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with true leadership
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I'm glad when I was being looked at to lead St. Paul's about five and a half years ago
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that I didn't get a job description like this one shoved under my nose.
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It reads, First Presbyterian Church of Warrington, South Carolina,
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is yet again seeking a senior minister.
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Duties include all preaching and teaching responsibilities for Sunday morning
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and Sunday nights with exegetical sermons and average length of 45 minutes.
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Pastor will also be responsible for all teaching on Wednesday nights
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and the adult Sunday school class.
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In addition, we are currently without a youth pastor
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and so the pastor will also be temporarily responsible
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for all youth activities, Bible studies and fellowships.
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The pastor is also responsible for all hospital, shut-in, sick visitations for members,
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former members, close friends of either,
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as well as any family of the stated by a relationship,
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a fourth cousin, twice removed or better.
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The pastor will be expected to plan and lead an annual mission trip
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and coordinate all funding activities for the trip.
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The pastor will be available to 24 hours, seven days a week
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to talk with any member of the congregation
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or the above stated persons either face-to-face or on the phone.
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Furthermore, the pastor will be held personally,
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directly responsible for the spiritual wellbeing of every member of the congregation.
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The pastor will be expected to attend all sporting,
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special sporting events of the youth of the church,
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including all homecoming events, chaperoning the high school dance,
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prom night, playoffs and any chair leading competitions or functions.
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Furthermore, we highly encourage ministry to persons in the community at large
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beyond ministry within the church,
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so far as it does not interfere with the immediate responsibilities
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to the above stated persons associated with our congregation.
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The pastor will also be present at all session meetings,
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deacadent meetings and all committee meetings.
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The pastor will also be available for all funerals and weddings
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of any of the above stated person,
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regardless of when it occurs or what personal circumstances
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might be going in his life or in his family's life.
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Duties are expected to take approximately 40 hours a week.
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Inquiries may be made to ruling elder Dave Wellington Sr.,
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ruling elder Dave Wellington Jr. or ruling elder Dave Wellington III.
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In fact, if a job description of that was put under my nose,
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I wouldn't be here.
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I'm pretty sure that that's a joke.
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I mean, I hope it's a joke.
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But given the response of some people who made online to that so-called ad,
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I'm not sure.
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There are a number of pastors out there who resonated quite painfully
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with that job description.
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That is, they were burnt out with expectations.
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Now, if you were writing the requirements of the Christian leader,
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what would you include?
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What would you put down?
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Not sure?
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1 Corinthians 4 helps us.
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It helps us to see what Christian leadership is all about
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and some of the things we should look for in our leadership.
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You see, the church at Corinth was like the Olympics,
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something like ice skating competition at the Olympics,
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where the church is sitting over there in the judges' panel,
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and based on the performance of their leaders,
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they held up their scorecards.
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And it was based purely on personal preferences,
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not on anything else,
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but on personal preferences and expectations.
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There was an unhealthy habit of different groups in the church
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associating themselves with different
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and various well-known Christian leaders,
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while at the same time putting all the other groups
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and the other leaders down.
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These believers in Corinth were adopting too many leadership models
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from the surrounding world.
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They were infatuated with great orators,
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show of knowledge and philosophical teachings,
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and they were judging their leaders
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according to what was valued in the marketplace at Corinth.
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Many of them prized form above content,
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prestige above humility,
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knowledge above confessions of ignorance
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and human limitations of knowledge,
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rhetoric above truth,
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money above people,
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and reputation above integrity.
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They had taken their eyes off the one that they followed,
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the crucified Messiah, the Lord Jesus.
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And so Paul now gives some advice
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on the sort of leaders
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that they should in fact be lining up to follow,
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and this is the closing off of this whole section
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of chapters 1 to 4 on factions in the church.
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And this is meant to kill the factions in the church.
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And the first thing they're to look for in a leader
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is someone who leads to please Jesus first and foremost.
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He says in verse 1,
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so chapter 1 Corinthians 4, verse 1,
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So then, men ought to regard us as servants of Christ
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and as those entrusted with the secret things of God.
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Two elements stand out,
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and both of them are tied to things Paul's already explained
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in chapters 2 and 3.
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Firstly, Christian leaders are to see themselves
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simply as servants of one particular master.
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They serve Jesus Christ.
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And secondly, at the heart of their commission
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that they've received from their master Jesus
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lies one particular assignment,
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and that is they're entrusted with the secret things of God.
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And these two elements actually merge into one.
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What it means to be a servant of Christ
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is an obligation to promote the gospel of the crucified Christ
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by both word and by example.
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And that is absolutely fundamental.
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I would go as far as to say
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that there is no valid Christian leadership
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that does not throb with that priority.
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The Christian leaders here must prove faithful
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to this fundamental task,
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and they must prove faithful to the one
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who has assigned them to that task.
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Notice, they're not to prove faithful to the church,
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but faithful to the one who has assigned them to the task,
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to Jesus Christ.
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And so leaders must make sure
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that they're not trying to win popularity contests
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within the church.
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And that's what Paul means when he says in verse 3,
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I care very little if I'm judged by you
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or by any human court.
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That is, there is only one person
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who's well done on the last day
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actually means anything to Paul.
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And he plays accordingly.
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Once upon a time, many years ago,
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before age and injury,
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I used to play soccer, football,
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that sort of stuff.
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Any opportunity I did, I got.
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And what I noticed in both sports,
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in fact, in most sports,
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when you've got people on the sidelines
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watching you play,
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that whenever they cheered,
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it meant well done.
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And what you tried to do was do it again.
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And so you score a goal,
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something like that,
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you know, run over with a try
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and clap and you go,
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and you go,
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I must do that again.
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I must try hard to do that again.
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In my later life of sport,
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I found it more difficult to score tries
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and I found that I got bigger cheers
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from my side
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when I took out the opposition instead.
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And so I'd clobber some poor young 18-year-old
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running down the...
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I couldn't catch him.
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But if I did,
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I was clobbering him.
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And so the cheer,
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way from my side.
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But if my side ever went,
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oh,
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you know,
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you'd make a mistake,
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you'd drop the ball
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or something like that.
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Mental note,
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don't do that again.
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You were playing the game
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based on the applause
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on the sidelines.
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And I think what Paul's saying here is
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to Christian leaders,
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and I want to say to you as Christians as well,
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who's in your grandstand?
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Who's on the sidelines cheering you?
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What Paul's saying here is
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there's only one person
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who it actually matters
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who's in the grandstand
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or on the sidelines.
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And that's Jesus.
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And Paul's saying that
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I lead as a Christian leader
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to get his applause
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and no one else's.
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Not my parents,
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whether they be dead or alive.
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Not friends,
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not society,
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not even the church.
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Not even you, Corinthians,
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are on the sideline.
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I don't play to you guys.
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He says in verse 4,
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it is the Lord who judges me.
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The Christian leader's ultimate allegiance
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must be to the church.
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Must not be to the church, sorry,
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or to any individual leader
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or to any tradition.
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It must be to the Lord alone.
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Now, don't hear me wrongly here.
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I'm not trying to milk this passage
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for more than it's actually saying.
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Paul does not mean
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that there is no place in his life
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for self-examination or self-discipline.
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His own writings in 1 Corinthians 9,
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which we'll get to a little bit later,
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and 2 Corinthians 13
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make it absolutely clear.
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He's not abolishing functions of judgment
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and accountability in the church.
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Paul is not absolving Christians
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from the responsibility
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to discern behavior and teaching
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from the scriptures.
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He is condemning the kind of judging
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that's happening here in Corinth, though,
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that sits on the sideline
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and gives a low score to a Christian leader
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purely based on personal preferences.
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That this Christian leader,
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they're writing off Christian leaders
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because they don't fit neatly into my camp
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or they don't,
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they seem to compete
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with my personal preferences
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and they're not in my pocket.
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Paul's condemning that kind of judgment.
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And you know,
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the best part of this paragraph
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is the way it ends.
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With the final day of judgment in view,
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Paul might have expected to say,
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at that time,
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that is,
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the Christian leader
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will receive his rebuke from God.
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You know,
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because that's what he's receiving
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from all these Corinthians,
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criticism, rebuke.
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They're always telling him,
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you've got it wrong,
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you know,
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and he's expecting that maybe God
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might do that too,
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but instead he says,
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at that time,
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each will receive
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his praise
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from God.
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How delightful.
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At least in this case,
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God raises his scorecard
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from the grandstand
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on his servants
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entrusted with the gospel
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and his judgment
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is less severe
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than the self-appointed judges
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of the church in Corinth.
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The king of the universe
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is a wise father
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who knows how to encourage
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even the weakest efforts
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of his children
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who have laboured,
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laboured,
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laboured
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for one thing,
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his approval at the end.
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Well done,
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good and faithful servant.
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On the last day,
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God himself
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will praise him.
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And so the Christian leader
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has one spectator.
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One spectator
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and his assessment
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is the only assessment
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that counts.
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That's the first thing
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to look for in your leaders
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is someone
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who leads
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to please Jesus
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first and foremost.
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The second thing
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to look for
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in Christian leaders
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is a life
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that exemplifies
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the humility
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of the cross itself.
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This is the heart
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of the problem at Corinth.
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Have a look there.
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Notice verse 6 and 7.
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He uses words
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like pride and boast.
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Pride
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is their problem.
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They are boasting
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about various skills
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and insights
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of their various leaders
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and the irony is
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that they're actually
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boasting
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about things
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that are purely
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gifts from God.
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Paul argues here
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that if you've received
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some special help
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or insight
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or strength
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from one particular leader,
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isn't that simply
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one of God's
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fine gifts to you?
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That's how it should be seen.
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And if it's a gift,
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then it shouldn't cause
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a sense of pride
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within you.
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Is this not true
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of anything
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that we value?
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You know,
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when we get applauded,
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how often do we
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humbly transfer
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the applause
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to its true source?
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How often
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do we do that?
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Well,
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given on what we just sang,
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apparently we do it
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all the time.
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Did we not just sing
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every blessing
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you pour out
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will turn back
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to praise?
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We sang it with gusto,
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I'm assuming we must.
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And yet,
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the reality is,
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intellectually,
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we know God
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is the source
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of every blessings,
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but our hearts
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just love
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the applause.
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Every time
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we get applauded,
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it puffs us up.
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Quack.
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Quack.
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Quack.
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Quack.
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Which is what
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the word pride
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and boasting
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actually means
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in 1 Corinthians.
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It puffs us up.
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It blows us up
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to make us look
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big and great.
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It feeds our pride.
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And verse 7
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is meant to cut away
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all sense of pride.
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Verse 7
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is like a pin
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to the balloon.
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And
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he puts his finger
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here in verse 7
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on the central problem.
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Their assessments
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as this church
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at Corinth
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is judging
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its leaders,
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their assessment
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and their judgment
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is based
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on their pride
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deep in their hearts.
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You see,
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they thought
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the assessments
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of their leaders
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was because
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they had superior knowledge
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and superior intellect.
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And Paul says,
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no, it's not.
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It's actually
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the pride
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that's in your heart.
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When they vote
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on their leaders,
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they were actually
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standing in judgment
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of their leaders
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and standing
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in judgment
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over their leaders.
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And so
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when they said
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we follow Paul
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because we love
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this about Paul,
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they were actually
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putting themselves
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over the top
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of Paul,
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not following Paul.
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And so
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Paul's language
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here is now
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steeped in
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biting irony.
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The Corinthians
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have become
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smug and self-satisfied
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and self-assured
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and comfortable
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and proud.
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Verse 8,
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already you have
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all that you want.
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Of course,
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with the result
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that they do not hunger
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for the maturity
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that they do not yet have.
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Already you have
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become rich
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and so they
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do not seek
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spiritual wealth
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because they think
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they already have it.
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And you have become
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kings
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or better,
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you have begun
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your reign
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and so they reign
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over the top
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of each other
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and over the top
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of even the leaders
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that they say
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that they follow.
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Their confession
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of being followers
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of the Lord Jesus
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doesn't actually
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match
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with their lives.
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Compare them
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with the apostles,
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the actual
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acknowledged leaders
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of the church.
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Verse 9,
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for it seems to me
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that God has put us
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apostles on display
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at the end of the procession
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like men condemned
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to die in the arena.
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The imagery
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that he draws on here
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is that
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of the triumphal processions
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of returning Roman legions
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from victory in battle.
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What used to happen
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was they would
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this big line up
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sort of like
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a ticker tape parade,
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doors of the city,
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gates of the city
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would open,
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the big generals
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would ride in
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and their chariots
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and people would
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throw flowers
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or whatever they do,
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I don't know,
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and all praise,
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the big applause
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for those right
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at the beginning
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and then right
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at the end
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of the procession
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is the lowest
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of the low,
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the slaves of the slaves
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and they're the ones
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who are eating
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everyone else's dust
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and walking through
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everyone else's filth
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and Paul says,
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you think that
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we're at the beginning,
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you praise the guys
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that are at the beginning,
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we're actually right
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at the end here,
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this is who I am
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and what's my destiny?
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Destiny is for the arena,
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these slaves
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in the triumphal
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procession
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of the Roman generals
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would die
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at the hands
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of gladiators
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or be thrown
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to the wild beasts
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just for the amusement
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of everyone
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who's bought a ticket
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and he says,
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what's at stake here,
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I think,
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in this paragraph
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is a fundamental stance
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of weighing
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and looking at things
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for the Christian.
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what Paul's saying here,
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it is impossible,
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it is the opposite
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of the pride
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and arrogance
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and boasting
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of Corinth.
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He says,
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we follow
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a crucified Messiah
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and all
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the future promises
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of perfect eternity,
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all the blessings
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of sin forgiven
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and the blessings
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of the Spirit of God
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do not negate
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the fact
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that the good news
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that we present
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focuses
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on the foolishness
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of the cross of Christ
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and therefore
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we are foolish
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to the world.
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It's a message
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that simply
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cannot be communicated
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from a position
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of pride
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and arrogance
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and triumphalism.
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They are in conflict
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with each other.
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To do so
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actually negates
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the gospel.
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Until Jesus returns
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the Christian
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is to take up
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their cross.
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That is,
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we are to die
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to self-interest
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daily.
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We are servants
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of Christ.
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We follow Jesus.
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What does that look like?
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Verse 11,
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to this very hour
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we go hungry
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and thirsty,
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we're in rags,
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we are brutally treated,
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we are homeless.
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Taking up your cross
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means sacrifice.
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It means personal ambition
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and comfort and security
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are pushed to one side.
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And taking up your cross
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also means
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that we walk
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the same sacrificial,
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other person-centered,
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loving relational path
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that the Lord Jesus walked.
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Verse 12,
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when we are cursed,
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we bless.
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That's foolish
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in the eyes of the world.
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When we are persecuted,
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we endure it.
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That's foolish
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in the eyes of the world.
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When we are slandered,
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we answer kindly.
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That's foolish
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in the eyes of the world.
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But we follow Christ.
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And it's not the applause
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of the world
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that we seek.
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It is the applause
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at the end of the time
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that says,
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well done.
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The less
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any society
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knows of this way,
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the more foolish
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we will seem
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and the more suffering
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we will endure.
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And so be it.
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There is no other way
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to follow Jesus.
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And leaders
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in the church
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will suffer the most
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because they lead
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this way
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by their life
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as much as their words.
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But in the end,
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all Christians
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are called
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to this vision
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of life.
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And I think
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that Paul,
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I think for us,
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the reason why
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Paul's stance here
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seems so alien
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to us
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is that we have
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unwittingly become
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more like the
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Corinthian Christians
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than we have of Paul.
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many of us
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are so
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well-to-do,
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comfortable,
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with little incentive
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to live
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in vibrant
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anticipation
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of Christ's return.
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Our desire
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for the approval
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of the world,
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the approval
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of colleagues
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and family
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and friends
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often outstrips
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our desire
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for Jesus
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to say,
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well done.
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And so my friends,
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look for Christian leaders
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whose lives
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exemplify
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the humility
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of the cross-shaped life.
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The third thing
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is look for Christian leaders
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who will encourage
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and when necessary
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enforce
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the cross-shaped life
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in those
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that they lead.
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Paul begins
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with the gentler alternative
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despite the biting irony
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that he's just deployed
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in the previous paragraph.
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Paul now says
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in verse 14,
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I'm not writing this
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to shame you
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but to warn you
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as my dear children.
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Now at one level
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he is shaming them
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but that's not the reason
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why he writes.
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He writes to warn them.
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That is to admonish them,
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to correct them,
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to encourage them
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to follow
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the way of the cross.
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Paul reminds them
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that he led them
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to the Lord
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and in the first place
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he tells them
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that even if they've got
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10,000 guardians
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they've only got
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one father in Christ.
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Paul was the one
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who first brought
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the gospel
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to the Corinthians
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and in that sense
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he says
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I am your father
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and because I'm your father
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verse 16
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I urge you
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to imitate me.
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Now remember
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he's speaking
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in first century here
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and in the first century
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basically
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sons followed
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their fathers
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so if your dad
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was a baker
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basically guarantee
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you're going to be a baker.
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Not much
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you know
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they didn't have options there.
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Sheep farmer
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you're going to be
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a sheep farmer.
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The son was expected
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to carry on
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the family business
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the family values
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the family heritage
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the family name
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and Paul argues
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that if I'm your father
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to the Corinthians
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therefore you need
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to imitate me
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as your father
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follow me
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as your father
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and in the context
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of these chapters
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what Paul wants
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them to imitate
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is his passion
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to live a life
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shaped
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by the cross.
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He does not expect
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them to suffer
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in exactly the same
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way that he does
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he does not demand
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that they all
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become apostles
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and they all
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go to plant
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churches off
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in far distant
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lands
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what he does
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expect of them
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is that they
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will imitate
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his values
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his priorities
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his cross
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shaped lifestyle
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and his
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valuation
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of the
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exclusive
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centrality
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of the gospel
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of the crucified
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Messiah
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and so in
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verse 17
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we see
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he's going
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to send
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along
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some help
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to help
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them get
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this one
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straight
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verse 17
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for this
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reason
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I am sending
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to you
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Timothy
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my son
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whom I
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love
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who is
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faithful in
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the Lord
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notice that
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Timothy
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the son
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is faithful
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in the Lord
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following his
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father
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and he
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will remind
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you of my
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way of life
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in Christ
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Jesus
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which agrees
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with what I
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teach everywhere
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in every church
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this is not just
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for the Corinthians
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this lifestyle is
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for everywhere
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in every church
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Paul is not
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sending Timothy
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simply to lay
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out some more
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teaching
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but to remind
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the Corinthians
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of Paul's
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way of life
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in Christ
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Jesus
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his way of life
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and he gives
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us the impression
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here that the
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biggest problem
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for the Corinthian
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church
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is that they
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were not
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living up
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to what they
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knew to be
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true
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you see
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maturity
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is not
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about how
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much you
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know
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but whether
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or not
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you're living
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out what
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you know
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judging by
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these first
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four chapters
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many of the
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Corinthians
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were not
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making the
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connection
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between what
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they believed
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and how they
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should live
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you see
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these
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Corinthians
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would be the
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first
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to insist
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that Jesus
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died for
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their sins
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that he
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rose
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again
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but they
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could not
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grasp
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how
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this
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historical
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reality
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not only
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achieved
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their salvation
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but in fact
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may
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must
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shape
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the way
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that they
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live
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day by
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day
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and as
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we see
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in the
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coming
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chapters
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the gospel
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wasn't
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shaping
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their
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attitude
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to things
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like
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sex
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dating
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conflicts
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marriage
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singleness
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food
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communion
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corporate
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worship
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use of
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gifts
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authority
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love
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status
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a whole
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bunch
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of
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things
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the gospel
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wasn't
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shaping
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for them
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a surprising
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number of
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Christians
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cannot
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easily
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make the
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connection
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between the
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truth of
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the gospel
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and how
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to live
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it is
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possible
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to define
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theologically
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rich words
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like
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propitiation
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but not
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know
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what it's
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like to
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feel
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forgiven
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it's
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possible
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to defend
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the
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priority
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of
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grace
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in
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salvation
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but still
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feel that
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I'm not
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good enough
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for God
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there's a
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disconnect
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between what
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we know
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and how
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we live
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what we
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experience
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of God
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and part
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of the
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role of
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faithful
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Christian
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leadership
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is to
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make the
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connections
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between
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creed
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and
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conduct
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between
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the cross
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and the
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cross
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shaped
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life
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and that
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is why
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we've got
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as a church
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here
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core values
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at St Paul's
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those core
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values
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are explicit
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in
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behavioural
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expectations
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if you
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say this
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you hold
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to this
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truth
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it will
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look like
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this
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in practice
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that's what
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core values
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do
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and the
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fact is
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we've all
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got values
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we've all
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got core
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values
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ourselves
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as individual
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they are
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held down
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deep
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within us
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and every
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one of
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those core
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values
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shape
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the way
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we behave
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so for
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instance
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if you
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grew up
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in a
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truly
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patriotic
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Australian
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family
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that valued
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Holden
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cars
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as patriotic
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above every
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other thing
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in the world
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as every
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other vehicle
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every other
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car
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and all
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these
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imports
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and Japanese
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imports
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and stuff
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are just
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all rubbish
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Holden
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cars
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they're the
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way to
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go
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what that
-
means is
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when you
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buy a
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car
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you will
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buy a
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Holden
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car
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that is
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what you
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believe
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what you
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value
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will
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transfer
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into a
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particular
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action
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and if
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in the
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same
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family
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you didn't
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just value
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Holden
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cars
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as patriotic
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but you
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also
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valued
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success
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then you'll
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buy the
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best
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Holden
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car
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these
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values
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will shape
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your
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particular
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actions
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that's
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what they
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do
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and so
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if we
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say that
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Jesus
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the gospel
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is our
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greatest
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treasure
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then it
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will
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shape
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how
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we
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live
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it
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will
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shape
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our
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priorities
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and so
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the Christian
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leader
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must love
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in love
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admonish
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correct
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encourage
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to see
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that confession
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and actions
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are aligned
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and they
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must exemplify
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this connection
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in their
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own lives
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now let me
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just say
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if
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if your
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life
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if in
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your life
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you haven't
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made the
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connection
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between the
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good news
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and how
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to live
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then the
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proper place
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to begin
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to make
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that change
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change in
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fact of
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the deep
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betrayal of
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the cross
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shaped life
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is in
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fact the
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cross
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itself
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in humble
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confession
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if your
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life does
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not match
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the gospel
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that you
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confess
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the only
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place to
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go is
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the cross
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in humble
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confession
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and in
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that place
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and with
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that attitude
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you will
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find a
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God who
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will say
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to you
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well done
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well done
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and so
-
bringing the
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people of
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God to
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consistent
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Christian
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living in
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the light
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of the
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gospel
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of the
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crucified
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Messiah
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is so
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important to
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Paul that
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he will
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not be
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turned from
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that goal
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he sees
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this as an
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essential
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function of
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Christian
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leadership
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if he
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moves the
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church by
-
encouragement
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and admonition
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that is
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great
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if however
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the arrogant
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in verses
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18 and
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19 don't
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move
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then severer
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discipline is
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called for
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and Paul offers
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the Corinthians
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a choice
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in verse 21
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what do you
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prefer
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shall I come
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with you with
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a whip or
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in love
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and with a
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gentle spirit
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now he does
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not mean of
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course that if
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he comes with
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a whip
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he's not
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coming in
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love
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he doesn't
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say well
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I'll be
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gentle and
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encouraging to
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start with
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that's loving
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but if you
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if you spurn
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my love
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then I'm
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going to
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whip out
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the six
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guns
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and then
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I'm not
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going to
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love you
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anymore
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and I'm
-
going to
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basically
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get you
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all to
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come into
-
line
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he's not
-
saying that
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the contrast
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refers to
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the manner
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or the
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form of
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his coming
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not the
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motive
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of his
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coming
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a smack
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still hurts
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even if it
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comes from a
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father who
-
insists that he's
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smacking his son
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because he loves
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him
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it is much
-
better for a
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son to change
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his behaviour
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so that the
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manner of the
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father's coming
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will not be with
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discipline but
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with a gentle
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spirit
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now let me
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just say that
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this is the
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toughest one I
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think
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this is what we
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don't like
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when you put
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this kind of
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accountability
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into a culture
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that is anti
-
authoritarian
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and in an
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age of
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consumerism and
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individualism and
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narcissism it
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makes godly
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Christian leadership
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very hard
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in this age
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our self
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worth is
-
affronted by
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any negative
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feedback
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any rebuke
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any correction
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is like a
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personal attack
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on me and
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my character
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individualism
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means that we
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fly by our
-
own rules
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when our
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sense of
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self esteem
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is challenged
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what we tend
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to do is we
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run from it
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we turn our
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back on any
-
form of
-
correction
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and as a
-
result we
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run we
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change jobs
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we change
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schools we
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change courses
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we change
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partners we
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change churches
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based on
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what will
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suit me and
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puff me
-
up and
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we never
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grow up
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just like
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little children
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if I
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line my
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three girls
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up here
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and say
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girls tell
-
us all
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what are
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the ways
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that I
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as your
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father
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love you
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they would
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say when
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you buy us
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ice cream
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and particularly
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chocolate chip
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mint ice cream
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they would
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say when
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you buy us
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toys
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they would
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say when
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you wrestle
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with us
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they would
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say when
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you lie
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down and
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pat us
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when we
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go to
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bed at
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night
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they would
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come up
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with all
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these nice
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lovey-dovey
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stuff that
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we do
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and I do
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love them
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but I do
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give them
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those things
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none of
-
them would
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say oh
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actually you
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really love
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us when
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you put us
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over there
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in the
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time out
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corner for
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a bit
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because they
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don't like
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that
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you really
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love us
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when you
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refuse to
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buy me
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that car
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that the
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orange car
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that I
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walk past
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the Toyota
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I want
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that car
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it's orange
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no
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they never
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say that
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because and
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that is the
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world in
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which they
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live in
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which we
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live
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you love
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me when
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you puff
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me up
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when you
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do what
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you want
-
me to
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do
-
and Paul
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says he
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no actually
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it's both
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I want you
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to not be
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puffed up
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I want you
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to grow
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up in
-
maturity in
-
Christ and
-
discipline and
-
rebuke and
-
correction is
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part of that
-
process as
-
much as it
-
is for my
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kids it is
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for the
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children of
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God
-
and so it
-
is only the
-
wise and the
-
mature who
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thank you for
-
correcting them
-
the Corinthian
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mistake can
-
very quickly
-
become our
-
mistake I
-
follow Paul
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I follow
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Paulus I
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follow the
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church down
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the road
-
because they
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suit me
-
and we
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hold up our
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scorecards based
-
on personal
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preferences and
-
not on biblical
-
standards and
-
so I wonder
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what you would
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have written in
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the job
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description
-
St Paul's
-
Chatswood
-
seeking a
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mature Christian
-
leader who
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number one
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sees themselves
-
as answerable
-
to the Lord
-
Jesus and
-
not our
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personal
-
preferences
-
St Paul's
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Chatswood is
-
seeking a
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mature Christian
-
leader who
-
number two
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demonstrates the
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cross shaped
-
life in their
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priorities in
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their actions
-
and in their
-
words
-
St Paul's
-
Chatswood
-
seeking a
-
mature Christian
-
leader who
-
number three
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has the
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courage to
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encourage and
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to enforce the
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cross shaped
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life amongst
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God's people
-
even when we
-
don't want
-
them to so
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that we might
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grow up together
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in maturity in
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Christ may we
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score highly on
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that kind of
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leadership at
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St Paul's
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Amen
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females
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