he's smooth

  71. he's even talking to the mom smoothly

  72. he's trying to get the mom to take the blame and he couldn't he doesn't so he's very smooth in that case

  73. but it's very interesting as you read deeper into it and it just so much

  74. inside that

  75. you can we can get out

  76. of it and see

  77. God's amazing work in people

  78. shall we pray before we start

  79. let's pray

  80. Father God we thank you for this time that we could spend in your word

  81. and we

  82. want to hear you speaking to us

  83. and we

  84. also want to

  85. honor the Lord

  86. Jesus Christ

  87. for his freedom

  88. on the cross

  89. for us to

  90. really enjoy

  91. your blessing

  92. thank you Lord

  93. we pray in Jesus name

  94. Amen

  95. so

  96. just now the story

  97. already

  98. Alex has shared with us

  99. so most of us would know about this

  100. story about

  101. Esau

  102. and Jacob

  103. one thing

  104. I think

  105. you may not notice

  106. is the fact that when

  107. Jacob was holding

  108. Esau's heel

  109. at birth

  110. it means that

  111. he will need to come out of the birth can now

  112. with his head and arm together

  113. which is very rare in birth

  114. usually

  115. the baby won't come out

  116. if you do that

  117. you either have a caesarean section

  118. or you try to push the hand

  119. arm back in

  120. before the baby comes out

  121. if you feel that the baby

  122. if the midwife or the

  123. doctor

  124. fell there

  125. and to

  126. to do that

  127. it means that

  128. Jacob must be quite smaller

  129. much smaller than Esau

  130. smaller head

  131. at least

  132. for him to

  133. to come through

  134. physically

  135. and that also have implication

  136. to know why

  137. Jacob ended

  138. inside the house

  139. while Esau

  140. was a hunter

  141. and

  142. and that also

  143. I mean

  144. explain

  145. why

  146. Jacob is so keen

  147. to inherit this

  148. the blessing

  149. you can

  150. imagine

  151. imagine that

  152. for Jacob

  153. to be secure

  154. in future

  155. it's very hard

  156. he learned to cook

  157. with the mom

  158. but at that day and age

  159. cooking

  160. skill

  161. for men

  162. is really

  163. not much of a use

  164. you need to be outdoor

  165. you need to be able to hunt

  166. or plant

  167. or

  168. be a shepherd

  169. of some sort

  170. for Jacob

  171. it is quite

  172. hopeless

  173. isn't it

  174. in terms of

  175. for his future

  176. and that's how

  177. we can feel for him

  178. in terms of why

  179. he wanted that

  180. blessing so

  181. desperately

  182. and how did they know

  183. about this blessing

  184. it's just because

  185. the blessing was initially

  186. given to Abraham

  187. their grandfather

  188. Abraham

  189. was still alive

  190. during their birth

  191. for 15

  192. until they are 15 years

  193. old

  194. and Abraham died

  195. so they would have

  196. heard

  197. from Abraham

  198. and also their father

  199. Isaac

  200. about God's blessing

  201. and promise

  202. to this special family

  203. that

  204. God said that

  205. they will be made

  206. into a great nation

  207. and through them

  208. all the families

  209. of the earth

  210. shall be blessed

  211. there's the

  212. summary of the blessing

  213. and this blessing

  214. is being passed

  215. from generation

  216. to generation

  217. just one person

  218. though

  219. just one person

  220. in each generation

  221. inherit this blessing

  222. and that person

  223. as they look at

  224. Abraham and Isaac

  225. will become rich

  226. and strong

  227. and that's why

  228. Jacob wanted that

  229. blessing

  230. you notice that

  231. God says that

  232. all the families

  233. of the earth

  234. shall be blessed

  235. it's quite interesting

  236. to see that

  237. God

  238. didn't use

  239. all the nations

  240. of the earth

  241. to be blessed

  242. all the people

  243. all the languages

  244. but he said

  245. all the families

  246. why all the families

  247. we can see

  248. even in this family

  249. now

  250. looking at

  251. Isaac

  252. Rebecca

  253. Esau and Jacob

  254. as a family

  255. we can see

  256. why this family

  257. really needs

  258. that blessing

  259. and why we

  260. do as well

  261. so in Genesis

  262. so

  263. sorry

  264. Jacob had

  265. two

  266. obstacles

  267. for him to

  268. inherit the blessing

  269. the first one

  270. is the fact

  271. that he wasn't

  272. the firstborn

  273. and

  274. the inheritance

  275. usually given

  276. to the firstborn

  277. first

  278. the rest

  279. would get a bit

  280. of it

  281. but

  282. majority

  283. will be given

  284. to the firstborn

  285. and the second

  286. is the fact

  287. that his father

  288. loved Esau

  289. more than

  290. loving him

  291. or more than him

  292. Genesis 25

  293. 28

  294. says that

  295. Isaac

  296. loved Esau

  297. because he

  298. acts of his game

  299. but Rebecca

  300. loved Jacob

  301. Esau could be

  302. disappointed in Jacob

  303. because he had

  304. wished that

  305. Jacob would go out

  306. hunting like a man

  307. instead

  308. Jacob

  309. learned to cook

  310. like a woman

  311. we don't know why

  312. but we don't know

  313. why Isaac

  314. had that feeling

  315. but there's

  316. a possibility

  317. however

  318. we can

  319. we see that

  320. Jacob is

  321. a very smart man

  322. he was able

  323. to even make

  324. use of his

  325. cooking skill

  326. to get

  327. what he wanted

  328. so as we saw

  329. just now

  330. he exchanged

  331. Esau's birthright

  332. with his stew

  333. so he

  334. somehow

  335. got his

  336. first obstacle

  337. first problem

  338. settled

  339. at least

  340. apparently

  341. Isaac said

  342. well you can

  343. have my birthright

  344. whether Isaac

  345. made it

  346. we don't know

  347. I mean

  348. when you're hungry

  349. you can

  350. you will say anything

  351. and that's how

  352. it works

  353. and

  354. this

  355. today's story

  356. we come to

  357. the point

  358. where

  359. Jacob

  360. trying to

  361. solve his

  362. second problem

  363. that the

  364. father

  365. would not

  366. give him

  367. the blessing

  368. because the

  369. father

  370. would not

  371. like him

  372. to start

  373. with

  374. so

  375. at this

  376. point

  377. of the

  378. story

  379. we

  380. come to

  381. the part

  382. when we

  383. think about

  384. partiality

  385. when we

  386. look at

  387. the fact

  388. that

  389. Isaac

  390. loved

  391. Esau

  392. Rebecca

  393. loved

  394. Jacob

  395. and this

  396. is

  397. partiality

  398. we

  399. are all

  400. we

  401. all have

  402. this

  403. problem

  404. we're

  405. all

  406. partial

  407. people

  408. in the

  409. sense

  410. that

  411. nine

  412. of

  413. us

  414. is

  415. complete

  416. unless

  417. we're

  418. in

  419. Christ

  420. but

  421. we are

  422. partial

  423. in the

  424. sense

  425. that

  426. because

  427. we

  428. all have

  429. needs

  430. unmet

  431. needs

  432. so

  433. we

  434. tend

  435. to

  436. favor

  437. people

  438. who

  439. give

  440. us

  441. or

  442. satisfy

  443. our

  444. needs

  445. or

  446. give

  447. us

  448. more

  449. joy

  450. so

  451. that

  452. is

  453. very

  454. natural

  455. for us

  456. to do

  457. however

  458. as

  459. parents

  460. one

  461. of the

  462. things

  463. that

  464. parents

  465. would

  466. learn

  467. is

  468. to

  469. love

  470. their

  471. children

  472. because

  473. they

  474. are

  475. their

  476. children

  477. not

  478. because

  479. of

  480. how

  481. their

  482. children

  483. perform

  484. or

  485. how

  486. their

  487. children

  488. meet

  489. their

  490. needs

  491. if

  492. the

  493. parents

  494. love

  495. their

  496. children

  497. in a

  498. partial

  499. way

  500. then

  501. the

  502. children

  503. in turn

  504. will

  505. learn

  506. to

  507. love

  508. their

  509. parents

  510. in a

  511. partial

  512. way

  513. as

  514. well

  515. in

  516. times

  517. to

  518. come

  519. and

  520. we

  521. can

  522. see

  523. that

  524. the

  525. partiality

  526. in

  527. the

  528. family

  529. does

  530. a lot

  531. of

  532. damage

  533. to

  534. the

  535. child

  536. both

  537. the

  538. child

  539. who

  540. is

  541. partial

  542. or

  543. who

  544. is

  545. favored

  546. and

  547. the

  548. child

  549. who

  550. are

  551. not

  552. favored

  553. so

  554. the

  555. child

  556. who

  557. is

  558. favored

  559. would

  560. usually

  561. become

  562. very

  563. proud

  564. and

  565. careless

  566. because

  567. the

  568. parents

  569. would

  570. do

  571. now

  572. and

  573. it's

  574. the

  575. type

  576. of

  577. families

  578. that

  579. we

  580. all

  581. grew up

  582. in

  583. and

  584. so

  585. it's

  586. very

  587. relevant

  588. for

  589. God

  590. to

  591. say

  592. that

  593. through

  594. Abraham's

  595. offspring

  596. all

  597. families

  598. of

  599. will

  600. be

  601. blessed

  602. so

  603. we

  604. know

  605. that

  606. it's

  607. only

  608. lateral

  609. for

  610. Isaac

  611. wanting

  612. to

  613. pass

  614. the

  615. blessing

  616. to

  617. the

  618. firstborn

  619. regardless

  620. of

  621. who

  622. he

  623. loves

  624. however

  625. before

  626. the birth

  627. of the

  628. twins

  629. God

  630. already

  631. told

  632. them

  633. that

  634. the

  635. older

  636. shall

  637. serve

  638. the

  639. younger

  640. so

  641. that

  642. is

  643. when

  644. Rebecca

  645. had

  646. the

  647. twins

  648. fighting

  649. inside

  650. she

  651. was

  652. in

  653. much

  654. trouble

  655. and

  656. God

  657. told

  658. them

  659. about

  660. this

  661. already

  662. but

  663. Isaac

  664. like the

  665. rest of

  666. the

  667. family

  668. did

  669. not

  670. take

  671. God's

  672. word

  673. seriously

  674. you

  675. know

  676. almost

  677. none

  678. of

  679. them

  680. took

  681. God's

  682. word

  683. seriously

  684. except

  685. maybe

  686. Esau

  687. surprisingly

  688. you

  689. thought

  690. that

  691. Esau

  692. was

  693. a

  694. rough

  695. or

  696. careless

  697. man

  698. in

  699. the

  700. sense

  701. that

  702. if

  703. Esau

  704. really

  705. understood

  706. what

  707. God

  708. meant

  709. he

  710. would

  711. say

  712. oh

  713. you

  714. want

  715. to

  716. be

  717. the

  718. first

  719. one

  720. go

  721. ahead

  722. I

  723. would

  724. rather

  725. be

  726. the

  727. younger

  728. one

  729. because

  730. God

  731. said

  732. that

  733. the

  734. older

  735. should

  736. serve

  737. the

  738. younger

  739. so

  740. why

  741. on

  742. earth

  743. did

  744. Jacob

  745. want

  746. to

  747. be

  748. the

  749. older

  750. if

  751. God

  752. already

  753. said

  754. that

  755. the

  756. older

  757. shall

  758. serve

  759. the

  760. younger

  761. but

  762. there

  763. is

  764. us

  765. I

  766. suppose

  767. we

  768. don't

  769. listen

  770. to

  771. God

  772. and

  773. if

  774. they

  775. did

  776. then

  777. all

  778. these

  779. things

  780. would

  781. not

  782. have

  783. happened

  784. but

  785. then

  786. in

  787. here

  788. we

  789. need

  790. to

  791. consider

  792. one

  793. question

  794. is

  795. that

  796. is

  797. God

  798. showing

  799. partiality

  800. in

  801. choosing

  802. the

  803. younger

  804. to

  805. be

  806. served

  807. by

  808. the

  809. older

  810. even

  811. before

  812. they

  813. were

  814. born

  815. even

  816. before

  817. they

  818. show

  819. whether

  820. they're

  821. good

  822. or

  823. bad

  824. nothing

  825. before

  826. they

  827. were

  828. born

  829. God

  830. already

  831. said

  832. that

  833. is

  834. there

  835. a

  836. partiality

  837. we

  838. will

  839. consider

  840. this

  841. in

  842. the

  843. next

  844. sermon

  845. which

  846. is

  847. on

  848. God

  849. of

  850. the

  851. blessing

  852. first

  853. I

  854. titled

  855. the

  856. sermon

  857. God

  858. of

  859. blessing

  860. I

  861. the

  862. saw

  863. Jacob

  864. being

  865. a

  866. smart

  867. man

  868. he

  869. was

  870. a

  871. bit

  872. reluctant

  873. he

  874. knew

  875. that

  876. it's

  877. a

  878. big

  879. risk

  880. if

  881. he

  882. did

  883. nothing

  884. at

  885. least

  886. he

  887. could

  888. stay

  889. on

  890. maybe

  891. the

  892. brother

  893. would

  894. talk

  895. after

  896. him

  897. but

  898. if

  899. he

  900. tried

  901. to

  902. get

  903. the

  904. blessing

  905. and

  906. fail

  907. he

  908. could

  909. be

  910. cast

  911. out

  912. of

  913. the

  914. family

  915. he

  916. could

  917. lose

  918. everything

  919. and

  920. so

  921. he

  922. thought

  923. about

  924. it

  925. but

  926. then

  927. his

  928. mom

  929. reassured

  930. him

  931. that

  932. it's

  933. all

  934. right

  935. will

  936. take

  937. the

  938. plan

  939. whatever

  940. happens

  941. well

  942. you

  943. know

  944. that

  945. Jacob

  946. there's

  947. too

  948. good

  949. a

  950. chance

  951. not

  952. to

  953. take

  954. up

  955. and

  956. that's

  957. why

  958. he

  959. went

  960. with

  961. the

  962. plan

  963. and

  964. Rebecca

  965. prepared

  966. three

  967. things

  968. for him

  969. that

  970. is

  971. delicious

  972. food

  973. such as

  974. Isaac

  975. love

  976. Esau's

  977. garment

  978. with Esau's

  979. smell

  980. and the

  981. skin

  982. of the

  983. young

  984. goat

  985. which

  986. she

  987. killed

  988. for

  989. the

  990. food

  991. so

  992. Isaac

  993. was

  994. old

  995. he

  996. had

  997. blood

  998. vision

  999. his

  1000. eyes

  1001. were

  1002. most

  1003. affected

  1004. by

  1005. cataracts

  1006. he

  1007. thought

  1008. he

  1009. heard

  1010. Jacob's

  1011. voice

  1012. but

  1013. he

  1014. tasted

  1015. Esau's

  1016. food

  1017. and

  1018. he

  1019. felt

  1020. Esau's

  1021. hairy

  1022. hands

  1023. and

  1024. smell

  1025. Esau's

  1026. smell

  1027. so

  1028. after

  1029. Isaac

  1030. ate

  1031. and

  1032. drank

  1033. he

  1034. blessed

  1035. Jacob

  1036. as

  1037. we

  1038. read

  1039. from

  1040. verse

  1041. 27

  1042. to

  1043. 29

  1044. so

  1045. Jacob

  1046. came

  1047. near

  1048. and

  1049. kissed

  1050. him

  1051. and

  1052. Isaac

  1053. smelled

  1054. the smell

  1055. of his

  1056. garments

  1057. and

  1058. blessed

  1059. him

  1060. and

  1061. said

  1062. see

  1063. the smell

  1064. of my

  1065. son

  1066. is as

  1067. the smell

  1068. of a

  1069. field

  1070. that the

  1071. Lord

  1072. has

  1073. blessed

  1074. may

  1075. God

  1076. give

  1077. you

  1078. all

  1079. the

  1080. dew

  1081. of

  1082. heaven

  1083. and

  1084. of

  1085. the

  1086. fatness

  1087. of

  1088. the

  1089. earth

  1090. and

  1091. plenty

  1092. of

  1093. grain

  1094. and

  1095. wine

  1096. let

  1097. people

  1098. serve

  1099. you

  1100. and

  1101. nations

  1102. bow

  1103. down

  1104. to

  1105. you

  1106. be

  1107. lord

  1108. over

  1109. your

  1110. brothers

  1111. and

  1112. may

  1113. your

  1114. mother's

  1115. sons

  1116. bow

  1117. down

  1118. to

  1119. you

  1120. curse

  1121. be

  1122. everyone

  1123. who

  1124. cursed

  1125. you

  1126. and

  1127. blessed

  1128. be

  1129. everyone

  1130. who

  1131. blesses

  1132. you

  1133. so

  1134. there

  1135. are

  1136. three

  1137. things

  1138. Isaac

  1139. mentioned

  1140. there

  1141. are

  1142. three

  1143. things

  1144. in

  1145. particular

  1146. I

  1147. would

  1148. like

  1149. to

  1150. mention

  1151. in

  1152. these

  1153. three

  1154. verses

  1155. one

  1156. is

  1157. fragrance

  1158. smell

  1159. two

  1160. is

  1161. security

  1162. to do

  1163. with

  1164. harvest

  1165. number

  1166. three

  1167. is

  1168. significance

  1169. to do

  1170. with

  1171. honor

  1172. so

  1173. there's

  1174. fragrance

  1175. from

  1176. yang

  1177. we

  1178. learn

  1179. to

  1180. distinguish

  1181. what

  1182. frequency

  1183. like

  1184. what

  1185. frequency

  1186. and what

  1187. stent

  1188. different

  1189. people may

  1190. have

  1191. different

  1192. but at

  1193. least

  1194. for

  1195. each

  1196. of

  1197. us

  1198. there

  1199. are

  1200. smells

  1201. that we

  1202. like

  1203. and

  1204. smells

  1205. that

  1206. we

  1207. don't

  1208. like

  1209. and

  1210. we

  1211. associate

  1212. fragrance

  1213. with

  1214. love

  1215. cleanliness

  1216. purity

  1217. acceptance

  1218. warmth

  1219. and stench

  1220. with

  1221. danger

  1222. or decay

  1223. filth

  1224. something

  1225. that we

  1226. just

  1227. want to

  1228. avoid

  1229. and

  1230. we

  1231. all

  1232. use

  1233. or

  1234. we

  1235. not

  1236. all

  1237. most

  1238. of

  1239. us

  1240. can

  1241. use

  1242. perfume

  1243. to

  1244. promote

  1245. our

  1246. acceptance

  1247. by

  1248. others

  1249. which

  1250. is

  1251. a

  1252. very

  1253. profitable

  1254. business

  1255. in the

  1256. world

  1257. so

  1258. the

  1259. frequency

  1260. is very

  1261. important

  1262. in here

  1263. and

  1264. Isaac

  1265. blessed

  1266. Jacob

  1267. because

  1268. he

  1269. smelled

  1270. the

  1271. frequency

  1272. of food

  1273. and

  1274. Esau's

  1275. garment

  1276. and

  1277. so

  1278. while

  1279. Esau

  1280. not knowing

  1281. it

  1282. or

  1283. given

  1284. his

  1285. birthright

  1286. to

  1287. Jacob

  1288. now in

  1289. practice

  1290. Jacob

  1291. already

  1292. taken

  1293. up

  1294. this

  1295. Esau's

  1296. identity

  1297. to get

  1298. the

  1299. father's

  1300. acceptance

  1301. and the

  1302. blessing

  1303. and

  1304. inside

  1305. the

  1306. blessing

  1307. he

  1308. mentions

  1309. about

  1310. security

  1311. as

  1312. he

  1313. said

  1314. may

  1315. God

  1316. give

  1317. you

  1318. of

  1319. the

  1320. dew

  1321. of

  1322. heaven

  1323. and

  1324. the

  1325. fatness

  1326. of

  1327. the

  1328. earth

  1329. and

  1330. plenty

  1331. of

  1332. grain

  1333. and

  1334. wine

  1335. the

  1336. fact

  1337. that

  1338. Isaac

  1339. emphasized

  1340. this

  1341. in

  1342. the

  1343. blessing

  1344. tells

  1345. us

  1346. that

  1347. it

  1348. is

  1349. not

  1350. natural

  1351. to

  1352. have

  1353. good

  1354. harvest

  1355. from

  1356. our

  1357. labors

  1358. as

  1359. a

  1360. consequence

  1361. of

  1362. man's

  1363. rebellion

  1364. against

  1365. God

  1366. the

  1367. ground

  1368. became

  1369. infertile

  1370. in

  1371. chapter 3

  1372. verses

  1373. 17 to

  1374. 19

  1375. we read

  1376. and to

  1377. Adam

  1378. he said

  1379. because

  1380. you have

  1381. listened

  1382. to the

  1383. voice

  1384. of your

  1385. wife

  1386. and have

  1387. eaten

  1388. of the

  1389. three

  1390. of which

  1391. I

  1392. commended

  1393. you

  1394. you shall

  1395. not eat

  1396. of it

  1397. curse

  1398. is a

  1399. ground

  1400. because

  1401. of you

  1402. in pain

  1403. you shall

  1404. eat

  1405. of it

  1406. all the

  1407. days

  1408. of your

  1409. life

  1410. fawns

  1411. and

  1412. teasels

  1413. it shall

  1414. bring forth

  1415. to you

  1416. and you

  1417. shall eat

  1418. the plants

  1419. of the

  1420. field

  1421. by the

  1422. sweat of

  1423. your face

  1424. you shall

  1425. eat bread

  1426. till you

  1427. return to

  1428. the ground

  1429. for out of

  1430. it you were

  1431. taken for

  1432. your dust

  1433. and to

  1434. dust you

  1435. shall return

  1436. out of

  1437. your

  1438. people

  1439. and you

  1440. will

  1441. know

  1442. life is

  1443. difficult

  1444. we

  1445. invest

  1446. our

  1447. life

  1448. in our

  1449. time

  1450. for

  1451. a

  1452. secure

  1453. future

  1454. we spend

  1455. time and

  1456. energy

  1457. in education

  1458. occupation

  1459. or next

  1460. generation

  1461. and many

  1462. a time

  1463. we do not

  1464. get

  1465. much fruit

  1466. from our

  1467. labor

  1468. years

  1469. Jacob

  1470. spent his

  1471. time learning

  1472. how to

  1473. cook

  1474. there was

  1475. no

  1476. restaurant

  1477. then

  1478. and so

  1479. Jacob's

  1480. scale was

  1481. not going

  1482. to be

  1483. of much

  1484. use for

  1485. him to

  1486. provide for

  1487. himself

  1488. and for

  1489. his own

  1490. family

  1491. so he

  1492. desperately

  1493. lead to

  1494. this blessing

  1495. of God

  1496. for his own

  1497. survival

  1498. in years

  1499. to come

  1500. in the

  1501. story

  1502. did Jacob

  1503. become secure

  1504. at the end

  1505. in a way

  1506. he did

  1507. but only

  1508. through

  1509. much

  1510. hardship

  1511. he didn't

  1512. get it

  1513. quite

  1514. very easily

  1515. and then

  1516. there's

  1517. seven years

  1518. of famine

  1519. and he

  1520. lost a

  1521. lot of

  1522. things

  1523. it's only

  1524. through his

  1525. son Joseph

  1526. that he

  1527. already got

  1528. security

  1529. in

  1530. provided him

  1531. in Egypt

  1532. that was

  1533. before he

  1534. died

  1535. okay

  1536. so the

  1537. next one

  1538. in the

  1539. blessing is

  1540. about

  1541. significance

  1542. as Isaac

  1543. said

  1544. let people

  1545. serve you

  1546. and nations

  1547. bow down

  1548. to you

  1549. be lord

  1550. over your

  1551. brothers and

  1552. your mother's

  1553. sons

  1554. bow down

  1555. to you

  1556. curse be

  1557. everyone who

  1558. curses you

  1559. and blessed

  1560. be everyone

  1561. who blesses

  1562. you

  1563. so the

  1564. two things

  1565. that

  1566. Jacob

  1567. would

  1568. need

  1569. most of

  1570. all of us

  1571. would need

  1572. security

  1573. and significance

  1574. so the

  1575. blessing

  1576. of

  1577. this

  1578. promise

  1579. that

  1580. the

  1581. significant

  1582. in him

  1583. been

  1584. honored

  1585. by

  1586. everyone

  1587. Jacob

  1588. wished that

  1589. his father

  1590. would approve

  1591. him

  1592. he wished

  1593. that Isaac

  1594. would tell

  1595. him

  1596. well done

  1597. my son

  1598. I think

  1599. that's what

  1600. he was

  1601. longing for

  1602. he also

  1603. wished that

  1604. his brother

  1605. Esau

  1606. would take

  1607. him seriously

  1608. and

  1609. respected him

  1610. so he

  1611. wanted to

  1612. prove himself

  1613. to be worthy

  1614. of honor

  1615. but what

  1616. could he

  1617. do

  1618. he

  1619. hasn't

  1620. spent much

  1621. time

  1622. outdoor

  1623. he didn't

  1624. know

  1625. how to

  1626. do

  1627. outdoor

  1628. work

  1629. and

  1630. learning how

  1631. to cook

  1632. would bring

  1633. Jacob

  1634. more

  1635. dishonor

  1636. than honor

  1637. at that

  1638. time

  1639. people

  1640. know

  1641. how to

  1642. cook

  1643. it's a

  1644. woman's

  1645. job

  1646. why

  1647. it's

  1648. an honor

  1649. and so

  1650. for Jacob

  1651. not only

  1652. security

  1653. he needs

  1654. significance

  1655. he needs

  1656. respect

  1657. but did

  1658. he get

  1659. it at

  1660. the end

  1661. in a

  1662. way

  1663. he's

  1664. also

  1665. in a

  1666. way

  1667. he did

  1668. but

  1669. as we

  1670. read the

  1671. story

  1672. even his

  1673. own

  1674. family

  1675. his own

  1676. children

  1677. didn't

  1678. respect

  1679. him

  1680. much

  1681. until

  1682. Joseph

  1683. his son

  1684. became

  1685. the

  1686. prime

  1687. minister

  1688. of

  1689. Egypt

  1690. and

  1691. then

  1692. took

  1693. him

  1694. to

  1695. Egypt

  1696. and

  1697. Jacob

  1698. met

  1699. with

  1700. the

  1701. Egyptian

  1702. Pharaoh

  1703. and

  1704. blessed

  1705. this

  1706. king

  1707. of

  1708. Egypt

  1709. imagine

  1710. being able

  1711. to bless

  1712. the most

  1713. powerful

  1714. man in

  1715. the world

  1716. at that

  1717. time

  1718. so

  1719. it is

  1720. quite a

  1721. significant

  1722. thing

  1723. that he

  1724. did

  1725. in life

  1726. so

  1727. while

  1728. those

  1729. promises

  1730. of blessing

  1731. didn't

  1732. actually

  1733. come

  1734. true

  1735. as

  1736. Jacob

  1737. thought

  1738. it would

  1739. be

  1740. but

  1741. in

  1742. some

  1743. way

  1744. he

  1745. did

  1746. get

  1747. some

  1748. of it

  1749. fulfilled

  1750. in

  1751. his

  1752. life

  1753. but

  1754. a lot

  1755. of it

  1756. need

  1757. to be

  1758. fulfilled

  1759. much

  1760. later

  1761. not

  1762. during

  1763. his

  1764. lifetime

  1765. so

  1766. when

  1767. Esau

  1768. knew

  1769. about

  1770. this

  1771. Jacob's

  1772. deception

  1773. he

  1774. became

  1775. very

  1776. angry

  1777. and

  1778. he

  1779. wanted

  1780. to

  1781. kill

  1782. Jacob

  1783. but

  1784. at

  1785. least

  1786. Esau

  1787. respected

  1788. the

  1789. father

  1790. so

  1791. he

  1792. said

  1793. I

  1794. won't

  1795. kill

  1796. Jacob

  1797. until

  1798. our

  1799. father

  1800. Isaac

  1801. died

  1802. and

  1803. when

  1804. Rebecca

  1805. knew

  1806. about

  1807. this

  1808. plan

  1809. Rebecca

  1810. devised

  1811. another

  1812. plan

  1813. so

  1814. he

  1815. requested

  1816. Isaac

  1817. to send

  1818. Jacob

  1819. to their

  1820. home

  1821. country

  1822. to get

  1823. a wife

  1824. the home

  1825. country

  1826. means that

  1827. both

  1828. Isaac

  1829. and

  1830. Rebecca

  1831. came from

  1832. that area

  1833. Abraham

  1834. came first

  1835. from the

  1836. area

  1837. and then

  1838. Abraham's

  1839. servant

  1840. went back

  1841. there to

  1842. get

  1843. Rebecca

  1844. and so

  1845. Isaac

  1846. and

  1847. Rebecca

  1848. got

  1849. married

  1850. and now

  1851. Rebecca

  1852. asked

  1853. Isaac

  1854. to send

  1855. Jacob

  1856. back

  1857. to

  1858. Haram

  1859. where

  1860. they

  1861. came

  1862. from

  1863. and

  1864. to

  1865. their

  1866. uncle's

  1867. place

  1868. and

  1869. well

  1870. Isaac

  1871. agreed

  1872. and so

  1873. Jacob

  1874. left

  1875. in a hurry

  1876. I suppose

  1877. we will

  1878. continue

  1879. the story

  1880. next week

  1881. but

  1882. Jacob

  1883. did not

  1884. know

  1885. that

  1886. he

  1887. would

  1888. become

  1889. stuck

  1890. in his

  1891. uncle's

  1892. place

  1893. for 20

  1894. years

  1895. after

  1896. he left

  1897. and

  1898. during

  1899. these

  1900. 20

  1901. years

  1902. Jacob

  1903. went

  1904. through

  1905. a lot

  1906. of

  1907. suffering

  1908. we will

  1909. read that

  1910. if you

  1911. got chance

  1912. in future

  1913. he actually

  1914. talked about

  1915. his suffering

  1916. at the end

  1917. when his

  1918. uncle was

  1919. chasing

  1920. after him

  1921. meanwhile

  1922. over

  1923. the 20

  1924. years

  1925. Esau

  1926. became

  1927. quite a

  1928. strong

  1929. and wealthy

  1930. family

  1931. wealthy

  1932. clan

  1933. so

  1934. it's

  1935. quite

  1936. paradoxical

  1937. in a

  1938. sense

  1939. that

  1940. the

  1941. blessing

  1942. that

  1943. Esau

  1944. didn't

  1945. get

  1946. for

  1947. Esau

  1948. to

  1949. develop

  1950. into

  1951. a

  1952. very

  1953. powerful

  1954. family

  1955. strong

  1956. family

  1957. while

  1958. Jacob

  1959. was

  1960. suffering

  1961. and

  1962. also

  1963. Rebecca

  1964. I suppose

  1965. she suffered

  1966. as well

  1967. because

  1968. she never

  1969. saw

  1970. Jacob

  1971. again

  1972. since

  1973. then

  1974. I

  1975. couldn't

  1976. imagine

  1977. how hard

  1978. it would

  1979. be

  1980. for

  1981. them

  1982. to

  1983. be

  1984. apart

  1985. and

  1986. Rebecca

  1987. died

  1988. and

  1989. Jacob

  1990. didn't

  1991. even

  1992. know

  1993. that

  1994. his

  1995. mom

  1996. died

  1997. over

  1998. those

  1999. 20

  2000. years

  2001. until

  2002. he

  2003. went

  2004. back

  2005. home

  2006. so

  2007. this

  2008. is

  2009. the

  2010. blessing

  2011. that

  2012. Jacob

  2013. thought

  2014. he

  2015. would

  2016. get

  2017. but

  2018. not

  2019. knowing

  2020. that

  2021. it

  2022. was

  2023. the

  2024. blessing

  2025. we

  2026. will

  2027. go

  2028. through

  2029. that

  2030. but

  2031. before

  2032. we

  2033. do

  2034. that

  2035. we

  2036. think

  2037. about

  2038. this

  2039. story

  2040. of

  2041. the

  2042. issue

  2043. of

  2044. communication

  2045. so

  2046. we

  2047. talk

  2048. about

  2049. partiality

  2050. in

  2051. the

  2052. family

  2053. and

  2054. communication

  2055. in

  2056. the

  2057. family

  2058. is

  2059. also

  2060. a

  2061. very

  2062. difficult

  2063. thing

  2064. we

  2065. can

  2066. ask

  2067. why

  2068. didn't

  2069. Isaac

  2070. call

  2071. a

  2072. family

  2073. conference

  2074. to talk

  2075. about

  2076. the

  2077. problem

  2078. created

  2079. by

  2080. Jacob's

  2081. deception

  2082. why

  2083. didn't

  2084. Jacob

  2085. just

  2086. apologize

  2087. to

  2088. Isaac

  2089. and

  2090. Esau

  2091. and

  2092. settle

  2093. the

  2094. things

  2095. into

  2096. running

  2097. away

  2098. and

  2099. why

  2100. didn't

  2101. Isaac

  2102. resolve

  2103. the

  2104. issue

  2105. with

  2106. Rebecca

  2107. and

  2108. talk

  2109. about

  2110. their

  2111. differences

  2112. in

  2113. terms

  2114. of

  2115. their

  2116. treatment

  2117. with

  2118. the

  2119. children

  2120. if

  2121. Jacob

  2122. would

  2123. explain

  2124. he

  2125. just

  2126. wanted

  2127. respect

  2128. from

  2129. the

  2130. father

  2131. and

  2132. the

  2133. brother

  2134. and

  2135. he

  2136. just

  2137. wanted

  2138. some

  2139. security

  2140. for

  2141. the

  2142. future

  2143. maybe

  2144. he

  2145. wouldn't

  2146. need

  2147. to

  2148. run

  2149. away

  2150. but

  2151. this

  2152. is

  2153. this

  2154. is

  2155. life

  2156. isn't

  2157. it

  2158. there

  2159. are

  2160. many

  2161. times

  2162. we

  2163. just

  2164. could

  2165. not

  2166. explain

  2167. ourselves

  2168. for

  2169. whatever

  2170. reasons

  2171. sometimes

  2172. we don't

  2173. even

  2174. know

  2175. why

  2176. we

  2177. do

  2178. something

  2179. but

  2180. many

  2181. times

  2182. I

  2183. think

  2184. we

  2185. fear

  2186. that

  2187. when

  2188. we

  2189. talk

  2190. about

  2191. deep

  2192. inside

  2193. other

  2194. people

  2195. would

  2196. either

  2197. look

  2198. down

  2199. on

  2200. us

  2201. or

  2202. ignore

  2203. us

  2204. we don't

  2205. want to

  2206. be

  2207. rejected

  2208. or

  2209. sometimes

  2210. we

  2211. fear

  2212. that

  2213. we

  2214. might

  2215. escalate

  2216. the

  2217. problem

  2218. make

  2219. it worse

  2220. as we

  2221. try to

  2222. explain

  2223. all of

  2224. us

  2225. have

  2226. I

  2227. think

  2228. problem

  2229. with

  2230. explaining

  2231. ourselves

  2232. it's

  2233. not

  2234. only a

  2235. man's

  2236. problem

  2237. I

  2238. think

  2239. women

  2240. as

  2241. well

  2242. even

  2243. though

  2244. we

  2245. can say

  2246. that

  2247. women

  2248. talk

  2249. a lot

  2250. but

  2251. many

  2252. times

  2253. you

  2254. still

  2255. don't

  2256. talk

  2257. what

  2258. is

  2259. deep

  2260. inside

  2261. talk

  2262. what

  2263. is

  2264. superficial

  2265. and

  2266. that

  2267. is

  2268. how

  2269. it

  2270. is

  2271. especially

  2272. in the

  2273. family

  2274. when we

  2275. cannot

  2276. communicate

  2277. well

  2278. and most

  2279. families

  2280. like this

  2281. including

  2282. my own

  2283. family

  2284. there's

  2285. a lot

  2286. of

  2287. restlessness

  2288. a lot

  2289. of

  2290. trouble

  2291. inside

  2292. our

  2293. hearts

  2294. and

  2295. that

  2296. is

  2297. we

  2298. can

  2299. hope

  2300. that

  2301. we

  2302. can

  2303. sort

  2304. of

  2305. feel

  2306. this

  2307. for

  2308. Isaac

  2309. and

  2310. Rebecca

  2311. and

  2312. Jacob

  2313. are

  2314. most

  2315. of

  2316. Esau

  2317. because

  2318. Esau

  2319. is

  2320. quite

  2321. a

  2322. rough

  2323. man

  2324. he

  2325. may

  2326. not

  2327. think

  2328. much

  2329. but

  2330. all

  2331. these

  2332. things

  2333. make up

  2334. of

  2335. this

  2336. family

  2337. and

  2338. maybe

  2339. our

  2340. families

  2341. as well

  2342. so

  2343. because

  2344. because

  2345. of

  2346. this

  2347. blessing

  2348. Jacob

  2349. needed

  2350. to

  2351. run

  2352. away

  2353. and

  2354. the

  2355. family

  2356. broke

  2357. apart

  2358. so

  2359. what

  2360. kind

  2361. of

  2362. blessing

  2363. is

  2364. this

  2365. what

  2366. sort

  2367. of

  2368. blessing

  2369. did

  2370. Jacob

  2371. get

  2372. so

  2373. the

  2374. blessing

  2375. of God

  2376. is much

  2377. greater

  2378. than

  2379. Isaac

  2380. and

  2381. Jacob

  2382. could

  2383. imagine

  2384. we'll

  2385. see

  2386. next

  2387. week

  2388. that

  2389. God

  2390. wanted

  2391. to

  2392. bless

  2393. all

  2394. the

  2395. families

  2396. of

  2397. the

  2398. earth

  2399. not

  2400. just

  2401. Isaac's

  2402. family

  2403. and

  2404. Jacob's

  2405. family

  2406. so

  2407. Abraham

  2408. Isaac

  2409. Jacob

  2410. and

  2411. their

  2412. descendants

  2413. were just

  2414. the pieces

  2415. of

  2416. jigsaw

  2417. parcel

  2418. God

  2419. was

  2420. putting

  2421. together

  2422. so

  2423. that

  2424. this

  2425. blessing

  2426. may

  2427. come

  2428. true

  2429. so

  2430. that's

  2431. one

  2432. way

  2433. of

  2434. seeing

  2435. it

  2436. but

  2437. God

  2438. was

  2439. not

  2440. using

  2441. just

  2442. using

  2443. Jacob

  2444. as a

  2445. tool

  2446. regardless

  2447. of your

  2448. experience

  2449. you just

  2450. fulfill

  2451. my

  2452. plan

  2453. but

  2454. God

  2455. is

  2456. not

  2457. this

  2458. sort

  2459. of

  2460. God

  2461. and

  2462. it's

  2463. wonderful

  2464. to see

  2465. how

  2466. God

  2467. actually

  2468. was

  2469. blessing

  2470. Jacob

  2471. as he

  2472. went

  2473. through

  2474. all the

  2475. troubles

  2476. as he

  2477. unknowingly

  2478. fulfilling

  2479. God's

  2480. plan

  2481. to

  2482. bring

  2483. about

  2484. this

  2485. great

  2486. blessing

  2487. God

  2488. was

  2489. at

  2490. the

  2491. same

  2492. time

  2493. blessing

  2494. Jacob

  2495. even

  2496. though

  2497. Jacob

  2498. didn't

  2499. think

  2500. that

  2501. at

  2502. that

  2503. time

  2504. but

  2505. through

  2506. the

  2507. sufferings

  2508. Jacob

  2509. became

  2510. a

  2511. very

  2512. skillful

  2513. shepherd

  2514. he

  2515. never

  2516. imagined

  2517. that he

  2518. would

  2519. become

  2520. one

  2521. he

  2522. wanted

  2523. to

  2524. he

  2525. wished

  2526. that

  2527. he

  2528. would

  2529. he

  2530. got

  2531. there

  2532. not

  2533. because

  2534. it's

  2535. easy

  2536. but

  2537. because

  2538. somehow

  2539. God

  2540. led

  2541. him

  2542. through

  2543. that

  2544. way

  2545. and

  2546. he

  2547. became

  2548. one

  2549. and

  2550. he

  2551. mature

  2552. into

  2553. someone

  2554. who

  2555. knew

  2556. God

  2557. he

  2558. learned

  2559. to

  2560. fear

  2561. God

  2562. and

  2563. trust

  2564. God

  2565. and

  2566. that

  2567. made

  2568. a

  2569. big

  2570. difference

  2571. in

  2572. his

  2573. life

  2574. do

  2575. you

  2576. see

  2577. Isaac

  2578. Rebecca

  2579. Esau

  2580. and

  2581. Jacob

  2582. in

  2583. yourself

  2584. I

  2585. do

  2586. I

  2587. think

  2588. in

  2589. different

  2590. times

  2591. I

  2592. can

  2593. see

  2594. one

  2595. or

  2596. the

  2597. other

  2598. playing

  2599. in

  2600. my

  2601. life

  2602. but

  2603. today

  2604. I

  2605. just

  2606. want

  2607. to

  2608. talk

  2609. about

  2610. Jacob

  2611. the

  2612. second

  2613. born

  2614. who

  2615. was

  2616. desperately

  2617. trying to

  2618. get the

  2619. blessing

  2620. from

  2621. his

  2622. father

  2623. let

  2624. me

  2625. read

  2626. to

  2627. you

  2628. a

  2629. message

  2630. from

  2631. a

  2632. woman

  2633. named

  2634. June

  2635. who

  2636. is

  2637. the

  2638. daughter

  2639. of

  2640. my

  2641. high

  2642. school

  2643. friend

  2644. that's

  2645. what she

  2646. wrote to

  2647. me

  2648. two weeks

  2649. ago

  2650. I

  2651. felt

  2652. I

  2653. was

  2654. neglected

  2655. I

  2656. always

  2657. overachieved

  2658. to

  2659. get

  2660. attention

  2661. but

  2662. I

  2663. always

  2664. did

  2665. not

  2666. feel

  2667. I

  2668. get

  2669. enough

  2670. attention

  2671. from

  2672. my

  2673. mom

  2674. and

  2675. I

  2676. think

  2677. she

  2678. always

  2679. treats

  2680. others

  2681. better

  2682. than

  2683. she

  2684. treats

  2685. me

  2686. you

  2687. notice

  2688. so

  2689. many

  2690. always

  2691. in

  2692. the

  2693. sentences

  2694. that's

  2695. how

  2696. she

  2697. felt

  2698. and

  2699. this

  2700. one

  2701. what

  2702. we

  2703. feel

  2704. when

  2705. we

  2706. talk

  2707. about

  2708. how

  2709. other

  2710. people

  2711. treat

  2712. us

  2713. we

  2714. use

  2715. the

  2716. word

  2717. always

  2718. even

  2719. though

  2720. it's

  2721. not

  2722. usually

  2723. true

  2724. for

  2725. this

  2726. interesting

  2727. encounter

  2728. with

  2729. her

  2730. Leigh

  2731. and I

  2732. knew

  2733. this

  2734. family

  2735. well

  2736. every

  2737. time

  2738. we

  2739. went

  2740. back

  2741. to

  2742. Malaysia

  2743. my

  2744. friend

  2745. and

  2746. her

  2747. husband

  2748. would

  2749. take

  2750. us

  2751. out

  2752. for

  2753. meals

  2754. and

  2755. we

  2756. talked

  2757. for

  2758. hours

  2759. for

  2760. many

  2761. things

  2762. but

  2763. they

  2764. are

  2765. not

  2766. Christians

  2767. and

  2768. Jun

  2769. two

  2770. years

  2771. ago

  2772. Jun

  2773. gave

  2774. birth

  2775. to

  2776. her

  2777. first

  2778. daughter

  2779. and

  2780. then

  2781. she

  2782. got

  2783. very

  2784. bad

  2785. post

  2786. natal

  2787. depression

  2788. and

  2789. I

  2790. think

  2791. the

  2792. breakup

  2793. relationship

  2794. between

  2795. her

  2796. and

  2797. the

  2798. mom

  2799. surface

  2800. then

  2801. I

  2802. didn't

  2803. know

  2804. about

  2805. this

  2806. breakup

  2807. I

  2808. just

  2809. knew

  2810. there

  2811. was

  2812. some

  2813. problem

  2814. because

  2815. my

  2816. friend

  2817. had

  2818. been

  2819. asking

  2820. me

  2821. to

  2822. talk

  2823. to

  2824. her

  2825. daughter

  2826. they

  2827. live

  2828. in

  2829. different

  2830. towns

  2831. so

  2832. they

  2833. don't

  2834. live

  2835. in

  2836. the

  2837. same

  2838. town

  2839. so

  2840. she

  2841. asked

  2842. her

  2843. I

  2844. sensed

  2845. there

  2846. was

  2847. a problem

  2848. but

  2849. she

  2850. couldn't

  2851. tell me

  2852. what

  2853. the

  2854. problem

  2855. was

  2856. until

  2857. two

  2858. weeks

  2859. ago

  2860. when

  2861. the

  2862. daughter

  2863. wrote

  2864. this

  2865. I

  2866. realized

  2867. there

  2868. is

  2869. such

  2870. a

  2871. deep

  2872. problem

  2873. between

  2874. them

  2875. on the

  2876. surface

  2877. in the

  2878. family

  2879. as

  2880. they

  2881. younger

  2882. we

  2883. couldn't

  2884. see

  2885. anything

  2886. unusual

  2887. they

  2888. are

  2889. just

  2890. like

  2891. a

  2892. normal

  2893. family

  2894. I

  2895. couldn't

  2896. see

  2897. any

  2898. my

  2899. friend

  2900. is

  2901. very

  2902. even

  2903. though

  2904. she's

  2905. not

  2906. a

  2907. Christian

  2908. but

  2909. she's

  2910. quite

  2911. a

  2912. good

  2913. in

  2914. terms

  2915. of

  2916. person

  2917. I

  2918. just

  2919. couldn't

  2920. imagine

  2921. that she

  2922. would

  2923. do that

  2924. to her

  2925. daughter

  2926. but

  2927. there's

  2928. something

  2929. that they

  2930. couldn't

  2931. communicate

  2932. inside

  2933. the

  2934. family

  2935. and

  2936. how do

  2937. we

  2938. solve

  2939. this

  2940. problem

  2941. how do

  2942. we solve

  2943. Jun's

  2944. problem

  2945. with her

  2946. mom

  2947. how do

  2948. we solve

  2949. the problem

  2950. for Jacob

  2951. and the

  2952. family

  2953. and we

  2954. think

  2955. deeper

  2956. about

  2957. it

  2958. is

  2959. difficult

  2960. difficult

  2961. to

  2962. solve

  2963. until

  2964. until

  2965. we

  2966. have

  2967. God

  2968. as our

  2969. reference

  2970. and

  2971. as our

  2972. guide

  2973. yeah

  2974. for Jun

  2975. is

  2976. very

  2977. very

  2978. difficult

  2979. in terms

  2980. of trying

  2981. to

  2982. help

  2983. her

  2984. she

  2985. absolutely

  2986. would not

  2987. want to

  2988. believe

  2989. in God

  2990. and she

  2991. said

  2992. that

  2993. there's

  2994. no

  2995. right

  2996. or wrong

  2997. everybody

  2998. can have

  2999. their own

  3000. opinions

  3001. of things

  3002. things

  3003. happen

  3004. whether

  3005. it's

  3006. convenient

  3007. whether

  3008. it's

  3009. efficient

  3010. whether

  3011. it

  3012. it

  3013. shoots

  3014. the

  3015. purpose

  3016. of the

  3017. society

  3018. but it's

  3019. not right

  3020. or wrong

  3021. it just

  3022. there's

  3023. no such

  3024. standard

  3025. when a

  3026. person

  3027. thought like

  3028. this is

  3029. very hard

  3030. to help

  3031. without

  3032. even that

  3033. concept

  3034. of right

  3035. or wrong

  3036. in terms

  3037. of if

  3038. there's

  3039. no right

  3040. or wrong

  3041. how do

  3042. you then

  3043. say that

  3044. your mom

  3045. was wrong

  3046. in the

  3047. way she

  3048. treated you

  3049. which I

  3050. wouldn't

  3051. challenge her

  3052. on that

  3053. because I

  3054. don't think

  3055. she would

  3056. be able

  3057. to withstand

  3058. that sort

  3059. of challenge

  3060. but she

  3061. you see her

  3062. daughter is

  3063. more than

  3064. two years old

  3065. now

  3066. within two to three

  3067. I can only

  3068. tell her

  3069. I wish

  3070. that you

  3071. would tell

  3072. your daughter

  3073. there's

  3074. something

  3075. right or

  3076. wrong

  3077. it's

  3078. time to

  3079. come

  3080. I couldn't

  3081. imagine how

  3082. you can

  3083. bring out

  3084. a child

  3085. without

  3086. saying that

  3087. there's

  3088. something

  3089. that's

  3090. right or

  3091. wrong

  3092. how do

  3093. you bring

  3094. a child

  3095. before that

  3096. even

  3097. but that's

  3098. how

  3099. people

  3100. think

  3101. in this

  3102. day and

  3103. age

  3104. so even

  3105. before right

  3106. or wrong

  3107. before you

  3108. can come

  3109. to God

  3110. before God

  3111. then a lot

  3112. of problem

  3113. is difficult

  3114. to be

  3115. resolved

  3116. and so

  3117. these families

  3118. are stuck

  3119. in this

  3120. cycle

  3121. of

  3122. disharmonia

  3123. and on

  3124. the surface

  3125. they might

  3126. pretend that

  3127. everything is

  3128. alright but

  3129. deep inside

  3130. people are

  3131. hurting

  3132. and not

  3133. knowing how

  3134. to

  3135. resolve

  3136. the problem

  3137. so how

  3138. are all

  3139. the families

  3140. on earth

  3141. going to

  3142. be blessed

  3143. through

  3144. Abraham

  3145. it comes

  3146. from

  3147. Abraham's

  3148. descendant

  3149. Jesus

  3150. Christ

  3151. after men

  3152. rebel

  3153. against God

  3154. our hearts

  3155. become

  3156. fealty

  3157. what we

  3158. think

  3159. what we

  3160. do

  3161. have become

  3162. a stench

  3163. to God

  3164. like Jacob

  3165. we may

  3166. feel lucky

  3167. if we

  3168. manage to

  3169. deceive

  3170. someone

  3171. for our

  3172. own gain

  3173. not knowing

  3174. that we

  3175. are becoming

  3176. more and

  3177. more rotten

  3178. inside

  3179. for God

  3180. to accept

  3181. us

  3182. he needs

  3183. to first

  3184. change

  3185. our stench

  3186. into a

  3187. fragrance

  3188. to God

  3189. there is

  3190. only one

  3191. person

  3192. who has

  3193. fragrance

  3194. that is

  3195. Jesus

  3196. Christ

  3197. the son

  3198. of God

  3199. Jesus

  3200. obeyed God

  3201. joyfully

  3202. even unto

  3203. death

  3204. on the

  3205. cross

  3206. on the

  3207. cross

  3208. Jesus

  3209. offered

  3210. himself

  3211. a

  3212. fragrant

  3213. offering

  3214. and

  3215. sacrifice

  3216. to God

  3217. Ephesians

  3218. 5 2

  3219. and walk

  3220. in love

  3221. as Christ

  3222. loved us

  3223. and gave

  3224. himself

  3225. up for

  3226. us

  3227. a

  3228. fragrant

  3229. offering

  3230. and sacrifice

  3231. to God

  3232. we do

  3233. not need

  3234. to steal

  3235. the fragrance

  3236. of Jesus

  3237. to get

  3238. God's

  3239. blessing

  3240. Jesus

  3241. offers

  3242. himself

  3243. for anyone

  3244. who wants

  3245. God's

  3246. blessing

  3247. in Christ

  3248. we no longer

  3249. have the need

  3250. to compete

  3251. for security

  3252. and significance

  3253. with other

  3254. people

  3255. because

  3256. God

  3257. has given

  3258. us this

  3259. significance

  3260. and security

  3261. because

  3262. he loved

  3263. us so much

  3264. that Christ

  3265. would die

  3266. for us

  3267. isn't that

  3268. significant

  3269. enough

  3270. and if

  3271. Christ

  3272. died

  3273. for us

  3274. he

  3275. will

  3276. keep

  3277. us

  3278. there

  3279. is

  3280. security

  3281. for us

  3282. and if

  3283. we have

  3284. that

  3285. then God

  3286. can start

  3287. blessing us

  3288. by changing

  3289. our characters

  3290. God

  3291. does this

  3292. by bringing

  3293. us through

  3294. all sorts

  3295. of sufferings

  3296. Romans

  3297. 5 1

  3298. 5

  3299. 1 to 5

  3300. therefore

  3301. since we

  3302. have been

  3303. justified

  3304. by faith

  3305. we have

  3306. peace

  3307. with God

  3308. through

  3309. our Lord

  3310. Jesus

  3311. Christ

  3312. through him

  3313. we have

  3314. also

  3315. obtained

  3316. access

  3317. by faith

  3318. into

  3319. this

  3320. grace

  3321. in which

  3322. we stand

  3323. and rejoice

  3324. in the hope

  3325. of the glory

  3326. of God

  3327. not only

  3328. that

  3329. but we

  3330. rejoice

  3331. in our

  3332. sufferings

  3333. knowing

  3334. that

  3335. suffering

  3336. produces

  3337. endurance

  3338. endurance

  3339. produces

  3340. character

  3341. and character

  3342. produces

  3343. hope

  3344. and hope

  3345. does not

  3346. put us

  3347. to shame

  3348. because

  3349. God's

  3350. love

  3351. has been

  3352. poured

  3353. into our

  3354. hearts

  3355. through

  3356. the Holy

  3357. Spirit

  3358. who has

  3359. been given

  3360. to us

  3361. the blessing

  3362. of God

  3363. does not

  3364. usually

  3365. come

  3366. with comfort

  3367. in fact

  3368. it usually

  3369. comes

  3370. through

  3371. suffering

  3372. but it

  3373. always

  3374. comes

  3375. with

  3376. peace

  3377. when we

  3378. know

  3379. that our

  3380. sins

  3381. past

  3382. present

  3383. and future

  3384. have been

  3385. forgiven

  3386. and we

  3387. know

  3388. that

  3389. God

  3390. is in

  3391. control

  3392. of

  3393. everything

  3394. there will

  3395. be peace

  3396. in our

  3397. hearts

  3398. as God

  3399. blesses us

  3400. we could

  3401. start

  3402. to love

  3403. other people

  3404. and we

  3405. could admit

  3406. our wrong

  3407. to one

  3408. another

  3409. because it

  3410. doesn't matter

  3411. anymore

  3412. my significance

  3413. is in

  3414. Christ

  3415. not in

  3416. my

  3417. performance

  3418. when

  3419. children do

  3420. not need

  3421. to scheme

  3422. to get

  3423. parents

  3424. attention

  3425. when parents

  3426. could talk

  3427. with each

  3428. other honestly

  3429. and kindly

  3430. and when

  3431. unrelated

  3432. people

  3433. can serve

  3434. one another

  3435. like a

  3436. family

  3437. we know

  3438. that the

  3439. blessing

  3440. that God

  3441. promised

  3442. Abraham

  3443. has come

  3444. especially

  3445. come to

  3446. us

  3447. let us

  3448. pray

  3449. father

  3450. god

  3451. we

  3452. all

  3453. all

  3454. all

  3455. that we

  3456. live in

  3457. a messy

  3458. world

  3459. a world

  3460. that has

  3461. fallen

  3462. short of

  3463. your glory

  3464. and that

  3465. even though

  3466. on the

  3467. surface

  3468. we might

  3469. look happy

  3470. but deep

  3471. inside us

  3472. we are

  3473. uncertain

  3474. and we

  3475. have deep

  3476. needs

  3477. that is

  3478. not met

  3479. like

  3480. Jacob

  3481. oh father

  3482. we are

  3483. so thankful

  3484. for the

  3485. lord jesus

  3486. invitation

  3487. for those

  3488. who are

  3489. tired

  3490. who are

  3491. heavy laden

  3492. to come

  3493. to him

  3494. and he

  3495. will give

  3496. us rest

  3497. thank you

  3498. father

  3499. we pray

  3500. in jesus name

  3501. amen

  3502. let us