Sermon
Living in the Spirit
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Good morning.
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My name is Matthew Capone, and I'm the pastor here at Cheyenne Mountain Presbyterian Church,
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and it's my joy to bring God's word to you today.
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Special welcome if you're new or visiting with us.
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We're glad that you're here, and we're glad that you're here not because we're filling seats,
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but because we're following Jesus together as one community.
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And as we follow Jesus together, we become convinced that there's no one so good that they don't need God's grace,
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and no one so bad that they can't have it, which means that God has something to say to everyone in his word.
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And so that's why we come back week after week to look at the Bible, God's word, to hear what he has to say.
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We've been studying the book of 1 Peter, and you'll remember that 1 Peter is a letter.
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It's a letter written by a man named Peter, and he writes it in the 60s A.D. to Christians in Asia Minor,
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what is now modern-day Turkey, and he writes it to both instruct and encourage them.
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He needs to do this because these are folks who are feeling out of place in the world as Christians,
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and they're facing opposition from the world as Christians.
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Peter writes to encourage them that Jesus is worth it.
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Jesus is worth living for, and he's worth loving for.
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He's worth suffering for, and he's worth dying for.
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And he also writes to instruct them.
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He writes to instruct them how to live in the world as Christians
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and how to respond when they face opposition from the world.
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We're in a larger section about suffering,
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and you'll remember that there are three kinds of suffering,
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and it's very important for us to keep these three categories clear,
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even today as we come to this passage.
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There's, first of all, suffering, type 1, suffering for personal sin or foolishness.
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For example, if you're in school and you cheat on an exam and someone catches you,
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you will suffer.
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You will suffer for your own personal sin.
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Second, there's suffering because of the general presence of evil in the world.
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So we're in Colorado.
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There's a hailstorm, and it hits your roof.
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You will suffer.
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Now, you're not suffering.
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Yeah, I heard some amens.
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You're not suffering for your own personal sin.
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You're suffering because of the presence of evil and destruction in this world.
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And then finally, there's the type of suffering that Peter is talking about
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and only talking about, and that is suffering for righteousness' sake,
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suffering for the name of Jesus Christ.
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This is what happens when we do what's right,
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we do what God has called us to do,
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and we suffer because of it.
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That's going to continue to be what Peter is discussing in this passage,
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which is 1 Peter 4, verses 1 through 6.
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Now, you remember last week, we talked about hope and comfort in suffering.
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And we saw that God supplies this.
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He supplies this hope and comfort through Jesus' pattern.
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Jesus suffered and had victory,
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and so our suffering will end in victory as well.
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And then we had some examples.
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Jesus was the example.
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His victory was so complete that he declared it over fallen angels and demonic forces.
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And then we had the example of Noah, who suffered for a long time and then experienced victory.
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This week, we are turning away from hope and comfort
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towards the relationship between suffering for doing what's right,
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type 3 suffering, and our battle with sin.
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We're looking at the relationship between suffering for doing what's right
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and our battle as Christians with sin.
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And so it's with that we turn to the very beginning of chapter 4,
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and remember that this is God's Word.
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And God tells us that His Word is a lamp to our feet and a light to our path.
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In other words, God has not left us to stumble alone in the dark,
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but instead He's given us His Word to show us the way to go.
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And so that's why we read it, starting with verse 1.
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Verse 3.
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Verse 5.
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I invite you to pray with me as we come to this portion of God's Word.
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Our Father in heaven, we praise you once again that you instruct us.
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You don't simply leave us to make foolish decisions or destroy our lives,
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but instead you've given us guidance.
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We ask for your help this morning as we talk about some difficult topics.
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But we also thank you that you don't avoid hard things in your Word.
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And so we ask that you'd send your Spirit now,
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that you'd give us the ability to hear from you and to believe.
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We ask these things in Jesus' name. Amen.
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In his book, Black Flags, The Rise of ISIS,
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Toby Warwick tells the story of Abu Musab al-Zarqawi,
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who is the founder of the Islamic State.
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And he chronicles his life even before he was this internationally known terrorist.
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There was a point before that when he was in prison.
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And while he was a hardened criminal,
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there was also some strange things about his personality,
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or maybe we might say some quirks.
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He was known for his compassion on certain people.
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And there was one man in particular that he had especially a strong sense of duty to,
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and this was another prisoner who had no legs.
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Now, Zarqawi would take responsibility for washing this man
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and making sure he was cared for.
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He would carry him around.
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And it was an example of sort of this selective heart for humanity that he had.
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Now, this raises the question,
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why did this man have no legs?
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This man had also been a terrorist.
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And during his time, he'd been part of a group that would go after what they considered to be dens of sin.
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So they would go and they would destroy liquor stores or pornographic theaters.
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And this man, at one time, had been assigned to be in charge of a bombing of a pornographic theater, an adult theater.
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So he goes in, he walks in with his bomb.
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He puts it underneath his seat in the theater.
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And then he sits down
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and becomes so engrossed in the film
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that he forgets that there's a bomb under his seat.
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And then it goes off and it blows his legs off.
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No one else in the theater is harmed.
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And I tell you this story, and I love that story,
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not because I have a dark sense of humor,
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but because it highlights the danger and the power of certain sins,
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especially sexual sin.
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Here's a man who, on paper, was opposed to this theater, right?
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Finds himself in it,
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cannot resist the power of what's in front of him.
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It is so powerful
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and so alluring that he forgets,
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literally, that there's a ticking bomb underneath him.
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It is possible to believe something is wrong
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and still face the temptation of it.
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It's possible to disapprove of something so strongly
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that you're part of this radical group to eradicate it.
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And yet that doesn't remove the temptation or the attraction.
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Peter, in this section, is talking to them
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about something that's been hinted at earlier in the letter,
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which is turning away from their former lifestyles,
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which involved these types of sins.
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And so this has come up before.
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In chapter 1, verse 14,
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he told them,
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do not be conformed to the passions of your former ignorance.
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Then in verse 18,
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he tells them that Jesus has ransomed them
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specifically from the futile ways
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inherited from their forefathers.
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In other words,
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you had family members, potentially,
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who were involved in these kinds of sins.
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Now God has brought you out of them.
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Before you knew Jesus,
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you were involved in these kinds of sins.
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Do not be conformed to those anymore.
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And that wasn't the last.
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In chapter 2, we were told the same thing.
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He tells us that the passions of the flesh
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wage war against our soul.
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And so this has been coming for some time in this letter.
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And finally, in chapter 4,
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we receive a full list of these sins,
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sins that he's been commanding them to put off
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and that hold a special type of power,
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a special danger and a special power.
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And it's with that that he begins by telling them
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the relationship between suffering
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and putting away these sins.
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And so that's where we find ourselves in verse 1
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with this very confusing statement.
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Since therefore Christ suffered in the flesh,
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arm yourselves with the same way of thinking,
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for whoever has suffered in the flesh
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has ceased from sin.
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Which sounds like the opposite of what Christians teach.
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Right?
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We would say that you have an ongoing battle with sin.
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We will battle sin for the rest of our lives,
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even as Christians.
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We don't believe, as some people do,
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that there's a point that we can reach as Christians
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where we're finished with sin.
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Now, there are some people,
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even in this city, who believe that.
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It's called Christian perfectionism.
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And it's the idea that you can become so holy
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and so sanctified
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that you no longer have sin in your life.
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Imagine being married to that person.
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Imagine having someone who believes
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that they are done with sin as your boss.
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Imagine someone who believes
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that they've finished with sin
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being one of your elders or your pastor.
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As they say, not a good look.
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So what is Peter saying here?
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In what sense,
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what type of suffering is he talking about?
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In what sense can someone who's suffered
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be done with sin?
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This is where our categories of suffering
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are extremely helpful.
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This is suffering category three.
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The one who has suffered
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specifically for doing what is right
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is done with sin.
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We know that because that's what's come before.
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That's the section we're in.
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And also in this passage,
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Peter makes it clear
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that's the kind of suffering he's talking about.
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Verse four.
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First of all, verse three,
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you're putting off these sins, right?
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Verse four,
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when you do,
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what's going to happen?
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People are going to be surprised
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and they're going to malign you.
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You will suffer
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for doing what's right.
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So we're not talking about general suffering.
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It'd be tempting to think
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that this passage teaches
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in general,
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people who have faced suffering
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have moved on to a point
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where they don't struggle with sin as much.
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You know, it's given them this perspective.
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Maybe they had a battle with an illness.
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But of course,
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as one person has pointed out,
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actually sometimes those things create sin, right?
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Sometimes you become more bitter,
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more hateful
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when you go through suffering in life.
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There's no guarantee
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that those other types of suffering
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are going to protect you from sin.
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What is the type of suffering
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that relates to sin?
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It's suffering for doing what's right.
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Think about it this way.
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If there was any time
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where it would be a good idea to sin,
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where it'd be convenient,
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it would be when you're faced
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with suffering for it,
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for doing what's right.
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Someone says,
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hey, if you don't stop being a Christian,
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you're going to lose your job.
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That would be a great time
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to stop being a Christian.
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And so, just at a logical level,
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when you suffer for doing what's right,
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you are proving
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that there has been in your life
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a definitive break from sin.
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When you suffer for doing what's right,
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you are showing
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that there has been
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a definitive break from sin.
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To put it in the words of this passage,
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it's clear that the orientation of your life
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is no longer for human passions,
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this is verse two,
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but for the will of God.
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There's two orientations of your life.
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It can be for human passions,
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it can be for the will of God.
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When you suffer,
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you are demonstrating
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that there's nothing more important to you
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than living for the will of God.
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Because that would be the time
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to jump ship, right?
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And so, it's clear,
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not that you're done with sin
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in a full and final way,
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but you are clear
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that you and sin
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are not together anymore.
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You are done with sin
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in a Taylor Swift sort of way.
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You are never, ever, ever
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getting back together.
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You are not done with sin
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fully and finally.
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So, there's a definitive break from sin.
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Now, in what sense?
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So, that's the sense
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of which suffering
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creates a break from sin.
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In what sense
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do we no longer struggle with sin?
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It's helpful to remember
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not just our three categories of suffering,
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but our three categories of sin.
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Sin has a penalty,
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it has a power,
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and it has a presence.
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Sin has a penalty,
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which is at the center
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of what we believe
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as Christians in the gospel,
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which is that we deserve death
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for our sins.
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That's why Romans says
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in chapter six
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that the wages of sin
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is death.
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That's the penalty of sin.
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We believe that God
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in Jesus' death and resurrection
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removes the penalty from sin.
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So, we don't even need
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to worry about that.
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We're already done with sin
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in that way because of Jesus.
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Then there's the power of sin.
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The power of sin means
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that if you have not had
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Christ come and regenerate
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your heart,
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give you a new heart,
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that you are not capable
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of not sinning.
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As Christians,
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when Christ gives us
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a new heart,
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we believe we actually
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have the capacity
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to do what's good.
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But we still have
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the final P,
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the presence of sin.
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Peter is not telling
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these people
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that they no longer
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have the presence of sin.
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He is telling them
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that their suffering
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for doing what's right
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makes it clear
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that the power of sin
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has been broken.
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It has been proved
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once and for all
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that Christ's work
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in their life is real.
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They can be confident
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that the power of sin
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is broken.
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Doesn't mean they don't
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still struggle
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with the presence of sin.
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Galatians 5, 17
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talks about the battle
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between the spirit
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and the flesh.
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Christians continue
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to struggle with sin.
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1 Timothy 1, 15,
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Paul says near the end
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of his life,
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Paul's an apostle,
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by the way,
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says that he's the greatest
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of all sinners,
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so clearly he doesn't
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believe in Christian
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perfectionism.
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If there's anyone
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who could claim that,
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perhaps it would be Paul,
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but he knows that
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the presence of sin
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continues.
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And so that's what's
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going on in this
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confusing verse.
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When you suffer,
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specifically for doing
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what's right,
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it's clear that you've
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made a definitive break
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from sin,
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which shows that the power
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of sin is broken
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in your life,
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even as the presence
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continues.
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In other words,
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when you suffer
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for righteousness' sake,
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it is a sign that God
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is at work
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in your life
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now.
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His power
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lives in you.
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There is a decisive
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turning point
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in the battle,
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and sin will not win.
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The orientation
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of your life
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is no longer
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towards what Peter
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calls human passions.
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The orientation
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of your life
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is towards the will
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of God,
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even as you struggle
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with sin.
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Also,
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to highlight,
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there are two ways
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to live.
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As I mentioned before,
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there's living
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for human passions
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and living
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for the will
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of God.
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And Peter
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here outlines
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for us
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in verse 3
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a list
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of sins
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that are the type
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of sins
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that these folks
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need to put off
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that show
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their willingness
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to live
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for the will
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of God.
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And he gives us
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a list.
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And I'm going to say
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as we come
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to this discussion,
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we're going to talk
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about some hard things.
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And as I say,
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every time we talk
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about something hard,
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I'm not going to say
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everything,
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I'm going to say
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something.
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I'm not going to say
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everything,
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I'm going to say
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something.
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There are a thousand
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different things
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we could talk about
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with this list
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of sins.
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And this is not
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the end of a conversation,
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it's the beginning
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of a conversation.
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So we're not going
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to say everything,
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we're going to say
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something.
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It's not the end
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of a conversation,
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it's the beginning
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of a conversation.
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So we're going to
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focus on a few
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things this morning.
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If you would like
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to talk about it more,
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I am more than happy
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to talk about it more.
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With that being said,
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verse 3 gives us
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a list of this
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overlapping complex
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of sins.
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If we were to
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boil it down,
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there is a focus
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here on sexual sins
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and sins related
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to alcohol.
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And he tells us
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the time that's
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passed suffices,
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which is,
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as some have pointed
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out,
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an ironic understatement.
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For doing these things.
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Sensuality,
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passions,
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drunkenness,
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orgies,
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drinking parties,
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and lawless idolatry.
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In other words,
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he's talking about
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people who have
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an unrestrained
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activity when it
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comes to sex
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and alcohol.
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And they're doing
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this not just
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by themselves,
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but they're doing
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it in these groups.
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There's parties
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where they'll get
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together and both
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of those things
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will be present.
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There's this unrestrained
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lawless sin that's
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occurring.
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And it's focusing
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around two areas
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that are especially
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prone to be
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causes of addiction.
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These are especially
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powerful sins.
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It's part of what
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that story about
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Zarqawi's friend
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illustrates.
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No matter how much
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he believed
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something was wrong,
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he still came up
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against the incredible
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power and attraction
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and temptation
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of sexual sin.
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If we were to,
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we could expand this,
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by the way.
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if this were written
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to Colorado Springs
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in 2020 rather than
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Asia Minor,
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we could of course
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include all these
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things and we could
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add some other
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things.
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We could add
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internet pornography,
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all forms of
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sexual sin,
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anything that's a
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sexual relationship
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that is not between
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one man and one
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woman who are
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married.
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We could include
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fornication and
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adultery.
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We could add
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marijuana and
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hallucinogenic drugs.
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By the way,
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Denver, psychedelic
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mushrooms are coming
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in.
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We could add those
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to the list.
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These are the
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unrestrained passions,
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the things that are
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especially oriented
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to create addiction
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in the life of the
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believer.
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Now, as I said
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earlier, there's a
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thousand things we
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could say.
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We can't say all of
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these and so our
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focus this morning
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is going to be the
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focus of the passage
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and it's this.
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How do we arm
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ourselves?
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That's what Peter
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tells us in verse
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one.
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He says,
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arm yourselves
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with the same way
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of thinking.
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How do we fight?
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Addictions to
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pornography.
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How do we fight
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alcoholism?
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How do we fight
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the sins in this
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world that are
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especially strong,
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especially and
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especially addictive?
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We can think about
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this in a broader
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category as well.
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How do we fight
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sin in general?
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You might be
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thinking now,
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these aren't things
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that I struggle
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with, so this
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isn't for me.
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And yet, as I say
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many times, we're
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one community.
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And so if there's
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a member of our
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body who struggles
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with these things,
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there's a sense in
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which we as a whole
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body struggle with
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them.
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Not that you receive
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their sin, but that
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we are part of the
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process of change.
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And as people walk
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away from addiction,
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as they walk into
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the light, they're
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going to need the
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rest of the church
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to walk with them.
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And also, never
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underestimate the
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power of these
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things.
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We need to arm
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ourselves whether we
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are actively struggling
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with them or not.
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And so how do we
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arm ourselves?
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First of all, verse
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one, we know that
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it's a battle.
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If it weren't a
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battle, we wouldn't
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need to turn to
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Jesus' example.
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But there's a
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mindset here.
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We're arming
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ourselves with the
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same way of
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thinking.
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There's a
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determination and a
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discipline.
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There's a focus
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that comes with
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fighting sin.
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Now, Jesus was
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without sin, right?
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So it's not a
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one-to-one analogy,
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but we know that
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Jesus required
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determination and
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focus.
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In the Garden of
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Gethsemane, he
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asked God to take
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the cup away from
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him.
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And yet he set his
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face to the cross.
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We're told in the
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book of Hebrews that
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Jesus learned
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obedience.
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through suffering.
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Jesus' faithfulness
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to us was not
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easy.
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He armed himself
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for it.
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He knew that he
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was in a battle.
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He did not take it
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lightly.
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And so the same is
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true for us as well.
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It is not going to be
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easy for us to
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fight sin.
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There are many
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people in the church
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who will claim that
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if you are a
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Christian, then the
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next day you're just
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done with sin.
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sin.
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That is a lie from
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the pit of hell.
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Sin is a battle.
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We need to have the
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focus and determination
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of Jesus whether we're
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in one of these
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struggles right now or
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we're not.
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I had a student when I
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was teaching, and he
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shared with me at one
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time that he had
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become aware of where
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some of his friends
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would go in town when
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they wanted to smoke
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weed together.
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He knew where
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their cove was.
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Of course, he assured
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me at the end of this
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conversation, but don't
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worry, I'm not tempted
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by this at all, and I'm
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not going to get involved
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in it in any way.
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And I said, hold on.
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It's that kind of
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mindset that's going to
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result in you falling
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into that with them.
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I'm worried about the
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person who says, I'm not
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tempted by these things.
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I'm much less worried
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about the person who
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says, I am tempted by
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these things, and so I
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know that I'm in a
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battle.
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I know that I need to
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be on the guard about
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these things.
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I know that I need a
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filter on my computer.
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I know that I need to
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stay away from people
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and places that cause me
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to drink.
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There is a mindset, and
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we have to arm
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ourselves.
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Second of all,
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addiction is real and
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very powerful.
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that's why Peter has
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hit this multiple
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times.
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Verse 14 of chapter
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one, it's passions that
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we're up against, passions
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of your former
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ignorance.
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Verse 18, and I'm going
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to keep coming back to
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you, back to these.
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They're futile ways that
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come through our family.
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If you know anything
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about families, you know
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that the patterns that
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they create are hard to
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break.
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And finally, verse 11 of
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chapter two, these
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passions are waging war
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against our soul.
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We are at war with sin.
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When we come up against
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these kinds of sins, it
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is not a little arm
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wrestling match.
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It is a battle.
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And so going off of that,
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how do we wage war?
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If we've armed ourselves,
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we know that the challenge
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and the struggle is real.
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What are the strategies
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that we have?
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Some of this I'm going to
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pull from first Peter.
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Some of this I'm just
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pulling from our beliefs
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as Christians because
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Peter does not go into
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depth about all of the
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ways that we would fight
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these sins.
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First of all, though, we
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can notice what Peter
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doesn't do.
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Peter does not begin by
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pouring a bucket of shame
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over the readers of this
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letter.
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Doesn't begin by posting
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a video on YouTube of him
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yelling and losing his
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self-control as he is a
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preacher screams at them
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about how in the world
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could they think about
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doing such things.
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He doesn't tell them that
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they're clearly not
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Christians.
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Christians.
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And that their struggle
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with sin reveals that
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God's not at work in
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their lives.
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In fact, he addresses
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these people as
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Christians.
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He also doesn't tell
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them the story about
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that one guy who never
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struggled with sin the
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day after he was
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converted.
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Now, I believe those
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stories, right?
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There are some people,
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they face addictions,
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they come to Christ,
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and the next day they're
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done with addiction.
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That is not the normal
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story of everyday
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Christians.
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And we do tremendous
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damage to people in
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this church when we
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create those stories
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and we present them
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as normative.
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Our struggle with sin
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is real.
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So Peter doesn't pour
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shame on them,
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doesn't tell them
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they're not Christians,
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doesn't tell them
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stories about an
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unrealistic pace of
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change.
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Instead, he recognizes
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some of the factors.
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First of all, he
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recognizes this is
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something that runs in
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their family.
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Again, chapter 1,
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verse 18, the
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futile ways you
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inherited from your
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forefathers.
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Some of us struggle
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with the sins that are
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in this list, and our
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parents struggled with
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them too.
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It's no surprise, right,
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that they're present in
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our lives.
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He also recognizes not
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just things in their
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family, but things in
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their past.
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Remember, 14, the
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passions of your
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former ignorance.
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He's reminding them,
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these are things that
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were normal to you
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before you became a
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Christian.
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That's going to make it
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hard to battle them.
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Sin patterns are real.
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One thing I was going
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to mention later, but
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I'll mention now, that
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the journey in is often
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the journey out.
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If you hike 10 miles
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into a forest, how many
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miles are you going to
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have to hike to get
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back out of it?
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10 miles.
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There is a journey to
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our war and struggle
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with sin.
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Peter realizes that.
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He acknowledges the
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influence, family
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influence, personal
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history.
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All of those things
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matter.
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And then he
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acknowledges that these
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things aren't easy,
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right?
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He calls it suffering.
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Jesus suffered in the
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flesh.
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Arm yourselves with the
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same way of thinking.
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You're going to suffer
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if you fight against
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sin.
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It is going to be a
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real battle.
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Now, having noted
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what Peter doesn't do
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and what he does do,
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what are the tools that
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we have as Christians?
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If you have clothes and
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you put them in the
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washer, and then you
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leave them in the
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washer after the cycles
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run, and you keep the
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lid closed, and you
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don't put them in the
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dryer, what's going to
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happen?
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It's going to mildew.
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Sin grows in the
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dark, and it dies in
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the light.
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Sin grows in the
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dark and dries in the
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light.
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Addiction grows in the
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dark and dies in the
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light.
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Addiction grows in the
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world.
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If you want to wage war
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against these sins, you
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cannot do it by
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yourself.
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If you want to wage war
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against these sins, you
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cannot do it by
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yourself.
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That's not the way God
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has designed the world,
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and it's not the way that
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these sins work.
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This is how the Bible
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talks.
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Ephesians 5 talks about
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walking in the light.
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Psalm 32 says, when I
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kept silent, my bones
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wasted away.
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It was when the
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psalmist confessed his
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sins that he was able to
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find healing.
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And I don't just mean
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confessing privately to
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God in prayer, and no one
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else knows, although that's
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good.
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Necessary, but not
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sufficient.
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If no one else knows
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about your addiction, you
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will not have victory
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over it.
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If no one else knows
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about your addiction, you
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will not experience
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victory over it.
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Sin grows in the dark
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and dies in the light.
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If you are fighting a
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private battle against sin,
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you are fighting in vain.
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sin begins to die.
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We need other people.
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We need the church to
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walk with us.
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Sin begins to die.
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The process of sin dying
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begins when we confess it,
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not just to God, but other
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people.
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By the way, this is the
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proof that we believe the
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gospel.
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We know when we confess to
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other people that our only
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standing is based on Jesus'
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blood for us.
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God is.
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And we lay aside all pride
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and claim to everything
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else.
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If we confess it only alone
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in prayer, but then avoid
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sharing it with anyone else,
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we have failed to experience
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the gospel, which is the
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confession that we are
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broken.
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And it's Jesus' approval of
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us that matters and no one
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else's.
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And so we're no longer
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afraid of the fear of man.
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Application would be this.
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If you are struggling with
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addiction, the first step, and
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I'm not trying to make
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addiction simple in any way,
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it's very complicated.
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So don't hear me oversimplifying
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anything, but the first step of
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many is sharing it with a
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believer that you trust.
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Until you do that, I cannot
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offer you much hope of victory.
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God offers hope to anyone and
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everyone who confesses their sin.
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Finally, or not finally, but next,
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I mentioned this last year.
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The opposite of addiction is not
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sobriety.
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The opposite of addiction is
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connection.
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Problems and solutions go together,
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by the way.
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There's a logic.
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If you create a mess, if you
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pour out a bunch of water on the
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floor in the church kitchen,
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you're not going to solve that by
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running into the bathroom and
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turning on a faucet.
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That problem and solution have no
-
connection to each other.
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Addiction is a problem.
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It's a dysfunction of our
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relationships, especially sexual
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addiction.
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sexual addiction relates to how we
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view and relate to other people.
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Good luck solving that, addressing
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that, without changing how you
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relate to and interact with other
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people.
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I have a friend, I think I shared
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this last year, who's going through
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an addiction recovery program.
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And he was the one who highlighted
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this for me.
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And at one point, he was really
-
struggling.
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And so he sent out a text to
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several of us saying, hey, I
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really need to talk.
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I ended up being the one who was
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available and free to talk.
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And so I called him that evening
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and he shared with me that he was
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in the midst of a struggle with
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temptation.
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And he remembered that the
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opposite of addiction is
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connection.
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And so he called someone.
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This goes along with point one,
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that things die in the dark.
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We conquer these sins together as a
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church.
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And by the way, if you're not
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struggling with this, one of these
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sins right now,
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the application for you would be
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this.
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Think through how you're going to
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respond if someone comes to you
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as a trusted friend.
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You want to be a first Peter kind of
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a Christian.
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And to let them know that you'll be
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with them as they do that.
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They can call you when the battle
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becomes fierce.
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Again, I'm not going to say
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everything.
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Addictions are always the tip of the
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iceberg.
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So there's all kinds of different
-
factors that could play in.
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I can't address all of that.
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Problems and solutions go together.
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Relational problems have relational
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solutions.
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Sin grows in the dark.
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It dies in the light.
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Path in is the path out.
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The longer you're involved in a
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type of sin, the more challenging
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and difficult it is to remove it.
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Just simple logic, right?
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This is how the world works.
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The longer a weed grows in your
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yard,
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especially on some of those zero-scape
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sections,
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the more challenging it is to get rid
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of it.
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And so if I were going to summarize
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our tactics like this, how do we
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address these sins?
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We begin by addressing them.
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And remember, addiction is not easy
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and I don't mean to present it that
-
way.
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We address it first in relationship
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with other people as we confess our
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sin together.
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We're people who confess our sins.
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We're also people who are able to
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receive those confessions.
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And so we all have a role.
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This church is not what they say,
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a hotel for saints,
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but a hospital for sinners.
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And so if you find yourself in verse
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three, you are in the right place.
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God knows that these are the solutions
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and so he's provided not just a
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relationship with him, but a community.
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Now there's much more that we could
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say, but that's where it begins.
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It begins in confession with other
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people in relationship.
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Finally, Peter ends verses five
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through six with some encouragement.
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By the way, this was all in the
-
context of suffering for doing what's
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right.
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The folks who are up against this are
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going to suffer because the friends
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that they used to hang with are going
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to malign them.
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And so Peter ends with the theme that
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he's given us over and over again,
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which is that judgment is coming.
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And so even now, as you maybe feel
-
like Noah from last week,
-
know that there's hope and God is
-
coming back to make everything right.
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Verse five.
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They will give account to him who is
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ready to judge the living and the
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dead.
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Our obedience, our war against sin is
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not in vain.
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God is coming back.
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This is everything we saw in first
-
Peter chapter one with obedience.
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We obey the father.
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We walk in the ways of the father
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because we're sons and daughters and
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we know that he's coming back for us.
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And finally, there's this strange
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sentence in verse six.
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This is why the gospel was preached
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even to those who are dead, that
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they're judged in the flesh the way
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people are.
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They might live in the spirit the way
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God does.
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And I'll simply say this.
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So this is not referring back to
-
what we talked about earlier, the
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spirits in prison.
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This is simply making the point
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that even after you die, you have to
-
answer to God.
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And so the gospel was preached to
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people while they were alive.
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There are some people who are dead
-
now that when they were alive, the
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gospel was preached to them.
-
And that's important because the
-
gospel has implications for their
-
life after death.
-
In other words, all of us will
-
answer to God.
-
And God's judgment and his coming
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and is real.
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But God offers hope and salvation
-
from sin in general and these sins
-
in particular to anyone and everyone
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who repents and confesses and
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recognizes that they are without
-
hope outside of Jesus.
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But that Jesus, through his death,
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through his resurrection, as we saw
-
last week, offers the solution.
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That he pays the penalty of sin for
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everyone who has faith and hope in
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him.
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I'll end with this.
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God gives us his grace.
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He also gives us his weapons.
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And God changes the way that the
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battle is fought.
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If you're familiar with the story of
-
the Iliad, the siege of Troy, you know
-
that the Spartans had no success as
-
long as they sieged the city from the
-
outside.
-
It wasn't until they were able to get
-
the Trojan horse inside the city and
-
fight from inside that they had any
-
victory.
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When we fight sin apart from Jesus
-
Christ, we are fighting it from the
-
outside.
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And we will not win.
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But God comes and changes our hearts so
-
that the battle is now on the inside.
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That's the hope that he offers in the
-
gospel.
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That as we fight with sin, as we wage
-
war, we know that we will win because
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Jesus is with us and he has changed our
-
hearts.
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He has given us the kind of heart that
-
can live for the will of God rather than
-
the passions of the flesh.
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And it is when and only when we embrace
-
that hope that we will have victory not
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from outside our hard and cold hearts, but
-
from inside with the new hearts that Jesus
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gives to those who believe him and follow
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him and have faith in him.
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We're going to end with a hymn that
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expresses that hope, tells us that Jesus
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stands in victory and so sends curse.
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has lost its grip.
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That's the battle from the inside, not the
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outside.
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And so no matter where we are in our battle
-
with sin as we wage war, we have no guilt
-
in life and no fear in death because the
-
power of Christ is in us.
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Jesus commands my destiny and so no power
-
of hell, no scheme of man can ever pluck me
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from his hand.
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That's the hope of all of us who have faith in
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Christ.
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And so I invite you to pray with me before we sing
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that song together.
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Our Father in heaven, we thank you that like a good
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father, you have hard conversations with us.
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And we thank you that you offer us real hope in our
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battle with sin.
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We ask you for this community, for Cheyenne Mountain
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Presbyterian Church, that we would be a hospital for
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sinners rather than a hotel for saints.
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And that this would be a place more and more where because of
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the war that you are waging, because you are fighting from
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the inside, giving us new hearts, we would confess our sins to
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each other.
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We ask that this would be a place of safety and challenge and
-
growth for all of us as we fight our battle with sin.
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And we thank you that we have hope because Jesus has won that
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battle for us.
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And so we ask this in his name.
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Amen.