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Living Distinctively in a Fallen World

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  1. chapter 21. If you are in a pew Bible, that's page number 62. We've been going through the

  2. book of Exodus this year, and we've seen that the God of the Bible is a God who saves, right?

  3. He saved the people of Israel from slavery in Egypt, and He has saved us from sin and death

  4. through the resurrection, the death and resurrection of the Lord Jesus Christ. And we've also seen that

  5. the God who saves us sustains us. God sustained the people of Israel through the wilderness,

  6. and He continues to sustain and provide for us by His Holy Spirit and His grace. And we've also

  7. seen that the same God who saves and sustains us also instructs us in His laws. For the last two

  8. weeks, we've looked at the Ten Commandments, the heart of God's moral law, which teaches us to love

  9. God above everything else and love our neighbor as ourselves. Now, for the next four Sundays,

  10. during this month of June, we're focusing in on God's wise instructions for His redeemed people

  11. in Exodus 21 through 23. So today, we're looking at a long section of chapter 21 and most of chapter 22.

  12. I won't read all of it, but let's begin by reading chapter 21, starting at verse 1. Here we go.

  13. Now, these are the rules that you shall set before them. Now, God is speaking to Moses to then speak

  14. to the people of Israel. When you buy a Hebrew slave, he shall serve six years, and in the seventh,

  15. he shall go out free for nothing. If he comes in single, he shall go out single. If he comes in

  16. married, then his wife shall go out with him. If his master gives him a wife and she bears him sons

  17. or daughters, the wife and her children shall be her masters, and he shall go out alone. But if the

  18. slave plainly says, I love my master, my wife, and my children, I will not go out free, then his master

  19. will bring him to God, and he shall bring him to the door or the doorpost, and his master shall bore

  20. his ear through with an awl, and he shall be his slave forever. When a man sells his daughter as a

  21. slave, she shall not go out as the male slaves do. If she does not please her master who has designated

  22. her for himself, he shall let her be redeemed. He shall have no right to sell her to a foreign people

  23. since he has broken faith with her. If he designates her for his son, he shall deal with her as with a

  24. daughter. If he takes another wife to himself, he shall not diminish her food, clothing, or marital

  25. rights. And if he does not do these three things for her, she shall go out for nothing without payment

  26. of money. Whoever strikes a man so that he dies shall be put to death. But if he did not lie in wait

  27. for him, but God let him fall into his hand, then I will appoint for you a place to which he may flee.

  28. But if a man willfully attacks another to kill him by cunning, you shall take him from my altar

  29. that he may die. Whoever strikes his father or his mother shall be put to death. Whoever steals a

  30. man and sells him, and anyone found in possession of him shall be put to death. Whoever curses his

  31. father or his mother shall be put to death. When men quarrel, and one strikes the other with a stone or

  32. with his fist, and the man does not die but takes to his bed, then if the man rises again and walks

  33. outdoors with his staff, he who struck him shall be clear. Only he shall pay for the loss of his time

  34. and shall have him thoroughly healed. When a man strikes his slave, male or female, with a rod,

  35. and the slave dies under his hand, he shall be avenged. But if the slave survives a day or two,

  36. he is not to be avenged, for the slave is his money. When men strive together and hit a pregnant woman so

  37. that her children come out, but there is no harm, the one who hit her shall surely be fined, as the

  38. woman's husband shall impose on him, and he shall pay as the judges determine. But if there is harm,

  39. then you shall pay life for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot,

  40. burn for burn, wound for wound, stripe for stripe. I'm going to stop there. Now, one of our commitments

  41. at Trinity Baptist Church is to preach or teach the whole counsel of God. That is, all of the truths

  42. that God has revealed to us in the different books and sections of the Bible. And often we do that by

  43. preaching through whole books of the Bible without skipping anything. And so, we come to this morning's

  44. passage that we might not dare to tackle if each of the preachers just got to choose a different text

  45. each Sunday on our own. Now, a handful of you are lawyers or law school students, and some of you might

  46. be fascinated by this. But most people who try to read straight through the Bible come to passages

  47. like this, and their eyes start to glaze over, and—or maybe you're thinking, yikes, some of these laws

  48. sound really harsh. Slavery, the death penalty for cursing your parents, an eye for an eye and a tooth

  49. for a tooth. Can I really trust that these laws come from a good and just and wise God? But here's the

  50. thing. If the whole Bible is God's Word for us, then God has something good for us here in these chapters,

  51. no matter how strange and alien they may seem. So, this morning I want us to take a deeper look at these

  52. chapters that are easy to misunderstand because we don't live in that cultural context, or we can be tempted

  53. to just ignore and overlook because we don't know what to do with them. Now, a bit of the big picture.

  54. Back in chapter 19, verse 6, God said to the people of Israel, you are to be my kingdom of priests

  55. and my holy nation. In other words, God was calling the Israelites to reflect His distinctive character,

  56. His wisdom and justice and love to the surrounding nations. And this section in particular is teaching

  57. the Israelites how to reflect God's character in their life together as a civil society, as a nation.

  58. Now, these laws we're looking at today were specifically intended for the Old Testament people

  59. of Israel. They don't apply directly to the Christian church because the Christian church is not a nation

  60. state. Jesus Christ did not tell His disciples to set up a king and get a military force together

  61. and take a piece of land and from there expand the Christian kingdom throughout the earth. No.

  62. He never said that. In fact, the disciples seem to have had that idea, and Jesus said no. They said,

  63. are you going to restore the kingdom to Israel? And He said, no, but I'll give you the Holy Spirit,

  64. and you will go to the ends of the earth and bear witness to me as the Savior and Lord.

  65. So, these laws are also not meant to be directly implemented by modern governments,

  66. because modern governments do not have the authority or are not given the responsibility

  67. to… No modern nation state is God's kingdom of priests and God's holy nation on earth.

  68. And modern governments have the responsibility to administer justice, Romans 13,

  69. tells us that. But God has not authorized any government to enforce the laws of the New Testament,

  70. to compel people to come to church or compel people to obey the particular commands of the Lord Jesus

  71. Christ. Jesus said Christians are exiles scattered among the nations. We live in loyalty to Jesus,

  72. but we live throughout all the nations of the world. So, then you might ask, well, wait a minute. Okay,

  73. if these chapters don't apply directly to the church, and they don't apply directly to modern

  74. governments, then are they really any use for us at all? And the answer to that is yes,

  75. because they show us God's wisdom in applying the principles of His moral law within a particular

  76. historical and cultural context. And don't we need God's wisdom to apply the Ten Commandments,

  77. for example, to our own lives and our own habits and our life as a Christian community,

  78. as a church, our own particular circumstances? Second reason these laws are helpful is they don't

  79. just tell us how God wants us to live ideally, but also how to deal with some of the realities of life

  80. in a messy and broken world. The section we're looking at today is sometimes called the case law

  81. because it outlines common situations, common cases that the ancient Israelites would have faced,

  82. and it gives guidance about how to pursue justice on a case-by-case kind of basis.

  83. First one says, these are the rules. That word can also be translated judgments or judicial

  84. rulings. In other words, the case law sets a judicial precedent for how to deal with other

  85. similar situations that may arise. But I want you to notice just from the start that every situation

  86. mentioned in these chapters is a result of living in a fallen world. Notice how the paragraphs begin.

  87. Verse 2, when you buy a Hebrew slave. Verse 10, when a man sells his daughter as a slave.

  88. Verse 12 to 17 have a different structure. We'll look at that later on. But verse 18,

  89. when men quarrel and one strikes the other. Verse 20, when a man strikes his slave and the slave dies.

  90. Verse 22, when men strive together and hit a pregnant woman, an innocent bystander. Verse 28,

  91. when an ox gores a man or a woman to death. Verse 33, when someone falls into a pit.

  92. Chapter 22, verse 1, if a man steals an ox or a sheep,

  93. every one of these situations, including, by the way, slavery, is a result of living in a fallen world.

  94. None of these situations would occur if we were still living in the Garden of Eden

  95. and harmony with God and in a right relationship with each other.

  96. But you see, when God saves us, God doesn't magically transport us out of our sinful flesh

  97. and this broken world. We still have to deal with potentially oppressive work situations,

  98. quarrels and fights, car accidents, wildfires, things that get lost or stolen,

  99. etc., etc., etc., etc. And what we see here is that God makes provision for us in the midst of a messy world.

  100. He doesn't promise a utopia, then or now, but He does show us a way forward,

  101. one step at a time toward His redemptive and righteous purposes.

  102. So the laws we're looking at today are not God's last or only word on these topics,

  103. but they do show us God's wisdom in applying the law in concrete situations

  104. and in responding redemptively to the realities of a fallen world.

  105. As we go through these chapters, I want to do two basic things as we go along.

  106. I want to point out some of the ways that Israel's laws distinctively reflected God's character

  107. in their historical context.

  108. So I'm going to mention some comparisons to other laws of other nations of that time,

  109. of the ancient Near East.

  110. And we'll see some ways that the laws distinctively reflected God's character.

  111. And second, I want us to consider God's intention for us here and now.

  112. We won't be implementing these laws directly,

  113. but we need to consider how we're called to live distinctly as followers of Jesus Christ.

  114. As we heard earlier from the Sermon on the Mount when Jesus said,

  115. you're to be the salt of the earth, the light of the world, a city on a hill,

  116. a distinct people who bear witness to the goodness and glory of God.

  117. Now, there are five categories of laws that we're going to look at this morning.

  118. First, laws about slaves.

  119. First, I'm going to spend a longer time on the slavery laws

  120. because those are more complicated and more fraught in our context.

  121. Second, there's laws about capital punishment.

  122. Third, laws about bodily injury.

  123. Fourth, laws about lost or stolen property.

  124. And fifth, a law about premarital sex.

  125. We're going all over the place today.

  126. All right, so let's dive in.

  127. First, the laws about slavery, chapter 21, 1 to 11.

  128. Now, for those of us who are Americans,

  129. we can have trouble with Bible passages about slavery

  130. in part because of our own country's history.

  131. When many of us hear the word slavery,

  132. we think about Africans who were kidnapped by slave traders,

  133. taken across the Atlantic Ocean,

  134. treated as less than human,

  135. often separated from their wives and children,

  136. and enslaved for life without a real possibility of freedom.

  137. Now, even though slavery was abolished over 150 years ago,

  138. we still wrestle as a nation with its many twisted legacies.

  139. And even in the church, it can be an ongoing struggle

  140. to build deep trust and relationships

  141. among Christians of different races.

  142. And that's something we need to keep working on

  143. by God's grace and with patient endurance.

  144. But when we read about slavery in the Bible,

  145. we need to take a step back from our own country's history

  146. and try to understand it for what it was back then.

  147. Let me make four points to help us do that.

  148. First, the Bible acknowledges the reality of slavery

  149. in a fallen world,

  150. but it does not say that God instituted slavery

  151. as part of the natural order.

  152. God instituted marriage from the beginning.

  153. God gave human beings meaningful work to do

  154. from the beginning.

  155. After the flood, God instituted government

  156. in Genesis 9.

  157. But we never see God instituting slavery

  158. or defending it as something

  159. that should necessarily should be preserved.

  160. Second, the word slave is hard to translate precisely.

  161. It can mean a household servant.

  162. It can mean an employee.

  163. It can mean an apprentice as well as a slave.

  164. Some slaves had no authority at all,

  165. while others had considerable responsibility

  166. within a household.

  167. Back then, pretty much every business

  168. ran out of a household,

  169. and most of the household workers

  170. lived either on the premises or right nearby.

  171. So very often, your boss was also your landlord,

  172. and your workplace was also your home.

  173. That's just how life was.

  174. Third, it's helpful to understand

  175. how people in Israel became slaves

  176. in the first place.

  177. There were basically two reasons.

  178. First, you might grow up in desperate poverty.

  179. Some children might have grown up

  180. with slaves as their parents.

  181. Or chapter 21, verse 7,

  182. talks about a father who sells his child into slavery,

  183. probably because the parents were desperate

  184. and had no way to provide for the child's needs.

  185. A bit like a child today who ends up in foster care.

  186. So you might grow up in desperate poverty

  187. and end up in slavery,

  188. or you might end up in desperate poverty

  189. either through your own fault or otherwise.

  190. Chapter 22, verse 3,

  191. says that sometimes people were sold into slavery

  192. because they had stolen something

  193. and they were not able to make restitution.

  194. They were not able to pay the person back

  195. who they had wronged.

  196. And so the law said they would be sold into slavery.

  197. Someone would pay a price up front,

  198. and that would pay off their debt,

  199. and then they'd be a slave for a time.

  200. Leviticus 25 talks about someone who becomes poor

  201. and sells himself into slavery.

  202. Sort of voluntarily enters into that agreement.

  203. Perhaps, again, if you're in debt,

  204. that's the only way to deal with your debts.

  205. Now, the one thing that was absolutely prohibited

  206. was kidnapping someone

  207. and selling them into slavery.

  208. That's what happened to Joseph in the book of Genesis.

  209. That's what happened to many slaves

  210. who were brought to the United States.

  211. And sadly, it continues to happen

  212. throughout the world today,

  213. especially to children.

  214. But this is something that God hates.

  215. Verse 16 prescribes the death penalty

  216. for anyone who steals a man and sells him,

  217. and anyone found in possession of him.

  218. Talk about a strong law against the slave trade.

  219. It was already there in ancient Israel.

  220. Fourth, we should notice

  221. how God's laws protected slaves in Israel.

  222. One of the things God says over and over to his people is this.

  223. Remember that you were a slave in the land of Egypt,

  224. and I brought you out of there.

  225. The people of Israel had experienced oppressive

  226. and cruel masters, taskmasters,

  227. and they had experienced the gracious deliverance of God.

  228. And so one of God's first priorities in their society

  229. was to make sure that slaves in Israel

  230. would never be treated like the Israelites had been in Egypt.

  231. That's actually why the laws about slaves come first

  232. in the civil law of Israel.

  233. In many other law codes from the ancient Near East,

  234. like the Code of Hammurabi,

  235. the laws about slaves come last,

  236. and they mostly focus on the importance

  237. of catching slaves who run away.

  238. In most other societies of the time,

  239. slaves had few or no legal protections,

  240. but not so in Israel.

  241. Consider five ways that God's law protected

  242. the rights of slaves.

  243. First, the Fourth Commandment specified

  244. that slaves, just like everyone else

  245. in Israelite society,

  246. got a full day off every week on the Sabbath.

  247. That was not the case in any other ancient society.

  248. It's not even the case for many people today.

  249. Second, with the exception of those captured in war,

  250. Hebrew slavery was temporary rather than permanent.

  251. Verse 2,

  252. When you buy a Hebrew slave,

  253. he shall serve six years,

  254. and the seventh he shall go out free for nothing.

  255. So in one sense,

  256. slavery back then

  257. was a bit like enlisting in the military today.

  258. When you enlist in the military,

  259. you sign a contract,

  260. and your life is not your own anymore.

  261. You go where your officer tells you to go.

  262. You move where your officer tells you to move.

  263. You work whatever hours the military sets for you.

  264. But when you finish your years of service,

  265. you're free to go.

  266. Another modern analogy could be Job Corps,

  267. even though that's only for a year or two.

  268. And Deuteronomy 15 said that

  269. when a slave goes out after serving six years,

  270. it says,

  271. You shall not send him away empty-handed.

  272. Supply him generously out of your flock,

  273. your threshing floor,

  274. and your winepress,

  275. because you were a slave in Egypt,

  276. and the Lord your God redeemed you.

  277. You see, according to God's law,

  278. slavery in Israel was meant to be a way

  279. for people who had either grown up

  280. in desperate poverty

  281. or fallen into desperate poverty

  282. to get out of crushing debt,

  283. to have a roof over their head

  284. and food in their stomachs

  285. in the meantime,

  286. to learn skills and grow in self-discipline,

  287. and after six years,

  288. they'd have the chance for a fresh start.

  289. If you'd followed these laws,

  290. that's what slavery would have looked like

  291. within Israel.

  292. Now, verse 7 might seem like it's saying

  293. that female slaves, unlike male slaves,

  294. don't go free after six years.

  295. You might say,

  296. What's the deal with that?

  297. But that's actually not the case.

  298. Deuteronomy 15, verse 13 and following,

    Deuteronomy 15:13

  299. specifies that the six-year rule

  300. applies to both male and female slaves.

  301. Verses 7 to 11 in this chapter

  302. are about a woman who becomes

  303. both a household servant and a wife

  304. to either the father,

  305. the head of the family,

  306. or one of his sons.

  307. And the reason why she doesn't go out

  308. after six years

  309. is because marriage is not a six-year contract.

  310. Marriage is a lifelong arrangement

  311. in God's design.

  312. Third, Hebrew slavery honored

  313. the integrity of slave families.

  314. Another difference with much American slavery.

  315. If he comes in single,

  316. he shall go out single, verse 3.

  317. If he comes in married,

  318. then his wife shall go out with him.

  319. But then you might say,

  320. What about verse 4?

  321. Verse 4 seems to present a problem.

  322. The boss allows his worker

  323. to marry another worker,

  324. and now they have kids,

  325. and the guy's six-year contract is up,

  326. but he can't take his wife and kids with him.

  327. I mean, what's that about?

  328. Well, the boss has rights too.

  329. You see, the worker can't just walk off

  330. with his wife and kids

  331. if they still have time on their contract,

  332. if the wife hasn't reached her six years yet.

  333. So the man owes the boss's family

  334. for the loss of his wife's services.

  335. So he really has three options.

  336. One, he can presumably wait

  337. until his wife's six-year contract is up,

  338. and then they can go free together.

  339. Although that might be an option

  340. if his wife was a captive in war.

  341. Second option, he can go out,

  342. make money, come back,

  343. and buy his wife and kids

  344. out of the rest of their contract obligation.

  345. Third option,

  346. he can take the option of verses five and six.

  347. He can say,

  348. we've got a good thing going here,

  349. so let's settle here for good.

  350. So those are the three options in those cases.

  351. So slaves get the Sabbath day.

  352. Hebrew slavery was temporary rather than permanent.

  353. Hebrew slavery honored

  354. the integrity of slave families.

  355. Fourth, God's law protected female slaves,

  356. arguably the most vulnerable people

  357. in the ancient world.

  358. Verses eight to 11 envision three situations

  359. where a daughter sold into slavery

  360. might be particularly vulnerable.

  361. First situation,

  362. the master, the head of the household,

  363. takes her as a wife

  364. and then decides he is not pleased with her.

  365. In other words, he decides to divorce her.

  366. That's not a good thing.

  367. Verse eight says,

  368. he has broken faith with her.

  369. God hates divorce.

  370. But God cares for women

  371. whose husbands have broken faith

  372. and abandoned their marriage

  373. and left them alone.

  374. And today,

  375. as most divorces are initiated by women,

  376. we should say God cares for men as well

  377. whose wives have broken faith

  378. and abandoned their marriage.

  379. The provision here for the woman is

  380. he must let her be redeemed.

  381. That is,

  382. he must let one of her relatives

  383. take responsibility to care for her

  384. and not sell her to strangers

  385. who would not have her best interests at heart.

  386. That's the protection

  387. in the first instance.

  388. Second situation,

  389. the master designates her for his son.

  390. In other words,

  391. she becomes the wife of

  392. one of the sons in the family.

  393. In this case,

  394. the law says she is no longer merely a slave.

  395. She has all the rights and privileges

  396. of a daughter in the family.

  397. Third situation,

  398. the master takes another wife to himself.

  399. Again,

  400. this is not a good thing.

  401. We are dealing with situations

  402. that happen in a messy,

  403. broken,

  404. fallen world.

  405. Polygamy was never God's intention.

  406. The Bible never promotes it.

  407. It shows all kinds of bad consequences of it.

  408. But it happened,

  409. and so God's law protected women

  410. who found themselves in that situation.

  411. In this case,

  412. her husband owes her food,

  413. clothing,

  414. and marital rights.

  415. Provision,

  416. protection,

  417. and physical expressions of love.

  418. If he doesn't do those things,

  419. she can go free,

  420. which presumably means

  421. she would be free to marry someone else.

  422. Because he has failed to live up to

  423. the marriage,

  424. the promise to provide and protect for her.

  425. So, God's law protected female slaves

  426. who often found themselves

  427. in the most vulnerable and difficult situations of all.

  428. And fifth,

  429. slaves in Israel had legal recourse

  430. in the case of serious injury or death.

  431. Verse 20 and 21,

  432. verse 20 tells us

  433. that if a man strikes a slave

  434. with a rod

  435. and the slave dies

  436. under his hand,

  437. that is what,

  438. immediately,

  439. that is considered

  440. intentional homicide,

  441. and the master

  442. deserves the death penalty.

  443. That's what it means,

  444. he shall be avenged.

  445. Now, verse 21

  446. is making a distinction

  447. between murder

  448. and manslaughter.

  449. Intentional,

  450. willful murder

  451. that deserves the death penalty

  452. and manslaughter,

  453. which doesn't.

  454. If the slave doesn't die immediately

  455. but survives a day or two

  456. before dying,

  457. that's considered manslaughter.

  458. And the reason given is

  459. for the slave is his money.

  460. Now, that is a very jarring phrase,

  461. and it was taken completely out of context

  462. and abused

  463. in the history of this country.

  464. But that phrase is not denying

  465. the full humanity of the slave.

  466. It's simply a shorthand way of saying

  467. a boss has a financial interest

  468. in his workers staying alive.

  469. So it's likely

  470. that he didn't actually intend

  471. to kill the slave,

  472. and so he shouldn't be prosecuted

  473. for intentional homicide.

  474. Now, verses 26 and 27

  475. give more protections

  476. to a slave.

  477. If a man destroys a slave's eye,

  478. that's an example of an injury

  479. with significant future implications,

  480. or even if he knocks out

  481. a slave's tooth,

  482. an injury with relatively minor

  483. future implications,

  484. in either case,

  485. he shall immediately

  486. let the slave go free.

  487. No other law codes

  488. in the ancient world

  489. had a provision

  490. anything like

  491. verse 26 and 27.

  492. Protecting slaves

  493. against permanent bodily injury.

  494. By giving them the right

  495. to immediate liberation.

  496. You see, slavery was not

  497. in itself a good thing.

  498. But God's laws

  499. protected slaves in Israel

  500. because God had identified

  501. with a nation of slaves

  502. who were being oppressed

  503. under cruel bondage.

  504. And God chose to deliver them

  505. and make them his own.

  506. And today,

  507. God still identifies

  508. with people who are poor

  509. and desperate

  510. and vulnerable

  511. and who cry out to him

  512. and place their hope in him.

  513. And God is still the same God

  514. who protects

  515. and provides

  516. for the most vulnerable

  517. in society.

  518. So that's the first section

  519. of laws.

  520. Next sections,

  521. we're going to go more quickly.

  522. Next section of laws

  523. concerns capital offenses,

  524. verses 12 through 17,

  525. and also chapter 22,

  526. verses 18 through 20.

  527. Now, if you notice,

  528. these laws are worded

  529. differently than the others

  530. because they are not

  531. less than ideal situations

  532. that God is willing

  533. to temporarily tolerate

  534. while mitigating

  535. some of the most harmful

  536. consequences of them.

  537. Rather,

  538. these are deeply wicked behaviors

  539. that have no place

  540. among the people of God,

  541. that God is very serious about.

  542. These are blatant violations

  543. of the Ten Commandments.

  544. Verse 12,

  545. premeditated murder.

  546. Again, verse 13,

  547. distinguishes that manslaughter

  548. is a different case.

  549. Premeditated murder

  550. deserved the death penalty

  551. in ancient Israel.

  552. Now, one of the ways

  553. that this law

  554. distinctively reflected

  555. God's character

  556. is that in other

  557. ancient Near Eastern law codes,

  558. murder was only punishable

  559. by death

  560. if the victim

  561. was of equal

  562. or higher social status.

  563. If the victim

  564. was of a lower social status,

  565. you only had to pay a fine.

  566. Or, in some cases,

  567. a lower class member

  568. of your household

  569. was put to death instead.

  570. But in the Bible,

  571. the punishment

  572. for violent crimes

  573. does not vary

  574. according to the social status

  575. of the victim.

  576. Because the God of the Bible

  577. is no respecter of persons.

  578. Proverbs says,

  579. the rich and the poor

  580. meet together

  581. because the Lord

  582. is the maker of them all.

  583. Every human being

  584. bears the image of God.

  585. And so this law

  586. is whoever.

  587. Young or old,

  588. rich or poor,

  589. male or female,

  590. slave or free.

  591. Now, verses 15 and 17

  592. also prescribe

  593. the death penalty

  594. for striking or cursing

  595. one's father or mother.

  596. It's not just referring

  597. to a careless word

  598. or a one-time

  599. slap in the face,

  600. disrespectful as

  601. those things are.

  602. This is referring

  603. to a serious

  604. physical assault.

  605. Most likely

  606. with intent to kill,

  607. that's how the word

  608. strike is most often used,

  609. even if the parent

  610. doesn't actually die.

  611. Or an out-and-out

  612. rejection of one's parents,

  613. cursing them,

  614. publicly disowning them,

  615. wishing they were dead.

  616. And God says

  617. that kind of behavior

  618. cannot be tolerated.

  619. Because how will

  620. God's holy nation

  621. hold together

  622. if its families

  623. are continually

  624. tearing themselves apart?

  625. Now, we live in an age

  626. where it's pretty common

  627. to disrespect authority,

  628. but the Christian community

  629. is called to be distinctive

  630. in showing respect

  631. for the authorities

  632. that God has placed

  633. over us,

  634. beginning with

  635. children and adults

  636. honoring,

  637. respecting,

  638. their father and mother.

  639. chapter 22,

  640. 18 through 20

  641. lists three additional

  642. capital offenses.

  643. Sorcery,

  644. that is witchcraft

  645. or magic,

  646. trying to control

  647. or manipulate God

  648. by channeling

  649. spiritual powers.

  650. Bestiality,

  651. this is also connected

  652. with idolatrous worship

  653. and it lowers people

  654. to the level of animals.

  655. And three,

  656. idolatry,

  657. sacrificing to any

  658. God other

  659. than the Lord.

  660. Chapter 21,

  661. 12 to 17,

  662. is three offenses

  663. against human beings

  664. and chapter 22,

  665. 18 through 20

  666. are three offenses

  667. against God.

  668. They're all blatant

  669. violations of the

  670. Ten Commandments

  671. and they're deeply

  672. destructive

  673. and dishonoring behaviors

  674. and God wanted them

  675. to have no place

  676. among His redeemed people.

  677. Now,

  678. you might ask,

  679. what does the New Testament

  680. say along these lines?

  681. Again,

  682. the church is never

  683. authorized to use

  684. physical force,

  685. so the church

  686. should never be

  687. administering

  688. the death penalty.

  689. But,

  690. what the New Testament

  691. does say

  692. is that if someone

  693. professes to be a Christian

  694. and yet persists

  695. in serious

  696. and unrepentant sin

  697. that violates

  698. one of God's

  699. clear moral laws,

  700. the church is instructed

  701. to remove them

  702. from the membership

  703. of the church,

  704. to no longer

  705. treat them

  706. as a fellow believer.

  707. to say you are

  708. not living

  709. in accordance

  710. with the new covenant

  711. in Jesus Christ,

  712. we can no longer

  713. call you a brother

  714. or sister in Christ.

  715. We will respect you

  716. as a human being,

  717. but you may no longer

  718. call yourself

  719. a fellow believer

  720. if you continue

  721. to persistently act

  722. in destructive

  723. and dishonoring ways.

  724. Third category,

  725. bodily injury,

  726. verses 18 to 36,

  727. the rest of chapter 21.

  728. Now, broadly speaking,

  729. this section goes

  730. from more

  731. to less serious.

  732. Verses 18 to 27,

  733. a human injures

  734. another human.

  735. Verses 28 to 32,

  736. an animal injures

  737. a human.

  738. Verses 33 to 34,

  739. a human injures

  740. an animal.

  741. Verses 35 to 36,

  742. an animal injures

  743. an animal.

  744. You could also say

  745. verses 18 to 27

  746. are about sins

  747. of commission,

  748. that is,

  749. actions that cause harm

  750. to someone else.

  751. Verses 28 to 36

  752. are sins of omission,

  753. that is,

  754. negligence.

  755. You're causing harm

  756. to somebody else

  757. by doing nothing

  758. when you should do something.

  759. And one thing we see

  760. is just because

  761. you didn't intend

  762. to harm somebody

  763. doesn't mean

  764. you're not responsible

  765. for the consequences

  766. of your actions

  767. or words.

  768. and just because

  769. you did nothing

  770. doesn't mean

  771. you're blameless

  772. if you had a responsibility

  773. to do something.

  774. God takes negligence

  775. seriously

  776. as well as

  777. active

  778. malice

  779. or harm.

  780. Now,

  781. I'm not going to go through

  782. each of these sections

  783. in detail,

  784. but I want us to look

  785. at the main principle

  786. for this section

  787. found in verse 23

  788. to 25,

  789. which is also

  790. a verse that has been

  791. widely misunderstood.

  792. That is what's called

  793. the lex talionis,

  794. that is the law

  795. of retaliation,

  796. right?

  797. Life for life,

  798. eye for eye,

  799. tooth for tooth,

  800. etc., etc.

  801. Two clarifications.

  802. Number one,

  803. these verses

  804. do not justify

  805. private vendettas

  806. or family feuds.

  807. Actually,

  808. that's in part

  809. what they were intended

  810. to guard against.

  811. In the ancient world,

  812. there were all kinds

  813. of ongoing feuds

  814. between clans

  815. and tribes.

  816. And what happens

  817. in a feud

  818. or a vendetta?

  819. It's not equal.

  820. It's not,

  821. I pay you back

  822. exactly as you pay me back.

  823. It escalates.

  824. You insulted me,

  825. I'll beat you up.

  826. You beat me up,

  827. I'll...

  828. It goes on and on,

  829. right?

  830. You always try

  831. to one-up

  832. whoever hurt you last.

  833. And these verses

  834. are trying to stop

  835. that cycle

  836. of revenge

  837. and saying

  838. these matters

  839. need to be brought

  840. before the judges

  841. and the punishment

  842. should correspond

  843. exactly to the crime

  844. and no more.

  845. Second clarification,

  846. these verses

  847. are not actually

  848. recommending

  849. literal,

  850. physical mutilation.

  851. compensation.

  852. There is no record

  853. in the Bible

  854. or anywhere else

  855. of anyone

  856. in ancient Israel

  857. who was punished

  858. by having his tooth

  859. knocked out

  860. or his eye gouged out

  861. or his hand cut off

  862. or being burned

  863. or anything like that.

  864. The principle is

  865. the law was never

  866. applied in that way.

  867. It was actually

  868. never meant to be

  869. applied in that way.

  870. The principle is

  871. compensation

  872. should correspond

  873. as precisely

  874. as possible

  875. to the damage

  876. inflicted.

  877. Notice it says

  878. you shall pay

  879. eye for eye,

  880. tooth for tooth.

  881. So the question is

  882. what is an appropriate

  883. payment

  884. given the damages?

  885. In verses 26 and 27

  886. immediately following

  887. verse 25

  888. we have one example

  889. of that.

  890. A master knocks out

  891. a slave's tooth

  892. or gouges out

  893. his eye.

  894. What's the punishment?

  895. The slave goes free

  896. immediately.

  897. That is

  898. one example

  899. of an appropriate

  900. compensation

  901. that the law

  902. provides.

  903. And in other

  904. situations

  905. the judges

  906. had to determine

  907. what's an appropriate

  908. compensation

  909. monetary or otherwise.

  910. In the case

  911. of premeditated

  912. murder

  913. no monetary

  914. payment could suffice

  915. in ancient Israel.

  916. Numbers 35

  917. 31 says

  918. you shall accept

  919. no ransom

  920. for the life

  921. of a murderer.

  922. But the interesting

  923. thing about that

  924. verse

  925. is it seems

  926. to assume

  927. that every other

  928. kind of damage

  929. or injury

  930. can be compensated

  931. somehow.

  932. You just have

  933. to figure out

  934. how.

  935. Now how does

  936. that apply

  937. to Christians?

  938. Well of course

  939. Jesus Christ

  940. in the Sermon

  941. on the Mount

  942. goes one step

  943. further.

  944. He says

  945. you have heard

  946. that it was said

  947. eye for eye

  948. and tooth for tooth.

  949. And some people

  950. misunderstood that

  951. back then

  952. just like they

  953. misunderstand it

  954. today.

  955. And Jesus said

  956. but I tell you

  957. do not resist

  958. an evil person.

  959. In other words

  960. Jesus says

  961. sometimes it takes

  962. more strength

  963. to absorb

  964. an injury

  965. rather than

  966. retaliate.

  967. To forbear

  968. rather than

  969. fight back

  970. and to overcome

  971. evil

  972. by doing good.

  973. And of course

  974. that's what

  975. Jesus Christ

  976. did

  977. when he

  978. willingly

  979. allowed himself

  980. to be nailed

  981. to the cross.

  982. His life

  983. for ours.

  984. Fourth

  985. lost,

  986. stolen,

  987. or damaged

  988. property.

  989. This is chapter

    Isaiah 22:1–15

  990. 22

  991. verses 1 to 15.

  992. Again I'm not

  993. going to go

  994. through each

  995. section

  996. and each

  997. part in detail

  998. but I want

  999. to point out

  1000. two themes.

  1001. Number one

  1002. the importance

  1003. of restitution.

  1004. When property

  1005. is lost

  1006. or stolen

  1007. or damaged

  1008. and when

  1009. someone's

  1010. responsible

  1011. either by

  1012. their action

  1013. or by

  1014. their negligence

  1015. restitution

  1016. is what's

  1017. required

  1018. in order

  1019. to make

  1020. things right.

  1021. What does

  1022. that mean?

  1023. If you

  1024. stole something

  1025. you bring

  1026. back what

  1027. you stole

  1028. plus some

  1029. more.

  1030. If you

  1031. lose or

  1032. break

  1033. something

  1034. that someone

  1035. entrusted

  1036. to you

  1037. or that

  1038. belongs to

  1039. someone else

  1040. or that

  1041. you borrowed

  1042. you buy

  1043. them another

  1044. one

  1045. even if

  1046. you didn't

  1047. mean to

  1048. lose it

  1049. or break

  1050. it.

  1051. Or if

  1052. something

  1053. happens that's

  1054. genuinely out

  1055. of your

  1056. control someone

  1057. entrusts someone

  1058. says I'm

  1059. leaving for

  1060. the summer

  1061. can you

  1062. hold on

  1063. to this

  1064. box and

  1065. a robber

  1066. comes into

  1067. your house

  1068. and you

  1069. had no

  1070. control over

  1071. it and

  1072. they take

  1073. the box

  1074. and run

  1075. and it's

  1076. never found.

  1077. Then you

  1078. make an oath

  1079. before God

  1080. and say I

  1081. did all

  1082. that I

  1083. could and

  1084. something

  1085. happened that

  1086. was completely

  1087. out of my

  1088. control and

  1089. then that's

  1090. all you

  1091. need to

  1092. do.

  1093. You don't

  1094. have to pay

  1095. them back

  1096. because something

  1097. happened that

  1098. was completely

  1099. beyond your

  1100. control.

  1101. So the

  1102. importance of

  1103. restitution and

  1104. in the New

  1105. Testament we

  1106. see somebody who

  1107. understood this

  1108. principle and it's

  1109. Zacchaeus.

  1110. What did

  1111. Zacchaeus say?

  1112. He said if I've

  1113. defrauded anyone I'll

  1114. pay them back four

  1115. times over.

  1116. You know

  1117. Zacchaeus didn't

  1118. just say

  1119. Jesus I've

  1120. done a ton of

  1121. bad things in

  1122. my life.

  1123. I've hurt a lot

  1124. of people.

  1125. I've sort of

  1126. swindled some

  1127. people and

  1128. taken some

  1129. things I

  1130. shouldn't have

  1131. taken.

  1132. Will you just

  1133. forgive me so

  1134. that I can

  1135. forget about it

  1136. all and not

  1137. have to deal

  1138. with any of

  1139. those things I've

  1140. done before?

  1141. No.

  1142. Zacchaeus said

  1143. in effect

  1144. Jesus I know

  1145. I've done

  1146. wrong but I

  1147. can see that

  1148. you've accepted

  1149. me despite

  1150. my sins and

  1151. so now I want

  1152. to do whatever

  1153. I can to

  1154. make things

  1155. right with

  1156. anyone I've

  1157. wronged.

  1158. And Jesus

  1159. says to

  1160. Zacchaeus when

  1161. he hears this

  1162. he says salvation

  1163. has come to

  1164. this house.

  1165. You too are a

  1166. son of Abraham.

  1167. In other

  1168. words that's

  1169. what it means

  1170. to be saved.

  1171. To know that

  1172. Jesus has

  1173. accepted you

  1174. despite your

  1175. sin and

  1176. therefore if

  1177. you've wronged

  1178. anybody else

  1179. you're going to

  1180. do whatever

  1181. you can to

  1182. make things

  1183. right with

  1184. them.

  1185. You're not

  1186. just going to

  1187. forget about

  1188. it and pretend

  1189. it never

  1190. happened.

  1191. You're not

  1192. going to leave

  1193. relationships

  1194. unreconciled as

  1195. far as it's

  1196. in your power.

  1197. you're going

  1198. to come to

  1199. Jesus and

  1200. say I know

  1201. I'm a

  1202. sinner.

  1203. You've

  1204. accepted me

  1205. by your

  1206. amazing grace

  1207. and so I

  1208. want to do

  1209. what I can

  1210. to make

  1211. things right

  1212. with others.

  1213. That's what

  1214. a Christian

  1215. does.

  1216. That's a

  1217. distinctive

  1218. Christian witness

  1219. in this

  1220. world because

  1221. you know

  1222. what in

  1223. this world

  1224. most people

  1225. don't like

  1226. to pay

  1227. restitution

  1228. or pursue

  1229. reconciliation.

  1230. Even in

  1231. the justice

  1232. system you

  1233. can pursue

  1234. restitution.

  1235. It's in the

  1236. legal code

  1237. but what's

  1238. the more

  1239. common penalty

  1240. a restraining

  1241. order or

  1242. incarceration?

  1243. The Bible

  1244. never promotes

  1245. incarceration for

  1246. stealing or

  1247. even assault

  1248. but it does

  1249. say you have

  1250. to pay the

  1251. person back

  1252. and more.

  1253. Or in the

  1254. case of

  1255. assault that

  1256. hurt somebody

  1257. you pay their

  1258. medical expenses

  1259. and you pay

  1260. them for

  1261. loss of time.

  1262. and it's a

  1263. way of seeking

  1264. to right

  1265. relationships

  1266. between people

  1267. in the

  1268. covenant

  1269. family of

  1270. God.

  1271. And so as

  1272. Christians we

  1273. need to do

  1274. that regardless

  1275. of what the

  1276. world may do

  1277. or not do.

  1278. Regardless of

  1279. what the

  1280. justice system

  1281. may or may

  1282. not do.

  1283. As Christians

  1284. we need to

  1285. take responsibility

  1286. to make

  1287. things right

  1288. and pursue

  1289. reconciliation

  1290. with anybody

  1291. we've wronged.

  1292. Second point

  1293. about the

  1294. property laws

  1295. is that people

  1296. are always

  1297. more important

  1298. than things.

  1299. In Hammurabi's

  1300. law code

  1301. a thief who

  1302. couldn't pay

  1303. back what he

  1304. stole should

  1305. be killed.

  1306. He should

  1307. receive the

  1308. death penalty.

  1309. And robbery

  1310. or burglary

  1311. was also

  1312. deserving of

  1313. the death

  1314. penalty.

  1315. The Assyrian

  1316. laws and the

  1317. Hittite laws

  1318. required restitution

  1319. on the order

  1320. of 10 to

  1321. 30 times

  1322. what was

  1323. stolen.

  1324. Of course

  1325. it depended

  1326. who you

  1327. stole from.

  1328. If you

  1329. steal from

  1330. someone of

  1331. equal or

  1332. higher status

  1333. you have

  1334. to pay

  1335. them back

  1336. more.

  1337. If you

  1338. steal from

  1339. someone of

  1340. lower status

  1341. you have

  1342. to pay

  1343. just a

  1344. little tiny

  1345. bit.

  1346. In Israel

  1347. restitution

  1348. was much

  1349. more reasonable

  1350. and doable.

  1351. It was

  1352. normally

  1353. double

  1354. sometimes

  1355. up to

  1356. four or

  1357. five times.

  1358. And property

  1359. crimes are

  1360. never punished

  1361. by the death

  1362. penalty in

  1363. Israel because

  1364. among God's

  1365. people people

  1366. are always

  1367. more important

  1368. than things.

  1369. One specific

  1370. example

  1371. chapter 22

  1372. verse 2

  1373. if a thief

  1374. is found

  1375. breaking in

  1376. and is struck

  1377. so that he

  1378. dies there

  1379. shall be no

  1380. blood guilt

  1381. for him

  1382. but if the

  1383. sun has risen

  1384. on him there

  1385. shall be

  1386. blood guilt

  1387. for him.

  1388. What does

  1389. that mean?

  1390. If somebody

  1391. breaks into

  1392. your house

  1393. at night

  1394. you can't

  1395. really see

  1396. what's going

  1397. on

  1398. you kill

  1399. him

  1400. that's

  1401. self-defense

  1402. because you

  1403. don't know

  1404. what the

  1405. thief is

  1406. trying to

  1407. do and

  1408. he might

  1409. be trying

  1410. to kill

  1411. you and

  1412. self-defense

  1413. is allowed

  1414. in the

  1415. law.

  1416. But if

  1417. it's

  1418. daytime

  1419. you can

  1420. see that

  1421. the thief

  1422. is not

  1423. trying to

  1424. kill you

  1425. he's only

  1426. trying to

  1427. take your

  1428. stuff.

  1429. If you

  1430. kill him

  1431. you are

  1432. guilty of

  1433. murder

  1434. or

  1435. manslaughter

  1436. depending on

  1437. how that's

  1438. judged.

  1439. But still

  1440. you're

  1441. guilty.

  1442. Even

  1443. though

  1444. the thief

  1445. was obviously

  1446. committing a

  1447. crime.

  1448. You see

  1449. God's law

  1450. even protects

  1451. the dignity

  1452. of criminals.

  1453. Criminals

  1454. too are

  1455. created in

  1456. the image

  1457. of God

  1458. and God's

  1459. law

  1460. protected

  1461. them.

  1462. Last

  1463. section

  1464. chapter 22

  1465. verse 16

  1466. and 17

  1467. if a man

  1468. seduces a

  1469. virgin who

  1470. is not

  1471. betrothed

  1472. and lies

  1473. with her

  1474. he shall

  1475. give the

  1476. bride price

  1477. for her

  1478. and make

  1479. her his

  1480. wife.

  1481. If her

  1482. father utterly

  1483. refuses to

  1484. give her

  1485. to him

  1486. he shall

  1487. pay money

  1488. equal to

  1489. the bride

  1490. price

  1491. for

  1492. virgins.

  1493. Alright?

  1494. This is

  1495. about

  1496. premarital

  1497. sex.

  1498. It's not

  1499. about

  1500. rape.

  1501. This is

  1502. a situation

  1503. where the

  1504. man

  1505. initiates

  1506. but the

  1507. woman

  1508. consents.

  1509. Deuteronomy

  1510. has a law

  1511. about rape.

  1512. And if

  1513. a man

  1514. finds a

  1515. woman in

  1516. the open

  1517. country

  1518. and she

  1519. screams for

  1520. help and

  1521. nobody can

  1522. hear her

  1523. and he

  1524. violates

  1525. her he

  1526. deserves a

  1527. death

  1528. penalty.

  1529. That was

  1530. the law.

  1531. If she

  1532. was around

  1533. other people

  1534. then she

  1535. could have

  1536. called for

  1537. help.

  1538. And it's

  1539. not the

  1540. death

  1541. penalty.

  1542. It's a

  1543. different...

  1544. It is a

  1545. penalty but

  1546. it's different.

  1547. Anyway,

  1548. we're not

  1549. talking about

  1550. rape here.

  1551. The

  1552. consequence

  1553. is...

  1554. But the

  1555. situation

  1556. is a

  1557. man

  1558. initiates

  1559. and he

  1560. and the

  1561. woman

  1562. sleep

  1563. together.

  1564. Neither

  1565. of them

  1566. are already

  1567. married.

  1568. Neither

  1569. of them

  1570. are already

  1571. betrothed.

  1572. That is

  1573. in a

  1574. binding

  1575. covenant

  1576. that they

  1577. would be

  1578. married.

  1579. Consequence,

  1580. man must

  1581. give the

  1582. bride price

  1583. for her

  1584. and make

  1585. her his

  1586. wife.

  1587. You

  1588. think,

  1589. what does

  1590. that

  1591. mean?

  1592. Okay,

  1593. in the

  1594. ancient

  1595. Near East

  1596. if a

  1597. man wants

  1598. to marry

  1599. a woman

  1600. he would

  1601. normally

  1602. give a

  1603. substantial

  1604. sum of

  1605. money to

  1606. the bride's

  1607. family.

  1608. Although

  1609. sometimes

  1610. it was

  1611. even

  1612. given

  1613. to

  1614. the

  1615. bride

  1616. herself.

  1617. In

  1618. Genesis

  1619. 24,

  1620. Abraham's

  1621. servant

  1622. gave

  1623. silver

  1624. and

  1625. gold

  1626. jewelry

  1627. and

  1628. clothing

  1629. to

  1630. Rebecca

  1631. who

  1632. was

  1633. to

  1634. marry

  1635. Isaac

  1636. and

  1637. he

  1638. also

  1639. gave

  1640. gifts

  1641. costly

  1642. ornaments

  1643. to

  1644. her

  1645. brother

  1646. and

  1647. her

  1648. mother.

  1649. What

  1650. was

  1651. this?

  1652. It

  1653. was

  1654. a

  1655. way

  1656. of

  1657. acknowledging

  1658. the

  1659. seriousness

  1660. and

  1661. costliness

  1662. of the

  1663. marriage

  1664. covenant.

  1665. It

  1666. was a

  1667. man's

  1668. way

  1669. of

  1670. saying,

  1671. I

  1672. am

  1673. not

  1674. doing

  1675. this

  1676. lightly

  1677. or

  1678. I'm

  1679. willing

  1680. to

  1681. put

  1682. a lot

  1683. of

  1684. things

  1685. on

  1686. the

  1687. line.

  1688. And

  1689. usually

  1690. the

  1691. bride

  1692. or

  1693. her

  1694. family

  1695. would

  1696. save

  1697. or

  1698. invest

  1699. the

  1700. bride

  1701. price.

  1702. You

  1703. could

  1704. also

  1705. call

  1706. it

  1707. the

  1708. wedding

  1709. present.

  1710. It

  1711. was

  1712. kept

  1713. as a

  1714. kind

  1715. of

  1716. insurance

  1717. policy

  1718. for

  1719. the

  1720. bride

  1721. just

  1722. in

  1723. case

  1724. her

  1725. husband

  1726. died

  1727. unexpectedly

  1728. or

  1729. in

  1730. case

  1731. her

  1732. husband

  1733. abandoned

  1734. her.

  1735. And

  1736. she

  1737. had

  1738. no

  1739. other

  1740. way

  1741. to

  1742. provide

  1743. for

  1744. herself.

  1745. It

  1746. was

  1747. a

  1748. safety

  1749. net.

  1750. It

  1751. was

  1752. actually

  1753. something

  1754. that

  1755. protected

  1756. the

  1757. woman.

  1758. The

  1759. problem

  1760. here is

  1761. the

  1762. man

  1763. sleeps

  1764. with

  1765. the

  1766. woman

  1767. without

  1768. making

  1769. any

  1770. promise

  1771. to

  1772. her

  1773. and

  1774. without

  1775. going

  1776. through

  1777. any

  1778. preparation

  1779. for

  1780. marriage.

  1781. And

  1782. by

  1783. doing

  1784. this

  1785. he

  1786. puts

  1787. the

  1788. woman

  1789. at

  1790. great

  1791. risk.

  1792. For

  1793. one

  1794. thing

  1795. she

  1796. might

  1797. be

  1798. pregnant

  1799. or

  1800. if

  1801. he

  1802. abandons

  1803. her

  1804. another

  1805. guy

  1806. might

  1807. refuse

  1808. to

  1809. marry

  1810. her

  1811. because

  1812. she's

  1813. no

  1814. longer

  1815. a

  1816. virgin.

  1817. Again

  1818. in

  1819. that

  1820. Now of

  1821. course

  1822. the

  1823. fact

  1824. that

  1825. this

  1826. law

  1827. was

  1828. on

  1829. the

  1830. books

  1831. would

  1832. make

  1833. any

  1834. single

  1835. guy

  1836. in

  1837. Israel

  1838. think

  1839. twice

  1840. before

  1841. asking

  1842. any

  1843. single

  1844. girl

  1845. in

  1846. Israel

  1847. to

  1848. go

  1849. to

  1850. bed

  1851. with

  1852. him.

  1853. Right?

  1854. Because

  1855. he

  1856. would

  1857. know

  1858. that

  1859. among

  1860. the

  1861. people

  1862. of

  1863. God

  1864. sex

  1865. is

  1866. not

  1867. cheap

  1868. and

  1869. it's

  1870. not

  1871. casual.

  1872. Two

  1873. applications

  1874. for

  1875. Christians

  1876. today.

  1877. Number

  1878. one,

  1879. don't

  1880. have

  1881. sex

  1882. before

  1883. marriage.

  1884. According

  1885. to God's

  1886. design,

  1887. sex

  1888. is like

  1889. superglue.

  1890. It's

  1891. meant

  1892. to

  1893. seal

  1894. the

  1895. deal

  1896. on

  1897. a

  1898. covenant

  1899. of

  1900. marriage

  1901. and

  1902. is

  1903. meant

  1904. to

  1905. build

  1906. on

  1907. that

  1908. bond

  1909. for

  1910. the

  1911. rest

  1912. of

  1913. your

  1914. life.

  1915. Second,

  1916. some

  1917. of

  1918. you

  1919. are

  1920. married

  1921. now

  1922. but

  1923. you

  1924. started

  1925. having

  1926. sex

  1927. with

  1928. each

  1929. other

  1930. before

  1931. you

  1932. got

  1933. married.

  1934. Now,

  1935. ironically,

  1936. if you're

  1937. a Christian,

  1938. having sex

  1939. before

  1940. marriage

  1941. often makes

  1942. it harder

  1943. for you

  1944. to enjoy

  1945. sex

  1946. after

  1947. marriage

  1948. because

  1949. you have

  1950. residual

  1951. guilt

  1952. and shame

  1953. tied up

  1954. with having

  1955. sex

  1956. before

  1957. marriage

  1958. when you

  1959. knew

  1960. that it

  1961. was

  1962. wrong.

  1963. But if

  1964. that's

  1965. you,

  1966. and if

  1967. you have

  1968. confessed

  1969. to God

  1970. your

  1971. premarital

  1972. sin

  1973. and mourned

  1974. over that

  1975. before the

  1976. Lord,

  1977. that guilt

  1978. and shame

  1979. can be

  1980. removed.

  1981. It doesn't

  1982. have to

  1983. hang over

  1984. your bed

  1985. and your

  1986. marriage

  1987. forever.

  1988. You can

  1989. go

  1990. forward

  1991. with the

  1992. blessing

  1993. of your

  1994. heavenly

  1995. father

  1996. and because

  1997. Christ

  1998. is making

  1999. all things

  2000. new,

  2001. you can

  2002. enjoy

  2003. God's

  2004. gift

  2005. of sex

  2006. in

  2007. marriage

  2008. like

  2009. Adam

  2010. and Eve

  2011. who are

  2012. naked

  2013. without

  2014. shame.

  2015. We've

  2016. gone all

  2017. over the

  2018. place

  2019. today

  2020. because

  2021. there's

  2022. no area

  2023. of our

  2024. lives

  2025. as God's

  2026. holy

  2027. people

  2028. that God

  2029. does not

  2030. care about.

  2031. And yet

  2032. there's no

  2033. area of

  2034. our life

  2035. that is

  2036. so broken

  2037. or so

  2038. damaged

  2039. or so

  2040. twisted

  2041. that God

  2042. cannot

  2043. begin

  2044. a process

  2045. of healing

  2046. and restoration

  2047. and making

  2048. things

  2049. right.

  2050. God

  2051. can meet

  2052. us

  2053. right

  2054. where

  2055. we

  2056. are

  2057. and

  2058. help

  2059. us

  2060. take

  2061. the

  2062. next

  2063. steps

  2064. forward

  2065. to

  2066. where

  2067. he

  2068. wants

  2069. us

  2070. to

  2071. go.

  2072. And we

  2073. can have

  2074. this

  2075. confidence

  2076. because we

  2077. have a

  2078. Savior,

  2079. Jesus

  2080. Christ,

  2081. who has

  2082. come

  2083. to meet

  2084. us where

  2085. we are,

  2086. who has

  2087. taken our

  2088. sin upon

  2089. himself,

  2090. and who

  2091. has

  2092. promised

  2093. never to

  2094. leave us

  2095. and never

  2096. to forsake

  2097. us.

  2098. that's

  2099. what we're

  2100. going to

  2101. celebrate

  2102. as we

  2103. come to

  2104. the

  2105. Lord's

  2106. Supper

  2107. today.

  2108. Let's

  2109. pray.

  2110. Father,

  2111. we