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Homosexuality and the Believer

Maranatha Baptist Church of Columbus, OH - Latest Messages

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  1. Thank you, John.

  2. I'm going to ask you in advance to give a report to me.

  3. Judith and I are going away for a brief vacation.

  4. We're leaving after the morning service.

  5. We're going down to, where is it?

  6. Sevierville, Tennessee, okay?

  7. Down near Gatlinburg, et cetera,

  8. and we're going to have a wonderful time there.

  9. Be back Thursday evening.

  10. But I am not going to be here for the youth missions team report tonight,

  11. and here's what I am looking for in particular.

  12. I want to know whether or not the person who speaks, that's Caleb Gibbs,

  13. if he asks you to pray for him, will you report on that?

  14. You let me know.

  15. You can email me.

  16. This is one of those times that you can email me.

  17. I want the inbox with lots of people saying, yes, he asked for prayer.

  18. Three or four times, he stopped and did it specifically so that you had adequate emails in your inbox.

  19. You got it?

  20. Okay.

  21. Do we believe in praying for those who preach the Word of God?

  22. What's the answer?

  23. Yes.

  24. Yes.

  25. I am looking forward to the reports I hear.

  26. I know that our missions team has been working diligently.

  27. I'm very thankful for what they have been doing and for what all of those who are working with our young people have been doing.

  28. It's a great blessing to watch them at work and to see the details that God is bringing together.

  29. Well, if I'm going to ask you to pray for me, then let's do it together,

  30. and then you can kind of at least three times during the service, and you may sense when it's necessary.

  31. You just say, oh, Lord, help them.

  32. I don't care if you do it out loud.

  33. It won't bother me.

  34. I believe it more than you do.

  35. That was wrong.

  36. But I depend on your prayer, and so I don't care if you say it out loud.

  37. Now, some of you are going to do that just because you're perverse, and it won't bother me.

  38. There you go.

  39. More, more often.

  40. Okay.

  41. Precious Father, my heart can't help but think about the truth of Zechariah where it said,

  42. not by might nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the Lord.

  43. Preaching is a terrifying business in that while it is the sweet savor of salvation to those who are being saved,

  44. it is the odor of death to those who turn away from Christ.

  45. And I would ask your power this morning to preach the word with clarity and with the enabling of the Spirit of God,

  46. that those who are here today and know Christ would have their hearts strengthened,

  47. their resolve increased,

  48. their passion for holy living amplified,

  49. and their desire to see people come to the Savior strengthened.

  50. And pray for those who are here today that do not know Christ,

  51. some that are completely deceived,

  52. believing that church attendance or something they said decades ago

  53. that really has never made any difference in their life

  54. is the same as having a personal relationship with the living God and Savior of this universe.

  55. And I pray that this morning your Spirit would bring them to conviction,

  56. that they would see their need for the Lord Jesus Christ,

  57. and they would cry out and be saved.

  58. Now help me.

  59. I ask it for your glory.

  60. Amen.

  61. Well, you who know me, I think over 26 years,

  62. know that topical messages are not my favorite.

  63. I'll just tell you that right up front in case you didn't know it.

  64. I would much rather start in chapter 1, verse 1 of Ephesians

  65. and work my way through to the end of Ephesians,

  66. and then after that, I can tell you I'm already beginning to pray

  67. about what I'm going to preach next, Lord willing.

  68. And I'll tell you ahead of time that I'm beginning to think real seriously

  69. about the book of John.

  70. And I don't know, I can't promise that yet,

  71. but it's beginning to become a thematic focus

  72. in my own private devotions and study.

  73. And I love preaching expositionally.

  74. Take our time and work our way through the book.

  75. That's my preference.

  76. But there are times that I believe it is right, it is important,

  77. it is responsibility of a person who ministers the Word of God

  78. to speak to those matters that are contemporary to where we are.

  79. And I don't think there's a one of you here in the room

  80. that is not aware of the fact that the Supreme Court,

  81. the Supreme Court, the Supreme Justices,

  82. are in the process of considering the Defense of Marriage Act

  83. that California passed.

  84. And there is a high probability that the court is going to,

  85. in some way or another,

  86. diminish the significance of that law

  87. and pose some challenges to the traditional view of marriage.

  88. And that being the case,

  89. I believed that it was right for me,

  90. as a preacher of the gospel,

  91. to stand before you

  92. and address the issue of homosexuality and the believer.

  93. So let me speak, first of all, in broad terms,

  94. in terms of where we are and what's going on,

  95. bring it down a little more specifically

  96. to what's happening with the issue of homosexuality,

  97. and then bring it down to what I believe

  98. is the most important part for us.

  99. What is it that Christ wants us to do

  100. as His witnesses and representatives

  101. in this world that He has placed us in?

  102. So let's think about it in broad terms.

  103. Where are we?

  104. First, let's kind of look at the broad state of our nation

  105. and what is happening with social norms.

  106. Recognize that you may take pleasure

  107. in realizing that divorce rates are dropping.

  108. How many of you picked up on that?

  109. The divorce rates are dropping.

  110. Good news, good news.

  111. The fact of the matter is,

  112. the reason divorce rates are dropping

  113. is because people are just not marrying.

  114. And so I wouldn't go around touting the statistics

  115. that says,

  116. whoo, we're having some kind of modest revival

  117. because fewer people are getting divorced.

  118. The truth of the matter is,

  119. fewer people are getting married.

  120. And more and more people are just cohabiting,

  121. living together,

  122. and just kind of leaving it out there.

  123. Let me give you some very startling statistics.

  124. 41% of the children in the United States of America

  125. live in single-parent homes.

  126. 41% of children in America

  127. live in single-parent homes.

  128. I was doing some research on the web,

  129. and I was really struck that

  130. one of the primary factors in poverty

  131. is single-parent homes.

  132. You look at the statistics

  133. and recognize that 29% of Eurasian people,

  134. white community,

  135. they come from single-parent homes.

  136. 53% in the Latino community,

  137. and 73% in the black community

  138. live in single-parent homes.

  139. It is devastating to stop and realize

  140. how many people grow up

  141. without a daddy and a mommy

  142. in the same home.

  143. It's unbelievable.

  144. We are growing into a culture

  145. in which entitlement is a way of life

  146. and a perceived right.

  147. And if you want to see people

  148. really get animated and really angry,

  149. just suggest to them

  150. that you're going to take away

  151. any of their entitlements,

  152. any at all.

  153. Our rate of narcissism,

  154. that's a fancy little word

  155. for self-focus,

  156. has grown by incredible leaps and bounds

  157. in the last two decades,

  158. and it is at the point

  159. where people are culturally consumed

  160. with themselves

  161. and their own preferences and interests.

  162. Our culture's drug use

  163. and criminal behavior

  164. is up significantly.

  165. I sat in here

  166. about a week ago

  167. when our homeowners association here,

  168. Trebu Woods,

  169. we host them once a year,

  170. and they had a police officer

  171. come in and talk to them

  172. about just common safety

  173. and block watch issues

  174. because there's so much crime going on.

  175. It is going on

  176. because of heroin in particular,

  177. and they were just giving little tips

  178. on what not to do

  179. to make your house a ready target.

  180. Let's speak a little more specifically

  181. to what we see happening

  182. in the area of homosexuality.

  183. We see there is an aggressive agenda

  184. that has sought to unseat truth

  185. and to suppress it

  186. in news,

  187. in entertainment,

  188. in classrooms,

  189. and in every manifestation

  190. of the public square.

  191. Make no mistake about it.

  192. Those who oppose our God and Savior

  193. will never be happy

  194. so long as any believer

  195. is capable of standing up for the truth

  196. and calling people to repentance.

  197. Don't be surprised

  198. because we realize

  199. that what is really going on,

  200. there are two kingdoms in conflict.

  201. Do you understand that?

  202. There are two kingdoms in conflict,

  203. and don't be surprised

  204. at the adversity

  205. that is coming for those

  206. who will at any point

  207. and any juncture say,

  208. hey, that's not right.

  209. I am stunned

  210. to realize that there's been

  211. a significant shift

  212. in public opinion

  213. on many fronts,

  214. but particularly

  215. in the area of human sexuality

  216. and self-gratification.

  217. There's been a huge shift

  218. in the last 20 years.

  219. I remember when I was going

  220. to seminary

  221. in the mid-70s,

  222. and the predominant focus

  223. of my seminary education

  224. was on learning the languages

  225. and the discipline of exposition

  226. and study

  227. and pastoral theology,

  228. and nobody ever thought

  229. to say to me,

  230. pastor, before you retire,

  231. you are going to be dealing

  232. with the devolution

  233. of American culture,

  234. and you are going to see

  235. the church of the living God

  236. become progressively

  237. colder and colder,

  238. both to holiness

  239. and to moral purity.

  240. We see a futile attempt

  241. by social conservatives

  242. trying to argue

  243. a theological truth

  244. without relying on the authority

  245. and the sufficiency

  246. of Scripture.

  247. And when you turn away

  248. from arguing

  249. a theological truth

  250. without relying upon

  251. the theology of truth,

  252. guess what happens?

  253. It doesn't work.

  254. I don't know

  255. if you're actually aware of it,

  256. and some of you perhaps are,

  257. but in, let's see,

  258. what is it, 2003,

  259. the law against sodomy

  260. in the state of Texas

  261. was ruled against

  262. by the Supreme Courts.

  263. when that was,

  264. when that happened,

  265. the reality of the fact

  266. is this,

  267. is that there was removed

  268. all rational basis

  269. for insisting on any kind

  270. of moral behavior

  271. in our culture.

  272. And be certain of this,

  273. that once that has passed

  274. by the wayside,

  275. the door is open

  276. for every kind

  277. of imaginable perversion

  278. as men can imagine.

  279. It's very interesting.

  280. I did some research

  281. last several weeks.

  282. I've been studying

  283. and praying about this subject.

  284. But one of the things

  285. that I went back

  286. and began researching

  287. is the vocabulary

  288. of acceptance

  289. that has worked its way in.

  290. You may not realize this,

  291. but first of all,

  292. there was a time

  293. when homosexuality

  294. was called a perversion,

  295. even in secular fields.

  296. Then it was recognized

  297. as a psychological difficulty.

  298. And then it was recognized

  299. as an alternative lifestyle

  300. and a preference

  301. that everybody should have

  302. the right to choose

  303. simply because,

  304. hey, that's what I want

  305. and why should I not

  306. be given what I want?

  307. Listen to me carefully.

  308. The same logic

  309. is being played out today

  310. in the area of pedophilia.

  311. And any of you

  312. who don't know

  313. what the word means,

  314. you can ask your mother

  315. or daddy at home

  316. later on.

  317. The vocabulary

  318. of teaching our culture

  319. to be acceptable

  320. to that form

  321. of misbehavior

  322. is in play

  323. and is being advanced

  324. aggressively in our day.

  325. I have to look out

  326. on our congregation

  327. and recognize

  328. that there are some

  329. of you probably.

  330. I think it probably

  331. will take longer

  332. than the next 10, 15 years.

  333. But I would not be surprised

  334. if we saw

  335. the same argument

  336. play out

  337. and the same consequence

  338. take place

  339. in the area of pedophilia

  340. that we have seen

  341. taking place

  342. in the area of homosexuality.

  343. And if you think I'm wrong,

  344. ask yourself

  345. historical questions

  346. as to what's going on

  347. and where it has gone

  348. and how quickly it has gone.

  349. I recognize

  350. that as we think

  351. about what is going on today,

  352. we also recognize

  353. the building pressure

  354. on professing believers

  355. and the probability

  356. of wholesale compromise

  357. on many fronts.

  358. I would not be surprised

  359. if in the next decade

  360. it's not just liberal churches

  361. that quietly

  362. and tacitly

  363. agree with homosexuality,

  364. but a great deal

  365. of accommodation

  366. is going on

  367. in churches

  368. all over our country.

  369. And I'm not just talking

  370. about those

  371. who are liberal

  372. and would tell you

  373. that really

  374. Jesus did not come

  375. to die for our sins,

  376. but He came

  377. to be a good example.

  378. I anticipate

  379. that many churches

  380. will compromise

  381. because they simply

  382. will not want

  383. to face the pressure

  384. that goes with

  385. the issues

  386. that are on hand.

  387. So let's come

  388. to a second question

  389. and that is

  390. what is going on

  391. here in America now?

  392. And I want you

  393. to turn in your Bibles

  394. to Romans chapter 1.

    Romans 1 chapter mention

  395. What is going on

  396. here in America now?

  397. Romans chapter 1

    Romans 1 chapter mention

  398. beginning in verse 18

  399. through 28

  400. and I'm not going

  401. to take care

  402. of an exposition

  403. of the entire passage

  404. but kind of follow

  405. the broad sweep

  406. of what is in view.

  407. But pick up,

  408. if you will,

  409. in verse 18.

  410. It says,

  411. For the wrath of God

  412. is revealed from heaven

  413. against all ungodliness

  414. and unrighteousness

  415. of men

  416. who by their unrighteousness

  417. suppress the truth.

  418. I want you to recognize

  419. that what I believe

  420. is taking place

  421. is God is in the process

  422. of displaying His wrath

  423. against those

  424. who are ungodly

  425. and are intent

  426. on suppressing the truth.

  427. Now, do you follow

  428. what I'm saying?

  429. Ungodly

  430. but also intentional

  431. in their energetic

  432. attempt

  433. to suppress the truth.

  434. Hey,

  435. all you have to do

  436. is say,

  437. I don't believe

  438. homosexuality

  439. is an acceptable

  440. alternative lifestyle

  441. and what happens

  442. to you in your workplace?

  443. Unless you're a mother

  444. at home

  445. or you run

  446. your own business,

  447. guess what?

  448. You're going to face pressure.

  449. And everybody else

  450. is wandering around

  451. with these two equal signs

  452. that are made out of pink.

  453. Do you follow me?

  454. It's the way it is.

  455. I recognize

  456. when we think about

  457. God's wrath

  458. that we have to identify

  459. there are different ways

  460. in which God's wrath

  461. is or has been expressed

  462. and eventually

  463. will be expressed.

  464. For one,

  465. we do see illustrations

  466. in the Bible

  467. occasionally

  468. of God's wrath

  469. being directly displayed

  470. as is

  471. or as was the case

  472. against Sodom and Gomorrah.

  473. You look back there

  474. in Sodom and Gomorrah

  475. and you recognize

  476. that God reached the point

  477. with their sexual perversion

  478. and wickedness

  479. that He finally brought fire

  480. from heaven

  481. and destroyed them.

  482. If you're a student

  483. of Scripture,

  484. you also realize

  485. that one of the reasons

  486. that the Amorites

  487. and the Canaanites

  488. were driven out

  489. of the land

  490. was because

  491. of their sexual perversion

  492. and their murderous treatment

  493. of other people,

  494. their shedding

  495. of innocent blood.

  496. In fact,

  497. remember,

  498. Abraham was told,

  499. you are eventually

  500. going to receive this land

  501. and you're not going

  502. to get it now

  503. because the iniquity

  504. of the Amorites

  505. has not filled up

  506. to the point

  507. that I am going

  508. to put judgment on them.

  509. I want you to understand

  510. also that God's wrath

  511. generally

  512. is something

  513. that is released

  514. only on occasion.

  515. We don't see

  516. many illustrations

  517. of God's wrath

  518. in this day and age

  519. and if you were

  520. to think back

  521. on that subject,

  522. you realize

  523. in Romans chapter 2

    Romans 2 chapter mention

  524. it says that God delays.

  525. Why does He delay

  526. His judgment?

  527. What's His reason?

  528. His desire is

  529. that no one should perish.

  530. He's patient,

  531. patient, patient

  532. and in His patience

  533. He is giving men

  534. opportunity to repent.

  535. However,

  536. when men

  537. disrespect His patience

  538. and temperance,

  539. I want you to understand

  540. that the day of judgment

  541. is coming

  542. and judgment

  543. will be amplified

  544. by the amount

  545. of patience

  546. and forbearance

  547. He has displayed.

  548. Ultimately,

  549. we do need to understand

  550. that God's wrath

  551. will be displayed

  552. against unrepentant sinners

  553. for all of eternity.

  554. And that is a terrifying prospect

  555. to stop and realize

  556. that individuals

  557. who rebel against God

  558. and refuse the grace of Christ

  559. will spend all of eternity

  560. in hell.

  561. That's important

  562. for us to realize.

  563. Remember I said

  564. that we are watching

  565. God turn His back

  566. on America

  567. and He's releasing

  568. this nation

  569. to the devolution

  570. and the unintended consequences

  571. of rebellion

  572. against God's will.

  573. And I bring this

  574. to your attention

  575. for several reasons

  576. in the text.

  577. First,

  578. let's look at what we find

  579. there in Romans chapter 1.

    Romans 1 chapter mention

  580. Mark what we see

  581. in verse 24,

  582. 26 and 28.

  583. And let me just draw

  584. attention to you.

  585. It says here,

  586. therefore God gave them up.

  587. God gave them up.

  588. God gave them up.

  589. And that little statement,

  590. that little phrase,

  591. identifies the judicial act

  592. of God whereby

  593. He steps aside

  594. to allow sin

  595. to produce

  596. its horrible

  597. and unintended consequences.

  598. How many realize

  599. that when God says

  600. don't do this,

  601. there's a little subtext

  602. that says,

  603. this is going to hurt you.

  604. I was reading

  605. another interesting article

  606. about the coming

  607. certain economic difficulty

  608. in America.

  609. And that coming

  610. economic difficulty

  611. has nothing to do

  612. with our national debt.

  613. Ooh,

  614. what is going to cause

  615. our economic difficulty?

  616. Guess what it is?

  617. How many of you know

  618. it is the birth rate?

  619. Japan today

  620. has more people

  621. in adult pampers

  622. than in nappies

  623. for babies.

  624. And as you get older,

  625. guess what happens

  626. to your creativity

  627. and your productivity

  628. upon which a culture

  629. depends for economic stability?

  630. How many of you heard

  631. that we had too much population

  632. going around?

  633. You remember hearing

  634. all that kind of stuff?

  635. The unintended consequences

  636. of not following God's Word

  637. plays out eventually

  638. and catches people

  639. in their foolishness.

  640. Same thing happening

  641. in China, by the way.

  642. Well, you look here

  643. and it says that

  644. God gave them up.

  645. Second,

  646. notice that in each

  647. of these three instances,

  648. God's act of giving men

  649. up to their sin

  650. results in them

  651. doing things

  652. that are unnatural.

  653. Look at verse 24.

  654. He gave them up

  655. in the lusts

  656. of their hearts

  657. to impurity,

  658. to the dishonoring

  659. of their bodies

  660. among themselves.

  661. In verse 26,

  662. God gave them up

  663. to dishonorable passions

  664. for their women

  665. exchanged natural relationships

  666. with those

  667. that are contrary

  668. to nature.

  669. Now, what does it mean

  670. to be contrary

  671. to nature?

  672. Here,

  673. my son called me

  674. the other day

  675. asking me a plumbing question.

  676. I am an informal plumber.

  677. I'm a plumbing pastor.

  678. And it happens

  679. on a regular basis.

  680. People call me

  681. with plumbing problems

  682. and I will tell them

  683. it should run downhill.

  684. Keep it going that way

  685. and you want it

  686. to go towards the curb.

  687. You want it to go away

  688. from where you are.

  689. But there's something else

  690. about plumbing.

  691. How many of you know

  692. when you go to buy fittings,

  693. they are called male fittings

  694. and female fittings?

  695. Duh.

  696. There's a reason

  697. for that vocabulary.

  698. It has to do

  699. with biology.

  700. And when it says

  701. that they are doing things

  702. contrary to nature,

  703. it's saying

  704. they're doing things

  705. contrary

  706. to the biological structure

  707. that God has provided

  708. to the male body

  709. and to the female body.

  710. Look at what it says

  711. there in verse 28.

  712. And since they do not

  713. see fit to acknowledge God,

  714. God gave them up

  715. to a debased mind

  716. to do what ought not

  717. to be done.

  718. Now when it says

  719. ought not to be done,

  720. it's not just talking

  721. about what is not

  722. morally correct,

  723. but it's something

  724. that is destructive

  725. to the person

  726. who engages in it.

  727. Third, notice something else

  728. in our text.

  729. The characteristics

  730. that bring judgment

  731. are not only rebellion

  732. against God's order

  733. and the law,

  734. but I want you to notice

  735. something else

  736. in verse 32.

  737. And ask yourself

  738. this question,

  739. does this not describe

  740. what we see happening

  741. in our culture?

  742. for though they know

  743. God's decree

  744. that those who practice

  745. such things deserve to die,

  746. they not only do them

  747. but give approval

  748. to those who practice them.

  749. Hey, you want to get

  750. acceptability in our culture today?

  751. Just let everybody know

  752. how tolerant you are

  753. and accepting you are

  754. of homosexuality

  755. and every other perversion

  756. out there.

  757. Well, everybody's doing it,

  758. you know,

  759. I was going to say

  760. picking their nose

  761. and chewing it,

  762. but I didn't think

  763. I should say that.

  764. So, we'll take that off the,

  765. scratch that from the tape.

  766. Okay.

  767. I've been praying a lot

  768. that I don't say things

  769. I don't need to.

  770. That was one of them.

  771. Okay, here we go.

  772. You cannot miss the fact

  773. in this passage

  774. that God calls homosexuality

  775. and its behavior sin.

  776. In one sense,

  777. it is no more offensive

  778. to God's holiness

  779. than any other sin.

  780. In another sense,

  781. it profoundly violates

  782. God's greater plan

  783. and has more lasting consequences

  784. like the sin of lying

  785. or covetousness.

  786. It causes destruction

  787. to the foundational relationship

  788. of the home

  789. and marriage

  790. and procurativity.

  791. It harms people.

  792. And so,

  793. I want you to understand

  794. that the Bible

  795. is explicit,

  796. undeniable,

  797. and clear on the matter

  798. of that homosexuality is sin.

  799. Now, I've heard people argue

  800. and I've listened

  801. to some of those arguments

  802. and also read them

  803. that homosexuality

  804. was really something

  805. that was only

  806. an Old Testament edict.

  807. It was a problem.

  808. The Old Testament,

  809. there was a lot of problems

  810. with male prostitution,

  811. cultic prostitution,

  812. and so,

  813. it really didn't get carried over

  814. into the New Testament.

  815. Well, Romans,

  816. I would advise you,

  817. is in the New Testament.

  818. But I want you to look

  819. at another passage,

  820. if you will.

  821. Turn in your Bible

  822. to 1 Corinthians 6.

  823. 1 Corinthians 6,

  824. and I want you to look

  825. at verse 9.

  826. In fact,

  827. this is a good passage

  828. to underline,

  829. particularly verse 11.

  830. Do you not know

  831. that the unrighteous

  832. will not inherit

  833. the kingdom of God?

  834. Guess what that means.

  835. Listen to me carefully.

  836. People who do not know Christ

  837. will go to hell.

  838. Do you not know

  839. that the unrighteous

  840. will not inherit

  841. the kingdom of God?

  842. Do not be deceived.

  843. Neither sexually immoral,

  844. nor idolaters,

  845. nor adulterers,

  846. nor men who practice

  847. homosexuality,

  848. nor thieves,

  849. nor greedy,

  850. nor drunkards,

  851. nor revelers,

  852. nor swindlers,

  853. will inherit

  854. the kingdom of God.

  855. Now, look at verse 11,

  856. and that's the one

  857. I like the most.

  858. And such were some of you.

  859. Isn't that encouraging?

  860. Guess what?

  861. There's not a single one

  862. of us in here

  863. that was not born

  864. with perversity

  865. woven into our heart.

  866. Agreed?

  867. Now, could we have

  868. gotten worse,

  869. left to our own devices?

  870. That's undeniably true.

  871. The grace of God

  872. delivered us

  873. from the devolution

  874. that sin brings

  875. into an individual's life.

  876. But understand this.

  877. The Scriptures make it clear

  878. that homosexuality is sin.

  879. And let me explain something

  880. I already touched on,

  881. but just mark it down.

  882. Homosexuality contradicts biology

  883. and by its nature

  884. is part of Satan's attacks

  885. on the foundations of culture

  886. and its home.

  887. I think it's very interesting

  888. that when you think about

  889. the matter of homosexuality,

  890. you recognize

  891. that it's a very attack

  892. on the relationship

  893. that God ordained

  894. between a man and a woman.

  895. And God thought

  896. that that relationship

  897. between a man and a woman

  898. was so important

  899. that He actually

  900. kind of changed,

  901. didn't forget,

  902. but He tweaked

  903. the normal flow

  904. of His creative process

  905. so that men

  906. didn't miss the issue.

  907. Now, what am I explaining?

  908. I mean,

  909. everything else

  910. that He created,

  911. how did He do it?

  912. Shazam?

  913. I mean, you know,

  914. I mean, bang.

  915. He said it,

  916. it happened,

  917. and it all came out,

  918. what, male and female.

  919. But with man,

  920. how did it happen?

  921. Man alone.

  922. And then in order

  923. to amplify man's identity

  924. of his difficulty

  925. in his alone state,

  926. He had him name

  927. all the creatures,

  928. and as He was naming them,

  929. guess what He kept

  930. on looking for?

  931. He was looking for a partner,

  932. and then God

  933. helped him realize

  934. it wasn't there.

  935. And then God created

  936. woman out of man

  937. and brought that woman

  938. to man,

  939. and Adam responded with,

  940. I mean,

  941. it's probably one of the

  942. most expressive

  943. little statements

  944. in the early parts

  945. of Genesis.

  946. In essence,

  947. it says,

  948. wow,

  949. bone of my bone

  950. and flesh of my,

  951. do you know what

  952. He was saying?

  953. He was saying,

  954. this is it.

  955. This is what I need.

  956. This is right.

  957. And Satan has put

  958. his energy

  959. into attacking

  960. the glory

  961. and the wisdom

  962. and the kingdom

  963. of God,

  964. and he attacks

  965. the foundation

  966. when he attacks

  967. the issue

  968. of the relationship

  969. that God has ordained

  970. between a man

  971. and a woman.

  972. And I have to tell you

  973. that I watch our culture

  974. here in America

  975. lunging towards

  976. a futile confrontation

  977. with the God

  978. of this universe,

  979. and I tell you

  980. that it will not be good.

  981. I'm reminded

  982. of what it says

  983. in Psalm chapter 2.

    Psalms 2 chapter mention

  984. Why do the nations rage

  985. and the heathen

  986. imagine a vain thing?

  987. Do you know what vain is?

  988. Stupid.

  989. I remember,

  990. and the image

  991. kind of stands out

  992. in my mind,

  993. out in the southwest,

  994. there was a large

  995. pile of roadkill

  996. been hit by a previous semi,

  997. and this buzzard

  998. had landed down

  999. in the roadway

  1000. and was enjoying dinner

  1001. early morning,

  1002. dinner,

  1003. and just kind of

  1004. picking at the guts

  1005. and pulling them out

  1006. and eating them,

  1007. and out in the middle

  1008. of nowhere,

  1009. and along comes this semi

  1010. just kind of tooling

  1011. along the highway,

  1012. and the buzzard thought,

  1013. you know,

  1014. who is this to take my lunch?

  1015. And instead of flying away,

  1016. kind of puffed himself out

  1017. and stood out

  1018. in the middle of the road

  1019. right in front of that semi,

  1020. and guess what the outcome was?

  1021. New roadkill.

  1022. And so I got to tell you

  1023. what I see happening

  1024. in America

  1025. is we see a culture

  1026. that is standing out,

  1027. puffed up,

  1028. in front of God,

  1029. and the consequences

  1030. are going to be undeniable.

  1031. And let me tell you something.

  1032. Unto whom much is given,

  1033. much is what?

  1034. Say it with me.

  1035. Much is required.

  1036. There are lands

  1037. all around the world

  1038. that have not received

  1039. the blessings

  1040. that America has received.

  1041. And I believe

  1042. those blessings

  1043. have come to a large degree

  1044. because of the humility

  1045. and godliness

  1046. of our forefathers.

  1047. And this generation

  1048. is squandering it

  1049. in its violation

  1050. and rebellion against God.

  1051. Let's come to

  1052. the most important part.

  1053. What's the believer to do?

  1054. What's the believer to do?

  1055. Turn over in your Bible

  1056. if you will

  1057. to Matthew chapter 5

    Matthew 5:10–16

  1058. verse 10 through 16.

  1059. Matthew chapter 5.

    Matthew 5 chapter mention

  1060. Be salt and light.

  1061. I tell you,

  1062. we live in a day and age

  1063. that is no more wicked

  1064. than what the Roman Empire

  1065. was like.

  1066. Do you understand that?

  1067. I see people sometimes

  1068. wringing their hands

  1069. in kind of absolute despair

  1070. and just broken hearted.

  1071. No, that's understandable.

  1072. But the level of anxiety

  1073. among professing believers

  1074. is unfitting.

  1075. When Jesus said

  1076. what He did

  1077. in Matthew chapter 5,

    Matthew 5 chapter mention

  1078. look there in verse 13.

  1079. You are the salt of the earth,

  1080. but if salt has lost its taste,

  1081. how shall it be salted?

  1082. How will it be restored?

  1083. How will it be turned around?

  1084. And the imagery of Scripture

  1085. is clear.

  1086. When Christ saved us,

  1087. He did more to us

  1088. and for us

  1089. than just deliver us

  1090. from future judgment.

  1091. He appointed me,

  1092. He appointed you

  1093. to be His ambassadors

  1094. and He also appointed us

  1095. to be His representatives

  1096. in a broken

  1097. and despairing world.

  1098. Being His ambassador,

  1099. beloved,

  1100. involves godly living.

  1101. Mark that down.

  1102. Godly living.

  1103. Let me just touch on a few texts

  1104. to make this undeniably clear.

  1105. In Matthew chapter 5,

    Matthew 5 chapter mention

  1106. as I recited here,

  1107. being salt and light

  1108. refers to living a godly life

  1109. that lifts up the character

  1110. and truth of God

  1111. in a dark and desperate world.

  1112. Titus chapter 2,

    Titus 2:10–14

  1113. verse 10 through 14,

  1114. says this,

  1115. that we are to adorn

  1116. the doctrine of God

  1117. by living godly lives.

  1118. We are to adorn.

  1119. We're to make it look good.

  1120. And over in 1 Corinthians chapter 15,

    1 Corinthians 15 chapter mention

  1121. I want you to look at this passage

  1122. just for a moment.

  1123. 1 Corinthians chapter 15,

    1 Corinthians 15:34

  1124. verse 34,

  1125. wake up from your drunken stupor.

  1126. Now,

  1127. I don't believe

  1128. the primary focus of this passage

  1129. is talking about drunkenness

  1130. in the church at Corinth.

  1131. I think it is talking about

  1132. carnality and ungodliness

  1133. that had become so pervasive

  1134. in the body of Christ there

  1135. that they were completely missing

  1136. their calling.

  1137. Wake up from your drunken stupor

  1138. as it is right

  1139. and do not go on,

  1140. what's the next word?

  1141. Sinning.

  1142. Why?

  1143. Why?

  1144. Because some have no knowledge of God.

  1145. Can you live a sinful life

  1146. and have a significant testimony?

  1147. No.

  1148. Can God use you in your sinfulness?

  1149. Yes.

  1150. But is your testimony compromised

  1151. by your impurity

  1152. and your failure

  1153. to be a living representative

  1154. of Christ

  1155. in humility

  1156. and tenderness

  1157. and an affection for godliness?

  1158. And what's the answer?

  1159. When you drift away

  1160. from what He wants you to be,

  1161. you lose effectiveness.

  1162. Now,

  1163. look at that passage again.

  1164. He says,

  1165. stop acting that way.

  1166. Don't keep sinning

  1167. because there are people

  1168. that don't know Christ.

  1169. Let me have you think also

  1170. of another factor.

  1171. As you think about

  1172. what is happening today,

  1173. and remember,

  1174. salt and light,

  1175. Titus passage

  1176. and this passage,

  1177. I got to tell you,

  1178. I think the moral impurity

  1179. that we see going on

  1180. in our culture

  1181. has some roots back

  1182. in the misbehavior

  1183. of the church today.

  1184. The moral impurity

  1185. that's crept into the church

  1186. of the living God

  1187. is unbelievable.

  1188. Rampant pornography

  1189. is an undeniable fact

  1190. in the congregation

  1191. of God's saints.

  1192. Heterosexuality

  1193. and immorality,

  1194. heterosexual immorality

  1195. is something

  1196. that goes on all the time.

  1197. I remember reading

  1198. an article

  1199. in Christianity Today

  1200. where there were

  1201. some young people

  1202. that were writing

  1203. and saying,

  1204. listen,

  1205. you old fogies

  1206. need to get with it

  1207. and just realize

  1208. that young people

  1209. are going to have intercourse.

  1210. Just don't get upset

  1211. about it

  1212. and just be hopeful

  1213. that we don't get pregnant.

  1214. These are Christians.

  1215. I remember talking

  1216. with a pastor

  1217. who explained to me

  1218. that he no longer

  1219. asked young couples

  1220. who came into his office

  1221. if they were living together.

  1222. It just was too embarrassing

  1223. for him.

  1224. Listen,

  1225. that's not being

  1226. a faithful shepherd.

  1227. And when the salt

  1228. loses its saltiness,

  1229. it is ineffective

  1230. and as a result

  1231. it gets trodden underfoot.

  1232. Let's go on

  1233. and recognize something else.

  1234. We are to be loving

  1235. and telling the truth.

  1236. I make a sad prediction

  1237. that you're going to see

  1238. more and more believers

  1239. just go quiet

  1240. on this subject

  1241. and the sinfulness of it.

  1242. I think it's somewhere in May.

  1243. No, maybe it's April 19th.

  1244. I think it is April 19th.

  1245. There is going to be

  1246. a silent day

  1247. in public schools.

  1248. Do you hear me?

  1249. Thousands of schools

  1250. and I would venture to say

  1251. many of them

  1252. in our community

  1253. will have a day of silence.

  1254. Do you know what the day of silence

  1255. is to recognize

  1256. and celebrate?

  1257. Homosexuality.

  1258. And many, many Christians

  1259. will just be quiet

  1260. and acquiesce

  1261. and not make any stink

  1262. because do you want to seem

  1263. to be out of sorts

  1264. in that environment?

  1265. When people that have been

  1266. called by God

  1267. to declare His truth

  1268. sit by quietly

  1269. in the face of sinfulness,

  1270. they are invariably

  1271. or invariably

  1272. also quiet on the gospel.

  1273. Let me explain something here.

  1274. People who do not know

  1275. about sin

  1276. do not need a Savior.

  1277. Does that make sense?

  1278. Can I say that again slowly?

  1279. People who do not understand

  1280. the sinfulness of their heart

  1281. don't need a Savior.

  1282. Let me put it in a frame

  1283. so you can understand

  1284. what Jesus meant.

  1285. He said,

  1286. hey listen,

  1287. those who are well

  1288. do not need the doctor,

  1289. only those who are sick.

  1290. And in Galatians

  1291. it tells us

  1292. that the purpose of the law

  1293. is to bring conviction.

  1294. The law doesn't save us

  1295. but the law lets us know

  1296. that we're desperately sick

  1297. and we can't save ourselves.

  1298. And beloved,

  1299. I want you to understand

  1300. that we have a responsibility

  1301. of telling the truth.

  1302. It is an unloving thing

  1303. to watch people

  1304. going about

  1305. intentionally preparing

  1306. for their own

  1307. eternal suicide

  1308. and just sit there quietly

  1309. because you don't want

  1310. to offend anybody

  1311. in our culture.

  1312. Do you understand that?

  1313. Expect adversity

  1314. if you're faithful for Christ.

  1315. Expect adversity

  1316. if you're faithful for Christ.

  1317. Let me have you look

  1318. at a passage

  1319. that I think just

  1320. rings the bell on this one.

  1321. Over in 2 Corinthians 2

    2 Corinthians 2:14–16

  1322. verse 14 through 16.

  1323. Paul makes a very

  1324. interesting statement

  1325. about what it means

  1326. to be a believer

  1327. in contemporary culture.

  1328. In verse 14 he says,

  1329. but thanks be to God

  1330. who in Christ

  1331. always makes us,

  1332. who leads us

  1333. in triumphal possession

  1334. and through us

  1335. spreads the fragrance

  1336. of the knowledge

  1337. of Him everywhere.

  1338. For we are the aroma

  1339. of Christ to God

  1340. among those

  1341. who are being saved

  1342. and among those

  1343. who are perishing.

  1344. We smell like God

  1345. to people

  1346. who are saved

  1347. and dying.

  1348. And then he goes on

  1349. and says in verse 16,

  1350. to one a fragrance

  1351. of death to death,

  1352. to the other a fragrance

  1353. of life to life.

  1354. And who's sufficient

  1355. for these things?

  1356. Beloved,

  1357. if you are faithful

  1358. to your calling,

  1359. people will pick up

  1360. on the aroma

  1361. of your life.

  1362. and the aroma

  1363. of your life

  1364. becomes hope-filled

  1365. to those who are desperate

  1366. and despairing

  1367. in their condition

  1368. and it becomes

  1369. supremely offensive

  1370. to those who don't want

  1371. to hear anything

  1372. about Christ.

  1373. Now am I suggesting

  1374. that you'll go around

  1375. putting sharp sticks

  1376. in people's eyes?

  1377. No.

  1378. But when someone

  1379. says to you,

  1380. hey,

  1381. why are you so happy?

  1382. Well you have

  1383. an opportunity to say,

  1384. because Jesus forgave me

  1385. for all of my sins

  1386. and granted me salvation

  1387. through his finished work.

  1388. And I'd like to have

  1389. you know him too.

  1390. And you offer them

  1391. the hope of the gospel.

  1392. If you don't have confidence

  1393. that he can save you

  1394. from your sin,

  1395. I guarantee you,

  1396. you won't advertise it

  1397. to anybody else.

  1398. There's another thing

  1399. that I want you to realize

  1400. that believers

  1401. should be doing.

  1402. We ought to grieve

  1403. as we watch

  1404. the growing effect of sin.

  1405. Don't kid yourself.

  1406. Probably one of the most

  1407. inaccurate statements

  1408. in our culture today

  1409. is the term gay.

  1410. It's not.

  1411. Homosexuality is a perversion

  1412. against nature.

  1413. By the way,

  1414. I don't want to get

  1415. into genetics

  1416. and breeding

  1417. and all that kind of stuff,

  1418. but if,

  1419. how many of you realize

  1420. that maybe 1.4,

  1421. 1.6% homosexual,

  1422. apart from the Kinsey report,

  1423. and if really

  1424. this genetic disposition

  1425. could be carried on

  1426. genetically,

  1427. guess what would happen

  1428. when 1.4 of them

  1429. carry forward the genes?

  1430. Leave that to your

  1431. own entertainment.

  1432. What is he talking about?

  1433. Let's go back.

  1434. Grieve as you watch

  1435. for the effects of sin.

  1436. It says in Psalm 119,

  1437. 136,

  1438. my eyes weep

  1439. when I consider people

  1440. not following your law.

  1441. Let me add two more

  1442. and close.

  1443. Rejoice that you're

  1444. an ambassador

  1445. to rescue sinners

  1446. from the pit.

  1447. Do you know what?

  1448. Life's short.

  1449. It really is.

  1450. When I was about 20,

  1451. I didn't think life

  1452. was short,

  1453. but it is.

  1454. And you know what

  1455. I'm learning?

  1456. The older I get,

  1457. the faster it goes.

  1458. And here's the deal.

  1459. In the time I got left,

  1460. I want to talk about

  1461. things that count.

  1462. I like the fact

  1463. that in our prayer bulletin,

  1464. when you look at it

  1465. Wednesday night,

  1466. when we're praying

  1467. for people that are sick,

  1468. how many of you know

  1469. there's always a little

  1470. point out to the side?

  1471. If the person's unsaved,

  1472. we put that there.

  1473. Do you know why?

  1474. People that are saved,

  1475. be careful here,

  1476. I know,

  1477. get in trouble,

  1478. don't need to be healed

  1479. as desperately as people

  1480. who aren't saved.

  1481. Because when people

  1482. are saved,

  1483. die,

  1484. where do they go?

  1485. Hey, come on,

  1486. say it with me,

  1487. absent in the body,

  1488. present with the Lord.

  1489. Now, do I pray for people

  1490. that are sick,

  1491. that are my brothers

  1492. and sisters?

  1493. Absolutely.

  1494. There are a lot of

  1495. Dorcas's out here,

  1496. and I want to keep them alive.

  1497. But on the other side,

  1498. if they die,

  1499. it's okay.

  1500. When people do not know Christ

  1501. and they die,

  1502. they spend the rest

  1503. of all of eternity

  1504. in hell.

  1505. Look at your passage

  1506. in 2 Corinthians 5,

    2 Corinthians 5:11

  1507. verse 11,

  1508. plead with those

  1509. you love

  1510. and do so

  1511. with tears.

  1512. I really like

  1513. 2 Corinthians 5.

  1514. Therefore,

  1515. knowing the fear

  1516. or terror of the Lord,

  1517. we persuade others.

  1518. you know,

  1519. there was a time

  1520. in my life

  1521. where the pendulum

  1522. swished over

  1523. to the side

  1524. where I had done

  1525. some training

  1526. in sales

  1527. and I could

  1528. pretty much

  1529. coerce people

  1530. into saying yes

  1531. even when they

  1532. didn't want to say yes.

  1533. Now,

  1534. in selling used cars

  1535. and vacuum sweepers,

  1536. you have a

  1537. reversionary clause,

  1538. am I right?

  1539. Well,

  1540. when you coerce people

  1541. into making a

  1542. provisional

  1543. profession of faith,

  1544. guess what happens

  1545. as soon as you leave?

  1546. If it ain't real,

  1547. it ain't real.

  1548. But on the other part,

  1549. I recognize

  1550. that what it says here,

  1551. it says,

  1552. look at what it says,

  1553. read it with me.

  1554. 2 Corinthians 5,

  1555. therefore,

  1556. knowing the terror

  1557. of the Lord,

  1558. we persuade men

  1559. and let me tell you

  1560. something,

  1561. your affection

  1562. for the heart

  1563. of lost mankind

  1564. ought to lead you

  1565. to be more passionate

  1566. about people

  1567. who are on their way

  1568. to hell

  1569. than any other

  1570. thing in life.

  1571. Look at verse 20,

  1572. therefore,

  1573. we are ambassadors

  1574. for Christ,

  1575. God making

  1576. His appeal.

  1577. I understand

  1578. election

  1579. by faith,

  1580. but I understand

  1581. appealing

  1582. to God

  1583. making His appeal

  1584. through us.

  1585. We implore you.

  1586. Do you know

  1587. what that word means?

  1588. We're down on our knee

  1589. begging with you,

  1590. please don't

  1591. destroy your life

  1592. with sinfulness.

  1593. Come to Christ

  1594. and discover

  1595. the complete forgiveness

  1596. that is in Him.

  1597. Where are we at?

  1598. Our culture

  1599. is going downhill.

  1600. Where are you at?

  1601. If you're a believer,

  1602. you were left behind

  1603. to be His living,

  1604. visible representative

  1605. of the glory

  1606. of God

  1607. that saves sinners.

  1608. He saved you.

  1609. And He wants you

  1610. to be like

  1611. the woman

  1612. at the well.

  1613. Do you remember

  1614. what she did?

  1615. When she discovered

  1616. the sweetness

  1617. of complete forgiveness,

  1618. she ran into town

  1619. and she told

  1620. other people

  1621. about,

  1622. come see

  1623. the man.

  1624. and if you're

  1625. not all about that,

  1626. if you're not

  1627. all about that,

  1628. sadly enough,

  1629. you've lost

  1630. some of the affection

  1631. and joy you had

  1632. in Christ Jesus.

  1633. and I would plead

  1634. with you this morning,

  1635. humble yourself

  1636. before God

  1637. and say,

  1638. it is not to be

  1639. that way.

  1640. I am not

  1641. trudging my way

  1642. towards my day

  1643. of death

  1644. or retirement

  1645. or vacation.

  1646. I am on point

  1647. for Jesus

  1648. and people

  1649. who need Him.

  1650. Is that

  1651. for you?

  1652. Let's bow our heads.

  1653. Without anybody

  1654. looking around

  1655. this morning,

  1656. I want to ask you

  1657. real quietly

  1658. and quickly,

  1659. if you're a believer

  1660. this morning

  1661. and you recognize

  1662. the Spirit of God

  1663. is addressing

  1664. an issue in your life

  1665. and you realize

  1666. that there is

  1667. lukewarmness

  1668. and there's

  1669. spiritual indifference

  1670. and you are there

  1671. this morning saying,

  1672. I don't want to

  1673. stay this way.

  1674. I would challenge

  1675. you to put yourself

  1676. on notice.

  1677. Slip your hand up

  1678. and say,

  1679. Pastor,

  1680. I'm convicted

  1681. but here I am.

  1682. Yes,

  1683. yes,

  1684. yes.

  1685. I want to change

  1686. and I'm willing

  1687. to let God

  1688. do whatever it takes.

  1689. I just don't

  1690. want to stay this way.

  1691. Is there anybody else?

  1692. Anybody else?

  1693. Yes.

  1694. I wonder

  1695. if there's someone

  1696. here that does

  1697. not know Christ.

  1698. This morning,

  1699. your life is,

  1700. it's a mess.

  1701. But Jesus died

  1702. and rose again

  1703. and he did that

  1704. that you might

  1705. have everlasting life

  1706. and what the scriptures

  1707. say is true.

  1708. Whosoever calls

  1709. upon the name

  1710. of the Lord

  1711. shall be saved.

  1712. And like it says

  1713. in 2 Corinthians,

  1714. we plead with you

  1715. in Christ's stead,

  1716. be reconciled to God.

  1717. And if you need

  1718. Christ as your Savior,

  1719. slip your hand up

  1720. and say,

  1721. that's me.

  1722. I need complete

  1723. forgiveness for all

  1724. of my sins.

  1725. I need Christ

  1726. to save me.

  1727. Father,

  1728. work in us

  1729. that Christ

  1730. might be glorified.

  1731. In your precious name,

  1732. amen.

  1733. As our band

  1734. sings together,

  1735. would you stand together

  1736. and if God lays

  1737. a matter on your heart

  1738. you need to care

  1739. for publicly,

  1740. you come forward.

  1741. Lord,

  1742. it might be

  1743. that he's calling

  1744. to be part

  1745. of our fellowship.

  1746. It might be

  1747. that you need

  1748. to be obedient

  1749. to the Lord

  1750. in the matter

  1751. of baptism.

  1752. You know Christ,

  1753. but baptism

  1754. is a public declaration

  1755. of your relationship.

  1756. It might be

  1757. that you need

  1758. someone to counsel

  1759. with you

  1760. and pray with you

  1761. and make the issues

  1762. of salvation clear.

  1763. You come forward

  1764. as we sing this song

  1765. loudly and enthusiastically

  1766. as we close.

  1767. You come forward

  1768. to ending

  1769. of a

  1770. ending

  1771. of a

  1772. of a

  1773. ending

  1774. of a

  1775. ending