Sermon
To Treasure Jesus Together (Membership)
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Jack and Grace met through a mutual friend.
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From day one, they just seemed to be perfect for each other.
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Grace was everything Jack had always wanted.
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She was beautiful and she was outgoing and she was caring.
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She was always there whenever Jack needed her.
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For the first five months, they were inseparable.
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Jack could hardly think of anything else but Grace.
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He didn't need to look further.
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He, in fact, told his friends, she's the one for sure.
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But now almost three years have passed.
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Jack still enjoys the comfort and the familiarity of being with Grace.
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But that sort of initial spark is gone.
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Grace's flaws seem a little more obvious to him now.
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He's not sure he finds her as attractive as he once did.
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And he's beginning to resent all the time that she wants to spend with him.
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And so one day when she asks if she can define the nature of their relationship, Jack blows up.
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We're together, aren't we?
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He asks angrily.
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Why isn't that enough for you?
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Obviously, Jack isn't quite ready for commitment.
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He's not sure he, in fact, ever will be ready for commitment or, in fact, ever really needs to be ready for commitment.
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Have you ever been in a relationship like that?
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Do you know people who are in a relationship like that?
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I do.
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Let me say, if that is you, if you're in a relationship like that, this is not God's purpose for your life.
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God wants you to be in a relationship that is defined by both passion and commitment.
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The reality is there are millions of Jacks walking around today.
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But there is something more you should know.
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Grace isn't a girl.
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Grace is a church.
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And this is the let's define the nature of the relationship talk.
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Three things I want us to explore this morning.
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Number one, what is the church?
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Number two, what is the purpose of the church?
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And number three, how to be a church member on purpose.
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So what is the church?
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It's really hard to get clarity on the word when there are so many different uses of the word church running around today.
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In fact, as I was writing this message, it was Melbourne Cup Day, Tuesday.
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I was sitting on the balcony over at the rectory, just having a quiet moment writing this.
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And as I was writing this message, there was someone walking through the car park on the other end of their phone.
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And they said to whoever was on the other end of their phone,
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hey, you could park in the church.
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There's plenty of room here.
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Well, actually, no.
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I've got two problems with that.
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Number one, your definition of church, because I'm writing in this space right now.
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But I won't go there in this moment.
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But secondly, no, you can't just park here whenever you choose to.
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So other views of church is that church is a set of a system of beliefs,
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or it's a program that you attend for an hour and a half, two hours on a Sunday,
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or it's a denomination that you belong to, or it's an institution.
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That exists in society.
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The word that is translated as church in our Bible, in our New Testament,
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comes from the Greek word ecclesia.
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It's used just under 80 times in the New Testament.
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And all but three of them in the New Testament,
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it is translated into the English word church.
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Now, if we look at one of the places where it isn't translated into the English word church,
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you actually get an idea of what the New Testament meaning is behind,
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but what is the meaning behind the original word for ecclesia?
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So it's Acts chapter 19.
Acts 19 chapter mention
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And a silversmith named Demetrius used to make a great living out of making idols
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until the apostle Paul arrives.
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He preaches and all these people start to become Christians.
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So that's great for the church, not so great for the idol business.
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And so what Demetrius does, realising that his income's dropping,
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he decides to whip the city up into a riot.
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And next thing you know, there's this large gathering in this amphitheatre,
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and it says this in Acts 19.32.
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Now, that's not the description of the church,
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but let me just pick up the word assembly there,
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is the Greek word ecclesia.
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It's translated elsewhere in the New Testament as church.
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So you could literally read this,
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the church was in confusion.
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It's just a gathering.
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The word church, at its core,
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simply refers to a crowd of people gathered together.
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It's a mob.
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Sometimes in the New Testament,
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church is used to refer to the gathering of Christians
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around God in heaven from all time and places.
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Theologians refer to this as the invisible church.
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Everyone who knows Jesus from every time and place,
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both alive and dead,
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are gathered spiritually in God's presence and magnifying him.
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And what we are waiting for is the end of all things
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when we will physically,
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everyone be in his presence,
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magnifying him.
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Mostly,
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the word refers to the local church,
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the local gathering in a particular place,
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like the church at the corner of Fuller's Road
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and View Street in Chatswood.
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This is the church visible.
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But it's not just any mob.
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It's not just any crowd that has gathered.
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The Greek word ecclesia
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is made from two other words,
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two other Greek words which are joined together.
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And these words mean to call out.
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Two words, to call and out.
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To call out.
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And so the word church
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really refers to those who were called out by God
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from the world
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to join together as his people,
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the followers of his son,
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the Lord Jesus.
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Now this is crucial
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for us to,
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in understanding
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what the church is.
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But also,
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what the purpose of the church is.
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Last week,
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we looked at the
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much broader question
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of
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what is the purpose of life?
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And we saw that God
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created us
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and saved us
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to magnify him
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because he is magnus.
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He is great.
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We saw that God
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is worthy
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to be magnified
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because he is great
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and he is good.
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And this great and good God
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has a great
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and good plan.
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So let's have a look
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at what that plan is.
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And we're going to begin
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in Ephesians chapter 1 verse 8.
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I've given you a list of references
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so
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you can go back
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and check them later on
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or scribble them down
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if you like.
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So Ephesians chapter 1 verse 8,
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with all wisdom
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and understanding,
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he,
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that's God,
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made known to us
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the mystery of his will
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according to his good pleasure
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which he purposed
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in Christ
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to be put into effect
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when the times
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reach their fulfillment
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to bring unity
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to all things
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in heaven
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and on earth
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under Christ.
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Christ.
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So
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that's where
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everything's going.
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That's
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the plan.
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That's the goal.
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This big God
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has a big plan
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and the big plan
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is everything
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gathered together
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under Jesus.
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Jesus supreme
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and Lord
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over everything.
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So that's the end.
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So let's go back
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to the beginning
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and let's see
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that this is in fact
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been God's plan
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all along.
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It's the reason
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why you and I
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were created
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and saved.
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So back in the beginning
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it's the Garden of Eden
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and in the Garden of Eden
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you're not going to read it
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but there's a real sense
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in Genesis 1 and 2
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where all things
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are gathered
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to God.
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He's made it.
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Everything's at peace.
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Everything is ordered.
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Everything is perfect
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in relationship
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with Him.
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And then
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the first people
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make the decision
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to
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instead of
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magnifying
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God
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they decide
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to magnify
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themselves.
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They decide
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to live life
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their way
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and to make everything
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about them
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rather than about God.
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The Bible calls
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this attitude
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in this action
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sin.
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And the consequence
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of sin
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is everything
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that is ordered
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now becomes
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disordered.
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There's no more
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harmony.
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There's no more
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peace.
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Everything's turned
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upside down
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and relationships
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with God
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is broken.
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Where there used
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to be unity
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and closeness
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with God
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now because of sin
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there is just
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distance and
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disunity.
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And then God
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what He does
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is He removes
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people from
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His presence.
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He judges
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their sin
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by
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it's a theological
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word
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scattering them.
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He scatters
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them from
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Himself.
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And this is
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the principle
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that you see
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right throughout
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the entire
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Bible.
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You can trace
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it right to
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the Bible.
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Wherever
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humanity
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sets itself
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up against
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God
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He scatters
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them.
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But when
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He saves
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them
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He gathers
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them to
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Himself.
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You see it
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not far
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into
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Genesis
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where the
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Tower of
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Babel
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in Genesis
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11
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and where
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He scatters
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people from
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Himself
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and from
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each other
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and yet
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in
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Genesis
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12
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He calls
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Abraham
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to
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Himself.
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It's a
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theme that
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runs right
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through the
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Bible.
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When God
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saves He
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gathers
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people to
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Himself
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but when
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they rebel
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against
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Him He
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scatters
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them from
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His
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presence.
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Which is
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the ultimate
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thing that
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happens.
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The goal
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of all
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things God
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will gather
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those to
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Himself
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who are
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His for
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eternity
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in His
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presence
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and those
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who are
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not His
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He will
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cast them
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from His
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presence for
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all eternity.
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In Isaiah
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11
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several
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hundred
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years
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before
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Jesus
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Isaiah
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is looking
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forward
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to this
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day
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when
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everything
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is
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finally
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ordered
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and
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harmonious
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and
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peaceful
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and in
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right
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relationship
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like it
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was in
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Genesis
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1 and
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2
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and he
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refers to
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a particular
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person
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who will
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accomplish
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God's
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great
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plan
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and in
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Isaiah
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11
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this person
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is called
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the root
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of Jesse
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this person
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is the
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Messiah
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he is
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historically
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known as
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the son
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of great
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King
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David
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and in
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verse 12
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it says
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this
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he will
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raise a
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banner
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for the
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nations
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and gather
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the exiles
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of Israel
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he will
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assemble
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the scattered
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people
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of Judah
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from the
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four
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quarters
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of the
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earth
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then
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as
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Isaiah
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keeps
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going
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you get
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to
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Isaiah
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56
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8
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and
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God
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himself
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declares
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there
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that he
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will
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expand
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his
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plan
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beyond
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his
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historic
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people
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Israel
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and this
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is what
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God
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says
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he says
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I
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will
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gather
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still
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others
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to
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them
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besides
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those
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already
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gathered
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and the
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climax
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of God's
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plans
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is revealed
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at the end
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of the book
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of Isaiah
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in Isaiah
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66
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18
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we read
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and I
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this is
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God
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again
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and I
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because
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of what
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they have
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planned
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and done
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am about
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to come
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and gather
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the people
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of all
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nations
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and languages
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and they
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will come
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and see
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my glory
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see
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God's
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plan
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is to
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gather
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people
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from all
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nations
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and tribes
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and peoples
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and cultures
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to himself
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that they
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might see
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his glory
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that they
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might
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magnify
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his
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magnus
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it's a
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plan
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that starts
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to get
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worked out
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in history
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with the
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creation
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of the
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church
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by the
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Lord Jesus
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Christ
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and you
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see that
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in Ephesians
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2 11
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the passage
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that was
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read out
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to us
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therefore
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formally
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remember
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that formally
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you
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who are
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Gentiles
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by birth
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and court
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uncircumcised
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by those
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who call
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themselves
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the circumcision
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which is
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done in
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the body
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by human
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hands
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remember
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that at
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that time
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you were
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separated
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you were
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scattered
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from Christ
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excluded
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from
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citizenship
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in Israel
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and foreigners
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to the
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covenants
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of the
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promise
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without
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hope
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and without
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God
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in this
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world
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see what
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Paul does
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here in
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Ephesians
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is he
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highlights
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the
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massive
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division
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between
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Jews
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and Gentiles
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but also
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between
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them all
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both Jews
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and Gentiles
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and God
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there is
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deep
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deep
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hostility
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which is
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hard for
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us to
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understand
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and what
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Paul does
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in verse
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13
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is he
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shows us
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how God
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brings about
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the end
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of this
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hostility
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and gathers
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these people
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to each
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other
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and to
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himself
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so
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Ephesians 2
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verse 13
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now in
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Christ Jesus
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you who
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once were
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far away
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you who
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once were
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scattered
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have been
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brought near
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been gathered
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by the
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blood of
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Christ
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for he
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himself is
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our peace
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who has
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made the
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two groups
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one
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and has
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destroyed
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the barrier
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the dividing
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wall of
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hostility
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by setting
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aside in
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his flesh
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the law
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with its
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commandments
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and regulations
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his purpose
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was to
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create
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in himself
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one
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new
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humanity
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out of
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the two
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thus making
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peace
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and in
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one body
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to reconcile
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both of
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them to
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God
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through the
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cross
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by which
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he put
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to death
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their hostility
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sin
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death
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hostility
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between
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Jew and
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Gentile
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is finally
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dealt with
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by Jesus
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at the
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cross
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Jesus
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is the
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one who
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gathers
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these
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diverse
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people
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together
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and he
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calls them
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a new
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people
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a new
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humanity
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and we
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will talk
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a little
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bit more
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about that
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next week
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a new
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people
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gathered
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to God
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in relationship
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with God
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so what's
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God's purpose
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in all of
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this
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we're still
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asking that
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question
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what is the
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purpose of
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the church
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why do
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this
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why gather
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like this
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Ephesians 3
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10
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his intent
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God's intent
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was that
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now
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right now
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here
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through the
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church
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the
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manifold
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wisdom
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wisdom
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of God
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should be
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made known
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to the
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rulers
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and the
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authorities
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in the
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heavenly realms
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according to
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his eternal
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purpose
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that he
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accomplished
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in Christ
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Jesus
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our
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Lord
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the
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manifold
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wisdom
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the
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multi
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colored
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spectacular
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wisdom
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of God
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should be
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made known
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through the
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church
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the great
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and glorious
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God's great
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and glorious
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plan
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is to gather
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a very diverse
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people
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to each
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other
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in unity
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with each
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other
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and to
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himself
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in such
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a way
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that his
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greatness
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and his
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glory
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is made
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known
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to all
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the heavenly
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realms
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God
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does this
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work
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so that
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his
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magnus
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might be
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seen
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there is
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a sense
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here
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where
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right now
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God
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calls
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over
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the rulers
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and the
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authorities
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and the
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heavenly
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realms
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and he
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says
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hey
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Gabriel
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Michael
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have a
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look at
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that
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have a
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look at
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that
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look at
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St.
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Paul's
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Chatswood
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that is
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what I've
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been doing
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for all
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of history
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working
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this out
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my son
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made that
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possible
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he brought
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these diverse
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people together
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he broke
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down the
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dividing
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walls
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and he
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says to
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the demons
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hey
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Satan
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get over
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here
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and take
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a look
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at this
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not even
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the gates
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of hell
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are going
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to stop
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my son
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doing that
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until I call
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them all to
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myself
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you can't
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stop that
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every
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every tribe
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every tribe
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and language
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and peoples
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gathered
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together
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unified
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in my
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son
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that
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displays
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the
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magnificence
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of God
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United
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Nations
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can't do
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this
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it can't
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achieve
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this
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God
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you see
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what did
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you say
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that you
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what is
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church
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about
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what did
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you say
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this morning
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you see
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before church
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is about
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serving one
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another
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before it
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is about
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learning
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more about
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God
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before it's
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about
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whatever
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other things
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you came
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up with
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it's about
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us being
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gathered
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together
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to God
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so that
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God
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looks
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magnificent
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that's
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what it's
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about
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this
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is so
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fundamental
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for us
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to grasp
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in fact
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I'd say
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it's
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critical
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for us
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to grasp
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before
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church
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is about
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me
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before it's
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about
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you
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before it's
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about
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us
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it's
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about
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God
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this is
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his
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design
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this is
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his
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grand
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plan
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for all
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time
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and
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eternity
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dare I
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say it
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transcultural
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church is
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his
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grand
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plan
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transcultural
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church is
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his
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grand
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plan
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and I
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think this
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is again
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captured in
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our purpose
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statement
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here at
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St.
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Paul's
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treasuring
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Jesus
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together
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for God's
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glory
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and the
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joy
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of all
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peoples
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so let's
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move on
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how to be
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a church
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member on
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purpose
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how do we
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as individuals
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be members
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of a church
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on purpose
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let me say
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first of all
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first of all
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that you
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become a
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member of
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God's
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church
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not by
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completing a
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membership
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course
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church
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or by
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attending a
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church for
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a very
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long time
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that's not
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how you
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become a
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member of
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a church
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you become a
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member of
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God's church
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by repenting
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of living
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independent of
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God
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by putting your
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trust in the
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Lord Jesus
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by receiving the
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Holy Spirit
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who unites you
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with God and
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with other
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believers
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that's how you
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become a member
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of the church
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that's the
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fundamental
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first step
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so you could
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be sitting in
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church for
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decades and
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not taking that
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fundamental first
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step
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there will be
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plenty of
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people in
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heaven who
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haven't done
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the St.
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Paul's
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Chatswood
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pathways
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course
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plenty of
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people
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but there
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won't be
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anyone who
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hasn't repented
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of sins and
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trusted in
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Jesus
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not a single
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one
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and maybe
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today this is
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the first
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fundamental step
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that you need
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to take
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maybe you've
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come along
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you got involved
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in the local
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expression of the
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church and
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you're doing a
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bunch of stuff
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maybe doing a
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bunch of stuff
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for ages
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but you've got
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confused
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you're doing
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step two
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before you even
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got to step
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one
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maybe today's
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the day you
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need to take
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step one
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if you've
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taken step
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one
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then the
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most important
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way you can
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be a member
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on purpose
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at St.
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Paul's
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is to
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embrace the
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vision the
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values
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that we have
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as a church
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our mission
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statement and
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live out our
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core values
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our shared
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values which
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are driven
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by
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God's
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grand plan
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one of the
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key values
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that helps us
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think about
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the sort of
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gathering that
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we are and
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the sort of
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gathering that
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we aspire to
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be at St.
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Paul's is
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treasuring Jesus
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together and
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it was written
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specifically to
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enforce if you
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like to
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highlight the
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need to
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gather and
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how we
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gather let
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me read it
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to you
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having been
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led individually
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by the
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spirit of
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God to
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receive
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Jesus Christ
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as the
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Lord
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Saviour
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and supreme
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treasure of
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our lives
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we now
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most solemnly
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and joyfully
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enter into
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covenant with
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one another
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as one body
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in Christ
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we believe
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the people
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whom Jesus
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has called
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into relationship
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with himself
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are his
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church
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and not
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an institution
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or a
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building
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in an
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age of
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individualism
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we value
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vigilance
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and accountability
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in treasuring
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Jesus
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together
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together
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now in
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Ephesians
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Paul goes
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on to
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spend
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extensive
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time on
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what God's
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new humanity
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his gathering
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his church
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looks like
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in their
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life together
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and
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treasuring
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Jesus
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together
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is a
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value
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that tries
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to capture
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things like
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the rest of
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Ephesians
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and a whole
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heap of
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New Testament
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language
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it's all
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about life
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together
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it's about
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relationships
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it's about
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our
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togetherness
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and like
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all our
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values
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this one
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is highly
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practical
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like all our
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values
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it is
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highly
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practical
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it says
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things like
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as a church
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we are
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committed
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to
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and then
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there's a
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bunch of
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statements
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one of
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them is
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making
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corporate
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worship
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a weekly
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priority
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in other
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words
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if God's
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purpose
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is
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for all
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the time
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and eternity
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to gather
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to himself
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people
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under the
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lordship
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of Christ
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then we
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express
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God's
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ultimate
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goal
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by gathering
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really
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simple
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we gather
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is what
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we do
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in the
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Bible
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to
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magnify
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God
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always
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requires
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the regular
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gathering
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of God's
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people
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so
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I'm not
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going to
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throw
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around
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too
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many
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statistics
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here
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but
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have you
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ever
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calculated
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how many
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gatherings
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you miss
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a year
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did you
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know
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that
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in our
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culture
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regular
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nowadays
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has become
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somewhere
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between
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30 and
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40 percent
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attendance
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I'll just
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let that
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sit
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we don't
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need a
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rule
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here
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I'm not
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looking for
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rule
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what we
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need
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is to
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see
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the great
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and the
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gracious
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plan of
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a great
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and a
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gracious
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God
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I said
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it last
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week
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how do
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we grow
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in
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magnifying
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God
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by
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gazing
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on him
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and being
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blown away
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by him
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we need
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to see
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what it
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cost him
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to gather
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us
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together
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and to
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gather
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us to
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himself
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nothing else
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will motivate
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us to
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gather
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no rule
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will motivate
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us to
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gather
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that's
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for sure
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treasuring
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Jesus
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together
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not only
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says that
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we value
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being
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together
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but how
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we value
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being
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together
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we're
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committed
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to
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meeting
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together
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in small
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groups
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for more
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intimate
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opportunities
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for nurture
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for growth
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accountability
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and service
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we are
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committed
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to engaging
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to watch
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over one
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another
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in brotherly
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love
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committed
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to remembering
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one another
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in prayer
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committing
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to aiding
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one another
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in sickness
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and distress
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committed
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to cultivating
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Christian
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sympathy
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and joy
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committed
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to being
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slow
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to take
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offense
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but always
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ready
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for
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reconciliation
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and mindful
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of the
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command
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of our
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savior
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to secure
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without
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delay
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we are
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committed
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to welcoming
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people
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from every
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background
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we are
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committed
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to openness
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towards new
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people
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and the
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avoidance
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of clickiness
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we are
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committed
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to purging
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our lives
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of the
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sin
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that causes
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division
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we are
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committed
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to pursuing
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increasingly
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visible
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authentic
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and practical
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ways of
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loving each
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other
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and patriarchy
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so i am
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want to
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the beach sort of stuff.
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So get ready for this.
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Jesus started it with these words.
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A new commandment I give you, love one another.
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As I have loved you, so you must love one another.
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By this all people know that you're my disciples if you love one another.
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John 13, 34, 35.
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Paul states the commandment to love each other in more than a dozen ways.
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Romans 12, 5.
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In Christ, we who are many for one body,
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and each member belongs to all the others.
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Romans 12, 10.
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Be devoted to one another in brotherly love.
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Again in 12, 10.
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Honour one another above yourselves.
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Romans 14, 19.
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Make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification.
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Romans 15, 14.
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Instruct one another.
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1 Corinthians 12, 25.
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There should be no division in the body,
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but that its parts should have equal concern for each other.
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Galatians 5, 13.
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Serve one another in love.
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Galatians 6, 2.
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Carry each other's burdens.
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Ephesians 4, 2.
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Be patient, bearing with one another in love.
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Ephesians 4, 32.
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Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other.
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Ephesians 5, 21.
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Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
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Philippians 2, 3.
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In humility, consider others better than yourselves.
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Colossians 3, 9.
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Do not lie to one another.
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1 Thessalonians 4, 18.
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Encourage one another.
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1 Thessalonians 5, 15.
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Always try to be kind to each other and to everyone else.
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That's Paul.
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Okay.
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And then the book of Hebrews joins in the chorus.
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Let us consider how we may spur one another on towards love and good deeds.
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And do not forget to meet together.
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Then James pipes in, in chapter 4, verse 11.
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Do not slander one another.
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5, 9.
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Don't grumble against each other.
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5, 16.
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Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.
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And then Peter jumps in, in 1 Peter 4, 9.
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Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling.
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5, 5.
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Clothe yourselves with humility towards one another.
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And that doesn't even get into John.
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Revelation.
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We'll just leave it at that.
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What is obvious from all of this is the prominence of loving, Christ-exalting, other person-centered personal relationships.
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So let me say it.
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There is no such thing as isolated, individualistic, meet-my-needs consumer Christianity in the Bible.
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It doesn't exist.
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And it works against all of God's purposes.
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You see, a church dater has an attitude towards church that is me-centered.
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What can church do for me?
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How are my needs and personal preferences going to be met?
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Church daters are independent.
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They're disconnected.
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And they're minimally involved in people's lives.
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And don't at all like the idea of accountability to one another.
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Essentially, however, a church dater is critical.
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They're short on allegiance.
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And they are quick to find faults.
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They're looking, if you like, for the best product for their price of two hours on a Sunday.
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They are, if you like, they're like the lover with a wandering eye, always looking for something better.
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The sad thing is, what the church dater is thinking, is working in their favor, is actually working against them.
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It results in a serious loss for them and a loss for others.
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You cannot fulfill the command to love and to serve and to give by yourself.
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Normal, essential Christianity is loving, Christ-exalting, other person-centered, personal relationships in the local church.
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And so what we're seeking to do here at St. Paul's is to build a gospel community.
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Another way of putting that is what we're seeking to do is to build a supernatural community, rather than simply a natural community.
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A natural community is where people feel connected because of a demographic phenomenon.
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That is, people who would normally gravitate to each other and find a sense of belonging with each other because of similarities, irrespective of whether gospel is true or not.
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That's natural community.
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Like, gathering together with like, with similarities.
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Now, that's not entirely a bad thing.
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I share common interests with basically all of my friends.
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In fact, all of my friends.
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I can't imagine not having any common interests with any of you.
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I think all of my friends have got common interests of mine.
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And so it's not a bad thing to have those connections and affinities here at St. Paul's.
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What I want to caution us about is not to think it is the sum total of gospel community and what gospel community is about.
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In fact, we do church the way we do church.
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With a shared discomfort in order that many more people who are diverse might find affinity in a congregation like this.
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But at the end of the day, you can have natural community without Jesus.
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And when Jesus becomes dominant and we start sacrificing for the sake of Jesus being dominant so that more people might come to know Jesus,
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that natural community gets fractured.
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That's what happens.
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The heavenly realms look on and see the wisdom of God when they gaze on supernatural community.
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When they see gospel community.
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It's the kind of community that could really only exist because of what Jesus has done for us on the cross.
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This is when people who would not gravitate to each other normally or people groups who have open hostility towards each other historically
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are drawn together in peace and in love through the unifying work of the Holy Spirit and Christ's work on the cross.
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So how do we be church members on purpose?
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Number one, gather.
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Really simple.
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That's what God has saved you for together.
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Number two, by building supernatural community.
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And lastly, by being willing to purposefully fracture the community.
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It is awesome to be part of a gospel community that God is growing.
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But one of the painful realities is the need to keep fracturing it in order to make space for others to be welcomed into it.
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One of our principles is we must fracture in order to welcome and to gather more people in.
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When we're comfortable and we're comfortable and we're comfortable and we're settled, we don't want to fracture what we have.
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And we start moving from gospel community into natural community and affinities.
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It is wonderful to form and to build deep relationships.
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Deep relationships.
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Deep relationships.
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But let me say, you can do that naturally.
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You can do that naturally.
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Deep relationships.
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You don't need the gospel for deep relationships.
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What is supernatural is the willingness to fracture community groups, to fracture congregations and time with people I love in order that others might be part of what we have in gospel community.
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We must never forget that community is not the goal of the church.
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As great as it is, the glory of God is the goal of the church and he is magnified as he gathers more and more people to himself.
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That they might see his glory.
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And so our core value, treasuring Jesus together, living in unity with one another, accepting and loving each other,
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is valuable finally because it makes God look good.
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It displays to the world the greatness and the glory and the value of the Lord Jesus and his love towards us.
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It is from God.
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It is through God.
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And it is to God.
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And we can practice it this morning very simply, very simply by not rushing off.
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By engaging with someone totally different this morning.
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Rather than just, you know, walk out of here and...
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By sitting somewhere different in the...
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By going deeper in a relationship.
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Now there are a few metaphors that the Bible uses to describe the intimate way that the Lord Jesus views his church.
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He calls it his family.
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He calls it his body.
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He calls it his bride.
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He loves his church and he gave himself over to death for his church.
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And he looks forward to the day when his bride, in all its perfection, will be presented to him and will be with him forever in delight.
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As I said at the beginning, today is the commitment conversation.
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Are you still dating his church?
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If so, you're still dating him.
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You haven't fully surrendered to Jesus.
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The church matters because God chose it to show and to tell the universe his wisdom and his love.
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This message is the world's only hope.
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And if you're a Christian, you have a crucial part in God's eternal plan.
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Your life...
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Can I just push this a little bit harder?
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Your life is so much bigger than a good job.
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It's so much bigger than an understanding spouse.
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It's so much more important than non-delinquent kids.
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Good friends and an active social life.
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It's so much bigger than beautiful gardens and nice holidays and fashionable clothes.
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You are part of something immense.
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Something that began before you were born and will continue long after you are dead.
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God is rescuing fallen, scattered humanity, gathering to himself and progressively shaping them into the likeness of the Lord Jesus Christ.
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He gathers you to himself so that you might be taking part in his grand and glorious plan.
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Does your life reflect it?
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Does your life reflect it?