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Last Words and Testament
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I would like you to turn your Bibles this morning to Ephesians chapter 6 verse 24.
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! And Pastor Saul has rightly identified the fact that this is the last sermon at this point in the book of Ephesians.
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Lord willing, next Sunday it will be my blessing and my privilege to join you in opening the book of John and beginning to preach in John chapter 1 verse 1.
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I do want to explain by way of introduction that there is a reason that preaching in an expositional fashion begins with John 1 verse 1 or Ephesians 1 verse 1 and carries through to the end.
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And that the timing of the sequence of sermons is not preordained.
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I believe fully that the Word of God is to be taken in its entirety.
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I believe that preaching, which is the passionate declaring of the truth of God, is to be something that fundamentally is dependent upon the text.
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And at the end of the day, when I make a statement in the passage or in the process of preaching, one of the things that you should be able to do in every case is you should be able to connect that statement,
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even where there is an illustration, it should have linkage back to the Scriptures themselves.
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When someone comes to this pulpit, they come in some sense with an obligation, with a responsibility of saying,
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Thus saith the Lord.
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I am not an Old Testament prophet.
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And the best I can do when I say, Thus saith the Lord, is say, Here it is.
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You can read it for yourself and you can see what God has to say to you.
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I want you to understand this morning that the words of God are supremely important.
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We underestimate the importance of words other than when we are zinged and dinged by them.
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Do you understand what I'm saying?
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They fall sometimes all too carelessly from my lips and I would rather suspect from others' lips.
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God has said that words are supremely important and I want you to understand that it was by His Word that the universe was formed out of nothing.
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I think of one other illustration.
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I was reading earlier in the book of Ezekiel where Ezekiel the prophet is given that very, very sad responsibility of making it clear to God's people that He's done messing with them
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and He is going to discipline them for a long time.
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I remember with my children that one of the things they wanted to know when we were going to the place of judgment.
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How many of you know what I mean by that?
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Our protocol in my family was that I would usually have to go and pray so I could kind of balance my thoughts and my heart and be reasonable in the process.
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And I wanted them to spend some time deliberating upon the offense or issue and whatever.
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And then we would come together and we'd have a little conversation and then I would go somewhere privately so we could deal with this more directly.
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And one of the questions that my sons were more inclined to this, they were all about, so how many times?
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Do you follow that?
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How many times?
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I would say to them, eventually it dawned on me, early on I'd say, well, there will be three.
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And they'd be counting.
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And they would kind of grit their teeth and take the three and it, how many of you know as parents that sometimes you know you're not getting through with three?
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And I remember the first time that having given the diagnosis in advance when I decided it was time to add a few for the sake of impact, my son said to me, that's more than you said.
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And that was the last time that I ever advised them in advance of what was coming.
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In Ezekiel, God says you're going to catch it for a long time.
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And Ezekiel is broken as he considers the burden of what God is going to do to his people.
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And then God says, I want you to see this valley of dried bones.
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We are having all kinds of microphone issues, and I am the contributor to most of them.
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God says, I want you to see this valley of dried bones.
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And God says to Ezekiel, can these bones live again?
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I love what Ezekiel says.
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King James, he says, thou knowest, Lord.
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In other words, it's up to you.
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I like that.
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But then God says, listen, speak to them.
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We underestimate the power of the word of God.
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And so this morning, as we take this passage in hand, I ask that you pray.
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That the Spirit of God may take these words and have them make a difference in your life.
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Let me read them.
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Grace to all who love our Lord Jesus Christ with love incorruptible.
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Father God, we are right to be dependent upon your Spirit this morning.
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And to plead with you with all humility and with confessed inadequacy that both the hearing and the declaration of the word of God,
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apart from the power of the Spirit, are much like what is recorded in 1 Corinthians 13,
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where it says, I'm just a clanging cymbal or a banging gong.
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And so we would ask that you would take your word and that it would be heard by your people.
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And the effect of your word on the hearts of people that know the Lord Jesus Christ
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would be evident in the progressive transformation that is described in 2 Corinthians 3, verse 18,
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that beholding as in a mirror the face of our Lord Jesus, we grow from glory to glory.
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And that's by the Spirit.
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And we ask this in your precious name.
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Amen.
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I guess it's no accident that Paul closes out the book of Ephesians with the word grace.
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And that's what we find here.
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Verse 24, it says,
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Grace be with all who love our Lord Jesus Christ with love incorruptible.
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And I want to appeal to you this morning that while it is the last verse and this is the last sermon,
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by no means should it be something that we kind of, well, let's get on with it.
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We're going to do some other book later and move on through it.
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No, no, no.
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The words are supremely important to you today.
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And the apostle, as he was instructed by the Spirit of God, said,
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Hey, listen, I want to close off with this profound central thought in the life of the church at Ephesus.
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And so here he is using the word grace.
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And we recognize that it is a word that if I were to track its significance through the book of Ephesians,
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we would find that Paul used it over and over again.
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I will at least recognize for you that it's the way he began the book.
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Over there in Ephesians chapter 1, I think it is in verse 3 or 2,
Ephesians 1 chapter mention
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it says,
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Paul, an apostle to the saints, grace to you.
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And so I want you to understand that if we're really going to grasp the significance of this word,
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while it's so brief and we have a tendency to gloss over it,
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I want you to recognize that, first of all,
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grace must be understood against the backdrop of man's condition.
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The truth is, is before the Bible tells us the good news,
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the Bible tells us the bad news.
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It tells us the ugly reality of the heart that we have,
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and it recognizes for us, whether we're inclined to it or not,
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to grab a hold of the truth that apart from God doing something in us,
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we are beyond measure, inadequate, insignificant, ineffective,
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in bringing about anything of eternal value in our soul.
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I want you to think with me of just how Paul plays this out,
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and we want to take a look at Ephesians chapter 2, verse 1 through 5,
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where we find a fairly robust argument to help us understand just how bad the news is.
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I'm not going to take the time of fleshing all of it out,
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but recognize as we look at this passage, Ephesians chapter 2, verse 1, it says,
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And you were dead in the trespasses and sins.
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How dead is dead?
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I want you to understand that dead is beyond any possible redemption,
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or any remedy, or any resuscitation.
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When a person is genuinely dead, they are absolutely incapable of doing anything at all.
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The idea that some people have, that salvation is a partnering where God does something and man does something,
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has no basis in Scripture.
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Now, is it true that we are responsible for responding to the Gospel?
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Absolutely, without question.
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And the Scripture is clear on that.
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But mark this, it is the work of God that makes us respondable.
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And as we look at this passage and mark what it says,
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Paul uses one of the very, very graphic indicators of just how bad the unregenerate heart is.
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He says,
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You were dead.
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And dead men cannot help themselves.
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He says,
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How many of you, when you listen to the news,
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find yourself appalled at the world we live in,
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and the absolute depravity that you see everywhere you turn?
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This last week, jets shot out of the sky by rebels or by Russia.
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We don't know at this point the fact.
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But mark it, what is going on now is that whoever was responsible,
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instead of saying,
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Man, I messed up,
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and having a humble and a contrite heart and saying,
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That was wrong to do.
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Do you know what's going on?
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Everybody's trying to do their best to cover what's going on and hide the truth.
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And it's not just in Russia that that kind of behavior is going on.
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The Bible makes it undeniably clear that we in our sinful state,
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mark it,
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we are dead in sins.
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That's what we find in the passage.
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We are slaves to Satan in our passions.
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And furthermore, as we look at it here,
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it says there in verse 3,
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it says,
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We were by nature children of wrath.
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In other words,
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we are doomed to eternal judgment.
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Have you ever wondered why the unbelievers seemingly can get away
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with some things that believers cannot get away with?
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You ever remarked that?
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The fact of the matter is,
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is that the condemned man gets his last meal.
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And God deals with his children on a profoundly different basis
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than he deals with unbelievers.
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He, for a large part,
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allows unbelievers to kind of bumble along in their wickedness,
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and eventually they face the judgment.
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God, in his long-suffering patience,
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allows far more than you or I would.
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Now listen carefully to me.
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Until we stop and realize how much he has allowed for us,
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and then we are sympathetic,
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and when we pray for those who are caught in their sin,
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our prayer should be this way.
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Lord, be as merciful with them as you have been with me.
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Paul says,
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listen,
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the grace
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that God has given to you
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is something that is appreciated against the backdrop
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of the darkness of depravity and sin.
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There's another fact that I think we need to understand
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as we think about the matter of God's grace,
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and that is this,
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that grace is Christocentric.
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And what I mean by that
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is that grace is all about the Lord Jesus Christ.
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And understanding God's grace
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and appreciating God's grace
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cannot be separated from
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getting a hold of the beauty of the Lord Jesus Christ himself
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and being affected by him.
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Let me put it this way.
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Grace
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really refers to the unmerited favor and work of God
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in Christ Jesus.
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Let me have you look at a couple different passages
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to kind of track this if you would.
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And I strongly encourage you to follow in your own Bible
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so you can allow the text
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to resonate with your heart
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and you can look at it
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and identify what's being said.
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Turn to Titus chapter 2 verse 11.
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Titus chapter 2 verse 11.
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For the grace of God has appeared
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bringing salvation for all people.
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Well, what was the appearance of grace?
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Was it some kind of aura?
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How many of you have ever seen pictures
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of the Aurea Borealis
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or however it's said?
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You know, the wonderful night sky
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over Alaska and over the polar region.
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The grace of God that has appeared
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is not talking about some kind of vision out there abstractly.
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It's talking about the reality of the Christ himself
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coming to us.
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Over in John chapter 1.
John 1 chapter mention
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See, you knew I would get there, didn't you?
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John chapter 1.
John 1 chapter mention
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It just happened to work out that way.
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But John chapter 1.
John 1 chapter mention
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I want you to listen
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as we look at a verse
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that we won't get to in the first several weeks.
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Verse 14.
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And the word became flesh
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and dwelt among us
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and we have seen his glory.
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Glory as of the only Son from the Father
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full of grace and truth.
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That word full that is used there
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talks about pleroma.
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It means absolutely packed
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with all there is of grace and truth.
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Jesus Christ
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was not a personification
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of the grace and truth of God.
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He is the fullness
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of the grace of God.
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It goes on to say in verse 15,
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John bore witness about him and cried,
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This was he of whom I said,
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He who comes after me ranks before me
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because he was before me.
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And from his fullness
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we have all received
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grace upon grace.
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grace.
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You know what it's saying?
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It is through the Lord Jesus Christ
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that we have received
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the fullness
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of the grace of God
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that is packed in
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upon our lives
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beyond measure.
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How many of you
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when you want to emphasize something
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say the word more than once?
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Your children.
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You say this is really
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what?
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Really, really
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important.
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This is very, very
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hot.
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When we have hot food
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we will say
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to family members
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that are eating with us,
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this is,
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you know,
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this is the pleban
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and this is the generic version
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to be eaten by people
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that are not of our persuasion.
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But this,
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talking about the curry
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that's real,
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is really, really hot.
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Judith refers to it
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as smoking.
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Okay?
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We emphasize
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with kind of doubling up
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and so
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in John
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the apostle says
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we have,
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from his fullness,
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we have all received
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grace upon grace.
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It is in the Lord Jesus Christ
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in his person
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that we receive
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the fullness
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of what God has for us
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and grasping that
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means that our heart
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is touched by the reality
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and the sweetness
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of the person
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of the Lord Jesus Christ.
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In another way
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we could say
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that grace is the full
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and effective
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one-way love
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of God
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in Christ Jesus.
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I want you to think
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with me about that.
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Grace is the full
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and effective
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one-way love
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of God
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in Christ Jesus.
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Now I want you to think
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with me about that
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because for the most part
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we have a great tendency
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to have our love
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governed to a certain degree
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by what we're getting
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out of the investment.
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How many of you
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would admit that publicly
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and say,
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that's me?
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No,
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we wouldn't.
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But hey,
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when people behave
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in an unloving fashion
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towards us,
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what often happens
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to our love?
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What happens?
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If it diminishes
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significantly
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then I would have to say
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that that love
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that we have professed
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at one point
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or another
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really doesn't have
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a close connection
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with the love
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that comes from Christ.
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Christ's love for us
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is a love
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that is one way
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in its affection
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and care for us.
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And I think it's important
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for us to recognize
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just the nature of this.
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So when Paul here
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makes that statement
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that we enjoy
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the grace of God
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he is speaking about
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the way in which
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Christ loves us.
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So when Paul closes off
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this wonderful book
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by using the word grace
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as a summary
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he really is using it
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in one sense
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to remind us
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of the wonderful fact
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that our salvation
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is not the work
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of human effort
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and none of us
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who enjoy
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genuine conversion
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can say,
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hey listen,
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and by the way
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I earned that
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you don't know
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how much I suffered
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to get it.
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Those who appreciate
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the grace of God
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are always humbled
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by the reality
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that what they have
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has nothing to do
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with who they are
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or what they've done
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but they are struck
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by the reality
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that salvation
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has come to them
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by virtue
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of the grace of God.
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Well with that said
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let's take a look
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at the second part
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of this passage
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and mark that
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God's grace
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works in such a fashion
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that it produces
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a difference
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in the heart
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of the person
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who is a genuine believer
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and I think that
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it's very interesting
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that Paul
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here at the very last
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how many of you know
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that when you're coming
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towards the end
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of your instructions
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or your lesson
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where your children
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or whoever
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you always try
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to press it together
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to make it pretty simple
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so you can get their hand
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they can get their hands
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around it.
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Grace
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and then mark
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what he says
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be with all
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who love
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our Lord Jesus Christ
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with love
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incorruptible.
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Grace
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that is of God
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produces
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something
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that Paul
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wants us
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to understand.
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Grace
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to those
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who love
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the Lord
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Jesus Christ.
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Now let's stop
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just for a minute
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so that we again
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can frame
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this idea
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what Paul
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is saying
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when he says
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grace
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to all
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who love
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the Lord
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Jesus Christ.
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Does everybody
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in the world
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love Jesus?
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What's the answer?
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No.
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Are there those
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who actually hate
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the Lord Jesus?
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Yes.
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I want you
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to recognize
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that Paul
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has some
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pretty strident
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pretty militant
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things to say
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about this business
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of loving Christ.
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Turn back
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in your Bible
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if you will
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you're in Ephesians
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so turn back
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to 1 Corinthians
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chapter 16
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verse 22.
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1 Corinthians
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chapter 16
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verse 22.
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2.
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If anyone
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has no love
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for the Lord
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can I read
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the rest of it
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and you'll
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track with me?
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Let him
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be
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accursed.
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If anyone
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has no love
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for the Lord
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let him
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be accursed
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our Lord
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comes.
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Now
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our sign
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out there
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says Marantha.
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It actually
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is Maranatha.
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Since my
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email
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has NBC
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Columbus
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on it
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and someone
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will say
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well what
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does M
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stand for?
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I always
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opt for the
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mother instead
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of the
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Maranatha
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to explain.
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It's like
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mother
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boy
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cat.
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I don't
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go Maranatha
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boy
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cat
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because
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it always
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kind of
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flummoxes
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them when
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you give
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them the
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Maranatha
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part.
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I appreciate
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the fact
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that our
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sign says
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Maranatha
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our Lord
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comes.
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I'm curious
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if anybody
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ever thought
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about saying
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if anybody
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doesn't love
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Jesus
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they're cursed.
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Put that
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on the
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sign too.
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I mean
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hey
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we're being
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pretty divisive
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to split the
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verse in
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half right?
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No well
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it's alright
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stop while
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I'm ahead.
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But
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hey
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loving Christ
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is pretty
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serious
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business.
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And Paul
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as he
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takes and
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summarizes
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the matter
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of salvation
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he says
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listen
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grace
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brings about
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a love
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for the
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Lord Jesus
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Christ.
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That's what
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salvation
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produces.
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How do I
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know
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that I am
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a child
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of God
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that I
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have genuine
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salvation
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that I
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am one
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of his
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and I
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will spend
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eternity
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in heaven?
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Is it
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because
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at one
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point or
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another
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I said
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Lord
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Lord
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and the
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answer
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is
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not
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necessarily.
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Is it
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because
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at one
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point
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I was
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baptized?
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Not
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necessarily
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and it
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will be
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our joy
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this morning
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to hear
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the testimony
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of a young
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lady
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and see
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her be
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obedient to
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the Lord
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in a matter
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of baptism.
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But is
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her salvation
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dependent upon
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her going
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through that
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motion?
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The answer
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is no.
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Salvation is
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the work
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of God
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and the work
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of God
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produces
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something that
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can be
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identified and
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we look now
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at this passage
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and recognize
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the character
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of saving
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and keeping
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grace.
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As we take
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up the last
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part of this
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text we see
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that Paul puts
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a great deal
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of weight on
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the idea
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of love.
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Not in an
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abstract sense
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but in a
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very real
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and practical
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way.
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Now you'll
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remember the
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great commandment
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in Deuteronomy
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chapter 6
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verse 5
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it says
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Hear O Israel
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the Lord
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our God
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the Lord
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is one
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and you
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shall
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love him.
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I remember
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in an
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earlier
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day
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I was
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a teacher
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in a
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Christian
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school
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and our
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president
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of that
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Christian
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school
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a sweet
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man
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named
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Ralph
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Bainham
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would get
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up almost
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on a daily
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basis
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and his
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how many
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of you know
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that sometimes
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we fall
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into standard
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patterns of
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praying.
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Some people
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cannot start
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their prayer
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out with
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something like
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dear heavenly
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father
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it's like
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hitting the
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starter key
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you know
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can I pray
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without saying
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dear heavenly
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father
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Ralph could
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not pray
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without saying
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we love
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you today
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and I
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have to tell
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you as a
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young man
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sitting there
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I had to
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believe that
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it wasn't
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true of all
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of us
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because we
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is what
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we is more
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than I
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and I
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knew some
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of the other
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jerks that I
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was working
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with all
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their Christian
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I knew some
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of their
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hearts and
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and I knew
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some of the
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little disputes
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and little
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petty things
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going on in
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lots of our
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lives and I
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thought we
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love you today
-
I wish
-
Paul says
-
this he says
-
hey listen
-
grace to
-
all who
-
love the
-
Lord Jesus
-
Christ
-
and when we
-
stop and think
-
about it we
-
recognize that
-
this business of
-
loving God is
-
pretty serious
-
Mark chapter
-
12 verse
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28 through
-
31 and I'm
-
not going to
-
go there but
-
mark it for
-
you in Mark
Mark 12 chapter mention
-
chapter 12 we
-
have an attorney
-
come to Jesus
-
and said all
-
right all
-
right
-
which is the
-
big law
-
which is the
-
big one
-
keep that
-
one
-
now understand
-
that the
-
Jews had
-
developed this
-
system
-
where I
-
think they
-
had a total
-
of 618
-
laws
-
I mean you
-
have the
-
Ten Commandments
-
that are the
-
biggies
-
but under the
-
Ten Commandments
-
there were
-
there were
-
kind of
-
categories
-
there's
-
sub
-
categories
-
and really
-
if you're
-
into
-
keeping the
-
law
-
I mean it's
-
not like you
-
get to do
-
some and not
-
the others
-
we're all
-
about that
-
but really
-
keeping all
-
of it
-
and everybody
-
reckoned
-
oh let's
-
go for the
-
biggies
-
the ones
-
that are
-
important
-
so they
-
came to
-
Jesus
-
and said
-
all right
-
which is
-
the biggie
-
and you
-
know what he
-
said
-
he didn't
-
say keep
-
the Sabbath
-
he didn't
-
say tithe
-
he didn't
-
say show
-
up at
-
services
-
he says
-
love
-
God
-
love
-
God
-
I want
-
you to
-
understand
-
that the
-
grace that
-
saves is
-
also the
-
grace that
-
changes
-
and the
-
power of
-
God that
-
changes the
-
sinner from
-
being a
-
crass lover
-
of self
-
into a
-
lover of
-
Christ
-
is the
-
salvation
-
that we
-
mark and
-
recognize
-
as genuine
-
so let me
-
stop you here
-
just for a
-
second and
-
ask you to
-
look at that
-
little phrase
-
who love
-
the Lord
-
Jesus Christ
-
I wonder if
-
as you think
-
about your
-
salvation you
-
would say
-
the real
-
marker
-
the thing
-
that sets
-
me apart
-
from the
-
rest of the
-
world is
-
that I do
-
sincerely love
-
Jesus Christ
-
that's what
-
Paul's saying
-
he's saying
-
a real
-
believer
-
one who has
-
received the
-
fullness of
-
God's grace
-
can be
-
ultimately
-
characterized
-
by the
-
fact that
-
they love
-
Christ
-
I want
-
you to
-
understand
-
that
-
loving him
-
is not a
-
simple
-
discipline of
-
the intellect
-
do you
-
understand that
-
how many of
-
you have
-
decided to
-
love people
-
more
-
just kind
-
of arbitrary
-
you realize
-
you're a little
-
on the south
-
side of this
-
thing and so
-
all right
-
let's try a
-
little bit of
-
better love
-
for other
-
people
-
what happens
-
the minute
-
you make that
-
conscious deliberate
-
decision
-
at least for me
-
here's how it
-
plays out
-
I make that
-
decision and
-
the Holy Spirit
-
says hey
-
let me test
-
you
-
and I'll be
-
sitting in the
-
family room
-
thinking you know
-
you know I
-
want to work at
-
love but I'd
-
rather work at
-
people that are
-
in Africa or
-
India and my
-
wife is sitting
-
there as I'm
-
kind of relaxing
-
she says would
-
you get me a
-
drink of water
-
you got to be
-
kidding me
-
are your legs
-
broken
-
hey love
-
right right
-
how many of you
-
understand that
-
the test plays
-
out in real
-
time right
-
where you are
-
I want you to
-
look at
-
1st John
-
chapter 4
-
verse 19
-
as you think
-
about this
-
matter of
-
love
-
1st John
-
chapter 4
-
verse 19
-
we love him
-
because what
-
because he
-
first loved us
-
here's the
-
truth
-
the grace
-
of God
-
that has
-
appeared
-
bringing salvation
-
to all people
-
takes those
-
who by nature
-
prior to their
-
conversion
-
were self
-
focused
-
naval
-
gazers
-
and turns
-
them into
-
people who
-
from their
-
heart
-
love the
-
Lord Jesus
-
Christ
-
he loved
-
us enough
-
that he
-
pursued us
-
in our
-
selfish
-
arrogant
-
stubborn
-
belittling
-
character
-
and he
-
found us
-
where we
-
are
-
he wrapped
-
his arms
-
around us
-
and he
-
saved us
-
by his
-
kindness
-
and his
-
grace
-
paid the
-
price
-
for our
-
sins
-
upon the
-
cross
-
and has
-
granted us
-
everlasting
-
life
-
and Paul
-
says
-
hey listen
-
grace
-
to all
-
who love
-
the Lord
-
Jesus
-
Christ
-
I want
-
you to
-
recognize
-
that
-
that being
-
a person
-
who loves
-
the Lord
-
Jesus
-
Christ
-
has very
-
real
-
effect
-
on the
-
way in
-
which we
-
relate to
-
other
-
people
-
isn't
-
that right
-
let's go
-
back just
-
for a
-
little bit
-
to Ephesians
-
chapter 6
-
verse 21
-
very
-
interesting
-
the way
-
Paul closes
-
off this
-
this very
-
very theological
-
book
-
Ephesians
Ephesians 1 chapter mention
-
chapter 1
-
through 3
-
is perhaps
-
one of the
-
most theological
-
expositions
-
of the
-
the nature
-
or the work
-
of God
-
in salvation
-
it's deep
-
and heavy
-
the last
-
three chapters
-
are about
-
how
-
God
-
having worked
-
our salvation
-
works to
-
amend
-
and transform
-
our behavior
-
the closing
-
statements
-
he makes
-
in Ephesians
-
are about
-
the matter
-
of love
-
so that
-
you also
-
may know
-
how I am
-
and what
-
I am doing
-
Tychicus
-
the beloved
-
brother
-
and faithful
-
minister
-
of the
-
Lord
-
will tell
-
you
-
everything
-
I've sent
-
him to
-
you for
-
this purpose
-
that you
-
may know
-
how we
-
are
-
and that
-
he may
-
encourage
-
your hearts
-
Paul's saying
-
hey
-
I just
-
as I've
-
stopped
-
this letter
-
I want
-
you to
-
know
-
I love
-
you
-
and then
-
verse
-
22
-
or 23
-
peace
-
be to
-
the brothers
-
and love
-
with faith
-
characteristic
-
of genuine
-
Christian
-
fellowship
-
as a love
-
for one
-
another
-
that transcends
-
what the
-
unbelieving
-
world
-
understands
-
the unbelieving
-
world is very
-
limited in their
-
comprehension of
-
love and it is
-
largely self-serving
-
I had the
-
wonderful opportunity
-
this last week
-
of talking with
-
an individual
-
who called in
-
way in advance
-
normally most of
-
my premarital
-
wedding calls
-
are March
-
April May
-
this person
-
called and said
-
I'd like to
-
talk to you
-
about a wedding
-
in 15
-
I thought
-
we're way
-
ahead
-
and as I
-
began to talk
-
it became quite
-
evident that this
-
person also needed
-
to hear the sweet
-
truth of the Lord
-
Jesus Christ
-
and the gospel
-
and I explained
-
to that person
-
there's a fundamental
-
difference
-
now both a
-
civil marriage
-
and a church
-
wedding
-
can accomplish
-
in some senses
-
something
-
somewhat similar
-
they're both
-
binding
-
in the court
-
I said
-
the difference
-
is that a
-
civil wedding
-
is a contract
-
where both
-
parties whether
-
stated or
-
otherwise
-
are kind of
-
agreeing that
-
well I'll do
-
this if you'll
-
do that
-
I'm amazed
-
at how many
-
times I bump
-
into people
-
who think
-
that marriage
-
and love
-
is all about
-
kind of a
-
50-50 bargain
-
that's not
-
the Bible's
-
view
-
the Bible
-
sees marriage
-
as a one
-
way covenant
-
I'm going
-
to do
-
this
-
for better
-
or for worse
-
sickness
-
and in
-
health
-
richer
-
for poorer
-
and then
-
there's that
-
little statement
-
at the end
-
how's it go
-
till
-
death
-
do
-
us
-
part
-
after I
-
came back
-
from
-
Caleb and
-
Charity's
-
ceremony
-
on Friday
-
night
-
I happened
-
to stop
-
by and
-
went into
-
the nursing
-
home to
-
see dad
-
and mom
-
and found
-
that they
-
were sleeping
-
I didn't
-
awaken them
-
but I
-
noticed that
-
my brother
-
had pushed
-
my dad
-
over next
-
to my
-
mom's
-
bed
-
that's
-
covenant
-
work
-
that's
-
not a
-
contract
-
and that
-
kind of
-
love
-
is what
-
Jesus
-
does
-
in the
-
life of
-
a person
-
who's
-
transformed
-
by grace
-
do you
-
understand
-
that
-
Ephesians
-
makes it
-
clear
-
that when
-
the work
-
of God
-
is at
-
play
-
in our
-
life
-
it makes
-
a difference
-
in the
-
relationships
-
we have
-
and so
-
as you
-
look at
-
this
-
passage
-
I want
-
you to
-
understand
-
that
-
the
-
apostle
-
is kind
-
of
-
bringing
-
things
-
to a
-
close
-
and he
-
says
-
listen
-
he wants
-
us to
-
understand
-
grace
-
this
-
undeserved
-
richness
-
the work
-
of God
-
in saving
-
you
-
produces
-
a love
-
for
-
Christ
-
how do I
-
know I'm
-
saved
-
I have
-
a love
-
for Christ
-
that I
-
didn't
-
create
-
he did
-
so do
-
you really
-
love him
-
do you
-
really love
-
him
-
mark the
-
last little
-
part
-
actually
-
very
-
interesting
-
statement
-
it says
-
with love
-
incorruptible
-
I actually
-
as I was
-
thinking about
-
this
-
last week
-
I kind
-
of thought
-
about
-
being a
-
juvenile
-
I love
-
lots of
-
people
-
girls
-
so we
-
get this
-
clear
-
you know
-
I remember
-
in fourth
-
grade
-
losing my
-
way for
-
the first
-
time in
-
memory
-
because I
-
walked home
-
following
-
Wanda
-
Cooper
-
I remember
-
her name
-
how I
-
got home
-
I have
-
no idea
-
but Wanda
-
I found
-
out later
-
she was
-
a Presbyterian
-
and that
-
wouldn't work
-
for a
-
Baptist
-
so I
-
stopped
-
my
-
interest
-
but
-
Wanda
-
swept me
-
off my
-
feet
-
fourth
-
grade
-
and
-
it was
-
the first
-
time I
-
was lost
-
I do
-
want you
-
to know
-
that
-
ever since
-
then
-
it's
-
been
-
downhill
-
you know
-
I remember
-
actually
-
this is
-
the truth
-
sitting in
-
a field
-
on a
-
hillside
-
with
-
daisies
-
around me
-
and I
-
thought
-
I was
-
trying to
-
figure out
-
if Claire
-
Blickenstaff
-
loved me
-
at that
-
point
-
so I
-
went to
-
the flower
-
routine
-
how many
-
of you
-
understand
-
the flower
-
routine
-
okay
-
it's
-
embarrassing
-
but you
-
know
-
there I
-
was
-
she
-
loves
-
me
-
she
-
loves
-
me
-
not
-
but you
-
know
-
I
-
figured
-
out
-
that
-
you
-
know
-
being
-
that's
-
a
-
binary
-
formula
-
I
-
could
-
figure
-
out
-
that
-
she
-
always
-
loved
-
me
-
do you
-
know
-
how
-
I
-
did it
-
it
-
was
-
either
-
2 4 6 8
-
whatever the
-
pick and
-
it worked
-
out but
-
she actually
-
didn't so
-
flowers didn't
-
play out
-
there were
-
lots of
-
reasons not
-
to love
-
me
-
our love
-
is a
-
relatively
-
fickle
-
thing
-
isn't it
-
I can't
-
tell you
-
how many
-
times I've
-
had couples
-
in my
-
office and
-
I'll have
-
the husband
-
or the
-
wife say
-
well I
-
don't
-
love her
-
anymore
-
and I'm
-
happy to
-
say that's
-
not a
-
problem
-
to
-
Jesus
-
do you
-
follow
-
that
-
I'm
-
not
-
concerned
-
if you
-
don't
-
love
-
her
-
because
-
that's
-
your
-
problem
-
that's
-
not
-
hers
-
and
-
I
-
can
-
tell
-
you
-
that
-
Jesus
-
can
-
fix
-
the
-
attitude
-
you
-
have
-
love
-
that is
-
incorruptible
-
is love
-
that comes
-
from
-
God
-
and is
-
sustained
-
by
-
God
-
and that's
-
love
-
that is
-
his
-
and never
-
changes
-
it's a very
-
interesting way to end
-
this book
-
do you follow that
-
do you know how the book
-
begins
-
chapter 1 through 3
-
is fairly robust
-
in its argument
-
for the
-
unconditional
-
affection
-
for God
-
of God
-
for individuals
-
that he saves
-
and he ends
-
off
-
kind of
-
challenging us
-
to think
-
pretty seriously
-
about whether
-
we have it
-
or not
-
that's
-
interesting
-
isn't it
-
do you really
-
love him
-
unconditionally
-
or is
-
your love
-
something
-
that
-
well look
-
at it
-
grace be
-
with all
-
who love
-
our Lord
-
Jesus Christ
-
with love
-
incorruptible
-
What's
-
your love
-
like?
-
Can you
-
track the
-
fact that
-
it has
-
grown over
-
the years?
-
Can
-
you?
-
Can you?
-
in Revelation
Revelation 3 chapter mention
-
chapter 3
-
you remember
-
that the
-
spirit of
-
God
-
actually
-
Christ
-
comes
-
to the
-
church
-
there
-
at
-
Laodicea
-
not Laodicea
-
church at
-
Ephesus
-
I think
-
it is
-
and he
-
says
-
you have
-
lost
-
your
-
first
-
what?
-
Love
-
What's
-
your love
-
for Christ
-
like this
-
morning?
-
If you
-
are his
-
child
-
he is
-
at work
-
and has
-
been at
-
work
-
and will
-
continue
-
working
-
to cause
-
you to
-
grow
-
in your
-
love
-
for him
-
do you
-
realize
-
that?
-
That's
-
what he's
-
going to
-
do
-
now listen
-
to be
-
carefully
-
so you
-
don't
-
miss
-
this
-
it's
-
a whole
-
lot
-
better
-
to come
-
along
-
willingly
-
saying
-
I
-
want to
-
work
-
at that
-
I
-
need
-
help
-
at
-
that
-
I
-
really
-
want
-
to
-
take
-
this
-
seriously
-
let me
-
continue
-
to
-
grow
-
in
-
love
-
because
-
if
-
you're
-
his
-
child
-
and
-
you
-
decide
-
I
-
don't
-
care
-
right
-
now
-
now guess
-
what he
-
does
-
to the
-
I
-
don't
-
care
-
right
-
now
-
crowd
-
everybody
-
here
-
who
-
has
-
any
-
miles
-
on
-
their
-
tires
-
knows
-
that
-
the
-
I
-
don't
-
care
-
right
-
now
-
can
-
cause
-
him
-
to
-
do
-
what
-
we
-
sing
-
that
-
song
-
oh
-
love
-
that
-
will
-
not
-
let
-
me
-
go
-
when
-
does
-
it
-
become
-
evident
-
that
-
he
-
will
-
not
-
let
-
you
-
go
-
it's
-
when
-
you
-
try
-
to
-
walk
-
off
-
and
-
do
-
your
-
own
-
thing
-
for
-
a
-
little
-
the
-
apostle
-
says
-
I
-
want
-
you
-
to
-
understand
-
grace
-
to
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all
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who
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love
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our
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Lord
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Jesus
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Christ
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with
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love
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incorruptible
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!
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Is
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that
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you?
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Is
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that
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you?
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That's
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a fair
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question
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let's
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close
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in
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prayer
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Father
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God
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without
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question
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this
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morning
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as we
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take
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this
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word
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and
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handle
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it
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by
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your
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grace
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and
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power
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we're
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overwhelmed
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to stop
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and realize
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that while
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we were yet
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sinners
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Christ
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died
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for us
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and
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he
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and his
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love
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pursued
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us
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while
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we
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were
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unloving
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and
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unlovable
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while
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we
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were
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yet
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burdensome
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and
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dark
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and
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by
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your
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grace
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you
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have
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taken
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hearts
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that
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were
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stony
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cold
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and
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dead
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and
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you've
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made
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us
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to be
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lovers
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of the
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living
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God
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and we
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need to
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confess
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that sometimes
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our love
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gets cold
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and
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self-consuming
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and we
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are so
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very
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thankful
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that you
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will not
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let us
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go
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and you
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continue
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helping us
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grow
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we want
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to be
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quick
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to
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confess
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the frailty
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of our
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affections
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and ask
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your spirit
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to work
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to stir
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our hearts
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up anew
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to
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remember
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that it's
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all of
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grace
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and you
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are the
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one that
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is
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supremely
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worthy
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and we
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ask that
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you do
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that this
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morning
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in your
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precious name
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amen
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so