How To Be Resilient When Times Get Tough

I wonder what sort of world do you live in and how can you live well in that world?

There's a reference in the Bible to a family, a, a group in Israel's

history called The Sons of Issachar.

They're referenced at a time when King David is building a kingdom, a

government, layers of national leadership.

It's a time of change and transition where the nation had shifted from

tribal leadership under the judges to a unified national leadership

from a capital city under a king.

And it says, of these sons of Issahcar, their value, their place on the team

for David was that they understood the times and knew what Israel should do.

They understood the times they were living in and they knew what Israel

should do in response to the times.

The sons of Issahcar were able to understand and articulate in some

distinct, unique and valuable way, um, the world in which they were living,

and importantly, how to respond to that world, how to live well in that world.

Now, if you do any sort of academic study of the ancient world or some ancient text,

or let, let's say you do New Testament studies at degree level or beyond, you

will spend a lot of time looking at people groups of the past and trying to work

out what the world was like for them.

What, what did they believe?

How did they structure society?

What were relationships like in families and between different families

who had the power in that society?

And then you can use that construction of the world to better understand

the text that you are reading.

So just as a little example, a little aside, in in matthew 12, um, 46, Jesus

is teaching he's healing and his mother and brothers come along and they're,

they want him to stop what he's doing and they want him to speak to them.

When Jesus ignores them and almost denies them in, in order

to prioritize the mission that the Father God had called him to.

Well, in a world where being shamed was everything and a maximizing honor

was, was everything was your highest priority, this would've been outrageous.

Shocking.

We, we can't quite understand Jesus' actions here fully without

understanding the world, the culture, the context of honor and shame

in which those actions happened.

But what about us today, do we know the sort of culture, the sort of world in

which we live, like the sons of Issahcar?

Have we taken the time to discern how, how our world has shifted and have we taken

time to consider what it might look like to live well in this current cultural

moment in which we find ourselves?

So here is my, um, analysis of the world in which I find myself, it may well

describe and articulate your world too.

My current cultural moment is one shaped by crisis.

The world that I find myself living in has shifted in recent years to one where

the major narrative is that of crisis.

I wonder if that describes your world too.

Of course this has not always been the case for me.

I'm, I'm 45 years old, believe it or not, and , I would say the, the first maybe 40

years of my life or so, living in the UK.

They've largely been characterized by peace and stability.

Now, my mom, she's 88, a total legend.

Her early years were disrupted by war.

She was put on a train sent from the city to live in the countryside for years after

the war, food was restricted and rationed.

But that's not been my lived experience.

I've lived in a time where I've been able to work and buy a

house and have a pension plan.

Uh, growing up for me, well, I was a frequent flyer to the emergency rooms, but

I received exceptional free healthcare.

For many of us, despite what the newspapers have told us the reality

is that we have lived for many years in a place and in a time that has

been incredibly safe and stable.

But I think there's been a bit of a shift, whether that's a real shift or a perceived

shift, a shift has taken place and the dominant narrative that many of us live

under, the primary story that sort of sits in our subconscious is one of crisis.

the big obvious shift was a global pandemic covid disruption.

Why?

We're still talking about it.

Well, the impact, the trauma, the grief of that is still present

and may well continue to be present until we deal with it.

An unprecedented crisis ends entered this world and disrupted our world.

For us as the UK we then went through something called Brexit.

Do you remember that?

We divorced from Europe.

We did that with the promise of greater freedom and financial growth.

But as yet, it's hard to see any evidence of that as as a nation, we already

really struggled with a healthy sense of national identity, but I think it's hard

to see as things are, how that might be addressed and resolved in a healthy way.

Of course then there's climate change.

Climate change for some has become the number one crisis facing humanity.

We, we've had decades of education and awareness and action, limited

action to address some of the climate issues facing our planet, but perhaps

it's not surprising in this present cultural moment, one where the

narrative is around fear and crisis.

Perhaps it's not surprising that environment has become an amped up,

emotive devisive issue a crisis.

There's some evidence to suggest that.

That the narrative in schools and in the media around climate change is leading a

younger generation to experience climate anxiety, eco anxiety, and that in turn is

contributing to a mental health crisis.

A mental health crisis, another crisis that we face in society.

And we could talk about the massive rise in fuel costs, food costs, mortgage rates,

the ongoing invasion of Ukraine by Russia.

The list just goes on and on.

and it's not that there hasn't always been stuff, there's always been wars and

famine and disasters throughout the world.

Of course there has.

And, and please do hear me right, hear my heart.

I, I, I am deeply concerned about these things.

I, I don't want by listing them to make them seem flippant.

We, we face massive issues as society, but what I'm saying is this, that.

That if you like me, have experienced a shift.

If you sense a change, if you think, do you know what, um, life used to feel a

little bit more stable and predictable and peaceful and a bit more under my control.

And now I, I live in a world where the, the dominant narrative that

is in front of me, that, that, that sits in my subconscious is

one of uncertainty and crisis.

If there's any truth for all in that, then what do we do?

How do we respond to that?

Uh, as, as Christians, as good news people, do, we just bury our

heads in the sand and hope that it's all gonna blow over soon.

Maybe Russia will pull out of Ukraine.

Maybe the cost of living will go down.

Maybe someone will discover some amazing clean energy solution for all.

Maybe our politicians will get some morals and backbone.

Maybe I'll be able to afford eggs if they're on the shelf.

Well, maybe.

Maybe.

I really do pray that will be so.

Maybe you're watching this in a few years time and you are

experiencing unprecedented peace and prosperity and stability.

I really hope so.

Uh, and please don't stone me as a false prophet if it doesn't play out in

the way that I'm talking about today.

But we are good news people.

We have Jesus.

We are woven into a better story, a better narrative that frees us from fear, and

I believe that through the Holy Spirit, we can be like the sons of Issahcar.

We can understand the time, the moment that we are in.

And we can know what to do.

We can work out what sort of world it is that we are living in today and

how we might live well in that world.

And so what I want to do is just to offer you some simple ideas to press

into things that I've learned, things that I've learned from Christians, from

God's people, from around the world.

In particular, Christians who have lived in unstable places, unstable times.

Christians who have learned how to live well, to live as God intended, when the

world all around them, when their context is unstable and extremely challenging.

And the first thing is this.

It's about what I would call choosing your narrative.

Choosing your narrative.

It's about working on making God's story, the gospel narrative, the

loudest dominant story in your life.

And so it's about spending enough time in the good news of Jesus that

it really soaks into us and shapes us.

I think it's unlikely that the narrative that we will get from

the media will anytime soon shift away from fear or from crisis.

They, They, used to say 10, 20 years ago that of advertising that sex sells.

But if sex sells, fear grips us.

It keeps us coming back for more.

Apparently newscasters use the the saying these days, if it bleeds,

it leads, that's your top story.

We just can't get enough of the bad news, and so we have to keep coming back to the

good news of Jesus, the gospel message.

And I think we have to learn how to preach that gospel message to ourselves,

to our souls, and to one another.

In all that we do to get that better story deep into our subconscious,

deeper into our souls, and as we do so, I believe we are liberated from fear.

That's the power of narrative.

You might even want a period of fasting the bad news, in order to help you break

through into that better narrative.

So number two.

Predictable patterns, what I call predictable patterns.

You know, in a shifting world, in a world that feels outside of our

control, we can build predictable, consistent routines into our lives.

I have no control over the price of fuel.

I have no control over Putin and Russia, but I can get up and start

every day reading God's word.

I can steadily and consistently over days and weeks and months

and years and decades, I can work through God's story again and again.

And I'm talking about something far more powerful here than randomly and

occasionally dipping into your Bible.

I'm talking about the sort of confidence that comes through consistency.

Really deeply getting to know who God is and how he works for his people

throughout generations and generations as we gaze at him in his word daily

through the whole of the Bible.

I would say the same of Prayer.

Predictable patterns of Prayer.

You know, it's, it's good.

It's wonderful to shoot up little arrow prayers wherever you are,

whenever you are, whatever you are doing, wherever you are.

But in an unpredictable and changing world, there's incredible

power in consistent, I'm gonna say almost liturgical prayer.

All godly, mature, stable, secure Christians that I know do

this, they've discovered this.

They've developed a pattern, a formula of Prayer that they follow nearly

always at the start of each day.

Whether that be the Lord's Prayer as a pattern for Prayer for me.

Um, over recent years, I've used the priestly prayer of numbers 6:22.

Numbers 6:22

The Lord bless you and keep you.

The Lord make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you.

The Lord lift up his countenance upon you and give you his peace.

I use the elements of that Prayer as a springboard into praying for my

family, I'm praying for my spiritual family, my church, predictable patterns.

I, I actually think consistency and faith are linked together.

Finally, commitment to community.

Commitment to community.

As Christians gathering regularly in small groups is one of the most

powerful things that we can do.

Now, this might be a bit controversial to say this, so don't quote me,

but I'm not sure it really is down to what you do in the group.

It's not about whether you use the group for mission or Bible study or Prayer,

as important as those things it are.

It's more about consistency of relationship.

It's more about what the New Testament calls, fellowship or

koinonia or spiritual family.

You see those sorts of groups, being committed to those sorts of groups have

placed deep in my subconscious, deep down in my soul, the knowledge that if

disaster hits, if I ever find myself in crisis, if something happens to me or to

my family, something out of my control.

I have a spiritual family.

I have a handful of people who have got my back.

I've got people who will cook meals for me and my family, who'll visit me if

I'm sick in hospital, who will offer me financial support if I need it.

and believe me when I say that, that's because I've experienced it from people

that I've been in community with.

And I like to think I've contributed that to the lives of others.

I think as Christians these days, we can tend to approach our faith

like a therapeutic self-help thing, an individualistic thing.

You know, feeling a bit down today, not feeling great today.

I'm gonna go to the gym or take a yoga class or shopping.

Maybe I'll have a takeaway tonight.

Maybe Chinese, maybe Indian, I don't know.

Um, maybe I'll read the Bible.

Maybe I'll go to church That'll pick me up.

And you know, I'm not saying those things are bad things to do, but in,

in an unchanging world, in an uncertain world, the power, the transformation

comes through community, through consistency, through commitment.

These things allow us to bring order and peace and stability and a good

news narrative deep into our souls.

I believe that this present cultural moment that we are in, in the uk, maybe

in Europe, maybe in the western world, I can't speak on behalf of those places,

but I believe it's a time for us to look to and learn from our brothers

and sisters in the Southern hemisphere.

In less economically developed parts of the world.

The church in China, in Iran, in India, in parts of Africa and South America.

Believers who for decades, for generations, they've had to learn how

to live well in times of uncertainty.

They modeled to us the power of the gospel through predictable patterns

and the priority of community.

I wonder what sort of world you live in and how you can work that out and work

out how to live well in that world.

Coming up.

Coming up.

We have Conversation Street, but before we get into that,

here's a clip from our podcast.

What's the story which you can subscribe to on all your favorite podcast apps?

The biggest lesson I've learned actually it's come to me.

So I am a feeling person.

And you know, like I've explained what happened in my testimony, like

God speaks to me like very clearly through pictures and very clearly

through, like I can hear him, I can feel him, like his presence, like that's

important to me and that's a gift.

But like for me, I felt like I had failed when I had traumatic birth.

I felt like my faith had failed.

That it wasn't good enough.

I think one of the biggest lessons I've learned is like, know your Bible

because some lies will feel so, so true.

Welcome back to Conversation

Street with

myself and Anna.

Uh, I was just getting

engrossed in the YouTube comments there.

That's why I was looking away from the screen

Uh, so unprofessional.

I was engrossed in the What's the story comment, actually.

I was, I was just enjoying that story and then was like, oh, we're on.

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Just tell me more, Beth, tell me more.

Uh, if you would like to hear Beth's, uh, interview in full, you can find

out at whatsthestorypodcast.com.

Uh, or you can find out more information on our website, which I'll

put up

on the screen there.

Uh, www.crowd.church.

What's the story is a great podcast.

Um, I love it because

we do get

to

talk to

people about

their story

and Anna very soon.

You are, you are gonna be hosting some of the episodes.

right?

I am gonna be co-hosting.

Yeah.

I, uh,

we're, we're working out the kit

and the

technology, so Yeah.

Yeah, that is

the plan.

I'm looking forward to it.

Actually, Matt.

I, I genuinely love hearing people's stories.

You know, it's one

of my things I've like,

You know, it's my background.

I've worked in marketing and

PR and it's all about storytelling really

for me.

And I just, yeah, I love hearing people, people's

ordinary stories, especially faith stories,

so

Yeah, totally.

Me too.

Me too.

Um, so we've got a lot to talk about, lots of comments going

on today, which is great.

Nicola's just jumped on.

Evening Nicola.

Welcome.

Uh, and, Anya loves my jumper.

I assume you're talking to me because I'm the only one you can see called

Matt unless you're looking at under.

I don't know.

Uh,

See Matt's.

Matt's properly like brand.

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See that?

Yeah.

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hashtag, same, you know, uh, I do like my Crowd Church merch.

Uh, so, um, yes, thank you.

Matt says he'll give it 10 pounds to what's IIT, if you

mentioned Man United have won

imagine if trust,

Uh,

Yeah, IIT, its Imagine We've mentioned

it now, so you have to do it, Matt.

Yeah, you have to give the money, Matt.

Uh, you're obligated.

So Manchester United have won, and that's 10 quid to, uh, imagine if

Trust, which is a charity associated with the church, which does a lot of

good, actually a lot of social outreach.

So that's what imagine if Trust is if you don't know.

Um, it is you, Matt and I do have, yes, actually we do.

We we have done the hats in the past.

Anya.

That's right.

And you, you do have one.

God bless you.

God bless you.

So

let's jump into John's talk.

Um, and as we go through, carry on writing your comments.

your questions your thoughts, your ideas, uh, in here.

And I wanted to start off with, uh, what did, let me just, is Anna's just put here?

Is it just me or has there been a different crisis for

various parts of our history?

Time's changed and the context of crisis changed, but the

tragedy of it is still the same.

I thought that was a great comment.

What do you think to that, Mrs.

Kettle?

Yeah, I like that comment as well.

I think you're right.

It's, um, it's true like humanity has always had some form of crisis, hasn't it?

Because I, I think that's part of our story as humankind, like, you know,

it's part of the impact of living in a world that's still under sin.

I think, you know, like, we, obviously there's a story about creation and then

the full, um, um, how Sin came into the world and broke some stuff Um, you know,

that's still being um, outworked and you know, and I know there's like, we

believe that Jesus came and made things right, but the outworking of things

being made right isn't complete yet.

And um, So I think it's absolutely right.

We live in a broken world and there's constantly throughout any generation,

there's stuff that's going wrong, but equally I do agree with John for us

as Western kind of british Christians.

I know not everyone watching is British, but like we are, aren't we?

So You know, for our kind of worldview and where we're from, I think

it's been harder than certainly.

I know, I would You agree, Matt?

It certainly feels like this current sort of season we're in the last few

years have been tougher economically and perhaps emotionally than I can

ever remember in my adult life.

I know I'm still only halfway through life, but certainly, you know, in

the last few generations, this is the hardest point I remember ever hitting.

Probably some people who can remember.

You know, hard times in the eighties, but I don't think there's

been another time since then.

And, Um, and not consecutively like one thing after another.

yeah, I think, I think.

like a bit of season of crisis.

I think it's an interesting point, isn't it?

Because I remember as a kid we would have things, I remember

hearing mum talk about stuff.

not really understanding it if I'm honest with you, but as an

adult, , you know, where I've had to have my own responsibilities.

Um, I think it's, I think you're exactly right and I think, um, I, I can't remember

a time when it has been as this consistent where it's just been one thing after

another, after another, after another.

We've, we've weathered stuff in the past, um, but, but yeah, it's been

unrelenting, uh, which is interesting.

So,

it has felt like that.

And I also wonder though, if we, it is a bit of an echo chamber as well.

Like we've always had political crisis.

Economic crisis periods of like difficulty, haven't we?

In different ways.

Um, but I wonder, I mean, it's all been sort of one on top of the

other, like you say, but I also wonder if there's an element of.

We have more media, more access to more information globally

now than we ever have before.

So I think it's also just a symptom of living in this digital age that we're

in, which is amazing cause you can do stuff like crowd Church, but also we

live in this world where we have so much information on our fingertips, you know,

constantly on our mobile phones and our devices that is connecting us to.

Crises from all over the world.

And it's instant, isn't it?

And it's constantly coming at you.

And so, and it's, people are debating it and talking about it and complaining on

social media all the time about stuff.

And so perhaps it's the intensity of the way we're experiencing

it, it's different as well.

That's very true.

It's a very good point.

Hashtag stuff, social media.

Um, yeah, it's, um,

. I think it's very true.

I think it's very true.

So some of the things then that John talked.about, um,

which I thought was great.

The first thing he talked about was obviously, um, you've got this bad news.

You need to sort of, in effect preach to yourself the good news and remind

yourself of, of the better news narrative that we feel like we have

at Christians, uh, as Christians.

Um, do you do that?

Do you, uh, or do you just, is that just kind of an assumed

thing in the back of your head?

I'm kind of curious.

What does that look like for you?

Uh, that's a good question.

I do do it.

I don't think I do it as much as I should.

Like when he said that and he was like, you know, how much are we

kind of spending time in God's word?

And you know, like with a different truth.

And, and I do wonder, you know, I, as I mentioned before, I work

in, um, comms in the nhs, so

You know, I, my day job is listening to a lot of bad news about the

health system all day, every day.

And actually part of my job is to dig it out and deal with it.

So, you know, I feel like actually, I don't know if I do spend as

much time in god's word getting his perspective as I do, getting

that kind of negative perspective that the media constantly pedals.

And part of that is my job and background and stuff, but it is, it did challenge

me because yes, I do do it and how it looks to me spending time in God's Word

and praying about things that worry me.

Yeah.

And actually what I, what I'm trying to do more of is just like when I'm

driving to work, when I'm cooking the dinner, when I'm just doing ordinary

stuff, like playing some worship music or maybe a christian podcast or a, you

know, even a talk like this, playing it back, um, and just trying to Fill

this, those small times where I could just be thinking about nothing or

listening to some rubbish actually trying to fill those times with more of

Yeah.

God's Truth.

And so, I think I've been recently, it's been like, it looks a lot like that.

Like taking those cracks of time and making sure that, you know,

I could just listen to radio one or I could listen to a Christian

worship album on the way to work.

And just making those choices to fill my mind when I can with truth.

Yeah,

it looks a lot like that for me.

Yeah, I think it's really good.

Uh, I like that phrase, the cracks of time, very poetic.

Um, , uh, it's very poetic.

Fill the cracks of time with these amazing things.

So we pinned.

what we have when you're like a parent and, you and you work full-time and

everything's just like, what can I squeeze into the cracks of my day?

It is exactly that.

It's not a gap, it's a crack.

It's just like, I can just shoot

like John was saying, wasn't he like those small arrow prayers, like

Yeah,

pinging up those prayers as as life's happening, and I think that's really

important when we're living busy lives,

Absolutely.

Especially when you've got young children, uh, when you, yeah, totally.

So one of the pinned questions, how do you define resilience?

Because this is, I mean the, this is what we call the talk, isn't it?

How to be resilient when times get tough.

Actually, that's what we called it for YouTube.

What John was calling it was how to live well, um, in a world shaped by Crisis.

So let's talk about this idea of resilience.

Let's tie all this together.

Um, what does resilience mean to you, do you think?

I mean, if I was, if I was defining resilience in like a sentence, I

think it's the ability to bounce back.

You know, that to me, emotional resilience is that ability to like, Weather the

hard things and bounce back from them.

And like, you know, not deny them, not belittle them, not pretend that hard

things haven't happened or painful things don't hurt, but the ability

to come back from them and to find God's hope even in the midst of that.

Um, that's what it is for me in a crux.

What about you?

What do you, how do you sort of perceive it?

Yeah, Yeah,exactly.

I like that phrase to bounce back.

Um, uh, I think it's a really interesting idea.

Uh, Julie's put in the comments here that resilience is faith.

It will be okay.

Um, and I think that's actually resilience and faith I think are

quite closely aligned, aren't they?

Um, they are sort of very closely aligned.

There's, there's a bible verse here in my notes.

Let me, let me read it out, james one, um, says, consider it pure joy, my

brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds because you know

that the testing of your faith, here you go, Julie, produces perseverance

or resilience, uh, would be a really interesting word to throw in there.

That perseverance or resilience finish its work so that you may be mature

and complete, not lacking anything.

Um, and I think, Julie, you're right, there's, there's the

element of faith, isn't it?

That resilience, that trust as a Christian that actually we have, um,

we were talking about this at church this morning actually, that God's on

our side, he's in us, he's for us.

Um, and so we can trust that we can have faith in that, like you say,

not denying what's going on, but just believing that somehow tomorrow I'll be

able to wake up and put another step, um, in front of the other one and just.

Just keep at it, you know, just keep at it, bounce back.

I love that.

Um, to bounce back after the inevitable setbacks because

they're gonna come to all of us.

Right.

So,

yeah.

and it, it's that ability to kind of, um, yeah, to kind of understand that

like circumstances are hard, isn't it?

But also kind of to be able to rise above your circumstances.

And I think as Christians, like any, anybody can have emotional resilience.

You can be, um, just try to be a more positive person, right?

There's lots of self-help that can help me do that.

and lots of like, let be great grateful, you know, be, you know,

positive thinking and all of that.

But I think what we have that's quite unique as people of faith is that.

We know that the truth is that life isn't all about our immediate circumstances.

That actually, you know, there's that, there's that verse about like our, our

like momentary troubles or, you know, kind of creating for us, I can't remember the

exact word wording, but like, uh, sort of, um, it's about like, it, it's um,

all sort of like building up towards like more blessing, you know, greater blessings

than heaven one day and sort of like,

yeah.

And it's.

I suppose for me it's like trying to keep that eternal perspective that,

okay, circumstances now can just really suck sometimes, can't they?

and life can just be really tough.

But also trying to lift my head and remember an eternal perspective that

like these challenges Are only temporary?

It's not the end of the story.

God's story is so much bigger.

He's finished.

You know, one day all things will be made.

Right.

And i, I feel it.

It's like that, that perspective that I have to keep coming back to when

life's challenging in the here and now.

And I, I find myself telling myself and reminding myself

that narrative again and again.

And I feel like, um, yeah, there's, there's like Psalmist says like,

magnify the Lord, you know, I magnified the Lord, magnified the Lord with me.

And it's.

It is that thing of like when you make God's story bigger, it, it's a bit like

john was saying, it actually enables your you to get a better perspective

on your problems and almost like shrinks your problems and enlarges God.

And I feel like when you have that eternal perspective, that's what it does.

It makes God bigger and somehow makes your circumstances feel smaller.

cuz that, you know, it's not the end.

It's not the end, it's not, it's not permanent, it's just here and now.

And you know that in eternity, you know, there's, there's so much more and you

know that all things will be resolved, will be healed, will be made right.

And yeah, that really gives us a lot of hope I think as people of faith.

It does.

Here's the interesting thing though.

Anna is I've been a Christian for a, a, a while, let's just put it that way.

Uh, I won't give Matt Crew anymore ammunition.

Um, we were, we were in church singing this morning.

Um, , uh, that song Ancient of Days, uh, which I've, I just love that song

and I've not heard it for a while.

And, um, I turned to my wife Sharon and said, see there, God

calls himself ancient of days.

So, you know, being called ancient is a good thing.

And she just, she just give me that sort of wink and a smile to.

Anyway, One of the things that I've noticed is as Christians, we

hear stuff like this a lot, right?

Um, like, uh, if I draw near to God, I'll start to see and start to see the

problem through his eyes rather than mine.

It, it, it changes, you know, my perspective, I can reframe it and,

and we can talk, we can talk about all these things, which is great.

But the reality of it is, we've heard the talk, but when it, when push comes

to shove, quite often we don't do it.

Do,you know what I mean?

And it's, it's that kind of, I know to do this stuff, but

for some reason I don't do it.

And I don't, I don't quite know what year they go.

Matt's calling me the other ancient of days in the comments.

Thanks Matt.

Um, so how, how do you do that?

How have you done that, I guess, and I guess other times when you've not done

that and you've do you know what I mean?

You've sort of paid the price a little bit, I guess.

Yeah, I think.

I think it, yeah, there's definitely times where I've forgotten to do it or I know

to do it, but I'm just in a bit of a huff with God cuz life doesn't look the way I

want it to, if I'm honest, or you know, I'm just being totally honest or, Or just

like I'm tired and I can't be bothered.

I know I should open my Bible.

I'm just gonna binge Netflix, you know, shows instead.

I think we've all done that.

If we're honest

yeah.

Totally.

Mm-hmm.

I think the way our world is now, it's so easy to consume passively, isn't it?

And distract yourself from difficulty rather than that actually

Yeah.

actually turn to god and to the one who's gonna change anything

or able to change anything.

Um, and even if your circumstances don't change, god is able to

change you and change your heart.

And your perspective.

And you know, I certainly know I've never really, maybe I felt momentarily

better after I've watched a good comedy, but I've never really.

You know, I know no amount of Netflix, watch Netflix watching has, or any

other streaming channel for that matter, we're not sponsored by Netflix.

Um, you know, it's not that, none of that has ever really changed my perspective or

Mm,

changed my, been a solution.

It's just a short term sort of escapism, isn't it?

really?

And I think that can be my tendency that I'm just gonna switch off or

escape for a few hours, but actually, , the problem's still there when you,

you know, turn it off again, so.

Yeah.

I, I think that has been a tendency sometimes, but on a good

day when I'm doing life better

and doing this stuff well then, yeah, it looks like making,

it just looks like a choice.

It looks like a choice to, go and spend a half an hour on my Bible rather than

watching Netflix or, you know, to listen to that Christian podcast, rather than

just switching on, you know, the news.

Being consuming even more negativity or whatever.

So yeah, to me it's actually quite often those small choices, but they can be quite

difficult to make when you are already tired, burnt out, feeling down, like

it is a real choice I think sometimes.

It is, and this is actually where I've found, um, John's comments

about being committed to community.

Um, actually that's where life can make a big difference.

So, Um, if you are isolated, if you just isolate yourself, then yes.

it.

I think it's easy to binge watch Netflix, right?

It just genuinely is and distract yourself.

And we're, I think we're masters in the culture at the moment of

distracting ourselves and not actually thinking of the problem because

that requires something of us.

And we don't, we don't want to give something.

We just, we don't want responsibility.

We want someone else to solve it.

And so we'll just binge watch Netflix.

Um, and, and we, and we see that a lot, but I.

I think this idea of community is great because the thing that I love

about the church, when I have been in those situations, um, there have been

people around me that have gone Matt.

Dude, come on.

Uh, you know, lift up your countenance.

Uh, as we like to say.

Um, let's pray.

Let's trust God.

Let's, let's understand God's perspective on this.

Let me help you with your faith in this.

That actually God's still God, he's still on the throne.

Um, going to church, hearing a talk, hearing a sermon, and you know,

you've always done You've done it.

I've done it.

You've gone to church in years, gone.

It's.

The angels of Heaven prepared this message just for me.

I just, I just needed to, to hear this, right?

And so there's just something about getting together with other

Christians that can really help motivate you and build you up.

And so, whilst I'm on this particular vein, uh, before Matt

Crew jumps in on the comments.

Uh, if you, uh, would like to join us on a Wednesday evening, uh,

join us in our online community.

Uh, we have, um, uh, what's the software called?

Zoom.

That's the word I'm looking for.

Uh, we just meet up on Zoom, we catch up, we pray for one another.

We share what's going on in life.

Uh, if you would like to join into that, um, just tell us.

It's the website www.crowd.church or reach out to us on social media and

we'll send you the uh, the link, the zoom link, um, so that you can come and

join us because community is a powerful thing and just having people around

you, uh, is, is such a, is such a joy and, and can be super, super helpful.

So, yeah.

because we do know what to do, but we don't always do it, and it's the friends

around us actually, um, that that can

help us.

And it's, and it's having these friends.

Cause it's one thing to have friends, isn't it?

Like, um, and people that care about you around you, but actually

having people around you, like a community of the believers, like you

called it a fellowship for, I think.

And, um, it, that is a slightly different beast because actually they're the people

that will speak God's truth to you.

When you are struggling to believe those truths or when you're struggling

to hold onto hope, when things seem really hard and bleak, they're the

people that will speak hope into your life and remind you of God's promises

and truth and um, and they're the people that will pray for you when you've

got nothing left inside of yourself perhaps, you know, can't pray about

something anymore for yourself, you know?

I've had times where I'm like, I just can't pray about this anymore.

I'm so defeated.

and friends have got around me and prayed.

for me and with me, and stood stood alongside me in that season.

And that is really powerful.

So Yeah.

It's, it's, I'm a big, I'm a big believer in community.

A big fan.

It's, uh, they say, don't, the Christianity or faith is not a solo sport.

This is a team game.

You you know, this is a beautiful thing about Christianity.

Um, I'm aware, Uh, Mrs.

Kettle, we've not even got onto our second question yet.

Uh, that's fine.

That's okay.

Um, second pinned question.

Uh, Nicola says that she's been going through quite a tough time lately,

and this talk has helped a lot, which is great um, thanks for sharing that.

Uh, nicola.

I appreciate that.

Um, if someone is going through a, a tough time, you know, they're watching

this and they've kind of got, um, You know, they're envisioned, I suppose.

Um, or there's a, there's a glimmer of hope that actually God's god's

there and God's good, and they can actually weather the crisis.

where do you start?

Um,

Sorry to slam that one on you?

I just,

I know.

Small question.

I mean, I think, I think you've, I think you've already said it in a way.

I mean, I mean, you.

I think a good place to start is talking to some other people of faith, like

whether that's linking into the crowd Church thing on the Wednesday, or

just, you know, hitting us up in the week and chatting someone one-on-one.

Um, and just saying like, I wanna dig into this a bit further, or

I want someone to pray for me.

Or you've got other friends around you who are, you know, um, Christians.

You could chat to them I just think.

, yeah.

Sort of doing, doing this in practice, like sharing that and reaching out

some of the Christians who will stand with you and pray for you

as a really good place to start.

I think obviously you can do it directly, like we will have a.

You know, direct line to God as well.

So open your Bible.

You know, just cry out to God right where you are at home.

But I just think there's something really valuable about having other

people stand with you if you're struggling, is really helpful.

Yeah, it is.

Because sometimes, Um, God will change your circumstances today.

Sometimes, most of the time God delivers through, God

delivers us through something.

Uh, and that's not always a quick process.

So, um, you know, people around you get you in for the long haul.

Uh, and I'm noticing here in the comments, Anna is talking about, uh,

she's gonna miss church on Sundays.

Yeah, yeah.

yeah.

uh, for those of you watching going, uh, Anna, uh, Anna's pregnant

with twins, uh, and so on Friday the twins arrive, do pray for.

Anna.

Uh, I think it's very, very exciting.

Uh, we had dinner together the day, uh, at a, at a leader's event.

Anna and I, um, yes, I, I, I all, every blessing to you.

Uh, lovely.

And, um, yeah, praying for the safe delivery and, um, You're gonna be a

great mom, There's no doubt, right?

So I'm looking forward to seeing what happens there.

But do, uh, pray for Anna on Friday?

Uh, is, uh, if you're following on, following along in the comments.

um, so Matt's put here what's happening next week.

That's a very good question.

Do you remember Miss Anna, what is happening next week?

Uh, do I remember what's happening next week?

Does my face look like I remember?

Matt, did you even tell me what's happening next week?

I did.

I did tell you what's happening next wee.

cuz next week, uh, is Tony Uddin.

He's with us.

He's been on Crowd Church before.

a Really good friend of mine.

Um, Tony, uh, he's a pastor of Tower Hamlets Community

Church, Church down in London.

Um, and he's gonna be looking actually at the topic of church,

which is the next passage of acts that we're gonna go through.

What does a vibrant, thriving, growing church actually look like?

it's not necessarily what we think it is, uh, here in the west.

So, uh, he's looking at that, uh, next week.

So do come and join us with that.

Um, and if you are in London, do check out Tower Hamlet's Community Church.

It's a great church with Tony.

In fact, I'm, I'm gonna be down in London.

I'll be traveling back next Sunday morning from London for Tony's 50th.

It's his 50th birthday, uh, next week.

So, uh, yeah, it's gonna be good fun with that.

So we've got that next week.

Its your age.

as well, Matt.

Uh, yeah.

Well, I, i, I'm, uh, I'm Julie's in London.

I will try, we'll try.

Yeah, definitely check out to when you go there, Julie.

Uh, tell Tony I said hi.

Uh, and, um, if you remind me, I'll show you some really embarrassing photos

from when he was at university, but.

Another day.

Another day.

Um, but yeah, we, um, uh, we go back a long way.

Tony and I, uh, will do great.

Uh, yeah, we go back a long way, Tony and I, and so I'm, I might be

approaching 50, I might be more, more on that in April, I think will be

the, uh, the answer to that question.

So yes.

Anna, uh, I feel blessed with such a community.

That's awesome.

You know, I, I dunno why I don't do this every week.

I can actually add, I've, I've found this little button, which

lets me put comments, uh, on there.

Um, so yes.

Brilliant.

Julie's put on there yeah, will do.

Awesome.

Well done, Julie.

Um, uh, Matt's remain blessed everyone, I think Matt puts that in every week.

Do you just like, copy and paste that Matt it's just like, and

why not technology the way it is?

Uh, listen, thank you so much for joining us on Crowd Church.

It's been absolutely brilliant to be with you.

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us.

Anything else from you, miss Anna, before we go to the final video?

I don't think so.

Just to say I've really enjoyed tonight, I thought it was a great talk and I'll

probably listen back again cause I think there's so much good content in that.

So yeah, thanks everyone for being here

Lots of notes, lots and lots of notes, uh, with my, I dunno if I can read

them, but I've got lots of notes.

Uh, yeah, it's been brilliant.

Absolutely.

So God bless you.

Have a fantastic week.

I'll see you next week.

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