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Making Much of God or Making Much of Me (Matthew 6:1-4)

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  1. Let's stand for the reading of God's word where in Matthew

    Matthew 6 chapter mention

  2. chapter 6, the first few verses were in the exact same section.

  3. We were in last week where Jesus moves from chapter 5 to really

  4. begin speaking about motives of the heart.

  5. And in this case, he highlights three aspects of a righteous

  6. Life Giving prayer and fasting. This morning, we're going to

  7. look specifically at what he says about giving then we're

  8. Going to spend several weeks, starting next Sunday, on the

  9. Lord's Prayer, which is what follows, and then, we'll look to

  10. what he says about fasting but not until November, actually,

  11. right before, Thanksgiving, that's great timing.

  12. All right, Matthew 6, this is the Lord's sermon, The Sermon on

  13. the Mount. I'll begin in verse 1 of Matthew

  14. 6, and read through verse 4, beware of practicing your

  15. righteousness before other people in order to be seen by

  16. them for. Then you will have no reward

  17. from your father who is in heaven.

  18. Thus when you give to the needy sound, no trumpet before you as

  19. the Hypocrites, do in the synagogues and in the streets

  20. that they may be praised by others.

  21. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward but when

  22. you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know, what

  23. your right hand is doing so that your giving may be in secret and

  24. your father who sees in secret will reward you, this is the

  25. word of the Lord. Thanks be to God, please be

  26. seated. This morning in the time we have

  27. I would like to answer one question.

  28. And the question is, how do we kill How do we mortify the

  29. desire in all of us to be praised by men?

  30. We all have it and if you don't think you have it you're wrong.

  31. You do we all do. And it comes out Us in so many

  32. ways with so many layers. How do we kill this desire?

  33. How do we to use that old word mortify?

  34. This part of our flesh? The good news is, we can Anne.

  35. In Christ. And the power of His Spirit, we

  36. actually can receive compliments which aren't wrong and not feel

  37. pride in a way that elevates self But there's only one way to

  38. do it. I'll get there in a moment.

  39. We're going to focus specifically on the

  40. illustration, Jesus uses of giving, but this is not a sermon

  41. about tithing We had a long series back in February of this

  42. year on giving. And if you've never learned much

  43. about giving I think would be worth listening to.

  44. This is about motivations of the heart and Jesus uses giving and

  45. prayer and fasting as an illustration.

  46. And it certainly is applicable to so many other areas as well.

  47. So, the first thing I want to say is that for of believer, for

  48. a person who knows the Lord giving is a given, This isn't

  49. debatable as those who know, Christ, the call in our life to

  50. see those in need and respond with love and charity.

  51. And benevolence is a Given In this passage.

  52. If you look at verse 22, Jesus says, thus when you give to the

  53. needy and the word here is alms, it's not just the tithe he's

  54. talking about it, seeing in need and in making that need met in

  55. the need specifically is of the poor.

  56. So Jesus says, thus when you give to the needy.

  57. So giving is a given and that's all I'm going to say about that

  58. this morning because the focus of Jesus Is not on how much it's

  59. on the heart of the person who is giving in simply put in these

  60. few verses, Jesus shows us, there is a wrong way to give to

  61. those who are in need. And there is a right way.

  62. And what's underneath all of that is a desire that we like

  63. the Pharisees, the Hypocrites, Hypocrites Hypocrites, that he

  64. mentions here desire to be praised by man.

  65. So what's the wrong way? What's this?

  66. Look at the Text look with me again at verse 2.

  67. Thus, when you give to the needy needy, Sound no trumpet.

  68. Before you as the Hypocrites, do in the synagogues and in the

  69. streets that they may be praised by others.

  70. This was their motivation. We spent time here last week.

  71. They're deep heart's. Desire was to be praised by man.

  72. What every time we see sin in our own lives and the life of a

  73. loved one, or in the word people who are sinning, we always need

  74. to be looking at what's the sin underneath?

  75. The said it's easy to say, the Is the Sadducees the religious

  76. leaders. Got it wrong by wanting to be

  77. praised by them. But why did they want to be

  78. praised by man? We're going to get there in a

  79. minute, but Jesus clearly states, this is the wrong way to

  80. give to those who are in need he says again in verse 2, when you

  81. give to the needy giving as a given sound no trumpet, before

  82. you as the Hypocrites, do in the synagogues and in the streets

  83. that they may be praised by others.

  84. So what's the wrong way of giving it?

  85. Making an announcement. when they desired to give, They

  86. desired something more than the desire to meet that.

  87. Need what was really taking place is that an announcement

  88. was given by actors craving the Applause of men?

  89. An announcement was given by actors craving hungering for

  90. thirsting for the Applause of men.

  91. Why do I use the word actors? Jesus says in verse 2 as the

  92. Hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, a hypocrite

  93. was an actor. It was a person, a male, who

  94. would then put on a mask or some other, you know, Vale tudo.

  95. To deteriorate how they looked really.

  96. So they moved into a place on the stage of pretending to be

  97. someone. They were not well the same

  98. thing was happening with the religious leaders, they were

  99. putting on the impression that their hearts desire was to give

  100. the appearance that they treasured God.

  101. They treasured the righteous things actually the word alms as

  102. connected to the word righteous. They treasured the things of God

  103. but they didn't what they treasured was, the praise of

  104. man. And so when the praise of man is

  105. greater in your life than the Delight of God, the desire to

  106. bring God. Praise You're a hypocrite.

  107. The Apocrypha? See that existed here was done

  108. by those who wanted so much the announcement to be made, that

  109. they were generous that they were giving.

  110. So Jesus says, don't blow the trumpets.

  111. Don't make an announcement, don't let others know what

  112. you're doing, so that you may be praised by them.

  113. Those who do that are hypocrites.

  114. They're actors, they give the appearance of Godlike.

  115. This, but their heart is far from me.

  116. He would say that later. So what's the right way to do

  117. it? Jesus moves from verse 2.

  118. He says, thus when you give to the needy sound, no trumpet

  119. before you as the Hypocrites, do in the synagogues and in the

  120. streets that they may be praised by others.

  121. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward last week.

  122. I spoke about this. So maybe listen to that, because

  123. I'm not going to spend much time there today, then he says, but

  124. when you give to the needy again, giving is assumed

  125. Believers are generous. People giving as a given, but

  126. when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know,

  127. what your right hand is doing so that your giving may be in

  128. secret and your father who sees in secret will reward you.

  129. Now, Jesus is clearly using hyperbole hair.

  130. It is impossible for us to not know what my left hand is doing.

  131. In my right hand, it's impossible.

  132. So, what's his point? The point that Jesus is making

  133. is this the Hypocrites long to make an announcement, an

  134. announcement with trumpets blasting, that others might see

  135. their acts of righteousness and bring them praise.

  136. They were making much of self, making much of me.

  137. That's the wrong way. Jesus gives us the right way.

  138. He uses his hyperbole to essentially say, don't do what

  139. the Hypocrites. Did, don't make an announcement

  140. to others that you're giving the right way to do it is to not

  141. even make an announcement to yourself.

  142. Don't let your left hand, know what your right hand is doing

  143. your right hand, know what your left hand is doing.

  144. Don't announce it even to yourself.

  145. Well, that's not possible. This is where we have to

  146. understand what Jesus is getting at.

  147. We are so tempted to seek Applause even if it's our own

  148. Applause. So what Christ is saying as be

  149. free in me to give what you're called to give.

  150. But don't seek the Applause. Of others are the Applause of

  151. yourself. You see some of you in here.

  152. You've been giving a long time and it's never been an issue for

  153. you to not have your name in print.

  154. You like, you don't want that if I give you shock that other

  155. people do. So, does that mean you're free

  156. from? This course, not what it means

  157. is that you would be tempted to say, I'm glad I'm not like those

  158. who want their name in print, who want their name on a

  159. building or East on a brick, the layers go deep because our enemy

  160. wants all of us, never to make much of God, but to make bunch

  161. of self. It's not wrong to receive a

  162. compliment. It's not wrong to come up to

  163. someone after you see something, they've done that brings God

  164. glory and say I have is encouraged by what you did.

  165. The Apostle Paul Come ins people throughout his letters but what

  166. is wrong is to live for that Applause.

  167. It's wrong to Crave that Applause in the image of.

  168. Don't let your right hand and left hand know what they're

  169. doing is really helpful because for all of us, when we receive

  170. something like an affirmation, there's a part of us that wants

  171. to be like, no, no, no. No, no don't do that.

  172. But the other end saying, give me more, give me more or patting

  173. ourselves on the back. Its deep deep deep in US.

  174. So much. So that many think it's

  175. impossible. All the various ways I mentioned

  176. last Sunday at how we seek to praise to be praised by others

  177. is overwhelming. The responses I received from

  178. you last week, really were so encouraging but they all kind of

  179. had the same almost defeated position like, ah, well I ever

  180. get over this. Well, the battle ever end.

  181. Well, the battle will never end. For Christ returns.

  182. I mean you'll be tempted to think about yourself, you're the

  183. very end, like what you want people to say your memorial

  184. service or what you want. Put on your Tombstone, whatever

  185. it is. But Victory really is ours in

  186. Christ. There is a way this side of

  187. Heaven in Christ in the power of the Holy Spirit to wage war on

  188. this to actually be in a place where we can not make much of

  189. self. But there's only one way.

  190. I mean, this is not hyperbole, there's only one way, there's no

  191. other way. The only way to not make Much of

  192. self. The only way to not announce

  193. things that you're doing spiritually in order to be seen

  194. and praised and applauded by others is this way.

  195. And that is to make much of God, the Father, the Son, and the

  196. Holy Spirit, always the only way to die.

  197. To mortify, the flesh that wants to make much of me.

  198. Make much of self is to make much of god, father, Son and the

  199. Holy Spirit. You hear that you're like well

  200. of course, Of course. And maybe you're afraid to say,

  201. but it doesn't work. It does work.

  202. The issue isn't whether it works or not.

  203. Or whether you experiencing it working or not.

  204. It's that when we fail to make much of God, which is all the

  205. time, it's making much of self which rises in and fills that

  206. space But what's the sin underneath it?

  207. If we know it's wrong to blow the trumpet or if we know it's

  208. wrong demon Bullock quiet trumpet in our closet or maybe

  209. we're not announcing what we're doing but we're announcing it to

  210. self feeling pretty good about self.

  211. How do we do this? How do we make much of God?

  212. I want you to think turn in your good, turn in a Bible, grab the

  213. blue and in front of you and just for a few minutes, I want

  214. to go to John 4. This is the story of the woman

  215. at the well, it's a well-known Bible story.

  216. It's about a woman who's going to meet Jesus.

  217. What I want you to picture for a minute is I'm going to lay the

  218. scene is that Jesus is fully man.

  219. What we said about him with our voices together from Colossians

  220. 1 earlier in the service is all true.

  221. It's also fully man he's hungry and he's thirsty in his thirst.

  222. He finds himself placed by a. Well, there's a well that has

  223. historical significance and his disciples of left him.

  224. They've gone into town, they're going to get food.

  225. When a Woman by herself because of the You know, basically her

  226. reputation by herself, she comes to get water.

  227. Jesus asked her for a drink, and then this amazing discussion

  228. takes place, I want to pick it up.

  229. In verse 13, John 4:13, Jesus said to her, everyone who drinks

    John 4:13

  230. of this water, speaking of the physical water in the, well,

  231. everyone, who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, but

  232. whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be

  233. thirsty again, the water that I will give him will become in

  234. him, a spring of water, welling up to eternal life.

  235. This woman doesn't understand. What Jesus is saying, so she

  236. responds in verse 15, the woman said to him, sir, give me this

  237. water so that I will not be thirsty or have to come here to

  238. draw water. Now changes when Jesus who's

  239. fully man needs. Physical water says something to

  240. her that she has no idea how he knows.

  241. We knows, because he's God. He's omniscient.

  242. There's nothing he can learn about her about us verse 16.

  243. Jesus says to her go, call your husband and come here.

  244. I wonder how long it was before the woman spoke, we don't know.

  245. It might have been instantly, it might have been a little while.

  246. But she says to him verse 17, I have no husband.

  247. Jesus said to her, you were right in saying, I have no

  248. husband for you. Have had five husbands and the

  249. one you now have is not your husband.

  250. What you have said, is true. The woman said to him, sir, I

  251. perceive that you are a prophet, our fathers worshiped on this

  252. mountain, but you say that in Jerusalem is the place where

  253. people ought to worship. Jesus said to her woman, believe

  254. me the hour is coming. When neither on this mountain

  255. nor in Jerusalem, will you worship with the father?

  256. You were. Worship.

  257. What you do. Not know we worship.

  258. What we know for salvation is from the Jews, the hour is

  259. coming. And is now here when the true

  260. worshipers will worship the father in spirit and Truth for

  261. the father, is seeking such people to worship Him, don't

  262. lose this. The father is seeking for her to

  263. become one, who's going to worship Him in spirit and Truth.

  264. This, providential collision between the Living, God Christ,

  265. Jesus in this woman, who's had five husbands?

  266. And she's with another man who is not her husband.

  267. About to bring Salvation and Redemption verse 24.

  268. God in spirit and those who worship Him and must Worship in

  269. spirit and Truth. The woman said to him, I know

  270. that Messiah is coming, he who is called Christ.

  271. When he comes, he will tell us all things.

  272. Jesus said to her, I who speak to you, a.m. he Let that sink

  273. in. I who speak to you who just said

  274. you are right and claiming you don't have a husband, you've had

  275. five. And the man you're with now is

  276. not your husband, I who speak to you a.m. he now, here's what I

  277. don't want you to miss. When you're tempted to make much

  278. of yourself in prayer or in fasting, or giving the very one

  279. who's in, you the very one you're seeking to serve is the

  280. same man who was speaking to this woman.

  281. How do we stop making much of self by making much of him?

  282. The Living God says, to this woman, I who speak to you a.m.

  283. he and he's the same God that speaks to you through his word

  284. and spirit. The disciples returned verse 28,

  285. it says to the woman left her water jar and went away into

  286. town and said to his people. And I think it's significant.

  287. She left her water jar. Why it's heavy?

  288. There's something more important to give back to the people.

  289. Then the water I would came for. The one who's talking about

  290. living water water that, if I drink from, will never thirst

  291. again. I need people to know, so the

  292. woman left, her water jar went away and came to town and said,

  293. to the people come see a man who told me all that ever did.

  294. Can this be the Christ? So they went out of the town and

  295. they were coming to him. The disciples have a

  296. conversation with Jesus, then. But I want to move forward to

  297. verse 39. Here's what happened.

  298. This collision between this woman and Jesus.

  299. The father seeking people who will worship Him in spirit and

  300. Truth takes place. And now it says, in verse 39,

  301. many Samaritans from that town believed in him because of the

  302. woman's testimony, he told me all that I ever did, so when the

  303. Samaritans came to him, they asked him to stay with them and

  304. he stayed there, two days and many more believed because of

  305. his word they said to the woman, it is no longer because of what

  306. you said that we Believe, for we have heard for ourselves.

  307. And we know that this indeed is the savior of the world and the

  308. same man that stayed with them for two days.

  309. The same man that continue to teach them the word that he is

  310. the living water is the same one.

  311. We give to the poor for in his name.

  312. It's the same one. We pray to even when were

  313. tempted to have other people think we pray deep and eloquent

  314. prayers He it's the same saying, same God.

  315. Now what I'm about to tell you next is not in the Bible.

  316. This is not what happened, but imagine is days and weeks went

  317. on. And people came to this place

  318. and Samaria. And people said, this is the

  319. woman that met Jesus, at the well, who's he told her

  320. everything she ever did. Imagine over time that woman

  321. begin to say, well yes, it's true.

  322. He did all those things but, but don't forget about me.

  323. I was the one who actually came to the well because I was

  324. thirsty and I was getting Waterfront.

  325. Don't forget about me. Yes, what he did was great, but

  326. don't forget about me, I have a testimony.

  327. It's pretty. Sensuous, it's one of those

  328. testimonies that really sizzles. I wasn't just somebody that kind

  329. of grew up in the church. I have had five husbands and the

  330. man I was with when I met him wasn't even my husband, so don't

  331. forget about me. It's not in the Bible.

  332. Because I don't think that's what happened.

  333. But when we are tempted, To blow a trumpet.

  334. Or to toot our own horn in the quietness of our prayer.

  335. Closet applauding, ourselves are being applauded by others.

  336. That's how ridiculous it is. When we want to make much of

  337. ourselves to be praised by others, it is ridiculous.

  338. And I do it all the time. I do it from the 9:30 service.

  339. Would it ends to the 11:00 service?

  340. When it begins? The reason I have to confess

  341. with you at 11:00? What?

  342. I just confessed at 9:30 is because there's been enough

  343. minutes in between but the same thing to be confessed again.

  344. And by the way, this is one of the most powerful public

  345. confession of sins we've ever had and I don't know who wrote

  346. it. It wasn't me.

  347. But I'll confess it again later today and tomorrow and some of

  348. you might say, then where's the victory?

  349. The victory is in the fact that when I'm convicted by the Holy

  350. Spirit, the Living God, I know that the only way out of this

  351. race. Is to make much of him.

  352. It is not to bend. My will towards self and say

  353. stop doing those things. It's actually to have my eyes

  354. fixed on something that is so much greater so much more,

  355. beautiful, who paid all that was necessary for me to have

  356. salvation. So that when I want somebody to

  357. know that I'm giving a large tip, or I'm showing up with

  358. money to give a group of hair stylists to Lost.

  359. Money and covid and we're going to care for him as a church.

  360. And I'm tempted to say, next time I come in I hope they know

  361. it was me I think about the one who said, I gave my son.

  362. And he never sinned. And he took all of your sin.

  363. And all of his children sin and he died and suddenly that little

  364. voice and it really is little that saying, praise me.

  365. I'm great. Our praise me because I'm not

  366. that great. Is silenced.

  367. Because something far more glorious far, more beautiful,

  368. far, more sacrificial. Something that's eternal.

  369. Causes that to dissipate it really is the great Christian,

  370. hymn lived out. Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus. when

  371. you're about to give, And you're tempted to say, look at me.

  372. Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus. When you're about to give a

  373. quote, that makes you sound smarter than most Christians.

  374. And for some reason that makes you feel more Godly.

  375. Or if you despise people like that.

  376. So you don't quote, anybody and you make makes you feel more

  377. humble. Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus.

  378. And look full in his wonderful face.

  379. And here's what happens. Then the things of Earth.

  380. Including the praise of, man. You're a great mom.

  381. You're a great dad. You're so generous?

  382. and the things of Earth, including the praise of, man,

  383. the things of Earth will grow strangely dim in the light of

  384. his glory and grace. It's the only way.

  385. There's no other way. The only way to kill to mortify

  386. the part of us that says make much of me is to make much of

  387. God, the Father Son and Holy Spirit.

  388. Let me in with this. Ten times in Matthew 6, 12 18,

  389. including twice in the verses we looked at today Jesus says

  390. something that wasn't said, very often not said very often in the

  391. Old Testament. but said, 10 times in these 18 verses that

  392. deal with giving prayer and fasting 10 times he says Your

  393. father in Heaven. What was the sin underneath the

  394. sin that led these religious leaders to want the praise of

  395. man? They didn't see God as father.

  396. They saw God. As a slave master.

  397. A militant tyrant. Who demanded perfection?

  398. And so they lived a life of deep insecurity That Was Then

  399. motivated by other people giving evidence that they're living a

  400. righteous life. That's what motivated them 10

  401. times. Jesus is going to present to his

  402. audience. The father.

  403. Abba. Ten times.

  404. He's going to make much of his daddy.

  405. Ten times he's going to urge the listeners to see God for who he

  406. is. So how do we died is that self?

  407. How do we modify that flesh? Make much of what the word of

  408. God says about your heavenly father?

  409. About his son Jesus and about the Holy Spirit who lives in

  410. you. And as you do that, that voice

  411. that says blow the horn. Make the announcement.

  412. Let people know what you did or let people know what you didn't

  413. do cuz that's a little horn. Make much of the father.

  414. Make much of the Sun make much of the Holy Spirit.

  415. And when you do watch The desire for men's, praise to dissipate.

  416. Make much of God. Or Jesus.

  417. I'm so thankful that I'm in a church.

  418. That wants to hear the word proclaimed.

  419. I'm so grateful that I can stand in this pulpit and admit how

  420. hard the battle is. but to also celebrate that it's in the

  421. bottle were used so graciously show us that your mercies more

  422. You can actually help us to laugh at ourselves to take

  423. ourselves less seriously. To see the foolishness.

  424. Of how we could never be satisfied by enough.

  425. Praise of man. And we don't need it.

  426. We have you. The Living Water.

  427. Make us secure in you and satisfied in, you?

  428. God, please. Have mercy.

  429. Become much, much greater. In all of our Lives.

  430. We pray in Jesus name. Amen.

  431. It's Dan.