Sermon
Session 4
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Transcript
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Be very careful then how you live, not as unwise but as wise,
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making the most of every opportunity because the days are evil.
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Therefore, do not be foolish but understand what the Lord's will is.
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Do not get drunk on wine which leads to debauchery.
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Instead, be filled with the Spirit.
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Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs.
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Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord.
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Always giving thanks to God the Father for everything.
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In the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.
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Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
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It's good together again tonight.
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We've been working through the book of Ephesians
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and I'm going to suggest that I'm going to try to set the bar really, really high.
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Not in my preaching but in terms of what the Word hopefully will achieve tonight.
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If you're feeling tired and weak and besieged and spiritually dry,
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perhaps what you need in your life, in your spiritual life, is to be Spirit-filled.
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And that's what we're going to be talking about tonight.
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I'm hoping that we'll walk away tonight having a clear understanding
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of what it means to be Spirit-filled.
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And as a result, walk away from tonight being Spirit-filled.
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We have seen in the book of Ephesians the work of the Father
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who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing.
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We have considered the work of the Son.
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It is in Him that we receive the blessing from the Father.
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And tonight, or this afternoon, we'll consider the work of the Spirit
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to complete the picture of the work of God for us.
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But firstly, one of the great things in spending the weekend on a book
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is that we can actually see the coherency, the argument, the flow of the book.
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But just so that if you can indulge me,
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I'll repeat a little bit of the flow of the book.
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Paul often writes from the indicative to the imperative,
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if you know what I mean.
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Indiegative means what happens, what has happened.
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Imperative is what you must do.
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It's sort of like command.
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And often in the way Paul writes,
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the first half of his writing would be in the indicative,
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what God has done, He's blessed us,
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He's reconciled us in Jesus,
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He's caused us to be born again,
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and He's made us into a new humanity,
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the indicative.
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Once He's established the indicative,
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He moves on to the imperative,
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the implications of the indicative.
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Since God has done all this,
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what does it mean for us?
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This is where the rubber hits the road.
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And the imperative starts for us in the book of Ephesians,
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Ephesians 4.1,
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which we looked at this morning.
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But it might be worthwhile to cast our eyes to there again.
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If you have your Bibles in front of you,
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it will be good to open them to Ephesians 4.1.
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So having seen what God has done,
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He then turns to,
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well, what does it mean for us,
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to those of us who have been born again,
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reconciled to God?
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Chapter 4, verse 1.
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As a prisoner for the Lord,
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then, I urge you to live a life
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worthy of the calling you have received.
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The indicative is,
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you have been called,
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you've been made new,
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so live like it.
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The reality is,
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you've been changed as people live.
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So start,
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chapter 4, verse 1,
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is almost a heading for the rest of the book.
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Chapter 4 to 6.
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We are to walk in newness of life.
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We are to walk in holiness.
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That is, in a way that pleases God,
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and in a way that is dramatically opposed
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to the life that we used to live,
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and to those around us.
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4.17.
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Well, what does that life of holiness look like?
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Chapter 5 is the beginning of it.
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Chapter 5, verse 1 and 2.
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Be imitators of God, therefore,
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as dearly beloved children.
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So we are to live like God.
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We're to imitate God.
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Well, what does that mean?
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Are we to be tall like God?
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To be strong like God?
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No.
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No.
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In verse 2, he explains.
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To imitate God,
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to live a new life in Christ,
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means to live a life of love.
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God is love.
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So his children are, therefore,
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to love.
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Just as Christ loved us
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and gave himself for us
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as a fragrant offering and sacrifice.
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So this is what...
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And the rest of the chapter is an exposition,
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is an explanation of what a life of love look like.
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There will not be any sexual immorality.
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Sexual immorality is profoundly unloving.
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The children of God are to be like God.
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And verse 8,
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it means that we walk in the light,
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not in darkness.
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And verse 15 to 21,
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which is our passage,
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continues in that instruction,
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in the imperative.
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And he used the word living or walking.
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And let's have a look at that again.
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In light of what God has done,
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verse 15 of chapter 5,
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we are to be careful
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how we are to live,
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not as unwise,
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but as wise.
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The children of God
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live lives of love
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and in the light,
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but we are also
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to live wisely.
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Why is that?
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And he
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gives us the motivation.
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If you look a little bit early
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in the passage that we looked at today,
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starting in verse 8,
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this is what he says.
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For once you were...
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Sorry.
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For you were once darkness,
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but now you are light in the Lord.
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Live as children of light.
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For the fruit of light consists
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in all goodness,
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righteousness,
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and truth.
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And find out what pleases the Lord.
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Have nothing to do with
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the fruitless deeds of darkness,
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but rather expose them.
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For it is shameful
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even to mention
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what the disobedient do
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in secret.
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But everything exposed
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by the light becomes visible.
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For it is light
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that makes everything visible.
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Et cetera, et cetera.
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There is an exposure
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of the darkness.
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We are to be part
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of the process
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of exposing that darkness.
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A little bit earlier on
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in chapter 5,
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particularly in verses 5 and 6,
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it talks about
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the judgment of God.
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In fact,
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that provides the motivation
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for the wise living.
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If the judgment of God
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is about to come,
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if the axe is about to fall,
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we are to live wisely.
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Okay?
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The insanity,
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sorry,
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the definition of insanity
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supposedly,
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according to Einstein,
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is to do the same thing
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over and over again
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and to expect
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different results.
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You know,
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that's insane.
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That is,
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that is what a fool
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would do.
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The wise person learns,
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adopt,
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adept.
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You see,
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you make a mistake
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and you change your behavior
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so that a different outcome
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would ensue.
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Fools,
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on the other hand,
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they don't learn.
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That's what,
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by definition,
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a foolish person.
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And the wise
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understands the future.
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The wise understands
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that the judgment of God
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is about to come
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on the unrighteousness
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and the wickedness
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on our world.
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And as a result,
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they learn.
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And when they learn,
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verse 16,
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they make the most
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of their time.
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They make the most
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of every opportunity
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because they know
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that the days are evil.
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Literally,
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they redeem the time.
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They are careful
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how they invest
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the time
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that they have.
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I don't know
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whether you have thought
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about how much time
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that you have.
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This could be
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your last night
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on earth.
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Could be.
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What would you want
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to be investing
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your time in?
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And I'm glad
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that you're here
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investing your time
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here rather than
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at home watching TV,
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playing computer game,
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or being selfish,
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shopping,
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gorging yourself
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with food.
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We are here
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making the most
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of our time.
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That's what it means
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to be wise
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in light of
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the judgment
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of God.
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Verse 17,
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therefore,
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don't be foolish,
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but understand
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what the Lord's
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will is.
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It's a
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different way
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of saying
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the same thing.
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Don't be an idiot.
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Don't be a fool.
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Live wisely,
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and living wisely,
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redeeming the time
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means to find out
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what the will
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of the Lord is.
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Verses 18 to 21.
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Don't get drunk
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on wine,
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which leads
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to debauchery.
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Instead,
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be filled
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with the Spirit.
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Speak to one another
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with psalms,
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hymns,
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and spiritual songs.
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Sing and make music
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in your heart
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to the Lord,
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always giving thanks
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to God the Father
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before everything
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in the name
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of our Lord Jesus Christ.
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Submit to one another
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out of reverence
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for Christ.
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The reason why
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I went on
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about living wisely
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and not being a fool
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in light of God's judgment
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is that it kind of ties in
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with the bit
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I really want to focus on,
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being Spirit-filled.
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For 18 to 21,
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I believe,
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is not a new command.
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In fact,
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it's an explanation
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of what it means
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to be wise.
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To be wise,
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to find out
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the will of God,
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is to be filled
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with the Spirit.
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The different ways
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of saying the same thing.
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Of course,
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it begs the question,
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what does it mean
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to be filled
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with the Spirit?
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I don't know
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what you think
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it means.
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If you were to take
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the English literally,
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it's, you know,
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you are a vessel
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and the Spirit
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fills you up.
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And when you're drained
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of the Spirit,
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you need another
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fresh filling
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of the Spirit.
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If you take
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the metaphor literally,
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is that what it means?
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Firstly,
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if we were to understand
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the phrase
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being filled
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with the Spirit,
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you see immediately
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the context
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is a contrast.
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If you look at 18 again,
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it says,
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don't get drunk on wine.
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Instead,
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be filled
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with the Spirit.
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Spirit is intended
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to be a contrast.
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There's the drinking,
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being drunk,
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and being filled
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with the Spirit.
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If you can imagine,
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it's literally,
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instead of being filled
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with wine,
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Spirit,
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be filled
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with the Spirit.
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So that's actually
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the contrast.
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Don't be filled
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by Spirit,
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but be filled
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with the Spirit.
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It's not that
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I believe
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the Ephesian church
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had a problem
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with drunkenness,
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not like
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the typical
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Aussie
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sort of situation.
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We don't know,
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but I don't think
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that's the case.
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But rather,
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drunkenness
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and all that
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entails
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kind of epitomizes
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the ways
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of darkness.
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If you want
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to picture
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a world
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without God
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not knowing
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what the future
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will hold
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in response
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to the evil
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of the day
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where there is
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no hope
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and no future,
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what would
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that world
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look like?
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It would look
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like the city
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of Sydney
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on a Saturday
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night.
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It would look
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like
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service paradise
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after the HSC.
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Where there is
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no future
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and you want
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to forget
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the past,
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you get
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drunk.
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You fill
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yourself
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with spirit.
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When you
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experience
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the evil
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of the day,
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a boring
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marriage,
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unruly
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kids,
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you seek
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to escape.
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They escape
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the evil
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of the day
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and so you
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gorge yourself
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with spirit.
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That leads
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to debauchery.
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And Paul
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says,
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in light
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of the coming
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judgment
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of God,
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we are
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to live
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wisely.
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To find
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the will
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of God,
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instead of
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being filled
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with spirit,
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we are
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to fill
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with the
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spirit.
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Actually,
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again,
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when we ask
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the question,
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what does it
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mean to be
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filled with
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the spirit?
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There is a
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little bit
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of a tricky
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thing and
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it is a
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matter of
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translation.
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If you look
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at verse
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18,
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the command,
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and it is a
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command,
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it is an
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imperative,
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it says,
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be filled
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with the
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spirit.
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You see
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the little
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word,
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and they're
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always the
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important
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words,
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the little
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word,
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the
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preposition.
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Does anyone
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know what a
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preposition is?
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Of course,
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Leslie is going
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to explain it
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to me,
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isn't she?
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Libby,
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what's the
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preposition?
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You should
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leave a
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sentence with.
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Thank you.
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Yes.
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The little
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linking words
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that you get
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in sentences,
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like by,
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off,
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with,
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and in
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this case,
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we are
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told to
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be filled
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with the
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spirit.
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There is
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another way
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of translating
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that preposition,
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and that is
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not be
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filled with
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the spirit,
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the same
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word that
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in English
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is translated
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with,
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could be
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translated
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by,
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which gives
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us a very
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different
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picture.
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So the
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command is
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not so much
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to be filled
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with the
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spirit,
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that is the
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content of
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the filling,
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it's the
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spirit,
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but rather
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being filled
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by the
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spirit.
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In other
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words,
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the subject,
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the one
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who does
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the filling,
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is the
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spirit.
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Very
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different,
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isn't it?
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If we
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are to
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translate that
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sentence
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by,
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the
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proposition
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is by,
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what this
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is saying
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is,
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ask the
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spirit to
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fill you.
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The spirit
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does the
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filling,
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we are the
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ones being
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filled.
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Of course,
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if the
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spirit does
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the filling,
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rather than
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we're being
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filled with
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the spirit,
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that is
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the content
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of the
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filling,
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what are
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we being
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filled
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with?
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the
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book of
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Ephesians,
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if you
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look through
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it,
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uses
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language of
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filling,
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or fullness,
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quite a
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bit.
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If you go
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back to
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chapter 1,
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verse 23,
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if you
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cast your
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eyes,
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sorry,
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I'm flicking
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my iPad,
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1,
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23,
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or 22,
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23,
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the purposes
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of God
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for the
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universe
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in history,
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and he
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put all
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things under
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his feet
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and gave
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him as
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head over
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all things
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to the
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church,
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which is
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his body,
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the fullness
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of him
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who fills
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all in
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all.
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So I'm
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reading from
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the ESV.
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In other
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words,
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talking about
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the church,
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the church
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has the
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fullness
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of Christ.
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So the
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church,
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as it were,
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us are
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filled with
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Christ.
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1,
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19.
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No,
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not
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1,
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19,
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sorry.
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2,
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9.
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Let's
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try 2,
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9.
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That's not
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right as
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well,
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2.
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2,
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19,
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is it?
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2,
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19,
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is it?
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2,
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19,
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is it?
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2,
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19,
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19,
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19,
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19,
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19,
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19,
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19,
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19,
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19,
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20,
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this is a
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problem when
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you write
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down references
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and,
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yes.
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Well,
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the reference
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I was looking
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for is
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Jesus having
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the fullness
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of God.
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But as
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Mario was
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saying,
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Paul prays
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that the
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Ephesians
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might be
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fulfilled
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to the
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fullness
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of God.
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So two
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slightly
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different
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pictures.
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On the
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one hand,
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the church
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is fulfilled
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with the
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fullness
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of Christ,
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1,
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23.
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On the
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other hand,
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Paul is
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asking that
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they might
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be filled
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to the
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fullness
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of God
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as well
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too.
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So we're
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filled,
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but we're
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being
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filled.
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4,
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13,
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the goal
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of,
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so let me
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just double
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check to make
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sure that
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that's actually
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right.
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4,
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13,
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starting from
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11,
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and he
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that is
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the risen
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Christ
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gave the
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apostles,
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the prophets,
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the evangelists,
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the shepherds,
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and teachers
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to equip the
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saints for
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the work of
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ministry,
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for building
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up the
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body of
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Christ,
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until we
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all attain
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the unity
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of the
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faith and
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the knowledge
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of the
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Son of
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God,
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to mature
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manhood,
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to the
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measure of
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the stature
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of the
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fullness
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of Christ.
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The
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direction
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of the
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growth of
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the church
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is to
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the fullness
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of Christ.
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We are
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filled with
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the fullness
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of Christ
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and we're
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being filled.
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That's
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where we're
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traveling.
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That is
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the goal
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of the
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church.
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And 5,
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18,
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what are
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we to
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be filled
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with?
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And I
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take it,
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if Paul's
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being consistent
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at that
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point,
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what we're
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asking the
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Spirit to
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do is
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to fill
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us with
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the fullness
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of God
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and of
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Christ.
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In other
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words,
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the Spirit
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of God
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is at
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work to
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transform
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us
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into the
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likeness
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of the
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Father
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and the
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Son.
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We are
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to be
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filled
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by the
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Spirit.
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We are
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to walk
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in step
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with the
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Spirit,
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to be
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subject
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to the
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control
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of the
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Spirit
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so that
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we'll
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continue
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to be,
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to keep
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growing
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into the
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likeness
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of Christ,
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be imitators
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of God,
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Paul says.
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In other
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words,
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we are
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to,
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and this
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is a
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parallel
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passage
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from
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Colossians,
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we are
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to let
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Christ's
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Word
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rule in
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our
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lives.
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And I
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want to
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demonstrate
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that once
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again with
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the contrast
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that Paul
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sets up.
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Don't be
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filled
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by Spirit,
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but be
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filled
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by the
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Spirit.
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What
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happens
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when people
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are filled
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by
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grog?
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Again,
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cast your
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mind to
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Schoolies
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Week,
-
which is
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last week,
-
right?
-
I don't
-
know.
-
It's still
-
on.
-
When,
-
you know,
-
imagine all
-
the teenagers
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up in
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Queensland,
-
and they're
-
filled by
-
Spirit,
-
what happens?
-
They get
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blurry-eyed,
-
they stagger,
-
they lose
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control.
-
They lose
-
control of
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themselves,
-
and they do
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all sorts of
-
things.
-
Instead of
-
controlling
-
themselves,
-
what controls
-
them?
-
It's the
-
alcohol,
-
isn't it?
-
When you're
-
filled by
-
Spirit,
-
the Spirit
-
takes control.
-
The contrast
-
is don't be
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filled,
-
don't be
-
controlled
-
by alcohol,
-
but rather
-
be controlled
-
by the
-
Spirit of
-
God.
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walk in
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step with
-
the Spirit,
-
obey the
-
Word of
-
God,
-
as the
-
Spirit makes
-
you more
-
and more
-
like Christ.
-
Our days
-
are evil.
-
The judgment
-
of God
-
is about
-
to fall.
-
The axe
-
is at the
-
foot of
-
the tree.
-
You do
-
not escape
-
the evil
-
of our
-
day,
-
but we,
-
as the
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people of
-
God,
-
are to
-
confront
-
the evil
-
of our
-
day.
-
We do
-
not confront
-
the evil
-
by losing
-
control,
-
by running
-
away from
-
it,
-
but we
-
confront
-
the evil
-
of our
-
day by
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walking
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in step
-
with the
-
Spirit.
-
And look
-
at the
-
consequence.
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Being drunk,
-
being controlled
-
by Spirit,
-
leads to
-
debauchery.
-
But being
-
filled by
-
the Spirit,
-
controlled by
-
the Spirit,
-
leads to
-
what?
-
verse 19.
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Sorry,
-
flicking
-
through.
-
If you're
-
filled by
-
the Spirit,
-
it affects
-
your...
-
Okay?
-
it changes
-
the way
-
you
-
speak.
-
We are
-
to...
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If you
-
are filled
-
by the
-
Spirit,
-
you will
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then speak
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to one
-
another with
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psalms,
-
hymns,
-
and spiritual
-
songs.
-
You will
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sing and
-
make music
-
in your
-
heart to
-
the Lord.
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You will
-
always be
-
giving thanks
-
to God
-
the Father
-
for everything
-
in the
-
name of
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our
-
Lord Jesus.
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And if
-
you're
-
filled by
-
the Spirit,
-
you will
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be
-
submissive.
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Submit to
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one another
-
out of
-
reference
-
for Christ.
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Singing.
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If you're
-
a Spirit-filled
-
Christian,
-
filled by
-
the Spirit,
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you will
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sing.
-
By the way,
-
in verse
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19,
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it's not
-
talking about
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two different
-
activities.
-
There are
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two sentences
-
there,
-
two clauses.
-
It's not
-
talking about...
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But the
-
same activity
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from two
-
perspectives.
-
One
-
perspective is
-
a horizontal
-
dimension.
-
When you
-
come to
-
church to
-
sing,
-
you are
-
singing to
-
one another.
-
one another.
-
That's what
-
happens.
-
You edify,
-
you instruct,
-
you exhort,
-
you admonish
-
one another
-
with your
-
singing.
-
Did you
-
realise that?
-
When you
-
were singing
-
those songs,
-
one of the
-
objects of
-
your singing
-
is actually
-
me and
-
you and
-
each other.
-
You are to
-
sing to
-
one another.
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You are to
-
speak to
-
one another
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in those
-
songs,
-
to encourage
-
them.
-
And I
-
wonder whether
-
this is what
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you have in
-
mind when
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you sing.
-
When you
-
sing to
-
one another,
-
whether you
-
have in
-
mind what
-
you are
-
encouraging
-
them with.
-
But it's
-
not just
-
singing to
-
one another.
-
The second
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half of the
-
verse talks
-
about us
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singing to
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the Lord
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Jesus Christ.
-
There isn't
-
just a
-
horizontal
-
dimension to
-
our singing.
-
There is a
-
vertical
-
dimension.
-
we are to
-
praise the
-
Lord with
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our whole
-
being,
-
with joyfulness,
-
with not
-
like, if I
-
dare say, and
-
this is dangerous
-
ground at which
-
I tread, not
-
like the
-
half-hearted
-
Anglo-Saxon
-
stuff, you
-
know, hands
-
by the side,
-
you know.
-
Perhaps this is
-
something that we
-
can learn from
-
our charismatic
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brothers and
-
sisters.
-
When we sing,
-
we join our
-
hearts to the
-
Lord, you
-
know, it's
-
with our
-
whole being.
-
When we
-
are filled
-
by the
-
Spirit, we
-
are to sing
-
wholeheartedly.
-
We are to
-
sing lovingly,
-
lovingly.
-
We are to
-
think of the
-
other person.
-
We are to
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edify them, to
-
instruct them,
-
and in this
-
way we sing
-
praise to the
-
Lord.
-
The second
-
thing that
-
happens is we
-
will be filled
-
with thanksgiving.
-
Christians will
-
not only sing,
-
but we will
-
give thanks to
-
the Lord for
-
the, you
-
know, that
-
ought to, that
-
really ought to,
-
and it wouldn't
-
be hard for us
-
to be marked out
-
to be different
-
to the rest of
-
the world.
-
There's someone
-
I, well, we
-
are among
-
friends.
-
I don't know,
-
is this going to
-
go public?
-
Anyway, okay.
-
Well, there is a
-
guy that I
-
know, and
-
every time I
-
see him on a
-
Friday morning,
-
nothing but
-
complain.
-
Every single
-
bit, you know,
-
the surf is
-
bad, the
-
coffee is bad,
-
this is bad,
-
you know, this
-
is the typical
-
Aussie and
-
Chinese in
-
Australia.
-
Unthankfulness.
-
Nothing is
-
good enough.
-
Just grumbling
-
all the time.
-
And if you
-
look at
-
Romans 1.18,
-
one of the
-
mark of the
-
depraved, the
-
wicked, is
-
their unthankfulness.
-
And yet one of
-
the, do you
-
remember Jesus
-
healing the
-
ten lepers?
-
Only one came
-
back to do
-
what?
-
The others
-
were unthankful.
-
Thankfulness
-
marks the
-
Christian out to
-
be different
-
to everybody
-
else.
-
Thankfulness
-
permeates our
-
being and
-
are obvious
-
to others.
-
But something
-
rather disturbing
-
here when you
-
look at
-
thankfulness.
-
Verse 20,
-
always giving
-
thanks to
-
God the
-
Father for
-
everything.
-
Very
-
inclusive sort
-
of language,
-
always, we
-
get that.
-
So, but for
-
everything?
-
Does Paul
-
really mean
-
that?
-
We are to
-
give thanks for
-
everything?
-
Sure, we can
-
give thanks for
-
the good stuff,
-
healthy children,
-
good marriage,
-
sunshine.
-
But are we, is
-
Paul saying that
-
we are to give
-
thanks when we
-
break our leg?
-
You know,
-
somebody trips
-
over and we
-
say, thank God
-
for that, for
-
unemployment, for
-
unanswered prayers,
-
periods of doubt
-
and depression,
-
genocide, for
-
evil?
-
Are we to give
-
thanks for
-
those things?
-
Yes, in all
-
things, we are
-
told by Paul in
-
Romans 8, God
-
worked for the
-
good of those
-
who love him and
-
we are to thank
-
him for that.
-
But just to
-
make sure that
-
we are reading
-
this right, the
-
point here is
-
not so much
-
giving thanks to
-
God for the
-
circumstances for
-
which praise is
-
to be offered,
-
rather we are
-
to thank God
-
for the rich
-
blessings he
-
has levished us
-
with in every
-
and each
-
circumstance.
-
This harks
-
back to
-
Ephesians 1
-
where we are
-
told that we
-
are given
-
every spiritual
-
blessing in the
-
heavenly realms.
-
Paul isn't
-
saying that evil
-
is good and
-
God is to be
-
praised, but
-
rather we are
-
to direct our
-
thanks and
-
praise to the
-
source of all
-
things, God
-
the Father
-
who has blessed
-
us in Christ
-
with all
-
things.
-
So if you're
-
thinking, okay,
-
what I really
-
need in terms of
-
fine and belly
-
to keep going
-
as a Christian,
-
then what I
-
would say is
-
you need to
-
be spirit
-
filled, not
-
be filled with
-
the spirit, but
-
by the spirit.
-
If you feel
-
by the spirit,
-
it will change
-
the way you
-
sing.
-
It will change
-
the way you
-
your thankfulness
-
or lack of
-
thankfulness.
-
But lastly, it
-
will change the
-
way you relate
-
to other
-
people.
-
For verse 21
-
tells us that
-
the spirit-filled
-
life is a life
-
of submission.
-
And this is
-
where I'm going
-
to get you to
-
do the work.
-
Because we
-
haven't really
-
programmed in,
-
or that's not
-
my preaching
-
passage, and we're
-
not going to have
-
a chance to
-
look at this
-
tomorrow.
-
So I'm going
-
to get you
-
guys to look
-
at verses
-
22 to
-
chapter 6,
-
1 to
-
9.
-
Okay?
-
With the people
-
around you,
-
and kind of
-
discuss, well,
-
what does
-
spirit-filled
-
Christian
-
relationship
-
look like
-
for you?
-
How would
-
that change
-
Christian
-
marriage?
-
How would
-
it change
-
parent and
-
child relationship?
-
You might want
-
to discuss that
-
with your dad
-
or not.
-
And how would
-
that change
-
your relationship
-
with your
-
master, for
-
those of you
-
who are
-
slaves?
-
That is
-
parents and
-
kids again.
-
Yeah.
-
Okay, so I'll
-
give you, how
-
long do I
-
have, Sam?
-
Whenever.
-
What about
-
five, seven
-
minutes?
-
They're fairly
-
familiar.
-
Turn to the
-
people around
-
you.
-
Have we read
-
through it?
-
Oh, look, I'll
-
give you ten
-
minutes.
-
Five minutes to
-
read through it,
-
and another five
-
minutes just to
-
talk to people
-
around you.
-
It certainly
-
is.
-
It certainly
-
is.
-
It changes the
-
direction.
-
In fact,
-
somebody said
-
that, and
-
I'll throw it
-
up there,
-
marriage is a
-
creation ordinance,
-
so it testifies
-
something about
-
how God has
-
created the
-
universe.
-
But Christian
-
marriages is
-
actually a
-
redemption
-
ordinance.
-
So it
-
actually points
-
to something
-
even better.
-
It testifies,
-
it signals,
-
it shows,
-
it directs to
-
redemption rather
-
than just
-
creation.
-
Just to share
-
another story
-
about marriage
-
as well,
-
too, I told
-
this at one
-
of the
-
weddings.
-
A lady,
-
there was a
-
couple getting
-
married and
-
they were
-
being counselled
-
and one of
-
the sessions
-
that came back
-
to the minister
-
and said,
-
we're calling
-
this off.
-
And the
-
minister said,
-
why are you
-
doing that?
-
And the
-
lady said,
-
look, we
-
were talking
-
about what to
-
do with our
-
finances and
-
we had two
-
accounts and
-
my fiancé wants
-
us to have
-
one account
-
after we get
-
married and I
-
just can't do
-
that.
-
I need to have
-
my own account
-
and my own
-
money.
-
And I don't
-
know what you
-
would say in
-
that instance.
-
business.
-
And so he
-
said to her,
-
look, think
-
of it this
-
way, if you
-
can't trust this
-
man with your
-
money, then
-
maybe you
-
shouldn't be
-
marrying him.
-
Submission has,
-
I think, a lot
-
to do with
-
trust.
-
You're entrusting
-
your future,
-
your well-being
-
to someone
-
into their
-
hand and you
-
can't trust
-
him with your
-
money, then
-
what are you
-
doing entrusting
-
him with your
-
life?
-
And of course
-
to the husband
-
he said,
-
look, she's
-
entrusting her
-
whole being to
-
you, what are
-
you going to
-
do with it?
-
Are you going
-
to abuse her
-
trust?
-
It's a fairly
-
high standard
-
when someone
-
hands their
-
future and
-
their being
-
into your
-
hands.
-
It's a very
-
high standard
-
of care, as
-
it were.
-
Any other?
-
Steve?
-
So in that
-
respect, the
-
outer reverence
-
for Christ
-
is a really
-
important
-
condition, isn't
-
it?
-
Ultimately, we're
-
saying, who are
-
we trusting?
-
Are we just
-
trusting the man
-
or the woman?
-
Ultimately, we're
-
actually trusting
-
God or the
-
Lord Jesus Christ.
-
Do we trust
-
him enough to
-
protect us when
-
we are being in
-
a vulnerable
-
position?
-
Or do we keep
-
thinking that we
-
need to protect
-
ourselves?
-
Do we trust
-
the Lord enough
-
as husbands to
-
love our wives
-
in the same
-
way?
-
Or do we
-
think that we
-
need to protect
-
ourselves as
-
well too?
-
So ultimately,
-
it's actually, who
-
do we really
-
trust?
-
Do we trust the
-
Lord?
-
And that's a
-
high level of
-
trust as well
-
too.
-
Anything on
-
parents and
-
kids?
-
Kids?
-
We're all
-
kids.
-
We're all
-
children.
-
Parents?
-
No?
-
Spirit-filled
-
parenting?
-
Spirit-filled
-
children?
-
Same issues of
-
trust, I think,
-
and submission.
-
Kids are very
-
vulnerable.
-
We're
-
entrusting our
-
well-being to
-
our parents.
-
And I
-
suppose it
-
begs the
-
question, do
-
we really
-
trust the
-
Lord Jesus
-
enough to
-
do that?
-
Okay, being
-
filled by the
-
Spirit of God.
-
We might
-
finish up.
-
It's not, I
-
think we tend
-
to think of
-
Spirit-filled
-
ness as
-
something spooky.
-
You know, when
-
the Spirit
-
fills us, you
-
know, it
-
changes.
-
Well, it
-
does change
-
us, but
-
the type of
-
things that
-
Paul is
-
concerned about
-
is really
-
practical.
-
Spirit-filled
-
Christians are
-
loving husbands,
-
trusting
-
wives,
-
good
-
employees,
-
people who
-
paid a
-
mortgage on
-
time, and
-
things like
-
that.
-
If you
-
want to
-
assess
-
people's
-
spirituality,
-
humanity,
-
don't, you
-
know, judge
-
them or
-
us or
-
yourself by,
-
you know,
-
like things
-
that are
-
spooky or
-
mystical or
-
whatever it
-
is.
-
Look at how
-
they relate to
-
their husbands
-
and wives and
-
kids and
-
parents and
-
people at
-
work.
-
You know,
-
this is where
-
the rubber
-
hits the
-
road.
-
Well, how
-
does the
-
Spirit work
-
in
-
filling us?
-
Paul says,
-
I think this
-
is from
-
Steve's
-
passage.
-
If I can
-
take you back
-
to chapter
-
3, and
-
this is where
-
I'll finish.
-
Chapter 3,
-
verse 14.
-
For this
-
reason, I
-
bar my
-
knees before
-
the Father,
-
from whom
-
every family
-
in heaven
-
and on
-
earth is
-
named,
-
that according
-
to the
-
riches of
-
his glory,
-
he may
-
grant you
-
to be
-
strengthened
-
with power
-
through his
-
Spirit in
-
your inner
-
being, so
-
that Christ
-
may dwell
-
in your
-
hearts through
-
faith, that
-
you, being
-
rooted and
-
grounded in
-
life, may
-
have strength
-
to comprehend
-
with all the
-
saints what
-
is the
-
breadth and
-
length and
-
height and
-
depth, and
-
to know the
-
love of Christ
-
that surpasses
-
knowledge, that
-
you may be
-
filled with
-
all the
-
fullness of
-
God.
-
The way
-
the Spirit
-
works is, if
-
you ask
-
him, he
-
will give
-
you power,
-
and if
-
you're tired,
-
and if
-
you're dry,
-
what you
-
need to
-
do is to
-
go to
-
God right
-
now and
-
ask him
-
for power.
-
It's a very
-
evangelical thing
-
to say, by
-
the way.
-
Ask him for
-
power, the
-
spiritual power,
-
and when you
-
have that power,
-
do you know what
-
will happen?
-
To lead you to
-
this Spirit-filled
-
life?
-
He will give you
-
understanding
-
of the love
-
of God.
-
God.
-
That's what the
-
Spirit will
-
do.
-
The Spirit
-
will strengthen
-
you in the
-
inside by
-
reminding you,
-
explaining to
-
you in ways
-
that you
-
cannot imagine
-
how much
-
God loves
-
you.
-
What you
-
need to know
-
is the love
-
of God to
-
live the type
-
of life that
-
Paul is
-
talking about.
-
Let's
-
give
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any
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thought
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about
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Hal
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and
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we
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have
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a