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The Invisible Work of God

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  1. Good morning, everyone, and welcome to St. Paul's.

  2. We've not met you before.

  3. My name's Steve, the senior pastor here at St. Paul's.

  4. And this is a very important term for us here as a church.

  5. It's the end of Follow 25, if you're familiar with that.

  6. What Follow 25 has been for us is it's been our five-year ministry plan

  7. to see us grow in faith in Jesus Christ

  8. and be transformed into the image of Jesus

  9. from the inside out, both individually and corporately.

  10. Our plan has been to grow deeper and more confident in God,

  11. particularly in a time and a place

  12. where the prevailing view of society towards the Christian faith

  13. is anywhere between apathy through to hostility.

  14. And so this term, what we're doing is we're looking back

  15. at what's happened in the last five years at the same time

  16. while we're planning to look forward and seeking God's will

  17. for our future together and what he's calling us into.

  18. And so to help us to reflect on what's been and to inspire us

  19. to look ahead with anticipation,

  20. we are going back two and a half thousand years in history

  21. to the book of Esther in the Bible,

  22. which the first bits have just been read out to us.

  23. Now, at first glance, when you take a helicopter view

  24. of the book of Esther, it appears like it's one of those

  25. kind of Cinderella stories of the Old Testament.

  26. It's the orphan girl who, you know, raised up and becomes,

  27. you know, queen of Persia.

  28. It's, you know, rags to riches kind of story.

  29. It's a heartwarming, you know, the poor girl gets good kind of thing.

  30. And yet the reality is the book of Esther is fundamentally

  31. so much more than that.

  32. In fact, the book is about how God saves his people

  33. from the brink of disaster, that he never abandons his people.

  34. Because what we're reading here in the book of Esther

  35. is one of the most perilous times in the history of God's people.

  36. They're in exile in a foreign land.

  37. They are a minority group ruled by a very powerful empire.

  38. And as we will see in the coming weeks,

  39. they are literally on the brink of extermination.

  40. And what this book shows us is it teaches how to follow God,

  41. how to trust him, and even how to expect big things of him

  42. when, even when the society around us,

  43. even when we're a minority group and society around us

  44. is morally, spiritually, and culturally indifferent

  45. or even hostile to the God whom we follow.

  46. So if you've got the St. Paul's app,

  47. three points for today that we're going to look at

  48. just in these sections just being read out.

  49. And the first point, God is working despite appearances.

  50. One of the oddest things about the book of Esther

  51. is that there is no mention of God in the book at all.

  52. At all.

  53. Not even once.

  54. It's not like the writer got to the end of it

  55. and sent it off for publishing.

  56. It came back and re-read his.

  57. Went, oh my goodness.

  58. I forgot to mention God.

  59. You know, like I'm pretty confident it's not an oversight.

  60. I'm pretty confident that the writer here is making a point.

  61. And the point is, is that God is always at work.

  62. You see, whenever the God of Israel,

  63. if you look at the Old Testament,

  64. saw his people in trouble in the past,

  65. he comes through for them in extraordinary

  66. and spectacular ways.

  67. And yet you get to the book of Esther

  68. and there's no mighty miracle.

  69. There's no vision.

  70. Not even a dream.

  71. It appears throughout the entire book

  72. that God is absent.

  73. That God is totally silent.

  74. That God's not there.

  75. And yet, when you read through the book,

  76. what you discover is a whole heap of a string,

  77. if you like, of apparent consequences.

  78. You know, if those things had not happened,

  79. God's people would have in fact been exterminated.

  80. And each one is connected to the other.

  81. You know, if Xerxes had not been a fool

  82. and Xerxes had not got drunk

  83. and made a boast about his queen Vashti,

  84. Vashti would have still been queen

  85. if he had not got drunk.

  86. And yet Esther must be queen

  87. in order to save God's people.

  88. And what if there was no one

  89. who was Jewish good enough

  90. to be part of the harem?

  91. What if Esther had not been pretty?

  92. What if Esther was not chosen

  93. to be part of the group?

  94. What if the king had favoured

  95. one of the other girls in the harem?

  96. The whole narrative of Esther is

  97. what if, what if, what if, what if,

  98. what if, what if, what if?

  99. All the way through.

  100. And all of them are ordinary,

  101. even flawed things,

  102. bad things.

  103. And by themselves,

  104. they don't appear to be significant at all.

  105. See, here's the point

  106. that I think the writer is trying

  107. to get across here.

  108. When we see the plagues

  109. in the book of Exodus,

  110. we say,

  111. there is God at work

  112. saving his people.

  113. Praise God.

  114. When we see Xerxes drunk,

  115. we don't go,

  116. there is God at work

  117. saving his people.

  118. And Esther is telling us,

  119. don't make the mistake

  120. of overlooking the ordinary,

  121. even the sinful and the bad,

  122. about God bringing about his purposes.

  123. Don't make the mistake

  124. of the materialist

  125. who judges situations

  126. based on what they can see

  127. and feel

  128. and can know firsthand.

  129. He may not be seen,

  130. but God is at work

  131. all the way through this book.

  132. His silence

  133. is not his absence.

  134. His hiddenness

  135. is not his abandonment.

  136. God is not obsessed

  137. with appearances

  138. the way that we are.

  139. He's working out his promises

  140. even when it appears

  141. that he's nowhere around.

  142. And there are things going on

  143. in our lives right now.

  144. We could be looking

  145. right at it,

  146. things that God is doing

  147. that are so ordinary

  148. and we're not either

  149. not seeing it

  150. or we're not embracing it.

  151. You see,

  152. even in all the ugliness

  153. of Esther 1 and 2,

  154. and it is ugliness,

  155. there's hardly anything redeemable

  156. in Esther chapters 1 and 2

    Esther 1 chapter mention

  157. at all.

  158. God is at work.

  159. He's using the flawed,

  160. the failed,

  161. and the questionable

  162. people in this chapter

  163. like Xerxes,

  164. all his noblemen,

  165. and Esther

  166. to bring about his plans

  167. and his purposes.

  168. God is at work

  169. despite appearances.

  170. And that matters to us

  171. because we live in a world

  172. that is obsessed

  173. with appearance.

  174. The book of Esther begins,

  175. if you've got it there,

  176. open up chapter 1.

  177. It begins by introducing us

  178. to the great empire

  179. of King Xerxes I,

  180. also known as Xerxes the Great,

  181. or the fourth king of kings

  182. of the Achamanian Empire.

  183. Verse 1,

  184. this is what happened

  185. during the time of Xerxes,

  186. the Xerxes who ruled

  187. over 127 provinces,

  188. stretching from India

  189. to Kush.

  190. Xerxes I,

  191. his reign

  192. was from 486

  193. to 465 BC

  194. when he was

  195. assassinated

  196. by the head

  197. of his security.

  198. His empire

  199. included

  200. northwestern India,

  201. Pakistan,

  202. Afghanistan,

  203. Uzbekistan,

  204. Iran,

  205. Iraq,

  206. Armenian,

  207. Azerbaijan,

  208. Syria,

  209. Lebanon,

  210. Israel,

  211. Jordan,

  212. Turkey,

  213. northern Greece,

  214. Egypt,

  215. Libya,

  216. Eritrea,

  217. Ethiopia,

  218. and Sudan.

  219. There is no one

  220. at that time

  221. more powerful

  222. on the face

  223. of the earth

  224. than Xerxes I,

  225. and he knew it.

  226. He was not a humble man,

  227. and so he holds a party

  228. to show the world

  229. just how great he is

  230. in case there was any confusion

  231. about the matter.

  232. Verse 4 tells us

  233. that it went on

  234. for a full

  235. 180 days.

  236. He displayed

  237. the vast wealth

  238. of his kingdom

  239. and the splendor

  240. and the glory

  241. of his majesty.

  242. In other words,

  243. he got all of his wealth

  244. out and he paraded it

  245. like a ticker tape parade

  246. in front of his friends

  247. and it took six months

  248. for the parade to end.

  249. And with an open bar,

  250. it's not surprising

  251. he was drunk.

  252. See,

  253. the whole point here

  254. is we are meant

  255. to gaze

  256. upon the greatness

  257. of Xerxes,

  258. gaze wide open,

  259. eyed at his gold

  260. and his silver

  261. and his jewelry

  262. and the sheer

  263. accumulation

  264. of his power

  265. and his wealth

  266. and his splendor

  267. and his majesty,

  268. and we are meant

  269. to admire him.

  270. We are meant

  271. to be envious

  272. of him.

  273. He is the ancient

  274. version

  275. of a social media

  276. influencer.

  277. I have

  278. the enviable

  279. life.

  280. Be like me.

  281. Everyone was meant

  282. to want to be

  283. Xerxes.

  284. That's the point.

  285. But Queen Vashti

  286. knows the man.

  287. While Xerxes

  288. is over here

  289. for six months

  290. doing his best

  291. to get the thumbs up

  292. and the likes

  293. and the little love hearts

  294. as many as possible

  295. amongst the crowd

  296. that's gathered,

  297. Vashti is hosting

  298. her own separate banquet

  299. for the ladies.

  300. And Xerxes' party

  301. gets a little

  302. out of control,

  303. tends to happen

  304. when the ladies

  305. are not around.

  306. Verse 10,

  307. we see Xerxes

  308. make too many trips

  309. to the open bar

  310. and he decides

  311. it's time

  312. not just to show

  313. off to everyone

  314. that he's the wealthiest,

  315. most powerful man

  316. in the world,

  317. but he also has

  318. the best looking woman

  319. in the world

  320. that he has

  321. as his queen.

  322. Verse 11,

  323. bring before me

  324. Queen Vashti

  325. wearing her royal crown

  326. in order to display

  327. her beauty

  328. to the people

  329. and the nobles

  330. for she was lovely

  331. to look at.

  332. That's the point.

  333. Bring out my queen,

  334. put her on the end

  335. of the parade

  336. so all the guys

  337. can drool at her too.

  338. He wasn't interested

  339. in her friends,

  340. his friends meeting her.

  341. she was brought out

  342. and paraded

  343. amongst all

  344. of his drunken

  345. friends

  346. so that she might

  347. be admired

  348. and people would go,

  349. Xerxes,

  350. lucky man.

  351. And for some,

  352. if Vashti refuses

  353. to come,

  354. it's an incredible

  355. act of bravery

  356. on her behalf

  357. and defiance.

  358. You see,

  359. in a hierarchical shame

  360. and honour culture,

  361. for an authority

  362. like this

  363. to be rejected

  364. is not just

  365. a personal affront,

  366. it's a cultural crisis.

  367. The king

  368. was furious

  369. at this.

  370. He's furious.

  371. But instead of getting

  372. some marriage counselling,

  373. he holds a cabinet meeting

  374. to work out

  375. what now needs

  376. to be done

  377. with Vashti.

  378. It's a crisis.

  379. It's a cultural crisis.

  380. What do we do

  381. with someone

  382. who will not join

  383. on the end

  384. of the parade

  385. for the sake

  386. of appearance?

  387. What do we do

  388. with someone

  389. who's not

  390. going to join

  391. with the culture?

  392. And of course,

  393. the nobles

  394. are concerned

  395. because they've got

  396. their wives

  397. who Vashti

  398. may inspire them

  399. to do the same thing.

  400. I mean,

  401. anarchy will reign

  402. in our homes.

  403. Vashti is banished

  404. and the royal decree

  405. went out

  406. to the whole kingdom

  407. so that

  408. when everyone

  409. heard it,

  410. verse 20,

  411. all the women

  412. will respect

  413. their husbands

  414. from the least

  415. to the greatest.

  416. Chapter 2

  417. begins with

  418. Xerxes.

  419. It appears

  420. that the

  421. next day

  422. comes

  423. the...

  424. he's kind of

  425. waking up

  426. from his drunken

  427. stupor

  428. and realises,

  429. oh my goodness,

  430. I've now

  431. banished Vashti.

  432. I need to find

  433. another trophy

  434. wife.

  435. And the whole

  436. kingdom is searched

  437. for the best-looking

  438. candidates.

  439. It's probably,

  440. from what we could

  441. tell,

  442. the first recorded

  443. instance of an

  444. international

  445. beauty pageant,

  446. Miss Persia

  447. Empire

  448. for 80 BC.

  449. It's likely

  450. that there

  451. as many

  452. as 1,000

  453. young women

  454. were brought

  455. back to the

  456. king's harem

  457. to see

  458. which one

  459. will be

  460. his favoured

  461. one.

  462. They underwent

  463. beauty treatments

  464. and training

  465. for a whole

  466. year

  467. just to get

  468. ready

  469. for one night

  470. with the

  471. king.

  472. That's it.

  473. One night

  474. alone with

  475. Xerxes.

  476. Every single

  477. thing in

  478. that preparation

  479. turned on

  480. that one

  481. night.

  482. And there

  483. were only

  484. one of four

  485. possible outcomes.

  486. Xerxes,

  487. you have your

  488. night with

  489. Xerxes,

  490. he sends you

  491. back to

  492. become a

  493. permanent

  494. concubine

  495. but he never

  496. calls you

  497. again.

  498. You see,

  499. after you've

  500. had that

  501. one night

  502. with Xerxes,

  503. you don't go

  504. back to your

  505. family and

  506. your friends.

  507. You are

  508. forever his

  509. concubine

  510. and he may

  511. never call

  512. you again

  513. which means

  514. that you're

  515. essentially

  516. banished to

  517. permanent

  518. widowhood

  519. around about

  520. the age of

  521. 18 in that

  522. sort of

  523. vicinity

  524. somewhere.

  525. Secondly,

  526. you become

  527. a concubine

  528. which he calls

  529. for, you

  530. know,

  531. occasionally

  532. for entertainment

  533. when he feels

  534. like it

  535. and that'll

  536. be for the

  537. rest of

  538. your life.

  539. Now,

  540. thirdly,

  541. you might

  542. be one of

  543. the one

  544. or two,

  545. maybe three

  546. chosen women

  547. whom he

  548. marries

  549. and the

  550. children that

  551. you have

  552. will become

  553. royal heirs

  554. with royal

  555. benefits.

  556. But fourthly,

  557. if you are

  558. the one he

  559. most favours,

  560. you become

  561. the queen.

  562. He marries

  563. and you

  564. become the

  565. queen.

  566. And one

  567. of the

  568. girls who

  569. was taken

  570. was a

  571. Jewish

  572. orphan

  573. named

  574. Esther

  575. who we

  576. were just

  577. introduced

  578. to.

  579. And when

  580. they took

  581. her,

  582. her older

  583. cousin

  584. Mordecai

  585. instructs

  586. her

  587. not to

  588. say

  589. anything

  590. about

  591. her Jewish

  592. identity

  593. or her

  594. beliefs.

  595. Nothing.

  596. Don't mention

  597. that.

  598. Hide that.

  599. and she

  600. was the

  601. one of

  602. the great

  603. harem,

  604. she was

  605. the one

  606. that Xerxes

  607. favours over

  608. everyone else

  609. and he

  610. marries her

  611. and he

  612. makes her

  613. his queen.

  614. And so

  615. this Jewish

  616. orphan girl

  617. becomes

  618. the queen

  619. of the

  620. greatest

  621. empire

  622. on the

  623. face of

  624. the earth.

  625. This is

  626. not a

  627. Cinderella

  628. story.

  629. Neither

  630. is it

  631. giving us

  632. relationship

  633. advice

  634. in any

  635. shape

  636. or form.

  637. You see,

  638. what this

  639. is telling

  640. us,

  641. when you

  642. stand back

  643. and look

  644. at it,

  645. in the

  646. Persian culture,

  647. the most

  648. important thing

  649. about a

  650. man was

  651. his wealth

  652. and his

  653. power.

  654. and the

  655. most

  656. important

  657. thing

  658. about a

  659. woman

  660. was her

  661. sexual

  662. and

  663. physical

  664. beauty.

  665. A man's

  666. worth

  667. was determined

  668. by the

  669. size of

  670. his wallet

  671. and a

  672. woman's

  673. worth

  674. by the

  675. size

  676. of

  677. her

  678. dress.

  679. Can you

  680. imagine

  681. living in a

  682. culture like

  683. that?

  684. It's

  685. pretty

  686. ugly.

  687. I mean,

  688. look at the

  689. way the

  690. women are

  691. treated here.

  692. Look at the

  693. pride and the

  694. arrogance of

  695. these blokes

  696. here.

  697. But I

  698. wonder,

  699. apart from

  700. some superficial

  701. differences,

  702. is the

  703. world still

  704. the same?

  705. Is it

  706. still the

  707. same?

  708. Our

  709. society

  710. says

  711. externals,

  712. images,

  713. appearances

  714. matter more

  715. than

  716. character.

  717. character.

  718. What you

  719. have matters

  720. more than

  721. who you

  722. are.

  723. Whether it

  724. be beauty,

  725. talents,

  726. money,

  727. connections,

  728. influence,

  729. they matter

  730. much more

  731. than your

  732. character.

  733. We are

  734. in our

  735. society

  736. today

  737. under

  738. constant

  739. pressure

  740. to undergo

  741. beauty

  742. treatments

  743. on all

  744. their

  745. various

  746. forms.

  747. Our

  748. culture

  749. says that

  750. unless you

  751. get these

  752. credentials,

  753. this kind

  754. of beauty,

  755. this kind

  756. of money,

  757. this kind

  758. of

  759. resume,

  760. this kind

  761. of

  762. education,

  763. these kinds

  764. of

  765. connections,

  766. in the

  767. end you

  768. don't truly

  769. matter.

  770. And it

  771. says it

  772. different to

  773. men and

  774. women and

  775. it says it

  776. different depending

  777. on your

  778. culture and

  779. your race

  780. or your

  781. class,

  782. but it's

  783. basically saying

  784. the same

  785. thing.

  786. You need to

  787. go through

  788. your culture's

  789. beauty

  790. treatments,

  791. you need

  792. to perform,

  793. you need

  794. to do

  795. all this

  796. and maybe

  797. once you

  798. do you

  799. will find

  800. approval,

  801. acceptance,

  802. admiration,

  803. you become

  804. enviable.

  805. We live

  806. in a world

  807. of appearances

  808. and performance.

  809. We live

  810. in a world

  811. that elevates

  812. the trivial

  813. on social

  814. media.

  815. we have

  816. entire

  817. magazines

  818. devoted

  819. to the

  820. antics

  821. of soap

  822. opera

  823. stars.

  824. We

  825. elevate

  826. to hero

  827. status

  828. and pay

  829. obscene

  830. amounts of

  831. money

  832. to people

  833. who run

  834. around

  835. hitting

  836. little

  837. balls.

  838. We live

  839. in a

  840. culture

  841. that considers

  842. the car

  843. we drive

  844. or the

  845. tone

  846. of our

  847. skin,

  848. the texture

  849. of our

  850. skin

  851. as an

  852. extension

  853. of who

  854. we are

  855. and our

  856. worth.

  857. We are

  858. more impressed

  859. by the

  860. school someone

  861. attends

  862. than what

  863. they learn

  864. when they're

  865. there.

  866. In other

  867. words,

  868. we blow

  869. it again

  870. and again

  871. and again

  872. just like

  873. Xerxes.

  874. and just

  875. like Esther

  876. too,

  877. just like

  878. Esther.

  879. You see,

  880. in these

  881. first two

  882. chapters,

  883. there's

  884. nothing

  885. redeemable

  886. about her.

  887. She has

  888. completely

  889. sold out

  890. her culture

  891. and her

  892. God.

  893. Esther

  894. gets to

  895. her pinnacle

  896. to where

  897. she is

  898. as queen

  899. by absolute

  900. compliance

  901. to the

  902. culture.

  903. She does

  904. what Mordecai

  905. tells her

  906. to do.

  907. She

  908. listens to

  909. the head

  910. guy in

  911. the harem

  912. more than

  913. any of the

  914. other women

  915. in the

  916. harem.

  917. She did

  918. everything

  919. that she

  920. has asked

  921. of her.

  922. She

  923. aims to

  924. be the

  925. next

  926. Vashti.

  927. She

  928. is a

  929. blank

  930. page

  931. on

  932. which

  933. these

  934. men

  935. write

  936. what

  937. they

  938. want.

  939. She

  940. kept her

  941. identity,

  942. her culture

  943. and her

  944. God

  945. secret.

  946. She

  947. turns her

  948. back on

  949. God's

  950. law

  951. when she

  952. ultimately

  953. goes and

  954. has her

  955. one night

  956. with Xerxes.

  957. she's

  958. completely

  959. sold out

  960. and yet

  961. the good

  962. news of

  963. this entire

  964. book as

  965. we will

  966. see as

  967. we go

  968. through

  969. that God

  970. is not

  971. yet finished

  972. with her.

  973. We'll

  974. see again

  975. and again

  976. God's

  977. patience

  978. with her,

  979. the way

  980. that he

  981. grows her

  982. in invisible

  983. ways through

  984. circumstances,

  985. again and

  986. again and

  987. again grows

  988. her and

  989. turns her

  990. into

  991. something that

  992. is truly

  993. great,

  994. someone who

  995. is truly

  996. great.

  997. And that

  998. which brings

  999. me to my

  1000. third point

  1001. is in

  1002. fact

  1003. God's

  1004. work,

  1005. his

  1006. invisible

  1007. work

  1008. and

  1009. visible

  1010. work.

  1011. His work

  1012. is in

  1013. fact to

  1014. make us

  1015. beautiful.

  1016. And that

  1017. is the

  1018. good news

  1019. of the

  1020. message of

  1021. the Bible

  1022. is that

  1023. God is

  1024. not,

  1025. this is the

  1026. great foundation

  1027. of the

  1028. Christian faith,

  1029. God

  1030. does not

  1031. bless us,

  1032. he does not

  1033. love us,

  1034. he does not

  1035. save us

  1036. because we

  1037. are beautiful,

  1038. because we

  1039. are morally

  1040. good or

  1041. exemplary in

  1042. any way,

  1043. he goes,

  1044. ah,

  1045. there's someone

  1046. worthy of my

  1047. love.

  1048. The message of

  1049. the Bible is

  1050. that God

  1051. persistently

  1052. and consistently

  1053. gives his grace

  1054. to people who

  1055. don't ask for

  1056. it,

  1057. who don't

  1058. deserve it,

  1059. and don't

  1060. appreciate it

  1061. when they're

  1062. being given

  1063. it.

  1064. The good

  1065. news is that

  1066. God has not

  1067. given up on

  1068. us either.

  1069. In 1

  1070. Samuel 16,

  1071. when

  1072. Samuel's

  1073. looking for

  1074. a king

  1075. to replace

  1076. Saul,

  1077. God says,

  1078. man looks

  1079. at the

  1080. outward

  1081. appearance,

  1082. but God

  1083. looks at

  1084. the heart.

  1085. You see,

  1086. true beauty

  1087. is not

  1088. on the

  1089. outside.

  1090. God is

  1091. the only

  1092. one who

  1093. does not

  1094. judge a

  1095. book by

  1096. its cover.

  1097. How often

  1098. we say

  1099. that,

  1100. don't you,

  1101. you should

  1102. never judge

  1103. a book

  1104. by its

  1105. cover,

  1106. and yet

  1107. we do

  1108. it every

  1109. single

  1110. moment,

  1111. every

  1112. single

  1113. day.

  1114. Every

  1115. culture

  1116. in one

  1117. way or

  1118. another

  1119. communicates

  1120. to its

  1121. members,

  1122. we will

  1123. accept

  1124. you,

  1125. but you

  1126. must work

  1127. incredibly

  1128. hard and

  1129. make yourself

  1130. attractive to

  1131. us,

  1132. to make

  1133. yourself

  1134. lovable,

  1135. to make

  1136. yourself

  1137. approval

  1138. worthy,

  1139. and then we

  1140. will approve

  1141. of you.

  1142. And it is

  1143. exhausting,

  1144. exhausting,

  1145. it is

  1146. exhausting,

  1147. and there

  1148. is only

  1149. one way

  1150. out,

  1151. and that

  1152. is the

  1153. gospel of

  1154. Jesus

  1155. Christ.

  1156. One of

  1157. the most

  1158. striking

  1159. images of

  1160. the Bible

  1161. is its

  1162. declaration

  1163. that God

  1164. wants to

  1165. be your

  1166. spouse.

  1167. He wants

  1168. you to

  1169. be his.

  1170. see,

  1171. what the

  1172. Bible does,

  1173. it betrays

  1174. God not

  1175. just as

  1176. the divine

  1177. creator and

  1178. the all-powerful

  1179. king over

  1180. everything and

  1181. rules everything

  1182. in the world,

  1183. but a God who

  1184. is an all-loving

  1185. husband.

  1186. What makes

  1187. that so

  1188. great is

  1189. it's not

  1190. about what

  1191. we do to

  1192. make ourselves

  1193. beautiful to

  1194. him,

  1195. good for

  1196. him,

  1197. worthy of

  1198. him,

  1199. Ephesians

  1200. 5 puts

  1201. it like

  1202. this in

  1203. its

  1204. instructions

  1205. to

  1206. husbands how

  1207. to love

  1208. their wives,

  1209. it says,

  1210. husband,

  1211. love your

  1212. wives just

  1213. as Christ

  1214. loved the

  1215. church,

  1216. his bride,

  1217. and gave

  1218. himself up

  1219. and gave

  1220. and gave

  1221. cleansing

  1222. her by

  1223. the washing

  1224. with water

  1225. through the

  1226. word and

  1227. to present

  1228. her to

  1229. himself as

  1230. a radiant

  1231. church without

  1232. stain or

  1233. wrinkle or

  1234. any other

  1235. blemish,

  1236. but holy

  1237. and blameless.

  1238. would it

  1239. surprise you

  1240. if I

  1241. said that

  1242. the whole

  1243. purpose,

  1244. the

  1245. trinitarian

  1246. God of

  1247. the Bible,

  1248. the whole

  1249. purpose of

  1250. creation is

  1251. that he

  1252. would provide

  1253. a spouse

  1254. for his

  1255. son,

  1256. that God

  1257. the Father

  1258. would provide

  1259. a spouse

  1260. for his

  1261. son,

  1262. whom his

  1263. son delights

  1264. in,

  1265. who is

  1266. blameless,

  1267. flawless,

  1268. whose heart

  1269. bursts when

  1270. he sees

  1271. her.

  1272. The Bible

  1273. declares in

  1274. the New

  1275. Testament

  1276. that that

  1277. is his

  1278. church.

  1279. Esther was

  1280. accepted by

  1281. Xerxes because

  1282. she was already

  1283. beautiful,

  1284. but Jesus

  1285. loves us

  1286. despite our

  1287. flaws and

  1288. our sin

  1289. and our

  1290. ugliness.

  1291. He does it

  1292. to make us

  1293. beautiful.

  1294. Esther had

  1295. to give her

  1296. life and

  1297. her freedom

  1298. up for the

  1299. king,

  1300. but

  1301. Jesus

  1302. Christ is

  1303. the only

  1304. king,

  1305. the only

  1306. spouse who

  1307. gives up

  1308. his life

  1309. and freedom

  1310. for us.

  1311. He gives

  1312. up everything

  1313. for us,

  1314. not because

  1315. we are

  1316. lovely,

  1317. but in

  1318. order to

  1319. make us

  1320. lovely.

  1321. And when

  1322. we understand

  1323. that,

  1324. when that

  1325. truth gets

  1326. driven down

  1327. into our

  1328. hearts,

  1329. we have,

  1330. I think,

  1331. at least

  1332. three things,

  1333. the three

  1334. things that we

  1335. need to be

  1336. free from

  1337. our culture's

  1338. enslavement

  1339. to external

  1340. appearances and

  1341. be made

  1342. truly beautiful

  1343. and glorious

  1344. on the

  1345. inside.

  1346. Firstly,

  1347. what it does,

  1348. what it does

  1349. is it gives us

  1350. a definition of

  1351. what true

  1352. beauty actually

  1353. is.

  1354. beauty is.

  1355. You see,

  1356. our culture's

  1357. definition of

  1358. beauty means

  1359. that we

  1360. cannot go

  1361. past a

  1362. mirror

  1363. without

  1364. noticing

  1365. ourselves.

  1366. that we

  1367. are obsessed

  1368. with

  1369. appearances.

  1370. Who would

  1371. have imagined

  1372. that within

  1373. two years

  1374. of combining

  1375. products that

  1376. we'd have for

  1377. a very long

  1378. time,

  1379. a camera

  1380. and a

  1381. phone,

  1382. combining

  1383. those two

  1384. things,

  1385. within two

  1386. years of

  1387. combining

  1388. those two

  1389. things,

  1390. that dictionaries

  1391. in the world

  1392. had to be

  1393. rewritten to

  1394. include the

  1395. word selfie.

  1396. a word

  1397. that didn't

  1398. exist

  1399. before

  1400. 2002.

  1401. Selfie.

  1402. Millions

  1403. of selfies

  1404. are taken

  1405. every day.

  1406. And when

  1407. we look

  1408. at Jesus

  1409. instead of

  1410. ourselves,

  1411. we actually

  1412. see ultimate

  1413. beauty.

  1414. we see

  1415. infinite

  1416. glory and

  1417. majesty and

  1418. splendor.

  1419. And he

  1420. gave all

  1421. of that up

  1422. for us

  1423. to make

  1424. us beautiful.

  1425. He left

  1426. it to one

  1427. side.

  1428. He became

  1429. human.

  1430. He went

  1431. to a cross.

  1432. And the

  1433. book of

  1434. Isaiah says

  1435. that he

  1436. had no

  1437. beauty that

  1438. we would

  1439. desire him.

  1440. beauty.

  1441. The one

  1442. of infinite

  1443. majesty

  1444. became

  1445. cosmically

  1446. unsightly

  1447. to make

  1448. us beautiful,

  1449. to make

  1450. us majestic

  1451. in such

  1452. a way,

  1453. so cosmic

  1454. unsightly

  1455. that his

  1456. father

  1457. turns his

  1458. face away

  1459. from him.

  1460. That is

  1461. true beauty.

  1462. genuine

  1463. beauty is

  1464. not

  1465. self-obsession.

  1466. It is

  1467. self-sacrifice.

  1468. And that's

  1469. why it

  1470. says at the

  1471. end of

  1472. Isaiah 53

  1473. about Jesus,

  1474. the one

  1475. who had

  1476. no beauty,

  1477. the suffering

  1478. servant of

  1479. humanity,

  1480. I will give

  1481. him a portion

  1482. among the

  1483. great.

  1484. and he

  1485. will divide

  1486. the spoils

  1487. with the

  1488. strong.

  1489. That's the

  1490. first thing.

  1491. The second

  1492. thing we get

  1493. when we

  1494. understand that

  1495. Jesus gives

  1496. up everything

  1497. to make us

  1498. beautiful is

  1499. a new

  1500. experience of

  1501. our beauty

  1502. to him.

  1503. Nat and

  1504. I, my

  1505. wife, were

  1506. married 26

  1507. years, eight

  1508. months and

  1509. 27 days

  1510. ago today.

  1511. It's not

  1512. an anniversary

  1513. per se.

  1514. That's

  1515. 9,767

  1516. days, not

  1517. that I'm

  1518. counting.

  1519. Now I

  1520. still remember

  1521. that day,

  1522. not far from

  1523. here, I still

  1524. remember the

  1525. day when she

  1526. appeared at

  1527. the door of

  1528. the church and

  1529. started to walk

  1530. down the

  1531. aisle.

  1532. She looked

  1533. stunning.

  1534. she was

  1535. absolutely

  1536. stunning.

  1537. Do you

  1538. know why?

  1539. Do you

  1540. know why?

  1541. Because an

  1542. awful lot of

  1543. money had been

  1544. spent on a

  1545. fancy dress,

  1546. on hair and

  1547. makeup, that

  1548. she had to get

  1549. woken up early

  1550. in order for

  1551. that all to be

  1552. worked out.

  1553. now bear with

  1554. me here.

  1555. I haven't

  1556. finished the

  1557. illustration just

  1558. yet.

  1559. I think Nat

  1560. was beautiful

  1561. before all of

  1562. that and in

  1563. fact I would

  1564. say so much

  1565. more to me

  1566. now than

  1567. even then.

  1568. but it is

  1569. a fact that

  1570. makeup and

  1571. fancy clothes

  1572. make most

  1573. of us,

  1574. pushes most

  1575. of us up

  1576. a notch in

  1577. terms of

  1578. appearances.

  1579. Regardless of

  1580. what you think

  1581. of my appearance

  1582. right now,

  1583. you should have

  1584. seen me when I

  1585. crawled out of

  1586. bed this

  1587. morning.

  1588. this morning,

  1589. you don't get

  1590. my when I

  1591. first wake up

  1592. look, I've

  1593. used David

  1594. Beckham's

  1595. shower gel

  1596. this morning.

  1597. Not literally

  1598. his shower gel

  1599. but the one

  1600. that promises

  1601. you, you may

  1602. look like him

  1603. if you use

  1604. the shower gel.

  1605. And also a

  1606. thing called

  1607. facial fuel.

  1608. which promises

  1609. to be a

  1610. facial recovery

  1611. accelerator.

  1612. Now the

  1613. irony of that

  1614. particular

  1615. product is

  1616. that I

  1617. didn't even

  1618. know, I

  1619. didn't even

  1620. buy it, it

  1621. was just

  1622. there on

  1623. the bench

  1624. and it's a

  1625. men's product

  1626. and I'm the

  1627. only man in

  1628. the house,

  1629. man in the

  1630. house, so

  1631. someone has

  1632. picked this

  1633. up.

  1634. I'm working

  1635. on the

  1636. assumption

  1637. that maybe

  1638. I need

  1639. it.

  1640. So there

  1641. we go,

  1642. recovery

  1643. accelerator.

  1644. We'll see

  1645. over the

  1646. course of

  1647. Esther whether

  1648. it's worked

  1649. or not.

  1650. Several of

  1651. the

  1652. imperfections

  1653. and flaws

  1654. that I'm

  1655. self-conscious

  1656. of have been

  1657. hidden, they've

  1658. been covered

  1659. up, they've

  1660. been worked

  1661. on.

  1662. See, when

  1663. Jesus uses

  1664. the metaphor

  1665. of us being

  1666. his bride,

  1667. one of the

  1668. things that he

  1669. has in mind

  1670. is that despite

  1671. all the

  1672. spiritual flaws,

  1673. despite all

  1674. the failings,

  1675. despite all

  1676. the sin,

  1677. despite all

  1678. of my

  1679. lackluster and

  1680. apathy towards

  1681. him, that he

  1682. has so

  1683. clothed me

  1684. with his

  1685. beauty, with

  1686. his righteousness,

  1687. that he

  1688. has so

  1689. surrounded me

  1690. and us

  1691. with his

  1692. own beauty

  1693. that he

  1694. gave us,

  1695. that he

  1696. has so

  1697. cleansed me

  1698. of my

  1699. sin, that

  1700. when he

  1701. sees me,

  1702. when he

  1703. sees his

  1704. children, when

  1705. he looks

  1706. upon his

  1707. church, his

  1708. heart

  1709. bursts,

  1710. his heart

  1711. bursts with

  1712. delight.

  1713. and to

  1714. the degree

  1715. that we

  1716. know that

  1717. this is

  1718. true of

  1719. us, in

  1720. his eyes,

  1721. every single

  1722. moment, it

  1723. will free

  1724. us from

  1725. our culture's

  1726. enslavement,

  1727. telling us

  1728. what we must

  1729. look like,

  1730. what we

  1731. must have,

  1732. what we

  1733. must accomplish

  1734. in order to

  1735. be accepted,

  1736. in order to

  1737. be loved,

  1738. in order to

  1739. be approved

  1740. of, because

  1741. in Jesus

  1742. Christ, in

  1743. the gospel,

  1744. we have the

  1745. approval of

  1746. the only

  1747. praiseworthy

  1748. one.

  1749. one.

  1750. The third

  1751. thing we

  1752. get when

  1753. we understand

  1754. that Jesus

  1755. gives up

  1756. everything to

  1757. make us

  1758. beautiful in

  1759. his sight,

  1760. is a new

  1761. understanding of

  1762. the ugly

  1763. things in

  1764. life.

  1765. Those things

  1766. which we

  1767. might otherwise

  1768. cause us to

  1769. question his

  1770. existence or

  1771. his power or

  1772. his willingness

  1773. to intervene

  1774. or even

  1775. his presence.

  1776. And including

  1777. the new

  1778. understanding of

  1779. the ugly

  1780. things within

  1781. the church

  1782. which are

  1783. difficult to

  1784. navigate and

  1785. process.

  1786. There are

  1787. parts of the

  1788. Bible that

  1789. talk about

  1790. suffering and

  1791. hardship,

  1792. refining those

  1793. who Jesus

  1794. loves.

  1795. And the

  1796. imagery is

  1797. always of

  1798. gold being

  1799. refined and

  1800. the impurities

  1801. being burned

  1802. up in the

  1803. furnace.

  1804. And once

  1805. we are

  1806. assured of

  1807. God's love,

  1808. I mean really

  1809. assured of

  1810. it, when we

  1811. go through

  1812. troubles and

  1813. sufferings, it

  1814. actually purifies

  1815. us.

  1816. It makes us

  1817. more beautiful

  1818. down on the

  1819. inside.

  1820. You see, in

  1821. Jesus, suffering

  1822. is not God

  1823. abandoning us

  1824. in any sense.

  1825. He uses the

  1826. refining process

  1827. to get rid of

  1828. the pride and

  1829. the foolishness

  1830. and the fear,

  1831. bit by bit, he

  1832. is making us

  1833. more beautiful

  1834. to him.

  1835. And once we

  1836. are assured of

  1837. God's love,

  1838. then we see the

  1839. hard times, the

  1840. ugly moments of

  1841. life as God's

  1842. spiritual beauty

  1843. treatments.

  1844. When we go

  1845. through the

  1846. hardships with

  1847. absolute assurance

  1848. that we are

  1849. already beautiful

  1850. in God's

  1851. sight, we

  1852. start to become

  1853. more beautiful

  1854. in our hearts,

  1855. in our lives,

  1856. just like

  1857. pressure creates

  1858. a diamond.

  1859. So God has

  1860. not abandoned

  1861. you in your

  1862. troubles.

  1863. He's at work,

  1864. even if it's not

  1865. obvious, he's at

  1866. work, leading

  1867. you, holding

  1868. you, refining

  1869. you, and

  1870. ultimately saving

  1871. you.

  1872. His invisibility

  1873. is not his

  1874. absence.

  1875. So keep

  1876. looking to

  1877. what he's

  1878. already done

  1879. for you in

  1880. Jesus to

  1881. make you

  1882. beautiful and

  1883. acceptable to

  1884. him.

  1885. It's a

  1886. commitment to

  1887. you that he

  1888. intends on

  1889. following through

  1890. for all of

  1891. eternity.

  1892. Once he sets

  1893. his heart on

  1894. you, he will

  1895. make you

  1896. beautiful forever.

  1897. Romans 8,

  1898. we know that

  1899. in all things

  1900. God works for

  1901. the good of

  1902. those who

  1903. love him,

  1904. who have

  1905. been called

  1906. according to

  1907. his purpose.

  1908. For those

  1909. God foreknew,

  1910. he also

  1911. predestined to

  1912. be conformed

  1913. to the image

  1914. of his son.

  1915. Those he

  1916. predestined,

  1917. he called,

  1918. those he

  1919. called, he

  1920. justifies,

  1921. and those he

  1922. justifies, he

  1923. glorifies.

  1924. When he set

  1925. his heart to

  1926. love you, the

  1927. end of that is

  1928. to make you

  1929. beautiful.

  1930. Let's

  1931. show

  1932. some