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  1. Well, good evening. Turn with me in your Bible, if you have one, to 2 Samuel chapter 1.

    2 Samuel 1 chapter mention

  2. If you're looking in one of the Pew Bibles, it is page 254.

  3. We are starting a new series tonight in the second half of the book of Samuel.

  4. If you were here this past spring, we did the first half of the book of Samuel, called 1 Samuel.

  5. And now we're at 2 Samuel.

  6. Before we dig into the passage, let me introduce our passage by asking this question.

  7. Have you ever had an enemy?

  8. Have you ever had an enemy who drove a wedge between you and your spouse or significant other, which resulted in them leaving you?

  9. Have you ever had an enemy who tried to poison your relationship with your best friend and permanently isolate you from each other?

  10. Have you ever had an enemy who undermined your opportunities to get a stable job that you were well qualified for?

  11. Have you ever had an enemy who literally gathered an army to hunt you down, intimidated you into leaving your home country, chased you into the desert, and tried to kill you over and over again?

  12. Well, that was King David's experience of Saul.

  13. Or David's experience, before he was king, of King Saul.

  14. No less than 16 times in 1 Samuel, Saul tried to kill David.

  15. Besides that, Saul literally stole David's wife, Michal, from him, effectively isolated him from his closest friend, Jonathan,

  16. drove David into the forest, then into the wilderness, and finally into exile, living among the Philistines.

  17. Now, maybe some of you can relate to having an enemy in one or two of those ways.

  18. But probably for most of us, maybe we have to deal with people who are annoying.

  19. Maybe there's people who say mean things behind our back.

  20. Or occasionally get mad and yell at us.

  21. But most of us have never had to deal with an enemy at that level.

  22. Now, the good news for David is that his great enemy, Saul, is now dead.

  23. King Saul has been killed in battle.

  24. That's the last chapter of 1 Samuel, 1 Samuel 31, along with his son Jonathan.

  25. For the people of Israel, it was a national crisis.

  26. It's sort of like if the president and the vice president got assassinated on the same day.

  27. Right? It's never happened in American history.

  28. But for David, it was his golden opportunity to rise up and lead the people of Israel.

  29. To unify them and become their king.

  30. The prophet Samuel had already anointed David back several years ago, 1 Samuel chapter 16.

    1 Samuel 16 chapter mention

  31. Halfway through the book, he had anointed David to be the future king of Israel.

  32. Now, this evening, what we're going to look at is David's response.

  33. And what we're going to read and what we're going to look at is David's response to the death of Saul, his enemy.

  34. And as we look at his response, we'll see David's character begin to emerge.

  35. Because one of the clearest ways that we can see someone's character is how they deal with enemies and people who oppose them.

  36. And cause trouble for them.

  37. So let's read together 2 Samuel chapter 1.

    2 Samuel 1 chapter mention

  38. And after the death of Saul, when David had returned from striking down the Amalekites, David remained two days in Ziklag.

  39. And on the third day, behold, a man came from Saul's camp with his clothes torn and dirt on his head.

  40. When he came to David, he fell to the ground and paid homage.

  41. David said to him, Where do you come from?

  42. And he said to him, I have escaped from the camp of Israel.

  43. And David said to him, How did it go? Tell me.

  44. And he answered, The people fled from the battle.

  45. And also many of the people have fallen and are dead.

  46. And Saul and his son Jonathan are also dead.

  47. Then David said to the young man who told him, How do you know that Saul and his son Jonathan are dead?

  48. And the young man who told him said, By chance, I happen to be on Mount Gilboa.

  49. And there was Saul, leaning on his spear.

  50. And behold, the chariots and the horsemen were close upon him.

  51. And when he looked behind him, he saw me and called to me.

  52. And I answered, Here I am.

  53. And he said to me, Who are you?

  54. And I answered him, I am an Amalekite.

  55. And he said to me, Stand beside me and kill me.

  56. And for anguish had seized me.

  57. And yet my life still lingers.

  58. So I stood beside him and killed him.

  59. Because I was sure that he couldn't live after he had fallen.

  60. And I took the crown that was on his head and the armlet that was on his arm.

  61. And I have brought them here to my Lord.

  62. Then David took hold of his clothes and tore them.

  63. And so did all the men who were with him.

  64. And they mourned and wept and fasted until evening for Saul and for Jonathan his son.

  65. And for the people of the Lord and for the house of Israel.

  66. Because they had fallen by the sword.

  67. And David said to the young man who told him, Where do you come from?

  68. And he answered, I am the son of a sojourner and Amalekite.

  69. David said to him, How is it you were not afraid to put out your hand to destroy the Lord's anointed?

  70. Then David called one of the young men and said, Go execute him.

  71. And he struck him down so that he died.

  72. And David said to him, Your blood be on your head.

  73. For your own mouth has testified against you, saying, I have killed the Lord's anointed.

  74. And David lamented with his lamentation over Saul and Jonathan his son.

  75. And he said, It should be taught to the people of Judah.

  76. Behold, it is written in the book of Jashar.

  77. He said, Your glory, O Israel, is slain on your high places.

  78. How the mighty have fallen.

  79. Tell it not in Gath.

  80. Publish it not in the streets of Askelon.

  81. Lest the daughters of the Philistines rejoice.

  82. Lest the daughters of the uncircumcised exult.

  83. You mountains of the Golboa.

  84. Let there be no dew or rain upon you, nor fields of offerings.

  85. For there the shield of the mighty was defiled.

  86. The shield of Saul not anointed with oil.

  87. From the blood of the slain, from the fat of the mighty, the bow of Jonathan turned not back.

  88. And the sword of Saul returned not empty.

  89. Saul and Jonathan, beloved and lovely, in life and in death, they were not divided.

  90. They were swifter than eagles.

  91. They were stronger than lions.

  92. You daughters of Israel, weep over Saul, who clothed you luxuriously in scarlet,

  93. who put ornaments of gold on your apparel.

  94. How the mighty have fallen in the midst of the battle.

  95. Jonathan lies slain on your high places.

  96. I am distressed for you, my brother, Jonathan.

  97. Very pleasant have you been to me.

  98. Your love to me was extraordinary, surpassing the love of women.

  99. How the mighty have fallen, and the weapons of war perished.

  100. So in tonight's passage, we see two responses to Saul's death.

  101. We see first the Amalekite messenger.

  102. And second, we see David's response along with his men.

  103. So let's look at these two responses in turn, and what we can take from them.

  104. First, the Amalekite's response to Saul's death.

  105. Now initially, this Amalekite appears to be a loyal and compassionate ally.

  106. Right?

  107. He arrives with his clothes torn, dust on his head, traditional expressions of grief.

  108. He says, I've escaped from the Israelite camp.

  109. He traveled over 80 miles to Ziklag, where David was sort of hiding out, or where David

  110. was staying, just to bring him this message.

  111. And he presents himself as a compassionate human being.

  112. Saul was in the middle of the battlefield, already wounded.

  113. No way he could survive.

  114. He put him out of his misery.

  115. He ended Saul's suffering.

  116. But when we look closer, it becomes clear that this Amalekite is actually not loyal and

  117. compassionate.

  118. Instead, we see that he was self-serving and deceptive.

  119. Now turn back a page if you're looking in the Bible.

  120. 1 Samuel 31, verse 3 through 5, describes the death of Saul.

    1 Samuel 31:3–5

  121. Verse 3 says,

  122. So Saul's badly wounded.

  123. He says to his armor bearer, please, don't let me be killed by one of these foreigners.

  124. Kill me yourself.

  125. And the armor bearer says no.

  126. And so Saul falls on his sword himself.

  127. Now the Amalekite story is a little different.

  128. I saw Saul leaning on his spear, chariots and riders almost upon him.

  129. Saul asked me to end his suffering, and I did.

  130. But you know, there's something a little fishy about the Amalekite story.

  131. All right, verse 6 of chapter 1.

  132. He says,

  133. By chance, I happen to be on Mount Gilboa.

  134. That's sort of like saying,

  135. By chance, I happen to be walking through Newhallville at 2.30 in the morning.

  136. And I got mugged.

  137. Just by chance.

  138. No, it probably wasn't by chance.

  139. Right?

  140. And there was Saul, he says, all alone in the midst of the battlefield,

  141. leaning on his spear and people, the chariots and riders were upon him,

  142. but none of the Israelites were protecting him.

  143. Really?

  144. That would be very unlikely for the whole Israelite army to completely abandon

  145. the most important person, their commander-in-chief, their king,

  146. in the midst of the battle.

  147. And if the Amalekite really wanted to honor Saul,

  148. he wouldn't just swipe Saul's crown and armband.

  149. He would have at least tried to give Saul a decent burial.

  150. That was what the men of Jabesh Gilead did.

  151. Again, you can read it at the end of 1 Samuel chapter 31.

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  152. They went and retrieved Saul's bones from the Philistine temple,

  153. where the Philistines had taken them the next day,

  154. and took them back home as an expression of honor to Saul.

  155. That he wouldn't be defaced and hanging on the wall of a Philistine temple,

  156. but rather given a decent burial as an Israelite.

  157. So what really happened?

  158. Well, most likely, this Amalekite was sort of scavenging, right?

  159. The battle had ended.

  160. It was sunset.

  161. The Philistines didn't do their looting until the next day.

  162. And so he thought, hmm, maybe I can grab some things.

  163. And he comes upon Saul.

  164. And he says, ooh, I know who this is.

  165. And ooh, I know that David and Saul have been rivals.

  166. And I bet if I bring the crown from Saul's head

  167. and bring the other royal insignia to David and present them to him,

  168. I will surely get a high place in David's kingdom.

  169. And David will know that I'm loyal to him and not to Saul.

  170. You see, the Amalekite was trying to take advantage of a national,

  171. of what was really a national tragedy for his own personal advancement.

  172. And David wanted nothing to do with that.

  173. He saw through this guy's hypocrisy.

  174. Verse 13, he says, where do you come from?

  175. And he says, I'm the son of a sojourner.

  176. Now that word, sojourner, it basically means a resident alien in Israel.

  177. It means a foreigner from another nation who chose to settle and live within the borders of Israel.

  178. So in other words, this guy has grown up in Israel.

  179. He knows what he's doing.

  180. He's not just sort of a random visitor passing through,

  181. doesn't really know what's going on, doesn't really know what he's doing.

  182. He knows who Saul is.

  183. He knows who David is.

  184. He knows exactly what he's doing.

  185. And he wasn't afraid to, he was bold and shameless.

  186. And David says, why were you not afraid?

  187. Why did you have no fear of God in you?

  188. That you put out your hand to destroy the Lord's anointed.

  189. Or perhaps that he concocted this whole deceptive story that he actually had when he actually hadn't,

  190. but he was wanting to boast about it.

  191. And wanting to use it for his own personal gain.

  192. And David orders his men strike him down.

  193. Now that might seem like a very harsh response.

  194. But as David said in verse 16, your own mouth has testified against you.

  195. You said, I killed the Lord's anointed.

  196. If you kill the Lord's anointed king, you deserve the death penalty.

  197. There was no such thing as life imprisonment back then.

  198. It wasn't even possible.

  199. We can debate about the death penalty.

  200. That's another topic for another day.

  201. But if you kill the king, what else?

  202. And you see, David was on his way to becoming the king of Israel.

  203. But he wanted to make it very clear from the start.

  204. That my kingdom and God's kingdom will be marked by loyalty and truthfulness and the fear of God.

  205. And so willful deception and shameless disobedience and rejoicing over an enemy's demise must not gain a foothold in my kingdom.

  206. That's the point that David was making.

  207. That he didn't take advantage of this event.

  208. He didn't think, finally, Saul, my enemy is dead.

  209. He wept.

  210. Saul, the king.

  211. Has been killed.

  212. I think it would have been very tempting for David to simply rejoice over Saul's death.

  213. Rejoice over his newfound freedom.

  214. Perhaps immediately proclaim himself king.

  215. Before anyone else could.

  216. Immediately exterminate anyone who is connected with Saul.

  217. That was the typical practice of kings back then.

  218. You sort of clean house.

  219. And get rid of everyone else who is connected with the former kingdom.

  220. When you're replacing someone.

  221. But David didn't do that.

  222. David wept.

  223. And that's really the central emphasis of this chapter.

  224. If you look at the story in verse 1 through 16.

  225. It starts with the Amalekite arriving.

  226. And then David questions the Amalekite.

  227. And then in the middle of the conversation.

  228. When David realizes that Saul and his son Jonathan are dead.

  229. He stops the conversation.

  230. And he just weeps.

  231. And it says they wept.

  232. And they mourned.

  233. They fasted until evening.

  234. And then later on David continues the conversation.

  235. And asks him a couple more questions.

  236. And then the Amalekite departs.

  237. Or he's struck down.

  238. Right?

  239. But right in the center of this narrative.

  240. Is David weeping.

  241. And the author wants to draw our attention to that.

  242. That this whole conversation back and forth is interrupted.

  243. By David weeping.

  244. And then.

  245. In the rest of the chapter we see David's lament.

  246. For Saul.

  247. And Jonathan.

  248. And this lament.

  249. Marks the midpoint of the book of Samuel.

  250. The book of Samuel is really one book in two parts.

  251. First and second Samuel what we have.

  252. Probably just because it was too long to fit on one scroll.

  253. And so they divided it into two.

  254. For convenience.

  255. Because they couldn't fit it all in one scroll.

  256. But at the beginning of first Samuel.

  257. There's the song of Hannah.

  258. It's a song about God raising up the humble.

  259. And bringing down the proud.

  260. And at the end of second Samuel.

  261. There's a psalm of David.

  262. About how God has exalted him.

  263. And how God is my rock.

  264. And God is my fortress.

  265. And he has raised David up to be the king.

  266. And David's giving glory to God for that.

  267. And right in the middle.

  268. We have this poetic lament.

  269. And those are the three poems in the book.

  270. The rest of the book is just a long story.

  271. But this lament sort of marks the midpoint of the book.

  272. And the key line is repeated three times.

  273. Verse 19, verse 25, verse 27.

  274. How the mighty have fallen.

  275. Now I think there's a few things that we can learn from this passage about grieving.

  276. And about responding to loss and tragedies.

  277. So first, it's right to mourn the loss of a loyal friend.

  278. Who stood by you all the way to the end.

  279. This is what David does for Jonathan.

  280. David's, verse 18.

  281. There's a, verse 18 says,

  282. He said it should be taught to the people of Judah.

  283. There's a note down at the bottom.

  284. If you're looking in the ESV.

  285. And it says, in Hebrew, it says the bow.

  286. He said the bow should be taught to the people of Judah.

  287. That's probably the name of the lament.

  288. And Jonathan was particularly known for being an archer.

  289. A skilled archer.

  290. Verse 22 refers to that.

  291. And so he probably named this song sort of as a reference,

  292. as a remembrance of his friend Jonathan.

  293. His loyal friend.

  294. In verse 25 and 26, he really expresses his grief for Jonathan.

  295. You know, if you remember, in the book of 1 Samuel,

  296. Jonathan stands by David when nobody else does.

  297. Jonathan was Saul's son.

  298. So if the kingship is passed on hereditarily,

  299. Jonathan is next in line to be king.

  300. But Jonathan realizes that God has anointed David.

  301. And God has chosen David to succeed Saul rather than him.

  302. And instead of being jealous and envious, as Saul was,

  303. he sort of gives his total allegiance to David.

  304. He makes a covenant with David,

  305. which basically means an oath of allegiance to,

  306. and he says, you're going to reign.

  307. I'll be second to you.

  308. So he gladly says, I'll gladly serve under your leadership.

  309. So Jonathan protected David from the irrational anger of Saul.

  310. He went to visit David when David was all alone in the wilderness.

  311. It said he helped him find strength in the Lord.

  312. He stood up for David in ways that others were unwilling or simply unable to do.

  313. He was the most loyal friend that David ever had.

  314. And that's what David laments here.

  315. He says, I'm distressed.

  316. He says, your love has been better than the love of women.

  317. David had many wives.

  318. It was one of his flaws that almost led to his downfall.

  319. We'll see that later on.

  320. And his wives supported him and comforted him.

  321. But none of his wives stood up for him in the way that Jonathan did.

  322. And none of his wives really could have,

  323. were in the position that Jonathan was to protect him from Saul,

  324. to really save his life,

  325. and to be loyal to him as a friend.

  326. And so that's what Jonathan did.

  327. One person said, the more we love, the more we grieve.

  328. And David grieved for Jonathan as a loyal friend.

  329. But David didn't just grieve for Jonathan.

  330. David also grieved for his enemy Saul.

  331. And, you know, this was the same Saul

  332. who, when David was playing the harp in his court,

  333. threw a spear and tried to kill him.

  334. The same Saul who gathered his men

  335. and pursued David into the remote parts of the wilderness.

  336. The same Saul who caused so much trouble for David

  337. that David had to basically go and live in enemy territory.

  338. Couldn't live his own, couldn't be safe in his own country anymore.

  339. And the same Saul whose frantic attempts to hold on to power

  340. had made Israel weak and helpless before her enemies.

  341. David wept over Saul's death.

  342. David didn't see Saul only through the lens of his own experiences of him

  343. as his enemy.

  344. David saw Saul as God saw him,

  345. as a man that God had created in his image,

  346. as a man who had been called to greatness,

  347. as the first king of Israel,

  348. as a man who had once been powerfully used by God

  349. to defeat Israel's enemies,

  350. as a man who had tragically fallen through his own willful rebellion.

  351. David knew that one day God would judge Saul.

  352. But David also knew that it wasn't his responsibility

  353. to carry out God's judgment against Saul.

  354. When David was younger,

  355. when he was first brought into Saul's kingdom,

  356. he was Saul's armor bearer.

  357. That means he was Saul's trusted assistant.

  358. And Saul ideally could have become his mentor,

  359. his teacher,

  360. and his guide,

  361. but instead Saul turned on him

  362. and became his enemy,

  363. his persecutor.

  364. And their relationship was never restored.

  365. At the very,

  366. at the best,

  367. at best,

  368. there were isolated instances

  369. when Saul recognized his folly

  370. and repented of his madness.

  371. But it was never safe

  372. for David to remain close to Saul for very long.

  373. And yet David responded

  374. to the news of Saul's death with weeping.

  375. Not with rejoicing,

  376. not with indifference,

  377. but with weeping.

  378. It's right to mourn

  379. not only when a loyal friend

  380. who stood beside you all your life dies,

  381. but also when someone dies

  382. with whom you've had a broken relationship.

  383. Maybe you were married once to them

  384. and are now divorced.

  385. Maybe you were once close,

  386. but had a falling out

  387. and were never reconciled.

  388. Maybe someone in authority

  389. abused you

  390. or treated you wrongly.

  391. Part of the right response to that

  392. is to grieve.

  393. To bring the pain

  394. and the injustice of that

  395. before God Almighty.

  396. Lay it out before him.

  397. It's also right to mourn

  398. when the leaders of God's people

  399. fail

  400. and when their failures are exposed.

  401. Saul was appointed

  402. as a leader over God's people,

  403. over Israel.

  404. He had a high calling.

  405. He did not live up to it.

  406. Sometimes Christian leaders

  407. don't live up to their calling.

  408. Sometimes it tends to make the headlines

  409. when one pastor steps down

  410. because of an affair

  411. or another takes the church's money

  412. or another abuses his power,

  413. mistreats people.

  414. Sometimes our response

  415. can be to become cynical

  416. and withdraw.

  417. Sometimes our response

  418. if you're in the church

  419. and maybe if you're a leader in the church,

  420. sometimes our response can be

  421. that's them, that's not me.

  422. You know, we're not like that.

  423. I think part of the right response

  424. is simply to weep

  425. and see that this is not

  426. how God has called us to live

  427. and this is not glorifying

  428. to the name of our Lord.

  429. That's what David did here.

  430. He mourned over Saul.

  431. He mourned immediately.

  432. When we hear tragic news,

  433. sometimes it's helpful to,

  434. I mean, David seems to sort of

  435. stop everything he's doing

  436. and mourned and wept

  437. fasted until evening.

  438. Sometimes it's helpful

  439. to stop what we're doing

  440. and let the news sink in

  441. if possible to gather with others

  442. and express sorrow.

  443. But David doesn't just grieve

  444. sort of reactively and immediately

  445. in the immediate aftermath

  446. of hearing bad news.

  447. He also sits down

  448. and writes this lament.

  449. He put words to his grief.

  450. It wasn't just a stream of consciousness

  451. but an orderly expression

  452. of his grief.

  453. The song was taught

  454. to the people of Judah.

  455. It was actually handed down

  456. for generations to come,

  457. included in the Holy Scriptures.

  458. others.

  459. And I think this can also be

  460. a very helpful practice

  461. in the wake of loss

  462. or tragedy.

  463. To express our grief

  464. which tends to be

  465. disorderly and chaotic

  466. and unpredictable

  467. by its very nature.

  468. To express our grief

  469. in some kind of orderly fashion.

  470. Maybe it means write a poem

  471. or a song

  472. or draw a picture.

  473. Gather together

  474. a collection of photos.

  475. Compose a tribute.

  476. The song is

  477. has an order to it.

  478. Has a refrain

  479. How the Mighty Have Fallen

  480. repeated three times.

  481. Has three distinct parts.

  482. Verse 20 and 21

  483. are sort of negative warnings.

  484. Verse 22 and 23

  485. describe Saul and Jonathan together.

  486. Verse 24 through 26

  487. calls

  488. are sort of invitations

  489. to weep for them individually.

  490. You know,

  491. I think

  492. I think grieving

  493. and mourning

  494. is something that we

  495. we don't

  496. naturally learn to do

  497. if you grow up

  498. in this culture.

  499. Right?

  500. Because

  501. most of the time

  502. we either try to avoid

  503. death and sickness

  504. and just

  505. push it away from us

  506. and stay far away from it

  507. as much as we can

  508. or simply fight against it

  509. and that's all we

  510. try to do

  511. but we don't often

  512. have these

  513. ways

  514. of

  515. mourning

  516. and grieving

  517. and

  518. walking forward together.

  519. And so

  520. it's something

  521. we need to learn.

  522. And I think

  523. that this passage

  524. can teach us

  525. something about that.

  526. Notice also

  527. David doesn't

  528. immediately jump

  529. to words of comfort

  530. and peace

  531. and joy

  532. and assurance

  533. of God's presence.

  534. The lament

  535. is focused on

  536. remembering

  537. Saul and Jonathan

  538. their greatness

  539. as warriors

  540. and the tragedy

  541. of their loss

  542. to the nation

  543. of Israel.

  544. And you know

  545. there's a time

  546. to mourn

  547. and sometimes

  548. the way to get

  549. to a place

  550. of comfort

  551. and peace

  552. it means

  553. we have to

  554. pass through

  555. that

  556. dark valley

  557. of mourning.

  558. So as

  559. a pastor

  560. I periodically

  561. have to officiate

  562. funerals

  563. and

  564. in a traditional

  565. Christian funeral

  566. or memorial service

  567. people gather

  568. to honor

  569. the memory

  570. of a dear friend

  571. to mourn

  572. in the face

  573. of death

  574. both realizing

  575. someone else's death

  576. but also that

  577. we're all going

  578. to die

  579. and sort of

  580. facing that reality

  581. and also to find

  582. hope

  583. and comfort

  584. in the promise

  585. of the resurrection

  586. of Jesus Christ

  587. and the faithfulness

  588. of God.

  589. That's basically

  590. what a traditional

  591. Christian funeral does

  592. honor someone's memory

  593. expresses grief

  594. in the face of death

  595. and hope

  596. in the light

  597. of resurrection.

  598. But today

  599. something that's become

  600. more and more common

  601. is to have

  602. not just

  603. not a traditional

  604. funeral or memorial service

  605. but what's often called

  606. a celebration

  607. of life.

  608. To remember

  609. and as much as possible

  610. try to relive

  611. and recreate

  612. someone's unique

  613. personality.

  614. To celebrate

  615. the activities

  616. they enjoyed doing

  617. and the foods

  618. that they loved.

  619. Basically

  620. to have a party

  621. that they would have

  622. enjoyed being at.

  623. I remember

  624. going to one of these

  625. for a friend

  626. of my wife

  627. someone who was

  628. in college with her

  629. and had died

  630. in a tragic accident

  631. and that was

  632. sort of the goal

  633. to remember

  634. who he was

  635. as a mountain climber

  636. and to have a party

  637. but there wasn't

  638. there was only

  639. one moment

  640. in the whole ceremony

  641. where people

  642. were really given

  643. permission

  644. to grieve

  645. and you could hear

  646. some people

  647. just breaking

  648. into tears.

  649. Now

  650. what to say

  651. about this?

  652. It's appropriate

  653. when someone dies

  654. to give thanks

  655. for their life

  656. and to honor

  657. their accomplishments.

  658. That's what David

  659. does for Saul

  660. and Jonathan here.

  661. But it's also

  662. actually important

  663. to really mourn

  664. and to face

  665. the reality of death

  666. and not to

  667. celebrate someone's life

  668. while pretending

  669. that death

  670. and mourning

  671. isn't a reality.

  672. That can sometimes

  673. just be an expression

  674. of denial

  675. and reflecting

  676. sometimes the fact

  677. that we don't know

  678. how to deal with death.

  679. And one of the things

  680. that the Bible

  681. invites us into

  682. is

  683. to learn

  684. to mourn

  685. and to lament.

  686. David called

  687. that's what David

  688. does in verse 24

  689. he calls upon

  690. the daughters of Israel

  691. to mourn for Saul

  692. he also mourns

  693. personally

  694. pours out his grief

  695. for Jonathan.

  696. Ecclesiastes

  697. Ecclesiastes 7

    Ecclesiastes 7:2

  698. verse 2

  699. says this

  700. better to go

  701. to the house

  702. of mourning

  703. than the house

  704. of feasting

  705. because death

  706. is the destiny

  707. of every person

  708. and the living

  709. should take it

  710. to heart.

  711. In other words

  712. the only way

  713. to genuine comfort

  714. and deep healing

  715. from God

  716. involves going

  717. through

  718. mourning

  719. and lamenting.

  720. Now this is hard.

  721. I acknowledge

  722. this is

  723. you know

  724. I was thinking

  725. about this sermon

  726. I was like

  727. this is sort of

  728. the first sermon

  729. of the new school year

  730. and you know

  731. people are excited

  732. to be here

  733. and I'm like

  734. and I've got this text

  735. and I tried to frame

  736. it in other ways

  737. and I tried to think

  738. about it in other ways

  739. and I'm like

  740. this is really

  741. a lot of what

  742. this text

  743. is teaching us to do

  744. is to learn

  745. to lament

  746. and learn to mourn

  747. and Jesus said

  748. blessed are those

  749. who mourn

  750. for they will be

  751. comforted

  752. and he doesn't just

  753. mean blessed are

  754. those who mourn

  755. when your friend dies

  756. that's part of it

  757. but also those

  758. who mourn over

  759. our own sin

  760. and our own fallenness

  761. and turn toward God

  762. and those who mourn

  763. over the tragedy

  764. that sin has wrecked

  765. in the world

  766. that our rebellion

  767. against God

  768. and all of its

  769. terrible consequences

  770. part of the right

  771. response to that

  772. is to mourn

  773. over that

  774. and to bring that

  775. before God

  776. and to call out

  777. Jesus

  778. let your kingdom

  779. come

  780. Jesus

  781. let your will

  782. be done

  783. come

  784. we need you

  785. we long

  786. for you

  787. now this doesn't

  788. mean that we should

  789. remain paralyzed

  790. by grief

  791. David went on

  792. to do many things

  793. he went on

  794. to rule over Israel

  795. he went on

  796. to fight great

  797. battles

  798. and bless

  799. God's people

  800. and bring them

  801. together

  802. as united people

  803. he went on

  804. to reign

  805. as king

  806. so there's a time

  807. to stop everything

  808. and mourn

  809. there's a time

  810. to get up

  811. and continue working

  812. even if you still

  813. feel the loss

  814. of a loved one

  815. very acutely

  816. and deeply

  817. so this is what

  818. we see in David's

  819. response to the

  820. death of Saul

  821. he responds

  822. not by pursuing

  823. his own self

  824. interest

  825. not by rejoicing

  826. that his enemy

  827. has fallen

  828. but by mourning

  829. over him

  830. and you know

  831. we see this

  832. in David's life

  833. but in the

  834. New Testament

  835. we see Jesus

  836. Christ

  837. the true

  838. and everlasting

  839. king

  840. and we see

  841. the same thing

  842. with Jesus

  843. many of us

  844. think about

  845. Jesus mourning

  846. for Lazarus

  847. his friend

  848. who got sick

  849. and died

  850. and Jesus

  851. went to his grave

  852. and he wept

  853. but Jesus

  854. also wept

  855. over Jerusalem

  856. he said this

  857. Luke 19

  858. 41

  859. when Jesus

  860. drew near

  861. excuse me

  862. when Jesus

  863. drew near

  864. and saw the city

  865. of Jerusalem

  866. he wept over it

  867. saying would

  868. that you

  869. even you

  870. had known

  871. on this day

  872. the things

  873. that make

  874. for peace

  875. but now

  876. they are hidden

  877. from your eyes

  878. for the days

  879. will come upon

  880. you

  881. when your enemies

  882. will set up

  883. a barricade

  884. around you

  885. and surround

  886. you

  887. and hem

  888. you in

  889. on every

  890. side

  891. and tear

  892. you down

  893. to the ground

  894. and they

  895. will not

  896. leave one

  897. stone

  898. upon another

  899. Jesus warned

  900. the people

  901. in Jerusalem

  902. that there

  903. was a coming

  904. destruction

  905. because of

  906. their rebellion

  907. against God

  908. and their

  909. rejection

  910. of his

  911. Messiah

  912. but he

  913. wept

  914. over that

  915. city

  916. and he

  917. wept

  918. over those

  919. people

  920. he wasn't

  921. indifferent

  922. and cold

  923. to them

  924. he wept

  925. over them

  926. in the book

  927. of Revelation

  928. Jesus is

  929. described

  930. as a lion

  931. who will

  932. rule the

  933. nations

  934. a strong

  935. king

  936. but he's

  937. also described

  938. as a lamb

  939. who laid

  940. down his

  941. life

  942. in humble

  943. sacrifice

  944. you see

  945. more than

  946. David

  947. more than

  948. anyone else

  949. in the history

  950. of the world

  951. Jesus had

  952. enemies

  953. we think

  954. about

  955. the Pharisees

  956. who plotted

  957. against him

  958. and the

  959. Roman officials

  960. who were

  961. happy to

  962. have him

  963. crucified

  964. so it would

  965. cause less

  966. trouble for

  967. them

  968. but in

  969. some sense

  970. the whole

  971. story of the

  972. Bible

  973. is about

  974. God

  975. and how

  976. God will

  977. deal with

  978. his enemies

  979. because from

  980. the beginning

  981. Satan and

  982. the angels

  983. rebelled

  984. against God

  985. Adam and

  986. Eve

  987. in the

  988. garden of

  989. Eden

  990. rebelled

  991. against God

  992. and all

  993. of us

  994. have followed

  995. in their

  996. footsteps

  997. and really

  998. the big

  999. question of

  1000. the Bible

  1001. is how

  1002. will God

  1003. deal with

  1004. people

  1005. who

  1006. in all

  1007. kinds of

  1008. ways

  1009. are trying

  1010. to

  1011. exclude him

  1012. from our

  1013. life

  1014. and dishonor

  1015. him

  1016. and put

  1017. ourselves

  1018. in the

  1019. center

  1020. where he

  1021. should be

  1022. and glorify

  1023. ourselves

  1024. and get

  1025. the glory

  1026. and honor

  1027. for us

  1028. and for

  1029. I mean

  1030. we sort of

  1031. want to be

  1032. the king

  1033. when he's

  1034. the rightful

  1035. king

  1036. and the

  1037. question is

  1038. how will

  1039. God deal

  1040. with us

  1041. and the

  1042. good news

  1043. is what

  1044. Paul says

  1045. in Romans

    Romans 5 chapter mention

  1046. chapter 5

  1047. God shows

  1048. his love

  1049. for us

  1050. in that

  1051. while we

  1052. were still

  1053. sinners

  1054. Jesus Christ

  1055. died for

  1056. us

  1057. if while

  1058. we were

  1059. God's

  1060. enemies

  1061. we were

  1062. reconciled

  1063. to God

  1064. by the

  1065. death

  1066. of his

  1067. son

  1068. much more

  1069. now that

  1070. we are

  1071. reconciled

  1072. shall we

  1073. be saved

  1074. by his

  1075. life

  1076. we'll

  1077. go on

  1078. to see

  1079. more

  1080. of

  1081. David

  1082. how

  1083. he

  1084. deals

  1085. with

  1086. his

  1087. enemies

  1088. how

  1089. he

  1090. deals

  1091. with

  1092. all

  1093. kinds

  1094. of

  1095. other

  1096. things

  1097. but

  1098. the

  1099. the

  1100. main

  1101. message

  1102. of

  1103. the

  1104. Bible

  1105. is

  1106. that

  1107. though

  1108. we

  1109. were

  1110. enemies

  1111. of

  1112. God

  1113. that

  1114. God

  1115. has

  1116. come

  1117. and

  1118. reconciled

  1119. us

  1120. to

  1121. himself

  1122. and

  1123. he

  1124. invites

  1125. us

  1126. to

  1127. be

  1128. reconciled

  1129. to

  1130. him

  1131. let's

  1132. pray

  1133. Lord

  1134. God

  1135. we

  1136. thank

  1137. you

  1138. for

  1139. your

  1140. scripture

  1141. that

  1142. speaks

  1143. to

  1144. us

  1145. about

  1146. many

  1147. things

  1148. that

  1149. we

  1150. might

  1151. otherwise

  1152. neglect

  1153. or

  1154. ignore

  1155. Lord

  1156. we

  1157. thank

  1158. you

  1159. for

  1160. how

  1161. you

  1162. call

  1163. us

  1164. to

  1165. mourn

  1166. over

  1167. the

  1168. fallenness

  1169. and

  1170. rebellion

  1171. and

  1172. brokenness

  1173. of

  1174. this

  1175. world

  1176. we

  1177. thank

  1178. you

  1179. Jesus

  1180. for

  1181. how

  1182. you

  1183. came

  1184. in

  1185. your

  1186. compassion

  1187. and

  1188. laid

  1189. down

  1190. your

  1191. life

  1192. for

  1193. us

  1194. on

  1195. the

  1196. cross

  1197. so

  1198. that

  1199. we

  1200. might

  1201. be

  1202. reconciled

  1203. to

  1204. you

  1205. so

  1206. we

  1207. might

  1208. be

  1209. at

  1210. peace

  1211. with

  1212. you

  1213. so

  1214. that

  1215. we

  1216. might

  1217. belong

  1218. to

  1219. you

  1220. and

  1221. be

  1222. part

  1223. of

  1224. your

  1225. kingdom

  1226. forever

  1227. Lord

  1228. we

  1229. pray

  1230. that

  1231. you

  1232. would

  1233. we

  1234. pray

  1235. that

  1236. you

  1237. would

  1238. teach

  1239. us

  1240. how

  1241. to

  1242. mourn

  1243. and

  1244. how

  1245. to

  1246. hunger

  1247. and

  1248. thirst

  1249. for

  1250. your

  1251. righteousness

  1252. how

  1253. to

  1254. mourn

  1255. not

  1256. not

  1257. because

  1258. we

  1259. have

  1260. no

  1261. hope

  1262. but

  1263. because

  1264. we

  1265. have

  1266. hope

  1267. in

  1268. you

  1269. that

  1270. one

  1271. day

  1272. you

  1273. will

  1274. come

  1275. and

  1276. make

  1277. all

  1278. things

  1279. new

  1280. and

  1281. for

  1282. all

  1283. who

  1284. turn

  1285. to

  1286. you

  1287. one

  1288. day

  1289. we

  1290. will

  1291. be

  1292. part

  1293. of

  1294. your

  1295. kingdom

  1296. and

  1297. we

  1298. will

  1299. be

  1300. healed

  1301. and

  1302. we

  1303. will

  1304. rejoice

  1305. and

  1306. there

  1307. will

  1308. be

  1309. no

  1310. more

  1311. mourning

  1312. Lord

  1313. we

  1314. pray

  1315. that

  1316. you

  1317. teach

  1318. us

  1319. to

  1320. walk

  1321. in

  1322. the

  1323. path

  1324. of

  1325. the

  1326. cross

  1327. Lord

  1328. knowing

  1329. that

  1330. you

  1331. have

  1332. gone

  1333. before

  1334. us

  1335. and

  1336. pay

  1337. the

  1338. great

  1339. price

  1340. on

  1341. our

  1342. behalf

  1343. we

  1344. pray

  1345. this

  1346. in

  1347. Jesus

  1348. name

  1349. amen