Sermon
JUDGES People without a King
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Today we are in a really painful part of the Bible.
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It's arguably one of the lowest points in Israel's history.
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It's very confronting.
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Today we are talking about the depths of human depravity, of rape, objectification, murder, domestic violence.
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We're talking about sinfulness revealed bare.
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Anyway, it's one of the rock-bottom moments of Israel's history.
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One which makes you think about who these people are and who their God is that they worship.
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Have you ever had a rock-bottom moment in your life?
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One which makes you think about who you are?
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They're not really nice to think about once they're passed.
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They're not enjoyable to recall.
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You know, it's not nice to think about painful mistakes we've made in the past.
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But this is what today's passage and the final sermon in our Judges series will do.
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We're going to be confronted by the depths of human sin and depravity, and it should make us question our own hearts.
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And I'm up here saying this now before the Bible reading.
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We're looking at Judges 19 to 21.
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We're going to look in particular at Judges 19.
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And so I'm up here saying this now before we read to prepare us.
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Because this passage we'll be confronting.
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It might reveal something about you that you need to bring to the Lord.
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It might remind you of painful things in your past.
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This is a horrible part of the Bible.
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It might be a painful trigger for some of us here.
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It might trigger painful memories of the past.
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And if it does, please feel free to walk out.
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Sit up the back.
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Meet with Debbie, who's just over in the corner.
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Because your safety is really important to us.
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And so I'm going to pray.
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And then John's going to come up and read Judges 19.
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Dear Heavenly Father, as we look at your word to us this morning, it is not an easy word to come to.
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Father, I ask that you would comfort us and give us humility as we come before your word this morning.
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Amen.
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Thanks, John.
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Judges 19.
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In those days, Israel had no king.
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Now a Nephi, who lived in a remote area in the hill country of Ephraim, took a concubine from Bethlehem in Judah.
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But she was unfaithful to him.
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She left him and went back to her parents' home in Bethlehem, Judah.
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After she had been there four months, her husband went to her to pursue her to return.
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He had with him his servant and two donkeys.
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She took him into her parents' home.
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And when her father saw him, he gladly welcomed him.
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His father-in-law, the woman's father, prevailed on him to stay.
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So he remained with him three days, eating and drinking and sleeping there.
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On the fourth day, they got up early and he prepared to leave.
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But the woman's father said to his son-in-law,
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Refresh yourself with something to eat, then you can go.
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So the two of them sat down and eat and drink together.
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Afterward, the woman's father said,
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Please stay tonight and enjoy yourself.
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And when the man got up to go, his father-in-law pursued him.
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So he stayed there that night.
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On the morning of the fifth day, when he rose to go,
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the woman's father said,
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Refresh yourself, wait till afternoon.
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So the two of them ate together.
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Then when the man with his concubine and his servant got up to leave,
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his father-in-law, the woman's father, said,
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Now look, it's almost evening.
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Spend the nights here.
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The day is nearly over.
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Stay and enjoy yourself.
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Early tomorrow morning, you can get up and be on your way home.
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But unwilling to stay another night,
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the man left and went up towards Juppus.
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That is Jerusalem.
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Jerusalem with his two settled donkeys and his concubine.
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When they were near Juppus and the day was almost gone,
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the servant said to his master,
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Come, let's stop at this city of the Juppusite and spend the night.
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His master replied,
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No, we wouldn't go into any city whose people are not Israelites.
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We will go on to Gilbite.
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He added,
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Come, let's try to reach Gilbite and Roma and spend the night in one of those places.
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So they went on,
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and the sun set as they near Gilbite in Benjamin.
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There they stopped to spend the night.
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They went and sat in the city square,
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but no one took them in for the night.
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That evening, an old man came,
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an old man from the hill country of Ephraim,
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who was living in Gilbite,
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and the inhabitants of place where Benjamin came in from his work in the fields.
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And he looked and saw the traveler in the city square.
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The old man asked,
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Where are you going?
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Where do you come from?
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He answered,
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We are on our way from Bethlehem to Judah,
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to a remote area in the hill country of Ephraim, where I live.
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I have been to Bethlehem in Judah,
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and now I am going to the house of the Lord.
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No one has taken me in for the night.
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We have both straw and folder for our donkeys,
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and bread and wine for ourselves, your servants, me.
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The woman and the young man with us.
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We don't need anything.
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You are welcome at my house, the old man said.
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Let me supply whatever you need.
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Only don't spend the night in the square.
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So he took him into his house and fled his donkeys.
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After they had washed their feet,
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they have something to eat and drink.
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While they were enjoying themselves,
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some of the wicked men of the city surrendered the house,
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pointing at the door,
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and they shouted to the old man who owned the house,
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Bring out the man to come up to your house,
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so we can have sex with him.
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The owner of the house went outside and said to them,
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No, my friends, don't be so foul.
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Since this man is my guest,
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don't do these outrageous things.
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Look here, it's my virgin daughter and his concubine.
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I will bring them out to you now,
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and you can use them,
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and do to them whatever you wish.
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But as for this man,
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don't do such outrageous things.
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But the man would not listen to him.
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So the man took his concubine and sent her outside to them.
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They raped her and abused her throughout the night.
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And at dawn, they let her go.
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At daybreak, the woman went back to the house
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where her master was staying,
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fell down at the door,
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and lay there until day and night.
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When her master got up in the morning
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and opened the door of the house
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and stepped out to continue on his way,
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there lay his concubine,
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fallen in the doorway of the house
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with her hands on a threshold.
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He said to her,
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Get up, let's go.
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But there was no answer.
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Then the man put her on his donkey
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and set out for home.
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When he reached home,
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he took a knife
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and cut up his concubine,
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limb by limb,
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into twelve paths
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and sent them into the area of Israel.
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Everyone who saw it
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was saying to one another,
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Such a thing
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has never been seen or done,
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not since the day
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the Israelites come out of Egypt.
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Just imagine.
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We must do something.
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So, speak up.
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Thanks, John.
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It's not a fun part of the Bible, is it?
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The graphic nature of that passage
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is why we decided to have
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our kids' church go for one more week.
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Not the kind of stuff
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we want our kids to be hearing,
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but it's in the Bible.
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And so we're here at the start of Judges 19.
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We're introduced to a couple of characters.
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Let me read from verses 1 and 2.
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In those days, Israel had no king.
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Now, a Levite who lived
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in a remote area
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in the hill country of Ephraim
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took a concubine
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from Bethlehem in Judah.
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But, she was unfaithful to him.
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She left him
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and went back to her parents' home
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in Bethlehem, Judah.
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Okay, so,
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we begin with the reminder
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that we've had all through this book
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that Israel had no king.
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And we're introduced to two characters
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right off the bat.
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A Levite
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and his concubine.
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Now, this Levite,
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he's from Ephraim.
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And the Levites
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were specially selected people from God.
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They were to be the best of the best.
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They were to be the holiest people.
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They were the tribe
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that had no land.
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And they would serve at the tabernacle
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and then the temple.
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They would serve God.
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They would offer sacrifices to God.
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So, this Levite
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was supposed to be especially holy.
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Set apart from the rest of God's people
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to serve God.
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The whole nation was
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God's special possessions.
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But the Levites,
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they were to be the best of the best.
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To be the holiest.
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To show the way.
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To show the people
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how to serve God.
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To keep people
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in a right relationship with God
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with the sacrifices.
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And we learn
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that this Levite
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took a concubine
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from Bethlehem.
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Now, a concubine
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was considered
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a second class wife.
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She was a wife
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who was also a slave.
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And so,
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this kind of second class wife
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is a sex object.
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It's why
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he has her
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not as a wife
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but as an object.
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So, the Levite
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is both
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her husband
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but also
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her master.
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God has made it clear
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to us
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and to Israel
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from Genesis 2
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that marriage
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is to be between
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a man and a woman.
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But many people
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at this time
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were following their culture.
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And so,
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even though
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it was technically legal
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for people
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to have a concubine,
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polygamy
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and this kind
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of second class wife,
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this is
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not God's plan.
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And in the history
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of Israel,
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it's always brought
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heartache to people.
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We see this
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with people
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like Abraham
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and Jacob
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and King Solomon
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and King David.
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It does not go well
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for people.
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These first two verses
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are a deeply
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concerning opening.
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This man was a Levite.
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He was supposed
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to be set apart.
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He was supposed
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to be one of God's
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key people,
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one of the best
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of the best
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but he has been
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swept up in his culture,
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pagan culture,
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taking a concubine.
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This Levite,
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it appears
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at the outset
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is focused
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upon himself.
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And the relationship
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between the Levite
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and the concubine
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is not a good one.
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From the opening
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we learn
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that she was
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unfaithful to him.
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She fled back
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to her parents' home
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and even though
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some horrible things
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are going to happen
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to her,
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she is not painted
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as innocent.
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She is painted
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as sinful too.
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She's not innocent.
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She left her marriage
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and she left
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her master.
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Both of those things
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were unlawful to do.
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And so,
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the concubine,
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she had been living
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with her dad,
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her family,
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back at home
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for four months
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and the Levite
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went to persuade her
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to return.
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Now,
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I'm going to be away
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from my wife
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for four days
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this week
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and I'm going to be
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longing
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to see her again
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on Saturday.
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This Levite
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has been away
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from his wife
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for four months.
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I wonder
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why he finally
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decides to go
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and get her back.
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Maybe he wasn't
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bothered to go
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and get her back.
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Maybe he just
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eventually wanted
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his property back.
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Maybe it was
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the status symbol
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of having a concubine.
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Maybe it was
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something coarse
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like he just
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wanted sex back.
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And so,
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when he gets there,
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he is met
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by the concubine's
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father.
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Verse four.
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His father-in-law,
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the woman's father,
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prevailed on him
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to stay.
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So he remained
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with him three days,
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eating and drinking
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and sleeping there.
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On the fourth day,
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they got up early
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and he prepared
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to leave.
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But the woman's father
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said to his son-in-law,
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refresh yourself
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with something to eat,
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then you can go.
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So the concubine's father
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welcomes him
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with open arms,
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come,
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let's eat,
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let's drink,
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stay,
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stay for another night.
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No,
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another night,
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let's eat and drink some more,
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sit down,
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relax.
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And he keeps him there.
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For four days,
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with food,
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with drink,
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with good hospitality.
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And it seems strange.
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Why is this father
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so hospitable?
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It doesn't seem
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that the Levite
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is treating his daughter
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that well.
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Why is the father
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so hospitable?
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I wouldn't be like this
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if it was my daughter.
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It seems strange
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as we read it.
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So why is he so generous?
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What is his motive?
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What is his plan?
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Well,
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the penalty
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for adultery
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and the penalty
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for leaving a master,
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they were both severe.
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It was death
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and disgrace
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for the family.
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And so it appears
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that the father
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is trying to make sure
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that the Levite
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doesn't press charges.
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Come on,
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let me make you happy
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with food and drink,
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stay another night,
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let me really lay it on thick.
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Whatever you like,
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I'll get it for you.
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Trying to make sure
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that the Levite
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doesn't sue the family.
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He's so happy
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that the Levite
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just wants to take
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the daughter home,
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he's just giving him
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as much food and wine
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as possible.
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Even though the Levite
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went to persuade
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his concubine
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to return,
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there's no mention
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of the Levite
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or the father
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talking to her.
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She has no choice
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in the matter.
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Both the father
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and the Levite
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are treating her
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as an object.
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One for sexual gratification
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and the other
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to avoid disgrace
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and loss of face
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and money.
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It's really interesting
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at this point
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that the author
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of Judges
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hasn't written any names.
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These characters
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don't have names,
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it's just the Levite,
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it's the concubine,
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it's the concubine's father.
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None of them have names.
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And it seems
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that the author
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is pointing out
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some stereotypes.
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You know,
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this is what Levites
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are like,
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this is what concubines,
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this is what women
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are like,
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and this is what
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fathers of daughters
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are like.
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So Levites,
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the ones who are
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supposed to be holy
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and serve and love God,
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well,
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they're just
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decrepit,
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sexually depraved men.
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Fathers in Israel,
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well,
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they'd prefer to get rid
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of their daughters
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than lose money
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or lose face
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and honour.
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And women,
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well,
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stereotype of women here
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is that they just
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run off from their husbands
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and they run off
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from their masters.
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It paints
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a dark picture
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of Israel.
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And the story
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is about to get
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far darker.
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Eventually,
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the Levite
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and his concubine
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leave.
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And they end up
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in a Jewish city,
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Gibeah,
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part of the tribe
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of Benjamin,
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one of the 12 tribes
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of Israel.
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And an old man
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welcomes them
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into his house
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because staying
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in the town square
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was not safe.
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That should concern us
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as we read this.
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Why is it not safe?
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And we obviously
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find out why.
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And so they go
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inside his house.
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Verse 22.
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While they were
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enjoying themselves,
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some of the wicked
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men of the city
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surrounded the house,
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pounding on the door.
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They shouted
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to the old man
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who owned the house,
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Bring out the man
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who came to your house
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so we can have
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sex with him.
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The owner of the house
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went outside
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and said to them,
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No, my friends,
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don't be so vile
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since this man
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is my guest.
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Don't do this
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outrageous thing.
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Look,
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here is my virgin
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daughter
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and his concubine.
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I will bring them
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out to you now.
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You can use them
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and do whatever
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you wish.
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But as for this man,
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don't do this
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outrageous thing.
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But the men
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would not listen to him
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so the man
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took his concubine
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and sent her
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outside to them.
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And they raped her
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and abused her
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throughout the night.
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And at dawn
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they let her go.
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At daybreak,
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the woman went
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back to the house
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where her master
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was staying,
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fell down at the door
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and lay there
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until daylight.
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This,
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this is such a horrible
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incident.
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It should cause us
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to grieve.
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And it's told
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in such a way
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that it,
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it makes it
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seem that God
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is grieving too.
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How does the Levite,
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how does the master
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react?
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Well,
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after he sent her
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outside,
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he went to sleep.
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Verse 27,
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when her master
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got up in the morning
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and opened the door
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of the house
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and stepped out
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to continue on his way,
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there lay the concubine
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fallen in the doorway
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of the house
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with her hand
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on the threshold.
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He said to her,
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get up,
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let's go.
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But there was no answer.
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Then the man
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put her on his donkey
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and sent her for home.
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When he reached home,
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he took a knife,
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cut up his concubine
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limb by limb
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into 12 parts
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and sent them
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into all the areas
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of Israel.
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Now,
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this is just horrible.
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The detail brings us
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to the unimaginable horror
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of the woman's
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night of torture.
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She was used,
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she was abused
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and she was tossed aside.
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And then her body
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was carried with disdain
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on the back of a donkey,
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cut up
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and sent around
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the country
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in a sick
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and twisted way
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of making people angry
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at the tribe
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of Benjamin.
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How does this passage
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make you feel?
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Are you feeling uncomfortable?
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Are you feeling angry?
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Are you feeling saddened?
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Are you just confused
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as to why this is
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even in the Bible?
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Well,
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it's a reminder for us
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about the depravity
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and the depths of sin
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that happen
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when we worship
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an idol
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and not our God.
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That's what the book
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of Judges
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has been about.
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Worshipping idols
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and not God
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and the consequences.
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The Levite
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had made an idol
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out of sex.
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He'd conformed
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to the culture
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around him,
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not taking a wife
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but having the status
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symbol
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of a concubine,
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a sex object.
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The men of Benjamin,
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well,
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they see sex
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as more important
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than obeying God.
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The host,
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he prefers to honour
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his guest
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and offer his own daughter
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for rape.
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The concubine's father,
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well,
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he worshipped
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his own honour
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and his own money
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afraid of what would happen
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if the Levite
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took him to court.
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This is truly horrible.
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It is domestic violence
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in the extreme.
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This kind of behaviour
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still happens today.
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We're going to talk about
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what domestic violence
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looks like
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in our response
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to it
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a little bit later.
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But there is no good character
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in this story.
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There is no one
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calling for salvation.
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There is no one
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calling for God
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to save them.
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God is deliberately
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pushed out of this story
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to show the horror
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of humanity
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laid bare.
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Judges has been
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about idolatry
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of the people
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and here the idols
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are not other gods
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but it is sex,
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it is worshipping
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the culture,
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it is their own honour,
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it is money.
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Because conflict
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reveals
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what our idols are.
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They reveal
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the things we protect
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when everything else
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is on the line.
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We'd prefer to
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protect our identities
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than confront our sin.
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We'd rather see
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other people get hurt
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than have our own
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frailty and sin
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exposed.
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Pursuing an idol
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can justify
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all kinds
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of depraved acts.
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This passage
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might make us
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grieve,
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it might make us
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angry,
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it might make us
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feel sad
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but it should
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send us
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on our knees
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before Jesus.
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Knowing the depths
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of humanity's sin,
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knowing the depths
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of our sin
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and the sin
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of the world
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that meant
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that God
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himself
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had to die.
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Even though
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innocent,
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Jesus was brutally
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murdered.
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Knowing what
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our world
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is like
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and knowing
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what we are like
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should make us
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realise how
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big and amazing
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God's grace
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to us
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is.
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That God
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can even
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love people
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who would do
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a horrendous
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action like this.
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We should be
-
crying out
-
to our God
-
of mercy,
-
asking God
-
that he would
-
send Jesus
-
back today,
-
that he would
-
not delay
-
any further,
-
that he would
-
never allow
-
this kind of
-
horrendous act
-
to happen
-
again.
-
It should
-
make us
-
weep
-
that people
-
can be so
-
depraved
-
as to throw
-
a person
-
aside
-
or reduce
-
someone
-
like this.
-
It should
-
make us
-
cry out to
-
God that
-
we would
-
not be
-
like this,
-
to beg
-
God
-
to reveal
-
our idols
-
so we
-
don't justify
-
the things
-
that we
-
pursue
-
in our
-
own
-
sinful
-
depravity.
-
The
-
Levites
-
sent
-
the
-
concubine
-
out to
-
the
-
twelve
-
tribes
-
of
-
Israel
-
hoping
-
to
-
get
-
a
-
response
-
and
-
we
-
see
-
their
-
response
-
in
-
chapters
-
20
-
and
-
21
-
we
-
didn't
-
read
-
those
-
I'm
-
going
-
to
-
briefly
-
tell
-
the
-
story
-
and
-
then
-
we're
-
going
-
to
-
think
-
about
-
what
-
our
-
response
-
to
-
domestic
-
violence
-
should
-
be.
-
And
-
so
-
what
-
is
-
the
-
response
-
to
-
the
-
Levites
-
sending
-
out
-
body
-
parts?
-
Well
-
the
-
response
-
is
-
that
-
it's
-
the
-
the
-
tribe
-
Benjamin
-
hand
-
us
-
over
-
those
-
who
-
committed
-
this
-
atrocious
-
act
-
hand
-
us
-
over
-
we'll
-
put
-
them
-
to
-
death
-
and
-
that'll
-
be
-
the
-
end
-
of
-
it
-
but
-
the
-
tribe
-
of
-
Benjamin
-
they
-
get
-
defensive
-
and
-
protective
-
of
-
their
-
own
-
like
-
all
-
of
-
us
-
do
-
they
-
get
-
defensive
-
and
-
so
-
they
-
say
-
no
-
we're
-
going
-
to
-
muster
-
an
-
army
-
so
-
Israel
-
get
-
together
-
an
-
army
-
400,000
-
Benjamin
-
gets
-
together
-
an
-
army
-
26,000
-
giant
-
army
-
compared
-
to
-
tiny
-
army
-
and
-
we get
-
the
-
first
-
mention
-
of
-
God
-
in
-
all
-
of
-
this
-
mimicking
-
the
-
very
-
start
-
of
-
the
-
book
-
of
-
Judges
-
they
-
asked
-
God
-
verse
-
18
-
who
-
of
-
us
-
should
-
go up
-
to
-
fight
-
first
-
against
-
the
-
Benjamites
-
the
-
Lord
-
replied
-
Judah
-
shall
-
go
-
first
-
so
-
in
-
the
-
first
-
fight
-
Judah
-
goes
-
up
-
and
-
they
-
get
-
massively
-
beaten
-
22,000
-
are
-
defeated
-
in
-
one
-
day
-
they
-
come
-
back
-
to
-
God
-
and
-
say
-
the
-
same
-
thing
-
who
-
should
-
go
-
up
-
they
-
go
-
up
-
again
-
and
-
get
-
defeated
-
again
-
18,000
-
in
-
one
-
day
-
and
-
finally
-
they
-
come
-
before
-
God
-
with
-
the
-
right
-
attitude
-
weeping
-
fasting
-
an
-
attitude
-
of
-
humility
-
before
-
God
-
verse
-
28
-
they
-
ask
-
shall
-
we
-
go
-
up
-
again
-
to
-
fight
-
against
-
the
-
Benjamites
-
our
-
fellow
-
Israelites
-
or
-
not
-
the
-
Lord
-
responded
-
go
-
for
-
tomorrow
-
I
-
will
-
give
-
them
-
into
-
your
-
hands
-
and
-
so
-
they
-
do
-
they
-
go
-
up
-
they
-
destroy
-
the
-
Benjamites
-
the
-
Benjamites
-
started
-
with
-
26,000
-
and
-
25,000
-
and a
-
bit
-
more
-
are killed
-
that day
-
they
-
destroy
-
their
-
city
-
they
-
put
-
everyone
-
to
-
the
-
sword
-
they
-
had
-
initially
-
intended
-
to
-
just
-
kill
-
those
-
who
-
had
-
done
-
the
-
atrocious
-
act
-
and
-
they
-
end
-
up
-
wiping
-
out
-
a
-
city
-
and
-
almost
-
destroying
-
a whole
-
tribe
-
of
-
Israel
-
nearly
-
26,000
-
people
-
and so
-
in response
-
to this
-
tribe of
-
Israel
-
nearly being
-
wiped out
-
Israel is
-
grieving again
-
chapter 21
-
verse 3
-
Lord
-
Lord God
-
they cried
-
why
-
has this
-
happened
-
to
-
Israel
-
why
-
should
-
one
-
tribe
-
be
-
missing
-
from
-
Israel
-
today
-
they're
-
grieving
-
why
-
why
-
should
-
one
-
tribe
-
of
-
the
-
12
-
tribes
-
of
-
Israel
-
nearly
-
be
-
missing
-
they've
-
only
-
got
-
600
-
men
-
left
-
God
-
what
-
are
-
you
-
going
-
to
-
do
-
they
-
seem
-
to
-
blame
-
God
-
for
-
this
-
where
-
it's
-
just
-
been
-
Israel
-
acting
-
and so
-
to fix
-
this
-
issue
-
of
-
only
-
600
-
men
-
left
-
none
-
of
-
whom
-
have
-
wives
-
they
-
go
-
and
-
take
-
400
-
wives
-
from
-
another
-
city
-
but
-
they
-
have
-
200
-
men
-
left
-
what
-
are
-
we
-
going
-
to
-
do
-
with
-
these
-
200
-
men
-
we
-
need
-
to
-
rebuild
-
this
-
tribe
-
of
-
Benjamin
-
400
-
men
-
have
-
wives
-
but
-
there's
-
200
-
men
-
who
-
need
-
wives
-
what
-
are
-
we
-
going
-
to
-
do
-
and
-
so
-
they
-
end
-
up
-
stealing
-
wives
-
they
-
go
-
and
-
they
-
kidnap
-
wives
-
for
-
these
-
last
-
200
-
men
-
Israel
-
was
-
rightly
-
grieved
-
over
-
what
-
had
-
happened
-
but
-
God
-
was
-
pushed
-
far
-
away
-
from
-
their
-
decision
-
making
-
so
-
they
-
overreact
-
their
-
response
-
was
-
to
-
kill
-
a
-
whole
-
tribe
-
almost
-
and
-
then
-
to
-
fix
-
this
-
problem
-
of
-
almost
-
killing
-
a
-
whole
-
tribe
-
they
-
come
-
up
-
with
-
another
-
terrible
-
idea
-
let's
-
go
-
and
-
kidnap
-
women
-
and
-
so
-
we
-
started
-
with
-
one
-
Levite
-
who
-
had
-
followed
-
his
-
pagan
-
culture
-
and
-
had
-
taken
-
a
-
concubine
-
for
-
a
-
wife
-
and
-
in
-
response
-
to
-
the
-
acts
-
that
-
happened
-
a
-
tribe
-
is
-
nearly
-
wiped
-
out
-
and
-
200
-
women
-
are
-
kidnapped
-
God
-
God
-
is
-
pushed
-
away
-
to
-
the
-
very
-
edges
-
of
-
this
-
story
-
he
-
is
-
just
-
a
-
bit
-
part
-
player
-
he's
-
only
-
consulted
-
when
-
people
-
want
-
him
-
in
-
a
-
battle
-
and
-
then
-
we
-
don't
-
hear
-
from
-
God
-
again
-
in
-
Judges
-
in
-
the
-
book
-
of
-
Judges
-
we
-
see
-
this
-
cycle
-
of
-
sin
-
and
-
judgment
-
and
-
Israel
-
crying
-
out
-
for
-
salvation
-
and
-
God
-
would
-
send
-
a
-
judge
-
and
-
all
-
of
-
that
-
is
-
absent
-
that
-
cycle
-
is
-
not
-
here
-
in
-
the
-
book
-
at
-
all
-
God
-
is
-
almost
-
absent
-
from
-
this
-
tale
-
it's
-
a
-
recognition
-
of
-
how
-
depraved
-
people
-
are
-
it
-
focuses
-
in
-
on
-
what
-
people
-
can
-
do
-
and
-
what
-
people
-
are
-
like
-
there
-
is
-
no
-
crying
-
out
-
to
-
God
-
Israel
-
thought
-
they
-
knew
-
how
-
to
-
deal
-
with
-
this
-
situation
-
but
-
they
-
only
-
made
-
things
-
worse
-
now
-
we
-
might
-
think
-
this
-
is
-
a
-
terrible
-
story
-
okay
-
it's
-
a
-
horrific
-
part
-
of
-
the
-
Bible
-
but
-
that's
-
fine
-
I'll
-
just
-
turn
-
the
-
page
-
it's
-
not
-
like
-
us
-
today
-
people
-
don't
-
do
-
that
-
these
-
days
-
surely
-
Christians
-
surely
-
we're
-
better
-
than
-
that
-
now
-
surely
-
we
-
don't
-
do
-
those
-
kinds
-
of
-
things
-
as
-
Steve
-
said
-
earlier
-
in our
-
series
-
on
-
judges
-
we need
-
to have
-
humility
-
we need
-
to have
-
humble
-
authenticity
-
as we
-
come to
-
God's
-
word
-
and
-
passages
-
like
-
this
-
as we
-
are
-
confronted
-
with
-
domestic
-
violence
-
the
-
sexual
-
objectification
-
of women
-
and men
-
it's
-
important
-
at this
-
point
-
to talk
-
about
-
the
-
church's
-
response
-
and
-
our
-
response
-
over the
-
last year
-
there's been
-
a campaign
-
that's
-
come to
-
the fore
-
it's
-
been
-
called
-
me
-
too
-
or
-
hashtag
-
me
-
too
-
if
-
you
-
understand
-
hashtags
-
it's
-
been a
-
way
-
of
-
drawing
-
attention
-
to
-
sexual
-
assault
-
and
-
harassment
-
particularly
-
in the
-
TV
-
and film
-
industry
-
many
-
people
-
have
-
lost
-
their
-
jobs
-
because
-
of
-
their
-
prior
-
sexual
-
assaults
-
have
-
come
-
to
-
light
-
including
-
an
-
American
-
film
-
producer
-
called
-
Harvey
-
Weinstein
-
who's
-
one
-
of the
-
most
-
famous
-
and
-
again
-
we can
-
think
-
that's
-
people
-
in
-
Hollywood
-
this
-
is
-
people
-
far
-
away
-
from
-
us
-
that's
-
not
-
us
-
that's
-
not
-
us
-
here
-
in
-
the
-
church
-
we're
-
better
-
than
-
that
-
just
-
over
-
a
-
year
-
ago
-
in
-
July
-
of
-
2017
-
there
-
was
-
a
-
report
-
on
-
the
-
730
-
report
-
on
-
ABC
-
and
-
they
-
did
-
an
-
investigation
-
specifically
-
into
-
domestic
-
violence
-
in
-
the
-
church
-
particularly
-
how
-
people
-
use
-
the
-
Bible
-
to
-
justify
-
abuse
-
the
-
730
-
report
-
spoke
-
about
-
a
-
couple
-
who
-
lived
-
not
-
that
-
far
-
from
-
here
-
the
-
man
-
said
-
to
-
his
-
wife
-
using
-
the
-
Bible
-
incorrectly
-
you
-
the
-
problem
-
is
-
you
-
don't
-
obey
-
me
-
the
-
Bible
-
says
-
you
-
must
-
obey
-
me
-
and
-
yet
-
you
-
refuse
-
and
-
so
-
he
-
yells
-
at
-
her
-
and
-
abuses
-
her
-
you
-
are
-
a
-
failure
-
as
-
a
-
wife
-
as
-
a
-
Christian
-
as
-
a
-
mother
-
this
-
man
-
appealed
-
to
-
scripture
-
to
-
control
-
and
-
abuse
-
his
-
wife
-
another
-
story
-
a
-
25
-
year
-
old
-
woman
-
from
-
Sydney
-
was
-
told
-
by
-
her
-
church
-
leaders
-
to
-
go
-
home
-
and
-
go
-
back
-
to
-
her
-
husband
-
who
-
had
-
been
-
abusing
-
her
-
and
-
so
-
she
-
went
-
home
-
and
-
the
-
husband
-
stabbed
-
her
-
to
-
death
-
shortly
-
after
-
these
-
are
-
just
-
two
-
horrendous
-
stories
-
of
-
people
-
that
-
are
-
not
-
that
-
far
-
from
-
us
-
not
-
that
-
different
-
from
-
we
-
are
-
not
-
immune
-
to
-
this
-
sort
-
of
-
horror
-
if
-
anything
-
the
-
statistics
-
on
-
domestic
-
violence
-
are
-
the
-
opposite
-
the
-
statistics
-
say
-
that
-
one
-
in
-
four
-
women
-
at
-
some
-
point
-
in
-
their
-
life
-
will
-
be
-
victims
-
of
-
domestic
-
abuse
-
men
-
are
-
victims
-
too
-
but
-
less
-
commonly
-
but
-
they're
-
still
-
victims
-
because
-
domestic
-
violence
-
is
-
not
-
just
-
sexual
-
violence
-
or
-
physical
-
violence
-
there
-
are
-
many
-
types
-
sexual
-
physical
-
verbal
-
mental
-
financial
-
social
-
spiritual
-
violence
-
and we
-
want to
-
respond
-
in the
-
right
-
way
-
to
-
domestic
-
violence
-
as
-
Deb
-
mentioned
-
earlier
-
we
-
have
-
a new
-
domestic
-
violence
-
policy
-
in
-
it
-
it says
-
that
-
when
-
a
-
victim
-
has
-
shared
-
a
-
concern
-
of
-
abuse
-
we
-
should
-
respond
-
in
-
a
-
number
-
of
-
ways
-
I'm
-
just
-
going to
-
quickly
-
read
-
out a
-
couple
-
of
-
them
-
we
-
should
-
believe
-
someone
-
when
-
they
-
report
-
domestic
-
violence
-
we
-
should
-
be
-
compassionate
-
we
-
should
-
prioritise
-
their
-
safety
-
we
-
should
-
listen
-
with
-
care
-
we
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should
-
support
-
the
-
victim
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we
-
should
-
empower
-
the
-
victim
-
now
-
this
-
is
-
just
-
a
-
brief
-
snapshot
-
of
-
some
-
of
-
the
-
responses
-
of
-
how
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we
-
should
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respond
-
but
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they
-
are
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really
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important
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we
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shouldn't
-
just
-
assume
-
that
-
domestic
-
violence
-
doesn't
-
happen
-
here
-
for
-
too
-
long
-
in
-
church
-
and
-
in
-
our
-
culture
-
and
-
in
-
our
-
country
-
it
-
has
-
been
-
a
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taboo
-
topic
-
it
-
has
-
been
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something
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we
-
just
-
don't
-
talk
-
about
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when
-
we
-
hear
-
about
-
abuse
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we
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need
-
to
-
believe
-
we
-
need
-
to
-
honour
-
and
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we
-
need
-
to
-
love
-
the
-
victim
-
even
-
if
-
it's
-
difficult
-
to
-
hear
-
about
-
we
-
may
-
not
-
want
-
to
-
believe
-
that
-
a
-
long
-
standing
-
elder
-
or
-
member
-
of
-
the
-
church
-
could
-
do
-
that
-
but
-
we
-
need
-
to
-
believe
-
and
-
listen
-
to
-
people
-
this
-
passage
-
from
-
judges
-
paints
-
a
-
picture
-
it
-
is
-
a
-
scary
-
picture
-
of
-
people
-
it
-
painted
-
this
-
picture
-
of
-
Levites
-
that
-
they
-
are
-
sexually
-
depraved
-
it
-
painted
-
a
-
picture
-
that
-
fathers
-
don't
-
care
-
about
-
their
-
daughters
-
that
-
they
-
prefer
-
their
-
honour
-
and
-
their
-
money
-
and
-
it
-
painted
-
a
-
picture
-
that
-
women
-
well
-
they
-
don't
-
obey
-
their
-
masters
-
and
-
they
-
leave
-
their
-
husbands
-
painted
-
a
-
picture
-
of
-
the
-
people
-
of
-
Benjamin
-
as
-
depraved
-
and
-
the
-
older
-
man
-
who
-
invited
-
them
-
in
-
well
-
he
-
puts
-
his
-
honour
-
over
-
his
-
own
-
daughter
-
it's
-
important
-
to ask
-
ourselves
-
some
-
questions
-
how
-
are we
-
impacted
-
by our
-
culture
-
are we
-
controlled
-
by our
-
idols
-
even
-
at the
-
cost
-
of committing
-
the worst
-
sins
-
what are
-
Christians
-
like
-
what's the
-
stereotype
-
of Christians
-
what are
-
we like
-
do we
-
hide away
-
from the
-
reality
-
of our
-
sin
-
and our
-
responsibilities
-
to act
-
how do
-
men
-
treat
-
women
-
today
-
is it
-
that
-
different
-
do men
-
still
-
objectify
-
women
-
how do
-
women
-
treat
-
men
-
how do
-
fathers
-
treat
-
daughters
-
slavery
-
is the
-
same
-
today
-
as it
-
was
-
thousands
-
of
-
years
-
ago
-
weak
-
people
-
are
-
trapped
-
and abused
-
by
-
the
-
strong
-
coming
-
to the
-
end of
-
Judges
-
this
-
passage
-
along
-
with the
-
rest
-
of the
-
book
-
points
-
out
-
how
-
much
-
we
-
need
-
a
-
deliverer
-
we
-
have
-
no
-
way
-
of
-
choosing
-
someone
-
who
-
can
-
save
-
us
-
he
-
needs
-
to
-
choose
-
to
-
save
-
us
-
and
-
this
-
deliverer
-
well
-
he
-
does
-
all
-
of
-
this
-
work
-
of
-
salvation
-
by
-
himself
-
because
-
there
-
is
-
nothing
-
we
-
can
-
contribute
-
we
-
are
-
depraved
-
people
-
we
-
need
-
a
-
king
-
who's
-
not
-
only
-
going
-
to
-
save
-
us
-
from
-
God's
-
punishment
-
for
-
our
-
sins
-
but
-
we
-
need
-
a
-
king
-
who
-
is
-
going
-
to
-
make
-
us
-
fit
-
for
-
heaven
-
who's
-
going
-
to
-
purge
-
our
-
hearts
-
of
-
the
-
idolatry
-
of
-
the
-
sin
-
the
-
depravity
-
and
-
the
-
horrors
-
hidden
-
in
-
each
-
of
-
our
-
souls
-
judges
-
finishes
-
with
-
that
-
common
-
refrain
-
in
-
those
-
days
-
Israel
-
had
-
no
-
king
-
everyone
-
did
-
as
-
they
-
saw
-
fit
-
we
-
are
-
all
-
searching
-
for
-
a
-
king
-
we
-
are
-
all
-
searching
-
for
-
someone
-
to
-
save
-
us
-
someone
-
to
-
rule
-
us
-
someone
-
to
-
satisfy
-
the
-
desires
-
of
-
our
-
hearts
-
and
-
we
-
will
-
always
-
choose
-
an
-
idol
-
something
-
that
-
we
-
make
-
a
-
God
-
that
-
we
-
shape
-
ourselves
-
for
-
the
-
God
-
of
-
heaven
-
has
-
sent
-
us
-
Jesus
-
the
-
only
-
one
-
who
-
provides
-
what
-
we
-
are
-
looking
-
for
-
the
-
great
-
king
-
the
-
ultimate
-
judge
-
who
-
will
-
save
-
us
-
from
-
our
-
own
-
depravity
-
let
-
me
-
pray
-
dear
-
heavenly
-
father
-
lord
-
we
-
thank
-
you
-
for
-
your
-
word
-
to
-
us
-
even
-
though
-
difficult
-
and
-
confronting
-
father
-
we
-
ask
-
that
-
you
-
would
-
help
-
us
-
confront
-
the
-
sin
-
and
-
depravity
-
in
-
our
-
own
-
hearts
-
and
-
souls
-
father
-
purge
-
it
-
from
-
us
-
cut
-
it
-
out
-
even
-
if
-
it
-
is
-
painful
-
father
-
we
-
thank
-
you
-
for
-
Jesus
-
that
-
he
-
has
-
saved
-
us
-
and
-
we
-
have
-
forgiveness
-
and
-
we
-
ask
-
that
-
you
-
would
-
fit
-
us
-
for
-
heaven
-
fit
-
us
-
to
-
be
-
perfect
-
with
-
you
-
Lord
-
amen