Sermon
The Comfort of the Disciple
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Well, welcome. It's so impressive that you have made it this morning, despite all the inclement weather.
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So, that's some perseverance. And be of good cheer. The Bibles say that perseverance is a sign of election.
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So, be of good cheer.
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Well, one of my family's favorite movies is The Princess Bride.
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I wonder if any of you have seen that.
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And one of our favorite scenes in The Princess Bride is atop the cliffs of insanity.
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There, the Spaniard, Inigo Montoya, is engaged in this epic sword fight with the dread pirate Roberts.
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And after spectacular sword play, each brandishing their swords left-handed, the Spaniard says in the midst of their fray,
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Ah, I admit it, you are better than I am.
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To which the dread pirate inquires,
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Then why are you still smiling if I am better than you are?
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And Inigo Montoya responds,
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Because I know something that you do not know.
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And what is that?
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I am not left-handed.
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And then he switches over, and then the thing continues.
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So, great scene.
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Well, I want to give you three things this morning.
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Things that as Christ's disciples, we can know.
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And that if we know these things, they should keep us smiling, like the Spaniard.
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Even in the midst of the toughest of circumstances.
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Okay?
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Here's the first.
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Here's the first.
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No matter what the bad is in your life,
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If you are a disciple of Christ,
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The good will always outweigh the bad.
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Okay?
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No matter what the bad is in your life,
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If you are a disciple of Christ,
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The good will always outweigh the bad.
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Now, we all know that a lot of bad can happen to us in this world.
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Maybe you've read of Alexander and the terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day.
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I don't know if you have that children's book.
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Well, from the moment he wakes up, stuff goes wrong.
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The chewing gum that kind of starts out in his mouth ends up in his hair.
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He trips on the skateboard.
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He gets his sweater wet in the sink.
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His brothers, Nick and Anthony, find prizes in their cereal.
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And he only finds cereal in his cereal.
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So, a concatenation of calamities and a myriad of misfortunes.
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And, I don't know, maybe you've had such terrible, horrible, no good, very bad days
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With stuff a lot worse than gum in your hair.
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Pets die.
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Friends leave.
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Tests get failed.
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You don't get into that grad college that you would hope to,
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Or even any of them.
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Any number of things.
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But here's the thing.
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And is this not true?
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If you have put your trust in Christ,
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Whatever the bad,
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What is the good that is true of you?
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Well, the bad stuff may feel crushing,
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But really, Jesus has taken away the things that can really crush you.
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You see, Jesus has gone up against your truly deadly enemies.
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You think you've got problems?
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I'll tell you what your real problem is.
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And it's mine too.
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We have failed to love God as He deserves.
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With all of our heart, soul, mind, and strength.
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We've enjoyed His gifts,
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But all too often,
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We've ignored the giver.
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We have robbed the God of the universe,
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Of His rightful place in our life.
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We've pushed Him off center stage,
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Where He belongs.
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Off into the wings.
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We owe Him our worship.
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Worship from recognizing His worth,
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His worthiness.
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Yet we don't.
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We value other things more.
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As Jeremiah, the prophet, puts it,
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We have forsaken God,
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The spring of living water,
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And dug for ourselves,
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Cisterns.
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Broken cisterns.
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That cannot hold water.
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Or as the prophet Isaiah puts it,
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All we like sheep,
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Have gone astray.
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Each one has turned to his own way.
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And so,
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We are rightly,
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Justly,
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Destined,
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For a terrible,
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Well-deserved judgment.
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Condemnation,
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Death,
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And hell,
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Is our just due.
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But,
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For everyone in Christ,
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Wonder of wonders.
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As Isaiah continues,
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But the Lord has laid on Him,
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Christ,
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The iniquity of us all.
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He has taken hell for us,
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And so,
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Taken it out of the way.
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He took our death,
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And so,
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Death will not be for us,
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The final chapter.
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He took on and overcame for us,
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The devil.
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Our accuser.
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The enemy of our soul.
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Who we could never,
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Have taken on ourselves.
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Never overcome ourselves.
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He took our,
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Rightful condemnation.
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He heard those words,
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Depart from me.
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So that we are in His place,
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Welcomed,
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Forever.
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In short,
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Jesus took our worst,
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Sin,
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Shame,
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Debt,
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Death,
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Treachery,
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Rebellion,
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And in exchange,
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He gave us,
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His best.
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Acceptance with God,
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A perfect record,
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Adoption as sons and daughters,
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The promise of resurrection,
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A place in the renewed earth,
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Where there will be no more death,
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No more mourning,
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No more pain,
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And no more sorrow.
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And where He Himself,
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Will wipe away,
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Every tear.
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Oh,
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Now,
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You throw,
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That good,
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Into the balance,
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And I don't care,
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What you have,
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In the bad scale.
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It's just not,
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Going to tip it.
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It can't,
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It can't,
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It can't.
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You remember,
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The apostle Paul's balance,
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Remember the,
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Light,
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Momentary affliction,
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Which,
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Phrase uses,
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To kind of sum up,
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Anything that we might,
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Might be aggrieved by,
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Light,
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Momentary affliction,
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Versus,
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The eternal,
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Weight of glory,
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Eternal weight of glory,
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And,
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This is,
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Assuredly true,
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For the one,
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For whom,
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Christ is the Savior.
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No matter what the bad is,
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In your life,
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The good,
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Will always,
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Outweigh the bad.
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And if you know that,
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Really,
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Deep down,
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You know that,
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Like the Spaniard,
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Even in the midst,
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Of the bad,
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You will keep smiling.
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You'll keep smiling.
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I mean,
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Uh,
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How bad could things get?
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How bad can things get,
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In our life?
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Well,
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Um,
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Your problem could,
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Kill you.
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Say that's pretty bad.
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Problem could kill you.
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But,
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Uh,
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As we said,
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Christ has trampled down death.
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So death will not be the end.
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Uh,
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We will,
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Merely pass through it,
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Into a deeper,
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Fuller life.
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Death,
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No longer a dungeon,
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But a doorway to eternity.
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Thus,
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Even the ultimate threat,
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Is neutralized for the believer.
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Uh,
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The Romans,
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Who persecuted the early Christians,
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Discovered this to their astonishment,
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As they would try to threaten,
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The early Christians,
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With the sword,
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Which was kind of their ultimate threat.
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Um,
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Uh,
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The Christians,
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Responded to the Romans,
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Uh,
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And to their great befuddlement.
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The Christians would say,
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You can't hurt us.
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All you can do is kill us.
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And the Romans would think,
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What?
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Wait,
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Say that again?
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Uh,
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You see,
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They knew,
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However bad the bad,
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The good,
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For the Christian,
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Always outweighs it.
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It always outweighs it.
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So they just kept smiling.
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Uh,
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To the great irritation of the Romans.
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They just kept smiling.
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So there's the first thing we know.
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There's the first thing we know.
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And here's the second thing.
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Not only,
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Does the good,
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For the believer,
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Always outweigh the bad.
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But,
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For the believer,
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God actually works the bad,
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For,
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Our good.
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For our good.
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Uh,
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This is the plain and prized promise of scripture.
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Uh,
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Paul writes in,
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In,
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In Romans 8.28.
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Some of you may know this.
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I'm sure it's precious to you if you do.
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And we know,
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Writes Paul.
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Notice,
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Not surmise,
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Or conjecture,
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Or presume,
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Or speculate,
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Or hope.
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We know.
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We know,
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That God,
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That God,
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That God causes all things,
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To work together,
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For the good of those,
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Who love him,
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And are called according to his purpose.
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That's us.
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That's those who have put their trust,
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In Christ.
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God causes all things,
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Including the bad things.
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The things,
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The things,
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So bad,
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That,
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We think,
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Well,
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Nothing good,
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Could possibly,
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Come out of this.
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Yes,
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Those things too,
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God causes,
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To work for our good.
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Now,
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This is not to say,
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That the bad things aren't bad.
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They are.
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They are.
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But God uses them,
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In our life,
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To produce,
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Good.
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Remember the story of Joseph.
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The terrible,
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Horrible,
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No good,
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Very bad stuff,
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That happened to him.
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His brothers sell him into slavery.
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He's falsely accused.
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He's sent to prison.
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The guy who was supposed to help him,
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By remembering him,
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And putting in a good word for him,
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Forgets him.
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Completely.
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And on and on.
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But,
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God uses,
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All of you,
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All these bad things,
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To get him to a place,
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Where he was able to save his family.
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As he,
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Joseph,
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Told his brothers,
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Kind of at the unfolding of this,
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You intended it for evil,
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But God,
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Intended it for good,
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And for a great,
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Great rescue.
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Okay,
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You say,
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Well,
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In that case,
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God was able to work good out of it.
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But,
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Is he really able to do it with all things?
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Can he really turn every bad,
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Into some good,
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For us,
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His people?
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I mean,
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Some things are so bad,
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We just can't imagine,
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Any good at all coming out of it.
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We just can't imagine.
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Okay,
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Okay,
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So let's take,
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As our test case,
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The absolute worst bad,
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The greatest,
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Most horrific evil,
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In all human history.
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Okay,
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That'll be our test case.
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Now,
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The worst evil,
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Is not,
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The holocaust,
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It's not,
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It's not mass genocide,
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It's not ethnic cleansing,
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It's not lynchings,
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It's not sex trafficking,
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Not infanticide,
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Terrible,
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And horrific,
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As all these things are.
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No,
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Indisputably,
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The worst evil,
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Is when God,
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Out of love,
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Sent His only son,
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Into the world,
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The only,
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Truly,
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Innocent,
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All good person,
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That there ever was,
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And we,
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Hated him without cause,
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And screamed,
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Crucify him,
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And nailed him to a cross,
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Torturing him,
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Until he died.
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I mean,
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That's,
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The plus,
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Ultra evil,
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The above and beyond evil,
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That there could ever be,
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That there ever was.
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So,
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I ask you,
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And let's take sober stock,
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Was God,
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Able,
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To bring any good out of it?
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The crucifixion of his son.
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You know,
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I'm sure,
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That the disciples,
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And the devotees,
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Around the cross,
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All thought,
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As they watched,
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Jesus expire on the cross.
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There is,
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Nothing,
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Good,
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That could come out of this.
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No way.
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Now this is,
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Unmitigated,
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Irredeemable,
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Tragedy.
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And you know,
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You couldn't fault them,
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For thinking so,
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Could you?
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But they were wrong.
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So wrong.
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For out of the most horrendous evil,
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God brought an unspeakable good.
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The eternal rescue of his people.
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A number that no one can count.
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The salvation of the world.
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And that's the kind of God he is.
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Who brings good out of evil.
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And he has promised to do just that.
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For his people.
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To work every bad.
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For the good of those who love him.
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As Jonathan Edwards,
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An American theologian,
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Actually,
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Yealy.
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As he expressed it.
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Every atom in the universe,
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Is managed by Christ,
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So as to be most to the advantage,
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Of the Christian.
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Did you get that?
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Every atom of the universe.
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Every particle of air.
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Or every ray of the sun.
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So that the Christian,
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In the other world,
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When he comes to see it,
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Shall sit and enjoy
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All this vast inheritance,
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With surprising,
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Amazing joy.
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Isn't that wonderful?
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That some of the chief delight
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And felicity of heaven,
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Some of it,
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Will be seeing
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All of the incredible unfolding of good
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That he has brought out
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Of all the suffering
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That we went through.
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So knowing this,
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That the bad in our life,
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God works for good,
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We can carry an indestructible smile
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In our hearts
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For what possible upheaval
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Could dislodge it
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If we remember this.
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So,
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No matter what the bad,
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For the believer,
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The good always outweighs the bad.
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And,
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Even the bad,
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For the believer,
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God works for good.
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And,
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Finally,
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One more thing we know,
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For the believer,
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No matter how good the good,
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In her life,
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The best,
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Is always ahead.
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No matter how good the good,
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In your life,
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The best,
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Is always ahead.
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You know,
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Some moments or seasons in our lives,
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Are unspeakably wonderful.
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Golden moments.
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And,
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We wonder if it will ever be so good again.
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Will a wistful nostalgia be our lot?
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A looking back with longing,
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Where the very best has for us come and gone?
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You know,
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In our culture,
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We might be influenced to think so.
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As youth slips away,
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And as beauty fades,
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We might think we would reach a time
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When our glory days were behind us.
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But it can never be so,
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For the believer.
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For however good the good,
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The best is always ahead for her.
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Indeed,
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Our very best moments,
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Of beauty,
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Of ecstasy,
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Of epiphany,
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Are couriers,
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From a far off country,
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The home to which we are heading.
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And this nostalgia for these moments,
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Should not face us back,
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But should face us ahead.
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Nostalgia.
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Literally,
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The word literally means,
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A pain for home.
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A pain for home.
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And that home,
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For which we so poignantly yearn,
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Is ahead of us.
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It's not behind us.
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These joys,
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That are strewn along our way,
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Are whispers from a home,
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That is beckoning us.
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There,
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In that far country,
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Which comes us,
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Through these pangs of beauty,
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Joy,
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And love,
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There,
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All these bits and beams of glory,
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Shall come together,
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In us,
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Around us,
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And before us.
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In us,
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Around us,
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And before us.
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In us.
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Duh.
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It was said of the king of Rohan,
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In the Lord of the Rings,
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I wonder if you've,
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Read that,
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That upon his brow,
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In death,
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Was united,
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The beauty of youth,
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The vigor of manhood,
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And the wisdom of old age,
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Upon his funeral pyre,
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You know,
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These things,
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Barely meet,
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Are only tantalizingly so,
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In this life.
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Just,
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Maybe meet in passing.
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By the time we have a little bit of the vigor of manhood,
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The beauty of youth is almost gone,
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And the wisdom is still a ways away.
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But,
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Don't we sense,
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That our true flourishing,
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Shall be when all of those come together,
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Which they shall,
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At the last.
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As the apostle John writes,
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1 John 3, 2,
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What we shall be,
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Has not yet appeared.
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So we look forward,
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To a glory,
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In us,
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That is still ahead.
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And this glory,
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Shall also be,
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All around us.
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Heaven on earth.
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Heaven and earth,
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Come together.
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As Paul describes it,
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Creation,
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Set free,
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From its bondage to corruption.
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There in Romans 8,
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To 21.
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And do we not,
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Catch,
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Glimpses of it,
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Nature,
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Creation,
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Straining to break out,
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In the streaks of a sunset,
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Or the,
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Or the gurgle of a stream.
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Its glory,
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And splendor,
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Will be all around us.
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But,
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Supremely,
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Supremely,
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It will be before us.
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As the apostle says,
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Then,
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Face to face,
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Face to face,
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1 Corinthians 13,
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Face to face,
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With the one,
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Whose whispers,
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Were these,
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Pangs of beauty,
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And joy,
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All along,
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They were his whispers.
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Then,
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Then we shall discover,
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That it was his face,
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That we yearned for,
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In all of our earthly longings.
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They were but shadows,
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Of which,
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He is the substance.
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They but the scattered beams,
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He the sun.
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The earthly delights,
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Were but the streams,
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The little rivulets,
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But he,
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Is the ocean.
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But not only shall there be,
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In,
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The far country,
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To which we head,
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A coming together,
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Of all the bits,
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And beams of glory,
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That we have,
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That we have,
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That have,
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That have caressed us,
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And sometimes ravished us,
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In our hearts,
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In this life.
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There,
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Will also be,
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A continued,
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An eternally continued,
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Culmination,
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Of all of these joys.
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Welcome.
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A forever drinking,
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Of what shall forever,
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Quench our thirst,
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But in ever deeper,
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Drafts,
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Of an ever fuller,
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Quenching.
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Do you,
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Remember how,
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C.S. Lewis,
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Put it,
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At the end of his last book,
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In the Narnia series,
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Went like this,
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From his last battle.
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Now at last,
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They were beginning,
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Chapter one,
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Of the great story,
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Which no one on earth,
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Has read,
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Which goes on forever,
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In which,
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Every chapter,
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Is better,
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Than the one before.
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Is that not wonderful?
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Is that not,
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Full of wonder?
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That for the Christian,
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However good,
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Their experience,
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The best,
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Will always,
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Be ahead,
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Forever,
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Theirs,
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Ours,
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Will be,
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An ever fuller,
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Deeper,
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More expansive,
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Joy.
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If it had not been told,
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As it had not been told,
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Something so,
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Unimaginably fantastic,
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As the apostle writes,
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In first Corinthians 2,
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Nine,
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I has not seen,
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Nor has ear heard,
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Nor has the heart of man,
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Imagined,
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What God has prepared,
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For those,
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Who love him.
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Oh friends,
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If you can,
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If you can put,
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These truths,
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These three truths,
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Into your soul's pocket,
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Even if your present sword fights,
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Seem to be going against you,
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You can yet smile,
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Like the Spaniard,
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Because there is something,
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That you know,
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That makes all the difference,
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In the world.
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Both in this one,
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And in the one to come.
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However bad the bad,
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For the one in Christ,
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The good,
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Will always outweigh the bad.
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And,
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For those in Christ,
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The bad in their lives,
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God works for good,
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For them.
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And no matter how good the good,
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Gets in this life,
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For the one in Christ,
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The best,
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Is always ahead.
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Wear these truths,
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As a garland about your head,
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And no one,
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Or nothing,
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Can take away your smile.
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Well,
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We've,
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We've said,
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Get these truths,
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Into your soul's pocket,
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And carry them with you.
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A brief,
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And concluding word,
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On how to do so.
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And these truths,
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Are of course,
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Simply a bit,
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Of the architecture,
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Of the edifice,
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That is God's story,
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Given to us,
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In the scriptures.
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And let me,
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Let me call you,
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To do two things.
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First,
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Steep yourself,
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In the story.
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Steep yourself,
-
In the story.
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Attend,
-
And absorb,
-
Its majestic,
-
Sweep.
-
Creation,
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Fall,
-
Incarnation,
-
Cross,
-
Resurrection,
-
Renewal of all things.
-
It's a story,
-
So full of wonder.
-
Peter tells us,
-
That the very angels,
-
Long to look into it.
-
They're ravished by it.
-
First Peter 1.12.
-
So let this story,
-
God's wonderful story,
-
Supply,
-
Your categories of thought.
-
Let it,
-
This story,
-
Shape your imaginary.
-
Be captivated by it.
-
Let it become,
-
The lens,
-
Through which you see,
-
All things.
-
Let,
-
The word of Christ,
-
This word about Christ,
-
The story,
-
As Paul tells us,
-
Come,
-
To dwell in you,
-
Make its home in you,
-
Richly,
-
Richly.
-
Colossians 3.16.
-
Pray its truths,
-
Down into your heart,
-
Until they catch fire,
-
And it becomes for you,
-
The burning bush,
-
In which the presence of God,
-
Is made known to you.
-
Steep yourself in the story.
-
Steep yourself in the story.
-
And second,
-
I propose,
-
Give yourself to the story.
-
Let it be your drama,
-
From which you discover your role.
-
And answer it,
-
What it calls you.
-
Go where it sends you.
-
Live in the story.
-
If you live the story,
-
You will experience its truth.
-
It is,
-
As you launch out,
-
And live it,
-
Live it as a disciple,
-
That you will come to know,
-
The story's truth.
-
In all of its splendor.
-
If you abide in my word,
-
Says Jesus,
-
You will know the truth.
-
John 8.31.32.
-
Living this story,
-
Jesus once said,
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Is like food.
-
My food,
-
Is to do the Father's will.
-
John 4.34.
-
Food.
-
That is what nourishes,
-
And satisfies our soul.
-
Soul.
-
So come.
-
Taste and see.
-
Give yourself to the story.
-
And the one who is its center,
-
An author.
-
Steep yourself in the story.
-
Give yourself to it.
-
That's how you get these things,
-
Into,
-
And carry them around,
-
In your soul's pocket.
-
Do that.
-
And your heart,
-
Will never,
-
Lack for a smile.
-
Never lack for a smile.
-
Well,
-
This,
-
Concludes our series,
-
On the fundamentals,
-
Of following Christ.
-
For those of you,
-
Who have persevered,
-
In this adventure,
-
You will recall,
-
That we commenced with,
-
The call of the disciple.
-
The call,
-
To launch out,
-
Into the deep,
-
At Christ's bidding,
-
And to cast out a net,
-
For a catch.
-
Then we,
-
Considered,
-
The course,
-
Of the disciple.
-
What is,
-
The path,
-
That this call,
-
Casts us upon.
-
And we discovered,
-
That it was a path,
-
Of an ongoing death,
-
To self.
-
And yet,
-
Simultaneously,
-
And paradoxically,
-
Of an upwelling life,
-
The Christ life,
-
Through us.
-
We then,
-
Soberly confronted,
-
The conflict,
-
Of the disciple.
-
That fearsome fight,
-
Of our fallen flesh,
-
Which hankers,
-
To be indulged,
-
And is only,
-
Successfully engaged,
-
As we walk,
-
In the power,
-
Of the Holy Spirit.
-
And we unfolded that.
-
And then we took up,
-
Consideration of the,
-
Contemplation,
-
Of the disciple.
-
That,
-
Discipline at the very,
-
Heart,
-
Of our spiritual health.
-
Meditation.
-
In the,
-
Conquering,
-
Of the disciple,
-
We doubled down,
-
On the,
-
Concrete practicals,
-
Of sin slaying.
-
And the,
-
Indispensable,
-
Rule,
-
Of scripture,
-
In that slaying,
-
Of sin.
-
If by the spirit,
-
You put to death,
-
The deeds of the body.
-
That is,
-
Using scripture.
-
And finally,
-
We concluded this morning,
-
With the great comfort,
-
Of the disciple.
-
The treasured truths,
-
That will keep,
-
A smile,
-
Upon the soul's heart,
-
For every follower,
-
Of Christ.
-
Well,
-
In the time that remains,
-
And,
-
I shall be happy,
-
To take up,
-
Any questions you have,
-
On this,
-
Or any of the,
-
The topics.
-
I finally was able,
-
To be good to my promise,
-
To leave some time,
-
For questions,
-
And answers.
-
So,
-
Thank you for your,
-
Gracious attendance,
-
And your attention.
-
And may the good seed,
-
That is sown,
-
Produce an abundant,
-
Harvest,
-
In your life,
-
For the glory of Christ.
-
Thank you.
-
Any,
-
Any questions,
-
Or comments,
-
About these or anything?
-
We've got a good,
-
Ten minutes.
-
Yes,
-
Matt!
-
I agree,
-
With your three points today.
-
Oh,
-
Good.
-
I'm glad.
-
That encourages me.
-
I was sweating there,
-
For a moment,
-
When you raised your hand.
-
I'm smiling.
-
Is it,
-
It seems to me,
-
That the Bible makes clear,
-
That God doesn't expect us,
-
To always have a smile on it.
-
Yeah,
-
Good question.
-
Yeah,
-
Yeah,
-
Yeah,
-
Great point.
-
Yeah.
-
So Matt,
-
Yeah,
-
Great question.
-
And here's an amazing thing.
-
In the world,
-
Typically,
-
Our sorrow,
-
And our happiness,
-
Are mutually displacing.
-
Why,
-
If we get sad,
-
Or something makes us sad,
-
We lose our joy,
-
Our happiness.
-
And,
-
So,
-
You know,
-
It's either one or the other.
-
But the wonder,
-
That the Bible gives us,
-
Is that these things,
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Can exist,
-
Simultaneously.
-
I'm sorry?
-
No,
-
You just really preach.
-
Oh,
-
Well,
-
Thank you.
-
I was in the back,
-
Listening.
-
Oh,
-
Good.
-
Keep listening.
-
Let me just,
-
Let me just,
-
Just let me finish this,
-
Because he's got a good question going here.
-
I don't,
-
It's a,
-
So,
-
So,
-
Paul,
-
Paul has this marvelous phrase,
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Sorrowful,
-
Yet rejoicing.
-
So,
-
We can be,
-
We are,
-
We're in the midst,
-
Of tribulation,
-
And,
-
And,
-
And that's a reality.
-
And,
-
And Jesus says,
-
In this world,
-
You shall have much tribulation,
-
But,
-
Be of good cheer,
-
For I have overcome the world.
-
So,
-
He's suggesting,
-
That even in the midst of tribulation,
-
Because of this hope that we have,
-
And because these truths,
-
That we know,
-
We can even have a joy,
-
Even in the midst of our tribulation.
-
And I think,
-
Matt,
-
That this,
-
This allows us,
-
This gives us a heavier keel,
-
The joy that we can have,
-
And Peter writes about this,
-
In 1 Peter also,
-
Where he says,
-
Even though we've got all these hard things,
-
That are happening,
-
Yet we joy and rejoice,
-
And,
-
And that gives us a heavy keel,
-
That allows us,
-
To kind of go full sail,
-
Into a lot of the hard stuff in life.
-
We can go right in,
-
And I think this is what Jesus means,
-
In part,
-
Where he says,
-
We're to be salt,
-
That's to go in,
-
Where things are going off,
-
And kind of going rotten,
-
As a preservative.
-
So,
-
We can go in,
-
And,
-
And we can endure,
-
Some of the most sorrowful things,
-
Because we have this heavy keel,
-
This ballast of joy,
-
That doesn't go away.
-
It's beautiful.
-
It is.
-
It is.
-
And,
-
So that allows us to,
-
To experience that.
-
So then we,
-
You know,
-
When somebody dies,
-
I'm heading down this afternoon,
-
To a memorial,
-
Of a precious,
-
Precious person.
-
And Paul writes,
-
We do sorrow,
-
Yet not as those,
-
Who have no hope.
-
So there's always,
-
This commingling,
-
Of joy,
-
With whatever it is.
-
So,
-
Whether that expresses itself,
-
As a smile,
-
Or a tear,
-
At any one moment,
-
No,
-
You're absolutely right,
-
Matt.
-
I'm not,
-
I'm not talking about,
-
That's why I said,
-
A smile in our soul.
-
Jesus wept.
-
And there are a lot of,
-
There are a lot of sorrowful things,
-
And that's going to be,
-
One side of the reality,
-
You know,
-
In a fallen world,
-
Absolutely.
-
Absolutely.
-
Yeah.
-
Yeah,
-
Thank you.
-
Great question.
-
Great question.
-
My wife always suspects,
-
That I,
-
I'm just happy.
-
She thinks I'm Pollyannaish.
-
But no,
-
No,
-
No,
-
It's a good keel of truths,
-
I think.
-
Yeah,
-
Any other questions,
-
Or comments?
-
Yes,
-
Elizabeth.
-
So how do you,
-
You're talking with someone,
-
And they're totally in depression,
-
Poor me,
-
Victim,
-
Pity.
-
Thing.
-
How do you,
-
How can you express this,
-
Quickly,
-
Yeah,
-
And convincingly,
-
To such a person?
-
Mm-hmm,
-
Mm-hmm.
-
Um,
-
Um,
-
Well,
-
I think,
-
Um,
-
Sometimes,
-
Uh,
-
You do,
-
You don't want,
-
You don't want to trivialize it.
-
If I just start talking about,
-
Good,
-
True,
-
Wonderful things,
-
Uh,
-
And it doesn't,
-
It doesn't,
-
Then it doesn't feel like,
-
I've really entered into,
-
The reality of their sorrow,
-
And that's true,
-
And that's true,
-
So it's fine,
-
You can't understand this,
-
You don't know what depression is,
-
It's not just feeling sad,
-
It's,
-
The chemical imbalance,
-
You know,
-
On and on they go.
-
Could,
-
Could be any number of those things,
-
So I think it's fine,
-
To sit with them,
-
And don't,
-
Don't feel like you have to,
-
You have to put in a salutary word right away,
-
Maybe just sit with them,
-
In the sorrow of it,
-
Uh,
-
For,
-
For,
-
For some time,
-
Maybe even just the gift of your presence,
-
Uh,
-
A,
-
A wordless presence,
-
And just hug them,
-
Or,
-
Or hold their hand,
-
And,
-
And,
-
And,
-
This is part of the sorrow,
-
Of,
-
Of this life,
-
But,
-
It's not the final word,
-
We do not weep,
-
As those who have,
-
We do not sorrow,
-
As those who have no hope,
-
So,
-
The hope,
-
Uh,
-
The hope should,
-
Should tinge this,
-
The hope should tinge this,
-
Um,
-
So,
-
Um,
-
I,
-
Uh,
-
Um,
-
Sometimes,
-
I'll just read scripture,
-
Uh,
-
To them,
-
These glorious passages,
-
Romans 8,
-
What have you,
-
But sometimes,
-
We're as deaf as an adder,
-
Yeah,
-
I,
-
Uh,
-
Uh,
-
I sometimes,
-
We'll come,
-
And I'll sit next to somebody,
-
And I'll try to tell them the encouraging things,
-
And they just can't hear a word of it,
-
Uh,
-
You know,
-
They,
-
It's like,
-
Uh,
-
It's like,
-
Uh,
-
John 4,
-
You know,
-
The well is deep,
-
John,
-
And you have nothing to draw with,
-
You know,
-
So,
-
Uh,
-
But,
-
I can trust that God's word will,
-
And that if he,
-
Touches people,
-
He's the God of all comfort,
-
Who comforts us in our afflictions,
-
But he delights to use us,
-
So,
-
We try,
-
We just seek to be faithful,
-
And try to give them truths,
-
Encouragingly,
-
That,
-
That,
-
That can,
-
And don't let them,
-
See,
-
What the problem is for,
-
For many is,
-
They just let their souls,
-
Uh,
-
They just listen to their souls,
-
And we need to,
-
Like,
-
Like David does in the Psalms,
-
We need to speak to our soul,
-
Say to your soul,
-
Soul,
-
Are you,
-
Are you right to be downcast?
-
Or as God says to Jonah,
-
Do you have a right?
-
Does this make sense?
-
Given this,
-
The way he speaks to,
-
Um,
-
Uh,
-
To Job also,
-
So we need to,
-
We shouldn't just listen to our souls,
-
We should speak,
-
Speak to our souls,
-
And process that.
-
Uh,
-
A lot of times,
-
Uh,
-
You know,
-
The,
-
The world will say,
-
Um,
-
We,
-
These,
-
These,
-
These emotions that we have,
-
That are,
-
That are just,
-
Just so titanic,
-
And massive,
-
Uh,
-
The world says,
-
Vent those things,
-
Just spew them,
-
Spew them.
-
Sometimes,
-
I think a mistaken piety can say,
-
Well,
-
That's irreverent,
-
So you gotta stuff it,
-
You gotta stuff it.
-
Uh,
-
Well,
-
That's not right either.
-
You know,
-
You look at the Psalms,
-
And it seems,
-
We don't just spew,
-
Okay,
-
Neither do we stuff,
-
What we do is,
-
Like the,
-
You know,
-
Um,
-
King Hezekiah,
-
He gets the letter,
-
And he spreads it before the Lord.
-
So our sorrows,
-
We take it,
-
And we don't spew it,
-
Or stuff it,
-
But we spread it.
-
That is,
-
We,
-
We,
-
We process it before the Lord,
-
And in the light of his reality,
-
We speak to our soul,
-
And that,
-
You know,
-
Often when you're going through the Psalms,
-
They'll start out,
-
In a,
-
In a nader,
-
But they'll,
-
They'll move to another place,
-
And you're processing these things,
-
Uh,
-
Before,
-
Before God,
-
And I think that that's,
-
Right,
-
Uh,
-
The,
-
Uh,
-
The,
-
The academic work on emotions,
-
Thinks of them,
-
Is something that we just kind of passively experience,
-
And that's not how the Bible speaks about emotions,
-
You know,
-
You think of things like,
-
Uh,
-
The command,
-
Don't be afraid,
-
Oh,
-
Well,
-
Emotions of fear,
-
And yet,
-
We're commanded,
-
In other words,
-
We can't just be totally passive,
-
There's something we can do,
-
And it's,
-
Uh,
-
Uh,
-
Uh,
-
Uh,
-
Uh,
-
An,
-
An emotion involves a,
-
A concerned,
-
It's a concerned construal,
-
We're only going to be emotional about something that concerns us,
-
But then there's a construal that we put on it,
-
And we can challenge both of those things,
-
Why am I so concerned about this?
-
Why am I so concerned about death?
-
Why am I so afraid about this?
-
I can talk myself back from the ledge,
-
Okay,
-
If I die,
-
He'll raise me up,
-
Eh,
-
No biggie,
-
All right,
-
Over concerned here,
-
What sort of construal am I putting on,
-
On these things?
-
Yeah,
-
We miscon,
-
We,
-
We misconstrue these things,
-
Exactly,
-
Yeah,
-
Yeah,
-
Yeah,
-
So we need to put a right construal,
-
As we're thinking about these things,
-
And what,
-
And what,
-
And what,
-
And what,
-
And what,
-
And what,
-
And what,
-
And what,
-
And what,
-
Yes,
-
How does truth frame this?
-
So I put the right construal on these things,
-
And then,
-
Our emotions will,
-
Will be rightly adjusted,
-
To these spiritual realities that should,
-
So sometimes we can walk people through these things,
-
And that can be helpful,
-
Yeah,
-
So,
-
They know how that works,
-
They are,
-
Pastor,
-
I never heard your name,
-
John,
-
John,
-
Nice to meet you,
-
John,
-
It's good to meet you,
-
It's my first time here,
-
Well,
-
You're welcome,
-
We're glad you're here,
-
Any other,
-
I guess we got a couple,
-
Maybe one more question,
-
If anybody has a question,
-
Yes,
-
I'd like to thank you,
-
Thank you,
-
You're welcome,
-
For being a teacher,
-
But,
-
Tell me your,
-
Tell me your name,
-
Harry,
-
Harry,
-
I know we all,
-
Here,
-
Are for me,
-
With,
-
The last room,
-
If I said,
-
The last room,
-
Well,
-
I want you to feel it home,
-
You know it by the power,
-
The feel it home power,
-
But the workers,
-
We know it by the last room,
-
The last room,
-
Because it was the last room,
-
That you'd be in,
-
Before you,
-
Or put,
-
Your presence was put away,
-
Yep,
-
Yep,
-
You know,
-
And in that room,
-
You hear,
-
The workers,
-
That was my job,
-
To keep it straight up,
-
And you hear,
-
About these conflicts,
-
In life,
-
And everything,
-
While you're there,
-
You know,
-
Because I'm in the background,
-
And you hear,
-
We have to,
-
We have to think,
-
The conflict,
-
The comfort,
-
And the conqueror thing,
-
That you hear,
-
In people's lives,
-
That they are saying,
-
To you,
-
Which dad,
-
They let you know,
-
What comfort you brought to them,
-
And things like this right here,
-
That,
-
That,
-
That you never would get to,
-
To know,
-
Unless,
-
You have a position,
-
To just hear it,
-
From,
-
Hear it from people talking,
-
To your presence,
-
Yeah,
-
Yeah,
-
Their presence,
-
What a great vantage point in life,
-
Harry,
-
To be right there,
-
In the midst of reality of death,
-
Uh,
-
That,
-
Is,
-
A wonderful blessing,
-
I think,
-
Because it's easy for us,
-
To just,
-
Imagine that,
-
That's such a distant reality,
-
And that's an illusion,
-
So,
-
Yeah,
-
Great,
-
Wonderful team,
-
Well thank you so much,
-
Um,
-
And,
-
God bless,
-
And we will,
-
I,
-
I don't know what the next,
-
Uh,
-
Series is to announce,
-
But I'm sure that you'll,
-
I'm sure it will be,
-
Announced soon enough,
-
Thank you,
-
Alright,
-
Master John,
-
Thank you.