Sermon
1 Corinthians 7:17-31
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verses 17 through 31.
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Let me ask you to turn there with me.
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It's page 955, I believe, in the Pew Bible,
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if you want to follow along there.
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1 Corinthians chapter 7, verses 17 through 31.
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Let me read this word for us.
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Only let each person lead the life
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that the Lord has assigned to him
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and to which God has called him.
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This is my rule in all the churches.
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Was anyone at the time of his call already circumcised?
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Let him not seek to remove the marks of circumcision.
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Was anyone at the time of his call uncircumcised?
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Let him not seek circumcision.
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For neither circumcision counts for anything
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nor uncircumcision,
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but keeping the commandments of God.
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Each one should remain in the condition
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in which he was called.
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Were you a bondservant when called?
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Do not be concerned about it.
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But if you can gain your freedom,
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avail yourself of the opportunity.
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For he who is called in the Lord as a bondservant
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is a freedman of the Lord.
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Likewise, he who was free when called
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is a bondservant of Christ.
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You were bought with a price.
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Do not become bondservants of men.
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So brothers, in whatever condition each was called,
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there let him remain with God.
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Now concerning the betrothed,
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I have no command from the Lord,
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but I give my judgment as one
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who by the Lord's mercy is trustworthy.
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I think that in view of the present distress,
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it is good for a person to remain as he is.
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Are you bound to a wife?
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Do not seek to be free.
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Are you free from a wife?
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Do not seek a wife.
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But if you do marry, you have not sinned.
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And if a betrothed woman marries,
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she has not sinned.
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Yet those who marry will have worldly troubles,
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and I would spare you that.
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This is what I mean, brothers and sisters.
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The appointed time has grown very short.
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From now on, let those who have wives
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live as though they had none,
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and those who mourn as though they were not mourning,
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and those who rejoice as though they were not rejoicing,
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and those who buy as though they had no goods,
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and those who deal with the world
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as though they had no dealings with it.
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For the present form of this world
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is passing away.
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Let's pray.
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God, we have been thanking and praising you
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for your word this morning.
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Lord, we thank you that you have given us
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your word that you have spoken and written it for us.
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And you,
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in your own person,
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by the Holy Spirit,
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come
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and cause it to be illuminated in our hearts
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and in our lives and in our communities.
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God, so we pray that that would be the case.
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That you would come and
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rework our minds and our affections
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around the life-giving words
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that you have given us.
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Lord Jesus,
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you
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are the life-giving word,
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and we look to you this morning.
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It's in your name we pray.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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So,
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in our text this morning,
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Paul
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gives us,
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reminds us,
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reminds the Corinthians anyway,
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of a rule
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that as he says
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in verse 17,
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he gives to all
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the churches.
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Probably better put,
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we might call it a principle.
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For as we'll see shortly,
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it's not a hard and fast law,
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but it's a bit more like a guideline
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or a framework.
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Maybe we could even say
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a hard attitude.
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And what I want to do this morning
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is I just want to walk through
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this passage together
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and focus kind of on three things
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as we look at this principle.
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First,
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I want us to look at the principle itself
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and why we so desperately need it.
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And second,
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I want to look at the three applications
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of the principle that Paul gives
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and really how those map
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onto our life today.
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And then third,
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I want to end by looking
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at the overarching reason
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why we can and ought
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to take this principle to heart.
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So,
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there we go.
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First,
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let's look at the principle itself
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and why we so desperately need it.
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Well,
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it's easy to see
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what the principle is
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because Paul repeats it three times.
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In verse 17,
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in verse 20,
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in verse 24,
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he says essentially,
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remain as you were when called.
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One commentator described
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this paragraph
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as like a club sandwich.
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You've got the bread
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and then a little meat
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and then some more bread
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and then a little meat
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and then the bread
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and the bread is the principle,
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right?
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There it is,
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woven throughout.
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That was Richard Hayes actually
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from Duke.
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You know,
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he's sort of a smart guy.
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Called it a sandwich.
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We'll go with it.
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If you've been here
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the last few weeks,
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you'll remember
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that Paul's been talking
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about sex,
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marriage,
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and singleness
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in the Christian life.
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But here,
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in verses 17 to 24,
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he's stepping back
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and saying,
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you know,
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here's the deeper principle
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that's at play
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in all of this.
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Some of the single Christians
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in Corinth were thinking,
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should I get married?
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Some of the married Christians
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in Corinth were thinking,
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should I get unmarried
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to my non-Christian spouse?
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And after some of his
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careful pastoral counsel
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in verses 1 through 16
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of chapter 7
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that we've looked at
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the last two weeks,
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Paul steps back here
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and gives them
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a broad principle
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to work with.
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Remain as you were
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when called.
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Now,
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I don't know about you,
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but when I hear
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that principle at first,
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it sounds a bit,
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I don't know,
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boring.
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Here is Paul,
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the uber social conservative,
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remain as you were
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when called.
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Simply just endorsing
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the status quo,
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it sounds like.
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Remain as you are,
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nothing to see here.
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I mean,
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is this really the same guy
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who wrote something
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as radical
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as Galatians 3.28?
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There's neither Jew
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nor Greek,
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there's neither slave
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nor free,
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there's no male and female
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for you are all one
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in Christ Jesus?
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Or who wrote
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2 Corinthians 5,
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16 through 17?
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From now on,
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therefore,
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we regard no one
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according to the flesh.
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Even though we once
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regarded Christ
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according to the flesh,
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we regard him thus no longer.
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Therefore,
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if anyone is in Christ,
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he's a new creation.
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The old has passed away,
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behold,
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the new has come.
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Man,
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whatever you make
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of those verses,
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they're anything
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but boring endorsements
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of the status quo.
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So maybe we need to listen
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a little more closely
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to what Paul's principle here
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in 1 Corinthians 7
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is really saying.
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And if we take a moment
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and listen,
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this is what Paul's saying to us.
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As a member of God's people,
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as a member of Christ's church,
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nothing need now define you
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and nothing need now rule
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your heart and life
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more than your status
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in Christ Jesus.
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You don't need to become
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someone else
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or go somewhere else
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to be exactly who
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and where God wants you
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to be.
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Eight times
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in this first paragraph,
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we find the language
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of calling.
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What does God's call
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typically mean for Paul?
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Well,
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most often
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when Paul speaks
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of God's calling,
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he's talking about
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that moment,
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that heart existential
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spiritual moment
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when the message
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of the gospel,
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of our radical sinfulness
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and God's radical love
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for us in Christ,
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when that message
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hits home
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in our hearts.
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In other words,
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it's when the word
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of the gospel
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is no longer
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just an idea
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out there
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that we can sort of
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take or leave,
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but it's when it becomes
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a divine summons
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to us personally
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that we can no longer
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refuse
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and to which we respond
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in believing
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trust.
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God's call.
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And Paul says,
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if that's happened
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to you,
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if God himself
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has called you
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through the proclamation
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of his gospel,
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the gospel of his son,
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then friend,
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the cultural group
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that you belong to,
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or your social position,
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or your marital status,
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these things are no longer
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what really defines you.
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And so,
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they need no longer
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be the source
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of restless
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striving
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and anxious
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fretting.
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They need no longer
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be the thing
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that keeps you up
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late at night
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worrying
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and plotting
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and scheming
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and even despairing.
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You can remain
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as you are
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without fear,
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without striving,
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without a restless heart.
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And that,
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it seems to me,
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is why we need to hear
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this principle today.
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Why do we need it?
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Because we live
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in such a restless age.
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In my local coffee shop,
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probably five to one,
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the flyers
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are about
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classes
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or workshops
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or personal consultations
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on how I can achieve
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wholeness
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or wellness
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or inner peace.
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Why so many?
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Clearly,
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there's a market for it.
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Why is there a market?
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Because,
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friends,
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we are all,
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all of us,
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striving for something
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we often know not what.
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Striving for something
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that will satisfy us,
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that will bring meaning
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and joy
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into our lives.
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Striving for something
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even
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that will justify us,
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that will somehow
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make me feel right
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in the world.
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And the temptation
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for all of us
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is to take something
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like some of these things
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that Paul talks about here,
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our cultural ethnic identity
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or our socioeconomic position
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or our marital status
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and elevate it
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to an ultimate position
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in our lives
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and say,
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this is what's going
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to satisfy me.
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This is actually
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what's going to justify me.
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And so,
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we obsess,
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don't we,
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over our job
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or over our marriage prospects
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or over whatever
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in-group we do
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or don't belong to.
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We obsess.
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And if we don't get it,
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we turn down despondent
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or cynical
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or angry.
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But if we do get it,
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something almost just as bad happens.
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Sooner or later,
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we realize that it doesn't satisfy.
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And so,
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we go on to something else.
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Thinking that maybe
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that will be the thing we need.
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And if that doesn't work,
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we go on to another
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and another
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and another.
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And of course,
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we realize that this is
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the definition of insanity.
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We're doing the same thing
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over and over again
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expecting the exact same results.
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Expecting different results.
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What's the definition of insanity?
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That's it.
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Different results.
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And yet,
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even though we acknowledge
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that it's lunacy,
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we still can't get ourselves
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off the hamster wheel.
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And our restless hearts
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keep on striving
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and running,
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looking for the next thing
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or the next thing.
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But here it comes,
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like a voice
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from a totally different world.
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Here comes Paul saying,
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remain where you are.
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Be at peace.
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Peace.
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You don't have to keep striving
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wishing you were someone else,
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somewhere else,
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with somebody else.
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God is calling you,
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summoning you
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to stop placing your worth
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and significance
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in those things
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and to put it in his son
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who loved you
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and gave himself for you.
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After all,
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you know,
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think about it.
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Who pays the cost
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of the new status
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you get
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if you want to become
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circumcised,
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as it were?
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Who pays the cost
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for you to move up
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the socioeconomic ladder?
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Who pays the cost
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for you to get married?
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You do.
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You're the one
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who has to go under the knife.
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You're the one
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who has to slave away
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at the office.
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You're the one,
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or if you're lucky,
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your parents
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are the ones
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who have to pay
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the exorbitant fees
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of the modern wedding industry.
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You pay the cost
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for that status
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in the hope
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that it will satisfy you
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and justify you,
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which it never does.
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But friends,
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in the gospel,
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here's the one
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status
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that actually
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does satisfy
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and really
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does justify
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the status
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of being known
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by the living
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and true God
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and being called
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his own.
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And who pays
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the cost
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for that status?
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Not you.
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Him.
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Christ pays it
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through his death
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on the cross
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for you.
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And Christ being raised
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offers it to you
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freely as a gift
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and calls you,
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summons you
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to turn
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and take it.
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Now maybe Christianity
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strikes you as strange
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this morning.
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That God would give you
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a perfect status
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before him
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through his son
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holy as a gift.
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But friends,
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is that any less strange
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than believing
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that some finite
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status,
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a job
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or a marriage
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can fill
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the infinite longing
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of our hearts?
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St. Augustine
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famously said,
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God,
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you have made us
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for yourself
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and our heart
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is restless
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until it rests
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in you.
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perhaps Christianity
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is not so strange
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after all.
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So there's the principle
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and why we need it.
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Second,
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let's briefly look at
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how Paul applies
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the principle
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and how that might map
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onto our life today.
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First,
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in verses 18
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through 19,
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he talks about
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circumcision
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and uncircumcision.
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In other words,
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in the church,
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Jews shouldn't try
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to become Gentiles
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and Gentiles
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shouldn't feel
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like they need
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to become Jews.
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What counts
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isn't the cultural
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family or group
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that you're a part of.
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What counts
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is keeping God's commands.
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And if you're thinking
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to yourself,
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how does someone
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who's circumcised
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get uncircumcised?
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They actually had
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surgeries in the
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first century
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that tried
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to remove
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the marks
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of circumcision.
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You can imagine
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how fun that was.
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what counts
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is keeping
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God's commands.
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Now,
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Paul's clearly
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being a little provocative
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in verse 19,
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isn't he?
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He knows
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full well
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that circumcision
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in the Old Testament
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is a command.
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But,
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for Paul
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and for the rest
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of the earliest Christians,
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the Old Testament
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needed to be read
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and applied
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through the person
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and work of Christ
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who fulfilled
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the Mosaic Law
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and inaugurated
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what they spoke of
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as the New Covenant.
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And read
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through that lens,
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it meant that
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many of the ceremonies
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and the regulations
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and the boundary markers
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of the Mosaic Law
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were no longer binding.
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That God had opened up
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something new.
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And so,
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what matters
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isn't the outward sign
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of circumcision
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or belonging to this
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or that
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cultural family
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or group,
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but what matters
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is now living
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a life
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by God's grace
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that pleases
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God.
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It's easy
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to be captivated
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by an in-group,
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isn't it?
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Whether it's
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the cool kids
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in your middle school
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or the elite
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inner circle
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of your profession.
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I remember
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being in middle school
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and all of my friends
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had Nike t-shirts,
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the ones with a really
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big swoosh
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on the front.
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And I just thought,
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man,
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if I could get
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one of those,
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then I'd be in.
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I'd have it.
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Then I could be
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one of the group.
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And of course,
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we look back at that
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and we think,
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that's kind of silly.
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And then we look
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at our lives today
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and we realize
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that we do
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the exact same thing
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in every other social environment
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that we're a part of.
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C.S. Lewis
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once described this
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as the draw
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of the inner ring.
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To be in that
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inside,
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privileged,
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exclusive group,
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to have their approval,
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to feel superior
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to those outside,
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even if we wouldn't
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quite put it that way
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out loud.
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And yet,
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for Christians,
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the status
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that we have
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in Christ
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changes
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how we feel
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about all of that
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or at least
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it should.
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After all,
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was not Christ
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the ultimate
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insider
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who went outside
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for us
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to bring us
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outsiders
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inside to God?
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And so,
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friends,
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we know
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that true,
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real life
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isn't found
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in trying to get
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into some inner ring.
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If anything,
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knowing this,
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Christ compels us
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to go outside
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or better yet,
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to remain
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where we are
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and to see
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everyone
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as an outsider
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in need of God's grace
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regardless of
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whether they happen
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to be in
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or out
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in the world's eyes.
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God's grace
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is found
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in verses 20
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through 23.
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And now,
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this one
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to our modern ears
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is a bit harder
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to,
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I think,
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come to grips with.
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Look down
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at those verses
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and I think
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the immediate thing
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you think,
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or at least
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that I think
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when I read
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those verses
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is,
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man,
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is Paul saying
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that slavery
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is okay
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in these verses?
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If you're a bondservant,
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don't worry about it.
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Well,
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okay,
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we need to keep
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two things in mind
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when we run across
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these kinds of passages.
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First,
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when we hear
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the word
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slavery,
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what do we
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immediately think of?
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We immediately
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think of what
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took place
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in the antebellum
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American South,
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a kind of slavery
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that was race-based,
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lifelong,
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and unbelievably cruel.
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A horrible
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human institution.
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In Paul's day,
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slavery
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was actually
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quite a very
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different thing.
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It wasn't race-based.
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It wasn't
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necessarily lifelong.
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Dale Martin,
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a professor here at Yale,
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has written a whole book
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on this topic
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published a number
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of years ago.
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But he showed
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that for many
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in the first century,
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becoming a slave
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or a bondservant,
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as the ESV,
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I think helpfully
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translates it here,
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becoming a slave
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provided not only
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for many
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economic security,
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but also upward mobility.
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It was a totally
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different reality
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than what we think of.
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Something maybe
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even more akin
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to what we would
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think of as
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indentured servitude,
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although there's
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not perfect analogies
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between those two.
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So slavery
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was kind of
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a different thing
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in Paul's day.
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We need to acknowledge
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the historical
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difference there.
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However,
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just acknowledging
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that,
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that doesn't mean
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that Paul was
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for or
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against it.
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In the letters
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we have of Paul,
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he's not reflecting
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on the first century
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institution of slavery
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as such.
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He's never sort of
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taking a step back
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and saying,
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let's think about
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the cultural institution
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of slavery
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and let's make
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a judgment call
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about it
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based on the gospel.
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He never does that
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in his letters.
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Slavery was such
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a pervasive reality
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of his world
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that in his letters
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he's trying to help
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Christians live
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faithfully in that world.
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Imagine finding
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a few letters
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written by an army
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chaplain
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in the field of combat
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to soldiers
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under his care.
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My guess is
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you wouldn't be able
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to necessarily tell
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where that army
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chaplain stood
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with respect
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to pacifism
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or just war theory
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based on the counsel
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he was giving
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his troops,
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his men
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in the middle
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of battle.
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His letters
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were probably
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more concerned
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with helping
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those men
-
in the situation
-
they were in.
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I guess what
-
I'm trying to say
-
here is that
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we can't just
-
sort of look
-
at this text
-
carte blanche
-
and say,
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oh,
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Paul in the New Testament
-
was for slavery.
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That's just not
-
a careful reading
-
of the text.
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In fact,
-
I think if you read
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the rest of verse 21
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through 23,
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you actually get
-
the opposite sense.
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Here's what I mean.
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As soon as Paul says,
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don't freak out
-
if you're a slave,
-
Paul immediately says,
-
but if you can gain
-
your freedom,
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be sure to do it.
-
And then,
-
he totally deconstructs
-
the freed-slave dichotomy
-
in light of the gospel.
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Look,
-
the bondservant
-
is really free in the Lord.
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The free is really
-
a bondservant
-
of the Lord.
-
The power dynamics
-
are totally turned
-
on their head
-
in light of the Lordship
-
of Christ.
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And then he says,
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flat out,
-
to conclude it all,
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by the way,
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don't become bondservants
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of men.
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Add on top of that
-
the fact
-
that all of the things
-
in which we think of
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that would have fallen
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under our modern
-
conceptions of slavery,
-
the Bible would have
-
looked at those things
-
and condemned them.
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Friends,
-
whatever Paul is doing here,
-
he's not supporting
-
slavery as an institution.
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In fact,
-
many commentators
-
look at these verses
-
and see that Paul's
-
sowing the seeds here
-
that's eventually going
-
to undo the institution
-
of slavery
-
in due time.
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Well,
-
how do we think
-
about applying all this
-
to us today?
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Well,
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I think it's very easy
-
for us to think
-
that real flourishing
-
is found
-
if we could just
-
get into a different
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socioeconomic status.
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if I had a different job,
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if I made more money,
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if I belonged
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to a more respected
-
profession,
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if I only owned
-
my house,
-
if I only lived
-
in such and such
-
a neighborhood,
-
then
-
I'd really be able
-
to live.
-
Now,
-
again,
-
notice how careful
-
Paul's advice is here
-
and how it's actually
-
a little nuanced
-
for each thing
-
he's talking about.
-
Notice Paul's advice
-
to the bond servants.
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Look,
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if you can get your freedom,
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do it.
-
Paul is not against
-
socioeconomic improvement
-
either for the individual
-
or for communities,
-
just the opposite.
-
And the Bible as a whole
-
has a lot to say
-
about justice
-
and righteousness
-
for the poor
-
and for the marginalized.
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However,
-
friends,
-
if the ruling desire
-
of our hearts
-
is to climb
-
the socioeconomic ladder,
-
if that's what drives
-
our thoughts
-
and our hearts
-
and our aspirations,
-
if that's what we find
-
ourselves waking up
-
and thinking about,
-
if that's where we're
-
sort of placing fullness
-
in the shape of our life,
-
if that is the case,
-
then we're missing
-
an important way
-
in which the gospel
-
applies to us.
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Because the status
-
that we have in Christ
-
frees us
-
from seeing ourselves
-
solely through the lens
-
of social class.
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That our dignity
-
and our worth
-
doesn't ultimately come
-
from our job title
-
or our salary amount
-
or our housing situation.
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Friends,
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Christ was infinitely wealthy
-
and became utterly poor
-
for us
-
so that we who were
-
spiritually poor
-
might become
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spiritually rich
-
toward God.
-
and if you know
-
that you have
-
that status,
-
yes,
-
you'll seek improvement
-
and the improvement
-
of those around you,
-
but you'll know
-
that that's not your life
-
and it's okay
-
to remain
-
where you are.
-
Instead,
-
you can be open
-
to how the Lord
-
might be using you
-
for his kingdom
-
right there,
-
right where God
-
has you.
-
And in fact,
-
friends,
-
I would contend
-
that it's not
-
until we find
-
that deep contentment
-
with where we are
-
that we can actually
-
work in a good way
-
for social change.
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Without vindictiveness,
-
without an unhealthy
-
animosity and hatred,
-
we can actually do it
-
from a place of strength
-
and peace,
-
which is what the world
-
so desperately needs.
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Third application.
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Verses 25 through 28,
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Paul deals with
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marital status.
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And this actually
-
brings us back
-
to the main theme
-
of the chapter,
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doesn't it?
-
Paul's sort of gone
-
on a bit of a loop
-
and now he's come home.
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Now next week,
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Matt's going to pick up
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in verse 25
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and take us through
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the rest of the chapter
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and he's going to preach
-
a whole sermon
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on singleness.
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So I don't want to
-
take too long here,
-
but the point I want us
-
to see is that
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marital status
-
is not ultimate
-
for believers.
-
Just like cultural background,
-
just like socioeconomic class
-
aren't ultimate either.
-
Friends, the church
-
should not be making
-
an idol of marriage
-
and the church should not
-
be making an idol
-
of singleness.
-
Now since Jesus
-
didn't give specific commands
-
about what Paul's
-
going to talk about
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during his earthly ministry,
-
during Jesus' earthly ministry,
-
Paul then proceeds
-
to give some apostolic advice.
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And it's this,
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if you're single
-
and you want to marry,
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do it.
-
It's not a sin.
-
Marriage is a good thing.
-
But if you're single,
-
consider that there are benefits
-
to that as well.
-
In verse 26,
-
Paul mentions
-
the present distress.
-
What does he mean by that?
-
Well, I think what Paul
-
has in mind here
-
is probably some sort of
-
trial or difficulty
-
that the church
-
or the city
-
or maybe even the region
-
was going through.
-
A lot of commentators
-
think Paul might be referring
-
to a famine
-
that afflicted Corinth
-
during this time.
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Our present struggles
-
and trials.
-
Whatever it was,
-
in Paul's mind,
-
it would have made marriage
-
and providing for a family
-
very difficult.
-
Keep in mind,
-
in the first century,
-
birth control
-
wasn't super reliable.
-
So,
-
getting married
-
probably meant
-
you were going
-
to have a family.
-
And if you lived
-
in a time
-
of severe economic hardship,
-
that was going to be
-
a hard thing to take up.
-
And so,
-
Paul advises,
-
you know,
-
it's good
-
if you can remain
-
as you are.
-
You'll experience
-
a lot less worldly trouble
-
that way,
-
as he says in verse 28.
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But of course,
-
there's nothing wrong
-
about marriage.
-
You have the freedom
-
to do that as well.
-
So,
-
if you want to marry,
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go,
-
get married.
-
It's good.
-
Friends,
-
isn't it surprising
-
how open Paul is
-
toward either option?
-
Yes,
-
he's leaning
-
toward singleness here.
-
He's commending it
-
as a way of life.
-
But you know,
-
when you step back
-
for Paul,
-
marriage or singleness
-
wasn't the be-all,
-
end-all
-
of a Christian's existence.
-
Because there's a status
-
that means infinitely
-
more than that
-
and brings infinitely
-
more comfort,
-
freedom,
-
and significance.
-
And it's our status
-
in Christ.
-
The one who loves us
-
with an everlasting
-
spousal love
-
and who will remain
-
faithful to us
-
all the way
-
to the end.
-
And as we take in
-
all three of these
-
applications,
-
it would seem
-
that what Paul is saying
-
is don't obsess
-
over what you don't have.
-
Instead,
-
realize who you are
-
in Christ
-
and as a member
-
of his church
-
which far outstrips
-
any of these
-
finite worldly statuses.
-
So,
-
brother and sister,
-
this morning,
-
if you're tempted
-
to envy
-
what others have,
-
remember that you,
-
you,
-
have been purchased
-
by the Lord
-
and that his steadfast love
-
to you will not fail.
-
Or,
-
if you're tempted
-
to pine away
-
with regret
-
over what might have been,
-
you're not looking
-
at others and thinking
-
I wish I had what they had,
-
but you're looking
-
at your past
-
and thinking
-
I've lost it.
-
I wish I had
-
something else there
-
and now I'm in a position
-
that,
-
ugh,
-
just isn't where
-
I wish I was.
-
Friends,
-
instead of pining away
-
after those things
-
with regret,
-
you can be confident
-
that your sovereign
-
and gracious
-
loving God
-
has you in a place
-
where he can advance
-
his kingdom
-
through you.
-
God's not making mistakes
-
with your life
-
and your mistakes
-
aren't so big
-
that he won't turn them
-
for your ultimate good
-
and for his kingdom's glory.
-
Remain where you are
-
with peace,
-
with confidence,
-
with a restful heart
-
and trust
-
that God has you there
-
for a reason.
-
You might not be here forever,
-
but make the most of it
-
while you are
-
and don't wonder
-
whether God
-
could or can
-
or might be able
-
to use you.
-
As Paul told the Corinthians
-
back in chapter 1,
-
God delights
-
to choose the weak things
-
in the world's eyes
-
to shame the strong
-
and to choose
-
the foolish things
-
in the world's eyes
-
to shame the wise
-
and the low
-
and the despised things
-
in the world's eyes
-
to bring to naught
-
the things that are.
-
So maybe you're not
-
a part of the
-
in crowd
-
at school
-
or at work.
-
Maybe you don't have
-
a flashy job
-
or a profession.
-
Maybe you wish
-
your marital status
-
was different,
-
but friends,
-
don't be afraid
-
to remain where you are.
-
Be at peace.
-
For ultimately,
-
God is with you.
-
Notice the end
-
of verse 24
-
where Paul summarizes
-
this church-wide principle
-
he's been laying out.
-
What does he say?
-
Remain with God.
-
With God.
-
That's what matters.
-
Being with God.
-
Because one day,
-
God is going to remake
-
and renew this world
-
from the top
-
to the bottom.
-
And that brings us
-
to the third
-
and final point.
-
The overarching reason
-
why we can take
-
all of this to heart
-
because God's future
-
is coming,
-
friends.
-
In verses 29
-
through 31
-
at the end of our text,
-
Paul says,
-
in essence,
-
don't cling
-
too tightly
-
to the things
-
of this life.
-
Live as though
-
you don't really have them.
-
In other words,
-
don't sink
-
your identity
-
too deeply
-
in those roots.
-
Don't rest
-
your whole heart
-
on them.
-
because even
-
your most intimate
-
human relationship,
-
like the relationship
-
between a husband
-
and a wife,
-
as Paul says
-
in verse 29,
-
is only a reflection,
-
a glimmer
-
of the intimacy
-
of what's to come.
-
And soon,
-
your mourning
-
will give way
-
to joy
-
and your joys
-
will give way
-
to bliss
-
and your business
-
and your busyness
-
will soon give way
-
to a kingdom
-
that cannot fade
-
and a feast
-
that does not end.
-
Paul's not saying
-
that this life
-
is of no importance.
-
It matters
-
deeply.
-
But this life
-
is not
-
an end
-
in itself,
-
you see.
-
And the present form
-
of this world
-
is not the final word.
-
The ethnic divisions,
-
the class distinctions,
-
all the ways
-
in which our world
-
is fractured
-
and divided
-
these things
-
aren't going
-
to last forever.
-
The present form
-
of this world
-
is passing away
-
and a new creation
-
is dawning.
-
Now, yes,
-
it's been 2,000 years
-
since Paul wrote
-
these words.
-
But when he says
-
that the appointed time
-
has grown very short,
-
he's not thinking
-
about regular
-
chronological time,
-
a certain number
-
of days or hours
-
that pass off
-
as the clock
-
spins round.
-
This sort of empty,
-
neutral time
-
that we can fill up
-
like space.
-
No, friends.
-
The appointed time.
-
Here it's the Greek word
-
kairos.
-
This is time
-
if you will have it
-
from God's own perspective.
-
This is time
-
that is imbued
-
with God's
-
redemptive purposes.
-
And in that sense,
-
for the entire
-
church age,
-
the appointed time
-
has grown very short.
-
we, too,
-
with Paul,
-
wait on the edge
-
of the drama
-
of redemption
-
knowing
-
that the next act
-
is the finale.
-
And if the next act
-
is the finale
-
and if the curtain
-
is already beginning
-
to sway
-
and if the orchestra
-
is tuned
-
and poised
-
and ready
-
to strike up the music
-
for that final scene,
-
then, friends,
-
why are we wasting
-
any time fussing
-
and fretting
-
over whether I'm
-
in seat B7
-
or B8
-
or whether I'm
-
circumcised or not
-
or whether I'm
-
a bondservant or not
-
or whether I'm
-
single or not?
-
Why struggle
-
and strive
-
and let your heart
-
be consumed
-
with being somewhere else
-
or someone else
-
or with somebody else
-
if the Lord
-
has called you
-
and here you sit
-
on the cusp
-
of redemptive history?
-
Those things
-
don't have to define
-
you any longer.
-
You're the Lord's.
-
And the present form
-
of this world
-
is passing away.
-
God's new creation
-
is imminent.
-
The renewal
-
of all things
-
and thus you need
-
not cling
-
to this world,
-
its joys
-
and its sorrows,
-
its business
-
and its busyness.
-
Be faithful
-
where you are.
-
Don't grasp
-
and claw
-
for something else
-
as if that's going
-
to justify you
-
or satisfy you.
-
Christ has already
-
done that, friends.
-
And soon,
-
the curtain
-
will open.
-
And like we read
-
earlier from Zephaniah,
-
we will see the Lord God
-
in our midst,
-
a mighty one
-
who will save
-
and he will rejoice
-
over you with gladness
-
and he will quiet you
-
by his love
-
and he will exalt
-
over you
-
with loud singing
-
and he will gather
-
those who mourn
-
for the festival
-
and we will suffer
-
reproach no more.
-
Let's pray.
-
Amen.
-
Oh Lord,
-
make us a people
-
who are so
-
enraptured
-
with you
-
and who we are
-
in Christ.
-
Help that reality
-
sink so deep
-
down in our hearts,
-
God,
-
that we can sit loose
-
to the worldly statuses
-
that so often
-
pull and push
-
and tear us apart.
-
God,
-
give us
-
that deep
-
wellspring
-
of contentment
-
in Christ.
-
And Lord,
-
help us
-
to keep our eyes
-
on you
-
and help us
-
to be faithful
-
for the coming
-
of that day.
-
We pray in Jesus' name.
-
Amen.