Sermon
Being the church in a digital age
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We're reading the first 16 verses of chapter 4 of Ephesians, written by Paul who describes
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himself as an apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God and he describes the Ephesians
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as the saints who are in Ephesus and are faithful in Christ Jesus.
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So chapter 4, 1-16.
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I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling
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to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with
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one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.
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There is one body and one Spirit, just as you were called to the one hope that belongs
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to your call, one Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of all, who is over all,
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all, and through all, and in all.
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But grace was given to each one of us according to the measure of Christ's gift.
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Therefore it says, when he ascended on high, he led a host of captives and he gave gifts
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to men.
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In saying he ascended, what does it mean but that he had also descended into the lower regions,
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the earth?
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He who descended is the one who also ascended far above all the heavens, that he might fill
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all things.
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And he gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the shepherds and teachers to equip
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the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ, until we all attain to
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the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to mature manhood, to the
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measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ, so that we may no longer be children tossed
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to and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human cunning, by
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craftiness in deceitful schemes.
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Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the
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head, into Christ, from whom the whole body, joined and held together by every joint with
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which it is equipped.
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When each part is working properly, makes the body grow so that it builds itself up in love.
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May the Lord bless his word to our hearts and minds.
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Hello, my name's Dave.
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I'm one of the pastors here.
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If you're visiting me today, a warm welcome to you.
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Before we get underway, I've got to admit my disorganisation.
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If you're following the outline, I've changed it.
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Okay, so hopefully it doesn't confuse you.
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Just one little change.
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Halfway down the page, it's got four application questions.
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I'm going to be putting that at the start, where it should have been from the beginning,
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but just so you don't get lost and I lose you at the very beginning of the sermon.
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All right, why don't we pray as we come to God's word.
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Lord, we know that you love your church, not because inherently we are lovely,
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but because you are a loving God and you have loved us.
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And you, by your son, created the church.
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And by your spirit, you are renewing us.
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And you have promised to complete what you have begun.
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So, Lord, help us see the church, see who we are,
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see your agenda for us through your eyes,
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so that we might live in a way that honours you.
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So I pray that your word would speak to us this morning.
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In Jesus' name, amen.
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Amen.
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Well, I want to start with a quote by a guy called Tristan Harris.
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He worked at Google and he's behind a Netflix kind of docudrama thing about social media.
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It's called The Social Dilemma.
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I don't know if you've seen it.
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If you haven't seen it, I'd highly recommend it
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because I'm not going to be able to explain it fully up here.
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But now this docudrama, it's been translated into over 190 languages.
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A hundred million people seem to have watched it, I think.
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So it's got some, it's worth listening to.
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Here's the quote.
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We are now years into a mass societal warping process
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that has made us into a different kind of species, frankly.
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A species that is addicted, distracted, polarised, narcissistic, misinformed.
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The list keeps going.
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Anxious, depressed, unsure of what's true, apathetic.
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Well, okay.
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If even half of that quote is true,
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we need to have a look at how the digital world is affecting us as a church family
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and how we live to honour the Lord.
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So today we look at the topic of being the church in a digital age.
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And this is the start of four weeks on four topics
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that have the potential to undermine us being the church.
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We'll either succumb to our culture or these four topics,
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if we see the church through God's eyes and live as he calls us to,
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these four topics also give us an opportunity to show the world a better way,
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an alternative, the good life in belonging to God's people.
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With any truth, knowing the theory is essential.
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It's essential to have good doctrine.
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And we've had five weeks now of looking at the truth in God's word.
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But we don't glorify God by being able to frequently and passionately just say truth.
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That's not how we glorify God.
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We glorify God, obviously we need to say truth,
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but we glorify God when that truth groups our hearts and changes the way we live.
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I can say I believe in God's sovereignty, for instance,
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until the cows come home.
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And I do and I hope I do for the rest of my life.
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But do I accept every circumstance as coming from the sovereign hand of God
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or do I rally against it?
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Do I pray as my first instinct because I know he is sovereign?
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Do you get what I mean?
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Knowing the truth and it gripping you to the point of change, that's what matters.
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And that's why we've picked these four topics,
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because as elders we think this could really either undermine
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or make the church flourish depending on how we approach these topics.
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So today, I've already introduced it, is about being the church in the digital age.
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And the next three is going to be being the church in an individualistic culture.
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And the third one is being the church in a hostile society.
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And then we'll finish off with being the church in light of our eternal hope.
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So that's where we're heading.
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So before we get into this, or it's not before,
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an important first step of getting into this topic is to refresh ourselves
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in knowing what the church is and what we are called to be through God's eyes.
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That the church is to be a foretaste of heaven.
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So through God's eyes, we see that the church is central to his eternal plans.
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We see in Genesis 2, albeit a community of two people,
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but gathered perfectly in worship, enjoying God's presence,
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until sin disrupts that, breaks that unity,
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creating hostility between man and God, and God to man,
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and hostility between people.
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And the judgment is being scattered.
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The essence of the word church is gathering.
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God wants a gathered people to himself.
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In Exodus 19, we see Israel gathered at the mountain under the law,
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but that gathering fails again because of sin.
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It was only a picture of the true gathering that would come through Jesus.
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What does Jesus say in Matthew 16?
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As soon as they say, you are the Christ, the first expression of faith,
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he says, I'm going to build my church.
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That's why I've come.
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That's why I'm going to die and rise, to build my church.
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And what do we see at the end of scripture?
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The church, the bride, the new Jerusalem glorified.
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The dwelling place with God and man.
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It's central.
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Church is absolutely central to God's eternal plans.
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Through God's eyes, we understand this gathering is a spiritual reality.
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The sin of living for self that has made us hostile to God
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and has caused so much dysfunction between people has been conquered.
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We see in Hebrews 12 that this new gathering in Christ is victorious over sin.
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It's victorious over death.
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It's marked by peace and unity and joy.
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As we heard read in Ephesians 4,
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it is so united with one body, one spirit,
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one hope, one Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of all.
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We are gathered into Christ.
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We're not isolated Christians.
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To be saved is to be gathered.
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And this gathering is permanent.
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This spiritual gathering is permanent.
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We saw that in Hebrews 12, that when God judges and shakes everything,
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heaven and earth, the final judgment, what is left standing?
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Nothing but the church.
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It is permanent.
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That's where you find security in life.
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But how is this gathering to be expressed now?
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Well, through God's eyes, we see that this spiritual heavenly gathering
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is not expressed in some vague notion of being the universal church
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because, remember, church is about gathering.
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It's in local church families like this one.
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It's a functioning body showing the unity,
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the peace that has been created.
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I don't know who I'm quoting here.
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Emma reminded me of this quote.
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It's some Bible teacher, but I can't remember.
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Can you be a Christian and not value and be committed to a local church?
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Don't be a silly sausage.
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I don't know.
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Anyway, if that helps you, maybe.
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There's nothing in the Bible about that.
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To be gathered is to be in the local church.
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That's how you express it.
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Know who you are.
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I'm going to say in a way that doesn't make sense
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and technically isn't correct,
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I am the church.
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I know that doesn't make sense.
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It's not correct.
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We are the church.
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But you're not just part of the church.
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It's the fundamental thing about who you are.
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We are the people of God.
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It's not just you attend church.
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You are the church.
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We are the church.
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We express that locally.
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Being gathered.
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Not choosing who you relate to,
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but it's a community created by grace.
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Across ages, across personalities, across cultures.
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It's everyone who's been saved and under the lordship of Jesus.
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That's what the local church is to express.
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And through God's eyes, we see our agenda,
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what we're called to do as the church.
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And it's not primarily about social welfare,
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though individual Christians might do all these things.
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It's not about being a moral watchdog
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to try and make Australia Christian.
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It's not about living separate from society
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and just condemning society.
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It's not even to be a functioning machine
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to do as much evangelism as we can.
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Our agenda in Scripture is to be.
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Be the church.
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Love one another.
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That's how you'll show that you are my disciples.
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Ephesians 3, 9 to 11 is a key passage.
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It's through the church
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that the manifold wisdom of God
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might now be made known to the rules and authorities
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in the heavenly places.
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God is glorified in his unified church.
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It's as we focus on being the church,
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that's when we'll be a winsome invitation to the world.
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Look what life is like being gathered to Jesus.
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And through God's eyes,
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we see that the structure of a healthy,
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functioning body of a local church
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is that Christ is head.
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He is head,
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ruling by his word
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that can change our hearts
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by his spirit.
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And he gives leaders to teach
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and model
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and govern
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in order,
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we see in Ephesians 4,
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in order,
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what verse is it?
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Verse 12.
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To equip the saints.
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You are a saint if you're a believer.
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A saint is being set apart for God.
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The leaders are to equip all the people
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for the work of ministry,
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for building up the body of Christ.
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Every person in ministry.
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The priests would have all believers.
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Verse 15 tells us what to do.
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We're all to be speaking the truth in love.
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Verse 16.
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It's a bit of a complex statement,
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but it's,
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so Christ is the head,
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but from whom the whole body,
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and then what does the whole body do?
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You've got to jump to a few phrases.
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The whole body makes the body grow.
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So it's not the leader's job
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to make the body grow.
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It's the body's job
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to make the body grow.
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Through every joint and ligament,
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we need everyone
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speaking the truth in love.
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The truth being God's truth.
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That's when the body grows.
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That's when we'll be a compelling witness
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of the salvation in Jesus.
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So,
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through God's eyes,
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what do you think?
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Can you see that church
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is a foretaste of heaven?
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If we understand our salvation
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is to be the church,
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if we understand our calling
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is primarily about being the church,
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if you're looking forward to heaven,
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which is about the church glorified
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in the presence of God,
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what will that look like?
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It will look like a high value
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and a high engagement
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in a local church.
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So,
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having refreshed ourselves
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on God's view of the church,
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and it's exciting,
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it's well worth our time
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going over that.
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We need to keep this lens
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as we come to this question
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about being the church
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in a digital age.
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Now, by digital,
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let me just define it quickly.
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Like, I had a digital wristwatch
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as a kid,
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and it had this cool button
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that could light up,
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and I could read the time at night.
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Now,
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that electronic device
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hardly revolutionised
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the world,
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and hardly impacted
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the gathering.
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But,
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the age of the internet,
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and the age of social media,
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that has revolutionised
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how we relate to one another,
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how we think.
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I've got to narrow our focus,
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and I've,
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even the two topics
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I've narrowed it to,
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really,
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we're just,
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it's a helicopter view
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of these topics,
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but,
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the first one is,
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can you do church online?
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That's kind of,
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an obvious question,
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isn't it?
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Can we do church online?
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Obviously,
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churches are trying to do that,
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but,
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can we?
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The second question is,
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obviously my introduction
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hinted towards this,
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how is social media
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affecting
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how we think about
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relationships in the church,
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and how we operate
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in the church?
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So,
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that's where we're heading.
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Let's go with
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the first one now.
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So,
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first,
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can you do church online?
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Well,
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some claim to get better sermons online.
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I don't think that's true.
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David and I,
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I think we're the best
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I've ever heard.
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I'm glad you're laughing.
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Am I glad?
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I don't know.
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Some claim to get better music
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online.
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Now,
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one of the,
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so,
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in other words,
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when you tap into
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the best resources,
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you,
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you come away
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feeling more
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spiritually nourished.
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So,
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one of the best
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examples of online church
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I came across,
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they put,
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this church put
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heaps of resources,
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like,
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our camera,
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we've got cameras for Zoom,
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but,
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I mean,
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these are like
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state-of-the-art cameras
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so that,
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and all the lighting
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and the sound
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is mixed properly
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so that it feels
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like you're present.
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They had dedicated
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online pastors
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to welcome people
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and engage people
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in conversation
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and they had chat rooms
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for general chit-chat.
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They had other chat rooms
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for pastors
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to listen to you
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and pray with you
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after the service.
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These are often churches
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with multiple campus sites
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and they say that
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we've got an online
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online campus,
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we've got an online
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congregation
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and sometimes
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these congregations,
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these are thousands
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of people.
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They're reaching
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a lot of people.
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Now,
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let's just assume
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there is great
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Bible teaching
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at these.
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Let's assume all that
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and it feels
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like attending.
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The quality
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of the service
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and the singing
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and the music,
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it just feels
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personally encouraging.
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Can you do church
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online?
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I've been a bit sneaky
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in the way
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I've framed
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that question.
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Partly to demonstrate,
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I think,
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it is so easy
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to leave
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God's view
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of church behind
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when you start
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asking these questions.
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Can you do church
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online?
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You've already
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made a misstep
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as if it's about
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attending,
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a service.
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can you be
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church
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online?
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That's the question.
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If church
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is about
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a worship
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meeting
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which provides
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a spiritual
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service
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to the customers
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to nourish
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you individually
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and as a family
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then
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attending
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is all that matters.
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But if it's
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about being,
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if God
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is glorified
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through just
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numbers,
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some of these
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churches
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they're glorifying
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God way more
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than we are
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if it's just
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about reaching
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people.
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But if God
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is glorified
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through unity
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and true
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interpersonal,
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interdependent,
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speaking the truth
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in love,
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community,
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well,
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I'm just
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going to
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phrase it
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in a bunch
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of questions.
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How,
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in what
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sense
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being online
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are you
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gathered?
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Just,
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in what
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sense?
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I suppose
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there's some
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level of
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conversation.
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How can
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the diversity
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in the body
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of Christ
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that crosses
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ages
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and crosses
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cultures
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and personalities
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how can
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that be
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demonstrated,
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the peace
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that Jesus
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has created
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and the
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common worship,
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how is that
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expressed
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online?
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Talk to me
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afterwards
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if you
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can convince
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me.
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Obviously
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you know
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where I'm
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going that
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I don't
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think you
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can do
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all these
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things,
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but I'm
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not sure
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you can
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really
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express
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that.
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Where is
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good
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accountability?
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We're told
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in Ephesians
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4,
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we're going
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to be
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tossed
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to and
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fro
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if we're
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not
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speaking
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the truth
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in love
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to one
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another,
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we will
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be just
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little
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children
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tossed
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around
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by the
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world.
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Where is
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the
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accountability
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online?
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If you
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can just
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choose
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when to
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tune in,
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tune out,
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how much
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to say
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about your
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life.
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It's a bit
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harder to
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keep life
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hidden.
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I've got
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toothpaste
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all over me
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this morning
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because of
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getting out
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this morning.
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Someone might
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notice that I've
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obviously declared
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that now.
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Being
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together,
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there's
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just,
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I think,
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a level
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of you
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can't
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hide as
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easily.
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To be
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accountable
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to one
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another.
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How can
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the body
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sing to
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one
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another?
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As
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Colossians 3
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tells us
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to do.
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I think
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online it's
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much easier
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to hide
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our
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struggles
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and our
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sin.
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Like how
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do you
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look a
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brother in
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the eye
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who just
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confess
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their sin
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to you
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and before
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you've even
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said a
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word,
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just by
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body
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language,
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they already
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are sensing
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that they're
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not condemned
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by you.
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How can
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you express
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that?
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I'm not
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sure you
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can do
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that well
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online.
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How do
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you give
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that person
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a hug?
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How do
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you hold
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the hand
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of a
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dying
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person
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while you
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pray for
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them?
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How do
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you relate
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online at
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a depth
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where it
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is extremely
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difficult to
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maintain
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peace?
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Because
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you're so
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in each
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other's
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lives and
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you've got
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such
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differences
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that we're
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called
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be eager
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to maintain
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the peace.
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This is
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going to be
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hard work.
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If you
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can convince
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me that
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you can
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be a
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functioning,
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united,
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interpersonal,
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interdependent
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body online,
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then maybe
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church online
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is going to
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be glorifying
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to God.
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While online
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churching is
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relatively new,
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believers
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claiming to
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be part of
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the universal
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church and
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sitting loose
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to the local
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church,
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that's not
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new,
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is it?
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So I
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want to
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clarify,
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technology is
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not the
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problem.
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It's not
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the root
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problem.
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I don't
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think.
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In
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person,
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we could
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easily just
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form clicks.
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In
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person, we
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could easily
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try and
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hide what's
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really going
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on in life,
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what's going
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on in our
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minds.
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we could
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tune in or
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tune out,
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we can do
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that all
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in person.
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So technology
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isn't the
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root problem.
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It's whether
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or not we
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see church
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through God's
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eyes, that's
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the important
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thing.
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If we know
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who we are,
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who we're
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called to be,
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the body,
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we're not
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just throwing
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the word
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family out
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there, like
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that is what
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we are.
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But as a
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tool, online
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church can
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supplement and
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bolster being
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the body,
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can't it?
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Those who
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are sick
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and would
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love to be
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here, we
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now have, they
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can at least be
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ministered to, to
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some extent, on
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Zoom.
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What a
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wonderful,
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wonderful tool.
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Our website is
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often the first
-
point of contact
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for people
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finding us.
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That's a good
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tool.
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It contains
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recordings for
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those in
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Grace Kids
-
in Cresce who
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miss out on
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the teaching,
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who sacrifice
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being here now
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for the kids,
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for the whole
-
body so they
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can catch up
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or we can
-
re-listen to
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it to get
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more of,
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soak it in
-
more.
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Online gives
-
opportunities I
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think for
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isolated missionaries
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who would love
-
to be part of a
-
local church to
-
be encouraged to
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connect in maybe.
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So I think
-
online church can
-
supplement being
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the body but
-
my opinion is
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it can't
-
replace it if
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we stick with
-
what God says
-
the church is.
-
Okay, that's
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online church.
-
What about
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social media?
-
This one's less
-
obvious but
-
perhaps it's
-
having a much
-
bigger impact on
-
us as a church
-
family than in
-
how we relate
-
than the
-
question of
-
online churching.
-
Let me ask
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what's filling
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your mind and
-
therefore your
-
heart?
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Is it
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connection through
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social media
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captivating your
-
mind or is it
-
the local
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church filling
-
your mind?
-
now I've got to
-
confess to you
-
like even
-
preparing this
-
week like the
-
amount of times I
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went to Facebook
-
and just scrolled
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those videos as
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to just get this
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little dopamine
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hit of because I
-
was feeling
-
stressed this
-
week like
-
knowing this
-
stuff and
-
actually changing
-
is another story.
-
I want to
-
confess that
-
and like I
-
said earlier
-
while technology
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in and of
-
itself is not
-
the root
-
problem here
-
it's our
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sinful hearts
-
and not
-
believing what
-
God says
-
when it comes
-
to social
-
media
-
again it's
-
not technology
-
per se
-
that's a
-
problem
-
it's how
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it's designed
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it's exploiting
-
us
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and that's
-
why I want
-
to quote
-
Tristan Harris
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it is designed
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to exploit
-
us
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now that's
-
why I'm
-
saying watch
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this documentary
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thing
-
as soon as I
-
say the word
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documentary
-
like oh
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boring
-
I hope
-
maybe not
-
please watch
-
it
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it's really
-
eye open
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let me just
-
quickly try and
-
summarize
-
consider this
-
the company
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Meta
-
which as you
-
know owns
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Facebook
-
Instagram
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it's worth
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734 billion
-
US dollars
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like wow
-
now how
-
much are
-
you paying
-
to subscribe
-
to Facebook
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I haven't
-
paid a cent
-
now the old
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saying goes
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if it's free
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you're the
-
product
-
and that's
-
Tristan Harris's
-
point in this
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social demo
-
put simply
-
he's saying
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your attention
-
your attention
-
is how these
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big tech
-
companies make
-
a lot of
-
money
-
like have
-
you noticed
-
how precise
-
those ads
-
that come up
-
are like
-
talk about
-
feeding my
-
idols
-
it knows
-
exactly what
-
what I want
-
to be thinking
-
about but don't
-
need to be
-
or have you
-
noticed like
-
you've been
-
scrolling Facebook
-
like I admitted
-
to like half
-
an hour
-
has gone
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by and
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you've just
-
been watching
-
silly videos
-
or have you
-
noticed that
-
when you put
-
a post or
-
a video
-
online
-
you just
-
want to
-
know how
-
many likes
-
are there
-
how many
-
views have
-
there been
-
or have you
-
noticed when
-
you're using
-
social media
-
it almost
-
feels socially
-
rude not to
-
reply within a
-
few minutes
-
I feel
-
that I
-
don't know
-
if anyone
-
else does
-
the point
-
is none
-
of this is
-
accidental
-
it's designed
-
to keep us
-
hooked
-
because our
-
attention is
-
big business
-
and so
-
Tristan Harris
-
makes the
-
point that
-
we worry
-
about artificial
-
intelligence
-
kind of taking
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over us
-
when it's
-
stronger than
-
us when it
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can take our
-
jobs and
-
when it can
-
beat us at
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chess
-
we worry
-
about AI
-
when it
-
takes over
-
the world
-
but he's
-
saying AI
-
is already
-
undermining
-
our weaknesses
-
it's already
-
exploiting
-
our weaknesses
-
I'll let you
-
watch it
-
because I've
-
gone into
-
explaining it
-
enough
-
it's
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I think
-
it's
-
deceptive
-
it's
-
I think
-
it's an
-
example of
-
what we
-
hear in
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Ephesians
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4 of
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human
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cunning
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to
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toss us
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to and
-
fro
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it's
-
deceptive
-
because
-
it promises
-
that we're
-
connecting
-
into the
-
world
-
but
-
what it
-
is
-
is a
-
mirror
-
turned in
-
on self
-
because
-
when you
-
watch Netflix
-
I don't know
-
if you watch
-
Netflix
-
if you watch
-
a streaming
-
service
-
you know
-
that when
-
they say
-
hey do you
-
want to
-
watch something
-
like this
-
you know
-
it's tailored
-
to your
-
personal
-
preferences
-
but all
-
these
-
social media
-
things
-
it is
-
tailored
-
to personal
-
choices
-
it knows
-
what our
-
attention
-
is going
-
to
-
and it
-
just keeps
-
feeding
-
whatever
-
grabs our
-
attention
-
it's a
-
mirror
-
on self
-
we think
-
we're
-
connecting
-
with the
-
world
-
but it's
-
actually
-
just
-
reinforcing
-
self
-
it's
-
deceptive
-
I think
-
it promises
-
connection
-
to our
-
diverse
-
world
-
when it's
-
really
-
just
-
reinforcing
-
self
-
personal
-
choice
-
so I'm
-
going to
-
suggest
-
three ways
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that
-
social media
-
can be
-
filling
-
our
-
minds
-
when it
-
should
-
be
-
the
-
church
-
filling
-
our
-
minds
-
with
-
truth
-
I'm
-
going to
-
start
-
with a
-
more
-
obvious
-
one
-
and that
-
is
-
our
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attention
-
during
-
church
-
I'm
-
in two
-
minds
-
about this
-
illustration
-
I'm
-
going to
-
go for
-
it
-
I'll
-
probably
-
forget
-
it
-
at
-
Bible
-
college
-
there was
-
a
-
class
-
a
-
particular
-
class
-
now
-
this only
-
happened
-
in one
-
class
-
it didn't
-
happen
-
all
-
the
-
classes
-
of
-
Bible
-
college
-
because
-
I
-
know
-
this
-
church
-
helped
-
pay my
-
way
-
through
-
Bible
-
college
-
but
-
during
-
the
-
lecture
-
there was
-
this
-
Facebook
-
messenger
-
group
-
of
-
people
-
in
-
the
-
chat
-
just
-
a
-
constant
-
stream
-
of
-
funny
-
remarks
-
based on
-
what's
-
going on
-
in the
-
room
-
now
-
I had
-
this
-
choice
-
do I
-
belong
-
to the
-
crowd
-
and
-
feel
-
like I
-
belong
-
to the
-
group
-
or do
-
I
-
listen
-
that was
-
so
-
tempting
-
the
-
choice
-
do I
-
listen
-
to the
-
truth
-
that
-
is
-
meant
-
to be
-
building
-
up
-
the
-
church
-
I
-
want to
-
share
-
that
-
because
-
I
-
think
-
that could
-
be an
-
illustration
-
for how
-
social
-
media
-
is
-
grabbing
-
our
-
attention
-
during
-
church
-
yes
-
but also
-
during
-
the
-
week
-
giving
-
our
-
attention
-
is a
-
moral
-
choice
-
what
-
is
-
grabbing
-
our
-
attention
-
if
-
notifications
-
are disrupting
-
you from
-
God's
-
word
-
cut it
-
off
-
it will
-
feel
-
painful
-
cut it
-
off
-
by
-
cutting
-
off
-
I
-
mean
-
if
-
your
-
hand
-
causes
-
you to
-
see
-
and
-
cut it
-
off
-
that's
-
what I'm
-
referring
-
to
-
year
-
because
-
just that
-
feedback
-
loop
-
of
-
promising
-
connection
-
based on
-
your
-
preferences
-
it's
-
just
-
superficial
-
relating
-
and it's
-
filling your
-
mind with
-
consumerism
-
because it's
-
targeting
-
exactly where
-
you're tempted
-
but if
-
you give
-
your mind
-
to the
-
church
-
speaking
-
the truth
-
in love
-
it fills
-
your mind
-
with the
-
sacrifice
-
of Christ
-
it fills
-
your mind
-
with a
-
calling
-
to sacrifice
-
your life
-
for what
-
lasts
-
what are
-
you filling
-
your mind
-
with
-
during
-
church
-
but also
-
throughout
-
the week
-
the second
-
way
-
I think
-
it could
-
be impacting
-
us is
-
it's deceiving
-
us into
-
a sense
-
of belonging
-
but without
-
truly being
-
known
-
I think
-
a lot
-
of the
-
affirmation
-
that goes
-
on
-
we're
-
creatures
-
we're
-
built
-
for social
-
affirmation
-
we're
-
built
-
for it
-
God
-
designed
-
us that
-
way
-
that
-
so much
-
of what
-
we're
-
affirmed
-
for
-
online
-
isn't
-
it
-
playing
-
happy
-
family
-
pictures
-
and I've
-
got the
-
house
-
and I'm
-
renovating
-
it
-
and look
-
how beautiful
-
I am
-
and
-
apparently
-
Instagram
-
as a
-
side note
-
automatically
-
adds a
-
5%
-
beauty
-
filter
-
doesn't
-
work on
-
me
-
now
-
you have
-
to clarify
-
whether that's
-
still the
-
case
-
that's a
-
few years
-
old
-
that
-
remark
-
but
-
the point
-
is
-
it's
-
trying to
-
reinforce
-
your value
-
is tied
-
to your
-
beauty
-
come to
-
this
-
platform
-
we try
-
and get
-
affirmation
-
based on
-
work
-
accomplishments
-
and what
-
we're doing
-
and even
-
our personal
-
struggles
-
like when
-
we declare
-
our personal
-
struggles
-
are we
-
really
-
offering
-
for people
-
to speak
-
the truth
-
in love
-
maybe
-
you are
-
maybe you
-
are
-
but
-
being the
-
Christ
-
church
-
where people
-
are speaking
-
the truth
-
in love
-
it's
-
assuring
-
you of
-
what's
-
true
-
it's
-
saying
-
you are
-
loved
-
by God
-
you are
-
in the
-
family
-
of God
-
not based
-
on anything
-
you do
-
not based
-
on your
-
beauty
-
not based
-
on your
-
house
-
and renovations
-
and not
-
based on
-
anything else
-
you are
-
in the
-
family
-
of God
-
when we
-
give
-
ourselves
-
to truth
-
so
-
we choose
-
between
-
a very
-
superficial
-
form of
-
connection
-
and affirmation
-
or giving
-
ourselves to
-
the church
-
and having
-
deep truth
-
filling our
-
souls
-
and affirming
-
us
-
being
-
truly
-
known
-
you
-
seeing
-
me
-
warts
-
and
-
all
-
and
-
saying
-
you are
-
loved
-
by God
-
now let
-
me help
-
you brother
-
in living
-
for God
-
more
-
that's
-
being
-
truly
-
known
-
the third
-
way I
-
think it
-
can be
-
impacting
-
us is
-
polarization
-
a feedback
-
loop that
-
is based
-
on your
-
preferences
-
it's going
-
to give
-
you a
-
sense
-
that you're
-
well
-
informed
-
but what's
-
really going
-
on is
-
you're
-
surrounding
-
yourself
-
with
-
the same
-
view
-
people with
-
the same
-
view
-
because that's
-
what the
-
algorithms
-
do
-
and the
-
other thing
-
it does
-
is
-
outrage
-
spreads
-
faster than
-
moderate
-
opinion
-
there's
-
more
-
shares
-
of tweets
-
and things
-
where someone
-
is going
-
isn't that
-
person on
-
the other
-
side of
-
this issue
-
an idiot
-
if there's
-
anything
-
if there's
-
any rage
-
that spreads
-
faster
-
so it gives
-
us a sense
-
that we have
-
all the
-
information
-
but really
-
it's put us
-
in a bubble
-
and it's
-
encouraging
-
division
-
but
-
being in
-
Christ's
-
church
-
it
-
stretches
-
our own
-
thinking
-
my thoughts
-
being tested
-
by the
-
diversity
-
of the
-
body
-
in an
-
environment
-
of humility
-
in an
-
environment
-
of security
-
knowing
-
we're
-
loved
-
and in
-
that environment
-
that's
-
teaching me
-
to maintain
-
affection
-
while I
-
patiently
-
try and
-
convince one
-
another
-
it's two
-
totally
-
different
-
worlds
-
if we
-
just
-
unthinkingly
-
come at
-
topics
-
through what
-
we look
-
at online
-
we've got
-
to be aware
-
that it's
-
polarising us
-
against one
-
another
-
and we can
-
bring that
-
into the
-
church
-
when we're
-
called to
-
unity
-
for the
-
glory of
-
God's
-
sake
-
so again
-
social media
-
isn't the
-
root cause
-
of the
-
problem
-
we can
-
be it
-
we can
-
be physically
-
present at
-
church
-
and form
-
cliques
-
we can
-
be physically
-
present at
-
church
-
and pretend
-
playing happy
-
families
-
where no one
-
really knows
-
what's going
-
on
-
we can
-
rally around
-
people who
-
have our
-
opinion
-
and cast
-
rocks at
-
everyone else
-
it's not
-
the tech
-
per se
-
but
-
this tech
-
is
-
aimed at
-
undermining
-
our propensity
-
towards those
-
things
-
but then
-
as a tool
-
it hasn't
-
been helpful
-
for this
-
church family
-
the meal
-
rosters
-
we've benefited
-
from those
-
being organised
-
online
-
the amount
-
of good
-
articles
-
and books
-
that people
-
share to
-
one
-
I know
-
the women
-
I know
-
second hand
-
I'm not
-
reading
-
but
-
second hand
-
through
-
Emma
-
the prayer
-
points
-
you guys
-
share
-
through the
-
Facebook
-
group
-
that's a
-
lovely
-
thing
-
tool
-
I know
-
I know
-
there's
-
a lot
-
of
-
organisation
-
that goes
-
into
-
Sunday
-
meeting
-
and
-
midweek
-
groups
-
even
-
our
-
connection
-
with
-
Matt
-
and
-
Grace
-
that's
-
a
-
great
-
feature
-
now
-
that we
-
can
-
encourage
-
them
-
from
-
afar
-
I
-
have
-
no
-
idea
-
of
-
all
-
the
-
one
-
to
-
one
-
conversations
-
that are
-
happening
-
through
-
social
-
media
-
it is
-
a tool
-
don't
-
hear me
-
saying
-
I don't
-
know
-
it's
-
evil
-
100%
-
evil
-
it's
-
a tool
-
but the
-
church
-
needs to
-
be what's
-
influencing
-
and filling
-
our minds
-
not social
-
media
-
so let
-
me finish
-
by asking
-
what do
-
you do
-
what do
-
we do
-
if we
-
sense
-
the
-
empty
-
promises
-
of being
-
totally
-
connected
-
24-7
-
and yet
-
you're not
-
truly
-
known
-
but then
-
you haven't
-
felt the
-
depth of
-
family
-
community
-
in the
-
church
-
like
-
I've
-
been
-
talking
-
about
-
these
-
six
-
weeks
-
what do
-
you do
-
well
-
I think
-
our
-
experience
-
of church
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isn't
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what should
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guide us
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we need
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it
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our starting
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point needs
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to be
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seeing the
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church
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through God's
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eyes
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that
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you are
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the church
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you do
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belong
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in Christ's
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body
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it's
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according to
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God's
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eternal plan
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it's by
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the blood
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of his
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son
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you are
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cherished
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in his
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people
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it's
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understanding
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that church
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is what
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we are
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and then
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it's
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understanding
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it's our
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call
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to be
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every
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joint
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and ligament
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working
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together
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to build
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up the
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body
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it's
-
believing
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that that
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call
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is what
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we were
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designed
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for
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and saved
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for
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it's
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knowing
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you are
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the family
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of God
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that's
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what's
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going to
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get us
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out of
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our own
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heads
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so
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can I
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just
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encourage
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you
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don't
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wait
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until
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you
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feel
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connected
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trust
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God
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that
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you
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are
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connected
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and
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dive
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in
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do you
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get the
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difference
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don't
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wait
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until
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you
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feel
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connected
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trust
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God
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that
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you
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are
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spiritually
-
we
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are
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the
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family
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of
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God
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so
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dive
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in
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brothers
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and
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sisters
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let's
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not
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settle
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for
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a
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cheap
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imitation
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of
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connection
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that
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revolves
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around
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self
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preferences
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if we
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do that
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we're
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going to
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be
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tossed
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to
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and
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fro
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by
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the
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world
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because
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we
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as
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the
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church
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can
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show
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a
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polarized
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addicted
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narcissistic
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I know
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that doesn't
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apply to
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absolutely
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everyone
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but we
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can show
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the world
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a different
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way
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we can
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show the
-
world
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what
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unity
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looks like
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what
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peace
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in
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Christ
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looks
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like
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and
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that
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will
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give
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great
-
glory
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to
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God
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we
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can
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show
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the
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world
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a
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glimpse
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of
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heaven
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let me
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finish
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with the
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words
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of
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Paul
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at
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the
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end
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of
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chapter
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three
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now
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to
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him
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who
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is
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able
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to
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do
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far
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more
-
abundantly
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than
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all
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that
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we
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ask
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or
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think
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according
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to
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the
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power
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at
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work
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within
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us
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to
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him
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be
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glory
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in
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the
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church
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and
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in
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Christ
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Jesus
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throughout
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all
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generations
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forever
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and
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ever
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amen
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will you
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pray
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with me
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let's
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pray
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Lord
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please
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rule
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our
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minds
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and
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hearts
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Lord
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I pray
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that you
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would
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give us
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a vision
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for
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the
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great
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cost
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of
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saving
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us
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and
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who
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we
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now
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are
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that
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you
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are
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our
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father
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that
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we
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are
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one
-
body
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that
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we
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are
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brothers
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and
-
sisters
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called
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to
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unity
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called
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to
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growth
-
in
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holiness
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Lord
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please
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give us
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this
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vision
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so
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that
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we
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won't
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be
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taken
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in
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by
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a
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substitute
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that
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this
-
world
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offers
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that
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really
-
leaves
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us
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feeling
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empty
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Lord
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give us
-
this
-
vision
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so
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that
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we
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might
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not
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just
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say
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these
-
doctrines
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but
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live
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it
-
out
-
please
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help
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us
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to
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be
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that
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deeply
-
connected
-
body
-
of
-
Christ
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so
-
that
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you
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might
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get
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the
-
glory
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and
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pray
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this
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in
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Jesus
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name
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Amen