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Being the church in a digital age

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  1. We're reading the first 16 verses of chapter 4 of Ephesians, written by Paul who describes

  2. himself as an apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God and he describes the Ephesians

  3. as the saints who are in Ephesus and are faithful in Christ Jesus.

  4. So chapter 4, 1-16.

  5. I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling

  6. to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with

  7. one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.

  8. There is one body and one Spirit, just as you were called to the one hope that belongs

  9. to your call, one Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of all, who is over all,

  10. all, and through all, and in all.

  11. But grace was given to each one of us according to the measure of Christ's gift.

  12. Therefore it says, when he ascended on high, he led a host of captives and he gave gifts

  13. to men.

  14. In saying he ascended, what does it mean but that he had also descended into the lower regions,

  15. the earth?

  16. He who descended is the one who also ascended far above all the heavens, that he might fill

  17. all things.

  18. And he gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the shepherds and teachers to equip

  19. the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ, until we all attain to

  20. the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to mature manhood, to the

  21. measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ, so that we may no longer be children tossed

  22. to and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human cunning, by

  23. craftiness in deceitful schemes.

  24. Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the

  25. head, into Christ, from whom the whole body, joined and held together by every joint with

  26. which it is equipped.

  27. When each part is working properly, makes the body grow so that it builds itself up in love.

  28. May the Lord bless his word to our hearts and minds.

  29. Hello, my name's Dave.

  30. I'm one of the pastors here.

  31. If you're visiting me today, a warm welcome to you.

  32. Before we get underway, I've got to admit my disorganisation.

  33. If you're following the outline, I've changed it.

  34. Okay, so hopefully it doesn't confuse you.

  35. Just one little change.

  36. Halfway down the page, it's got four application questions.

  37. I'm going to be putting that at the start, where it should have been from the beginning,

  38. but just so you don't get lost and I lose you at the very beginning of the sermon.

  39. All right, why don't we pray as we come to God's word.

  40. Lord, we know that you love your church, not because inherently we are lovely,

  41. but because you are a loving God and you have loved us.

  42. And you, by your son, created the church.

  43. And by your spirit, you are renewing us.

  44. And you have promised to complete what you have begun.

  45. So, Lord, help us see the church, see who we are,

  46. see your agenda for us through your eyes,

  47. so that we might live in a way that honours you.

  48. So I pray that your word would speak to us this morning.

  49. In Jesus' name, amen.

  50. Amen.

  51. Well, I want to start with a quote by a guy called Tristan Harris.

  52. He worked at Google and he's behind a Netflix kind of docudrama thing about social media.

  53. It's called The Social Dilemma.

  54. I don't know if you've seen it.

  55. If you haven't seen it, I'd highly recommend it

  56. because I'm not going to be able to explain it fully up here.

  57. But now this docudrama, it's been translated into over 190 languages.

  58. A hundred million people seem to have watched it, I think.

  59. So it's got some, it's worth listening to.

  60. Here's the quote.

  61. We are now years into a mass societal warping process

  62. that has made us into a different kind of species, frankly.

  63. A species that is addicted, distracted, polarised, narcissistic, misinformed.

  64. The list keeps going.

  65. Anxious, depressed, unsure of what's true, apathetic.

  66. Well, okay.

  67. If even half of that quote is true,

  68. we need to have a look at how the digital world is affecting us as a church family

  69. and how we live to honour the Lord.

  70. So today we look at the topic of being the church in a digital age.

  71. And this is the start of four weeks on four topics

  72. that have the potential to undermine us being the church.

  73. We'll either succumb to our culture or these four topics,

  74. if we see the church through God's eyes and live as he calls us to,

  75. these four topics also give us an opportunity to show the world a better way,

  76. an alternative, the good life in belonging to God's people.

  77. With any truth, knowing the theory is essential.

  78. It's essential to have good doctrine.

  79. And we've had five weeks now of looking at the truth in God's word.

  80. But we don't glorify God by being able to frequently and passionately just say truth.

  81. That's not how we glorify God.

  82. We glorify God, obviously we need to say truth,

  83. but we glorify God when that truth groups our hearts and changes the way we live.

  84. I can say I believe in God's sovereignty, for instance,

  85. until the cows come home.

  86. And I do and I hope I do for the rest of my life.

  87. But do I accept every circumstance as coming from the sovereign hand of God

  88. or do I rally against it?

  89. Do I pray as my first instinct because I know he is sovereign?

  90. Do you get what I mean?

  91. Knowing the truth and it gripping you to the point of change, that's what matters.

  92. And that's why we've picked these four topics,

  93. because as elders we think this could really either undermine

  94. or make the church flourish depending on how we approach these topics.

  95. So today, I've already introduced it, is about being the church in the digital age.

  96. And the next three is going to be being the church in an individualistic culture.

  97. And the third one is being the church in a hostile society.

  98. And then we'll finish off with being the church in light of our eternal hope.

  99. So that's where we're heading.

  100. So before we get into this, or it's not before,

  101. an important first step of getting into this topic is to refresh ourselves

  102. in knowing what the church is and what we are called to be through God's eyes.

  103. That the church is to be a foretaste of heaven.

  104. So through God's eyes, we see that the church is central to his eternal plans.

  105. We see in Genesis 2, albeit a community of two people,

  106. but gathered perfectly in worship, enjoying God's presence,

  107. until sin disrupts that, breaks that unity,

  108. creating hostility between man and God, and God to man,

  109. and hostility between people.

  110. And the judgment is being scattered.

  111. The essence of the word church is gathering.

  112. God wants a gathered people to himself.

  113. In Exodus 19, we see Israel gathered at the mountain under the law,

  114. but that gathering fails again because of sin.

  115. It was only a picture of the true gathering that would come through Jesus.

  116. What does Jesus say in Matthew 16?

  117. As soon as they say, you are the Christ, the first expression of faith,

  118. he says, I'm going to build my church.

  119. That's why I've come.

  120. That's why I'm going to die and rise, to build my church.

  121. And what do we see at the end of scripture?

  122. The church, the bride, the new Jerusalem glorified.

  123. The dwelling place with God and man.

  124. It's central.

  125. Church is absolutely central to God's eternal plans.

  126. Through God's eyes, we understand this gathering is a spiritual reality.

  127. The sin of living for self that has made us hostile to God

  128. and has caused so much dysfunction between people has been conquered.

  129. We see in Hebrews 12 that this new gathering in Christ is victorious over sin.

  130. It's victorious over death.

  131. It's marked by peace and unity and joy.

  132. As we heard read in Ephesians 4,

  133. it is so united with one body, one spirit,

  134. one hope, one Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of all.

  135. We are gathered into Christ.

  136. We're not isolated Christians.

  137. To be saved is to be gathered.

  138. And this gathering is permanent.

  139. This spiritual gathering is permanent.

  140. We saw that in Hebrews 12, that when God judges and shakes everything,

  141. heaven and earth, the final judgment, what is left standing?

  142. Nothing but the church.

  143. It is permanent.

  144. That's where you find security in life.

  145. But how is this gathering to be expressed now?

  146. Well, through God's eyes, we see that this spiritual heavenly gathering

  147. is not expressed in some vague notion of being the universal church

  148. because, remember, church is about gathering.

  149. It's in local church families like this one.

  150. It's a functioning body showing the unity,

  151. the peace that has been created.

  152. I don't know who I'm quoting here.

  153. Emma reminded me of this quote.

  154. It's some Bible teacher, but I can't remember.

  155. Can you be a Christian and not value and be committed to a local church?

  156. Don't be a silly sausage.

  157. I don't know.

  158. Anyway, if that helps you, maybe.

  159. There's nothing in the Bible about that.

  160. To be gathered is to be in the local church.

  161. That's how you express it.

  162. Know who you are.

  163. I'm going to say in a way that doesn't make sense

  164. and technically isn't correct,

  165. I am the church.

  166. I know that doesn't make sense.

  167. It's not correct.

  168. We are the church.

  169. But you're not just part of the church.

  170. It's the fundamental thing about who you are.

  171. We are the people of God.

  172. It's not just you attend church.

  173. You are the church.

  174. We are the church.

  175. We express that locally.

  176. Being gathered.

  177. Not choosing who you relate to,

  178. but it's a community created by grace.

  179. Across ages, across personalities, across cultures.

  180. It's everyone who's been saved and under the lordship of Jesus.

  181. That's what the local church is to express.

  182. And through God's eyes, we see our agenda,

  183. what we're called to do as the church.

  184. And it's not primarily about social welfare,

  185. though individual Christians might do all these things.

  186. It's not about being a moral watchdog

  187. to try and make Australia Christian.

  188. It's not about living separate from society

  189. and just condemning society.

  190. It's not even to be a functioning machine

  191. to do as much evangelism as we can.

  192. Our agenda in Scripture is to be.

  193. Be the church.

  194. Love one another.

  195. That's how you'll show that you are my disciples.

  196. Ephesians 3, 9 to 11 is a key passage.

  197. It's through the church

  198. that the manifold wisdom of God

  199. might now be made known to the rules and authorities

  200. in the heavenly places.

  201. God is glorified in his unified church.

  202. It's as we focus on being the church,

  203. that's when we'll be a winsome invitation to the world.

  204. Look what life is like being gathered to Jesus.

  205. And through God's eyes,

  206. we see that the structure of a healthy,

  207. functioning body of a local church

  208. is that Christ is head.

  209. He is head,

  210. ruling by his word

  211. that can change our hearts

  212. by his spirit.

  213. And he gives leaders to teach

  214. and model

  215. and govern

  216. in order,

  217. we see in Ephesians 4,

  218. in order,

  219. what verse is it?

  220. Verse 12.

  221. To equip the saints.

  222. You are a saint if you're a believer.

  223. A saint is being set apart for God.

  224. The leaders are to equip all the people

  225. for the work of ministry,

  226. for building up the body of Christ.

  227. Every person in ministry.

  228. The priests would have all believers.

  229. Verse 15 tells us what to do.

  230. We're all to be speaking the truth in love.

  231. Verse 16.

  232. It's a bit of a complex statement,

  233. but it's,

  234. so Christ is the head,

  235. but from whom the whole body,

  236. and then what does the whole body do?

  237. You've got to jump to a few phrases.

  238. The whole body makes the body grow.

  239. So it's not the leader's job

  240. to make the body grow.

  241. It's the body's job

  242. to make the body grow.

  243. Through every joint and ligament,

  244. we need everyone

  245. speaking the truth in love.

  246. The truth being God's truth.

  247. That's when the body grows.

  248. That's when we'll be a compelling witness

  249. of the salvation in Jesus.

  250. So,

  251. through God's eyes,

  252. what do you think?

  253. Can you see that church

  254. is a foretaste of heaven?

  255. If we understand our salvation

  256. is to be the church,

  257. if we understand our calling

  258. is primarily about being the church,

  259. if you're looking forward to heaven,

  260. which is about the church glorified

  261. in the presence of God,

  262. what will that look like?

  263. It will look like a high value

  264. and a high engagement

  265. in a local church.

  266. So,

  267. having refreshed ourselves

  268. on God's view of the church,

  269. and it's exciting,

  270. it's well worth our time

  271. going over that.

  272. We need to keep this lens

  273. as we come to this question

  274. about being the church

  275. in a digital age.

  276. Now, by digital,

  277. let me just define it quickly.

  278. Like, I had a digital wristwatch

  279. as a kid,

  280. and it had this cool button

  281. that could light up,

  282. and I could read the time at night.

  283. Now,

  284. that electronic device

  285. hardly revolutionised

  286. the world,

  287. and hardly impacted

  288. the gathering.

  289. But,

  290. the age of the internet,

  291. and the age of social media,

  292. that has revolutionised

  293. how we relate to one another,

  294. how we think.

  295. I've got to narrow our focus,

  296. and I've,

  297. even the two topics

  298. I've narrowed it to,

  299. really,

  300. we're just,

  301. it's a helicopter view

  302. of these topics,

  303. but,

  304. the first one is,

  305. can you do church online?

  306. That's kind of,

  307. an obvious question,

  308. isn't it?

  309. Can we do church online?

  310. Obviously,

  311. churches are trying to do that,

  312. but,

  313. can we?

  314. The second question is,

  315. obviously my introduction

  316. hinted towards this,

  317. how is social media

  318. affecting

  319. how we think about

  320. relationships in the church,

  321. and how we operate

  322. in the church?

  323. So,

  324. that's where we're heading.

  325. Let's go with

  326. the first one now.

  327. So,

  328. first,

  329. can you do church online?

  330. Well,

  331. some claim to get better sermons online.

  332. I don't think that's true.

  333. David and I,

  334. I think we're the best

  335. I've ever heard.

  336. I'm glad you're laughing.

  337. Am I glad?

  338. I don't know.

  339. Some claim to get better music

  340. online.

  341. Now,

  342. one of the,

  343. so,

  344. in other words,

  345. when you tap into

  346. the best resources,

  347. you,

  348. you come away

  349. feeling more

  350. spiritually nourished.

  351. So,

  352. one of the best

  353. examples of online church

  354. I came across,

  355. they put,

  356. this church put

  357. heaps of resources,

  358. like,

  359. our camera,

  360. we've got cameras for Zoom,

  361. but,

  362. I mean,

  363. these are like

  364. state-of-the-art cameras

  365. so that,

  366. and all the lighting

  367. and the sound

  368. is mixed properly

  369. so that it feels

  370. like you're present.

  371. They had dedicated

  372. online pastors

  373. to welcome people

  374. and engage people

  375. in conversation

  376. and they had chat rooms

  377. for general chit-chat.

  378. They had other chat rooms

  379. for pastors

  380. to listen to you

  381. and pray with you

  382. after the service.

  383. These are often churches

  384. with multiple campus sites

  385. and they say that

  386. we've got an online

  387. online campus,

  388. we've got an online

  389. congregation

  390. and sometimes

  391. these congregations,

  392. these are thousands

  393. of people.

  394. They're reaching

  395. a lot of people.

  396. Now,

  397. let's just assume

  398. there is great

  399. Bible teaching

  400. at these.

  401. Let's assume all that

  402. and it feels

  403. like attending.

  404. The quality

  405. of the service

  406. and the singing

  407. and the music,

  408. it just feels

  409. personally encouraging.

  410. Can you do church

  411. online?

  412. I've been a bit sneaky

  413. in the way

  414. I've framed

  415. that question.

  416. Partly to demonstrate,

  417. I think,

  418. it is so easy

  419. to leave

  420. God's view

  421. of church behind

  422. when you start

  423. asking these questions.

  424. Can you do church

  425. online?

  426. You've already

  427. made a misstep

  428. as if it's about

  429. attending,

  430. a service.

  431. can you be

  432. church

  433. online?

  434. That's the question.

  435. If church

  436. is about

  437. a worship

  438. meeting

  439. which provides

  440. a spiritual

  441. service

  442. to the customers

  443. to nourish

  444. you individually

  445. and as a family

  446. then

  447. attending

  448. is all that matters.

  449. But if it's

  450. about being,

  451. if God

  452. is glorified

  453. through just

  454. numbers,

  455. some of these

  456. churches

  457. they're glorifying

  458. God way more

  459. than we are

  460. if it's just

  461. about reaching

  462. people.

  463. But if God

  464. is glorified

  465. through unity

  466. and true

  467. interpersonal,

  468. interdependent,

  469. speaking the truth

  470. in love,

  471. community,

  472. well,

  473. I'm just

  474. going to

  475. phrase it

  476. in a bunch

  477. of questions.

  478. How,

  479. in what

  480. sense

  481. being online

  482. are you

  483. gathered?

  484. Just,

  485. in what

  486. sense?

  487. I suppose

  488. there's some

  489. level of

  490. conversation.

  491. How can

  492. the diversity

  493. in the body

  494. of Christ

  495. that crosses

  496. ages

  497. and crosses

  498. cultures

  499. and personalities

  500. how can

  501. that be

  502. demonstrated,

  503. the peace

  504. that Jesus

  505. has created

  506. and the

  507. common worship,

  508. how is that

  509. expressed

  510. online?

  511. Talk to me

  512. afterwards

  513. if you

  514. can convince

  515. me.

  516. Obviously

  517. you know

  518. where I'm

  519. going that

  520. I don't

  521. think you

  522. can do

  523. all these

  524. things,

  525. but I'm

  526. not sure

  527. you can

  528. really

  529. express

  530. that.

  531. Where is

  532. good

  533. accountability?

  534. We're told

  535. in Ephesians

  536. 4,

  537. we're going

  538. to be

  539. tossed

  540. to and

  541. fro

  542. if we're

  543. not

  544. speaking

  545. the truth

  546. in love

  547. to one

  548. another,

  549. we will

  550. be just

  551. little

  552. children

  553. tossed

  554. around

  555. by the

  556. world.

  557. Where is

  558. the

  559. accountability

  560. online?

  561. If you

  562. can just

  563. choose

  564. when to

  565. tune in,

  566. tune out,

  567. how much

  568. to say

  569. about your

  570. life.

  571. It's a bit

  572. harder to

  573. keep life

  574. hidden.

  575. I've got

  576. toothpaste

  577. all over me

  578. this morning

  579. because of

  580. getting out

  581. this morning.

  582. Someone might

  583. notice that I've

  584. obviously declared

  585. that now.

  586. Being

  587. together,

  588. there's

  589. just,

  590. I think,

  591. a level

  592. of you

  593. can't

  594. hide as

  595. easily.

  596. To be

  597. accountable

  598. to one

  599. another.

  600. How can

  601. the body

  602. sing to

  603. one

  604. another?

  605. As

  606. Colossians 3

  607. tells us

  608. to do.

  609. I think

  610. online it's

  611. much easier

  612. to hide

  613. our

  614. struggles

  615. and our

  616. sin.

  617. Like how

  618. do you

  619. look a

  620. brother in

  621. the eye

  622. who just

  623. confess

  624. their sin

  625. to you

  626. and before

  627. you've even

  628. said a

  629. word,

  630. just by

  631. body

  632. language,

  633. they already

  634. are sensing

  635. that they're

  636. not condemned

  637. by you.

  638. How can

  639. you express

  640. that?

  641. I'm not

  642. sure you

  643. can do

  644. that well

  645. online.

  646. How do

  647. you give

  648. that person

  649. a hug?

  650. How do

  651. you hold

  652. the hand

  653. of a

  654. dying

  655. person

  656. while you

  657. pray for

  658. them?

  659. How do

  660. you relate

  661. online at

  662. a depth

  663. where it

  664. is extremely

  665. difficult to

  666. maintain

  667. peace?

  668. Because

  669. you're so

  670. in each

  671. other's

  672. lives and

  673. you've got

  674. such

  675. differences

  676. that we're

  677. called

  678. be eager

  679. to maintain

  680. the peace.

  681. This is

  682. going to be

  683. hard work.

  684. If you

  685. can convince

  686. me that

  687. you can

  688. be a

  689. functioning,

  690. united,

  691. interpersonal,

  692. interdependent

  693. body online,

  694. then maybe

  695. church online

  696. is going to

  697. be glorifying

  698. to God.

  699. While online

  700. churching is

  701. relatively new,

  702. believers

  703. claiming to

  704. be part of

  705. the universal

  706. church and

  707. sitting loose

  708. to the local

  709. church,

  710. that's not

  711. new,

  712. is it?

  713. So I

  714. want to

  715. clarify,

  716. technology is

  717. not the

  718. problem.

  719. It's not

  720. the root

  721. problem.

  722. I don't

  723. think.

  724. In

  725. person,

  726. we could

  727. easily just

  728. form clicks.

  729. In

  730. person, we

  731. could easily

  732. try and

  733. hide what's

  734. really going

  735. on in life,

  736. what's going

  737. on in our

  738. minds.

  739. we could

  740. tune in or

  741. tune out,

  742. we can do

  743. that all

  744. in person.

  745. So technology

  746. isn't the

  747. root problem.

  748. It's whether

  749. or not we

  750. see church

  751. through God's

  752. eyes, that's

  753. the important

  754. thing.

  755. If we know

  756. who we are,

  757. who we're

  758. called to be,

  759. the body,

  760. we're not

  761. just throwing

  762. the word

  763. family out

  764. there, like

  765. that is what

  766. we are.

  767. But as a

  768. tool, online

  769. church can

  770. supplement and

  771. bolster being

  772. the body,

  773. can't it?

  774. Those who

  775. are sick

  776. and would

  777. love to be

  778. here, we

  779. now have, they

  780. can at least be

  781. ministered to, to

  782. some extent, on

  783. Zoom.

  784. What a

  785. wonderful,

  786. wonderful tool.

  787. Our website is

  788. often the first

  789. point of contact

  790. for people

  791. finding us.

  792. That's a good

  793. tool.

  794. It contains

  795. recordings for

  796. those in

  797. Grace Kids

  798. in Cresce who

  799. miss out on

  800. the teaching,

  801. who sacrifice

  802. being here now

  803. for the kids,

  804. for the whole

  805. body so they

  806. can catch up

  807. or we can

  808. re-listen to

  809. it to get

  810. more of,

  811. soak it in

  812. more.

  813. Online gives

  814. opportunities I

  815. think for

  816. isolated missionaries

  817. who would love

  818. to be part of a

  819. local church to

  820. be encouraged to

  821. connect in maybe.

  822. So I think

  823. online church can

  824. supplement being

  825. the body but

  826. my opinion is

  827. it can't

  828. replace it if

  829. we stick with

  830. what God says

  831. the church is.

  832. Okay, that's

  833. online church.

  834. What about

  835. social media?

  836. This one's less

  837. obvious but

  838. perhaps it's

  839. having a much

  840. bigger impact on

  841. us as a church

  842. family than in

  843. how we relate

  844. than the

  845. question of

  846. online churching.

  847. Let me ask

  848. what's filling

  849. your mind and

  850. therefore your

  851. heart?

  852. Is it

  853. connection through

  854. social media

  855. captivating your

  856. mind or is it

  857. the local

  858. church filling

  859. your mind?

  860. now I've got to

  861. confess to you

  862. like even

  863. preparing this

  864. week like the

  865. amount of times I

  866. went to Facebook

  867. and just scrolled

  868. those videos as

  869. to just get this

  870. little dopamine

  871. hit of because I

  872. was feeling

  873. stressed this

  874. week like

  875. knowing this

  876. stuff and

  877. actually changing

  878. is another story.

  879. I want to

  880. confess that

  881. and like I

  882. said earlier

  883. while technology

  884. in and of

  885. itself is not

  886. the root

  887. problem here

  888. it's our

  889. sinful hearts

  890. and not

  891. believing what

  892. God says

  893. when it comes

  894. to social

  895. media

  896. again it's

  897. not technology

  898. per se

  899. that's a

  900. problem

  901. it's how

  902. it's designed

  903. it's exploiting

  904. us

  905. and that's

  906. why I want

  907. to quote

  908. Tristan Harris

  909. it is designed

  910. to exploit

  911. us

  912. now that's

  913. why I'm

  914. saying watch

  915. this documentary

  916. thing

  917. as soon as I

  918. say the word

  919. documentary

  920. like oh

  921. boring

  922. I hope

  923. maybe not

  924. please watch

  925. it

  926. it's really

  927. eye open

  928. let me just

  929. quickly try and

  930. summarize

  931. consider this

  932. the company

  933. Meta

  934. which as you

  935. know owns

  936. Facebook

  937. Instagram

  938. it's worth

  939. 734 billion

  940. US dollars

  941. like wow

  942. now how

  943. much are

  944. you paying

  945. to subscribe

  946. to Facebook

  947. I haven't

  948. paid a cent

  949. now the old

  950. saying goes

  951. if it's free

  952. you're the

  953. product

  954. and that's

  955. Tristan Harris's

  956. point in this

  957. social demo

  958. put simply

  959. he's saying

  960. your attention

  961. your attention

  962. is how these

  963. big tech

  964. companies make

  965. a lot of

  966. money

  967. like have

  968. you noticed

  969. how precise

  970. those ads

  971. that come up

  972. are like

  973. talk about

  974. feeding my

  975. idols

  976. it knows

  977. exactly what

  978. what I want

  979. to be thinking

  980. about but don't

  981. need to be

  982. or have you

  983. noticed like

  984. you've been

  985. scrolling Facebook

  986. like I admitted

  987. to like half

  988. an hour

  989. has gone

  990. by and

  991. you've just

  992. been watching

  993. silly videos

  994. or have you

  995. noticed that

  996. when you put

  997. a post or

  998. a video

  999. online

  1000. you just

  1001. want to

  1002. know how

  1003. many likes

  1004. are there

  1005. how many

  1006. views have

  1007. there been

  1008. or have you

  1009. noticed when

  1010. you're using

  1011. social media

  1012. it almost

  1013. feels socially

  1014. rude not to

  1015. reply within a

  1016. few minutes

  1017. I feel

  1018. that I

  1019. don't know

  1020. if anyone

  1021. else does

  1022. the point

  1023. is none

  1024. of this is

  1025. accidental

  1026. it's designed

  1027. to keep us

  1028. hooked

  1029. because our

  1030. attention is

  1031. big business

  1032. and so

  1033. Tristan Harris

  1034. makes the

  1035. point that

  1036. we worry

  1037. about artificial

  1038. intelligence

  1039. kind of taking

  1040. over us

  1041. when it's

  1042. stronger than

  1043. us when it

  1044. can take our

  1045. jobs and

  1046. when it can

  1047. beat us at

  1048. chess

  1049. we worry

  1050. about AI

  1051. when it

  1052. takes over

  1053. the world

  1054. but he's

  1055. saying AI

  1056. is already

  1057. undermining

  1058. our weaknesses

  1059. it's already

  1060. exploiting

  1061. our weaknesses

  1062. I'll let you

  1063. watch it

  1064. because I've

  1065. gone into

  1066. explaining it

  1067. enough

  1068. it's

  1069. I think

  1070. it's

  1071. deceptive

  1072. it's

  1073. I think

  1074. it's an

  1075. example of

  1076. what we

  1077. hear in

  1078. Ephesians

  1079. 4 of

  1080. human

  1081. cunning

  1082. to

  1083. toss us

  1084. to and

  1085. fro

  1086. it's

  1087. deceptive

  1088. because

  1089. it promises

  1090. that we're

  1091. connecting

  1092. into the

  1093. world

  1094. but

  1095. what it

  1096. is

  1097. is a

  1098. mirror

  1099. turned in

  1100. on self

  1101. because

  1102. when you

  1103. watch Netflix

  1104. I don't know

  1105. if you watch

  1106. Netflix

  1107. if you watch

  1108. a streaming

  1109. service

  1110. you know

  1111. that when

  1112. they say

  1113. hey do you

  1114. want to

  1115. watch something

  1116. like this

  1117. you know

  1118. it's tailored

  1119. to your

  1120. personal

  1121. preferences

  1122. but all

  1123. these

  1124. social media

  1125. things

  1126. it is

  1127. tailored

  1128. to personal

  1129. choices

  1130. it knows

  1131. what our

  1132. attention

  1133. is going

  1134. to

  1135. and it

  1136. just keeps

  1137. feeding

  1138. whatever

  1139. grabs our

  1140. attention

  1141. it's a

  1142. mirror

  1143. on self

  1144. we think

  1145. we're

  1146. connecting

  1147. with the

  1148. world

  1149. but it's

  1150. actually

  1151. just

  1152. reinforcing

  1153. self

  1154. it's

  1155. deceptive

  1156. I think

  1157. it promises

  1158. connection

  1159. to our

  1160. diverse

  1161. world

  1162. when it's

  1163. really

  1164. just

  1165. reinforcing

  1166. self

  1167. personal

  1168. choice

  1169. so I'm

  1170. going to

  1171. suggest

  1172. three ways

  1173. that

  1174. social media

  1175. can be

  1176. filling

  1177. our

  1178. minds

  1179. when it

  1180. should

  1181. be

  1182. the

  1183. church

  1184. filling

  1185. our

  1186. minds

  1187. with

  1188. truth

  1189. I'm

  1190. going to

  1191. start

  1192. with a

  1193. more

  1194. obvious

  1195. one

  1196. and that

  1197. is

  1198. our

  1199. attention

  1200. during

  1201. church

  1202. I'm

  1203. in two

  1204. minds

  1205. about this

  1206. illustration

  1207. I'm

  1208. going to

  1209. go for

  1210. it

  1211. I'll

  1212. probably

  1213. forget

  1214. it

  1215. at

  1216. Bible

  1217. college

  1218. there was

  1219. a

  1220. class

  1221. a

  1222. particular

  1223. class

  1224. now

  1225. this only

  1226. happened

  1227. in one

  1228. class

  1229. it didn't

  1230. happen

  1231. all

  1232. the

  1233. classes

  1234. of

  1235. Bible

  1236. college

  1237. because

  1238. I

  1239. know

  1240. this

  1241. church

  1242. helped

  1243. pay my

  1244. way

  1245. through

  1246. Bible

  1247. college

  1248. but

  1249. during

  1250. the

  1251. lecture

  1252. there was

  1253. this

  1254. Facebook

  1255. messenger

  1256. group

  1257. of

  1258. people

  1259. in

  1260. the

  1261. chat

  1262. just

  1263. a

  1264. constant

  1265. stream

  1266. of

  1267. funny

  1268. remarks

  1269. based on

  1270. what's

  1271. going on

  1272. in the

  1273. room

  1274. now

  1275. I had

  1276. this

  1277. choice

  1278. do I

  1279. belong

  1280. to the

  1281. crowd

  1282. and

  1283. feel

  1284. like I

  1285. belong

  1286. to the

  1287. group

  1288. or do

  1289. I

  1290. listen

  1291. that was

  1292. so

  1293. tempting

  1294. the

  1295. choice

  1296. do I

  1297. listen

  1298. to the

  1299. truth

  1300. that

  1301. is

  1302. meant

  1303. to be

  1304. building

  1305. up

  1306. the

  1307. church

  1308. I

  1309. want to

  1310. share

  1311. that

  1312. because

  1313. I

  1314. think

  1315. that could

  1316. be an

  1317. illustration

  1318. for how

  1319. social

  1320. media

  1321. is

  1322. grabbing

  1323. our

  1324. attention

  1325. during

  1326. church

  1327. yes

  1328. but also

  1329. during

  1330. the

  1331. week

  1332. giving

  1333. our

  1334. attention

  1335. is a

  1336. moral

  1337. choice

  1338. what

  1339. is

  1340. grabbing

  1341. our

  1342. attention

  1343. if

  1344. notifications

  1345. are disrupting

  1346. you from

  1347. God's

  1348. word

  1349. cut it

  1350. off

  1351. it will

  1352. feel

  1353. painful

  1354. cut it

  1355. off

  1356. by

  1357. cutting

  1358. off

  1359. I

  1360. mean

  1361. if

  1362. your

  1363. hand

  1364. causes

  1365. you to

  1366. see

  1367. and

  1368. cut it

  1369. off

  1370. that's

  1371. what I'm

  1372. referring

  1373. to

  1374. year

  1375. because

  1376. just that

  1377. feedback

  1378. loop

  1379. of

  1380. promising

  1381. connection

  1382. based on

  1383. your

  1384. preferences

  1385. it's

  1386. just

  1387. superficial

  1388. relating

  1389. and it's

  1390. filling your

  1391. mind with

  1392. consumerism

  1393. because it's

  1394. targeting

  1395. exactly where

  1396. you're tempted

  1397. but if

  1398. you give

  1399. your mind

  1400. to the

  1401. church

  1402. speaking

  1403. the truth

  1404. in love

  1405. it fills

  1406. your mind

  1407. with the

  1408. sacrifice

  1409. of Christ

  1410. it fills

  1411. your mind

  1412. with a

  1413. calling

  1414. to sacrifice

  1415. your life

  1416. for what

  1417. lasts

  1418. what are

  1419. you filling

  1420. your mind

  1421. with

  1422. during

  1423. church

  1424. but also

  1425. throughout

  1426. the week

  1427. the second

  1428. way

  1429. I think

  1430. it could

  1431. be impacting

  1432. us is

  1433. it's deceiving

  1434. us into

  1435. a sense

  1436. of belonging

  1437. but without

  1438. truly being

  1439. known

  1440. I think

  1441. a lot

  1442. of the

  1443. affirmation

  1444. that goes

  1445. on

  1446. we're

  1447. creatures

  1448. we're

  1449. built

  1450. for social

  1451. affirmation

  1452. we're

  1453. built

  1454. for it

  1455. God

  1456. designed

  1457. us that

  1458. way

  1459. that

  1460. so much

  1461. of what

  1462. we're

  1463. affirmed

  1464. for

  1465. online

  1466. isn't

  1467. it

  1468. playing

  1469. happy

  1470. family

  1471. pictures

  1472. and I've

  1473. got the

  1474. house

  1475. and I'm

  1476. renovating

  1477. it

  1478. and look

  1479. how beautiful

  1480. I am

  1481. and

  1482. apparently

  1483. Instagram

  1484. as a

  1485. side note

  1486. automatically

  1487. adds a

  1488. 5%

  1489. beauty

  1490. filter

  1491. doesn't

  1492. work on

  1493. me

  1494. now

  1495. you have

  1496. to clarify

  1497. whether that's

  1498. still the

  1499. case

  1500. that's a

  1501. few years

  1502. old

  1503. that

  1504. remark

  1505. but

  1506. the point

  1507. is

  1508. it's

  1509. trying to

  1510. reinforce

  1511. your value

  1512. is tied

  1513. to your

  1514. beauty

  1515. come to

  1516. this

  1517. platform

  1518. we try

  1519. and get

  1520. affirmation

  1521. based on

  1522. work

  1523. accomplishments

  1524. and what

  1525. we're doing

  1526. and even

  1527. our personal

  1528. struggles

  1529. like when

  1530. we declare

  1531. our personal

  1532. struggles

  1533. are we

  1534. really

  1535. offering

  1536. for people

  1537. to speak

  1538. the truth

  1539. in love

  1540. maybe

  1541. you are

  1542. maybe you

  1543. are

  1544. but

  1545. being the

  1546. Christ

  1547. church

  1548. where people

  1549. are speaking

  1550. the truth

  1551. in love

  1552. it's

  1553. assuring

  1554. you of

  1555. what's

  1556. true

  1557. it's

  1558. saying

  1559. you are

  1560. loved

  1561. by God

  1562. you are

  1563. in the

  1564. family

  1565. of God

  1566. not based

  1567. on anything

  1568. you do

  1569. not based

  1570. on your

  1571. beauty

  1572. not based

  1573. on your

  1574. house

  1575. and renovations

  1576. and not

  1577. based on

  1578. anything else

  1579. you are

  1580. in the

  1581. family

  1582. of God

  1583. when we

  1584. give

  1585. ourselves

  1586. to truth

  1587. so

  1588. we choose

  1589. between

  1590. a very

  1591. superficial

  1592. form of

  1593. connection

  1594. and affirmation

  1595. or giving

  1596. ourselves to

  1597. the church

  1598. and having

  1599. deep truth

  1600. filling our

  1601. souls

  1602. and affirming

  1603. us

  1604. being

  1605. truly

  1606. known

  1607. you

  1608. seeing

  1609. me

  1610. warts

  1611. and

  1612. all

  1613. and

  1614. saying

  1615. you are

  1616. loved

  1617. by God

  1618. now let

  1619. me help

  1620. you brother

  1621. in living

  1622. for God

  1623. more

  1624. that's

  1625. being

  1626. truly

  1627. known

  1628. the third

  1629. way I

  1630. think it

  1631. can be

  1632. impacting

  1633. us is

  1634. polarization

  1635. a feedback

  1636. loop that

  1637. is based

  1638. on your

  1639. preferences

  1640. it's going

  1641. to give

  1642. you a

  1643. sense

  1644. that you're

  1645. well

  1646. informed

  1647. but what's

  1648. really going

  1649. on is

  1650. you're

  1651. surrounding

  1652. yourself

  1653. with

  1654. the same

  1655. view

  1656. people with

  1657. the same

  1658. view

  1659. because that's

  1660. what the

  1661. algorithms

  1662. do

  1663. and the

  1664. other thing

  1665. it does

  1666. is

  1667. outrage

  1668. spreads

  1669. faster than

  1670. moderate

  1671. opinion

  1672. there's

  1673. more

  1674. shares

  1675. of tweets

  1676. and things

  1677. where someone

  1678. is going

  1679. isn't that

  1680. person on

  1681. the other

  1682. side of

  1683. this issue

  1684. an idiot

  1685. if there's

  1686. anything

  1687. if there's

  1688. any rage

  1689. that spreads

  1690. faster

  1691. so it gives

  1692. us a sense

  1693. that we have

  1694. all the

  1695. information

  1696. but really

  1697. it's put us

  1698. in a bubble

  1699. and it's

  1700. encouraging

  1701. division

  1702. but

  1703. being in

  1704. Christ's

  1705. church

  1706. it

  1707. stretches

  1708. our own

  1709. thinking

  1710. my thoughts

  1711. being tested

  1712. by the

  1713. diversity

  1714. of the

  1715. body

  1716. in an

  1717. environment

  1718. of humility

  1719. in an

  1720. environment

  1721. of security

  1722. knowing

  1723. we're

  1724. loved

  1725. and in

  1726. that environment

  1727. that's

  1728. teaching me

  1729. to maintain

  1730. affection

  1731. while I

  1732. patiently

  1733. try and

  1734. convince one

  1735. another

  1736. it's two

  1737. totally

  1738. different

  1739. worlds

  1740. if we

  1741. just

  1742. unthinkingly

  1743. come at

  1744. topics

  1745. through what

  1746. we look

  1747. at online

  1748. we've got

  1749. to be aware

  1750. that it's

  1751. polarising us

  1752. against one

  1753. another

  1754. and we can

  1755. bring that

  1756. into the

  1757. church

  1758. when we're

  1759. called to

  1760. unity

  1761. for the

  1762. glory of

  1763. God's

  1764. sake

  1765. so again

  1766. social media

  1767. isn't the

  1768. root cause

  1769. of the

  1770. problem

  1771. we can

  1772. be it

  1773. we can

  1774. be physically

  1775. present at

  1776. church

  1777. and form

  1778. cliques

  1779. we can

  1780. be physically

  1781. present at

  1782. church

  1783. and pretend

  1784. playing happy

  1785. families

  1786. where no one

  1787. really knows

  1788. what's going

  1789. on

  1790. we can

  1791. rally around

  1792. people who

  1793. have our

  1794. opinion

  1795. and cast

  1796. rocks at

  1797. everyone else

  1798. it's not

  1799. the tech

  1800. per se

  1801. but

  1802. this tech

  1803. is

  1804. aimed at

  1805. undermining

  1806. our propensity

  1807. towards those

  1808. things

  1809. but then

  1810. as a tool

  1811. it hasn't

  1812. been helpful

  1813. for this

  1814. church family

  1815. the meal

  1816. rosters

  1817. we've benefited

  1818. from those

  1819. being organised

  1820. online

  1821. the amount

  1822. of good

  1823. articles

  1824. and books

  1825. that people

  1826. share to

  1827. one

  1828. I know

  1829. the women

  1830. I know

  1831. second hand

  1832. I'm not

  1833. reading

  1834. but

  1835. second hand

  1836. through

  1837. Emma

  1838. the prayer

  1839. points

  1840. you guys

  1841. share

  1842. through the

  1843. Facebook

  1844. group

  1845. that's a

  1846. lovely

  1847. thing

  1848. tool

  1849. I know

  1850. I know

  1851. there's

  1852. a lot

  1853. of

  1854. organisation

  1855. that goes

  1856. into

  1857. Sunday

  1858. meeting

  1859. and

  1860. midweek

  1861. groups

  1862. even

  1863. our

  1864. connection

  1865. with

  1866. Matt

  1867. and

  1868. Grace

  1869. that's

  1870. a

  1871. great

  1872. feature

  1873. now

  1874. that we

  1875. can

  1876. encourage

  1877. them

  1878. from

  1879. afar

  1880. I

  1881. have

  1882. no

  1883. idea

  1884. of

  1885. all

  1886. the

  1887. one

  1888. to

  1889. one

  1890. conversations

  1891. that are

  1892. happening

  1893. through

  1894. social

  1895. media

  1896. it is

  1897. a tool

  1898. don't

  1899. hear me

  1900. saying

  1901. I don't

  1902. know

  1903. it's

  1904. evil

  1905. 100%

  1906. evil

  1907. it's

  1908. a tool

  1909. but the

  1910. church

  1911. needs to

  1912. be what's

  1913. influencing

  1914. and filling

  1915. our minds

  1916. not social

  1917. media

  1918. so let

  1919. me finish

  1920. by asking

  1921. what do

  1922. you do

  1923. what do

  1924. we do

  1925. if we

  1926. sense

  1927. the

  1928. empty

  1929. promises

  1930. of being

  1931. totally

  1932. connected

  1933. 24-7

  1934. and yet

  1935. you're not

  1936. truly

  1937. known

  1938. but then

  1939. you haven't

  1940. felt the

  1941. depth of

  1942. family

  1943. community

  1944. in the

  1945. church

  1946. like

  1947. I've

  1948. been

  1949. talking

  1950. about

  1951. these

  1952. six

  1953. weeks

  1954. what do

  1955. you do

  1956. well

  1957. I think

  1958. our

  1959. experience

  1960. of church

  1961. isn't

  1962. what should

  1963. guide us

  1964. we need

  1965. it

  1966. our starting

  1967. point needs

  1968. to be

  1969. seeing the

  1970. church

  1971. through God's

  1972. eyes

  1973. that

  1974. you are

  1975. the church

  1976. you do

  1977. belong

  1978. in Christ's

  1979. body

  1980. it's

  1981. according to

  1982. God's

  1983. eternal plan

  1984. it's by

  1985. the blood

  1986. of his

  1987. son

  1988. you are

  1989. cherished

  1990. in his

  1991. people

  1992. it's

  1993. understanding

  1994. that church

  1995. is what

  1996. we are

  1997. and then

  1998. it's

  1999. understanding

  2000. it's our

  2001. call

  2002. to be

  2003. every

  2004. joint

  2005. and ligament

  2006. working

  2007. together

  2008. to build

  2009. up the

  2010. body

  2011. it's

  2012. believing

  2013. that that

  2014. call

  2015. is what

  2016. we were

  2017. designed

  2018. for

  2019. and saved

  2020. for

  2021. it's

  2022. knowing

  2023. you are

  2024. the family

  2025. of God

  2026. that's

  2027. what's

  2028. going to

  2029. get us

  2030. out of

  2031. our own

  2032. heads

  2033. so

  2034. can I

  2035. just

  2036. encourage

  2037. you

  2038. don't

  2039. wait

  2040. until

  2041. you

  2042. feel

  2043. connected

  2044. trust

  2045. God

  2046. that

  2047. you

  2048. are

  2049. connected

  2050. and

  2051. dive

  2052. in

  2053. do you

  2054. get the

  2055. difference

  2056. don't

  2057. wait

  2058. until

  2059. you

  2060. feel

  2061. connected

  2062. trust

  2063. God

  2064. that

  2065. you

  2066. are

  2067. spiritually

  2068. we

  2069. are

  2070. the

  2071. family

  2072. of

  2073. God

  2074. so

  2075. dive

  2076. in

  2077. brothers

  2078. and

  2079. sisters

  2080. let's

  2081. not

  2082. settle

  2083. for

  2084. a

  2085. cheap

  2086. imitation

  2087. of

  2088. connection

  2089. that

  2090. revolves

  2091. around

  2092. self

  2093. preferences

  2094. if we

  2095. do that

  2096. we're

  2097. going to

  2098. be

  2099. tossed

  2100. to

  2101. and

  2102. fro

  2103. by

  2104. the

  2105. world

  2106. because

  2107. we

  2108. as

  2109. the

  2110. church

  2111. can

  2112. show

  2113. a

  2114. polarized

  2115. addicted

  2116. narcissistic

  2117. I know

  2118. that doesn't

  2119. apply to

  2120. absolutely

  2121. everyone

  2122. but we

  2123. can show

  2124. the world

  2125. a different

  2126. way

  2127. we can

  2128. show the

  2129. world

  2130. what

  2131. unity

  2132. looks like

  2133. what

  2134. peace

  2135. in

  2136. Christ

  2137. looks

  2138. like

  2139. and

  2140. that

  2141. will

  2142. give

  2143. great

  2144. glory

  2145. to

  2146. God

  2147. we

  2148. can

  2149. show

  2150. the

  2151. world

  2152. a

  2153. glimpse

  2154. of

  2155. heaven

  2156. let me

  2157. finish

  2158. with the

  2159. words

  2160. of

  2161. Paul

  2162. at

  2163. the

  2164. end

  2165. of

  2166. chapter

  2167. three

  2168. now

  2169. to

  2170. him

  2171. who

  2172. is

  2173. able

  2174. to

  2175. do

  2176. far

  2177. more

  2178. abundantly

  2179. than

  2180. all

  2181. that

  2182. we

  2183. ask

  2184. or

  2185. think

  2186. according

  2187. to

  2188. the

  2189. power

  2190. at

  2191. work

  2192. within

  2193. us

  2194. to

  2195. him

  2196. be

  2197. glory

  2198. in

  2199. the

  2200. church

  2201. and

  2202. in

  2203. Christ

  2204. Jesus

  2205. throughout

  2206. all

  2207. generations

  2208. forever

  2209. and

  2210. ever

  2211. amen

  2212. will you

  2213. pray

  2214. with me

  2215. let's

  2216. pray

  2217. Lord

  2218. please

  2219. rule

  2220. our

  2221. minds

  2222. and

  2223. hearts

  2224. Lord

  2225. I pray

  2226. that you

  2227. would

  2228. give us

  2229. a vision

  2230. for

  2231. the

  2232. great

  2233. cost

  2234. of

  2235. saving

  2236. us

  2237. and

  2238. who

  2239. we

  2240. now

  2241. are

  2242. that

  2243. you

  2244. are

  2245. our

  2246. father

  2247. that

  2248. we

  2249. are

  2250. one

  2251. body

  2252. that

  2253. we

  2254. are

  2255. brothers

  2256. and

  2257. sisters

  2258. called

  2259. to

  2260. unity

  2261. called

  2262. to

  2263. growth

  2264. in

  2265. holiness

  2266. Lord

  2267. please

  2268. give us

  2269. this

  2270. vision

  2271. so

  2272. that

  2273. we

  2274. won't

  2275. be

  2276. taken

  2277. in

  2278. by

  2279. a

  2280. substitute

  2281. that

  2282. this

  2283. world

  2284. offers

  2285. that

  2286. really

  2287. leaves

  2288. us

  2289. feeling

  2290. empty

  2291. Lord

  2292. give us

  2293. this

  2294. vision

  2295. so

  2296. that

  2297. we

  2298. might

  2299. not

  2300. just

  2301. say

  2302. these

  2303. doctrines

  2304. but

  2305. live

  2306. it

  2307. out

  2308. please

  2309. help

  2310. us

  2311. to

  2312. be

  2313. that

  2314. deeply

  2315. connected

  2316. body

  2317. of

  2318. Christ

  2319. so

  2320. that

  2321. you

  2322. might

  2323. get

  2324. the

  2325. glory

  2326. and

  2327. pray

  2328. this

  2329. in

  2330. Jesus

  2331. name

  2332. Amen