Sermon
2 Samuel 19:9-43
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tonight.
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We're going to look at the end of 2 Samuel 19.
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That's page 271 in the Pew Bible. If you want to turn there, that'll be helpful.
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We'll kind of walk through this text together and see what God has for us here to learn
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tonight. Last week, Greg preached on 2 Samuel
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18 and in the beginning of 19 where David mourned the death of Absalom. Tonight, we're going to
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look at the rest of that chapter. And what's going on in this chapter is
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this is 2 Samuel's account of David's return
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to Jerusalem after Absalom's rebellion has come to an end.
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In other words, David, the rightful king
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is coming home in this text.
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And the big question that's looming at this point in Israel's
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history is this. How will
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David restore unity and peace
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to the kingdom?
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How's he going to do that?
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The king of Israel, after all, was supposed to unify
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the nation of Israel in the praise of God.
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And actually,
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through Israel, the king was really
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supposed to unify and eventually unite
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all nations in the praise of God.
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But right now, at this point in the story,
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as we'll see in a second,
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David is not coming home to peace.
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He's coming home to a fragile
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and fractured
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and fearful people
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who are on the brink of chaos.
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My wife and I, as some of you know,
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have three young kids.
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And when I come home
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after work,
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when I come home,
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what I often find waiting for me
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when I step through the door is not peace,
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but chaos.
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The kids have been playing all day,
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so their toys are strewn all around the house.
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Dinner is cooking.
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Someone's crying.
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In short, the Lauer household
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around 5.15 p.m. is nuts.
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And my wife, Beth,
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she is very awesome.
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She's great with the kids.
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But, you know,
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I think anybody at the end of the day,
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you know,
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those three kids at the end of the day,
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they are just toast.
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They're ready to unravel.
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Of course,
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I would love for my kids
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to welcome me
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at the door
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and say,
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Oh, Daddy dearest,
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welcome home.
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We're so glad to see you.
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Look at how I've cleaned up all my toys
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and made all things ready
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for your arrival.
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Come, let me hand you
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your slippers.
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Take this warm cup of tea.
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Here's the newspaper.
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I shall not bother you
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until it be dinner time,
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Father.
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That, of course,
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is not how it goes.
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Isn't it the case
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that the fallen world
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that we live in
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does not naturally tend
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towards peace and wholeness?
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It tends towards
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fragmentation and chaos.
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I think that is a great sign
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of the fact
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that things are not the way
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they're supposed to be
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in our world.
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And David,
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when he returns,
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the kingdom is not stable
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and peaceful
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and unified.
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It's fragile
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and it's on the verge of chaos.
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So let's jump into this text.
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Let's read the first two paragraphs
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and let's see how David
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goes about making peace
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in this situation.
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End of verse 8.
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Now Israel.
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Now Israel had fled
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every man
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to his own home.
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Israel here refers
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to the northern tribes of Israel
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in the rest of this narrative.
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And they've fled
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to their homes
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because their army
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backing Absalom
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has just been crushed
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by David's army.
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So they've fled
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every man to his home.
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And all the people
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were arguing
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throughout all the tribes
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of Israel saying
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the king delivered us
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from the hand of our enemies
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and saved us from the hand
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of the Philistines
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and now he has fled
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out of the land from Absalom.
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But Absalom,
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who we anointed over us,
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is dead in battle.
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Now therefore,
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why do you say nothing
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about bringing the king back?
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You could hear them
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sort of arguing
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with one another.
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And King David
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sent this message
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to Zadok
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and Abiathar the priests.
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Say to the elders of Judah,
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these are the southern,
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this is the southern tribe,
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why should you be the last
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to bring the king
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back to his house
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when the word of all Israel
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has come to the king?
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David apparently
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has gotten word
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that the northern tribes
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are ready to bring him home.
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You are my brothers.
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You're my bone
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and my flesh.
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Why then should you
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be the last
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to bring back the king?
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And say to Amasa,
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are you not my bone
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and my flesh?
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God, do so to me
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and more also
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if you are not commander
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of my army from now on
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in place of Joab.
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And he,
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that is David,
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swayed the heart
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of all the men of Judah
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as one man
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so that they sent word
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to the king,
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return both you
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and all your servants.
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So the king came back
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to the Jordan
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and Judah came to Gilgal
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to meet the king
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and to bring him
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over to the Jordan.
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Okay, let's pause there.
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So we see the situation here.
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The people are scared.
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They're arguing
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as people who are scared
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often do.
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Some are obviously worried
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that if David comes back
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he'll punish them
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for rebelling.
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Others are probably thinking
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that if they don't
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welcome him back
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it will get even worse
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for them
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and they don't know
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what to do.
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And if you think about it
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on a broader
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sort of political level,
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the nation's
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in a pretty dangerous
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place right now.
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They're fragmented.
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They're alienated
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from their king
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who was basically
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the military leader
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at that time.
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They're in the aftermath
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of a civil war.
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This is just the sort of thing
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that an Egypt
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or Assyria
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or the Philistine armies
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would love
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to just come rumbling
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into Israelite territory
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and take advantage
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of their weakened condition.
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They're in a dangerous spot.
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And even Judah,
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David's own tribe here,
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is uncertain
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of what to do.
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They too, remember,
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went over to Absalom.
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But David here,
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not wanting
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the nation
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to be fractured,
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wanting them
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to be unified,
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appeals to Judah
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for them not to be
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left out or left behind
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when he returns
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to Jerusalem.
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Why should you be
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the last to welcome me back?
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Aren't we
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bone of bone
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and flesh of flesh?
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And then David
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does something
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really surprising.
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As a sign
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of what they can expect
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when he comes home,
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what does he do?
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He makes a guy
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named Amasa
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the head of his army
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in the place of Joab.
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Now, you're thinking,
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who the heck is Amasa?
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What is that?
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What difference
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does that make?
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Well, Amasa, remember,
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was just recently
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the head of Absalom's army.
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This was the opposing general
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on the other side
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of the civil war.
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These were the guys
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David was just fighting against,
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the ones who just staged a coup
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and tried to kill him.
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He says, look,
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I'm going to extend
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an olive branch.
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Amasa is general now
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in the place of Joab.
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David's not going
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to enact revenge.
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He's going to work
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to rebuild the nation,
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even if that means
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demoting his long-standing
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general, Joab,
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and putting Amasa
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in his place.
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Okay, now this,
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these paragraphs
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are pretty introductory, actually.
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This kind of sets up
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the rest of the chapter
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and what's going to happen.
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On his way
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back to the Jordan
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and back to Jerusalem,
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David is going to have
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three encounters
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that sort of encapsulate
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or give a concrete picture
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of how David
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is going to try
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to restore peace
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to the nation,
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how he's going to try
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to be a peacemaker
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in the midst
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of this really fragile
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and fractious situation.
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And he's going to do
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two things.
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On the one hand,
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he's going to show mercy
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to his enemies,
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and on the other hand,
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he's going to show kindness
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and loyalty
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to his friends.
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And what the narrator
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of 2 Samuel
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is trying to show us here,
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he's trying to show us
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that this is what
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a real king looks like.
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Not someone
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who's power hungry,
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not someone
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who's vengeful,
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not someone
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who's self-serving.
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No.
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A real king
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is a peacemaker
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who's willing
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to extend mercy
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to his enemies
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and maintain loyalty
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with his friends.
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So we're going to see
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three episodes.
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Two of them
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are episodes of mercy
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and one of them
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loyalty to friends.
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So let's look at
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the first episode
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in 16.
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Verse 16.
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And Shimea,
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the son of Gerah,
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the Benjaminite
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from Baharim,
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hurried to come down
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with the men of Judah
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to meet King David.
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And with him
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were a thousand men
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from Benjamin.
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And Ziba,
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the servant of the house
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of Saul,
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with his 15 sons
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and his 20 servants,
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rushed down
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to the Jordan
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before the king.
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And they crossed the ford
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to bring over
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the king's household
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and to do his pleasure.
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And Shimea,
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the son of Gerah,
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fell down before the king
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as he was about
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to cross the Jordan.
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And he said to the king,
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let not my lord
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hold me guilty
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or remember
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how your servant
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did wrong
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on the day
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my lord the king
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left Jerusalem.
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Do not let the king
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take it to heart
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for your servant
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knows that I have sinned.
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Therefore behold,
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I have come this day
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the first of all
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the house of Joseph
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to come down
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to meet my lord the king.
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Abishai,
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the son of Zeruiah,
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answered,
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shall not Shimea
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be put to death
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for this
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because he cursed
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the lord's anointed?
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But David said,
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what have I to do
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with you,
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you sons of Zeruiah,
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that you should this day
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be an adversary to me?
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Shall anyone
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be put to death
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in Israel this day?
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For do I not know
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that I am this day
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king over Israel?
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And the king said
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to Shimea,
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you shall not die.
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And the king
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gave him his oath.
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Okay,
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so you'll remember
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this guy,
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Shimei,
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or Shimea,
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or however you pronounce it,
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however you want to pronounce it.
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You'll remember this guy
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from chapter 16,
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right?
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This is the guy
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who when David
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was running away
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from Absalom
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on his way out of the city
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showed up
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and just started cursing him
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and casting dirt
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on his head
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and calling him
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a ruthless,
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bloody man
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and said,
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you're getting
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what you deserve,
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David.
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And now
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that it looks like
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David is still going
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to be king after all,
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lo and behold,
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here comes Shimei
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as fast as he can
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to ask for forgiveness.
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Did you notice
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how the narrator said
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he hurried down
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to the Jordan
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and then he didn't just wait there
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for David to cross the Jordan,
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he went over the Jordan
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to get to David
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as quickly as he possibly could.
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And he asks for forgiveness.
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And Abishai,
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one of David's soldiers,
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gives David the same advice
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that he gave to David
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back in chapter 16.
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Do you remember that?
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Abishai said in chapter 16,
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David,
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I've got an easy solution here.
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Let's just take this guy's head off.
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Done.
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And Abishai is sort of like,
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you know,
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he's kind of a one-track-minded guy.
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He's like,
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hey,
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here's another opportunity,
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David.
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He's back.
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Let's kill him.
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But David again
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doesn't listen to Abishai.
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And instead,
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what does David do?
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He refrains
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from executing harsh judgment
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and he grants Shimei mercy.
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Now,
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was Shimei guilty?
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Of course.
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He cursed David
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up one side
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and down the other
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on his way out of Jerusalem.
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Was Shimei's repentance
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and apology sincere
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here in chapter 19?
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I mean,
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he sincerely wanted
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to save his own skin.
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That's for sure.
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Right?
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And if David had lost
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the war with Absalom,
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one wonders whether Shimei
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would have been so contrite.
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So I think we can question
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whether he's really
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that sincere here.
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But for all that,
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David still extends mercy.
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He keeps his cool
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and he acts with prudence
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for the sake
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of making peace
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in the nation.
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Now,
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I don't know about you,
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but I think
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of just how rare
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that kind of thing is.
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If you and I
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are given the chance
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to prove someone wrong
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or to make someone
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pay for wronging us,
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I mean,
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we often do it,
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don't we?
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And yet,
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David refrains.
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He affirms
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that what Shimei did
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was wrong,
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but at least for now
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he doesn't make him pay.
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And you have to ask,
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what is it
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that allows David
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to respond that way?
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How is he,
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I mean,
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he has every right,
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all the authority,
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certainly all the power
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at this moment
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to do exactly
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what his young friend
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is telling him to do.
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And yet,
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what allows David
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not to respond that way?
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Look again
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at the end of verse 21.
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For do I not know
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that I am this day
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king over Israel?
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What is David saying there?
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In other words,
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David is saying
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that he doesn't have
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to prove himself
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in this moment.
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And he doesn't have
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to send a message
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to his enemies
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and he doesn't have
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to nurse his wounded pride.
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He tells his young friend,
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look,
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I know I am the king
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right now
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and I don't need
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to do anything
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to prove it.
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He is so certain
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and so secure
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in that fact
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that he extends
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mercy to this guy.
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And he knows
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that as the king,
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there is a bigger job
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to do
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than just evening
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the score
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and making this guy
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pay for what he did.
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David, you see,
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has got this bigger agenda
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and he wants there
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to be peace
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and wholeness
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and unity
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in the people of God.
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And for that end,
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he extends this guy mercy.
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And friends,
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I think the same
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will be true of us.
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As you and I grow,
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in our assurance
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of our identity,
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not obviously
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as God's king,
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but certainly
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as God's children,
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as you and I
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become more and more
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assured of the fact
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that God knows us
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and loves us
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and has chosen us
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in Christ,
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the more and more
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we will have
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a deep wellspring
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to pull from
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and the more and more
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we'll find
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that our lives
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are caught up
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in a much bigger agenda
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than just getting even
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with the people
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who happen to cross us.
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In other words,
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I think as we sort of
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root ourselves
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in our identity
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of who God has made
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us to be in Christ,
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we actually get the power
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to become peacemakers
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and extend mercy
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the way David did.
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Well, let's look at
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the next meeting
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that David has
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where he again
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extends mercy,
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but this time
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it looks a little different.
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Pick up the story
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in verse 24.
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The narrator says,
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And Mephibosheth,
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the son of Saul,
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came down to meet the king.
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He had neither
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taken care of his feet
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nor trimmed his beard
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nor washed his clothes
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from the day the king
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departed until the day
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he came back in safety.
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And when he came to Jerusalem
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to meet the king,
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the king said to him,
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Why did you not go with me,
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Mephibosheth?
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He answered,
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My lord, O king,
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my servant deceived me.
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For your servant said to him,
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I will saddle a donkey
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for myself
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that I may ride on it
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and go with the king.
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For your servant is lame.
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He, that is Ziba,
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has slandered your servant
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to my lord the king.
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But my lord the king
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is like the angel of God.
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Do therefore
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what seems good to you.
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For all my father's house
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were but men
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doomed to death
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before my lord the king,
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but you set your servant
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among those
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who eat at your table.
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What further right
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have I then
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to cry to the king?
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And the king said to him,
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Why speak any more
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of your affairs?
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I have decided.
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You and Ziba
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shall divide the land.
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And Mephibosheth
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said to the king,
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Oh, let him take it all
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since my lord the king
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has come safely home.
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If you look up
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before this paragraph
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in verse 17,
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we're told
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that a man named Ziba
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also came rushing down
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to the Jordan
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and crossed over
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to meet David.
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And you'll remember
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that like Shimei,
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David was also met
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by this guy named Ziba
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as he was fleeing
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Jerusalem from Absalom.
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and Ziba
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in that moment
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seemed to be
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a friend
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to David then.
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He gave him food
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and drink
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when David was tired
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and thirsty
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and hungry
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on his flight.
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But
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in that moment,
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if you look back there,
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that chapter,
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Ziba also sort of says
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that his master,
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Mephibosheth,
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Ziba is the servant
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of Mephibosheth.
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Ziba says,
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Oh, Mephibosheth,
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David,
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he's gone over
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with Absalom.
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He's totally abandoned you
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and betrayed you.
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And in that moment,
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David says,
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okay, Ziba,
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all of his property
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is yours.
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For your loyalty,
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you get his inheritance.
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But now,
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lo and behold,
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as David is coming
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back into the land,
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we get to hear
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Mephibosheth's side
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of the story.
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And David,
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in some sense,
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can see Mephibosheth's
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side of the story
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right before his eyes
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because Mephibosheth,
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the narrator says,
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is a total wreck.
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His feet are dirty,
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his beard is scraggly,
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his clothes are dirty.
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In other words,
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he's been in mourning,
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sadness,
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and grief
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since David left the nation,
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since he had to flee.
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And because of Mephibosheth's
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disability,
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he was lame
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in both of his feet,
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he couldn't actually
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make it out to David
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in time to go with him.
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He was stranded.
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It seems that his servant,
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Ziba,
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had betrayed him,
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kind of left him,
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and gone out
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and taken advantage
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of David
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while David
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was on the run.
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So,
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the question is,
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who's telling the truth?
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Is it Ziba
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or is it Mephibosheth?
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At this point,
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I mean,
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David is sort of confronted
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with a giant
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he said,
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she said,
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right?
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Of course,
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on the surface,
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it looks like Ziba
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is guilty.
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Mephibosheth's story
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certainly seems more plausible
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and he kind of
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looks the part too.
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But David doesn't rush
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to any conclusions here.
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Isn't it interesting
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that if David showed
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restraint
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in the episode
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right before this
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with Shimei
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not putting him
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to death immediately,
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David also shows
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some restraint here
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by not immediately
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reinstating Mephibosheth
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and punishing Ziba.
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Instead,
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David does something
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again that's very prudent.
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What does he do?
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He divides the property
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50-50.
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And it's almost
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like a test.
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Do you remember
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when Solomon,
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David's son,
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first became king?
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What's one of the first things
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that Solomon has to do
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when he's king?
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Two women come to Solomon
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and these two women
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both had children.
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One of them died
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and one of them was alive
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and they both come to Solomon
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and say,
-
my child's the alive one
-
and the other child
-
is the dead one.
-
Right?
-
And they're arguing it out.
-
And what's Solomon
-
going to do?
-
It's a he said,
-
she said kind of thing.
-
So he says,
-
well,
-
you say one thing,
-
you say another,
-
cut the baby in half,
-
and you each get to take
-
one part of it home.
-
And one woman says,
-
great,
-
fine by me,
-
sounds like a good deal.
-
And the other woman says,
-
no,
-
let her have it.
-
And right away,
-
everybody knows
-
who the real mother is.
-
The one who wanted
-
the child to live
-
even if she would lose him.
-
And I think in some sense
-
when David says,
-
look,
-
let's just cut the property
-
50-50,
-
we get to see immediately
-
where Mephibosheth's heart
-
is at.
-
Because in essence,
-
what does Mephibosheth say?
-
He says,
-
you know what,
-
David?
-
Let Ziba have the whole thing.
-
Why?
-
Because if I have you,
-
if you've come home
-
and you're going to reign,
-
then I've got everything I need.
-
I don't need property,
-
livelihood.
-
I don't need that.
-
You're here.
-
That's what matters.
-
Now pause,
-
let's just pause
-
on that for a minute.
-
Friends,
-
do you want to know
-
whether or not
-
you really get
-
the gospel?
-
Do you want to know
-
whether you really grasp
-
the heart of what
-
Christianity is all about?
-
So often at the heart level,
-
what we're really saying
-
spiritually is this.
-
I'll follow Jesus.
-
I will believe in him
-
as long as that helps me
-
get what I really want.
-
Or,
-
at least,
-
I'll follow him at least
-
if it doesn't get in the way
-
of what I really want.
-
But you know
-
that you're really
-
starting to get it.
-
You know that your heart
-
is really starting to change.
-
When you start to say,
-
you know,
-
actually,
-
the most important thing
-
in my life
-
isn't whether or not
-
I get this particular thing.
-
But the most important thing
-
is to have Jesus himself.
-
That's what really matters.
-
To have him
-
reigning in my life,
-
it doesn't matter
-
if I get this,
-
that,
-
or the other thing.
-
I've got him.
-
In other words,
-
when your heart starts to see
-
not Christ
-
as a means to an end,
-
but himself
-
as the end,
-
that's when you're
-
starting to get it.
-
When you start to see
-
that being in a relationship
-
with him,
-
that's the greatest thing.
-
And isn't that what
-
Mephibosheth is saying here?
-
David,
-
look,
-
the land is not the thing.
-
You're the thing.
-
To sit at your table,
-
to be a part of your family,
-
that's what I care about.
-
So you can give Ziba
-
the property,
-
I don't really care.
-
What I care is
-
to be reconciled to you.
-
That's the heart
-
that really gets it.
-
Friends,
-
is that you tonight?
-
It's a hard question.
-
Or is something
-
more precious to you
-
than having God himself
-
in Christ?
-
Are you seeing
-
your relationship with God
-
as just a means to an end?
-
Are you seeing it
-
for what it is,
-
the very end
-
for which you were created?
-
To know him
-
and to love him
-
and to be in fellowship
-
with him.
-
Is that the most
-
precious thing to you?
-
Let's look at David's
-
last encounter here.
-
And here we see David
-
not dealing with his enemies
-
like Shimei or Ziba,
-
but he's dealing
-
with a friend here.
-
Let's pick up
-
in verse 31.
-
Now Barzillai,
-
the Gileadite.
-
That's a sweet name
-
by the way.
-
Anyone here expecting?
-
Barzillai.
-
Put that one
-
on your short list.
-
That's a good deal.
-
Barzillai,
-
the Gileadite,
-
had come down
-
from Rogalim
-
and he went on
-
with the king
-
to the Jordan
-
to escort him
-
over the Jordan.
-
Barzillai was
-
a very aged man,
-
80 years old.
-
He had provided
-
the king food
-
while he stayed
-
at Mahanaim
-
for he was
-
a very wealthy man.
-
And the king
-
said to Barzillai,
-
come over with me
-
and I will provide
-
for you with me
-
in Jerusalem.
-
But Barzillai said
-
to the king,
-
how many years
-
have I still to live
-
that I should go up
-
with the king
-
to Jerusalem?
-
I am this day
-
80 years old.
-
Can I discern
-
what is pleasant
-
and what is not?
-
Can your servant
-
taste what he eats
-
or what he drinks?
-
Can I still listen
-
to the voice
-
of singing men
-
and singing women?
-
Why then should
-
your servant
-
be an added burden
-
to my lord the king?
-
Your servant
-
will go a little way
-
over the Jordan
-
with the king.
-
Why should the king
-
repay me
-
with such a reward?
-
Please let your servant
-
return that I might die
-
in my own city
-
near the grave
-
of my father
-
and my mother.
-
But here is your servant
-
Kimham.
-
Let him go over
-
with my lord the king
-
and do for him
-
whatever seems good
-
to you.
-
And the king answered
-
Kimham shall go
-
over with me
-
and I will do
-
for him
-
whatever seems
-
good to you
-
and all that you
-
desire of me
-
I will do for you.
-
Then all the people
-
went over the Jordan
-
and the king
-
went over
-
and the king
-
kissed Barzillai
-
and blessed him
-
and he returned
-
to his own home.
-
The king went
-
on to Gilgal
-
and Kimham
-
went with him.
-
So here we see
-
that David
-
doesn't forget
-
the kindness
-
that this man
-
Barzillai
-
showed to him
-
when he was in need.
-
And when Barzillai
-
refuses to accept
-
David's offer
-
of coming back
-
with him to Jerusalem
-
David doesn't
-
get offended.
-
Instead he finds
-
a way to honor
-
his old friend
-
nonetheless
-
by blessing
-
this young man
-
Kimham
-
in his place.
-
I think there's
-
a critical
-
actually lesson
-
in this paragraph.
-
Think about David.
-
David is putting
-
out fires
-
left and right
-
isn't he?
-
He's got huge
-
massive problems
-
to deal with.
-
The nation
-
is on the verge
-
of crumbling
-
and yet
-
he doesn't forget
-
and he doesn't
-
take for granted
-
the friends
-
who actually
-
stood by him
-
when he was in need.
-
I think this is
-
a really good reminder.
-
You know it's important
-
to think about
-
how we treat
-
our enemies
-
and we've been seeing
-
how David
-
is an example
-
of prudence
-
and mercy
-
in that regard
-
but friends
-
we also need
-
to think about
-
how we treat
-
our friends.
-
Think about
-
the people
-
who are close
-
to you
-
who stand
-
by you
-
the people
-
who encourage
-
you
-
and who support
-
you
-
and who are there
-
for you
-
when you need
-
them.
-
Are you taking
-
them for granted?
-
being a peacemaker
-
being an agent
-
of God's kingdom
-
is just as much
-
about loving
-
our spouses
-
and showing
-
kindness
-
to our fellow
-
church members
-
and being grateful
-
to our friends
-
it's as much
-
about that
-
not taking
-
those people
-
for granted
-
working hard
-
at cultivating
-
those relationships
-
is as much
-
about that
-
as it is
-
about forgiving
-
our enemies.
-
And notice
-
how David
-
here is not
-
easily
-
deterred
-
his plan
-
A
-
doesn't work
-
Barzillai
-
declines
-
the offer
-
to come
-
to Jerusalem
-
and then
-
what does
-
David do?
-
Well fine
-
see you later
-
no
-
he gladly
-
goes along
-
with plan B
-
right
-
he'll show
-
kindness
-
to the servant
-
instead
-
bring him
-
along
-
I'll shower
-
blessings on him
-
for your sake
-
in other words
-
David's going
-
to show
-
loyalty
-
and gratitude
-
to his friend
-
and he's going
-
to do it
-
in a way
-
that matters
-
and that counts
-
to him
-
to Barzillai
-
not to David
-
friends
-
when you think
-
about showing
-
kindness
-
to those
-
who are
-
closest to you
-
to really
-
blessing them
-
to really
-
showing them
-
gratitude
-
are you
-
thinking about
-
what would
-
be meaningful
-
for that
-
person
-
or are you
-
doing it
-
sort of
-
according to
-
your own
-
agenda
-
and what
-
you think
-
they should
-
like
-
are you
-
like
-
Homer Simpson
-
who buys
-
Marge Simpson
-
a bowling ball
-
for her
-
birthday
-
oh
-
you're not
-
going to
-
use the
-
bowling ball
-
Marge
-
I'll take
-
it
-
friends
-
we should
-
rather be
-
ultimately
-
concerned
-
about what's
-
going to
-
show that
-
person
-
loyalty
-
and kindness
-
and gratitude
-
and bless
-
them
-
Barzillai
-
comes up
-
with this
-
plan
-
here's my
-
servant
-
take
-
this servant
-
boy to
-
Jerusalem
-
and shower
-
blessing
-
on him
-
that would
-
not have
-
been a
-
sexy
-
flashy
-
proposal
-
to David
-
would have
-
been much
-
more great
-
to take
-
this aged
-
old guy
-
to Jerusalem
-
and have
-
him sit
-
at his
-
table
-
and look
-
at how
-
great
-
that is
-
but no
-
David
-
says great
-
Barz life
-
that's what's
-
going to
-
bless you
-
bring him
-
along
-
I'll make
-
him one
-
of my
-
own
-
David's
-
ultimately
-
concerned with
-
what's going
-
to show
-
him
-
that he's
-
grateful for
-
his loyalty
-
and love
-
and I think
-
that's worthy
-
of our
-
imitation
-
but you know
-
friends for all
-
that when we
-
come to the
-
end of this
-
chapter we
-
see something
-
again that's a
-
little surprising
-
David has
-
done his
-
best at
-
this point
-
to repair
-
and restore
-
the nation
-
he's showing
-
mercy to his
-
enemies
-
he's showing
-
kindness to
-
his friends
-
he's being
-
prudent and
-
wise and
-
thoughtful
-
he's being
-
a good
-
king
-
but in
-
the end
-
it doesn't
-
seem to
-
have been
-
enough
-
let's pick
-
up with
-
the rest
-
of verse
-
40
-
all the
-
people of
-
Judah
-
and also
-
half the
-
people of
-
Israel
-
brought the
-
king on
-
his way
-
then all
-
the men
-
of Israel
-
presumably
-
all those
-
who didn't
-
show up
-
came to
-
the king
-
and said
-
to the
-
king
-
why have
-
our
-
brothers
-
the men
-
of
-
Judah
-
stolen
-
you away
-
and brought
-
the king
-
and his
-
household
-
over the
-
Jordan
-
and all
-
David's
-
men
-
with
-
him
-
they're
-
accusing
-
them
-
of
-
going
-
behind
-
their
-
back
-
and
-
bringing
-
David
-
home
-
and not
-
letting
-
them
-
join
-
the
-
party
-
and all
-
the men
-
of
-
Judah
-
answered
-
the men
-
of
-
Israel
-
because
-
the
-
king's
-
our
-
close
-
relative
-
why
-
then are
-
you angry
-
over
-
this
-
matter
-
have
-
we
-
eaten
-
at
-
all
-
at
-
the
-
king's
-
expense
-
or
-
has
-
he
-
given
-
us
-
any
-
gift
-
the
-
implied
-
answer
-
there
-
is
-
no
-
we
-
haven't
-
gotten
-
any
-
profit
-
out
-
of
-
this
-
deal
-
and
-
the
-
men
-
of
-
Israel
-
answered
-
the
-
men
-
of
-
Judah
-
we
-
have
-
ten
-
shares
-
in
-
the
-
king
-
and
-
in
-
David
-
also
-
we
-
have
-
more
-
than
-
you
-
why
-
then
-
do
-
you
-
despise
-
us
-
were
-
we
-
not
-
the
-
first
-
to
-
speak
-
of
-
bringing
-
back
-
our
-
king
-
it
-
was
-
our
-
idea
-
in
-
the
-
first
-
place
-
but
-
the
-
words
-
of
-
the
-
men
-
of
-
Judah
-
were
-
fiercer
-
than
-
the
-
words
-
of
-
the
-
men
-
of
-
Israel
-
end
-
of
-
chapter
-
despite
-
all
-
of
-
David's
-
robust
-
peacemaking
-
activity
-
the
-
nation
-
still
-
descends
-
into
-
pettiness
-
and
-
tribalism
-
and
-
pride
-
and
-
it
-
ends
-
like
-
a
-
shouting
-
match
-
between
-
two
-
kids
-
on
-
the
-
playground
-
except
-
with
-
much
-
more
-
dire
-
consequences
-
because
-
as
-
we'll
-
see
-
in
-
the
-
next
-
chapter
-
as
-
a
-
result
-
of
-
this
-
fracturing
-
a
-
whole
-
other
-
rebellion
-
breaks
-
out
-
and
-
the
-
nation
-
again
-
descends
-
into
-
war
-
with
-
itself
-
so
-
what
-
does
-
it
-
mean
-
friends
-
I
-
think
-
it
-
means
-
that
-
not
-
even
-
great
-
David
-
can
-
finally
-
heal
-
the
-
divisions
-
that
-
tear
-
us
-
apart
-
the
-
chapter
-
ends
-
crying
-
out
-
with
-
the
-
need
-
for
-
an
-
even
-
greater
-
David
-
for
-
an
-
even
-
better
-
king
-
and
-
friends
-
that's
-
what
-
the
-
Bible
-
is
-
all
-
about
-
it's
-
about
-
one
-
who's
-
come
-
to do
-
just
-
that
-
you
-
know
-
when
-
Jesus
-
Christ
-
came
-
to
-
earth
-
one
-
of the
-
things
-
he taught
-
his
-
disciples
-
was this
-
blessed
-
are the
-
peacemakers
-
for they
-
shall be
-
called
-
the sons
-
of God
-
and in
-
some sense
-
that's what
-
we've been
-
thinking about
-
tonight
-
how to be
-
peacemakers
-
but you
-
know
-
at the end
-
of the day
-
Jesus
-
didn't come
-
just to
-
teach us
-
what we're
-
supposed
-
to do
-
he came
-
to
-
he came
-
to
-
do
-
what we
-
couldn't
-
do
-
he came
-
to
-
extend
-
a
-
mercy
-
and to
-
extend
-
a
-
kindness
-
to such
-
a degree
-
and to
-
such a
-
depth
-
that even
-
the most
-
violent
-
of our
-
divisions
-
can be
-
healed
-
in other
-
words
-
Jesus
-
Christ
-
came
-
not just
-
to teach
-
peace
-
but to
-
make
-
it
-
definitively
-
once and for
-
all
-
how
-
because you
-
see friends
-
for all
-
of those
-
men
-
and women
-
for everyone
-
who puts
-
their trust
-
in Christ
-
his death
-
on the cross
-
heals
-
the most
-
severe
-
division
-
that any
-
of us
-
ever
-
experience
-
the division
-
that exists
-
between us
-
as sinful
-
human beings
-
and our
-
holy
-
wise
-
and good
-
creator
-
God
-
and as
-
the son
-
of God
-
Jesus
-
came as
-
our
-
perfect
-
representative
-
fully
-
in the
-
flesh
-
living
-
a life
-
that we
-
should
-
have
-
lived
-
dying
-
a death
-
that we
-
deserve
-
to die
-
dying
-
in our
-
place
-
and then
-
rising
-
again
-
to prove
-
that the
-
penalty
-
for our
-
sins
-
have been
-
paid
-
in full
-
when we
-
trust
-
in him
-
and friends
-
the reality
-
is
-
is that
-
when we
-
come to
-
know
-
the
-
peace
-
of being
-
reconciled
-
to God
-
through
-
grace
-
something
-
that David
-
could never
-
do
-
no human
-
king
-
could reconcile
-
us to
-
God
-
but Jesus
-
can and
-
did
-
once we
-
come to
-
know
-
that
-
reconciling
-
grace
-
the apostle
-
Paul says
-
is that
-
then
-
we're
-
actually
-
reconciled
-
to one
-
another
-
that when
-
the wall
-
between
-
us and
-
God
-
came crashing
-
down
-
the wall
-
between
-
one
-
another
-
came
-
tumbling
-
down
-
with
-
it
-
David
-
did his
-
very best
-
to unite
-
the people
-
around his
-
kingship
-
but it's
-
still broke
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and it's
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still splintered
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but when
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Jesus Christ
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was exalted
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on the cross
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our enmity
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was finally
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taken away
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because before
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the cross
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we're all
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equal
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no matter
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what our
-
tribe
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no matter
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what our
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background
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we're all
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sinners
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and we're
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all recipients
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of a steadfast
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love and
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grace like
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we could
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only imagine
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and that
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puts everything
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else in
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perspective
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and friends
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as we
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the church
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come to
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grips with
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that and
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grasp that
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and hold
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tightly to it
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in the power
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of the Holy
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Spirit
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you know
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what happens
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the church
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actually becomes
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this great
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signpost
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of the
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reconciling
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power of
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the cross
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of Jesus
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his own
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reconciling
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power
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that today
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as we
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extend mercy
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to our
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enemies
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as we
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show kindness
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to one
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another
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and to
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our
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friends
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we're
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actually
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telling
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the world
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in our
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life
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together
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that there's
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finally a
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king that
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has come
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who can
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take away
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our chaos
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and give
-
us peace
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who can
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heal us
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and make
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us one
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and take
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away
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these
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divisions
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that just
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rip us
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apart
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and when
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we're
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living in
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that
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Jesus
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says
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blessed
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are
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the
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peacemakers
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for they
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shall be
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called sons
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and daughters
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of God
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you see
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may that
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be true
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of us
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let's
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pray
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Lord
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Jesus
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we thank
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you that
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you are
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the true
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and better
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David
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who has
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come
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to unite
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your people
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into one
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to forgive
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all their
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sins
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and to
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give us
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a reconciling
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mission
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in the
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world
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and Lord
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thank you
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that you've
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given us
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your spirit
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to dwell
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permanently
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in our
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midst
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and in
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each one
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of us
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that we
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might have
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strength
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energy
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power
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and guidance
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to do
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this
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in the
-
world
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today
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so Lord
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we thank
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you for
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your grace
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we thank
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you that
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you've
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healed
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the great
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divisions
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between us
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and God
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and between
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us
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and each
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other
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we pray
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Lord
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that more
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and more
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we would
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come to
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love
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and cherish
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the reconciling
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work that
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you've done
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for us
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we pray
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this in
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your name
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Lord
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amen
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friends
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the music
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team's
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going to
-
come up
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we're
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going to
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sing
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one more
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song
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together
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and just
-
meditate
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on these
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truths
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a little
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more
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together
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so let's
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stand
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and let's
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sing
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and let's
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pray
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together
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thank you