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  1. We strategically planned for the heat to break this morning so you would stay awake through

  2. my extra long sermon.

  3. Looking at 1 Corinthians 5 this morning.

  4. In the Pew Bible, that's page 954.

  5. And friends, as you're turning there, I wonder if you've ever considered the question, let

  6. me ask, what is the measure of your love?

  7. How do you know when someone really loves you or when you really love someone else?

  8. I think one common way we might answer that today is that when you love someone, you allow

  9. or you affirm them in whatever path they choose.

  10. You do, in other words, nothing to stand in the way of what they feel is best for their

  11. happiness.

  12. I recently re-watched the original three Star Wars movies.

  13. Not the prequels because everyone knows they're not worth watching again.

  14. Sorry, you can disagree with me after the service.

  15. But it struck me that the climax of episode four, as it is now, is when Luke is sort of

  16. the last ship left in the attack on the Death Star, right?

  17. And in that critical moment when he's got one bomb left and one chance to stop the evil empire,

  18. what happens?

  19. Obi-Wan speaks to him through the force and says,

  20. Luke, trust your feelings.

  21. And so Luke pushes away the radar, trusts his feelings, drops the bomb right where it counts,

  22. the Death Star explodes, and the people rejoice.

  23. And then he and Han Solo and Chewbacca get cool medals down on the planet in a neat little

  24. ceremony.

  25. Now, not to be overly analytical, but what's the message in that critical moment when freedom

  26. and happiness for the galaxy hang in the balance?

  27. Trust your feelings.

  28. Do what you feel is right.

  29. And isn't it true that what we so often see is the real measure of love today is letting

  30. people free to do just that, not to stand in the way of the pursuit of what they feel

  31. they need to do for their happiness.

  32. I think Sting, that great songwriter and theologian, summed it up pretty nicely.

  33. In that old police song, right?

  34. When you love somebody, he said, you set them free.

  35. But friends, is that really the best measure of love?

  36. Is that the way to know if someone really loves you and that you love them?

  37. That you set them free, that you let them alone, that you leave them be?

  38. Our text this morning is going to show us that the real measure of our love for one another

  39. actually couldn't be more different.

  40. And in a deeply countercultural way, love is really measured not by our willingness to

  41. let someone free to follow their own feelings, but actually by our willingness to tell them

  42. when they've wandered down the wrong paths.

  43. In other words, the measure of love is not in how readily we permit one another's freely

  44. chosen path or desires, but in how readily we pursue and desire one another's holiness.

  45. As I've said, our text this morning is 1 Corinthians chapter 5, page 954.

    1 Corinthians 5 chapter mention

  46. And let me read this for us.

  47. Paul says,

  48. It's actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you and of a kind that is

  49. not tolerated even among the pagans, for a man has his father's wife.

  50. And you are arrogant.

  51. Ought you not rather to mourn?

  52. Let him who has done this be removed from among you.

  53. For though absent in body, I am present in spirit, and as if present, I have already pronounced

  54. judgment on the one who did such a thing.

  55. When you are assembled in the name of the Lord Jesus, and my spirit is present with the

  56. power of the Lord Jesus, you are to deliver this man to Satan for the destruction of the

  57. flesh, so that his spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord.

  58. Your boasting is not good.

  59. Do you not know that a little leaven leavens the whole lump?

  60. Cleanse out the old leaven, that you may be a new lump, as you really are unleavened.

  61. For Christ, our Passover lamb, has been sacrificed.

  62. Let us therefore celebrate the festival, not with the old leaven, the leaven of malice and

  63. evil, but with the unleavened bread of sincerity and truth.

  64. I wrote to you in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral people.

  65. Not at all meaning the sexually immoral of this world, or the greedy and swindlers or idolaters.

  66. Since then, you would need to go out of the world.

  67. But now I'm writing to you not to associate with anyone who bears the name of brother.

  68. If he is guilty of sexual immorality or greed, or is an idolater, reviler, drunkard, or swindler,

  69. not even to eat with such a one.

  70. For what have I to do with judging outsiders?

  71. Is it not those inside the church whom you are to judge?

  72. God judges those on the outside.

  73. Purge the evil person from among you.

  74. We should pray.

  75. Amen.

  76. God, we do thank you for your mercy and for your kindness that you would give us your word

  77. and preserve it for many, many ages.

  78. And in it, give us instruction and life-giving good news about Jesus and what it means to follow

  79. him together.

  80. So, Lord, we pray for your Holy Spirit to work among us this morning as we consider this text.

  81. And we trust that it's for our good, God.

  82. In Jesus' name, amen.

  83. So, this section of 1 Corinthians that we're now in, chapters 5, 6, and 7,

  84. that we'll be looking at, actually, between now and Easter, is all about holiness.

  85. And this chapter, chapter 5, is about how the church pursues holiness

  86. through what is often called church discipline.

  87. And in particular, it deals with one specific expression of church discipline called,

  88. sometimes, excommunication.

  89. Now, there are probably few things in the life of the church that are more misunderstood

  90. than church discipline.

  91. I mean, let's be honest.

  92. I say that word, and immediately you're probably already thinking of bearded Amish communities

  93. shunning their wayward neighbors.

  94. Or if you're remembering something that you learned in Western Civ as a freshman,

  95. something about medieval popes forcing barefoot kings to confess on the snowy rocks of Kenosa.

  96. None of you remember that, do you?

  97. I'm a history nerd.

  98. You can talk about it afterwards.

  99. If you're new to Christianity, I think, too, church discipline probably sounds like something

  100. that is judgmental at worst and hypocritical at best.

  101. And in reality, most churchgoers today have either never been in a church that practices

  102. church discipline at all, or if they have, it's often been done really, really poorly.

  103. So our text this morning is actually very helpful.

  104. It's going to clarify some misconceptions.

  105. It's going to relieve us of some caricatures.

  106. And it's really going to help us recover an element of our spiritual life together that

  107. is missing in so many churches today.

  108. So we're going to approach this text in a really straightforward way by just asking three

  109. basic questions.

  110. First, what is church discipline?

  111. Second, how is it done?

  112. And third, why should we do it?

  113. What is it?

  114. How do we do it?

  115. Why do we do it?

  116. But first, what does this text tell us about what is church discipline?

  117. In verse one, look there again, we learn of a church member in Corinth who is engaged in

  118. public, ongoing, unrepentant sin.

  119. Now, it's hard to reconstruct all the details of this particular case.

  120. It seems to involve some sort of blatant sexual immorality with this man's mother or more

  121. likely his stepmother, according to the end of verse one.

  122. But we don't need to reconstruct all the historical details to get the point.

  123. What's the point?

  124. Here is a man who is identifying as a Christian, professing to believe in Jesus and have him

  125. as Savior and as Lord.

  126. He's a visible member of the church, but his life is marked, characterized by open, ongoing,

  127. unrepentant disobedience to Jesus.

  128. In other words, his lip and his life, as it were, are completely at odds.

  129. He claims to be a follower of Jesus.

  130. His actions say the opposite.

  131. And so, in verse two, Paul says, remove him from among you.

  132. That is, remove him from formal membership in your body.

  133. Now, keep in mind, the act of church membership, in the act of membership, the local church

  134. is doing what?

  135. The local church is saying, yes, with charity, and as best as we can determine, this person

  136. has genuine saving faith in Jesus Christ.

  137. By God's grace, through faith, this woman, this man, they are a member of God's kingdom

  138. and God's family.

  139. That's what church membership, in large part, is saying.

  140. It's the church's affirmation of someone's profession of faith for all to see.

  141. But what Paul is telling the Corinthians to do here, in light of the persistent, public,

  142. unrepentant sin in this man's life, is in essence to stop saying that.

  143. This man's life gives us no confidence as the church to be able to make that affirmation

  144. any longer.

  145. We can no longer affirm this person's profession of faith.

  146. Therefore, Paul says, remove him from membership.

  147. Now, as a brief aside, I think this means right off the bat that far from church discipline

  148. being a hypocritical thing to do, church discipline is actually the way that church strives to not

  149. be hypocritical.

  150. Right?

  151. We want our profession, what we say, and our actions to align.

  152. And church discipline helps us corporately to be able to do that.

  153. Now, the actual removal of someone from membership is sometimes called excommunication.

  154. That's one of those scary words, right?

  155. But it's quite simple, actually.

  156. It just means being removed out of the communion.

  157. Ex out of the communion.

  158. Communication.

  159. But, you know, when we talk about church discipline more broadly, we're not talking about just

  160. that particular act.

  161. We're talking about a process.

  162. A process of meeting with that person, asking, listening, explaining, exhorting, warning, praying.

  163. And it's a process that may or may not lead to communication.

  164. That is, it may or may not lead to the person being formally removed from membership, depending

  165. on how the person responds.

  166. And we're going to get to that process in a minute when we discuss the how of all this.

  167. But before we do that, let me make a couple further observations here about the what of

  168. church discipline.

  169. First, notice in verse 11, if you see down there, that church discipline isn't just for

  170. sexual immorality.

  171. In that verse, Paul lists all sorts of things that if they were ongoing and unrepentant in

  172. a professing Christian's life would be grounds for a process of correction in church discipline.

  173. You know, sometimes we get this strange notion that the Bible has a weird taboo against sex.

  174. And that's clearly not true.

  175. At the end of chapter 6, Paul is going to tell the Corinthians to glorify God with their bodies.

  176. And in chapter 7, he's going to tell husbands and wives to make sure that they're having sex on a

  177. regular basis.

  178. So there's nothing prudish or repressive about biblical Christianity, and sexual sins aren't

  179. somehow worse than others.

  180. But second, notice that church discipline is a means of dealing with unrepentant sin in a

  181. believer's life.

  182. This is really important to see.

  183. No one is going to be removed from membership, in a healthy church anyway, merely because they sin.

  184. Every Christian, friends, is a sinner.

  185. Every Christian will sin throughout their Christian life.

  186. There is no doubt and question about that.

  187. But genuine Christians, you see, are marked by hearts of repentance towards their sin.

  188. That is, they admit that it's wrong and displeasing to God.

  189. They don't want to do it anymore, and they seek God's help for change.

  190. This means, for example, that a Christian with a history of addiction can relapse again and again and again.

  191. But if their heart is a heart of repentance, of softness before the Lord, they admit that it's wrong.

  192. They don't want to do it.

  193. They're seeking the Lord's help in the battle against temptation.

  194. Friends, they're not going to undergo church discipline.

  195. They're certainly not going to be removed from membership.

  196. That's the Christian life.

  197. Fighting and wrestling against sin with gentle hearts before the Lord and one another.

  198. Hearts of repentance.

  199. But on the other hand, the Christian, for example, who say,

  200. cheats on their taxes every single year, sees nothing wrong with it, shows no desire to change.

  201. Well, if for some reason that became public, it very well might be in a process of church discipline.

  202. What's the difference?

  203. Well, the difference is, although one sin culturally seems kind of messier and uglier and more wrong,

  204. and the other seems sort of like white collar and okay, the difference is the heart of repentance.

  205. And this is an important point.

  206. Jesus said, I've come not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.

  207. Yeah?

  208. The church, friends, is meant to be a hospital for sinners who know they need a Savior.

  209. And, friends, none are turned away, no matter how great their sickness.

  210. The church isn't a place for perfect people, but for broken people.

  211. But if we continue to refuse Jesus' diagnosis of our spiritual condition, if we persist in unrepentant sin,

  212. it puts us in a very dangerous position, just like a patient who refuses sound medical advice,

  213. even after a second and third opinion.

  214. And it's that dangerous position that church discipline is meant to address.

  215. And so I hope you're beginning to see that church discipline isn't a hypocritical act,

  216. and it's actually not a judgmental act.

  217. Not the way we often think of something being judgmental.

  218. Rather, it's an act of correction for the person's good.

  219. And that leads to a quick third observation under this first point here.

  220. It's good to realize that church discipline isn't sort of coming out of nowhere.

  221. It's not as if Paul just sort of blew a gasket and said,

  222. kick this guy out of the church.

  223. No.

  224. Reading the entirety of the Bible, even the passage that James just read for us,

  225. we see that God is holy.

  226. And that we in the church belong to Him through Christ.

  227. And so for our good and for God's glory, we're meant to reflect Him.

  228. God was telling the Israelites in Leviticus to be holy as He is holy,

  229. and He's calling the church to be the same.

  230. And church discipline is a part of the process whereby we as the church pursue

  231. that calling and that holiness together out of love for God

  232. and out of a desire to resemble Him together.

  233. Okay, so that's what church discipline is.

  234. Secondly, let's ask how church discipline is supposed to work.

  235. We're going to focus on verses 3 and 5 in our text,

  236. but first, I want us actually to turn to Matthew chapter 18.

    Matthew 18 chapter mention

  237. It's page 823 in the Pew Bible.

  238. Flip over to Matthew chapter 18 with me.

    Matthew 18 chapter mention

  239. Look down at verse 15 of Matthew chapter 18.

    Matthew 18 chapter mention

  240. And here we see that Jesus Himself gives us a process,

  241. a series of wise and loving steps to take when a member of the church,

  242. a brother or sister, is engaged in unrepentant sin.

  243. So Matthew chapter 18, verse 15.

    Matthew 18:15

  244. Here's the first step of that process.

  245. If your brother or sister sins against you,

  246. go and tell him his fault between you and him alone.

  247. If he listens to you, you've gained your brother.

  248. Notice that this first step is private.

  249. You do it one-on-one.

  250. You're not there to shame and blame,

  251. but you're there to gain a brother or a sister.

  252. And if the person repents, if they see,

  253. if they accept the correction,

  254. if they see what you're saying, that's it.

  255. It's done.

  256. Jesus says you've gained your brother and sister

  257. and the church discipline process is over.

  258. Step two, verse 16.

  259. But if he does not listen,

  260. take one or two others along with you

  261. that every charge may be established

  262. by the evidence of two or three witnesses.

  263. Jesus says if the person doesn't repent

  264. after the one-on-one meeting

  265. or more likely after a few one-on-one meetings,

  266. then take some trustworthy people with you, Jesus says.

  267. Most likely this will be an elder

  268. or some other trusted church leader

  269. or someone who's spiritually mature

  270. and maybe knows the person well.

  271. And notice how the circle's starting to get a little wider,

  272. but again, even here, it's still very private, right?

  273. And again, if the person repents at this stage,

  274. the process is over.

  275. You've gained your brother or sister.

  276. It's done.

  277. Restoration.

  278. Step three, verse 17.

  279. If he refuses to listen to them,

  280. tell it to the church.

  281. At this point, after repeated meetings with the person,

  282. the situation is then explained

  283. to the members of the church family,

  284. those who have committed their life together

  285. to love and serve one another.

  286. Notice how the circle of prayer and exhortation

  287. and warning gets a little bigger

  288. and a little more serious each time.

  289. But again, at this point even,

  290. if the person repents,

  291. if they turn from their sin,

  292. it's over.

  293. There's no shunning,

  294. there's no shame,

  295. there's forgiveness,

  296. and there's restoration.

  297. But if the person continues in unrepentance,

  298. though the whole church has prayed and warned,

  299. then Jesus says there's one more step.

  300. Look at the rest of verse 17.

  301. And if he refuses to listen even to the church,

  302. let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector.

  303. That is, no longer consider him

  304. as a brother or sister in the family of the church.

  305. Remove him or her from membership.

  306. In 1 Corinthians 5,

  307. if you want to turn back there,

  308. verses 3 through 5,

  309. Paul goes into a little more detail

  310. about how that final step of removal

  311. from membership should happen

  312. in the Corinthian church.

  313. Now, as you scan those verses again,

  314. you can see that there are some

  315. pretty tricky bits here.

  316. First, I mean, perhaps first,

  317. it seems like,

  318. after we've just seen this great process

  319. that Jesus lays out,

  320. it seems like Paul doesn't follow

  321. the ordinary process that Jesus outlines

  322. in chapter 18 of Matthew.

  323. Does that mean that Paul is disregarding

  324. the teaching of Jesus?

  325. Well, no.

  326. I think it's more likely

  327. that Paul sees the situation in Corinth

  328. as so extreme,

  329. so public,

  330. and so clear.

  331. The man is so clearly unrepentant

  332. and recalcitrant.

  333. The church itself is so hardened

  334. and even proud of what's happening

  335. that moving directly to the final stage

  336. of the process,

  337. Paul sees as necessary and warranted.

  338. Now, today, there might be times

  339. when a case is so clear

  340. that a church moves quickly

  341. through the process Jesus outlines.

  342. But friends, that would be very, very rare

  343. as it was here in 1 Corinthians 5.

  344. Next, as we look at this paragraph,

  345. what does Paul mean that he's present

  346. in spirit or my spirit is present?

  347. I don't think Paul means anything spooky

  348. or weird by that.

  349. It's not as if, you know,

  350. he's going to be a specter

  351. haunting their next congregational meeting

  352. in the Corinthian fellowship hall

  353. or that he's going to show up

  354. like Obi-Wan speaking to Luke

  355. through the force.

  356. Corinth, trust your feelings.

  357. I think Paul is saying,

  358. I mean, quite straightforward,

  359. I think he's saying that

  360. his heart and his mind

  361. is so engaged in what's going on here

  362. that he cares so much for this church

  363. and he cares so much

  364. for Christ's honor among them.

  365. It's as if he's there,

  366. even if he can't actually be there.

  367. He's behind them.

  368. He's for them.

  369. He's deeply engaged.

  370. I mean, we sometimes

  371. even speak this way, don't we?

  372. I'll be there in spirit

  373. when we can't actually make it, right?

  374. What do we mean by that?

  375. We mean that our hearts

  376. and our thoughts

  377. are going to be deeply engaged with it

  378. even if we aren't actually there.

  379. Okay, the last tricky bit

  380. in this paragraph

  381. is verse five.

  382. What does it mean

  383. to deliver this man to Satan?

  384. Golly.

  385. Well, friends, in the Bible,

  386. Satan is sometimes described

  387. as the ruler of this world

  388. in the sense that

  389. in this fallen world,

  390. that is the sphere

  391. where the enemy exercises

  392. his influence and his power.

  393. So by saying,

  394. deliver this man to Satan,

  395. Paul's using vivid language

  396. to describe the act

  397. of removing the man

  398. from membership

  399. out of the visible church,

  400. out of the realm of Christ,

  401. and thus handing him over

  402. to the world,

  403. to the realm of Satan.

  404. Deeply vivid,

  405. stark language Paul's using

  406. for this serious act.

  407. Now, we're going to get

  408. to the rest of verse five

  409. in a minute

  410. when we talk about

  411. the why of church discipline.

  412. For now,

  413. notice that in this paragraph,

  414. three through five,

  415. Paul assumes,

  416. just like Jesus taught

  417. in Matthew 18,

  418. that removing someone

  419. from membership

  420. is something

  421. that the whole church

  422. will do.

  423. When you are assembled,

  424. Paul says,

  425. then you are to do this.

  426. In other words,

  427. he's calling the whole church

  428. to be responsible

  429. for its members.

  430. All of us, friends,

  431. who have committed

  432. to the local body

  433. are spiritually accountable

  434. to one another

  435. in the church.

  436. It's not just

  437. the pastors and elders

  438. who are tasked

  439. with spiritual care

  440. in the family of Christ,

  441. even though we are called

  442. to take the lead

  443. in doing that.

  444. All of us have a part

  445. to play.

  446. In other words,

  447. when we become members

  448. of a local church,

  449. we're taking on a calling.

  450. We're taking on

  451. a responsibility.

  452. It's not like

  453. just being members

  454. of the Sierra Club

  455. where you sort of

  456. get a nice card

  457. in the mail

  458. and you get a magazine

  459. every once in a while.

  460. No!

  461. Church membership

  462. is a mission.

  463. It's a calling.

  464. It's a role

  465. to do our part

  466. to help our brothers

  467. and sisters

  468. grow in the Lord

  469. using whatever gifts

  470. God has given us.

  471. To give and receive

  472. gifts of love

  473. and service

  474. as we say here

  475. at Trinity

  476. when someone becomes

  477. a member.

  478. Notice too, friends,

  479. that it's something

  480. that the whole church

  481. does in the name

  482. of the Lord Jesus

  483. with the power

  484. of the Lord Jesus,

  485. Paul says.

  486. And this is what

  487. we saw in Matthew 18.

  488. In other words,

  489. Paul isn't just

  490. making this up

  491. out of his head.

  492. It was the Lord's idea

  493. from the start.

  494. And that means

  495. that Jesus will be present

  496. to give us

  497. the strength

  498. and the courage

  499. and the wisdom

  500. for the task

  501. no matter how difficult

  502. it becomes.

  503. God's idea

  504. is the need

  505. to be present

  506. Now let me just say

  507. the question

  508. of how we interact

  509. with someone

  510. who's been removed

  511. from membership

  512. after a process

  513. of church discipline

  514. is a challenging one.

  515. As verse 5 implies

  516. and as Jesus made it clear

  517. in Matthew 18,

  518. the goal of church discipline

  519. is the restoration

  520. and repentance

  521. and restoration

  522. of the offending brother

  523. or sister, right?

  524. So on one level,

  525. we'll want to have

  526. some contact with them

  527. and we'll want them

  528. even to show up

  529. for public worship

  530. on Sundays

  531. hoping that God's word

  532. will work a change

  533. in them.

  534. And obviously

  535. if they're part

  536. of our natural family,

  537. if it's a husband

  538. or wife,

  539. if it's a son

  540. or a daughter,

  541. we'll obviously

  542. remain faithful

  543. to them

  544. in those roles.

  545. But our overarching aim

  546. as members

  547. of the body of Christ

  548. is to see them

  549. come back to a place

  550. where they confess

  551. and forsake their sin

  552. and seek forgiveness.

  553. So our relationship

  554. with a former church member

  555. will, without a doubt,

  556. have a different feel.

  557. Paul says in verse 11

  558. pretty starkly,

  559. don't even eat

  560. with such a one.

  561. Now eating in the first century

  562. meant a lot more

  563. than just getting calories

  564. into your system, right?

  565. It was a sign of solidarity

  566. and acceptance.

  567. It was a sign

  568. of wholehearted embrace.

  569. If someone professes

  570. to be a Christian

  571. but utterly disregards

  572. the teaching

  573. and the lordship of Jesus,

  574. friends,

  575. we can't give them

  576. that wholehearted embrace.

  577. Our interactions

  578. will be loving

  579. and gentle, yes,

  580. but there will be

  581. a sobriety

  582. and seriousness

  583. to those interactions

  584. as well.

  585. And undergirding everything

  586. will be a longing

  587. that the person

  588. experience a change

  589. of heart

  590. and come to know

  591. real repentance.

  592. I've actually had

  593. one experience

  594. of this personally.

  595. A number of friends,

  596. a number of years ago,

  597. a friend of mine

  598. who is not a member

  599. of this church

  600. but a member

  601. of another church

  602. actually came under

  603. church discipline

  604. and was eventually

  605. removed from membership.

  606. There was a secret sin

  607. in his life

  608. that he had nursed

  609. for many years

  610. that very few people

  611. even knew about

  612. and when it eventually

  613. came to light,

  614. when it finally

  615. sort of came out

  616. in the open,

  617. he refused to see

  618. that it was wrong,

  619. persisted in it

  620. and there was

  621. zero repentance.

  622. And of course,

  623. it was heartbreaking.

  624. He was a very close friend,

  625. someone that Beth and I knew

  626. even before we moved

  627. to New Haven.

  628. And I looked up to him

  629. in many ways actually.

  630. He was a little older

  631. than I was.

  632. And I remember

  633. interacting with him

  634. a few times

  635. after everything

  636. had sort of gone down

  637. and after he had been

  638. removed from membership

  639. in his church.

  640. And friends,

  641. I confess,

  642. it was hard.

  643. At first,

  644. you know,

  645. we sort of had

  646. the usual friendly,

  647. oh, hey,

  648. how's it going?

  649. How's work?

  650. But given all

  651. that had happened,

  652. our conversation

  653. couldn't just go on

  654. as usual.

  655. I'd like to say

  656. we had sort of deep,

  657. meaningful conversation

  658. about where he was

  659. at spiritually,

  660. but you know,

  661. we didn't.

  662. It was clear

  663. from our conversation

  664. that his heart

  665. hadn't changed

  666. and maybe I just

  667. chickened out,

  668. didn't bring it up.

  669. Or maybe we both

  670. knew where the others

  671. stood

  672. and had already

  673. laid it out honestly

  674. on the table

  675. in previous conversations,

  676. so maybe there wasn't

  677. much left to say.

  678. But either way,

  679. I told him that I was

  680. praying for him

  681. and that I cared

  682. deeply about him,

  683. but I knew that things

  684. couldn't go back

  685. to being the same.

  686. because me pretending

  687. like everything

  688. was okay,

  689. friends,

  690. it would have done

  691. him no good

  692. because everything

  693. wasn't okay.

  694. He was headed

  695. headlong

  696. away from Christ,

  697. still professing

  698. to be a believer,

  699. but rejecting

  700. everything.

  701. How about who Jesus

  702. was and what Jesus

  703. taught?

  704. we couldn't just

  705. go back to normal

  706. because way too much

  707. was at stake

  708. for him.

  709. And friends,

  710. the reality is that

  711. each discipline situation

  712. is different.

  713. If we as a congregation

  714. need to,

  715. at some point

  716. in the future,

  717. remove someone

  718. from membership

  719. because of a discipline issue,

  720. we'll need to

  721. carefully consider

  722. how to have a fruitful

  723. ongoing relationship

  724. with that person.

  725. And you can look to us

  726. as the elders

  727. to give prayerful help

  728. on how to do it well.

  729. And it's not as if

  730. the elders are getting ready

  731. to do church discipline.

  732. We're preaching

  733. 1 Corinthians 5

  734. because it was sort of

  735. the next chapter

  736. in the series.

  737. But friends,

  738. it's going to be tricky

  739. if it comes up.

  740. But prayerfully,

  741. we'll do it together.

  742. So what do we see then

  743. about the how

  744. of church discipline here?

  745. First,

  746. we see that it's something

  747. that we do

  748. patiently and deliberately.

  749. It's not brash.

  750. It's not judgmental.

  751. There's a process

  752. that Jesus gives us

  753. and we can trust that process.

  754. Second,

  755. it's something

  756. that we do corporately.

  757. It's a process

  758. we're all responsible for

  759. in one way,

  760. shape, or form.

  761. And finally,

  762. it's something

  763. that we do dependently.

  764. It's a process

  765. that we need Jesus'

  766. own wisdom and strength for

  767. and He promises

  768. that He'll give it to us.

  769. If you look back

  770. in Matthew 18,

  771. there's a really famous verse

  772. at the end of that

  773. church discipline paragraph

  774. where two or three

  775. are gathered in my name.

  776. There I am in the midst.

  777. And Jesus isn't talking

  778. about an evening service

  779. when it snows

  780. and no one shows up.

  781. What's the context?

  782. He's talking about

  783. correction

  784. in the life of the body.

  785. And He says,

  786. in those hard moments,

  787. beloved,

  788. I'll be with you.

  789. I'm going to be

  790. in the midst of you,

  791. leading you

  792. and guiding you.

  793. So the last question

  794. I want to ask

  795. about church discipline

  796. in this text

  797. is not just what or how,

  798. but why.

  799. Why in the world

  800. should we do this?

  801. I mean, come on.

  802. Can't we just let people

  803. figure this stuff out

  804. on their own?

  805. Are we really supposed

  806. to meddle in each other's lives

  807. to this degree?

  808. I mean, maybe for you

  809. all this still sounds

  810. a bit harsh.

  811. You know, maybe you're

  812. visiting church this morning

  813. and you think,

  814. what in the world

  815. did I get into?

  816. This is craziness.

  817. But briefly,

  818. I want us to see

  819. that church discipline,

  820. this process of correction

  821. and approaching one another

  822. in this way

  823. is driven by love.

  824. This process is driven

  825. by a three-fold love

  826. that compels us to do this.

  827. And we actually see them

  828. right here in our text.

  829. The first is this.

  830. We do church discipline

  831. out of a love,

  832. one,

  833. for the person

  834. being disciplined.

  835. This is that tricky bit

  836. at the end of verse five.

  837. What's Paul actually

  838. saying there?

  839. He's saying there

  840. that the aim

  841. in church discipline,

  842. as we've said,

  843. is restoration.

  844. We want this person

  845. to be rescued

  846. from their sinful nature,

  847. from the flesh,

  848. so that they might stand

  849. before the Lord

  850. one day in confidence.

  851. When it really counts,

  852. we want them to be there.

  853. And even the act

  854. of excommunication,

  855. formally removing someone

  856. from membership,

  857. is meant to function

  858. like a giant megaphone

  859. calling them to return.

  860. It's like a huge warning sign

  861. saying that the bridge

  862. is out ahead

  863. and that road

  864. only leads to disaster.

  865. The hope is always

  866. that the person

  867. will one day

  868. come back into membership.

  869. Why do we want that?

  870. We want that

  871. not because we want

  872. the other person

  873. to be miserable,

  874. but actually because

  875. we long

  876. for that person's

  877. lasting joy.

  878. Think with me

  879. for a second.

  880. underneath

  881. our common idea

  882. that to really love

  883. someone,

  884. you need to set them free

  885. and not get in the way

  886. of what they feel is right.

  887. Underneath that

  888. is the belief

  889. that following

  890. one's feelings

  891. is the key

  892. to lasting happiness.

  893. And so we think

  894. real love,

  895. wanting the other

  896. to be genuinely happy,

  897. which is not a bad

  898. definition of love.

  899. We think that real love

  900. must be found

  901. in letting them free

  902. to pursue their feelings.

  903. If I love you

  904. and want you to be happy,

  905. I can't stand

  906. in the way

  907. of what you feel.

  908. But friends,

  909. is that belief

  910. actually justified?

  911. That the pursuit

  912. of feeling

  913. necessarily leads

  914. to lasting happiness?

  915. Do we actually

  916. have good reason

  917. to believe that?

  918. And don't we all

  919. have a sense

  920. that our feelings

  921. and our desires

  922. aren't always trustworthy?

  923. Yesterday,

  924. I took

  925. Jack and Claire,

  926. my four-year-old

  927. and three-year-old,

  928. to the Pez factory

  929. store in Orange.

  930. Have you been there?

  931. First time we've been there,

  932. it was actually quite fun.

  933. I didn't realize

  934. they charge you money

  935. to go.

  936. So I said,

  937. is there anything

  938. we can see here for free?

  939. She's like,

  940. you can go to the store.

  941. I was like,

  942. okay, fair enough.

  943. So we went to the store,

  944. the Pez store,

  945. and predictably,

  946. my daughter picked out

  947. the Elsa Pez head,

  948. and my son picked out

  949. the Stormtrooper Pez head,

  950. and we got Nemo for Owen.

  951. But you know,

  952. my daughter,

  953. left to her own devices,

  954. would have eaten

  955. those chalky little pellets

  956. of Pez candy

  957. all afternoon,

  958. all night,

  959. all morning,

  960. had I let her follow

  961. her feelings and desires.

  962. She was begging me

  963. to let her eat

  964. Owen's Pez

  965. that we got for him.

  966. Of course,

  967. he's not going to eat them.

  968. When we first got home,

  969. she said,

  970. Daddy,

  971. let's save it for Owen.

  972. By the end of the afternoon,

  973. it was,

  974. he's not going to eat it,

  975. Daddy.

  976. Give it to me.

  977. And of course,

  978. had we let her

  979. go down that path

  980. as a result,

  981. she would have gotten

  982. terribly sick.

  983. Our whole family

  984. would have been miserable.

  985. And of course,

  986. that's a very simple example,

  987. isn't it?

  988. But can't we extend it

  989. to nearly all areas

  990. of our life?

  991. So if the free expression

  992. of our feelings and desires

  993. isn't the key

  994. to lasting happiness,

  995. friends,

  996. what is?

  997. There's a popular Christian book

  998. about marriage

  999. that once said,

  1000. God cares more

  1001. about your holiness

  1002. than your happiness.

  1003. But you know,

  1004. honestly,

  1005. friends,

  1006. if you leave it there,

  1007. that's actually not true.

  1008. Or at least,

  1009. it's not a helpful way

  1010. of putting it.

  1011. The truth is,

  1012. brothers and sisters,

  1013. that God cares deeply

  1014. about our happiness.

  1015. And because of that,

  1016. He is dead set

  1017. on making us holy.

  1018. After all,

  1019. what could bring

  1020. more happiness

  1021. to our finite

  1022. created hearts

  1023. than to share

  1024. the nature

  1025. of God Himself?

  1026. Can we read

  1027. even the first chapter

  1028. of the Bible

  1029. and not be swept up

  1030. with the thrills

  1031. of joy

  1032. ripping across the page

  1033. as God creates

  1034. everything good

  1035. and then in the end

  1036. declares it very good

  1037. and it's teeming

  1038. with life

  1039. and energy

  1040. and joy

  1041. just waiting

  1042. to be unfolded?

  1043. Friends,

  1044. God is a God

  1045. of unbounded,

  1046. overflowing

  1047. felicity,

  1048. happiness.

  1049. As the great

  1050. church father Augustine

  1051. so often put it,

  1052. that's where

  1053. our happiness lies,

  1054. in Him.

  1055. So God cares

  1056. about our holiness

  1057. because He's eternally

  1058. committed

  1059. to our happiness.

  1060. He wants us

  1061. to share

  1062. His nature

  1063. so we can

  1064. share His joy

  1065. and that,

  1066. friends,

  1067. is the heart

  1068. under church discipline.

  1069. We see a professing

  1070. brother or sister

  1071. straying from

  1072. the path of holiness

  1073. and thus straying

  1074. from the path

  1075. of lasting joy

  1076. and we want to do

  1077. anything,

  1078. even the hard work

  1079. of church discipline

  1080. if necessary

  1081. to bring them back.

  1082. So you see,

  1083. all of this

  1084. is done

  1085. on the one hand

  1086. for love

  1087. of the person

  1088. himself or herself.

  1089. And let me ask

  1090. before we go

  1091. to the second love.

  1092. Friend,

  1093. do you have someone

  1094. in your life

  1095. who loves you

  1096. enough to do this?

  1097. Are you a part

  1098. of a community

  1099. who loves you

  1100. enough

  1101. to do this?

  1102. friends,

  1103. if you come

  1104. to know

  1105. Jesus Christ,

  1106. if you come

  1107. to become

  1108. a part

  1109. of His family,

  1110. you're not

  1111. going to see it

  1112. perfectly,

  1113. but you're going

  1114. to experience

  1115. a kind of deeper

  1116. and more committed

  1117. love than perhaps

  1118. anything you've

  1119. experienced.

  1120. Christ.

  1121. The second reason

  1122. we do church

  1123. discipline,

  1124. the second why,

  1125. is that it's done

  1126. out of a love

  1127. for the church.

  1128. In verses 6-8,

  1129. Paul begins,

  1130. your boasting's

  1131. not good,

  1132. Corinth.

  1133. Do you not know

  1134. that a little leaven

  1135. leavens the whole lump?

  1136. In other words,

  1137. if you let patterns

  1138. of unrepentant sin

  1139. go unchecked

  1140. in the church,

  1141. it is eventually

  1142. going to affect

  1143. everyone.

  1144. Whether implicitly

  1145. sort of giving

  1146. everyone permission

  1147. to sort of sin

  1148. and stray from Christ

  1149. in whatever ways

  1150. they see fit,

  1151. or causing people

  1152. to be sinned against

  1153. and hurt

  1154. as sinful patterns

  1155. and tendencies

  1156. go unchecked.

  1157. But then Paul goes

  1158. even deeper

  1159. in this paragraph.

  1160. Since Christ

  1161. has been sacrificed,

  1162. he says,

  1163. we ought to cleanse

  1164. out our old way

  1165. of life.

  1166. Note the critical

  1167. order in verse 7

  1168. that Paul lays out

  1169. there.

  1170. Jesus' sacrifice

  1171. for us by grace

  1172. means that we

  1173. really are unleavened.

  1174. He's covered

  1175. all of our sins

  1176. and therefore

  1177. we ought to pursue

  1178. increasing holiness.

  1179. We ought to be

  1180. who we are.

  1181. This grace

  1182. leads us to obedience.

  1183. It's not the other

  1184. way around.

  1185. Paul isn't saying

  1186. you've got to clean

  1187. up your act first

  1188. so that Jesus

  1189. will then decide

  1190. to maybe cover you

  1191. with his death.

  1192. That's not the gospel,

  1193. friends.

  1194. The gospel is

  1195. Jesus has died

  1196. in your place

  1197. like the Passover

  1198. lamb in Exodus

  1199. and now that you

  1200. are free

  1201. from sin's penalty

  1202. and from sin's curse

  1203. and your hearts

  1204. have been changed,

  1205. come follow him

  1206. as Lord.

  1207. Back in Exodus 12

  1208. that Paul's sort of

  1209. referencing here,

  1210. what was the leaven,

  1211. no leaven thing

  1212. all about

  1213. at the Passover?

  1214. Paul reads it here

  1215. on one level

  1216. as a sign

  1217. of the holiness

  1218. of the community

  1219. that they're being

  1220. made new

  1221. in that moment.

  1222. The Exodus account

  1223. in chapter 12

  1224. verse 39

  1225. suggests that

  1226. they ate unleavened bread

  1227. as a sign

  1228. of how quickly

  1229. they were thrust

  1230. out of Egypt.

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  1319. Thank you.