Sermon
1 Corinthians 5:1-13
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We strategically planned for the heat to break this morning so you would stay awake through
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my extra long sermon.
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Looking at 1 Corinthians 5 this morning.
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In the Pew Bible, that's page 954.
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And friends, as you're turning there, I wonder if you've ever considered the question, let
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me ask, what is the measure of your love?
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How do you know when someone really loves you or when you really love someone else?
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I think one common way we might answer that today is that when you love someone, you allow
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or you affirm them in whatever path they choose.
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You do, in other words, nothing to stand in the way of what they feel is best for their
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happiness.
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I recently re-watched the original three Star Wars movies.
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Not the prequels because everyone knows they're not worth watching again.
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Sorry, you can disagree with me after the service.
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But it struck me that the climax of episode four, as it is now, is when Luke is sort of
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the last ship left in the attack on the Death Star, right?
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And in that critical moment when he's got one bomb left and one chance to stop the evil empire,
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what happens?
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Obi-Wan speaks to him through the force and says,
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Luke, trust your feelings.
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And so Luke pushes away the radar, trusts his feelings, drops the bomb right where it counts,
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the Death Star explodes, and the people rejoice.
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And then he and Han Solo and Chewbacca get cool medals down on the planet in a neat little
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ceremony.
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Now, not to be overly analytical, but what's the message in that critical moment when freedom
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and happiness for the galaxy hang in the balance?
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Trust your feelings.
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Do what you feel is right.
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And isn't it true that what we so often see is the real measure of love today is letting
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people free to do just that, not to stand in the way of the pursuit of what they feel
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they need to do for their happiness.
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I think Sting, that great songwriter and theologian, summed it up pretty nicely.
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In that old police song, right?
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When you love somebody, he said, you set them free.
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But friends, is that really the best measure of love?
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Is that the way to know if someone really loves you and that you love them?
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That you set them free, that you let them alone, that you leave them be?
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Our text this morning is going to show us that the real measure of our love for one another
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actually couldn't be more different.
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And in a deeply countercultural way, love is really measured not by our willingness to
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let someone free to follow their own feelings, but actually by our willingness to tell them
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when they've wandered down the wrong paths.
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In other words, the measure of love is not in how readily we permit one another's freely
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chosen path or desires, but in how readily we pursue and desire one another's holiness.
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As I've said, our text this morning is 1 Corinthians chapter 5, page 954.
1 Corinthians 5 chapter mention
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And let me read this for us.
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Paul says,
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It's actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you and of a kind that is
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not tolerated even among the pagans, for a man has his father's wife.
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And you are arrogant.
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Ought you not rather to mourn?
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Let him who has done this be removed from among you.
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For though absent in body, I am present in spirit, and as if present, I have already pronounced
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judgment on the one who did such a thing.
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When you are assembled in the name of the Lord Jesus, and my spirit is present with the
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power of the Lord Jesus, you are to deliver this man to Satan for the destruction of the
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flesh, so that his spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord.
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Your boasting is not good.
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Do you not know that a little leaven leavens the whole lump?
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Cleanse out the old leaven, that you may be a new lump, as you really are unleavened.
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For Christ, our Passover lamb, has been sacrificed.
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Let us therefore celebrate the festival, not with the old leaven, the leaven of malice and
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evil, but with the unleavened bread of sincerity and truth.
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I wrote to you in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral people.
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Not at all meaning the sexually immoral of this world, or the greedy and swindlers or idolaters.
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Since then, you would need to go out of the world.
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But now I'm writing to you not to associate with anyone who bears the name of brother.
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If he is guilty of sexual immorality or greed, or is an idolater, reviler, drunkard, or swindler,
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not even to eat with such a one.
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For what have I to do with judging outsiders?
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Is it not those inside the church whom you are to judge?
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God judges those on the outside.
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Purge the evil person from among you.
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We should pray.
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Amen.
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God, we do thank you for your mercy and for your kindness that you would give us your word
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and preserve it for many, many ages.
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And in it, give us instruction and life-giving good news about Jesus and what it means to follow
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him together.
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So, Lord, we pray for your Holy Spirit to work among us this morning as we consider this text.
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And we trust that it's for our good, God.
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In Jesus' name, amen.
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So, this section of 1 Corinthians that we're now in, chapters 5, 6, and 7,
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that we'll be looking at, actually, between now and Easter, is all about holiness.
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And this chapter, chapter 5, is about how the church pursues holiness
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through what is often called church discipline.
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And in particular, it deals with one specific expression of church discipline called,
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sometimes, excommunication.
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Now, there are probably few things in the life of the church that are more misunderstood
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than church discipline.
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I mean, let's be honest.
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I say that word, and immediately you're probably already thinking of bearded Amish communities
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shunning their wayward neighbors.
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Or if you're remembering something that you learned in Western Civ as a freshman,
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something about medieval popes forcing barefoot kings to confess on the snowy rocks of Kenosa.
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None of you remember that, do you?
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I'm a history nerd.
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You can talk about it afterwards.
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If you're new to Christianity, I think, too, church discipline probably sounds like something
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that is judgmental at worst and hypocritical at best.
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And in reality, most churchgoers today have either never been in a church that practices
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church discipline at all, or if they have, it's often been done really, really poorly.
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So our text this morning is actually very helpful.
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It's going to clarify some misconceptions.
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It's going to relieve us of some caricatures.
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And it's really going to help us recover an element of our spiritual life together that
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is missing in so many churches today.
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So we're going to approach this text in a really straightforward way by just asking three
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basic questions.
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First, what is church discipline?
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Second, how is it done?
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And third, why should we do it?
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What is it?
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How do we do it?
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Why do we do it?
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But first, what does this text tell us about what is church discipline?
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In verse one, look there again, we learn of a church member in Corinth who is engaged in
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public, ongoing, unrepentant sin.
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Now, it's hard to reconstruct all the details of this particular case.
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It seems to involve some sort of blatant sexual immorality with this man's mother or more
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likely his stepmother, according to the end of verse one.
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But we don't need to reconstruct all the historical details to get the point.
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What's the point?
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Here is a man who is identifying as a Christian, professing to believe in Jesus and have him
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as Savior and as Lord.
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He's a visible member of the church, but his life is marked, characterized by open, ongoing,
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unrepentant disobedience to Jesus.
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In other words, his lip and his life, as it were, are completely at odds.
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He claims to be a follower of Jesus.
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His actions say the opposite.
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And so, in verse two, Paul says, remove him from among you.
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That is, remove him from formal membership in your body.
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Now, keep in mind, the act of church membership, in the act of membership, the local church
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is doing what?
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The local church is saying, yes, with charity, and as best as we can determine, this person
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has genuine saving faith in Jesus Christ.
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By God's grace, through faith, this woman, this man, they are a member of God's kingdom
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and God's family.
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That's what church membership, in large part, is saying.
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It's the church's affirmation of someone's profession of faith for all to see.
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But what Paul is telling the Corinthians to do here, in light of the persistent, public,
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unrepentant sin in this man's life, is in essence to stop saying that.
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This man's life gives us no confidence as the church to be able to make that affirmation
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any longer.
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We can no longer affirm this person's profession of faith.
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Therefore, Paul says, remove him from membership.
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Now, as a brief aside, I think this means right off the bat that far from church discipline
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being a hypocritical thing to do, church discipline is actually the way that church strives to not
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be hypocritical.
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Right?
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We want our profession, what we say, and our actions to align.
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And church discipline helps us corporately to be able to do that.
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Now, the actual removal of someone from membership is sometimes called excommunication.
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That's one of those scary words, right?
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But it's quite simple, actually.
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It just means being removed out of the communion.
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Ex out of the communion.
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Communication.
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But, you know, when we talk about church discipline more broadly, we're not talking about just
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that particular act.
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We're talking about a process.
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A process of meeting with that person, asking, listening, explaining, exhorting, warning, praying.
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And it's a process that may or may not lead to communication.
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That is, it may or may not lead to the person being formally removed from membership, depending
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on how the person responds.
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And we're going to get to that process in a minute when we discuss the how of all this.
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But before we do that, let me make a couple further observations here about the what of
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church discipline.
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First, notice in verse 11, if you see down there, that church discipline isn't just for
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sexual immorality.
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In that verse, Paul lists all sorts of things that if they were ongoing and unrepentant in
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a professing Christian's life would be grounds for a process of correction in church discipline.
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You know, sometimes we get this strange notion that the Bible has a weird taboo against sex.
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And that's clearly not true.
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At the end of chapter 6, Paul is going to tell the Corinthians to glorify God with their bodies.
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And in chapter 7, he's going to tell husbands and wives to make sure that they're having sex on a
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regular basis.
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So there's nothing prudish or repressive about biblical Christianity, and sexual sins aren't
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somehow worse than others.
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But second, notice that church discipline is a means of dealing with unrepentant sin in a
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believer's life.
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This is really important to see.
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No one is going to be removed from membership, in a healthy church anyway, merely because they sin.
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Every Christian, friends, is a sinner.
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Every Christian will sin throughout their Christian life.
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There is no doubt and question about that.
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But genuine Christians, you see, are marked by hearts of repentance towards their sin.
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That is, they admit that it's wrong and displeasing to God.
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They don't want to do it anymore, and they seek God's help for change.
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This means, for example, that a Christian with a history of addiction can relapse again and again and again.
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But if their heart is a heart of repentance, of softness before the Lord, they admit that it's wrong.
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They don't want to do it.
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They're seeking the Lord's help in the battle against temptation.
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Friends, they're not going to undergo church discipline.
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They're certainly not going to be removed from membership.
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That's the Christian life.
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Fighting and wrestling against sin with gentle hearts before the Lord and one another.
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Hearts of repentance.
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But on the other hand, the Christian, for example, who say,
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cheats on their taxes every single year, sees nothing wrong with it, shows no desire to change.
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Well, if for some reason that became public, it very well might be in a process of church discipline.
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What's the difference?
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Well, the difference is, although one sin culturally seems kind of messier and uglier and more wrong,
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and the other seems sort of like white collar and okay, the difference is the heart of repentance.
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And this is an important point.
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Jesus said, I've come not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.
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Yeah?
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The church, friends, is meant to be a hospital for sinners who know they need a Savior.
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And, friends, none are turned away, no matter how great their sickness.
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The church isn't a place for perfect people, but for broken people.
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But if we continue to refuse Jesus' diagnosis of our spiritual condition, if we persist in unrepentant sin,
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it puts us in a very dangerous position, just like a patient who refuses sound medical advice,
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even after a second and third opinion.
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And it's that dangerous position that church discipline is meant to address.
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And so I hope you're beginning to see that church discipline isn't a hypocritical act,
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and it's actually not a judgmental act.
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Not the way we often think of something being judgmental.
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Rather, it's an act of correction for the person's good.
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And that leads to a quick third observation under this first point here.
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It's good to realize that church discipline isn't sort of coming out of nowhere.
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It's not as if Paul just sort of blew a gasket and said,
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kick this guy out of the church.
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No.
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Reading the entirety of the Bible, even the passage that James just read for us,
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we see that God is holy.
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And that we in the church belong to Him through Christ.
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And so for our good and for God's glory, we're meant to reflect Him.
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God was telling the Israelites in Leviticus to be holy as He is holy,
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and He's calling the church to be the same.
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And church discipline is a part of the process whereby we as the church pursue
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that calling and that holiness together out of love for God
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and out of a desire to resemble Him together.
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Okay, so that's what church discipline is.
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Secondly, let's ask how church discipline is supposed to work.
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We're going to focus on verses 3 and 5 in our text,
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but first, I want us actually to turn to Matthew chapter 18.
Matthew 18 chapter mention
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It's page 823 in the Pew Bible.
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Flip over to Matthew chapter 18 with me.
Matthew 18 chapter mention
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Look down at verse 15 of Matthew chapter 18.
Matthew 18 chapter mention
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And here we see that Jesus Himself gives us a process,
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a series of wise and loving steps to take when a member of the church,
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a brother or sister, is engaged in unrepentant sin.
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So Matthew chapter 18, verse 15.
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Here's the first step of that process.
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If your brother or sister sins against you,
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go and tell him his fault between you and him alone.
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If he listens to you, you've gained your brother.
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Notice that this first step is private.
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You do it one-on-one.
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You're not there to shame and blame,
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but you're there to gain a brother or a sister.
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And if the person repents, if they see,
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if they accept the correction,
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if they see what you're saying, that's it.
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It's done.
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Jesus says you've gained your brother and sister
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and the church discipline process is over.
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Step two, verse 16.
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But if he does not listen,
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take one or two others along with you
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that every charge may be established
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by the evidence of two or three witnesses.
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Jesus says if the person doesn't repent
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after the one-on-one meeting
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or more likely after a few one-on-one meetings,
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then take some trustworthy people with you, Jesus says.
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Most likely this will be an elder
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or some other trusted church leader
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or someone who's spiritually mature
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and maybe knows the person well.
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And notice how the circle's starting to get a little wider,
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but again, even here, it's still very private, right?
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And again, if the person repents at this stage,
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the process is over.
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You've gained your brother or sister.
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It's done.
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Restoration.
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Step three, verse 17.
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If he refuses to listen to them,
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tell it to the church.
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At this point, after repeated meetings with the person,
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the situation is then explained
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to the members of the church family,
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those who have committed their life together
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to love and serve one another.
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Notice how the circle of prayer and exhortation
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and warning gets a little bigger
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and a little more serious each time.
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But again, at this point even,
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if the person repents,
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if they turn from their sin,
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it's over.
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There's no shunning,
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there's no shame,
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there's forgiveness,
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and there's restoration.
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But if the person continues in unrepentance,
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though the whole church has prayed and warned,
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then Jesus says there's one more step.
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Look at the rest of verse 17.
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And if he refuses to listen even to the church,
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let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector.
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That is, no longer consider him
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as a brother or sister in the family of the church.
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Remove him or her from membership.
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In 1 Corinthians 5,
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if you want to turn back there,
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verses 3 through 5,
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Paul goes into a little more detail
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about how that final step of removal
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from membership should happen
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in the Corinthian church.
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Now, as you scan those verses again,
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you can see that there are some
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pretty tricky bits here.
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First, I mean, perhaps first,
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it seems like,
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after we've just seen this great process
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that Jesus lays out,
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it seems like Paul doesn't follow
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the ordinary process that Jesus outlines
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in chapter 18 of Matthew.
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Does that mean that Paul is disregarding
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the teaching of Jesus?
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Well, no.
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I think it's more likely
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that Paul sees the situation in Corinth
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as so extreme,
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so public,
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and so clear.
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The man is so clearly unrepentant
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and recalcitrant.
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The church itself is so hardened
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and even proud of what's happening
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that moving directly to the final stage
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of the process,
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Paul sees as necessary and warranted.
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Now, today, there might be times
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when a case is so clear
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that a church moves quickly
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through the process Jesus outlines.
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But friends, that would be very, very rare
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as it was here in 1 Corinthians 5.
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Next, as we look at this paragraph,
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what does Paul mean that he's present
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in spirit or my spirit is present?
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I don't think Paul means anything spooky
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or weird by that.
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It's not as if, you know,
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he's going to be a specter
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haunting their next congregational meeting
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in the Corinthian fellowship hall
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or that he's going to show up
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like Obi-Wan speaking to Luke
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through the force.
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Corinth, trust your feelings.
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I think Paul is saying,
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I mean, quite straightforward,
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I think he's saying that
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his heart and his mind
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is so engaged in what's going on here
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that he cares so much for this church
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and he cares so much
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for Christ's honor among them.
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It's as if he's there,
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even if he can't actually be there.
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He's behind them.
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He's for them.
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He's deeply engaged.
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I mean, we sometimes
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even speak this way, don't we?
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I'll be there in spirit
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when we can't actually make it, right?
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What do we mean by that?
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We mean that our hearts
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and our thoughts
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are going to be deeply engaged with it
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even if we aren't actually there.
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Okay, the last tricky bit
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in this paragraph
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is verse five.
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What does it mean
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to deliver this man to Satan?
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Golly.
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Well, friends, in the Bible,
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Satan is sometimes described
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as the ruler of this world
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in the sense that
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in this fallen world,
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that is the sphere
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where the enemy exercises
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his influence and his power.
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So by saying,
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deliver this man to Satan,
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Paul's using vivid language
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to describe the act
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of removing the man
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from membership
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out of the visible church,
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out of the realm of Christ,
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and thus handing him over
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to the world,
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to the realm of Satan.
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Deeply vivid,
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stark language Paul's using
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for this serious act.
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Now, we're going to get
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to the rest of verse five
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in a minute
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when we talk about
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the why of church discipline.
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For now,
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notice that in this paragraph,
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three through five,
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Paul assumes,
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just like Jesus taught
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in Matthew 18,
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that removing someone
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from membership
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is something
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that the whole church
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will do.
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When you are assembled,
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Paul says,
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then you are to do this.
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In other words,
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he's calling the whole church
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to be responsible
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for its members.
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All of us, friends,
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who have committed
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to the local body
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are spiritually accountable
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to one another
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in the church.
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It's not just
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the pastors and elders
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who are tasked
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with spiritual care
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in the family of Christ,
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even though we are called
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to take the lead
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in doing that.
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All of us have a part
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to play.
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In other words,
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when we become members
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of a local church,
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we're taking on a calling.
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We're taking on
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a responsibility.
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It's not like
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just being members
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of the Sierra Club
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where you sort of
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get a nice card
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in the mail
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and you get a magazine
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every once in a while.
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No!
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Church membership
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is a mission.
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It's a calling.
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It's a role
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to do our part
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to help our brothers
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and sisters
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grow in the Lord
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using whatever gifts
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God has given us.
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To give and receive
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gifts of love
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and service
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as we say here
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at Trinity
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when someone becomes
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a member.
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Notice too, friends,
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that it's something
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that the whole church
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does in the name
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of the Lord Jesus
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with the power
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of the Lord Jesus,
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Paul says.
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And this is what
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we saw in Matthew 18.
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In other words,
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Paul isn't just
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making this up
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out of his head.
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It was the Lord's idea
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from the start.
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And that means
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that Jesus will be present
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to give us
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the strength
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and the courage
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and the wisdom
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for the task
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no matter how difficult
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it becomes.
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God's idea
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is the need
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to be present
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Now let me just say
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the question
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of how we interact
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with someone
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who's been removed
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from membership
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after a process
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of church discipline
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is a challenging one.
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As verse 5 implies
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and as Jesus made it clear
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in Matthew 18,
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the goal of church discipline
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is the restoration
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and repentance
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and restoration
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of the offending brother
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or sister, right?
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So on one level,
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we'll want to have
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some contact with them
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and we'll want them
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even to show up
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for public worship
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on Sundays
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hoping that God's word
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will work a change
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in them.
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And obviously
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if they're part
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of our natural family,
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if it's a husband
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or wife,
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if it's a son
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or a daughter,
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we'll obviously
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remain faithful
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to them
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in those roles.
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But our overarching aim
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as members
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of the body of Christ
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is to see them
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come back to a place
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where they confess
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and forsake their sin
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and seek forgiveness.
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So our relationship
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with a former church member
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will, without a doubt,
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have a different feel.
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Paul says in verse 11
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pretty starkly,
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don't even eat
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with such a one.
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Now eating in the first century
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meant a lot more
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than just getting calories
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into your system, right?
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It was a sign of solidarity
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and acceptance.
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It was a sign
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of wholehearted embrace.
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If someone professes
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to be a Christian
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but utterly disregards
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the teaching
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and the lordship of Jesus,
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friends,
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we can't give them
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that wholehearted embrace.
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Our interactions
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will be loving
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and gentle, yes,
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but there will be
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a sobriety
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and seriousness
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to those interactions
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as well.
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And undergirding everything
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will be a longing
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that the person
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experience a change
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of heart
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and come to know
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real repentance.
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I've actually had
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one experience
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of this personally.
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A number of friends,
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a number of years ago,
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a friend of mine
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who is not a member
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of this church
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but a member
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of another church
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actually came under
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church discipline
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and was eventually
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removed from membership.
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There was a secret sin
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in his life
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that he had nursed
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for many years
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that very few people
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even knew about
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and when it eventually
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came to light,
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when it finally
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sort of came out
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in the open,
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he refused to see
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that it was wrong,
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persisted in it
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and there was
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zero repentance.
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And of course,
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it was heartbreaking.
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He was a very close friend,
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someone that Beth and I knew
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even before we moved
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to New Haven.
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And I looked up to him
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in many ways actually.
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He was a little older
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than I was.
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And I remember
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interacting with him
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a few times
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after everything
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had sort of gone down
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and after he had been
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removed from membership
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in his church.
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And friends,
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I confess,
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it was hard.
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At first,
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you know,
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we sort of had
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the usual friendly,
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oh, hey,
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how's it going?
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How's work?
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But given all
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that had happened,
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our conversation
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couldn't just go on
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as usual.
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I'd like to say
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we had sort of deep,
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meaningful conversation
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about where he was
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at spiritually,
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but you know,
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we didn't.
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It was clear
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from our conversation
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that his heart
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hadn't changed
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and maybe I just
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chickened out,
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didn't bring it up.
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Or maybe we both
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knew where the others
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stood
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and had already
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laid it out honestly
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on the table
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in previous conversations,
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so maybe there wasn't
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much left to say.
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But either way,
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I told him that I was
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praying for him
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and that I cared
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deeply about him,
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but I knew that things
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couldn't go back
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to being the same.
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because me pretending
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like everything
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was okay,
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friends,
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it would have done
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him no good
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because everything
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wasn't okay.
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He was headed
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headlong
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away from Christ,
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still professing
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to be a believer,
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but rejecting
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everything.
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How about who Jesus
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was and what Jesus
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taught?
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we couldn't just
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go back to normal
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because way too much
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was at stake
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for him.
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And friends,
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the reality is that
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each discipline situation
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is different.
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If we as a congregation
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need to,
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at some point
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in the future,
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remove someone
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from membership
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because of a discipline issue,
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we'll need to
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carefully consider
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how to have a fruitful
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ongoing relationship
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with that person.
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And you can look to us
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as the elders
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to give prayerful help
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on how to do it well.
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And it's not as if
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the elders are getting ready
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to do church discipline.
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We're preaching
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1 Corinthians 5
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because it was sort of
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the next chapter
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in the series.
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But friends,
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it's going to be tricky
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if it comes up.
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But prayerfully,
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we'll do it together.
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So what do we see then
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about the how
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of church discipline here?
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First,
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we see that it's something
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that we do
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patiently and deliberately.
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It's not brash.
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It's not judgmental.
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There's a process
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that Jesus gives us
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and we can trust that process.
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Second,
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it's something
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that we do corporately.
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It's a process
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we're all responsible for
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in one way,
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shape, or form.
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And finally,
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it's something
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that we do dependently.
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It's a process
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that we need Jesus'
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own wisdom and strength for
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and He promises
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that He'll give it to us.
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If you look back
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in Matthew 18,
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there's a really famous verse
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at the end of that
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church discipline paragraph
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where two or three
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are gathered in my name.
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There I am in the midst.
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And Jesus isn't talking
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about an evening service
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when it snows
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and no one shows up.
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What's the context?
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He's talking about
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correction
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in the life of the body.
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And He says,
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in those hard moments,
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beloved,
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I'll be with you.
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I'm going to be
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in the midst of you,
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leading you
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and guiding you.
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So the last question
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I want to ask
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about church discipline
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in this text
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is not just what or how,
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but why.
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Why in the world
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should we do this?
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I mean, come on.
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Can't we just let people
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figure this stuff out
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on their own?
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Are we really supposed
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to meddle in each other's lives
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to this degree?
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I mean, maybe for you
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all this still sounds
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a bit harsh.
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You know, maybe you're
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visiting church this morning
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and you think,
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what in the world
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did I get into?
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This is craziness.
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But briefly,
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I want us to see
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that church discipline,
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this process of correction
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and approaching one another
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in this way
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is driven by love.
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This process is driven
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by a three-fold love
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that compels us to do this.
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And we actually see them
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right here in our text.
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The first is this.
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We do church discipline
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out of a love,
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one,
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for the person
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being disciplined.
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This is that tricky bit
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at the end of verse five.
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What's Paul actually
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saying there?
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He's saying there
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that the aim
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in church discipline,
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as we've said,
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is restoration.
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We want this person
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to be rescued
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from their sinful nature,
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from the flesh,
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so that they might stand
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before the Lord
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one day in confidence.
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When it really counts,
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we want them to be there.
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And even the act
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of excommunication,
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formally removing someone
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from membership,
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is meant to function
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like a giant megaphone
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calling them to return.
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It's like a huge warning sign
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saying that the bridge
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is out ahead
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and that road
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only leads to disaster.
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The hope is always
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that the person
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will one day
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come back into membership.
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Why do we want that?
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We want that
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not because we want
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the other person
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to be miserable,
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but actually because
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we long
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for that person's
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lasting joy.
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Think with me
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for a second.
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underneath
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our common idea
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that to really love
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someone,
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you need to set them free
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and not get in the way
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of what they feel is right.
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Underneath that
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is the belief
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that following
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one's feelings
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is the key
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to lasting happiness.
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And so we think
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real love,
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wanting the other
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to be genuinely happy,
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which is not a bad
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definition of love.
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We think that real love
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must be found
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in letting them free
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to pursue their feelings.
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If I love you
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and want you to be happy,
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I can't stand
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in the way
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of what you feel.
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But friends,
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is that belief
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actually justified?
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That the pursuit
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of feeling
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necessarily leads
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to lasting happiness?
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Do we actually
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have good reason
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to believe that?
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And don't we all
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have a sense
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that our feelings
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and our desires
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aren't always trustworthy?
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Yesterday,
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I took
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Jack and Claire,
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my four-year-old
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and three-year-old,
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to the Pez factory
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store in Orange.
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Have you been there?
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First time we've been there,
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it was actually quite fun.
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I didn't realize
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they charge you money
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to go.
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So I said,
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is there anything
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we can see here for free?
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She's like,
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you can go to the store.
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I was like,
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okay, fair enough.
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So we went to the store,
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the Pez store,
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and predictably,
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my daughter picked out
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the Elsa Pez head,
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and my son picked out
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the Stormtrooper Pez head,
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and we got Nemo for Owen.
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But you know,
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my daughter,
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left to her own devices,
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would have eaten
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those chalky little pellets
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of Pez candy
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all afternoon,
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all night,
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all morning,
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had I let her follow
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her feelings and desires.
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She was begging me
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to let her eat
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Owen's Pez
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that we got for him.
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Of course,
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he's not going to eat them.
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When we first got home,
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she said,
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Daddy,
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let's save it for Owen.
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By the end of the afternoon,
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it was,
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he's not going to eat it,
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Daddy.
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Give it to me.
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And of course,
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had we let her
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go down that path
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as a result,
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she would have gotten
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terribly sick.
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Our whole family
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would have been miserable.
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And of course,
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that's a very simple example,
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isn't it?
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But can't we extend it
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to nearly all areas
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of our life?
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So if the free expression
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of our feelings and desires
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isn't the key
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to lasting happiness,
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friends,
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what is?
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There's a popular Christian book
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about marriage
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that once said,
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God cares more
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about your holiness
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than your happiness.
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But you know,
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honestly,
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friends,
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if you leave it there,
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that's actually not true.
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Or at least,
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it's not a helpful way
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of putting it.
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The truth is,
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brothers and sisters,
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that God cares deeply
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about our happiness.
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And because of that,
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He is dead set
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on making us holy.
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After all,
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what could bring
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more happiness
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to our finite
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created hearts
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than to share
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the nature
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of God Himself?
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Can we read
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even the first chapter
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of the Bible
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and not be swept up
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with the thrills
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of joy
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ripping across the page
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as God creates
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everything good
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and then in the end
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declares it very good
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and it's teeming
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with life
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and energy
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and joy
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just waiting
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to be unfolded?
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Friends,
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God is a God
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of unbounded,
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overflowing
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felicity,
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happiness.
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As the great
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church father Augustine
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so often put it,
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that's where
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our happiness lies,
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in Him.
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So God cares
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about our holiness
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because He's eternally
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committed
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to our happiness.
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He wants us
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to share
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His nature
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so we can
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share His joy
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and that,
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friends,
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is the heart
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under church discipline.
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We see a professing
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brother or sister
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straying from
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the path of holiness
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and thus straying
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from the path
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of lasting joy
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and we want to do
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anything,
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even the hard work
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of church discipline
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if necessary
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to bring them back.
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So you see,
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all of this
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is done
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on the one hand
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for love
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of the person
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himself or herself.
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And let me ask
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before we go
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to the second love.
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Friend,
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do you have someone
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in your life
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who loves you
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enough to do this?
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Are you a part
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of a community
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who loves you
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enough
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to do this?
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friends,
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if you come
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to know
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Jesus Christ,
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if you come
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to become
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a part
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of His family,
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you're not
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going to see it
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perfectly,
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but you're going
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to experience
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a kind of deeper
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and more committed
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love than perhaps
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anything you've
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experienced.
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Christ.
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The second reason
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we do church
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discipline,
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the second why,
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is that it's done
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out of a love
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for the church.
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In verses 6-8,
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Paul begins,
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your boasting's
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not good,
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Corinth.
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Do you not know
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that a little leaven
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leavens the whole lump?
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In other words,
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if you let patterns
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of unrepentant sin
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go unchecked
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in the church,
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it is eventually
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going to affect
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everyone.
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Whether implicitly
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sort of giving
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everyone permission
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to sort of sin
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and stray from Christ
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in whatever ways
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they see fit,
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or causing people
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to be sinned against
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and hurt
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as sinful patterns
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and tendencies
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go unchecked.
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But then Paul goes
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even deeper
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in this paragraph.
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Since Christ
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has been sacrificed,
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he says,
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we ought to cleanse
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out our old way
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of life.
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Note the critical
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order in verse 7
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that Paul lays out
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there.
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Jesus' sacrifice
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for us by grace
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means that we
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really are unleavened.
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He's covered
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all of our sins
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and therefore
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we ought to pursue
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increasing holiness.
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We ought to be
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who we are.
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This grace
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leads us to obedience.
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It's not the other
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way around.
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Paul isn't saying
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you've got to clean
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up your act first
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so that Jesus
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will then decide
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to maybe cover you
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with his death.
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That's not the gospel,
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friends.
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The gospel is
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Jesus has died
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in your place
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like the Passover
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lamb in Exodus
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and now that you
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are free
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from sin's penalty
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and from sin's curse
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and your hearts
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have been changed,
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come follow him
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as Lord.
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Back in Exodus 12
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that Paul's sort of
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referencing here,
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what was the leaven,
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no leaven thing
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all about
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at the Passover?
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Paul reads it here
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on one level
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as a sign
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of the holiness
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of the community
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that they're being
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made new
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in that moment.
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The Exodus account
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in chapter 12
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verse 39
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suggests that
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they ate unleavened bread
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as a sign
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of how quickly
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they were thrust
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out of Egypt.
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Unit 16
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