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1 Corinthians 4:6-21

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  1. Father, we come now before you, before your word.

  2. Lord, we ask that you would speak to us this morning.

  3. Lord, thank you that by your Holy Spirit you enable us to know spiritual truths, Lord,

  4. that are wonderful, precious, sweet.

  5. Lord, we pray this morning that we would not have hard hearts, Lord, and that we would

  6. not resist your teaching, but Lord, that you would give us soft hearts to receive what

  7. you have to speak to us this morning.

  8. God, I pray for your help, that I might proclaim your word faithfully, that Christ would be

  9. lifted up in our midst.

  10. Lord, be with us, we pray, in Jesus' name.

  11. Amen.

  12. My son Eli had a doctor's appointment, actually a dentist appointment this week.

  13. He's seven and his teeth are coming in.

  14. His two lower front teeth are coming in, but his baby teeth haven't fallen out.

  15. As a matter of fact, until this week, they hadn't even been loose.

  16. And I, as a, doing this for the first time around, had no idea how serious this was or

  17. not.

  18. So I called the dentist, made up an appointment.

  19. I was hoping they could just call me back and talk me through it, but they couldn't.

  20. They had to set up an appointment.

  21. So, so we set him up to take him in on Thursday.

  22. And, you know, my poor little boy, he just hates being treated for things like cuts and

  23. bruises and, you know, band-aids.

  24. He just, he hates it.

  25. And I thought, oh, Lord, if they have to take out four of his little teeth to make room for

  26. those big honking ones that are sticking up through his gums right now.

  27. Oh, Lord, have mercy on him.

  28. I just wanted so much for him to not have to go through that.

  29. I wanted so much for him to not go through that pain and that trial.

  30. And I realized that it's just a little window into my heart.

  31. That's how I often think about him and Katie.

  32. As a parent, I want them to not have to go through trials and loss.

  33. I hope that as they go to school, they don't have to face mockery and scorn from their peers

  34. at school.

  35. I pray as they grow that they won't have to face the sufferings of disappointment, of dashed

  36. hopes and broken hearts.

  37. I'll be honest with you.

  38. I think, haven't they already seen enough?

  39. Haven't they lost enough?

  40. And you know, it's not a bad instinct for a parent to feel this way about their children.

  41. Goodness, it's far better than neglecting them or not caring at all what happens to them.

  42. But as I examined my heart this week and as we looked at our, as I was studying this passage,

  43. I saw in it that there's a deeper longing in my heart.

  44. I just want my life to be free from suffering and trial altogether.

  45. I want it to be successful.

  46. I want it to be triumphant.

  47. Even the trials, I want to be able to say, I've overcome them and look at all the good

  48. that they've produced in my life.

  49. I want it to be easy and carefree.

  50. I think we live in a world where this is often the subtext that life is supposed to work.

  51. It's supposed to work out well.

  52. Even the hard things produce good things.

  53. And if there's something wrong, there must be a problem and the problem has to be fixed

  54. or we sue somebody.

  55. I think we spend in our culture a lot of time avoiding pain and suffering.

  56. And you know, I think we can even import this into the church

  57. and think that, well, isn't this what God wants for us?

  58. God has saved us from sin.

  59. God has saved us from our foolishness.

  60. God has, in Christ, given us a new life.

  61. It gives us hope that God will be good to us.

  62. Not only in our eternal salvation, but in our everyday life.

  63. And again, this is not an untrue thing that God would be good to us in our everyday life.

  64. And yet, we expect God to preserve us from every pain and trial.

  65. To preserve us and rescue us from every distress quickly.

  66. And when he doesn't, we blame.

  67. We reject him.

  68. We withdraw from him.

  69. I think we often go through our life, rather than asking the question that I think the Bible wants us to ask,

  70. which is, how can we glorify God in whatever our situation?

  71. We ask ourselves and God the question, how can I avoid pain in this situation?

  72. Here's your test.

  73. Think about how you pray.

  74. When you have an evaluation at work.

  75. As you think about your kid going off to junior high.

  76. As you go on a date.

  77. Or, nowadays, a dating online match moment.

  78. I don't even know what that is.

  79. When you go into your doctor's office for your routine evaluation.

  80. Or, for something that you don't know quite what it is.

  81. When you launch out on a new business venture.

  82. Set off to a new place to live.

  83. What do you pray for?

  84. Do you pray for anything other than God's help?

  85. That your endeavors would be successful.

  86. That your problems would be fixed.

  87. I know that I often don't pray for much more than that.

  88. Maybe you're like me.

  89. Thankfully, God has spoken to us in his word.

  90. And so, if you want to turn with me.

  91. Page 953.

  92. We're looking at 1 Corinthians chapter 4.

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  93. Starting in verse 6.

  94. We're looking at verse 6 to the end of the chapter.

  95. And as we turn there.

  96. I want to remind you.

  97. Because this is actually the end of a section.

  98. The first four chapters of the book of 1 Corinthians.

  99. Are kind of an opening salvo.

  100. And then you will see a strong transition.

  101. Beginning of chapter 5.

  102. And in this, Paul has been addressing broadly.

  103. Their understanding of the Christian life.

  104. Of what Christian leadership ought to look like.

  105. And specifically.

  106. Of what the gospel that they believe.

  107. Actually is and promises.

  108. And for much of this.

  109. He has been uncovering.

  110. In their thinking.

  111. And in their hearts.

  112. That their understanding is far more Corinthian.

  113. Than it is Christian.

  114. Far more Corinthian.

  115. Than it is cruciform.

  116. Shaped by the cross.

  117. One commentator explained.

  118. That for the Corinthian church.

  119. It seemed that their values.

  120. Were form above content.

  121. Prestige above humility.

  122. Stoicism above passion.

  123. An organizing philosophy of wisdom.

  124. Above frank confession.

  125. Frank confession of ignorance.

  126. And the limitations of human knowledge.

  127. Rhetoric above truth.

  128. Money above people.

  129. And reputation above integrity.

  130. The church had in many ways.

  131. Adopted the thinking of the culture.

  132. That they had lived in.

  133. And one of the effects of it.

  134. Was that they thought.

  135. That the kingdom had already come.

  136. They took the successful.

  137. Get ahead culture.

  138. Of Corinth.

  139. And they imported it.

  140. Into their understanding of God's kingdom.

  141. And they thought.

  142. That the kingdom that was.

  143. That is future.

  144. Has now become theirs.

  145. In the present.

  146. That.

  147. They wanted to get ahead.

  148. For God to be sure.

  149. But by the means.

  150. Of the Corinthian thought patterns.

  151. Paul has been unpacking this.

  152. And attacking it.

  153. Over and over again.

  154. In the last three and a half chapters.

  155. And here.

  156. He ends with a very passionate.

  157. And very personal appeal.

  158. To the Corinthians.

  159. To consider.

  160. What God has actually called them to.

  161. So let's read this passage together.

  162. First Corinthians chapter four.

  163. Starting in verse six.

  164. I have applied all these things to myself.

  165. And Apollos.

  166. For your benefit brothers.

  167. That you may learn by us.

  168. Not to go beyond.

  169. What is written.

  170. That none of you may be puffed up.

  171. In favor of one another.

  172. One against another.

  173. For who sees anything different.

  174. In you.

  175. What do you have.

  176. That you did not receive.

  177. If then you received it.

  178. Why do you boast.

  179. As if you did not receive it.

  180. Already you have all you want.

  181. Already you've become rich.

  182. Without us.

  183. You have become kings.

  184. And would that you did reign.

  185. So that we might share the rule with you.

  186. For I think God has exhibited us apostles.

  187. As last of all.

  188. Like men sentenced to death.

  189. Because we have become a spectacle to the world.

  190. To angels.

  191. And to men.

  192. We are fools for Christ's sake.

  193. But you are wise in Christ.

  194. We are weak.

  195. But you are strong.

  196. You are held in honor.

  197. But we in disrepute.

  198. To the present hour.

  199. We hunger and thirst.

  200. We are poorly dressed.

  201. And buffeted.

  202. And homeless.

  203. And we labor.

  204. Working with our own hands.

  205. When reviled.

  206. We bless.

  207. When persecuted.

  208. We endure.

  209. When slandered.

  210. We entreat.

  211. We have become.

  212. And are still.

  213. Like the scum.

  214. Of the world.

  215. The refuse.

  216. Of all things.

  217. I do not write these things.

  218. To make you ashamed.

  219. But to admonish you.

  220. As my beloved children.

  221. For though you have countless guides.

  222. In Christ.

  223. You do not have many fathers.

  224. For I became your father.

  225. And Christ Jesus.

  226. Through the gospel.

  227. I urge you then.

  228. Be imitators of me.

  229. This is why I sent you Timothy.

  230. My beloved and faithful child.

  231. And the Lord.

  232. To remind you of my ways.

  233. In Christ.

  234. As I teach them everywhere.

  235. In every church.

  236. Some are arrogant.

  237. As though I were not coming to you.

  238. But I will come to you soon.

  239. If the Lord wills.

  240. And I will find out.

  241. Not their talk.

  242. Not the talk of these arrogant people.

  243. But their power.

  244. For the kingdom of God.

  245. Does not consist in talk.

  246. But in power.

  247. What do you wish?

  248. Shall I come to you with a rod.

  249. Or with love.

  250. In a spirit of gentleness.

  251. In this argument.

  252. There is actually only two central commands.

  253. That he said.

  254. And one is an implication.

  255. That you might not be puffed up.

  256. The central command here.

  257. Is what we see in verse.

  258. I took off my glasses.

  259. What is it?

  260. 16.

  261. Verse 16.

  262. Imitate me.

  263. Imitate me.

  264. This is the.

  265. This is Paul's passionate appeal.

  266. To the Corinthian church.

  267. Is to say.

  268. You have been thinking so much.

  269. About your own culture.

  270. You have been so influenced.

  271. By the ways of thinking around you.

  272. And maybe even by leaders among you.

  273. As we see at the end of this chapter.

  274. But would you.

  275. My beloved children.

  276. Imitate me.

  277. Follow my example.

  278. Not in boasting.

  279. Not in self-promotion.

  280. Not in self-exaltation.

  281. Not in self-dependence.

  282. But in self-denial.

  283. And sacrifice.

  284. Following.

  285. In the footsteps of the Savior.

  286. Imitate me.

  287. In following Christ.

  288. Paul unpacks this passage.

  289. There are two different things.

  290. I want to look at this morning.

  291. As we look at.

  292. What it is that Paul is saying.

  293. As he's doing this.

  294. I want to look first.

  295. At the relationship.

  296. On which this appeal.

  297. Was grounded.

  298. And secondly.

  299. I want to look at the pattern.

  300. That he put forward.

  301. For us to imitate.

  302. So let's look first.

  303. At the relationship.

  304. That Paul had.

  305. The relationship.

  306. That gave the grounds.

  307. For this imitation.

  308. First.

  309. What we see is that Paul loved.

  310. The Corinthian church.

  311. To them.

  312. To him.

  313. They were like family.

  314. You see it in verse 6.

  315. My beloved.

  316. My brothers.

  317. I've done this to you.

  318. Because you are my brothers.

  319. In Christ.

  320. I don't lord it over you.

  321. I am not simply trying to come in.

  322. And fix you.

  323. As some authority.

  324. I am your brother.

  325. In this.

  326. And then as we saw.

  327. In 14 through 17.

  328. He says.

  329. Not only am I your brother.

  330. But I'm your father.

  331. Verse 15.

  332. When it says.

  333. I have become your father.

  334. The word there.

  335. Is the same word.

  336. To birth a child.

  337. And it's interesting.

  338. The way Paul puts it.

  339. Isn't it?

  340. He didn't say.

  341. I have birthed you.

  342. He said.

  343. I have become your father.

  344. Because the gospel.

  345. Has begotten you.

  346. As my child.

  347. Do you see how he says that?

  348. I became your father.

  349. In Christ Jesus.

  350. Through the gospel.

  351. Paul isn't saying.

  352. I'm appealing to you.

  353. Because I have done all these great things in your life.

  354. Paul is saying.

  355. No.

  356. The gospel has done great things.

  357. And I've had the privilege.

  358. Of being a vehicle.

  359. Through which the gospel has worked.

  360. In you.

  361. And I love you.

  362. And I love you enough.

  363. Not to back down.

  364. I love you enough.

  365. Not to say.

  366. Hey.

  367. I just given my opinion.

  368. Do your own thing.

  369. He loves them enough.

  370. To say.

  371. I will come.

  372. It will either be with a rod.

  373. Or it will be with gentleness.

  374. It will either come with strength.

  375. Of rebuke.

  376. Or it will come.

  377. With the gentleness.

  378. Of embrace.

  379. He loves them that much.

  380. And he does say.

  381. I have become your father.

  382. So imitate me.

  383. This was a cultural pattern.

  384. That in our modern world.

  385. We have very little sense of.

  386. But in the ancient world.

  387. And in fact.

  388. In most places in the world.

  389. In most times.

  390. Sons would follow.

  391. In the footsteps of their father.

  392. Think of how in the English language.

  393. We have some great last names.

  394. Baker.

  395. And Smith.

  396. Do you know why they have that last name?

  397. Because their dad was the baker.

  398. And then the son was the baker.

  399. And the son after him.

  400. Was the baker.

  401. And so you just kept your name.

  402. Or in the Scandinavian countries.

  403. How many of you are named.

  404. Peterson.

  405. Or Svensson.

  406. Or Olson.

  407. Or Olofsson.

  408. Or whatever.

  409. I'm the son of my father.

  410. And that's my identity.

  411. And I follow in his footsteps.

  412. And I bear his name.

  413. Think of even how the crowds responded to Jesus.

  414. When he began his ministry.

  415. Isn't he the carpenter's son?

  416. Shouldn't he be in his woodshed?

  417. Workshop?

  418. Working?

  419. What is he doing?

  420. Preaching?

  421. This isn't what he's done.

  422. So Paul is leaning on a cultural pattern of imitation.

  423. He's saying, I have become your father.

  424. Not a pedagogue.

  425. Not a...

  426. The word here for countless guides.

  427. Might be best translated a governess or a nanny.

  428. Someone who takes over the full-time care and moral development of a child for a period of time.

  429. But not forever.

  430. And in the ancient Near East, there's a clear distinction between who is the father.

  431. And who was the caretaker on a day-to-day basis.

  432. And Paul says, you have many who can come and teach you and take care of you.

  433. He's not trying to pick a fight with the other teachers.

  434. Apollos and Peter and others.

  435. Saying they're a blessing to you.

  436. But you only have one father.

  437. Imitate me.

  438. Finally, I want you to see that in his relationship, his focus was not on himself.

  439. It's so easy for us, isn't it?

  440. As people to try to sort of leverage our personal relationships to get someone else to do what we want to do.

  441. Hey, I did all this for you.

  442. Come on.

  443. Give me a little...

  444. Give me a little something in return.

  445. If we have authority over someone, we can wield that in a way to manipulate or to control.

  446. Paul isn't doing any of that.

  447. So striking in verse 14.

  448. I don't write this that you would be ashamed.

  449. Don't be ashamed of who you are.

  450. Don't be ashamed of what God has done in your life.

  451. Don't be ashamed of me.

  452. I don't want this to be a guilt trip for you.

  453. It is instead an invitation.

  454. I want to draw out of you the best.

  455. I want to elicit you to find what is right and good and true.

  456. And to pursue that.

  457. He intervenes for their good.

  458. The thought that Paul would be wielding his relationship with them for his own benefit flies in the whole face of the passage.

  459. Because that's not the pattern.

  460. I wonder if you've ever had a relationship like this in your life.

  461. I'm thankful to say that I've had many.

  462. I sat down this week and I counted four turning point incidents in my life.

  463. Where I had whether mentors or friends.

  464. Men and women both.

  465. Who spoke into my life.

  466. I can think of Bill who confronted me about my lack of responsibility in a dating relationship.

  467. outside of a dormitory at college.

  468. I talked to him.

  469. I thought of a dear sister who sat me down when I was a young foolish and one of those really dangerous guys who was really nice.

  470. And didn't quite know what he was doing.

  471. And said, you've got to learn how to have more self-control so you can love your sisters well.

  472. And not be confusing.

  473. I can think of a couple who called me on a decision that I was making.

  474. And they said, we think you're doing this for selfish ambition.

  475. And not for desire for the kingdom.

  476. I can think of a time here at Trinity when I was confronted by a brother about my lack of grace.

  477. And you know, sometimes I saw the wisdom of their statements in the moment.

  478. Sometimes it took years for me to really understand it.

  479. But each of them said, you're not living up to your profession to follow Christ.

  480. You're being foolish when you think you are wise.

  481. You're being proud instead of humble.

  482. I'm thankful for them.

  483. I'm humbled by them.

  484. And I want to imitate them.

  485. I think Paul's example is one for us to consider as well.

  486. How we might bring these dynamics into our relationships.

  487. Obviously this applies to a discipling relationship or to church leadership as we lead the church.

  488. That we might do this.

  489. Sense both the weightiness and the responsibility to have these kinds of relationships.

  490. For any of you who are parents, you recognize this is a part of what we do in parenting as well, isn't it?

  491. But also in spiritual friendships.

  492. The examples I gave many were mentors.

  493. But one was just a friend, a sister, who sat me down and helped me see something that I couldn't see.

  494. And I wonder if we have those kinds of relationships that are based in love.

  495. That are calling us to live out the profession that God has given us.

  496. Willing to confront where we think wrongly.

  497. Willing to love, not to shame, but to encourage and exhort one another to follow Christ.

  498. Do we value people doing this in our own lives?

  499. Do we value, do we seek to cultivate these kinds of relationships as we initiate them with others?

  500. But this is only setting up the content of the passage, the rest of the passage, isn't it?

  501. Because this is the basis upon which the appeal to imitate Paul is laid in this familial, loving relationship.

  502. But then we see Paul saying, what is it that you're to imitate with me?

  503. And he sets up this contrast.

  504. He says, the pattern for you, that you are to imitate in me is one of boasting in nothing.

  505. But in the cross of Jesus Christ and him crucified.

  506. And walking a path of life that is patterned by that crucified Messiah.

  507. As you look, verses 7 through 13, you see this constant contrast.

  508. You, we, you, we, you, we.

  509. He's saying, there's a pattern that I see in your life that looks like this.

  510. But the pattern that I have lived looks like this.

  511. And he says, imitate this.

  512. What is this?

  513. Well, let's look at it.

  514. Let's look at this contrast together.

  515. The Corinthian way.

  516. Start with me in verse 7.

  517. Who sees anything different?

  518. That is, who sees anything special in you?

  519. What do you have that you did not receive?

  520. And if you received it, then why do you boast of it as if you didn't?

  521. The very core of the Corinthian problem was that of pride.

  522. They had an inflated sense of self-worth.

  523. Like Tom Hanks in Castaway sitting on this beach saying,

  524. Look what I have created when he lights a bonfire.

  525. But we think about everything in our life that way.

  526. And rather than seeing that every good and perfect gift comes from the Father above,

  527. we take these things and we make them ours.

  528. And then we say, look what a great thing I am.

  529. And when we do this, we fall into all the patterns that we've been talking about for the last two and a half months.

  530. We compare to one another.

  531. Am I ahead of them or not?

  532. We compete.

  533. We lift ourselves up by putting other people down.

  534. Taking credit for the things that we have that other people don't so that we can feel more important.

  535. We build our identities on things that separate us from others.

  536. And in doing so, we jockey for greatness.

  537. And that pride is expressed in a kind of arrogance.

  538. It builds one another up.

  539. It's fascinating thinking about how to read this passage.

  540. Because if you've ever wondered whether sarcasm is okay,

  541. for those of us who are in New England, we love it.

  542. Right?

  543. Paul got sarcastic here.

  544. Right?

  545. He got ironic here.

  546. In verse 8,

  547. he's saying something that is both true and untrue at the same time about them.

  548. Already you have all that you want.

  549. Already you are rich.

  550. Already you have begun to reign,

  551. which is the best translation of that phrase.

  552. You have begun to reign with Christ.

  553. Christ.

  554. And look, if we went back,

  555. if you were here two weeks ago,

  556. when Greg preached on the end of chapter 3,

  557. you see this, right?

  558. All things are yours in Christ.

  559. So in one level, this is true.

  560. And yet, because of the way they held it,

  561. because they took these things,

  562. and rather than seeing them as received from the Lord,

  563. they took credit for them,

  564. and they puffed themselves up with it.

  565. In fact, they were empty rather than full of all that Christ had done for them.

  566. They're boasting empties themselves.

  567. And like a souffle before it's pricked and collapses,

  568. like cotton candy that looks so good and yet disappears in your mouth as soon as you touch it,

  569. Paul says, this is what your lives are.

  570. In your pride, you have built a great facade,

  571. and there is no substance in it.

  572. You have a misperception of yourselves,

  573. and the fruit of it is destructive.

  574. You haven't even gotten what you truly want.

  575. For what you want is true wisdom,

  576. true spiritual life,

  577. true greatness.

  578. True power.

  579. And in fact, you have none of those things,

  580. because you have sought to build them yourself,

  581. and take them from the world,

  582. and establish yourself in the worldly pattern,

  583. rather than receiving these things from Christ.

  584. And Paul says,

  585. you are in grave danger,

  586. because if you follow in this pattern,

  587. you are robbing God of his glory.

  588. You are denying all of the things that he has done for you.

  589. And you are refusing to see how he has done it,

  590. and embrace him as your pattern.

  591. And so Paul says,

  592. you have done all of these things,

  593. this has been your pattern,

  594. but we have done these things.

  595. We have followed a different pattern,

  596. the way of the cross.

  597. What is this characterized by?

  598. Strikingly,

  599. in verse 9,

  600. God has exhibited,

  601. God has appointed us.

  602. His starting point is not,

  603. look what we have done,

  604. but this is what God has done.

  605. God called us into this.

  606. God has called us into this path.

  607. We probably wouldn't have chosen it,

  608. in our own wisdom,

  609. but God has called us to this.

  610. It is a part of his plan,

  611. and it is good.

  612. And what does it look like?

  613. Friends,

  614. are you ready for all these?

  615. We have become a spectacle.

  616. Becoming a spectacle,

  617. usually is not a good thing.

  618. And here,

  619. Paul certainly means it that way.

  620. The world looks at you and thinks,

  621. are you kidding me?

  622. Seriously?

  623. Really?

  624. Foolishness?

  625. Weakness?

  626. Dishonor?

  627. We've become like a freak show.

  628. Whoever that is,

  629. I don't get it.

  630. I don't understand it.

  631. Paul goes on and he says,

  632. I've embraced the suffering.

  633. Physical suffering,

  634. hardship,

  635. hunger,

  636. and thirst.

  637. No clothing,

  638. no shelter.

  639. I've experienced the scorn and derision of other people.

  640. I worked with my hands,

  641. like a slave.

  642. It's like President Obama,

  643. vacuuming his own office.

  644. And even we are way too democratic to get,

  645. that actually doesn't strike us as odd.

  646. We'd be like the King of England,

  647. cleaning his toilet.

  648. That's the kind of

  649. shockiness

  650. of a spiritual teacher

  651. working with his hands

  652. to earn his own

  653. in the eyes of the Corinthians.

  654. He worked with his hands.

  655. He was reviled.

  656. He was slandered.

  657. He was persecuted.

  658. And then,

  659. one of my most favorite,

  660. though most striking verses,

  661. we have become

  662. and still are,

  663. verse 13,

  664. the scum of the world,

  665. the refuse

  666. of all things.

  667. Have you ever left a coffee mug

  668. in a hot window

  669. with a little milk in the bottom of it

  670. for a couple weeks?

  671. Have you ever cleaned out

  672. the grease trap

  673. under your sink?

  674. Have you ever walked

  675. the streets

  676. of a third world country

  677. where you share

  678. the sidewalk

  679. or the road,

  680. there's no difference,

  681. with

  682. scooters

  683. and bikes

  684. and cars

  685. and trucks

  686. and cattle

  687. and sheep

  688. and

  689. donkeys

  690. and

  691. chickens?

  692. Have you ever seen

  693. what you would scrape

  694. off the bottom of your shoe

  695. at the end of the day?

  696. That's what the refuse

  697. of all things is.

  698. That's what the scum

  699. of the world is.

  700. They are things

  701. that are not only

  702. ugly

  703. and distasteful,

  704. but they're actually

  705. offensive.

  706. And Paul says,

  707. this

  708. is what God

  709. has appointed

  710. for us.

  711. This is the pattern

  712. that God has set

  713. for us

  714. to do it.

  715. And do you see

  716. there is no room

  717. for pride here?

  718. There's no room

  719. for boasting

  720. and self.

  721. There is instead

  722. a refining work

  723. that empties us

  724. of all of our

  725. self-promotion

  726. and self-exaltation

  727. and self-dependence

  728. and, dare I say,

  729. it's self-esteem.

  730. It refines us

  731. and empties us

  732. of self

  733. and fills us

  734. instead

  735. with something else.

  736. It fills us

  737. with love.

  738. Do you see?

  739. This is what

  740. the end of verse 12

  741. and beginning of verse 13

  742. say.

  743. In the midst

  744. of all of this

  745. suffering

  746. that I endure

  747. for the sake

  748. of the gospel

  749. when I am treated

  750. like the scum

  751. of the earth,

  752. when people

  753. look at me

  754. and think

  755. I'm a freak show,

  756. I seek to bless them.

  757. I want their good.

  758. I entreat them.

  759. That is,

  760. I appeal to them

  761. to see the folly

  762. of their way

  763. and the wisdom

  764. of the cross.

  765. it fills us

  766. with love

  767. that enables us

  768. to endure

  769. because if our identity

  770. is in

  771. how great we are,

  772. then when people

  773. treat us

  774. like

  775. the stuff

  776. on the road,

  777. then we're shattered.

  778. But if we know

  779. that this is what

  780. God has appointed

  781. to us

  782. and we know

  783. that in Christ

  784. we have

  785. something far

  786. better,

  787. far more,

  788. far richer

  789. than anything else,

  790. then we can be

  791. patient and enduring

  792. even in those trials.

  793. I think of

  794. a man named

  795. Charles Simeon.

  796. If you ever want

  797. to know about him,

  798. John Hinkson

  799. did a master's

  800. thesis on him.

  801. It's a great story.

  802. Actually,

  803. John's thing

  804. is a good read too.

  805. But Charles Simeon

  806. was a pastor

  807. in England

  808. a couple of

  809. centuries ago.

  810. And he served

  811. in a,

  812. he was wonderfully

  813. converted

  814. during his time

  815. in college

  816. and afterwards

  817. he ended up

  818. staying

  819. and was

  820. surprisingly

  821. at a fairly young age

  822. able to take

  823. the pastoral position

  824. of a church,

  825. Trinity Church,

  826. right near

  827. Cambridge University.

  828. But this is what

  829. his ministry life

  830. looked like.

  831. For the first

  832. ten years,

  833. the members

  834. of the congregation

  835. didn't want him.

  836. Back then,

  837. you could

  838. reserve,

  839. purchase,

  840. own a pew

  841. in the church

  842. so they locked

  843. their pews.

  844. If you've ever been

  845. to the Old North Church

  846. in Boston,

  847. they have the

  848. locking pews still.

  849. It would be like

  850. there's a door

  851. along the aisles

  852. and you couldn't

  853. get in

  854. without getting

  855. over these doors.

  856. And for the first

  857. ten years,

  858. the entire pews

  859. were empty

  860. and people came

  861. and sat on the floor

  862. to be preached to.

  863. Not the members,

  864. but others.

  865. For ten years,

  866. he preached to a church

  867. that didn't want him.

  868. That finally

  869. changed

  870. some,

  871. yet

  872. he still

  873. thirty years

  874. into his ministry

  875. went through

  876. another season

  877. where everyone

  878. sought to

  879. cast him out

  880. of his position.

  881. When he turned

  882. forty-seven,

  883. he developed

  884. a physical disability

  885. that made him

  886. almost unable

  887. to speak.

  888. After he preached,

  889. he could only speak

  890. in a whisper.

  891. This went on

  892. for thirteen years.

  893. He was so

  894. looked down

  895. upon

  896. in the

  897. university

  898. community,

  899. though he was

  900. a graduate,

  901. he was so

  902. looked down

  903. upon

  904. that he remarked

  905. once in his

  906. journal

  907. of the blessing

  908. of a colleague

  909. who walked

  910. with him

  911. for fifteen

  912. minutes

  913. around the

  914. courtyard

  915. of the

  916. college

  917. because it

  918. was the

  919. first time

  920. it had

  921. happened

  922. in years.

  923. He was

  924. so despised

  925. and scorned

  926. in the

  927. university

  928. community

  929. that even

  930. his colleagues

  931. would not

  932. walk with

  933. him

  934. around the

  935. campus

  936. universe

  937. around

  938. the

  939. campus.

  940. And then

  941. his biographer

  942. writes this

  943. in April

  944. 1831,

  945. Charles Simeon

  946. was 71

  947. years old.

  948. He had been

  949. the pastor

  950. Trinity Church

  951. for 49

  952. years.

  953. He was

  954. asked one

  955. afternoon

  956. by his

  957. friend

  958. how he

  959. had

  960. surmounted

  961. persecution

  962. and outlasted

  963. all the

  964. great prejudice

  965. against him

  966. in his

  967. 49-year

  968. ministry.

  969. And he

  970. said to

  971. Gurney,

  972. my dear

  973. brother,

  974. we must

  975. not mind

  976. a little

  977. suffering

  978. for Christ's

  979. sake.

  980. When I

  981. am getting

  982. through a

  983. hedge,

  984. if my

  985. head and

  986. shoulders

  987. are safely

  988. through,

  989. I can

  990. bear the

  991. pricking

  992. of my

  993. legs,

  994. let us

  995. rejoice in

  996. the remembrance

  997. that our

  998. holy head

  999. has surmounted

  1000. all his

  1001. sufferings

  1002. and triumphed

  1003. over death.

  1004. Let us

  1005. follow him

  1006. patiently.

  1007. We shall

  1008. soon be

  1009. partakers

  1010. of his

  1011. victory.

  1012. This is

  1013. what Paul

  1014. longed for

  1015. the Corinthian

  1016. church,

  1017. that they

  1018. would see

  1019. that his

  1020. example

  1021. was one

  1022. of suffering

  1023. because he

  1024. was following

  1025. Jesus,

  1026. the one

  1027. who went

  1028. first and

  1029. foremost,

  1030. who suffered

  1031. in our

  1032. place.

  1033. The echoes

  1034. of Isaiah

  1035. 53 ring

  1036. in our

  1037. ears that

  1038. he was

  1039. wounded for

  1040. our

  1041. transgressions,

  1042. he was

  1043. crushed for

  1044. our

  1045. iniquities.

  1046. Don't

  1047. follow the

  1048. path of

  1049. boasting,

  1050. but instead

  1051. follow the

  1052. example of

  1053. Christ.

  1054. So what

  1055. might this

  1056. look like

  1057. for us?

  1058. Friends,

  1059. we need to

  1060. do some

  1061. heart work

  1062. about who

  1063. we are.

  1064. Are you

  1065. willing to

  1066. walk around

  1067. with a

  1068. t-shirt that

  1069. says,

  1070. scum of the

  1071. earth,

  1072. spectacle before

  1073. men and

  1074. angels?

  1075. A t-shirt

  1076. is cheap.

  1077. It's not

  1078. really our

  1079. identity.

  1080. But more

  1081. importantly,

  1082. how about

  1083. those that

  1084. you interact

  1085. with in

  1086. the world?

  1087. Whether it

  1088. be your

  1089. families,

  1090. your

  1091. colleagues,

  1092. your

  1093. potential

  1094. employers,

  1095. your

  1096. classmates in

  1097. the school

  1098. room and

  1099. in the

  1100. hallways.

  1101. friends,

  1102. Jesus' call

  1103. here is

  1104. one that

  1105. is striking

  1106. because to

  1107. follow him

  1108. makes us

  1109. aliens and

  1110. strangers,

  1111. in the words

  1112. of the

  1113. apostle Peter,

  1114. aliens and

  1115. strangers in

  1116. our world.

  1117. It ought to

  1118. feel weird to

  1119. follow Christ

  1120. in our world.

  1121. Sometimes I

  1122. fear that

  1123. we have

  1124. bought into

  1125. a lie that

  1126. somehow if

  1127. we can do

  1128. our

  1129. Christianity

  1130. just well

  1131. enough and

  1132. with enough

  1133. wisdom and

  1134. savvy that

  1135. we'll be

  1136. accepted and

  1137. people will

  1138. think well

  1139. of us.

  1140. But that's

  1141. probably not

  1142. really the

  1143. case.

  1144. Jesus said

  1145. if they

  1146. persecuted me

  1147. they will

  1148. persecute you

  1149. also.

  1150. The gospel

  1151. cuts across

  1152. every culture

  1153. we will

  1154. find the

  1155. places where

  1156. the exclusivity

  1157. of Christ

  1158. or a

  1159. faithfulness

  1160. about teaching

  1161. of how we

  1162. live our

  1163. lives sexually,

  1164. how we

  1165. interact with

  1166. the world

  1167. and other

  1168. religions,

  1169. how we

  1170. forgive our

  1171. enemies.

  1172. things.

  1173. All of

  1174. these things

  1175. will be

  1176. striking and

  1177. countercultural

  1178. in various

  1179. places in

  1180. various ways.

  1181. And if we

  1182. think that by

  1183. faithfulness we're

  1184. going to be

  1185. okay and

  1186. there won't be

  1187. a cost, we

  1188. haven't heard

  1189. Paul this

  1190. morning.

  1191. We may

  1192. become

  1193. marginalized in

  1194. our culture.

  1195. Friends, we

  1196. need to be ready

  1197. for this as a

  1198. church.

  1199. church.

  1200. I don't want

  1201. to be doom

  1202. and gloom.

  1203. I don't want

  1204. to try to fight

  1205. the culture war.

  1206. I want to

  1207. follow Christ.

  1208. But we need to

  1209. recognize that

  1210. following Christ

  1211. may lead us

  1212. outside the

  1213. camp.

  1214. It may lead us

  1215. to places where

  1216. all we have is

  1217. the power of

  1218. the gospel in

  1219. our lives as

  1220. we live humbly,

  1221. brokenly, in

  1222. weakness, and

  1223. being seen as

  1224. foolish in the

  1225. world.

  1226. friends, this is

  1227. what Paul did

  1228. because he

  1229. followed Jesus.

  1230. And this is

  1231. what Jesus did

  1232. for us.

  1233. Because as

  1234. offensive as

  1235. the cross and

  1236. following the

  1237. cross can be in

  1238. our world, the

  1239. deepest offense in

  1240. the world is

  1241. far more profound,

  1242. isn't it?

  1243. The thing that

  1244. most offends us

  1245. and our friends

  1246. and our world

  1247. is not a

  1248. particular stance

  1249. on this or

  1250. that issue.

  1251. But it's that

  1252. we are owning

  1253. the fact that

  1254. we are sinners.

  1255. And that sin

  1256. is so offensive

  1257. that it deserved

  1258. not a pass,

  1259. not a warning,

  1260. but it earned

  1261. for us the

  1262. death of the

  1263. Son of God

  1264. himself.

  1265. when we

  1266. admit that

  1267. our sin

  1268. cripples us,

  1269. that our

  1270. pride makes

  1271. us empty

  1272. and puffed

  1273. up rather

  1274. than substantive

  1275. and real,

  1276. when we

  1277. recognize that

  1278. our sin

  1279. makes our

  1280. wisdom

  1281. foolishness

  1282. and our

  1283. strength

  1284. weakness

  1285. and our

  1286. spirituality

  1287. empty

  1288. and exposes

  1289. us as in

  1290. fact offensive

  1291. to God,

  1292. and helpless.

  1293. We then

  1294. see how

  1295. wonderful a

  1296. Savior we

  1297. have

  1298. because he

  1299. stepped into

  1300. that.

  1301. Jesus took

  1302. the offense

  1303. for us,

  1304. didn't he?

  1305. Jesus was

  1306. scorned and

  1307. mocked.

  1308. He was the

  1309. Son of God

  1310. and the

  1311. creator of the

  1312. world and

  1313. yet we

  1314. esteemed him

  1315. not.

  1316. not.

  1317. He came

  1318. to his

  1319. own and

  1320. his own

  1321. received him

  1322. not.

  1323. He was

  1324. taken outside

  1325. the city

  1326. and crucified

  1327. on a hill

  1328. bearing the

  1329. wrath of God

  1330. against the

  1331. offense of

  1332. our sin.

  1333. sin.

  1334. And though

  1335. our pride is

  1336. pricked and

  1337. our backs

  1338. get up,

  1339. we want

  1340. desperately to

  1341. find some

  1342. other way,

  1343. this alone

  1344. is the only

  1345. way that we

  1346. can be

  1347. saved.

  1348. And so

  1349. we find in

  1350. this salvation

  1351. not only our

  1352. greatest hope

  1353. but our only

  1354. pattern.

  1355. There's no

  1356. easier way

  1357. than following

  1358. Christ because

  1359. there's no

  1360. better way

  1361. than following

  1362. Christ.

  1363. I think about

  1364. this now

  1365. sometimes when

  1366. I pray for

  1367. my kids.

  1368. Not often.

  1369. But I pray

  1370. not that their

  1371. life would be

  1372. easy but that

  1373. they would

  1374. know.

  1375. They would

  1376. know more

  1377. of this

  1378. Savior who

  1379. loved them

  1380. so.

  1381. And that

  1382. the hearts

  1383. and the

  1384. pains of

  1385. their lives

  1386. would drive

  1387. them to

  1388. him.

  1389. That they

  1390. might know

  1391. the fellowship

  1392. of suffering

  1393. and perhaps

  1394. attain to the

  1395. resurrection from

  1396. the dead.

  1397. Let me close

  1398. with the words

  1399. of 1 Peter

    1 Peter 2 chapter mention

  1400. chapter 2.

  1401. for this

  1402. for this you

  1403. have been

  1404. called

  1405. because Christ

  1406. also suffered

  1407. for you

  1408. leaving you

  1409. an example

  1410. so that you

  1411. might follow

  1412. in his steps.

  1413. He committed

  1414. no sin

  1415. neither was

  1416. deceit found

  1417. in his mouth

  1418. when he was

  1419. reviled he did

  1420. not revile in

  1421. return.

  1422. When he

  1423. suffered he did

  1424. not threaten

  1425. but continued

  1426. entrusting himself

  1427. to him who

  1428. judges justly.

  1429. He himself

  1430. bore our sins

  1431. in his body

  1432. on the tree

  1433. that we might

  1434. die to sin

  1435. and live to

  1436. righteousness.

  1437. By his wounds

  1438. you have been

  1439. healed for you

  1440. were straying

  1441. like sheep

  1442. but have now

  1443. returned to

  1444. the shepherd

  1445. and overseer

  1446. of your souls.

  1447. Let's pray.

  1448. Amen.

  1449. Amen.

  1450. Amen.

  1451. Amen.

  1452. Amen.

  1453. Amen.

  1454. Amen.

  1455. Amen.

  1456. Amen.

  1457. Amen.

  1458. Amen.

  1459. Amen.

  1460. Amen.

  1461. Amen.

  1462. Amen.

  1463. Amen.

  1464. Amen.

  1465. Holy Spirit

  1466. I invite you

  1467. to do your

  1468. searching work

  1469. in our hearts.

  1470. Lord help us

  1471. to see how much

  1472. we still cling

  1473. to a vision

  1474. of a world

  1475. where life

  1476. will be easy

  1477. where success

  1478. is expected

  1479. where triumph

  1480. is

  1481. known

  1482. and

  1483. banked on.

  1484. Lord help us

  1485. to see how much

  1486. we want to avoid

  1487. suffering and trial

  1488. in this life

  1489. and how often

  1490. we are

  1491. derailed

  1492. from the path

  1493. of discipleship

  1494. and following you

  1495. because of that

  1496. commitment

  1497. in our heart.

  1498. And Jesus

  1499. help us

  1500. to see you

  1501. the great shepherd

  1502. and overseer

  1503. of our souls.

  1504. Lord help us

  1505. to return

  1506. to you

  1507. and to see

  1508. the path

  1509. that you walked

  1510. for us

  1511. and to walk

  1512. that path

  1513. for your sake

  1514. for the gospel's sake

  1515. for your glory.

  1516. Lord may we

  1517. not mind

  1518. a little suffering

  1519. in this life.

  1520. We pray this

  1521. in Jesus name.

  1522. Amen.