Sermon
Personal Evangelism Here and Now
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All right, I'm just going to make sure I'm not. Sir, we're getting a little bit started, a little bit late. Apologies for that technical difficulty.
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Can you hear me? No? Can everyone hear me? Okay. Good? All right. Can we just go ahead and pray?
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Dear Heavenly Father, we're so grateful that we can come before you together this morning as a church.
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To hear, listen to your word, and just really think about how we can proceed in this assignment which you've given to us.
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And we ask, Lord, that you humble us this morning, that you instruct us, that you deliver us from every pride.
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And Lord, give us clarity on how we can proceed in your work. We pray all this, Lord, in Christ's name. Amen.
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Amen. Amen. Sweet. So, is it? Yeah, I did. I did. Okay.
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So, I was told to come talk about personal evangelism here and now.
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And when I was told, I was just wondering, I was like, oh my goodness, of all the unqualified people, they would think about me.
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So, it's indeed a privilege to be before you here this morning just to talk about this topic of evangelism and what it means for us as a church.
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So, I just want to, this is kind of like my outline.
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What is evangelism? Why bother about it? Why should we care?
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Just some biblical principles to think about as we move forward.
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Some practical ways to approach personal evangelism.
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Personal evangelism, addressing the barriers to personal evangelism.
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I'm going to just spend some time praying, if that's okay.
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So, right away, let's just go ahead and define what evangelism really is.
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I feel like we need to, first of all, know what we're talking about before we can move forward.
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I'm not going to pretend that I know Greek. I do not know Greek.
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So, I looked up this Greek word.
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Apparently, it's from the Greek word whatever that is.
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I don't know what that is.
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But, that Greek word, which is the root of evangelism, means gospel or good news.
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And, in this context, personal evangelism means personally sharing with your friends or your neighbors the good news of Christ.
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So, I'm just going to just, we're just going to talk about, well, what does that look like?
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Why should we do that?
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Personally engaging our friends and neighbors in this gospel issue.
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So, why bother?
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And, I came up with this reason.
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No one can be neutral towards God.
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You're either for Him or against Him.
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Not us here as a church, but also everyone else in the world.
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Our friends at work, at school.
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You're either for Him or opposed to Him.
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I'm going to look at John 3, 17 and 18.
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And, to save us time, I just kind of like put all the verses here so we can just read together.
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God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through Him.
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Whoever believes in Him is not condemned.
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But, whoever does not believe stands condemned already because he has not believed in the name of God's one and only Son.
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So, we see two fates, two possibilities, not three.
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We see belief in Christ or we see the people who stand condemned.
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So, either you believe and if you don't, you stand condemned.
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There's no one who's neutral.
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And, it's a tendency for me personally sometimes to think about, maybe my friends, you know, they're not Christians, but they're really good people.
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And, they'll be okay.
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But, this passage tells us otherwise.
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That, if they're not in Christ, they will not be okay.
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They stand condemned.
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And, that's who we were before we came to know Jesus.
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We stood condemned.
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So, as much as we want to be loving and thinking about our friends as people who are not necessarily Christians, but good, that's not the case.
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Without Christ, they stand condemned.
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And, that's why it is a very important topic.
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It's a very important conversation to be had with them.
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Because, outside of Christ, again, they stand condemned.
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That's why we care.
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But, secondly, in addition to not being neutral, we have been commanded by our Lord to go about this.
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I like this passage because, obviously, it's one that everyone knows about, you know, evangelism.
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But, it highlights a couple of things that I want to draw our attention to.
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I'm going to read it.
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Matthew 28, 16 to 20.
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Now, the eleven disciples went to Galilee, to the mountain to which Jesus had directed them.
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And, when they saw him, they worshipped him, but some doubted.
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And, Jesus came and said to them,
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All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me.
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Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations,
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baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,
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teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you.
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And, behold, I am with you always to the end of the age.
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Something that really draws my attention is verse 17, actually.
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It says,
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When they saw him, this is just after, you know, Christ had been crucified,
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he resurrected and he appeared to them.
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And, some believed and so some worshipped.
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But, some others doubted him.
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But, both to those who believed and worshipped and to those who doubted,
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he gave them this command.
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He didn't call the ones who worshipped aside.
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He said,
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You guys are strong believers.
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Go tell people about Jesus.
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Those who doubted, those who worshipped,
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all together, he sent them.
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And, there's a tendency for us to think,
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I'm not as solid.
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You know, I feel like I need to get more grounded as a believer
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before I can go tell people.
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I need to know things.
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But, to those who worshipped and to those who doubted,
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he sent them all together.
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And, he gave them this command to go and make disciples.
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It was not, what we see here was not a suggestion.
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What we see here was not based on any conditions.
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The only condition, he told them, he was like,
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You know what?
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I'm with you.
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Go do this.
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I'm in charge of everything.
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I'm in charge of all of the world.
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I'm in charge of all of creation.
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Because I am in charge.
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Go.
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In confidence.
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So, again, we see a clear command.
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Not a suggestion.
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Not an option.
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A clear command to everyone who calls him or herself a believer.
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To those who are solid.
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To those who are doubting.
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To those who are shaky.
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To those who are not even really, really sure.
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He sent all of them together to go.
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And, because of this command he gave to every believer.
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What we find is that this command is ingrained into our purpose here on earth.
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And, permit me to say that if we're not obeying or walking along in accordance with this command.
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We're not only in disobedience.
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But, we're probably risking purposelessness on earth.
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I want to draw attention to 2 Corinthians 5, 14-15 and also to verse 20.
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For the love of Christ controls us because we have concluded this.
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That one has died for all.
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And that's Jesus.
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Therefore, all have died.
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And he died for all.
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That those who live might no longer live for themselves.
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But for who for their sake died and was raised.
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He died so that while we live, we wouldn't have to live for ourselves.
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So, by virtue of his death, our life on earth now has a new purpose.
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Right?
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And it's now for the sake of the person who died.
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So, what is this purpose that is for the sake of the person who died?
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That we may be, in verse 20, ambassadors.
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Therefore, we are ambassadors for Christ.
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God making his appeal through us.
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And this is Paul saying, we implore you on behalf of Christ.
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Be reconciled to God so you can really live out this command of being an ambassador.
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And this, brethren, is the purpose of the Christian life.
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This is why after we came to Christ, God didn't call us right back to himself right away.
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He left us on earth so that we can live this out.
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He left us on earth so that this work of redemption can continue.
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He has done everything that needs to be done.
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He died on the cross.
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And that is our seal.
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Right?
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That is what we look at.
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And we're convinced that God is actively redeeming the world.
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But how does he actually make this happen?
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He works through us in making this happen.
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And this is the purpose of Christian living.
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Living for his glory.
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Living to be an ambassador.
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Living to exhibit his majesty in all of creation.
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And again, I'm going to repeat.
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It sounds a little bit too direct.
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But if we're not working with this in mind,
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we are risking purposelessness on earth.
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And it might be a wasted life.
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That's why we bother about this issue of evangelism.
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Now I want to bring our attention to some biblical principles.
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Just to guide our thinking.
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And the first one is that unbelief is much deeper than it seems.
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There's a tendency for us to see,
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oh, they don't believe in Jesus.
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Well, I can just talk to them and maybe they would.
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But I want to draw our attention to the gravity of unbelief.
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How deep it is.
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And it's this parable that actually,
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to me personally,
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it helps me see this very clearly.
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And I'm hoping it will help you guys see it as well.
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Before I just get to verse 22,
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I'm just going to give a little summary of the parable
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before we get to that passage.
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So there's this rich man who is very rich.
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And Lazarus, who is very, very, very poor.
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And the Bible tells us that every day Lazarus would be at his gates,
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you know, eating the crumbs
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and the dogs licking his wounds and his sores.
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So these are two different people,
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the rich man and Lazarus at his gate.
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And eventually they both die.
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So the poor man died
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and was carried by the angels to Abraham's side.
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The rich man also died and was buried.
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And in Hades.
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Being in torment,
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he lifted up his eyes and saw Abraham far off
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and Lazarus at his side.
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And the rich man called out,
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Father Abraham, have mercy on me
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and send Lazarus to dip
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the end of his finger in water
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and comb my tongue.
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For I'm in anguish
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and in this flame.
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But Abraham said,
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Child, remember that in your lifetime
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you received good things.
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Your good things.
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And Lazarus in like manner
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received bad things.
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But now he is comforted here
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and you are in anguish.
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And besides all this,
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between us and you,
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a great chasm has been fixed
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in order that those
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who would pass from here to you
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may not be able
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and none may cross from here to us.
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And he said,
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Then I beg you, Father,
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to send him to my father's house.
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This is the rich man saying,
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Abraham, please send Lazarus
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to my father's house.
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For I have five brothers
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so that he may want them
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lest they also come
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into this place of torment.
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But Abraham said,
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They have Moses and the prophets.
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Let them hear him.
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And he said,
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No, Father Abraham,
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but if someone goes to them
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from the dead,
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they will repent.
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Perhaps if they see someone
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who rose from the dead,
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they might be convinced
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and they will repent.
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And Abraham said to him,
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If they did not hear Moses
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and the prophets,
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neither would they be convinced
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if someone should rise from the dead.
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I don't know if you saw
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what I saw in this passage
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about unbelief.
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Abraham,
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the rich man is here saying,
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you know,
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maybe if you just send someone
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from the dead,
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give them all the evidence
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they need on earth,
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maybe, perhaps,
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they will repent.
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And Abraham tells him,
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No, not really.
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They have the prophets.
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They have Moses.
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They have all they need.
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They don't repent
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in the face of all of that evidence.
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They probably won't repent
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if they see a dead man
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rise from the grave.
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And what does that tell us?
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It tells us that
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it's not a matter of evidence.
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I don't know about your circles,
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but in my circles,
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I'm a scientist,
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and in my circles,
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it's all about the evidence.
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Well, what's the evidence?
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And there's a tendency for me
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to feel like I have to produce
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all this evidence.
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And even when I can produce
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enough evidence,
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boom,
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they will come to know Jesus.
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And here Abraham says,
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No, really.
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Even if someone
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comes from the dead,
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they probably will not believe.
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What does that tell us
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about unbelief?
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That is deeper
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than evidence.
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It's not about your ability
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to come up with
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a very, very convincing claim.
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If people are not believing,
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it's because of something deeper.
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And this passage draws us to
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what that thing is.
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2 Corinthians 4 verse 4.
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I'm just walking us through passages
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so we can see
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what the Bible says
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about this issue.
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2 Corinthians 4 verse,
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For the God of this world
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has blinded their eyes.
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In their case,
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the God of this world
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has blinded the minds
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of the unbelievers
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to keep them from seeing
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the light of the gospel
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of the glory of Christ.
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So we see why
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just coming up with evidence
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is not enough.
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We'll not cut it.
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Here's why the God of this world,
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the enemy,
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has blinded their eyes.
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It's a spiritual issue.
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It is more spiritual
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than we think it is
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a lot of times.
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It is much deeper than that.
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So what does this mean for us?
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We dare not proceed
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trusting in our own strength
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because it's so deep.
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If a man is steeped in unbelief,
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it is so deep
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that we can't afford
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to move towards that
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in
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our own strength.
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It is,
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it's in fact,
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impossible.
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Right?
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So we dare not trust
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in our own strength
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because unbelief is so deep.
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We can't go about this
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just saying,
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you know what,
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I'm just going to just say things.
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So that's the one,
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that's another principle.
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The third principle
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I want to bring to our attention
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is
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when a person comes
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to believe in Jesus,
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it is a miracle.
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Because it's so deep,
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the spiritual blindness
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is not something physical.
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when that veil is in fact
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taken off
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of the eyes of people,
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we rejoice.
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Right?
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That's why the angels rejoice
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because it's a big deal
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that that veil
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will be taken off
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and people will believe.
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So what?
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It's a miracle.
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Now the fourth principle
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is the fact that
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God doesn't need us
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to do this.
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Right?
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He has chosen,
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but He has chosen to use us.
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Sorry about that typo.
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He has chosen to use us.
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And this in fact
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is a gift of God's grace.
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And I want to draw attention
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to Saul's conversion
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just to demonstrate this fact.
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Again, Saul persecuted
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a lot of Christians
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and eventually on his way
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to Damascus
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to persecute more Christians,
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what happened?
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In Acts 9,
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a very bright light
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from heaven
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struck him
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and he went blind.
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And God literally
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preached to Saul.
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What does this tell us?
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He doesn't need us.
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He could do
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what He wants to do
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with or without us.
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So we need not feel
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like this thing
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is dependent on us.
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He will save people
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if we choose to disobey.
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He can do that
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and He did that in Acts 9.
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He saved Saul.
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And we see what Saul
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did for the kingdom.
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He did not need
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any man.
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Now some men
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were used eventually
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but that initial
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conviction
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was God literally
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meeting Saul
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on his way to Damascus.
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So it's
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unbelief is deeper
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than it seems.
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We dare not proceed
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trusting our own strength
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because it's deep.
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And when a person
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believes in Jesus
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we rejoice
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because it's a miracle.
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And God doesn't need us
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but He has chosen
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to use us
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and it's
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ridiculous
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I think
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that He would choose
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to use me and you
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such weak
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and broken people
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to undertake
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such
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a profoundly
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spiritual task.
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it is a gift
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of grace
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and we don't take it
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for granted
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we pursue it.
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Now practical ways
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to approach
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personal evangelism.
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It's easy to think about
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well okay
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now
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I know
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it's important
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why bother
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while it's important
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we need to like
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do this.
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What are some ways
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to think about this?
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How can we do it?
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And I want to draw
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attention to just
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one
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task
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we have
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because there's so many
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things to think about
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and it's easy to get
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overwhelmed
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well like
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there's just a lot of pieces
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but only one thing
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is required of us
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in this issue
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of personal evangelism
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and it's that we share
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and what does that mean?
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We open our mouths
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and talk
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that is the only thing
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required of us
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now what happens
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after then
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might not necessarily
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be
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our duties
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in terms of like
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how
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the word we share
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convicts them
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into righteousness
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or to truth
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our one job
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is to share
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and I think about
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that passage in scripture
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where it talks about
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the farmer
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the farmer goes out
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in the morning
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plants his seeds
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and he goes to bed
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right?
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He's not worried about
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we the scientists
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we think about
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well what happens
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when that seed
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is in the soil
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and like
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the different things
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that need to come together
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for that seed
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to germinate
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and like be a fruit
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but the farmer
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is not
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he's probably not educated
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he's like
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I'm just going to
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plant that thing
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and go to bed
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and that's the attitude
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we're called
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to have
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in this issue
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of evangelism
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we just talk
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and we go to bed
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literally
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we talk
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and we trust God
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to use our speech
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right?
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God takes a seed
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and the next day
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some sort of fruit
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comes out
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the farmer has
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no idea
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how that happens
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and we
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have no idea
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how that is going to happen
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well he's got
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the farmer
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has to wake up though
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and plant that seed
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and that's what
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we're called to do
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that is the one job
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we have to share
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now
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there's just some points
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I just try to note
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and these are things
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that have helped
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me even thinking about
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this thing
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this idea of
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occupying all streets
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I know this is like
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an Occupy Wall Street
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but that's like
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not as
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fancy as this
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Occupy Wall Street
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well what does that mean?
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each of us here
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we're all on
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different streets
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some are students
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some just have
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regular jobs
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some are
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some are stay at home moms
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some are professors
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we're all on
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different streets
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that God has like
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put us
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right now
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and it's important
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that we think about
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well what does that
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what does evangelism
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mean for me
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on my street
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right now?
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I'm in medical school
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right now
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what does that look like
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for me
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in medical school
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interacting with my friends
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my classmates
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my professors
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what does that look like
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for me?
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and we have to take
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that's such an important step
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that we take
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a step back
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and figure out
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well what does that
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mean for me?
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well I'm not a pastor
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yes
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and that is good
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because God's
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glory
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has to reach
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it has to seep
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into every facet
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of life
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right?
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God's glory
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has to literally
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seep into
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every facet of life
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and that's why
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we can't all be pastors
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right?
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some people
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in the engineering field
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have to hear the gospel
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some people
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I've heard one pastor
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actually say
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we are all pastors
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we all are
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we all minister
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exactly
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but when I say pastor
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I don't mean like
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in the sense of having
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a church
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that we pastor
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I'm sorry about that
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I needed to clarify
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yeah we're all pastors
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we're all missionaries
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right?
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in a sense
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and that is our
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primary calling
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and what does
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being a missionary
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as an engineer
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look like?
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what does being a missionary
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as a medical doctor
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look like?
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and we all have to
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work that out
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secondly
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we need to establish
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relationships with people
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and this is such
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an important piece
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that I feel like
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it's often forgotten
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and it's just like
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very very cliche
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I hate saying this thing
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but I might have to say it
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because I feel like
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it passes a very
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important message
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the fact that people
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don't know how much
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you know
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people don't care
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how much you know
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until they know
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how much you care
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it's not biblical
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but it's kind of true
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bees and lived experience
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they don't want to
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really know how much
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they don't care
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how much you know
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until they know
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that you actually care
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and that's why
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this relationship aspect
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is very important
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and that's why
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before even proclaiming
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this gospel to them
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we have to demonstrate
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that we actually love them
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so we don't just
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have this assignment
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and we just go about
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saying this thing
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but the gospel
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is lived out
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right
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it's lived out
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and it's proclaimed
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so if you're proclaiming it
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and not living it out
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we have to think about that
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right
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so like
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how can we
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establish relationships
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with people
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right
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and engage them
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in this conversation
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right
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so relationships
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and the good news
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is that
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we all have people
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we're connected with
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in one way or the other
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right
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there's nobody
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who's hopefully
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not connected to anybody
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right
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we all have relationships
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and
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and that's what's cool
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about personal evangelism
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and that's why
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I'm really glad
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that in this series
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of global missions
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we're starting with this
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because
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if you go
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to a different country
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you might have to learn
-
the language
-
right
-
you have to like
-
establish new
-
and fresh relationships
-
but right now
-
you all have people
-
who you work with
-
you have neighbors
-
who you talk with
-
you have co-workers
-
right
-
and these are all
-
existing relationships
-
so now we think about
-
how can we
-
take advantage
-
of this
-
relationships
-
that are already existing
-
these people who already know
-
that we care about them
-
how can we go even deeper
-
in these relationships
-
so we establish relationships
-
and thirdly
-
this idea of active engagement
-
and I've heard a lot of people
-
say well
-
you know
-
I won't really bring it up
-
until like it comes up
-
it's going to come up naturally
-
the conversation is going to come up
-
and often times
-
it won't
-
you know why
-
it's an awkward conversation
-
to have
-
so no one is going to
-
bring it up
-
and say well
-
you tell me what you think
-
I want to know
-
sometimes now
-
sometimes
-
people bring it up
-
and they ask you just
-
randomly
-
like
-
Kelechi
-
like tell me about the gospel
-
that has happened like
-
once
-
or twice
-
in my life
-
and I'm 24
-
which is not that old
-
but
-
but
-
yes
-
that could happen
-
and God is good
-
and God is gracious
-
and God might be working
-
behind the scenes
-
and cause them
-
to ask you that question
-
but sometimes
-
a lot of times
-
most times
-
they won't
-
right
-
so what do we do
-
we bring it up
-
right
-
we
-
we
-
we become active about it
-
we
-
we push it
-
that sounds bad
-
because
-
I know Americans
-
don't like to push
-
like we just like
-
you know just do your thing
-
I'm doing my thing
-
and just we'll be cool
-
but no no no
-
because there's so much
-
at stake
-
we
-
move
-
we
-
initiate
-
so active
-
engagement
-
I like to think about it
-
one conversation at a time
-
I grew up in Nigeria
-
and
-
what is big in Nigeria
-
is soccer
-
football
-
we call it football
-
you guys call something else football
-
I don't know what that is
-
but we call soccer football
-
and when we play football
-
in Nigeria
-
you have the goalie
-
you have the defenders
-
you have the midfielders
-
you have the strikers
-
right
-
the job
-
is for
-
the defenders
-
to take that ball
-
to the net
-
now that ball
-
has to go
-
through the defenders
-
to the midfielders
-
to the strikers
-
and the strikers strike
-
that's why they call it strikers
-
they strike into the net
-
of the other team
-
but why the defender's role
-
is so important
-
is that they initiate
-
that pass
-
right
-
that first pass
-
they pass it
-
and pass
-
by pass
-
pass
-
by pass
-
somehow
-
after many minutes
-
sometimes
-
after 90 minutes
-
right
-
hopefully
-
the ball gets there
-
but sometimes
-
it might take 90 minutes
-
sometimes it might take 5 minutes
-
sometimes it takes 2 minutes
-
sometimes seconds
-
but often times
-
it takes longer
-
and that's the same thing
-
we're dealing with here
-
one conversation
-
at a time
-
one conversation
-
at a time
-
and we pass it on
-
right
-
I've had friends
-
in school
-
that I've been chatting with
-
so engaging them
-
on this topic
-
and they're like
-
yeah
-
3 years ago
-
in college
-
my roommate
-
brought that up
-
and we had a conversation
-
about it
-
and I'm like
-
thank God
-
for that roommate
-
he's passed the ball
-
to me
-
now I have to be faithful
-
I have to bring it up
-
thank God
-
I brought it up
-
and who knows
-
5 years from now
-
when he becomes a resident
-
hopefully another resident
-
will be faithful
-
and bring it up
-
and eventually
-
hopefully
-
maybe 10 years
-
that ball
-
will get to the net
-
so what do we do
-
we advance
-
one conversation
-
at a time
-
what would it look like
-
if every one of us here
-
is faithful to that
-
what would it look like
-
if the
-
however many Christians
-
1 billion
-
I don't know
-
what would it look like
-
if that
-
the millions of Christians
-
who are on the earth
-
are faithful to that
-
are saying
-
you know what
-
I'm going to be faithful
-
to this
-
and bring it up
-
wherever I go
-
and every Christian
-
all around the world
-
is passing the ball
-
right
-
and your co-worker
-
who starts work tomorrow
-
with you
-
you bring it up
-
and hopefully
-
his previous co-worker
-
brought it up
-
and as he moves through life
-
different believers
-
are bringing it up to him
-
how amazing would that be
-
one conversation
-
at a time
-
and I brought this up
-
because
-
sometimes it takes years
-
sometimes
-
you don't even see the fruit
-
sometimes the defenders
-
are out here being distracted
-
and the strikers
-
go and scar
-
and they're like
-
oh wow
-
that's true
-
that was the pass I made
-
you know
-
sometimes it might not happen
-
in our lifetime
-
and that's the patience
-
required
-
in personal evangelism
-
so you might have to
-
bring it up in conversations
-
and one approach
-
I found helpful
-
is asking questions
-
personally
-
because you might
-
wonder
-
well how do I bring it up
-
what do I even start
-
I don't even know
-
what
-
what can I even say
-
and I like asking questions
-
sometimes out of the blue
-
like
-
hey man
-
what
-
you know
-
how did you
-
I mean
-
what did you grow up
-
did you like
-
grow up going to church
-
or not really
-
and you probably say
-
not really
-
like oh
-
why was that
-
and you probably
-
give some response
-
and you ask
-
why
-
and you keep asking why
-
and you keep talking
-
I mean it sounds simplified
-
but it works
-
because when you ask why
-
there's a genuine interest
-
in like
-
finding out why
-
and when you ask these questions
-
you listen
-
again this is not
-
the bible right
-
this is just
-
a personal approach
-
that I've used
-
and obviously
-
it could work in different ways
-
but this is one way
-
that has really helped me
-
in my journey
-
just asking all these questions
-
and listening to learn
-
listening in a way
-
just starting to see
-
like you care about
-
what your life look like
-
and then what I found
-
is that
-
after talking for a while
-
people get tired
-
of talking about themselves
-
a little bit
-
sometimes
-
and
-
they want to hear
-
you talk about yourself
-
and so they ask you
-
well what about you
-
and then you like
-
take your time
-
and you smile
-
are you sure you want to know
-
and then you share
-
well that's
-
a little bit simplified
-
but that just gives an idea
-
of how
-
just one approach
-
asking a lot of questions
-
with a genuine interest
-
to know and learn
-
about these people
-
and then over time
-
who knows
-
perhaps
-
because you've asked them
-
so many questions
-
and they've talked about themselves
-
perhaps they would listen
-
to you talk about yourself
-
they'll listen to you
-
talk about what gives you
-
hope and fulfillment
-
and these questions
-
could come in different shapes
-
and sizes and forms
-
but thinking actively
-
I challenge you
-
as you move to work tomorrow
-
just thinking
-
how can I
-
just bring this up
-
using work
-
how can I like
-
bring this up
-
in what way
-
everyday thinking about that
-
like
-
how can I do this
-
and also praying about it
-
like God
-
can you just open
-
let me see
-
let me see a way
-
in which I can bring this
-
to the table
-
this conversation
-
and I found that God
-
is faithful
-
in answering that prayer
-
especially
-
about creating room
-
for us to see
-
how we can engage people
-
or if you have a home
-
you can invite people over
-
maybe step out
-
of your comfort zone
-
maybe you're the kind of person
-
who likes to have people
-
in your space
-
maybe
-
maybe you could try that
-
have people over
-
at your home
-
cook something for them
-
and just talk to them
-
and get to know them
-
now addressing some barriers
-
to personal evangelism
-
I have to move
-
because we have like
-
five minutes to go
-
but this is like the end
-
now there are a couple of
-
things that we think about
-
that kind of hinder us
-
like I don't want to be
-
that person
-
I don't want to be
-
I don't want to be that weird
-
like that's just weird man
-
and people start avoiding you
-
and stuff like that
-
and I'm sorry
-
you might have to be
-
that weird person
-
you probably will be
-
that weird person
-
and that's fine
-
you know
-
I remember reading
-
when I became a believer
-
and it was like
-
the scariest article I read
-
and you know
-
he was like
-
the moment you become
-
a Christian
-
you give up your rights
-
to be cool
-
that was like
-
the first sentence
-
in that like
-
in that article
-
I was like
-
oh my god
-
what did I just get into
-
and that is just truth
-
because if we're
-
really trying
-
not to be weird
-
I'm sorry
-
we'll miss the point
-
and we'll just
-
waste our lives
-
and
-
we are following
-
a lot of people
-
who are weird
-
Jesus was strange
-
and he said some things
-
and like
-
hundreds of people
-
just walked away
-
like this dude
-
is crazy
-
eat my flesh
-
and drink my blood
-
and they walked away
-
like this dude
-
is weird
-
and
-
that is
-
the person
-
we're following
-
right
-
it is going to be weird
-
what's one second
-
I'm just going to round up
-
and then we'll go
-
have some questions
-
you can see
-
I'm still a struggling Christian
-
and I brought up
-
that passage right
-
earlier
-
about the people
-
who doubted
-
who were struggling
-
and he still
-
sends them
-
so it doesn't matter
-
you're struggling
-
you're saying
-
yeah we're all struggling
-
in fact if you think
-
you're not struggling
-
then
-
I don't know
-
we're all struggling
-
and that's just truth
-
I don't know
-
what to say
-
and this is like
-
a very important one
-
I give some suggestions
-
right
-
asking questions
-
like
-
what do you think
-
you know
-
hey what do you think
-
about that
-
hey what gives you hope
-
in life
-
hey what's
-
what gives you purpose
-
and as the answer
-
you just go deeper
-
press into that
-
well why
-
and ask many more
-
why questions
-
many more wondering questions
-
like you know
-
I'm just wondering
-
I see you do this
-
why do you do that
-
why are you so
-
scared
-
why are you so anxious
-
just asking why
-
and that really
-
unpacks what people think
-
and sometimes
-
we're just afraid
-
of having these conversations
-
because we don't know
-
what they're going to say
-
but people just
-
answer
-
and you keep asking
-
and over time
-
hopefully
-
by them answering
-
they've told you
-
a lot about themselves
-
they've let you
-
into your lives
-
and you can let them
-
into yours as well
-
now I want to bring
-
still on this conversation
-
I don't know what to say
-
I want us to consider
-
Apostle Paul
-
now Apostle Paul
-
was something similar
-
to an attorney in his day
-
very eloquent
-
but
-
he brings this up
-
now the Corinthians
-
from what I read
-
did a little bit of research
-
on these people
-
people would travel
-
to Corinth
-
these professional orators
-
they would go
-
and have all these speeches
-
and people would pay
-
to go listen
-
to these orators
-
so the Corinthians
-
were I guess
-
known to love this thing
-
this eloquence
-
and all that
-
but here's what Paul says
-
Paul says
-
and I
-
when I came to you brothers
-
I did not come
-
proclaiming to you
-
the testimony of God
-
with lofty speech
-
or wisdom
-
for I decided to know
-
nothing among you
-
except Jesus Christ
-
and him crucified
-
and I was with you
-
in weakness
-
and in fear
-
and much trembling
-
this is Paul
-
saying this
-
right
-
and my speech
-
and my message
-
were not implausible
-
words of wisdom
-
but in demonstration
-
of the spirit
-
and of power
-
so that your faith
-
might not rest
-
in the wisdom of man
-
but in the power of God
-
and Paul is here saying
-
guys
-
when I came
-
I didn't have all the words
-
I wish I did
-
but I intentionally
-
I just
-
I didn't have it
-
but I proclaimed
-
one thing to you
-
Jesus
-
and him
-
crucified
-
and I didn't want to
-
talk about anything
-
I didn't want to talk about
-
much else
-
and here's why
-
so that when you
-
eventually believe
-
it won't be that
-
Paul's eloquence
-
brought you to faith
-
right
-
so that your faith
-
will be
-
purely
-
on Jesus
-
and that's why
-
worrying so much
-
about well
-
how can I put this
-
in this eloquent way
-
doesn't really help
-
what do we do
-
we just proclaim
-
Jesus
-
it's a simple message
-
we're all broken
-
we're all messed up
-
God really loves us
-
and he wants to fix this
-
and how does he fix this
-
he changes us
-
one by one
-
that is the gospel
-
he died
-
so that the consequences
-
of our foolishness
-
will come upon us
-
and he took that
-
upon himself
-
so that we
-
will live for him
-
that's the gospel
-
and Paul said
-
when I came to you
-
I didn't have to
-
I didn't really need
-
to come up with
-
all this
-
you know
-
super logical
-
and eloquent things
-
I just
-
proclaimed Jesus
-
and him crucified
-
and that's what
-
he calls us to do today
-
again
-
I don't know what to say
-
consider what Paul said
-
Jesus and him crucified
-
start there
-
and over time
-
we'll work with you
-
I don't want to be rejected
-
again
-
the person we're following
-
was rejected
-
in fact
-
killed
-
I don't think we're at that point
-
where we're getting killed
-
yet
-
but this is who we're following
-
because he was rejected
-
there's a decent chance
-
we will be
-
and we need to embrace that
-
and move forward
-
and find hope
-
and faith
-
and the fact that he
-
who matters most
-
has accepted us
-
right
-
right
-
so we cling
-
and that's why it's important
-
to cling to him
-
so tightly
-
so that when we're rejected
-
we have something
-
to latch into
-
the love of Christ
-
so action steps
-
what do we do
-
we pray
-
we think about people
-
in our lives
-
we pray for them
-
we spend time
-
praying for them
-
I encourage you
-
before you even have
-
the conversation
-
pray for them
-
take two minutes
-
take one minute
-
pray for them
-
pray that their hearts
-
will be open to it
-
pray that their hearts
-
will be broken
-
pray
-
and then
-
you know what
-
just go
-
literally
-
literally
-
just go
-
and I want to end
-
with this story
-
it's my senior year
-
in college
-
and
-
I
-
it was spring
-
I was going to graduate
-
in May
-
May 2015
-
so it was spring
-
this was January 2015
-
it was a Friday
-
I got a text
-
from my friend
-
I didn't see the text
-
but the text came in
-
on Friday night
-
it was like
-
yo Kelechi
-
let's hang out
-
tomorrow
-
please tell me
-
you're on campus
-
let's hang out tomorrow
-
that's the way
-
your text was
-
literally
-
please tell me
-
you're on campus
-
let's hang out tomorrow
-
I didn't see the text
-
Friday
-
but I saw it
-
Saturday morning
-
Saturday morning
-
I saw it
-
I'm like
-
oh yeah sure
-
let's hang out
-
later tonight
-
and
-
so I came back
-
at like 3pm that day
-
and I got an email
-
you know
-
from the
-
school's president
-
you know
-
and you know
-
usually if someone
-
passes away
-
we get an email
-
you know
-
oh
-
you know
-
we regret to announce
-
the death of this person
-
and
-
and so that name
-
was my friend's name
-
the person
-
whom I just texted
-
that morning
-
right
-
so apparently
-
he was killed
-
by a car
-
at 4.30am
-
Saturday morning
-
he sent a message
-
at 8pm
-
he was killed
-
4.30am
-
and I sent a message
-
at 9am
-
and I responded
-
not knowing
-
what had happened
-
and he was gone
-
but
-
the hope I had
-
was that
-
he came to know
-
the Lord
-
you know
-
the summer before
-
however
-
I was just thinking
-
this guy's here today
-
and he texts me
-
and he dies
-
like
-
5 hours
-
however many hours later
-
and I'm thinking about
-
wow
-
we don't have as much time
-
as we think we do
-
and I began to think about
-
a lot of my friends
-
in college
-
whom I'd never
-
ever engaged with
-
and I was wondering
-
like can I really
-
can I really say
-
I love these people
-
and the one thing
-
I claim to believe
-
they need
-
I don't tell them
-
about it
-
it's either
-
I don't really
-
love them
-
or I don't really
-
believe they need
-
this thing
-
either
-
I didn't
-
I don't
-
like literally
-
there was no other
-
explanation I could
-
come up with
-
either I don't
-
love them
-
or I don't think
-
they need
-
the gospel
-
in other words
-
they'll be fine
-
without it
-
and so
-
that just really
-
challenged me
-
in college
-
I had a job
-
in Boston
-
and I just
-
called them up
-
I'm like yo
-
I can't
-
I can't come
-
I have to
-
just stay
-
back in campus
-
and hang out
-
with my friends
-
and so
-
for a full year
-
I worked
-
as a campus
-
missionary
-
but that's not
-
what we're called
-
to do
-
but the reason
-
why I shared
-
that story
-
is for you
-
to think about
-
the fact
-
that your
-
co-worker
-
or your
-
classmate
-
tomorrow
-
might in fact
-
be gone
-
by Tuesday
-
and I'm not
-
saying this
-
to scare anyone
-
but I'm saying
-
this to
-
just proclaim
-
reality
-
but the life
-
we live
-
is very brief
-
last night
-
before I went
-
to bed
-
I looked up
-
a message
-
from my friend
-
that a
-
classmate
-
of ours
-
passed away
-
on the
-
first of
-
November
-
and I'm just
-
thinking about
-
I wonder
-
I wonder
-
if his
-
friends
-
shared this
-
thing with him
-
before he
-
passed away
-
he went to
-
eat
-
and
-
he complained
-
of stomach
-
upset
-
and he was
-
gone
-
by the next
-
day
-
he died
-
and I'm not
-
saying this
-
is just
-
cast
-
a veil
-
of hopelessness
-
and fear
-
and panic
-
but just
-
for us
-
to understand
-
that this
-
is an
-
urgent call
-
we don't
-
have time
-
we really
-
do not
-
have time
-
and we
-
have to
-
move about
-
this with
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a sense
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of urgency
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so I
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want to
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just spend
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one minute
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because we
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need to
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go up
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and just
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pray
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what was
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your question
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it wasn't
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a question
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okay
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great job
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thank you
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my name
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is Rico
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and I've
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been traveling
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west
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to the
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industry
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where
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helping
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and able
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to see
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the
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cancer
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and the
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way I
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approach
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even people
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that I
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meet next
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to me
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like a
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starbucks
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whatever
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is I'll
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just ask
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them is
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there
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anything
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you need
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prayer for
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so at
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work
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the co-workers
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if someone's
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going through
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a hard time
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or anything
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or even
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sometimes
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just saying
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is there
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anything
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I pray
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for you
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and then
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pray for
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them
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there
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and
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well
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another thing
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that we
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want to
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think about
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is when
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we're
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ministering
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to someone
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or sharing
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the gospel
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to someone
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think about
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how do I
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want to be
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a religion
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and hear
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the gospel
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and even
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within that
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is like
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the greatest
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commandment
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ask God
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God will you
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teach me to
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love you
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with all my
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heart
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and soul
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and will you
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teach me to
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love my
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neighbor
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as I
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know
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because we're
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loving our
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neighbor in
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the way he
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calls us
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to and
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encourages us
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and one
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last verse
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within that
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is in
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Colossians
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312
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where
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it's a
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combination
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of asking
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the Holy
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Spirit
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to teach
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us this
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and it's
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also being
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mindful of
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and it
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really is the
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fruit of the
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spirit
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is therefore
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as God
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chosen people
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fully and
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dearly love
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both yourself
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with compassion
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kindness
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humility
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gentleness
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and patience
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and so
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as we're
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ministering
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as we're
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sharing the
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gospel
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and evangelizing
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just being
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that kind
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passion
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gentle
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and thinking
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about being
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in their
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shoes
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the way
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I want
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to do
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but
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it makes
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a big
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difference
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in real
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life
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too
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as you
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were saying
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is God
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plants the
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seeds
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he uses us
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to plant
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the seed
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not for
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them to know
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Christ right
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at that
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moment
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we share
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that gentleness
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we share
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what the
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gospel is
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and even
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going back
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to Genesis
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126
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God
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created us
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in his
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image
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and one
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of my
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other favorite
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verses is
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Psalms 37
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20
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Psalm 37
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4
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the light
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in the
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Lord
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will give
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you the
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desires
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of your
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heart
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and that's
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God
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what Jesus
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did is
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to restore
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him
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thank you
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yeah and
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these are
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I mean
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that's
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absolutely
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correct
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it really
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does matter
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how we
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proclaim it
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and again
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it has to be
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done in
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love
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in gentleness
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in compassion
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because that's
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how Christ
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dealt with us
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that's really
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how he did
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it with us
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and think
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about a
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Samaritan
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woman
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as he
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engaged
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her
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in compassion
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she had
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multiple
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husbands
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and he
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didn't come
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yelling
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he knew
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all about
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that
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but there
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was a love
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there was a
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you know
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I'm with you
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there was a
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sense of
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solidarity
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with this
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person
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and that's
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what
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we're called
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to do
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so let's
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just spend
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one minute
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I just want
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to encourage
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you just
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right now
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in this
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time
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just think
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about
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five people
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three people
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that you
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want to
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be praying
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for and
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you want
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to start
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working
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towards
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engaging
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with
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just think
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about them
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dear lord
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we thank you
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lord for
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the gift
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of evangelism
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we have
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this grace
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you've given
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to us
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you've
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decided to
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use us
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broken
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and weak
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people
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to
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work
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alongside
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you
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in this
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redemption
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plan
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and it's
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a beautiful
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thing
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and often times
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lord we're
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for different
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reasons
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we take it
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for granted
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and we
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choose not
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to obey
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and sometimes
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we just
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we might even
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just waste
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our lives
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just pursuing
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other things
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I want to pray
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for these people
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whom we have
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thought about
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that first of all
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you will be
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working in your
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heart
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changing them
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saving them
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but also
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that you
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will give us
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the boldness
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to actively
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bring it up
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to be
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uncomfortable
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give us the
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willingness
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may we be
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willing to be
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that weird
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person
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we consider
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christ on the
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cross
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and whatever
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whatever shame
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comes with
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being that weird
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person
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help us to
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embrace that
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because christ
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embraced death
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on the cross
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for us
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and since we're
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crucified with him
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may we be
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willing to die
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to our pride
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in ourselves
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for the sake
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of others
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we thank you
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for this time
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we pray all this
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lord in christ's
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name
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amen
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thanks for trying
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to get a hold
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of ours
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and
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you
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and
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we
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to
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you
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you