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  1. That is page 268, if you're looking in one of the Pew Bibles, 2 Samuel 17.

  2. I wonder whether you've ever felt like you are in the wilderness, hungry, thirsty, weary,

  3. maybe physically, emotionally, relationally, or spiritually.

  4. That's a situation David and his followers are in during this chapter.

  5. In fact, that's how they're described in the last verse.

  6. And this evening, we're in a section of 2 Samuel where basically David's life, his kingdom,

  7. his family has been falling apart, largely due to David's own moral failure.

  8. David was in a very vulnerable place for a whole bunch of reasons.

  9. But what we see in this chapter is that even when we failed, and even when our life is falling

  10. apart, God doesn't abandon us to our enemies, but rather he mercifully provides for us.

  11. Now, maybe you've been coming here and through this whole long series in 1 and 2 Samuel, but

  12. maybe you haven't.

  13. So let me just bring us all up to speed on the story of David as it's written in the book

  14. of Samuel.

  15. So the book of 1 Samuel, we see David's suffering.

  16. We see David is anointed by the prophet Samuel to be the future king of Israel.

  17. But then for the rest of the book, for like 16 chapters, King Saul is pursuing him, persecuting

  18. him.

  19. He has to flee into the wilderness.

  20. He's running for his life.

  21. And King Saul's trying to kill him.

  22. He's suffering.

  23. The first 10 chapters of 2 Samuel, after King Saul is killed in battle, we see David's

  24. rise to power.

  25. And David is raised up to reign over the United Kingdom of Israel.

  26. The people come together under him.

  27. He defeats their enemies.

  28. He brings peace.

  29. And God promises that his kingdom will be established forever.

  30. And everything seems great.

  31. And then we see David's fall, starting in chapter 11, when he commits adultery with Bathsheba,

  32. and when he arranges for her husband to be killed in battle.

  33. And after that, David's family begins to fall apart, and David's kingdom begins to fall apart.

  34. And that's what we've seen over the last few chapters.

  35. Chapter 16, David is tricked, and then cursed, and then betrayed.

  36. And so he's not only reaping the consequences of his own failure, he's also being unjustly

  37. treated and attacked.

  38. And even in this situation, David doesn't give up.

  39. He entrusts himself to the Lord.

  40. And here we are in this chapter.

  41. What's happened in this chapter is that David's son, Absalom, has organized a conspiracy and has

  42. rode into Jerusalem, the capital city, and declared himself king.

  43. And David has had to flee.

  44. And so David's gone, and his son, Absalom, has seized the throne, completely against David's

  45. wishes.

  46. And that's sort of what's going on.

  47. And David is in the wilderness again.

  48. It seems like he's right back where he was in 1 Samuel when Saul was pursuing him, and when

  49. he was persecuted again in the wilderness.

  50. Seems like he's risen and fallen, and he's right back there.

  51. So here's where we are tonight.

  52. So I want to walk us through the passage and show us three main things.

  53. Now, the first thing is God doesn't abandon us when we've been betrayed.

  54. We see this in verse 1 through 14.

  55. Now, before I read these verses, verse 1, we see Ahithophel.

  56. Sorry, Ahithophel.

  57. Let me just explain so the story will make sense when I read it.

  58. Ahithophel was David's counselor.

  59. That means his trusted friend and his political advisor.

  60. Ahithophel was widely respected.

  61. If you look at the last verse of chapter 16, it says people took his words like they were

  62. the word of God.

  63. It literally says that, right?

  64. He was widely respected, and his words were weighty.

  65. So he had been David's counselor, David's friend, but then he defected.

  66. He betrayed David.

  67. He joined Absalom's conspiracy.

  68. When Absalom tried to seize the throne from his father.

  69. And when David heard about that, he was devastated.

  70. And he prayed.

  71. He said, Lord, turn the counsel of Ahithophel into foolishness.

  72. He realized that unless God intervened, things weren't looking good.

  73. Because Ahithophel was a wise and strategic counselor.

  74. And now he had deserted David.

  75. All right, so here we are, chapter 17.

  76. Ahithophel is in Jerusalem with Absalom, David's son.

  77. So moreover, Ahithophel said to Absalom, let me choose 12,000 men, and I will arise and pursue

  78. David tonight.

  79. I will come upon him while he is weary and discouraged and throw him into a panic, and

  80. all the people who are with him will flee.

  81. I will strike down only the king, and I will bring all the people back to you as a bride

  82. comes home to her husband.

  83. You seek the life of only one man, and all the people will be at peace.

  84. And the advice seemed right in the eyes of Absalom and all the elders of Israel.

  85. Then Absalom said, call Hushai the archite also, and let us hear what he has to say.

  86. Now Hushai is David's friend, and he's hanging with Absalom, but he's actually like a spy.

  87. And so he's trying to give Absalom bad advice to trick him, because he's actually on David's

  88. side.

  89. So let me briefly run through Ahithophel's plan.

  90. So Ahithophel, if you look at what his plan is, he's basically like, let me take care of

  91. this.

  92. Okay?

  93. I'll choose 12,000 men.

  94. That means 12 military units.

  95. Sometimes 1,000 was a word referring to a military unit, even if it didn't have, even

  96. it didn't always have 1,000 people in it.

  97. But he says, let me take 12 military units, sort of representing all the 12 tribes of

  98. Israel.

  99. We're going to go target David, finish him off tonight, and the kingdom's yours.

  100. Clean.

  101. I'll take care of it.

  102. I'll take the risk.

  103. I'll take responsibility.

  104. I'll make sure it happens.

  105. I'll do it.

  106. His plan is careful, calculated, and concise.

  107. He knows that David is in a vulnerable position, and he is saying, I'll finish him off.

  108. Okay, second plan, Hushai the Archite.

  109. Verse 6.

  110. When Hushai came to Absalom, Absalom said to him, thus has Ahithophel spoken, shall we

  111. do as he says?

  112. If not, you speak.

  113. Then Hushai said to Absalom, this time the counsel that Ahithophel has given is not good.

  114. Hushai said, you know that your father and his men are mighty men, and that they are enraged

  115. like a bear robbed of her cubs in the field.

  116. Besides, your father is expert in war.

  117. He will not spend the night with the people.

  118. Behold, even now he has hidden himself in one of the pits or in some other place.

  119. And as soon as some of the people fall at the first attack, whoever hears it will say,

  120. there has been a slaughter among the people who follow Absalom.

  121. Then even the valiant man whose heart is like the heart of a lion will utterly melt with fear.

  122. For all Israel knows that your father is a mighty man, and those who are with him are

  123. valiant men.

  124. But my counsel is that all Israel be gathered to you, from Dan to Beersheba, as the sand by

  125. the sea for multitude, and that you go to battle in person.

  126. So we shall come upon him in some place where he is to be found, and we shall light upon

  127. him as the dew falls on the ground, and of him and all the men with him, not one will

  128. be left.

  129. If he withdraws into a city, then all Israel will bring ropes to that city, and we shall

  130. drag it into the valley until not even a pebble is to be found there.

  131. Now, if you compare these two speeches of advice, they're almost completely opposite.

  132. And his fellow's like, I'll do it.

  133. I'll do it now.

  134. I'll take care of it.

  135. He's crisp.

  136. He's clean.

  137. He's a military guy, and he knows what he's doing.

  138. Hushai the Archite, his speech is three times as long.

  139. Absalom, it's full of flowery metaphors and grandiose ambitions.

  140. And he doesn't say, I'll take care of it.

  141. He says, Absalom, you, you know best.

  142. You know your father.

  143. You should lead the people into battle.

  144. You should gather all Israel to you from the far north to the far south.

  145. And you lead them majestically.

  146. And don't just kill David.

  147. Wipe out everyone who's on his side.

  148. If they're in a city, you put ropes around that city and drag it to the ground until it

  149. doesn't exist anymore.

  150. Well, verse 14.

  151. Absalom and all the men of Israel said, the council of Hushai the Archite is better than

  152. the council of Ahithophel.

  153. Hushai successfully appealed to Absalom's pride, his vanity, his desire to be at the center

  154. of everything, even though Ahithophel's advice was actually militarily the more prudent advice.

  155. The advice that would have worked if he took it.

  156. But then we have the end of verse 14, which says, for the Lord had ordained to defeat the

  157. good council of Ahithophel so that the Lord might bring harm upon Absalom.

  158. Now, if you read the book of Samuel, if you read most biblical narratives, there aren't many

  159. statements like this one.

  160. That explicitly reveal God's sovereign purposes.

  161. And so when you see one, you should stop and notice it.

  162. It's sort of like if you're hiking.

  163. If you're hiking on a trail in the woods, most of the time, you got to look for those little

  164. dots, right?

  165. On the rocks or on the trees in front of you.

  166. And if it snowed, then you got to look even more carefully or follow the footprints, right?

  167. And you're sort of looking one at a time.

  168. But then every once in a while, you might come to a clearing or a trail junction or a major

  169. landmark.

  170. And there's this like big wooden sign, right?

  171. That says summit 1.4 miles.

  172. Waterfall 3.6 miles.

  173. This trail, you know, West Trail, North Trail, whatever.

  174. Right?

  175. And so when you get to one of those markers, you're not just sort of going step by step,

  176. but you can sort of see the big picture.

  177. And you get an idea, that's where I want to go.

  178. That's where this trail is leading me.

  179. And that's like what this, this statement is one of those big signs that says, here's

  180. what God is doing in the midst of all this, you know, human acting and reacting.

  181. You know, because if you just read these stories, you know, it can sometimes be confusing.

  182. Who's on whose side?

  183. And who's right?

  184. And who's wrong?

  185. And should we, you know, is Ahithophel right?

  186. Is Hushai right?

  187. And what about David?

  188. I mean, David's the anointed king, but then he does this terrible thing with Bathsheba.

  189. And I mean, is he good?

  190. Is he bad?

  191. Like, it's a little murky.

  192. All right, but what does this statement say?

  193. So first of all, it says Ahithophel's counsel was good.

  194. Now that doesn't mean it's morally good, but it means it was strategically effective.

  195. Or functionally effective.

  196. It would have worked if Absalom had followed it, but the Lord had arranged to frustrate it.

  197. You see, God had chosen David to be king and not Absalom.

  198. And the main point of Samuel, if you want to summarize the book of Samuel in one sentence,

  199. it's God brings down the proud and he raises up the humble.

  200. And Absalom is one of the proud who exalts himself and lifts himself up.

  201. And so God says, I'm going to bring him down.

  202. And I'm going to, even though David has failed, he had repented.

  203. And God says, I'm not done with David yet.

  204. I'm not going to bring David down forever.

  205. I'm not done with him.

  206. I'm going to uphold him because he trusts in me.

  207. So we see God didn't abandon David.

  208. Even when David was betrayed by one of his closest advisors,

  209. by one of his, when he had lost one of his best resources,

  210. God didn't abandon him.

  211. So that's the first point.

  212. Second point, what we see in this passage is God judges those who remain unfaithful to his kingdom.

  213. If you look down at verse 23, we see Ahithophel's reaction to his advice not being followed.

  214. Verse 23, when Ahithophel saw that his counsel was not followed,

  215. he saddled his donkey and went off home to his own city.

  216. He set his house in order and hanged himself.

  217. And he died and was buried in the tomb of his father.

  218. So Ahithophel saw that Absalom didn't follow his advice.

  219. I think he realized Absalom didn't follow my advice.

  220. Things aren't, and so Absalom's not going to succeed.

  221. And if David comes back on the throne,

  222. I've just betrayed the king and committed treason against the king.

  223. So I'm going to deserve the death penalty.

  224. There's no future for me in David's kingdom.

  225. So I'm going to end it myself.

  226. So Ahithophel, I want to spend a little time thinking about Ahithophel.

  227. Because his life ended tragically.

  228. He was David's counselor.

  229. High official in David's kingdom.

  230. Powerful, close to David.

  231. Trusted confidant.

  232. David relied on him.

  233. And his life ends in a tragic way.

  234. When he saw no hope for his future.

  235. So let me ask this question.

  236. Why would Ahithophel join Absalom instead of remaining loyal to David?

  237. Why did he betray David?

  238. You have to think about this.

  239. You might think, well, maybe Ahithophel gave David some advice

  240. that David didn't listen to.

  241. And so Ahithophel was like, I don't want to advise you anymore

  242. if you're not going to listen to me.

  243. Well, that's probably actually not right.

  244. Because chapter 16, verse 23 says,

  245. both Absalom and David highly esteemed Ahithophel's advice.

  246. So it's probably not because David didn't listen to him.

  247. You might think, well, maybe Ahithophel was being pragmatic.

  248. Maybe he was like, David's getting older.

  249. He seems indecisive.

  250. If Absalom's young and handsome, charismatic leader,

  251. I'm going to side with the winner.

  252. Possibly.

  253. But at the same time, Absalom was a risky bet.

  254. And he didn't end up listening to Ahithophel's advice.

  255. And he didn't end up succeeding.

  256. There's one very likely factor that motivated Ahithophel.

  257. And we can't be 100% sure,

  258. but I think this is the most likely reason

  259. that would have motivated him to do what he did.

  260. If you look in 2 Samuel 23, 34,

  261. it's an obscure verse.

  262. It says, Ahithophel had a son named Eliam.

  263. Now, there's only one other place

  264. where a man named Eliam appears in the Bible.

  265. And that's 2 Samuel 11, verse 3.

    2 Samuel 11:3

  266. Right?

  267. These are two verses you'd sort of never notice

  268. unless you do a Bible gateway word search.

  269. Right?

  270. And you realize these are the only two.

  271. And you've got to have somebody

  272. who tells you to do that word search too

  273. because you wouldn't guess it on your own.

  274. Right?

  275. I didn't guess this on my own.

  276. Right?

  277. Eliam was the father of Bathsheba.

  278. Now, if this is the same Eliam,

  279. which it probably is,

  280. Ahithophel is Bathsheba's grandfather.

  281. Now, imagine if you're Ahithophel

  282. and you're David's counselor

  283. and Bathsheba is your granddaughter.

  284. And then you see what David does.

  285. That he steals her from her husband

  286. and violates her

  287. and then gets her husband killed.

  288. And then you think,

  289. am I going to stick with this guy or not?

  290. Maybe we can understand

  291. why Ahithophel defected.

  292. He was furious with David.

  293. And in one sense, he was right

  294. because God was furious with David too.

  295. And that's why God sent the prophet Nathan

  296. to rebuke him

  297. after he had committed adultery with Bathsheba.

  298. But when Nathan confronted him,

  299. what was David's response?

  300. David said,

  301. I've sinned against the Lord.

  302. And he wept.

  303. And he wrote what we have now as Psalm 51

  304. where he said,

  305. Have mercy on me, O God,

  306. according to your steadfast love.

  307. I'm full of sin and iniquity

  308. and I need your mercy.

  309. And I rely only on your mercy.

  310. And the prophet Nathan said to him,

  311. The Lord has put away your sin.

  312. You shall not die.

  313. In other words,

  314. God's not finished with you yet.

  315. God saw that David's repentance

  316. was sincere.

  317. It wasn't just a show,

  318. but it was sincere

  319. and enduring.

  320. And God said to David,

  321. I'm not going to totally remove you

  322. from my kingdom.

  323. And I think that's what Ahithophel

  324. couldn't accept.

  325. Ahithophel couldn't accept

  326. that God would forgive

  327. and even restore David

  328. after such a serious moral failure

  329. involving his granddaughter,

  330. of all people.

  331. But here's the irony.

  332. In Ahithophel's animosity toward David,

  333. Ahithophel ends up advising Absalom

  334. to be even worse

  335. than David was.

  336. David had violated Bathsheba.

  337. But the first thing Ahithophel

  338. advises Absalom to do

  339. is sleep with all of David's concubines

  340. in a tent on the roof of the palace.

  341. The end of chapter 16.

  342. David had violated one woman

  343. and Ahithophel counsels Absalom

  344. to violate a whole bunch of them.

  345. to establish his kingdom, supposedly.

  346. David had intentionally arranged

  347. for Uriah to be killed in battle

  348. and targeted.

  349. That's exactly what Ahithophel says

  350. to do to David.

  351. He says,

  352. come upon him when he's weary

  353. and discouraged

  354. and in a panic

  355. and kill him.

  356. And then at the end,

  357. Ahithophel couldn't fathom

  358. the possibility

  359. that God could forgive

  360. and restore David

  361. after he had sinned

  362. so grievously.

  363. And so when Ahithophel

  364. saw that he had failed

  365. grievously

  366. and his advice wasn't listened to,

  367. Ahithophel couldn't imagine

  368. any possibility

  369. that David

  370. would ever forgive

  371. and restore him

  372. and include him

  373. in his kingdom again.

  374. Now here's another irony.

  375. In chapter 19,

  376. when David returns

  377. to Jerusalem,

  378. he forgives all his enemies.

  379. He forgives the guy

  380. who tricked him

  381. in chapter 16.

  382. He forgives the guy

  383. who cursed him

  384. in chapter 16.

  385. And most likely,

  386. he would have forgiven Ahithophel

  387. if Ahithophel was still there.

  388. You see,

  389. Ahithophel's unwillingness

  390. to forgive David

  391. poisoned his career,

  392. poisoned his judgment,

  393. and poisoned his life

  394. and his end.

  395. So I think there's a warning here.

  396. If there's someone

  397. that you're unwilling

  398. to forgive,

  399. if there's someone

  400. that you're holding

  401. a grudge against,

  402. if there's someone

  403. that you don't want

  404. to be reconciled with

  405. even if they repent,

  406. beware.

  407. Hebrews says,

  408. don't see to it

  409. that no root

  410. of bitterness

  411. springs up

  412. and causes trouble

  413. and by it

  414. many become defiled.

  415. That's why Jesus

  416. taught us to pray,

  417. forgive us

  418. our sins

  419. even as we forgive

  420. those who sin

  421. against us.

  422. Because,

  423. you see,

  424. when we're unwilling

  425. to forgive others,

  426. we can become

  427. as bad

  428. or worse

  429. than the people

  430. we refuse

  431. to forgive.

  432. And that's the warning

  433. that we see

  434. from Ahithophel.

  435. Perhaps a warning

  436. we wouldn't have expected.

  437. But there's also

  438. an invitation

  439. to come to the king

  440. and be forgiven.

  441. To receive forgiveness

  442. from Jesus Christ

  443. and by his spirit

  444. living in us

  445. to have the power

  446. to extend his forgiveness

  447. to others

  448. and to be reconciled

  449. to someone

  450. when they also

  451. express repentance.

  452. There's only one other

  453. character in the Bible

  454. who's like Ahithophel.

  455. Maybe you can see

  456. the parallels.

  457. A trusted friend

  458. who ended up

  459. betraying

  460. the Lord's anointed king

  461. whose counsel

  462. was turned to foolishness

  463. and who ended

  464. his life in despair.

  465. Judas.

  466. Of course

  467. unlike David

  468. Judas had no

  469. Jesus had committed

  470. no sin

  471. that Judas

  472. had to forgive

  473. or overlook.

  474. But it's certainly

  475. possible that

  476. one of the things

  477. Judas resented

  478. about Jesus

  479. was his teaching

  480. about forgiveness.

  481. It's possible

  482. that Judas

  483. was one of the zealots

  484. that may be

  485. what his last name

  486. means

  487. Iscariot

  488. and the zealots

  489. were people

  490. who wanted to kill

  491. the Romans

  492. and overthrow them

  493. and Judas

  494. may have been

  495. disappointed

  496. that that wasn't

  497. Jesus' agenda

  498. and that Jesus

  499. even talked about

  500. forgiveness

  501. for enemies.

  502. That may have been

  503. part of why

  504. Judas

  505. decided

  506. I'm not going to

  507. follow this king

  508. anymore.

  509. And just like

  510. David

  511. and Ahithophel

  512. well

  513. well

  514. Jesus offered

  515. Judas his

  516. friendship

  517. to the very end.

  518. He gave him

  519. the piece of bread

  520. at the last supper

  521. reaching out to him

  522. offering him

  523. his friendship

  524. his loyalty

  525. and yet

  526. Judas rejected it.

  527. Anyway

  528. God

  529. provides

  530. God

  531. doesn't

  532. abandon us

  533. when we're

  534. betrayed

  535. God judges

  536. those who remain

  537. unfaithful to his

  538. kingdom

  539. and third

  540. God provides

  541. for us

  542. through faithful

  543. friends.

  544. So we've seen

  545. God's purpose

  546. to bring down

  547. Absalom

  548. and to rescue

  549. David

  550. but we also

  551. see in this

  552. chapter

  553. some of how

  554. God accomplished

  555. that plan.

  556. If you read

  557. verse 15

  558. let's look at

  559. verse 15

  560. then Hushai

  561. said to

  562. Zadok

  563. and Abiathar

  564. the priests

  565. thus and so

  566. did Ahithophel

  567. counsel Absalom

  568. and all

  569. the elders

  570. of Israel

  571. and thus and so

  572. have I counsel.

  573. Now therefore

  574. send quickly

  575. and tell David

  576. don't stay

  577. tonight at the

  578. fords of the

  579. wilderness

  580. by all means

  581. pass over

  582. lest the king

  583. and all the people

  584. who are with him

  585. be swallowed up.

  586. It seems like

  587. Hushai doesn't

  588. know

  589. what Absalom's

  590. going to do.

  591. He doesn't know

  592. if Absalom's

  593. going to listen

  594. to Ahithophel

  595. and start

  596. pursuing David

  597. immediately

  598. or if he's

  599. going to listen

  600. to Hushai

  601. who's basically

  602. getting him

  603. to delay.

  604. And so Hushai

  605. sends a warning

  606. message to David

  607. through some people

  608. that he had

  609. previously arranged.

  610. And so in this

  611. chapter we see

  612. how that happened.

  613. There are

  614. at least

  615. five different

  616. people involved.

  617. Zadok

  618. and Abiathar

  619. the priests.

  620. They tell their

  621. sons Jonathan

  622. and Ahamaz

  623. in verse 17

  624. and there's

  625. a female servant

  626. involved as well

  627. who's passing

  628. the message to them.

  629. They almost get

  630. found out.

  631. Verse 18

  632. a young man

  633. saw them

  634. and told Absalom

  635. so both of them

  636. went away quickly

  637. and came to the

  638. house of a man

  639. at Behurim

  640. who had a well

  641. in his courtyard.

  642. They went down

  643. into it

  644. and the woman

  645. the man's wife

  646. took and spread

  647. a covering over

  648. the well's mouth

  649. and scattered grain

  650. on it

  651. and nothing was

  652. known of it.

  653. When Absalom's

  654. servants came to

  655. the woman at the

  656. house they said

  657. where Ahamahaz

  658. and Jonathan

  659. and the woman

  660. said to them

  661. they have gone

  662. over the

  663. brook of water

  664. and when they

  665. had sought

  666. and could not

  667. find him

  668. they returned

  669. to Jerusalem.

  670. After they had

  671. gone the men

  672. came up out

  673. of the well

  674. and went

  675. and told

  676. King David

  677. and David

  678. flees.

  679. So you might

  680. ask well

  681. okay so what's

  682. the point of

  683. that whole

  684. paragraph I

  685. just read?

  686. Why doesn't

  687. the author

  688. simply say

  689. Absalom didn't

  690. follow Ahithophel's

  691. counsel he

  692. followed Hushai's

  693. counsel and so

  694. David was safe.

  695. Why does he

  696. tell this whole

  697. story about two

  698. guys and being

  699. seen and being

  700. hidden in a well

  701. and the woman

  702. saying no they're

  703. not here they're

  704. over the water.

  705. here's what I

  706. think the point

  707. of this paragraph

  708. is.

  709. Not only that it

  710. would make a good

  711. action movie scene

  712. right?

  713. Narrow escape

  714. they barely make

  715. it but we see

  716. in this chapter

  717. we see God's

  718. sovereign purpose

  719. verse 14 and we

  720. also see the

  721. people whom God

  722. uses who take

  723. risks to be

  724. loyal to David

  725. whom God uses

  726. to accomplish

  727. his purpose.

  728. So we see that

  729. God has sovereign

  730. purposes and that

  731. we're also

  732. responsible to

  733. play our part

  734. in them.

  735. And God uses

  736. people who step

  737. up and do

  738. their little parts

  739. even if it's

  740. passing on a

  741. message to

  742. somebody else or

  743. hiding two guys

  744. under a well.

  745. Sort of like

  746. Rahab did when

  747. the spies came

  748. into Jericho

  749. back in the

  750. book of Joshua.

  751. So we see

  752. both these things

  753. in the midst of

  754. a hostile world

  755. God has a

  756. sovereign plan to

  757. preserve his

  758. kingdom and we

  759. see that God

  760. uses us when we

  761. take risks and

  762. step out in ways

  763. that are loyal to

  764. him.

  765. Verse 24

  766. David arrives at

  767. Mahanaim

  768. that's about 30

  769. miles north of

  770. where he'd crossed

  771. the Jordan

  772. and we come to

  773. the end of the

  774. chapter verse 27

  775. when David came to

  776. Mahanaim

  777. Shobbi the son of

  778. Nahash from

  779. Rabbah of the

  780. Ammonites and

  781. Mekur the son of

  782. Amiel from

  783. Lodabar and

  784. Barzillai the

  785. Gileadite from

  786. Rogalim brought

  787. beds, basins, and

  788. earthen vessels,

  789. wheat, barley,

  790. flour, parched

  791. grain, beans, and

  792. lentils, honey, and

  793. curds, and sheep, and

  794. cheese from the

  795. herd for David and

  796. the people with him

  797. to eat for they

  798. said the people are

  799. hungry and weary

  800. and thirsty in the

  801. wilderness.

  802. So we see God

  803. provides for David

  804. when one of his

  805. closest advisors has

  806. betrayed him.

  807. God provides several

  808. faithful friends.

  809. All these people who

  810. pass along the

  811. message so that David

  812. can be warned and

  813. flee to safety and

  814. preserve his own

  815. life and the life of

  816. the men with him.

  817. And we see these

  818. three men in verse

  819. 27 to 28 who come

  820. to provide a place

  821. for them to rest and

  822. some food and drink to

  823. refresh them in the

  824. wilderness.

  825. And so we see God

  826. provides for David

  827. through faithful

  828. friends.

  829. Now these three guys

  830. at the end, let me

  831. just introduce you to

  832. them briefly because

  833. they're an interesting

  834. bunch.

  835. Shobbi, son of

  836. Nahash from Rabbah

  837. of the Ammonites.

  838. Now he's interesting

  839. because he is from a

  840. pagan background, an

  841. Ammonite, right?

  842. The Ammonites were

  843. another group of people

  844. who were not part of

  845. the people of Israel.

  846. And Shobbi's brother

  847. appears in chapter 10.

  848. Basically David had a

  849. sort of some kind of a

  850. treaty or David was

  851. loyal to Nahash, the

  852. father of Shobbi and

  853. his brother.

  854. And Nahash had been

  855. loyal to David.

  856. And so when Nahash

  857. died, David sent a

  858. delegation to express

  859. condolences to the

  860. family concerning the

  861. death of their father

  862. who had been the king.

  863. And Shobbi's brother

  864. rejected this kindness.

  865. And he was like,

  866. yeah, right.

  867. David's, this is fishy

  868. business.

  869. And so he shames David's

  870. men and he sends them

  871. back home and treats

  872. them very badly and

  873. rejects them.

  874. But Shobbi here must have

  875. seen David's kindness and

  876. loyalty.

  877. And we see that Shobbi

  878. responded positively.

  879. Right?

  880. So Shobbi's brother was

  881. like, yeah, right.

  882. Don't deal with this guy.

  883. You know, he's tricking you.

  884. And Shobbi's like,

  885. actually, no, he's not.

  886. He's the real stuff.

  887. He's good to his word.

  888. And his, he was won over

  889. by David's kindness and

  890. loyalty, even though he

  891. was from a non-Israelite

  892. background.

  893. So that's the first guy.

  894. Second guy, Machir, son of

  895. Amiel from Lodabar.

  896. The only other thing we know

  897. about him is that the

  898. beginning of David's

  899. kingdom, he was taking care

  900. of Mephibosheth, who was

  901. one of Saul's surviving

  902. relatives.

  903. So most likely, he was also

  904. not on David's side from

  905. the beginning.

  906. He was on Saul.

  907. He was probably loyal to

  908. Saul.

  909. That's probably why he was

  910. taking care of Saul's

  911. grandson, Mephibosheth.

  912. And yet, what did David do

  913. to Mephibosheth?

  914. He extended kindness and

  915. loyalty to him and brought

  916. Mephibosheth into his court

  917. and was faithful to his

  918. covenant with Jonathan,

  919. Mephibosheth's father.

  920. So most likely, this guy

  921. Machir became loyal to

  922. David because he saw

  923. David's kindness again.

  924. Kindness to an outsider.

  925. And the third guy,

  926. Barsili, the Gileadite, in

  927. the next chapter we learn

  928. he's a wealthy, retired,

  929. 80-year-old man.

  930. This is the first time he

  931. appears in the story, but

  932. later on, David is also

  933. kind and loyal to him as

  934. well.

  935. And so these three guys,

  936. from all different

  937. backgrounds, have

  938. been won over by David's

  939. kindness.

  940. They've become part of his

  941. kingdom.

  942. They're his loyal followers

  943. because of David's

  944. kindness and David's

  945. loyalty, his steadfast love.

  946. And, you know, isn't that, in

  947. one sense, isn't that a

  948. picture of who we are as a

  949. church?

  950. Right?

  951. We're all different kinds of

  952. people from all different kinds

  953. of backgrounds, and some of us,

  954. you know, would never have grown

  955. up seeing ourselves in a church.

  956. Some of us might have grown up

  957. in another kind of church and

  958. never saw ourselves in a

  959. Baptist church or whatever, and

  960. some of us don't really care that

  961. it's a Baptist church, and

  962. that's fine.

  963. Right?

  964. But we're coming from all

  965. different backgrounds, but

  966. we've been won over by the

  967. kindness and loyalty of our

  968. King, Jesus.

  969. And so we come to follow him,

  970. we come to give our treasures

  971. to him because he has shown us

  972. his kindness, and he has shown us

  973. his faithfulness.

  974. So in conclusion, three things.

  975. God doesn't abandon us when we've

  976. been betrayed.

  977. God judges those who remain

  978. unfaithful to his kingdom.

  979. God provides for us through

  980. faithful friends.

  981. We see how this is true for

  982. David.

  983. Now you might, your last, one

  984. last question, you might say,

  985. well, how do we know it's true

  986. for us?

  987. Okay, it's true for David.

  988. Nice story back then.

  989. How in the world, why in the

  990. world should I assume that it will

  991. be true for me?

  992. Just because it happened to

  993. David doesn't mean it's going to

  994. happen to me the same way.

  995. And here's your answer.

  996. It's not just because it was true

  997. for David, it's true for us.

  998. It's that because, it's that David,

  999. it was true for David, and it was

  1000. also true for Jesus.

  1001. When Jesus was betrayed, God did not

  1002. abandon him.

  1003. God did not abandon him to Judas's,

  1004. Judas's, or the Jewish leaders, or

  1005. the Roman authorities' purposes.

  1006. But even through their betrayal, God

  1007. accomplished his purpose for Jesus, and

  1008. to bring us salvation.

  1009. God didn't abandon Jesus when he was

  1010. betrayed.

  1011. God brought judgment on Judas the

  1012. betrayer.

  1013. God provided for Jesus.

  1014. Even through faithful friends.

  1015. Interestingly, most of his followers

  1016. abandoned him, but there were a

  1017. couple who remained with him to the

  1018. end, and who were there with him even

  1019. at the cross.

  1020. And you know, it's because these things

  1021. are true of Jesus, and because Jesus

  1022. promises, I will be with you, even to

  1023. the end of the world.

  1024. That's the reason why you can be

  1025. confident these things are true of us,

  1026. is if you trust in Jesus as your king,

  1027. if you have put your trust in him, even

  1028. if, even if like David, you have failed

  1029. in the past, even if your life feels like

  1030. it's falling apart, even if you're hungry,

  1031. thirsty, weary in the wilderness, if you

  1032. say, yes, King Jesus, you are my king,

  1033. God won't abandon you, even if you're

  1034. betrayed.

  1035. God will bring judgment on those who

  1036. remain outside his kingdom, and God

  1037. will provide for you through faithful

  1038. friends.

  1039. Let's pray.

  1040. Lord, we thank you for these stories in

  1041. the Old Testament that are so realistic,

  1042. Lord, that don't shy away from showing the

  1043. messiness of life, the failures that we

  1044. often get ourselves into, and the troubles

  1045. that we face as human beings, but we thank you

  1046. that we see in them your faithful and

  1047. steadfast love.

  1048. We thank you for your son, Jesus Christ,

  1049. and that he is our merciful and faithful

  1050. high priest who has drawn near to us and

  1051. who has experienced these trials with us and

  1052. who's died on behalf of our sins so that we

  1053. can know your promises, so that we can know that

  1054. you won't abandon us, that you are our friend who

  1055. sticks closer than a brother, and you are the

  1056. one who provides for us through faithful

  1057. friends.

  1058. Lord, we pray that we would experience your

  1059. provision, that we would trust in your

  1060. provision through Jesus Christ, and that we

  1061. would be the means of your provision and your

  1062. grace for others as your spirit dwells in us.

  1063. We pray this in Jesus' name.

  1064. Amen.