Sermon
Love One Another
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Good morning. My name is Matthew Capone, and I'm the pastor here at Shine Mountain Presbyterian Church,
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and it's my joy to bring God's word to you on this snowy day.
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Special welcome if you're new or visiting with us. We're glad that you're here,
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and we're glad that you're here not because we're trying to fill seats,
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but because we're following Jesus together as one community, and as we follow Jesus,
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we become convinced that there's no one so good that they don't need God's grace,
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and no one so bad that they can't have it, which is why we turn every week to hear what God has to say to us in his word.
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We've been studying the book of 1 Peter, and the book of 1 Peter, as I've been telling you, is a letter.
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It's a letter written by a man named Peter to churches in the first century A.D. in Asia Minor,
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what's now modern-day Western Turkey, and these churches are struggling.
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They're struggling because they feel out of place in the world as Christians,
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and they're struggling because they're facing opposition in the world for being Christians.
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And so Peter writes to encourage and instruct them.
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He writes to encourage them that Jesus is worth it.
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He's worth living and loving for, and he's worth serving and dying for.
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And he also writes to instruct them.
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He writes to instruct them how to live as Christians in the world
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and also how to respond when they face opposition for being Christians.
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Now, the last several weeks, we've been in a section on suffering,
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so we've been on the instruction side.
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We've been on the side of how to respond when you face opposition for being a Christian.
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We're going to turn this week back to the other portion of the instruction,
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how to live as a Christian in this world.
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We'll be back to suffering next week.
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In this section, we're going to look primarily about how it is that we interact as a church together,
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as one community.
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We've got a lot to cover today, so I'm just going to jump right in.
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And I'll say this as we start.
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Many people, in fact, we might even say most people,
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long for thick and rich community.
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You probably long for thick and rich community.
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Few people are willing to do the work that it takes to get there.
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Many people long for thick and rich community.
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Few people are willing to do the work that it takes to get there.
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Peter, in this passage, is going to give us some very practical advice
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about how to live together in the church.
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How can we actually have the type of community that we long for?
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We're in 1 Peter 4, starting at verse 7.
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And as we come to this, remember that this is God's word.
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And God tells us that his word is more precious than gold, even the finest gold.
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And it's sweeter than honey, even honey that comes straight from the honeycomb.
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And so that's why we read now, starting at verse 7.
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The end of all things is at hand.
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Therefore, be self-controlled and sober-minded for the sake of your prayers.
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Above all, keep loving one another earnestly,
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since love covers a multitude of sins.
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Verse 9.
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Show hospitality to one another without grumbling.
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As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another,
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as good stewards of God's varied grace.
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Verse 11.
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Whoever speaks as one who speaks oracles of God.
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Whoever serves as one who serves by the strength that God supplies.
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In order that in everything, God may be glorified through Jesus Christ.
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To him belong glory and dominion forever and ever.
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Amen.
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I invite you to pray with me as we come to this portion of God's word.
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Father in heaven, we come asking for your help, as we always do.
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By ourselves, we will destroy this community.
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And so we ask that you would speak to us by your word,
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and you'd move in our hearts by your spirit.
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That you would change us into the type of people who build up rather than tear down.
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Most of all, we ask that you would soften our hearts,
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and you'd open our ears and our eyes,
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and that you'd clear our minds.
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That we would be able to hear and see and understand and believe
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everything that it's written about Jesus in your word.
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And so we ask these things in his name.
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Amen.
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The last several weeks, we've had a variety of challenging theological statements to sort out.
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We had the section about Jesus proclaiming to the spirits who were in prison.
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That was somewhat challenging.
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Last week, we had to deal with what in the world does Peter mean
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when he says those who are suffered have done with sin.
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And we're not over yet.
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So we're starting this passage again with another challenging phrase.
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In verse 7, we find out the end of all things is at hand.
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This has been something that's been erased as an objection to Christian faith for many years.
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It's based on not just this passage, but other passages.
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You may have noticed in our preparation for worship, Mark chapter 1,
Mark 1 chapter mention
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Jesus says the kingdom of God is at hand or is near.
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Many people have claimed, well, that's great.
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Jesus and Paul and Peter all believed that the kingdom of God was near.
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And guess what?
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We're here 2,000 years later.
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Obviously, they were wrong.
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Clearly, they were mistaken.
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They thought the end of the world was coming.
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It hasn't come.
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The fact that we're still here disproves Christianity.
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It proves that it's not true.
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And so what do we as Christians make of that?
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What is Peter saying here?
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Excuse me.
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To understand, I want you to imagine this for a second with me.
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Let's say, and this is not just hypothetical,
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a report has reached my ears that this has actually occurred in the city of Colorado Springs.
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You and a group of your friends decide in one day you are going to watch all three of the Lord of the Rings movies.
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Wait.
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It's not just the regular Lord of the Rings movies.
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You're watching the extended version.
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So every single movie is over three or four hours long.
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Now, the report I heard about this happening in Colorado Springs,
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they also made the recipes from the movie that went along with it,
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so they had breaks in between where they could eat.
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All I can say is amen.
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And let's imagine you're at this event,
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and you have finished the first two movies.
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You finished The Fellowship of the Ring, three plus hours.
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You finished The Two Towers, three plus hours.
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And you're about to start The Return of the King.
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Can you say,
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the end of all things is at hand?
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Well, in the sense of time,
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no, you're wrong.
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The end of all things is not at hand.
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The last movie is four plus hours long.
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That is the length of two or three movies.
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Calm down.
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The end of all things is not at hand,
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as our human perception of movie time goes.
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However, in terms of stage,
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the end of all things is at hand.
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You have made it to the last movie.
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Peter here is not speaking in the sense of human time.
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He is speaking in the terms of stages
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when it comes to the way that God has been working in the world.
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Think about this for a second.
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There are lots of stages in the Bible.
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First of all, we had creation.
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Creation was followed by Abraham.
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Abraham was followed by the patriarchs.
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Patriarchs were followed by the nation of Israel and Egypt.
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Then they were leaving Egypt.
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They left Egypt.
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They came.
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They had to conquest the Promised Land.
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That was the stage.
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Then they had a stage in the Promised Land
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where they were ruled by judges.
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After they were ruled by judges,
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they were ruled by kings.
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When they had the kings,
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it was a united kingdom,
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then a divided kingdom.
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After it was a divided kingdom,
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there was before the exile,
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and after the exile,
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and then finally they were looking
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during the time when there was no word from God,
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and finally Jesus came.
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There's a lot of stages.
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The last stage is here.
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That is the sense in which
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the end of all things is at hand.
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If you remember from 1 Peter 1,
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and I'm going to turn back there,
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we had verse 21,
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which told us,
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maybe it's verse 20,
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he was foreknown before the foundation of the world,
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but was made manifest in what?
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In the last times,
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for the sake of you.
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Both the recipients and the reader,
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and us today,
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so the recipients of this letter in the 60s AD,
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and us in 2020,
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are living in the last times,
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in the sense that we are in the last stage
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of God's plan of redemption.
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Both of us look back,
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all those other stages are done.
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There's no new stage that's happened.
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We're in the age of the church,
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as some people might call it.
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We're in the age after Jesus has come.
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So all of us,
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in that sense,
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are in the last times.
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But we do know,
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wherever we are,
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in that last movie,
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we haven't gotten to the battle of the Black Gates.
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But all of us are in the last times.
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So in that sense,
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Peter is telling them,
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the end of all things is at hand.
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It's the same sense in which Jesus means it.
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The same sense he tells them,
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in our preparation for worship,
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repent and believe the gospel,
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for the kingdom of God is at hand.
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With that being said,
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everything that follows here
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is going to be in light of that.
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How do we live,
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knowing that we're in the last stage
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of God's plan of redemption?
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The first thing he tells them
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is that they need to be in prayer.
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Again, verse seven,
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be self-controlled and sober-minded
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for the sake of your prayers.
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This would be the opposite,
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self-controlled of what we've seen before.
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And there's a focus
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and a certain way of thinking.
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They need to remember and know
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that they're in the last stage
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of God's redemption.
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Knowing and remembering that's going to focus them.
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It's going to remind them
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that they need to pray.
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And then it's going to help them
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understand how to pray.
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Perhaps they're praying
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that they would be faithful
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to 1 Peter 3.15,
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that they'd be able to give an answer
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for the hope that's within them.
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Maybe they're praying
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for their friends who don't know Jesus,
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knowing that the end is near,
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that they also would repent
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of their sins and believe.
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Maybe they're in the midst of suffering
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for righteousness' sake
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and they need to pray
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that God would give them
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the strength to continue.
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No matter what it is,
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they're praying
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with an understanding
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of what's going on right now.
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We could tie this back
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to last week as well
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and say,
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if they don't believe
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the end is at hand,
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why would they not engage
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in the sorts of things we discussed?
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If there's no future,
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why would you not seek
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as much pleasure as possible?
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Well,
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because the end of all things
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is at hand.
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So,
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be self-controlled
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and sober-minded
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for the sake of your prayers.
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There's an expectation
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that if we understand
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the reality of where we're at
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in God's plan
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for the world,
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that we will not
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become complacent,
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but instead we'll be faithful
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in praying to him
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for the help that we need
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and what we hope to see
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happen before his return.
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And so,
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how do we live
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in light of the fact
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that the end of all things
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is at hand?
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First of all,
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we are praying
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with that in mind.
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Having covered prayer,
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Peter moves on
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for the rest of this passage
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to how it is
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that we exist together
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as a community.
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If we're going to be
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experiencing the kind of suffering
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that's come in the previous passages
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and that we'll discuss
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in next week's passage,
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we're not going to make it alone.
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If the end of all things
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is at hand,
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we're not going to be able
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to do it by ourselves.
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And so,
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this is where Peter begins
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to give us incredibly
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practical advice
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for how we can have
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a rich and thick
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and strong community.
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first,
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verse 8.
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He says,
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above all,
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so apparently this is more important
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than anything else,
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keep loving one another earnestly
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since love
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covers a multitude of sins.
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Now,
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in what sense
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does love cover
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a multitude of sins?
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It's probably here
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in the sense that Proverbs
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chapter 19,
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verse 11 talks about.
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In the book of Proverbs,
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it says in that verse,
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it is a man's glory
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to overlook
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an offense.
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It's to a man's glory
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to overlook
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an offense.
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Some translations say honor.
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There's a variety
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of different strategies
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that we have
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for dealing with conflict.
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One of them is overlooking.
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Now,
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if you never have conflict,
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you're not overlooking.
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You're just very
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passive aggressive.
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But,
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in the variety
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of conflicts
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that happen,
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sometimes the option
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is to know,
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you know what,
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I'm just going to take
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this one on the chin.
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Not every conflict
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is worth pursuing.
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Not every way
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that someone else
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hurts you
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is worth pursuing.
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There's a lot of things
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that all of us do
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in the church
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that hurt each other.
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I've done things
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that have hurt some of you.
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Some of you
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have done things
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that have hurt me.
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Some of you have done things
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that hurt each other.
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And at some point,
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we decide
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what is worth fighting over
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and what isn't.
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We're going to be
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sinful people
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in this world.
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We're going to hurt
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each other.
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And there's certain things
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that are at such a small level,
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we've just got to let it go.
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That's love.
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That's what it looks like
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to love one another
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earnestly from the heart.
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We love someone else
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so much
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that we're just
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sometimes willing
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to say,
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you know what,
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that person,
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they really get on my nerves.
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I don't like the way
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that they articulated that
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or said that.
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But I also love them.
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And I'm not going to
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call a foul
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every time there's a foul.
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I'm not a referee.
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A mentor of mine
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explains it this way,
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living in life
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is sort of like
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being in an airport.
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And there's all kinds
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of people with backpacks
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that they have on.
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And often,
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they move around
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and they just whack you
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right in the face
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with their backpack.
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They have no idea,
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right?
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All of us
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have baggage.
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And all of us
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have more baggage
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than we realize.
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I have another mentor
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who says that
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many of us think
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that we have
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carry-on baggage
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in our lives
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when really we all
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have checked baggage.
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That causes us
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to hurt each other a lot,
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sometimes unintentionally.
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Living in the church
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means as we love each other,
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sometimes we make the choice
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to overlook that.
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And that's the godly thing to do.
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Some of us
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are real strong personalities.
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And the way we say things
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just grates on other people.
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Sometimes we just overlook that.
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We hear the heart
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behind what someone's saying.
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Some people have been
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really hurt in the past
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by people that resemble us.
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And they're going to
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take that out on us
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even though it's not our fault.
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We'll pay other people's
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debts for them.
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Sometimes we overlook that.
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recognizing that sometimes
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we whack people
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in the face too.
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With our backpack
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that's larger
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than we realize it is.
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If we want to have
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rich and thick community,
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we keep loving
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one another earnestly,
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letting love
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cover
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a multitude of sins.
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Next, verse 9.
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This is a list, by the way.
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It's just a list
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of practical instruction
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for the church.
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Show hospitality
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to one another
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without grumbling.
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Now, it'd be quick
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to think
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in our Western American context,
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it'd be easy for us
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to think this is primarily
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about having people
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over to your house
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and maybe you would grumble
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because you'd have
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to clean up the house
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and that would create
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some work
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and you're the one
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hosting the main dish
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so you're spending money
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you wouldn't otherwise
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be spending.
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And there's all kinds
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of ways in which
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you're put out
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by showing this hospitality.
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And so don't grumble.
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Now, it's certainly
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not less than that
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in this passage
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but it's probably
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much, much more.
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If you think about
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this church for a second,
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if they're suffering
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for the name of Jesus Christ
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and they're living
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in this culture
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that's hostile,
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there's probably
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all sorts of needs
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that they have
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that involve hospitality
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that are not just
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having someone
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over to their house
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for dinner.
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They probably need
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a worship space.
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Well, who has
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the biggest house
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in the church?
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There might be
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needs for gatherings
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of groups.
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Maybe someone
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needs shelter.
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Maybe,
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and this really
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gets to the heart of it,
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this is after a section
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about suffering
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for the name
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of Jesus Christ.
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Maybe someone
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needs hospitality
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because they've chosen
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to do what's right.
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Think about this
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for a second.
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We have someone,
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let's say,
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in our congregation
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they choose
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that they're going
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to do what's right
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and therefore
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they lose their job
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and they're no longer
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able to pay their rent.
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Who are they going
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to stay with?
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Us.
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They're staying with us.
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They're staying
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with one of you.
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Imagine another situation.
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Someone is in
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a sinful relationship
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and they're living
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with someone else
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in that relationship.
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They convert
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to Christianity
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and they realize
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we can't be
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under the same roof
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anymore.
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However,
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we signed a lease
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together and I'm
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legally obligated
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to continue paying
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this lease
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with this other person
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for the next three months.
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I can't get out of it
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but I also have to
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leave this house
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for the sake of righteousness.
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Where are they
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going to live?
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They're living
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with you.
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Let's say
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someone's a
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1 Peter 4,
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1 through 6
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sort of person.
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They're celebrating
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the passions
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of the Gentiles
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and they've
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come to realize
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that Jesus calls
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them to something
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different
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so they repent
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of their sins
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except
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they no longer
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have anywhere
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to go on Friday
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night because
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they used to be
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what did it say
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verse 3?
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They used to be
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at orgies
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and drinking parties.
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Now they're not
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there anymore.
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Where are they
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going on Friday
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night?
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Your house.
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They're coming
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to your house
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to play
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Bananagrams
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with you
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because otherwise
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they don't have
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community.
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Let's think
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about one more.
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Someone converts
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to Christianity
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and they're kicked
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out of their house.
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I had a friend
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this happened to
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by the way
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here in the United States.
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Parents disown them
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so you cannot live
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here anymore
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as a Christian.
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Happens at 10 p.m.
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by the way.
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Whose door
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are they knocking on?
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Our door.
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They're knocking
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on our door.
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And what would be
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tempting in that
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situation?
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Maybe you're sharing
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a bathroom with
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someone you don't
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want to be sharing
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a bathroom with.
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Maybe it's just
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less space
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for a limited
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amount of time.
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What does Peter
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tell us to do?
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Show hospitality
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to one another
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without grumbling.
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In fact,
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this will probably
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be something
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that's more and more
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relevant for the
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American church.
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Now I do say
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this sometimes.
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Don't hear what
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I'm not saying.
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I'm not saying
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you as a Christian
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are obligated
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to provide housing
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for anyone
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who needs housing
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and hospitality
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for anyone
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who needs housing.
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I'm not saying
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there are not
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boundaries.
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I'm not saying
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any Christian
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who makes that
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demand on you.
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What I am saying
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is that if we
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call people
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to suffer
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for righteousness
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sake,
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we need to be
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prepared to give
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them the resources
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necessary for that
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obedience
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as a community.
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If we call
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someone to
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righteousness sake,
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we can't say,
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hey,
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you've got to
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leave that
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relationship
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and you can't
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live there
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anymore.
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Good luck
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finding a place.
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No,
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we say,
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you have to
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leave that
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relationship
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and you can't
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live there
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anymore
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and so-and-so
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and so-and-so
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and so-and-so
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all have rooms.
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And while you
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figure things out
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or while that
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lease ends,
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they are going
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to back you
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up on that
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as you follow
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Jesus Christ
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in faith.
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Many people
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want thick
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and rich
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community.
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Few people
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are willing
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to do
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what it
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takes.
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Okay,
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verse 8,
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we're covering
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over sins.
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Verse 9,
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we're showing
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hospitality to
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one another
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without grumbling.
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Verse 10
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now,
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as each
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has received
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a gift,
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use it to
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serve one
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another as
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good stewards
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of God's
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buried grace.
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There's a couple
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things going
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on here.
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First,
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God gives
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people gifts.
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He gives
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them abilities
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to serve
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one another
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and the
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church.
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Second,
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those gifts
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are buried.
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God's
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buried grace.
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Not everyone
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has the
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same gift.
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Whatever
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your gift
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is,
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use it
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to serve
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the body.
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Another
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angle on
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that might
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be,
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if you're
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serving,
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the body
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in a way
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that's
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not your
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gift,
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you've
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got to
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be open
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to someone
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saying,
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hey,
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this is
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not your
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area of
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strength.
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Maybe you'd
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be better
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serving over
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in this
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area.
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If you're
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not a
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friendly
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person,
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you probably
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shouldn't be
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on the
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greeter
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team.
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Use your
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varied gifts.
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Maybe you're
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good at
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administration,
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you need
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to be in
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a different
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area.
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If you're
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a really
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friendly
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person,
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but you're
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terrible at
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administration,
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you probably
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need to be
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on the
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greeter
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team.
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Just not
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running it.
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Serve God
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according to
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your
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gifts,
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your
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varied
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gifts.
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Second,
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make it
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about
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God.
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Verse 11,
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whoever
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speaks as
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one who
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speaks
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oracles
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of God,
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whoever
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serves as
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one who
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serves by
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the strength
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that God
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supplies.
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So we're
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serving the
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church with
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our gifts,
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the actual
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gifts that
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we have.
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We're open
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to being
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redirected to
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the place
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where we're
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actually strong
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rather than
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serving in
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an area
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that we're
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weak,
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and then
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we do
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it in a
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way that's
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actually about
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God.
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So there's
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two kinds
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of gifts
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that are
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here.
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We're talking
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about people
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that are
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speaking and
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people that
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are serving.
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People that
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are speaking
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speak as
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oracles of
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God.
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In other
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words,
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if you're
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a preacher
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or a
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teacher,
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you're not
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called to be
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a life
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coach.
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You're not
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called to
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preach your
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personal opinions
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about things.
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You are
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called to teach
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the word of
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God.
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That's part
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of the reason
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that we have
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sequential
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expositional
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preaching at
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this church.
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We can't
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avoid passages
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of scripture.
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We're sticking
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with the text
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and the verses
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that God
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has given
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us so that
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those who
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speak would
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speak oracles
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of God
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rather than
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speaking about
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themselves.
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We could
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expand this.
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Maybe it's
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not just
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preachers and
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teachers,
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but speaking
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in general.
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Maybe you're
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in a small
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group.
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Maybe you're
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in a one-on-one
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relationship with
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another person,
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and they're
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discipling you and
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helping you.
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The person who's
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doing the
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discipling needs
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to be speaking
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God's truth,
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not their own
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opinions.
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Speaking about
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God rather than
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themselves.
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Whatever we're
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doing, however
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we're serving,
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we're serving in
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a way that
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brings honor and
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glory to God.
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The one who
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serves by the
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strength that God
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supplies, and here
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we have the
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purpose, in order
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that in everything
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God may be
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glorified through
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Jesus Christ.
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So no matter
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what we're doing,
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whether we're
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speaking or we're
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serving, we're
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doing it so that
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God would have
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honor and
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glory, which
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means we have
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to separate our
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ego from our
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service.
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We have to
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separate our
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ego from our
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service.
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We have to
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question our
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motivations.
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Am I doing
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this for the
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glory and honor
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of God?
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If we're doing
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it for the
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glory and honor
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of God, we
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won't have
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self-congratulation.
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We won't say
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things like,
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man, even just
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to ourselves,
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man, I'm so
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glad I'm the
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one doing that
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and so-and-so's
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not doing it
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anymore because
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they did a
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terrible job, but
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I'm really good
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at this.
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That's not
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bringing honor
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and glory to
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God.
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That's bringing
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honor and glory
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to you.
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We know we're
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not bringing
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glory to God
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when we say
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things like,
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man, church is
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just so lucky
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to have me.
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Or we decide
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what our gifts
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are, right, and
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there's no other
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place we can serve.
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I have to serve
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in this way.
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Well, it's not
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about God
-
anymore.
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I have to do
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this.
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No one ever
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gives me the
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credit or the
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honor that they
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don't understand
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how important I
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am.
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That's not
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serving by the
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strength that
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God supplies.
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We know it's
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no longer about
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God and his
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strength when we
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can't hear feedback
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about what we're
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doing.
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If no one's
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able to give
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you criticism
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in your
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service, to
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provide constructive
-
feedback to
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encourage and
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also help you
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understand ways
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it could get
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better, it's
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not about God
-
anymore.
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In fact, the
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gospel is what
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allows us to
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not get
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everything right.
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Part of the
-
gospel is this
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profound humility
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to realize,
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okay, I'm so
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bad that Jesus
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had to die.
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So there's
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probably a few
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things that I'm
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still getting
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wrong.
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And there's
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ability to
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laugh at
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yourself, right,
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and say, man,
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that's right, I
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didn't even see
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that, I
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really messed
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that up,
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didn't I?
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Glad God's
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gracious enough.
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When we
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really understand
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God's love for
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us in the
-
gospel, when we
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understand how
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serious sin is,
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and when our
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goal is to
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bring honor and
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glory to God,
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we are going to
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be humble people
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in our service.
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we'll be able to
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receive feedback and
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criticism.
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We'll be able to
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hear, hey, actually
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this isn't maybe the
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right fit for you in
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this particular
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service.
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Oh, it's not the
-
right fit?
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Well, I'm just
-
interested in serving
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God, so where's the
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area I can best serve
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God?
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And I know I'm
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imperfect, right?
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That's what the
-
gospel tells me, so
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of course there are
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things I'm not good
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at.
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And God's going to
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give me the strength
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no matter what
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comes.
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There is a rich
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humility that comes
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with understanding
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the gospel.
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Humble enough to
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admit there's things
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you're not good at.
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Humble enough to
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risk doing the
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things you're good
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at.
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And sometimes
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fail.
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One way to fall off
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the path, by the
-
way, is to be really
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good at something and
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withhold that from
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everyone.
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I've talked about
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people serving in
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areas where they
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shouldn't be serving
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or people serving
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but not serving for
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the glory of God but
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serving for their own
-
glory.
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There's also having a
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tremendous ability and
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a gift but thinking,
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but what if it's not
-
good enough or it's not
-
perfect?
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God's given you a
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gift.
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Use it to serve the
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body.
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If you're afraid it's
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not going to be good
-
enough or it's not
-
going to be perfect or
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maybe it might lead to
-
some conflict, it's not
-
about God's glory
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anymore.
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If it's about God's
-
glory, then you use
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your gift knowing at
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times you're going to
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mess up.
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And the gospel's big
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enough to cover that
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up.
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By the way, hopefully
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you're in a community
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where love covers a
-
multitude of sins.
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And you're able to
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trip and make some
-
mistakes and God is
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still glorified.
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Harry Truman says
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this,
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it's amazing what you
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can accomplish if you
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do not care who gets
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the credit.
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It's amazing what we
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as a church can
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accomplish if we don't
-
care who gets the
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credit.
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If we are,
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verse 10,
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as each has received a
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gift, use it to serve
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one another as good
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stewards of God's very
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grace.
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You want to be a good
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steward.
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Another way of thinking
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about it would be this,
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and we're in the context
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of suffering, right?
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That's what's coming next
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week, that's what came
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the last several weeks.
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When you're up against
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the weight of suffering,
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it is too large of a
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weight for one person to
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lift.
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We need the entire
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community working
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together.
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It's the difference
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between what someone
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who's doing, who's
-
working out, would tell
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you the difference
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between an isolated
-
exercise and a compound
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exercise.
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If I'm doing a bicep
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curl, that's an
-
isolated exercise.
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I can't lift a lot of
-
weight.
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If you're doing a
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bench press, that's a
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compound exercise.
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You can lift a ton of
-
weight, but you need all
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the parts of the body.
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The challenges that we
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face as a church
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suffering in this world
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is too heavy for anyone
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to lift on their own.
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If you're bicep curling
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60 pounds, man, you're
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really strong, that's
-
impressive.
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If you're bench
-
pressing 60 pounds, you're
-
not really strong, that's
-
not very impressive.
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God has called us to
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compound exercises as a
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community.
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He's not called us to
-
isolated exercises.
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And so we serve one
-
another as each has
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received a gift.
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in order that in
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everything God may be
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glorified through Jesus
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Christ.
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To him belong glory and
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dominion forever and
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ever.
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Amen.
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And so there's two
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things here.
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Talk about this first,
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that God's glorified.
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We've talked about how
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that works practically.
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Of course, it's always
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tempting, right?
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When we see success in
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ministry, we're serving in
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any area of the church,
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whether it's speaking
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oracles, whether we're
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serving with our hands
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and our abilities.
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As humans, we're always
-
tempted to bring glory to
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ourselves and not to God.
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I told you several weeks
-
ago, a couple weeks in a
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row, the story of
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Corrie Ten Boom, and
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she's going to continue
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to teach us a little bit.
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After all her suffering in
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the Nazi concentration camp,
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she went on to have an
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amazing speaking career.
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And at some point,
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someone asked her, how do
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you handle all the praise
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that you receive?
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How do you stay humble
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and centered on God?
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And she said this,
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when people come up and
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give me a compliment,
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Corrie, that was a good
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talk, or Corrie, you were
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so brave, I take each
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remark as if it were a
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flower.
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At the end of each day, I
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lift up the bouquet of
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flowers I have gathered
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throughout the day and say,
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here you are, Lord.
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Lord, it is all yours.
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When we serve in a way
-
that brings glory to God,
-
we recognize that he's the
-
one who's given us the
-
strength.
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And so we take the praise
-
that other people give us,
-
we bring it to God, and we
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say, here you are, Lord.
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It is all yours.
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And finally, we do it by the
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strength that God supplies,
-
that God may be glorified
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through Jesus Christ.
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I mentioned earlier that we
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have more baggage than we're
-
often willing to recognize
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or admit.
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We're also more flawed and
-
less gifted than often we
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think.
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Most of us are good at one
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or two things.
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I read someone say this
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once, and after that, it
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just kind of all falls apart.
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If you see someone who's
-
amazing at one thing, you
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think, man, that's an
-
incredible person.
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They're probably terrible at
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15 things.
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And so as we serve, we're
-
not resting in our own
-
strength, but on the
-
strength of God, knowing
-
that when we accomplish
-
something of spiritual
-
significance, it's only
-
because of God's power
-
working through us.
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And so that allows us and
-
other people to give honor
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and glory to God.
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The story that best
-
illustrates this that I know
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of comes at the very end of a
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book named Cinder Church, and
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it's a book, a story about a
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donkey.
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This donkey is the donkey that
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Jesus rode in on Palm Sunday,
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and this is a story about the
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next day for that donkey.
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He'd come in.
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Jesus was riding on him.
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Things were great.
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It goes like this.
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The little donkey awoke with a
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smile on his face.
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He had been dreaming of the
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previous day.
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He stretched and then happily
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walked out into the street,
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but the many passersby
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simply ignored him.
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Confused, he went over to the
-
crowded market area.
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With his ears held high with
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pride, he strutted right down
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the middle of it.
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Here I am, people, he said
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to himself.
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But they stared in confusion,
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and some angrily struck him
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to drive him away.
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What do you think you are
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doing, you donkey, walking
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into the marketplace like this?
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Throw your garments down, he
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said crossly.
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Don't you know who I am?
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They just looked at him in
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amazement.
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Hurt and confused, the donkey
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returned home to his mother.
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I don't understand, he said
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to her.
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Yesterday they waved palm
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branches at me.
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They shouted Hosanna and
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hallelujah.
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Today they treat me like I'm a
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nobody.
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Foolish child, she said gently.
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Don't you realize that without
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him, you can do nothing?
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You can do this ministry with
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God's help, so give it all
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you've got.
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You can't do this ministry
-
without God's help, so be at
-
peace.
-
It's in one verse recorded in
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John's gospel.
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I am the vine, you are the
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branches.
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If a man remains in me and I in
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him, he will bear much fruit.
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But apart from me, you can do
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nothing.
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And earlier in his gospel,
-
remember John told us he must
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decrease.
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He must increase, but I must
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decrease.
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God gives us gifts, but he's
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the one who gives us the
-
strength.
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And he gives it to us so that
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we would bring service to each
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other and honor and glory not to
-
ourselves, but to him.
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And so how do we have rich and
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thick community?
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We understand that we're in the
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last days, and so we pray to God
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with that in mind.
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We're quick to forgive and cover
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over the sins of others.
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We serve showing hospitality
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without grumbling because we want
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the community's good more than our
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own.
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And finally, we use our gifts
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humbly to serve others and to
-
serve God.
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Praying to God and serving one
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another.
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Please pray with me.
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Our Father in heaven, we thank you
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for your word, and we thank you for
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this community that you've given us at
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Cheyenne Mountain Presbyterian
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Church.
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We ask that you would work the
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gospel deep into our hearts so that
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we'd be more and more humble and
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more and more eager to serve, not
-
for our glory, but for yours, and
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that you would use that to draw us
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close to you and to draw others to
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yourself.
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We ask these things in the mighty
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name of Jesus.
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Amen.
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Amen.