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1 Corinthians 7:17-31

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  1. verses 17 through 31.

  2. Let me ask you to turn there with me.

  3. It's page 955, I believe, in the Pew Bible,

  4. if you want to follow along there.

  5. 1 Corinthians chapter 7, verses 17 through 31.

    1 Corinthians 7:17–31

  6. Let me read this word for us.

  7. Only let each person lead the life

  8. that the Lord has assigned to him

  9. and to which God has called him.

  10. This is my rule in all the churches.

  11. Was anyone at the time of his call already circumcised?

  12. Let him not seek to remove the marks of circumcision.

  13. Was anyone at the time of his call uncircumcised?

  14. Let him not seek circumcision.

  15. For neither circumcision counts for anything

  16. nor uncircumcision,

  17. but keeping the commandments of God.

  18. Each one should remain in the condition

  19. in which he was called.

  20. Were you a bondservant when called?

  21. Do not be concerned about it.

  22. But if you can gain your freedom,

  23. avail yourself of the opportunity.

  24. For he who is called in the Lord as a bondservant

  25. is a freedman of the Lord.

  26. Likewise, he who was free when called

  27. is a bondservant of Christ.

  28. You were bought with a price.

  29. Do not become bondservants of men.

  30. So brothers, in whatever condition each was called,

  31. there let him remain with God.

  32. Now concerning the betrothed,

  33. I have no command from the Lord,

  34. but I give my judgment as one

  35. who by the Lord's mercy is trustworthy.

  36. I think that in view of the present distress,

  37. it is good for a person to remain as he is.

  38. Are you bound to a wife?

  39. Do not seek to be free.

  40. Are you free from a wife?

  41. Do not seek a wife.

  42. But if you do marry, you have not sinned.

  43. And if a betrothed woman marries,

  44. she has not sinned.

  45. Yet those who marry will have worldly troubles,

  46. and I would spare you that.

  47. This is what I mean, brothers and sisters.

  48. The appointed time has grown very short.

  49. From now on, let those who have wives

  50. live as though they had none,

  51. and those who mourn as though they were not mourning,

  52. and those who rejoice as though they were not rejoicing,

  53. and those who buy as though they had no goods,

  54. and those who deal with the world

  55. as though they had no dealings with it.

  56. For the present form of this world

  57. is passing away.

  58. Let's pray.

  59. God, we have been thanking and praising you

  60. for your word this morning.

  61. Lord, we thank you that you have given us

  62. your word that you have spoken and written it for us.

  63. And you,

  64. in your own person,

  65. by the Holy Spirit,

  66. come

  67. and cause it to be illuminated in our hearts

  68. and in our lives and in our communities.

  69. God, so we pray that that would be the case.

  70. That you would come and

  71. rework our minds and our affections

  72. around the life-giving words

  73. that you have given us.

  74. Lord Jesus,

  75. you

  76. are the life-giving word,

  77. and we look to you this morning.

  78. It's in your name we pray.

  79. Amen.

  80. Amen.

  81. So,

  82. in our text this morning,

  83. Paul

  84. gives us,

  85. reminds us,

  86. reminds the Corinthians anyway,

  87. of a rule

  88. that as he says

  89. in verse 17,

  90. he gives to all

  91. the churches.

  92. Probably better put,

  93. we might call it a principle.

  94. For as we'll see shortly,

  95. it's not a hard and fast law,

  96. but it's a bit more like a guideline

  97. or a framework.

  98. Maybe we could even say

  99. a hard attitude.

  100. And what I want to do this morning

  101. is I just want to walk through

  102. this passage together

  103. and focus kind of on three things

  104. as we look at this principle.

  105. First,

  106. I want us to look at the principle itself

  107. and why we so desperately need it.

  108. And second,

  109. I want to look at the three applications

  110. of the principle that Paul gives

  111. and really how those map

  112. onto our life today.

  113. And then third,

  114. I want to end by looking

  115. at the overarching reason

  116. why we can and ought

  117. to take this principle to heart.

  118. So,

  119. there we go.

  120. First,

  121. let's look at the principle itself

  122. and why we so desperately need it.

  123. Well,

  124. it's easy to see

  125. what the principle is

  126. because Paul repeats it three times.

  127. In verse 17,

  128. in verse 20,

  129. in verse 24,

  130. he says essentially,

  131. remain as you were when called.

  132. One commentator described

  133. this paragraph

  134. as like a club sandwich.

  135. You've got the bread

  136. and then a little meat

  137. and then some more bread

  138. and then a little meat

  139. and then the bread

  140. and the bread is the principle,

  141. right?

  142. There it is,

  143. woven throughout.

  144. That was Richard Hayes actually

  145. from Duke.

  146. You know,

  147. he's sort of a smart guy.

  148. Called it a sandwich.

  149. We'll go with it.

  150. If you've been here

  151. the last few weeks,

  152. you'll remember

  153. that Paul's been talking

  154. about sex,

  155. marriage,

  156. and singleness

  157. in the Christian life.

  158. But here,

  159. in verses 17 to 24,

  160. he's stepping back

  161. and saying,

  162. you know,

  163. here's the deeper principle

  164. that's at play

  165. in all of this.

  166. Some of the single Christians

  167. in Corinth were thinking,

  168. should I get married?

  169. Some of the married Christians

  170. in Corinth were thinking,

  171. should I get unmarried

  172. to my non-Christian spouse?

  173. And after some of his

  174. careful pastoral counsel

  175. in verses 1 through 16

  176. of chapter 7

  177. that we've looked at

  178. the last two weeks,

  179. Paul steps back here

  180. and gives them

  181. a broad principle

  182. to work with.

  183. Remain as you were

  184. when called.

  185. Now,

  186. I don't know about you,

  187. but when I hear

  188. that principle at first,

  189. it sounds a bit,

  190. I don't know,

  191. boring.

  192. Here is Paul,

  193. the uber social conservative,

  194. remain as you were

  195. when called.

  196. Simply just endorsing

  197. the status quo,

  198. it sounds like.

  199. Remain as you are,

  200. nothing to see here.

  201. I mean,

  202. is this really the same guy

  203. who wrote something

  204. as radical

  205. as Galatians 3.28?

  206. There's neither Jew

  207. nor Greek,

  208. there's neither slave

  209. nor free,

  210. there's no male and female

  211. for you are all one

  212. in Christ Jesus?

  213. Or who wrote

  214. 2 Corinthians 5,

  215. 16 through 17?

  216. From now on,

  217. therefore,

  218. we regard no one

  219. according to the flesh.

  220. Even though we once

  221. regarded Christ

  222. according to the flesh,

  223. we regard him thus no longer.

  224. Therefore,

  225. if anyone is in Christ,

  226. he's a new creation.

  227. The old has passed away,

  228. behold,

  229. the new has come.

  230. Man,

  231. whatever you make

  232. of those verses,

  233. they're anything

  234. but boring endorsements

  235. of the status quo.

  236. So maybe we need to listen

  237. a little more closely

  238. to what Paul's principle here

  239. in 1 Corinthians 7

  240. is really saying.

  241. And if we take a moment

  242. and listen,

  243. this is what Paul's saying to us.

  244. As a member of God's people,

  245. as a member of Christ's church,

  246. nothing need now define you

  247. and nothing need now rule

  248. your heart and life

  249. more than your status

  250. in Christ Jesus.

  251. You don't need to become

  252. someone else

  253. or go somewhere else

  254. to be exactly who

  255. and where God wants you

  256. to be.

  257. Eight times

  258. in this first paragraph,

  259. we find the language

  260. of calling.

  261. What does God's call

  262. typically mean for Paul?

  263. Well,

  264. most often

  265. when Paul speaks

  266. of God's calling,

  267. he's talking about

  268. that moment,

  269. that heart existential

  270. spiritual moment

  271. when the message

  272. of the gospel,

  273. of our radical sinfulness

  274. and God's radical love

  275. for us in Christ,

  276. when that message

  277. hits home

  278. in our hearts.

  279. In other words,

  280. it's when the word

  281. of the gospel

  282. is no longer

  283. just an idea

  284. out there

  285. that we can sort of

  286. take or leave,

  287. but it's when it becomes

  288. a divine summons

  289. to us personally

  290. that we can no longer

  291. refuse

  292. and to which we respond

  293. in believing

  294. trust.

  295. God's call.

  296. And Paul says,

  297. if that's happened

  298. to you,

  299. if God himself

  300. has called you

  301. through the proclamation

  302. of his gospel,

  303. the gospel of his son,

  304. then friend,

  305. the cultural group

  306. that you belong to,

  307. or your social position,

  308. or your marital status,

  309. these things are no longer

  310. what really defines you.

  311. And so,

  312. they need no longer

  313. be the source

  314. of restless

  315. striving

  316. and anxious

  317. fretting.

  318. They need no longer

  319. be the thing

  320. that keeps you up

  321. late at night

  322. worrying

  323. and plotting

  324. and scheming

  325. and even despairing.

  326. You can remain

  327. as you are

  328. without fear,

  329. without striving,

  330. without a restless heart.

  331. And that,

  332. it seems to me,

  333. is why we need to hear

  334. this principle today.

  335. Why do we need it?

  336. Because we live

  337. in such a restless age.

  338. In my local coffee shop,

  339. probably five to one,

  340. the flyers

  341. are about

  342. classes

  343. or workshops

  344. or personal consultations

  345. on how I can achieve

  346. wholeness

  347. or wellness

  348. or inner peace.

  349. Why so many?

  350. Clearly,

  351. there's a market for it.

  352. Why is there a market?

  353. Because,

  354. friends,

  355. we are all,

  356. all of us,

  357. striving for something

  358. we often know not what.

  359. Striving for something

  360. that will satisfy us,

  361. that will bring meaning

  362. and joy

  363. into our lives.

  364. Striving for something

  365. even

  366. that will justify us,

  367. that will somehow

  368. make me feel right

  369. in the world.

  370. And the temptation

  371. for all of us

  372. is to take something

  373. like some of these things

  374. that Paul talks about here,

  375. our cultural ethnic identity

  376. or our socioeconomic position

  377. or our marital status

  378. and elevate it

  379. to an ultimate position

  380. in our lives

  381. and say,

  382. this is what's going

  383. to satisfy me.

  384. This is actually

  385. what's going to justify me.

  386. And so,

  387. we obsess,

  388. don't we,

  389. over our job

  390. or over our marriage prospects

  391. or over whatever

  392. in-group we do

  393. or don't belong to.

  394. We obsess.

  395. And if we don't get it,

  396. we turn down despondent

  397. or cynical

  398. or angry.

  399. But if we do get it,

  400. something almost just as bad happens.

  401. Sooner or later,

  402. we realize that it doesn't satisfy.

  403. And so,

  404. we go on to something else.

  405. Thinking that maybe

  406. that will be the thing we need.

  407. And if that doesn't work,

  408. we go on to another

  409. and another

  410. and another.

  411. And of course,

  412. we realize that this is

  413. the definition of insanity.

  414. We're doing the same thing

  415. over and over again

  416. expecting the exact same results.

  417. Expecting different results.

  418. What's the definition of insanity?

  419. That's it.

  420. Different results.

  421. And yet,

  422. even though we acknowledge

  423. that it's lunacy,

  424. we still can't get ourselves

  425. off the hamster wheel.

  426. And our restless hearts

  427. keep on striving

  428. and running,

  429. looking for the next thing

  430. or the next thing.

  431. But here it comes,

  432. like a voice

  433. from a totally different world.

  434. Here comes Paul saying,

  435. remain where you are.

  436. Be at peace.

  437. Peace.

  438. You don't have to keep striving

  439. wishing you were someone else,

  440. somewhere else,

  441. with somebody else.

  442. God is calling you,

  443. summoning you

  444. to stop placing your worth

  445. and significance

  446. in those things

  447. and to put it in his son

  448. who loved you

  449. and gave himself for you.

  450. After all,

  451. you know,

  452. think about it.

  453. Who pays the cost

  454. of the new status

  455. you get

  456. if you want to become

  457. circumcised,

  458. as it were?

  459. Who pays the cost

  460. for you to move up

  461. the socioeconomic ladder?

  462. Who pays the cost

  463. for you to get married?

  464. You do.

  465. You're the one

  466. who has to go under the knife.

  467. You're the one

  468. who has to slave away

  469. at the office.

  470. You're the one,

  471. or if you're lucky,

  472. your parents

  473. are the ones

  474. who have to pay

  475. the exorbitant fees

  476. of the modern wedding industry.

  477. You pay the cost

  478. for that status

  479. in the hope

  480. that it will satisfy you

  481. and justify you,

  482. which it never does.

  483. But friends,

  484. in the gospel,

  485. here's the one

  486. status

  487. that actually

  488. does satisfy

  489. and really

  490. does justify

  491. the status

  492. of being known

  493. by the living

  494. and true God

  495. and being called

  496. his own.

  497. And who pays

  498. the cost

  499. for that status?

  500. Not you.

  501. Him.

  502. Christ pays it

  503. through his death

  504. on the cross

  505. for you.

  506. And Christ being raised

  507. offers it to you

  508. freely as a gift

  509. and calls you,

  510. summons you

  511. to turn

  512. and take it.

  513. Now maybe Christianity

  514. strikes you as strange

  515. this morning.

  516. That God would give you

  517. a perfect status

  518. before him

  519. through his son

  520. holy as a gift.

  521. But friends,

  522. is that any less strange

  523. than believing

  524. that some finite

  525. status,

  526. a job

  527. or a marriage

  528. can fill

  529. the infinite longing

  530. of our hearts?

  531. St. Augustine

  532. famously said,

  533. God,

  534. you have made us

  535. for yourself

  536. and our heart

  537. is restless

  538. until it rests

  539. in you.

  540. perhaps Christianity

  541. is not so strange

  542. after all.

  543. So there's the principle

  544. and why we need it.

  545. Second,

  546. let's briefly look at

  547. how Paul applies

  548. the principle

  549. and how that might map

  550. onto our life today.

  551. First,

  552. in verses 18

  553. through 19,

  554. he talks about

  555. circumcision

  556. and uncircumcision.

  557. In other words,

  558. in the church,

  559. Jews shouldn't try

  560. to become Gentiles

  561. and Gentiles

  562. shouldn't feel

  563. like they need

  564. to become Jews.

  565. What counts

  566. isn't the cultural

  567. family or group

  568. that you're a part of.

  569. What counts

  570. is keeping God's commands.

  571. And if you're thinking

  572. to yourself,

  573. how does someone

  574. who's circumcised

  575. get uncircumcised?

  576. They actually had

  577. surgeries in the

  578. first century

  579. that tried

  580. to remove

  581. the marks

  582. of circumcision.

  583. You can imagine

  584. how fun that was.

  585. what counts

  586. is keeping

  587. God's commands.

  588. Now,

  589. Paul's clearly

  590. being a little provocative

  591. in verse 19,

  592. isn't he?

  593. He knows

  594. full well

  595. that circumcision

  596. in the Old Testament

  597. is a command.

  598. But,

  599. for Paul

  600. and for the rest

  601. of the earliest Christians,

  602. the Old Testament

  603. needed to be read

  604. and applied

  605. through the person

  606. and work of Christ

  607. who fulfilled

  608. the Mosaic Law

  609. and inaugurated

  610. what they spoke of

  611. as the New Covenant.

  612. And read

  613. through that lens,

  614. it meant that

  615. many of the ceremonies

  616. and the regulations

  617. and the boundary markers

  618. of the Mosaic Law

  619. were no longer binding.

  620. That God had opened up

  621. something new.

  622. And so,

  623. what matters

  624. isn't the outward sign

  625. of circumcision

  626. or belonging to this

  627. or that

  628. cultural family

  629. or group,

  630. but what matters

  631. is now living

  632. a life

  633. by God's grace

  634. that pleases

  635. God.

  636. It's easy

  637. to be captivated

  638. by an in-group,

  639. isn't it?

  640. Whether it's

  641. the cool kids

  642. in your middle school

  643. or the elite

  644. inner circle

  645. of your profession.

  646. I remember

  647. being in middle school

  648. and all of my friends

  649. had Nike t-shirts,

  650. the ones with a really

  651. big swoosh

  652. on the front.

  653. And I just thought,

  654. man,

  655. if I could get

  656. one of those,

  657. then I'd be in.

  658. I'd have it.

  659. Then I could be

  660. one of the group.

  661. And of course,

  662. we look back at that

  663. and we think,

  664. that's kind of silly.

  665. And then we look

  666. at our lives today

  667. and we realize

  668. that we do

  669. the exact same thing

  670. in every other social environment

  671. that we're a part of.

  672. C.S. Lewis

  673. once described this

  674. as the draw

  675. of the inner ring.

  676. To be in that

  677. inside,

  678. privileged,

  679. exclusive group,

  680. to have their approval,

  681. to feel superior

  682. to those outside,

  683. even if we wouldn't

  684. quite put it that way

  685. out loud.

  686. And yet,

  687. for Christians,

  688. the status

  689. that we have

  690. in Christ

  691. changes

  692. how we feel

  693. about all of that

  694. or at least

  695. it should.

  696. After all,

  697. was not Christ

  698. the ultimate

  699. insider

  700. who went outside

  701. for us

  702. to bring us

  703. outsiders

  704. inside to God?

  705. And so,

  706. friends,

  707. we know

  708. that true,

  709. real life

  710. isn't found

  711. in trying to get

  712. into some inner ring.

  713. If anything,

  714. knowing this,

  715. Christ compels us

  716. to go outside

  717. or better yet,

  718. to remain

  719. where we are

  720. and to see

  721. everyone

  722. as an outsider

  723. in need of God's grace

  724. regardless of

  725. whether they happen

  726. to be in

  727. or out

  728. in the world's eyes.

  729. God's grace

  730. is found

  731. in verses 20

  732. through 23.

  733. And now,

  734. this one

  735. to our modern ears

  736. is a bit harder

  737. to,

  738. I think,

  739. come to grips with.

  740. Look down

  741. at those verses

  742. and I think

  743. the immediate thing

  744. you think,

  745. or at least

  746. that I think

  747. when I read

  748. those verses

  749. is,

  750. man,

  751. is Paul saying

  752. that slavery

  753. is okay

  754. in these verses?

  755. If you're a bondservant,

  756. don't worry about it.

  757. Well,

  758. okay,

  759. we need to keep

  760. two things in mind

  761. when we run across

  762. these kinds of passages.

  763. First,

  764. when we hear

  765. the word

  766. slavery,

  767. what do we

  768. immediately think of?

  769. We immediately

  770. think of what

  771. took place

  772. in the antebellum

  773. American South,

  774. a kind of slavery

  775. that was race-based,

  776. lifelong,

  777. and unbelievably cruel.

  778. A horrible

  779. human institution.

  780. In Paul's day,

  781. slavery

  782. was actually

  783. quite a very

  784. different thing.

  785. It wasn't race-based.

  786. It wasn't

  787. necessarily lifelong.

  788. Dale Martin,

  789. a professor here at Yale,

  790. has written a whole book

  791. on this topic

  792. published a number

  793. of years ago.

  794. But he showed

  795. that for many

  796. in the first century,

  797. becoming a slave

  798. or a bondservant,

  799. as the ESV,

  800. I think helpfully

  801. translates it here,

  802. becoming a slave

  803. provided not only

  804. for many

  805. economic security,

  806. but also upward mobility.

  807. It was a totally

  808. different reality

  809. than what we think of.

  810. Something maybe

  811. even more akin

  812. to what we would

  813. think of as

  814. indentured servitude,

  815. although there's

  816. not perfect analogies

  817. between those two.

  818. So slavery

  819. was kind of

  820. a different thing

  821. in Paul's day.

  822. We need to acknowledge

  823. the historical

  824. difference there.

  825. However,

  826. just acknowledging

  827. that,

  828. that doesn't mean

  829. that Paul was

  830. for or

  831. against it.

  832. In the letters

  833. we have of Paul,

  834. he's not reflecting

  835. on the first century

  836. institution of slavery

  837. as such.

  838. He's never sort of

  839. taking a step back

  840. and saying,

  841. let's think about

  842. the cultural institution

  843. of slavery

  844. and let's make

  845. a judgment call

  846. about it

  847. based on the gospel.

  848. He never does that

  849. in his letters.

  850. Slavery was such

  851. a pervasive reality

  852. of his world

  853. that in his letters

  854. he's trying to help

  855. Christians live

  856. faithfully in that world.

  857. Imagine finding

  858. a few letters

  859. written by an army

  860. chaplain

  861. in the field of combat

  862. to soldiers

  863. under his care.

  864. My guess is

  865. you wouldn't be able

  866. to necessarily tell

  867. where that army

  868. chaplain stood

  869. with respect

  870. to pacifism

  871. or just war theory

  872. based on the counsel

  873. he was giving

  874. his troops,

  875. his men

  876. in the middle

  877. of battle.

  878. His letters

  879. were probably

  880. more concerned

  881. with helping

  882. those men

  883. in the situation

  884. they were in.

  885. I guess what

  886. I'm trying to say

  887. here is that

  888. we can't just

  889. sort of look

  890. at this text

  891. carte blanche

  892. and say,

  893. oh,

  894. Paul in the New Testament

  895. was for slavery.

  896. That's just not

  897. a careful reading

  898. of the text.

  899. In fact,

  900. I think if you read

  901. the rest of verse 21

  902. through 23,

  903. you actually get

  904. the opposite sense.

  905. Here's what I mean.

  906. As soon as Paul says,

  907. don't freak out

  908. if you're a slave,

  909. Paul immediately says,

  910. but if you can gain

  911. your freedom,

  912. be sure to do it.

  913. And then,

  914. he totally deconstructs

  915. the freed-slave dichotomy

  916. in light of the gospel.

  917. Look,

  918. the bondservant

  919. is really free in the Lord.

  920. The free is really

  921. a bondservant

  922. of the Lord.

  923. The power dynamics

  924. are totally turned

  925. on their head

  926. in light of the Lordship

  927. of Christ.

  928. And then he says,

  929. flat out,

  930. to conclude it all,

  931. by the way,

  932. don't become bondservants

  933. of men.

  934. Add on top of that

  935. the fact

  936. that all of the things

  937. in which we think of

  938. that would have fallen

  939. under our modern

  940. conceptions of slavery,

  941. the Bible would have

  942. looked at those things

  943. and condemned them.

  944. Friends,

  945. whatever Paul is doing here,

  946. he's not supporting

  947. slavery as an institution.

  948. In fact,

  949. many commentators

  950. look at these verses

  951. and see that Paul's

  952. sowing the seeds here

  953. that's eventually going

  954. to undo the institution

  955. of slavery

  956. in due time.

  957. Well,

  958. how do we think

  959. about applying all this

  960. to us today?

  961. Well,

  962. I think it's very easy

  963. for us to think

  964. that real flourishing

  965. is found

  966. if we could just

  967. get into a different

  968. socioeconomic status.

  969. if I had a different job,

  970. if I made more money,

  971. if I belonged

  972. to a more respected

  973. profession,

  974. if I only owned

  975. my house,

  976. if I only lived

  977. in such and such

  978. a neighborhood,

  979. then

  980. I'd really be able

  981. to live.

  982. Now,

  983. again,

  984. notice how careful

  985. Paul's advice is here

  986. and how it's actually

  987. a little nuanced

  988. for each thing

  989. he's talking about.

  990. Notice Paul's advice

  991. to the bond servants.

  992. Look,

  993. if you can get your freedom,

  994. do it.

  995. Paul is not against

  996. socioeconomic improvement

  997. either for the individual

  998. or for communities,

  999. just the opposite.

  1000. And the Bible as a whole

  1001. has a lot to say

  1002. about justice

  1003. and righteousness

  1004. for the poor

  1005. and for the marginalized.

  1006. However,

  1007. friends,

  1008. if the ruling desire

  1009. of our hearts

  1010. is to climb

  1011. the socioeconomic ladder,

  1012. if that's what drives

  1013. our thoughts

  1014. and our hearts

  1015. and our aspirations,

  1016. if that's what we find

  1017. ourselves waking up

  1018. and thinking about,

  1019. if that's where we're

  1020. sort of placing fullness

  1021. in the shape of our life,

  1022. if that is the case,

  1023. then we're missing

  1024. an important way

  1025. in which the gospel

  1026. applies to us.

  1027. Because the status

  1028. that we have in Christ

  1029. frees us

  1030. from seeing ourselves

  1031. solely through the lens

  1032. of social class.

  1033. That our dignity

  1034. and our worth

  1035. doesn't ultimately come

  1036. from our job title

  1037. or our salary amount

  1038. or our housing situation.

  1039. Friends,

  1040. Christ was infinitely wealthy

  1041. and became utterly poor

  1042. for us

  1043. so that we who were

  1044. spiritually poor

  1045. might become

  1046. spiritually rich

  1047. toward God.

  1048. and if you know

  1049. that you have

  1050. that status,

  1051. yes,

  1052. you'll seek improvement

  1053. and the improvement

  1054. of those around you,

  1055. but you'll know

  1056. that that's not your life

  1057. and it's okay

  1058. to remain

  1059. where you are.

  1060. Instead,

  1061. you can be open

  1062. to how the Lord

  1063. might be using you

  1064. for his kingdom

  1065. right there,

  1066. right where God

  1067. has you.

  1068. And in fact,

  1069. friends,

  1070. I would contend

  1071. that it's not

  1072. until we find

  1073. that deep contentment

  1074. with where we are

  1075. that we can actually

  1076. work in a good way

  1077. for social change.

  1078. Without vindictiveness,

  1079. without an unhealthy

  1080. animosity and hatred,

  1081. we can actually do it

  1082. from a place of strength

  1083. and peace,

  1084. which is what the world

  1085. so desperately needs.

  1086. Third application.

  1087. Verses 25 through 28,

  1088. Paul deals with

  1089. marital status.

  1090. And this actually

  1091. brings us back

  1092. to the main theme

  1093. of the chapter,

  1094. doesn't it?

  1095. Paul's sort of gone

  1096. on a bit of a loop

  1097. and now he's come home.

  1098. Now next week,

  1099. Matt's going to pick up

  1100. in verse 25

  1101. and take us through

  1102. the rest of the chapter

  1103. and he's going to preach

  1104. a whole sermon

  1105. on singleness.

  1106. So I don't want to

  1107. take too long here,

  1108. but the point I want us

  1109. to see is that

  1110. marital status

  1111. is not ultimate

  1112. for believers.

  1113. Just like cultural background,

  1114. just like socioeconomic class

  1115. aren't ultimate either.

  1116. Friends, the church

  1117. should not be making

  1118. an idol of marriage

  1119. and the church should not

  1120. be making an idol

  1121. of singleness.

  1122. Now since Jesus

  1123. didn't give specific commands

  1124. about what Paul's

  1125. going to talk about

  1126. during his earthly ministry,

  1127. during Jesus' earthly ministry,

  1128. Paul then proceeds

  1129. to give some apostolic advice.

  1130. And it's this,

  1131. if you're single

  1132. and you want to marry,

  1133. do it.

  1134. It's not a sin.

  1135. Marriage is a good thing.

  1136. But if you're single,

  1137. consider that there are benefits

  1138. to that as well.

  1139. In verse 26,

  1140. Paul mentions

  1141. the present distress.

  1142. What does he mean by that?

  1143. Well, I think what Paul

  1144. has in mind here

  1145. is probably some sort of

  1146. trial or difficulty

  1147. that the church

  1148. or the city

  1149. or maybe even the region

  1150. was going through.

  1151. A lot of commentators

  1152. think Paul might be referring

  1153. to a famine

  1154. that afflicted Corinth

  1155. during this time.

  1156. Our present struggles

  1157. and trials.

  1158. Whatever it was,

  1159. in Paul's mind,

  1160. it would have made marriage

  1161. and providing for a family

  1162. very difficult.

  1163. Keep in mind,

  1164. in the first century,

  1165. birth control

  1166. wasn't super reliable.

  1167. So,

  1168. getting married

  1169. probably meant

  1170. you were going

  1171. to have a family.

  1172. And if you lived

  1173. in a time

  1174. of severe economic hardship,

  1175. that was going to be

  1176. a hard thing to take up.

  1177. And so,

  1178. Paul advises,

  1179. you know,

  1180. it's good

  1181. if you can remain

  1182. as you are.

  1183. You'll experience

  1184. a lot less worldly trouble

  1185. that way,

  1186. as he says in verse 28.

  1187. But of course,

  1188. there's nothing wrong

  1189. about marriage.

  1190. You have the freedom

  1191. to do that as well.

  1192. So,

  1193. if you want to marry,

  1194. go,

  1195. get married.

  1196. It's good.

  1197. Friends,

  1198. isn't it surprising

  1199. how open Paul is

  1200. toward either option?

  1201. Yes,

  1202. he's leaning

  1203. toward singleness here.

  1204. He's commending it

  1205. as a way of life.

  1206. But you know,

  1207. when you step back

  1208. for Paul,

  1209. marriage or singleness

  1210. wasn't the be-all,

  1211. end-all

  1212. of a Christian's existence.

  1213. Because there's a status

  1214. that means infinitely

  1215. more than that

  1216. and brings infinitely

  1217. more comfort,

  1218. freedom,

  1219. and significance.

  1220. And it's our status

  1221. in Christ.

  1222. The one who loves us

  1223. with an everlasting

  1224. spousal love

  1225. and who will remain

  1226. faithful to us

  1227. all the way

  1228. to the end.

  1229. And as we take in

  1230. all three of these

  1231. applications,

  1232. it would seem

  1233. that what Paul is saying

  1234. is don't obsess

  1235. over what you don't have.

  1236. Instead,

  1237. realize who you are

  1238. in Christ

  1239. and as a member

  1240. of his church

  1241. which far outstrips

  1242. any of these

  1243. finite worldly statuses.

  1244. So,

  1245. brother and sister,

  1246. this morning,

  1247. if you're tempted

  1248. to envy

  1249. what others have,

  1250. remember that you,

  1251. you,

  1252. have been purchased

  1253. by the Lord

  1254. and that his steadfast love

  1255. to you will not fail.

  1256. Or,

  1257. if you're tempted

  1258. to pine away

  1259. with regret

  1260. over what might have been,

  1261. you're not looking

  1262. at others and thinking

  1263. I wish I had what they had,

  1264. but you're looking

  1265. at your past

  1266. and thinking

  1267. I've lost it.

  1268. I wish I had

  1269. something else there

  1270. and now I'm in a position

  1271. that,

  1272. ugh,

  1273. just isn't where

  1274. I wish I was.

  1275. Friends,

  1276. instead of pining away

  1277. after those things

  1278. with regret,

  1279. you can be confident

  1280. that your sovereign

  1281. and gracious

  1282. loving God

  1283. has you in a place

  1284. where he can advance

  1285. his kingdom

  1286. through you.

  1287. God's not making mistakes

  1288. with your life

  1289. and your mistakes

  1290. aren't so big

  1291. that he won't turn them

  1292. for your ultimate good

  1293. and for his kingdom's glory.

  1294. Remain where you are

  1295. with peace,

  1296. with confidence,

  1297. with a restful heart

  1298. and trust

  1299. that God has you there

  1300. for a reason.

  1301. You might not be here forever,

  1302. but make the most of it

  1303. while you are

  1304. and don't wonder

  1305. whether God

  1306. could or can

  1307. or might be able

  1308. to use you.

  1309. As Paul told the Corinthians

  1310. back in chapter 1,

  1311. God delights

  1312. to choose the weak things

  1313. in the world's eyes

  1314. to shame the strong

  1315. and to choose

  1316. the foolish things

  1317. in the world's eyes

  1318. to shame the wise

  1319. and the low

  1320. and the despised things

  1321. in the world's eyes

  1322. to bring to naught

  1323. the things that are.

  1324. So maybe you're not

  1325. a part of the

  1326. in crowd

  1327. at school

  1328. or at work.

  1329. Maybe you don't have

  1330. a flashy job

  1331. or a profession.

  1332. Maybe you wish

  1333. your marital status

  1334. was different,

  1335. but friends,

  1336. don't be afraid

  1337. to remain where you are.

  1338. Be at peace.

  1339. For ultimately,

  1340. God is with you.

  1341. Notice the end

  1342. of verse 24

  1343. where Paul summarizes

  1344. this church-wide principle

  1345. he's been laying out.

  1346. What does he say?

  1347. Remain with God.

  1348. With God.

  1349. That's what matters.

  1350. Being with God.

  1351. Because one day,

  1352. God is going to remake

  1353. and renew this world

  1354. from the top

  1355. to the bottom.

  1356. And that brings us

  1357. to the third

  1358. and final point.

  1359. The overarching reason

  1360. why we can take

  1361. all of this to heart

  1362. because God's future

  1363. is coming,

  1364. friends.

  1365. In verses 29

  1366. through 31

  1367. at the end of our text,

  1368. Paul says,

  1369. in essence,

  1370. don't cling

  1371. too tightly

  1372. to the things

  1373. of this life.

  1374. Live as though

  1375. you don't really have them.

  1376. In other words,

  1377. don't sink

  1378. your identity

  1379. too deeply

  1380. in those roots.

  1381. Don't rest

  1382. your whole heart

  1383. on them.

  1384. because even

  1385. your most intimate

  1386. human relationship,

  1387. like the relationship

  1388. between a husband

  1389. and a wife,

  1390. as Paul says

  1391. in verse 29,

  1392. is only a reflection,

  1393. a glimmer

  1394. of the intimacy

  1395. of what's to come.

  1396. And soon,

  1397. your mourning

  1398. will give way

  1399. to joy

  1400. and your joys

  1401. will give way

  1402. to bliss

  1403. and your business

  1404. and your busyness

  1405. will soon give way

  1406. to a kingdom

  1407. that cannot fade

  1408. and a feast

  1409. that does not end.

  1410. Paul's not saying

  1411. that this life

  1412. is of no importance.

  1413. It matters

  1414. deeply.

  1415. But this life

  1416. is not

  1417. an end

  1418. in itself,

  1419. you see.

  1420. And the present form

  1421. of this world

  1422. is not the final word.

  1423. The ethnic divisions,

  1424. the class distinctions,

  1425. all the ways

  1426. in which our world

  1427. is fractured

  1428. and divided

  1429. these things

  1430. aren't going

  1431. to last forever.

  1432. The present form

  1433. of this world

  1434. is passing away

  1435. and a new creation

  1436. is dawning.

  1437. Now, yes,

  1438. it's been 2,000 years

  1439. since Paul wrote

  1440. these words.

  1441. But when he says

  1442. that the appointed time

  1443. has grown very short,

  1444. he's not thinking

  1445. about regular

  1446. chronological time,

  1447. a certain number

  1448. of days or hours

  1449. that pass off

  1450. as the clock

  1451. spins round.

  1452. This sort of empty,

  1453. neutral time

  1454. that we can fill up

  1455. like space.

  1456. No, friends.

  1457. The appointed time.

  1458. Here it's the Greek word

  1459. kairos.

  1460. This is time

  1461. if you will have it

  1462. from God's own perspective.

  1463. This is time

  1464. that is imbued

  1465. with God's

  1466. redemptive purposes.

  1467. And in that sense,

  1468. for the entire

  1469. church age,

  1470. the appointed time

  1471. has grown very short.

  1472. we, too,

  1473. with Paul,

  1474. wait on the edge

  1475. of the drama

  1476. of redemption

  1477. knowing

  1478. that the next act

  1479. is the finale.

  1480. And if the next act

  1481. is the finale

  1482. and if the curtain

  1483. is already beginning

  1484. to sway

  1485. and if the orchestra

  1486. is tuned

  1487. and poised

  1488. and ready

  1489. to strike up the music

  1490. for that final scene,

  1491. then, friends,

  1492. why are we wasting

  1493. any time fussing

  1494. and fretting

  1495. over whether I'm

  1496. in seat B7

  1497. or B8

  1498. or whether I'm

  1499. circumcised or not

  1500. or whether I'm

  1501. a bondservant or not

  1502. or whether I'm

  1503. single or not?

  1504. Why struggle

  1505. and strive

  1506. and let your heart

  1507. be consumed

  1508. with being somewhere else

  1509. or someone else

  1510. or with somebody else

  1511. if the Lord

  1512. has called you

  1513. and here you sit

  1514. on the cusp

  1515. of redemptive history?

  1516. Those things

  1517. don't have to define

  1518. you any longer.

  1519. You're the Lord's.

  1520. And the present form

  1521. of this world

  1522. is passing away.

  1523. God's new creation

  1524. is imminent.

  1525. The renewal

  1526. of all things

  1527. and thus you need

  1528. not cling

  1529. to this world,

  1530. its joys

  1531. and its sorrows,

  1532. its business

  1533. and its busyness.

  1534. Be faithful

  1535. where you are.

  1536. Don't grasp

  1537. and claw

  1538. for something else

  1539. as if that's going

  1540. to justify you

  1541. or satisfy you.

  1542. Christ has already

  1543. done that, friends.

  1544. And soon,

  1545. the curtain

  1546. will open.

  1547. And like we read

  1548. earlier from Zephaniah,

  1549. we will see the Lord God

  1550. in our midst,

  1551. a mighty one

  1552. who will save

  1553. and he will rejoice

  1554. over you with gladness

  1555. and he will quiet you

  1556. by his love

  1557. and he will exalt

  1558. over you

  1559. with loud singing

  1560. and he will gather

  1561. those who mourn

  1562. for the festival

  1563. and we will suffer

  1564. reproach no more.

  1565. Let's pray.

  1566. Amen.

  1567. Oh Lord,

  1568. make us a people

  1569. who are so

  1570. enraptured

  1571. with you

  1572. and who we are

  1573. in Christ.

  1574. Help that reality

  1575. sink so deep

  1576. down in our hearts,

  1577. God,

  1578. that we can sit loose

  1579. to the worldly statuses

  1580. that so often

  1581. pull and push

  1582. and tear us apart.

  1583. God,

  1584. give us

  1585. that deep

  1586. wellspring

  1587. of contentment

  1588. in Christ.

  1589. And Lord,

  1590. help us

  1591. to keep our eyes

  1592. on you

  1593. and help us

  1594. to be faithful

  1595. for the coming

  1596. of that day.

  1597. We pray in Jesus' name.

  1598. Amen.