Sermon
How to Support Our Deacons
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Let's begin with a word of prayer.
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Heavenly Father, this morning for us, prayer is not a habit, but is a recognition of our need.
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It is a recognition of your sufficiency.
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It is a recognition of the fact that you who abide in heaven have your ear bent to hear the frail call of your children,
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that you delight in us because of the Lord Jesus Christ,
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and that as it says in Ephesians, you have blessed us with all spiritual blessings in the heavenlies in Jesus Christ.
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And this morning it is our prayer that you would work to take the word that you have blessed us with
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and strengthen our hearts that we would be a people that walk in humility and obedience and joy,
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trusting in your wisdom and your plan,
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and understanding that often the pleasure and satisfaction of obedience comes after we have acted by faith and obeyed.
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And I ask for your Holy Spirit's help in my life and in those who hear the word this morning,
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that Christ, our Savior, would be magnified among us.
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Amen.
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Last week we looked at the passages of Scripture in particular that relate to the men who God calls in our fellowship to serve as deacons,
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and we recognize that God in His plan over time works to prepare men to be servants in the bride of Christ.
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And one of the things that I want us to do this week, having looked last week at some of the qualifications,
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is I want to switch around, and this week I want us to think about the part that God's people play together
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in enabling and encouraging and strengthening those who serve the body of Christ as leadership.
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I stop and recognize, as I think back over my own life,
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that so much of what I have received has come through, first of all,
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the Word of God and the Spirit of God in blessing me with salvation,
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but also the same is true for you who are here.
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Most of you know Christ as your personal Savior,
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and much of the blessing that you have received has come because of that.
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At the same time, you have to recognize that much also that we enjoy comes through relationships
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with other people that are godly instruments and end up being encouragers and nurturers of godliness in our life,
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and we have been blessed richly by those that God has put into our lives for the sake of the gospel
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and for our progressive sanctification.
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And so last week, thinking about the matter of the work of God in raising up godly leadership
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and the importance that we have in praying and thinking carefully about the role those men would serve in,
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I want us to think this morning in particular, how do we go about, as God's people,
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in helping and encouraging those that He raises up to be,
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servants of the bride of Christ and leaders in this fellowship.
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And if I were to summarize the sermon in three words,
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and so you can write this down on your paper,
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and don't check out because there's some things to be said at this point,
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but in essence, I'm interested in encouraging you to help your deacon.
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Deacon. Help your deacon. Help your deacon.
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Help those that God puts in leadership.
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And so as we talk about the matter of how we go about doing that,
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I want you to recognize that you help by participation.
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You help by participating in the work that God calls deacons and pastors
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to be engaged in directing the bride of Christ to act on.
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I want you to turn in your Bibles, if you would, at this point,
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to Acts chapter 6, verse 1.
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Acts chapter 6, verse 1.
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We're going to look eventually at verse 3, but mark what it says.
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Now in these days, when the disciples were increasing in number,
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a complaint by the Hellenists arose against the Hebrews
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because their widows were being neglected in the daily distribution.
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And the 12 summoned the full members of the disciples and said,
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It is not right that we should give up preaching and the Word of God to serve tables.
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Therefore, brothers, pick out from among you seven men of good repute,
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full of the Spirit and of wisdom, who we may appoint to this duty.
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As you look at the passage, one of the things that you understand
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is that what the apostles recognized is that the need of the church had to be met
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and there was a way to do it.
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The statement that we find there in the text that we may appoint
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or we may put in charge of this task indicates
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that the men who were chosen to engage in this responsibility
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were not appointed exclusively to be the only ones
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who did the work that was needed in the ministry.
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Now recognize, if you will, stop and kind of get your hands around this for a second,
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that by this point the early church probably numbered in excess of 4,000.
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And when you do a little bit of extrapolation from that,
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you can imagine that there were a number of widows in that fellowship
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that actually needed attention and care,
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and as a result there was a significant concern
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that the church had for that responsibility and it wasn't being met.
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And we find that the apostles said,
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hey listen, it's appropriate for us to stay focused on that
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which God has called us to be engaged in,
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namely in prayer and the teaching of the Word of God,
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and we need individuals to meet this need as well.
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And they gave the responsibility of doing this work
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to seven individuals who met the biblical standards
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that we find here in the passage.
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I want you to recognize as you think with me through this passage
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that the fact that the text speaks about these seven men
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being charged with the responsibility or the task of overseeing it
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indicates that they were expected to involve other people to do the job.
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And so when we pay attention to this this morning,
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I want us to understand that the underlying assumption
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was that deacons in the early church relied on others
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to help them do the work.
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They didn't do it all by themselves.
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They involved other people in doing it.
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And an underlying supposition behind that
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is that people were willing to do the things
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that those who had been appointed
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to have oversight of those responsibilities
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saw that needed to be done.
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Did the seven deacons that were appointed
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end up being the only ones who visited the widows
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or took food to them or cared for their needs?
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Not by any stretch of the imagination,
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but they were the ones who had the responsibility
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of overseeing that that task was cared for.
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And that's the way it is today.
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I want you to understand that when you stop and think about
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what a body of believers do,
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I want you to pay attention to the fact
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that God has appointed godly leadership
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in this congregation and over the years.
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That godly leadership has been, first of all,
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a testimony of the character and heart of Christ
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in their ministry and attitudes,
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and you have the opportunity of watching them.
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I know yesterday was a moving day
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for a number of families.
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We had actually two families move yesterday.
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And I don't know, how many of you were there
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to help with a move?
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Raise your hands.
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Look around.
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Look around.
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Mark the fact that a number of you
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were involved in those moves.
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And I can venture to say that you had deacons on site,
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you had some pastors on site,
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you had individuals who were willing to serve
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and invest their energy in the sake of the body.
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And as you think about that,
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you recognize that the deacons
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didn't do the only heavy lifting.
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They were involved in organizing
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and seeing that it got done
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and encouraging the bride of Christ
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in caring for that.
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The greater part of work that is done
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in any healthy body
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is actually done by people
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who serve willingly and freely
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without coercion and pressure.
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There never has been,
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nor will there ever be,
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any manipulative fashion
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in which people are called to the task.
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By the way, since you're a member,
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you are responsible to show up
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for four moves
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and to provide seven meals this next year.
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I'm getting hot.
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I don't know what that means,
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but anyway.
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Membership,
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membership doesn't work that way.
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We look for people
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that are willing to serve
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and we put the announcement out there
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and people rise to the occasion
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and get involved there.
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So let's think a little bit
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about the different ways
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in which actually
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you help your deacon
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by participating.
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For one,
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many of the body of Christ
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help with the spiritual needs
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and attitudes
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that often you are aware of first
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before,
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people sometimes think
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pastors know everything.
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They really don't.
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How many of you as parents
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remember that you were usually
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the last one to know
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what was happening
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in the basement?
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The same thing is true for pastors.
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We often don't find out
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and deacons also don't find out.
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But eventually,
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it works up the food chain, correct?
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Early on, however,
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most of the things
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that are happening
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in the body of Christ
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are cared for
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by people who minister
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to one another
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in the flow of life.
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I've said over and over again
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that a healthy body
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has a tendency
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of healing itself.
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Can I say that slowly
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so you understand my point?
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A healthy body
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has a tendency
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of healing itself.
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Being a man now
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who is many years
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into ministry
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and having gray hair,
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I have a number of pastors
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who call me periodically
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and ask me for advice.
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And I cannot tell you
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how many times
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I've answered a call
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where a pastor,
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a younger pastor,
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has been particularly alarmed
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by one problem or another
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and I've said to him,
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hey, listen,
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as a rule,
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a healthy body
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will do a lot of the work
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of taking care
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of some of the issues within.
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You know,
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when one person
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says something
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that is inappropriate
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or off color,
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you don't send
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a note to the pastor
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and say,
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by the way,
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I heard this said
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in the lobby
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and I think
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you ought to take care of it.
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How is that cared for?
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What you do
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is you wait
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for a private moment
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and you say to your brother,
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you know,
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I heard what you said
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and I just wanted
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to be sure I understood.
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What was the frame?
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By the way,
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how many of you
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would know a passage
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of scripture
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that would kind of
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reference that plan
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of attack?
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How many of you know
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Matthew chapter 18
Matthew 18 chapter mention
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which says,
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when you have a problem,
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what do you do?
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Do you call somebody else
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to the task?
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No.
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If God providentially
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intended for you
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to hear it,
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he intends for you
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to solve it.
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And I want you
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to understand,
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as a general rule,
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a healthy body
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helps one another
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and brings a lot
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of healing
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to the family of God.
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I think,
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back for a moment
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in reference
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and illustration
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to something
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that happened,
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it's over 10 years ago.
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Our fellowship
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used to have
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a Christian school here
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and when it came time,
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the school board
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and the church board
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voted unanimously
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to close the school.
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I remember
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that there was
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understandable turmoil
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and difficulty
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in the congregation
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over that fact.
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Very interestingly enough,
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there was a small group
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of individuals
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who decided
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that what they would do
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is try to foment
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a rejection
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of that idea
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and cause
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some turmoil
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over it.
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And I think
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there were about
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three or four
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different families
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in our fellowship
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who immediately
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after getting a call
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from this group
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of people,
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they immediately
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called their deacon.
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I like that.
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They trusted
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their deacon
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to be one
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helping them
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work through problems.
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And I remember
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I had calls
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from three or four deacons
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who had had these calls
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from other families
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and I said,
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hey listen,
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I appreciate the fact
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that our people
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called their deacon first.
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And our deacons,
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wonderful,
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godly men,
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ended up helping
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work through
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that situation
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and never became
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an issue
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in our fellowship.
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Did it prove
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to be a time
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of testing
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and hardship?
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Yes,
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but it was something
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that the body
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helped work out.
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And that's how
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the body helps
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those who are leaders.
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We help each other move.
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I saw that on Saturday
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and I've seen that
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over and over again
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over the years.
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Men,
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women,
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families,
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I was talking
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with a neighbor of mine
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who actually was asking,
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so what is going on?
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And I said,
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well,
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we've got two different moves
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in our church.
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Really?
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We tend to not call
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two men in a truck.
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What we do is we
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invite each other
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to moving parties,
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okay,
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and we end up
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helping with those things.
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And one of the things
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that usually happens
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is that we have
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enough people there
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to help with it
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that we end up
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standing around
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waiting at the truck
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for somebody
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to hand something off
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and we have
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the neighborhood crowd
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kind of watching this
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from a distance
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and we get one comment
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after another,
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wow,
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are these all family members?
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No,
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no,
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but they are.
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And we work together
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for the glory of Christ.
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Furthermore,
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we help each other
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with meals.
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When someone has a surgery,
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when there's some hardship
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that really challenges
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a family construct,
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one of the things
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that you'll have happen
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is that a deacon,
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one of our small group leaders,
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will step in
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and provide for that.
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And I look out
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over this congregation
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and I cannot think
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of an individual
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that has not been involved
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either in having meals
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or in bringing meals
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to someone else
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when those hardship
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and difficulties happen.
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Most of the counseling
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and comfort,
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correction,
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and care
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actually comes
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through the body
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of Christ
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and is encouraged
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and nurtured
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by our deacons
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and their ministry
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to you.
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So when you think about
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how do you help a deacon,
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you help with participation.
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Be involved
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in what the body
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is doing
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because your deacons
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are dependent
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upon your participation.
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Secondly,
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be involved,
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help with affection
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and protection.
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I want you to look
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in your Bibles
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at a passage
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in 1 Thessalonians 5.
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1 Thessalonians 5,
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verse 12 and 13.
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We ask you,
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brothers,
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to respect those
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who labor among you
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and are over you
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and the Lord
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and admonish you.
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Hey, by the way,
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how many of you
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really do well
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at receiving correction?
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Wave at me
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so I know who you are.
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I don't see anybody.
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Okay.
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The reason I ask this
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is that
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my bride is in here
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this morning
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so I can tell on myself
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and you don't have
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to tell her what I said.
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When Judith
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is hired by God
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to provide
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occasional admonition
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and it's needed
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regularly,
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my first reaction
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generally is,
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how many,
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can you identify
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with where I'm going now?
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It's like tone of voice.
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How many of you
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play the tone of voice card?
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Ah, I'm glad.
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Tim, I feel your pain, right?
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I have learned this,
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that when my attitude
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is wrong,
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Judith never has
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the right tone of voice.
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One of the advantages
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of having the Holy Spirit
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in my life
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is that I can't get away
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with it.
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Amen?
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I like when men
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say that's right
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because God's working
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and he often
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uses the bride
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that he hired
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for a lifetime
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to help us
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with those things.
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Well, in 1 Thessalonians,
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we're looking at
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this issue
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and it says,
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we ask you brothers
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to respect those
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who labor among you
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and are over you
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in the Lord
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and admonish you.
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Do people need
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to be admonished?
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Do they need
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to be encouraged?
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Do they need
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to be corrected?
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You know,
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when that happens,
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I think it's important
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for us to have
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a respect
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for the individual
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that God has placed
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in office over you.
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It's not an accident.
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He put them there.
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And by the way,
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so that you understand,
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when you say no
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to the hired instruments
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that God has appointed,
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guess what he will do?
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He'll go get another one.
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And someone
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who is a little rougher
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around the edges
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than the first one
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you objected to.
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How many of you
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can bear testimony
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that that happens?
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And as we grow in grace,
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we begin to say,
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Lord, I don't want
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to tempt you
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to reach for a bigger stick.
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I'll settle
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for the one
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you're using now.
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Look at verse 13.
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And esteem them
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very highly in love
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because of their work.
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Value them in love.
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So those who serve you
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are to be appreciated.
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They're to be valued,
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respected.
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And so when you hear
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someone saying something
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that's kind of sarcastic
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and surly,
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something that is unkind
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and disrespectful
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to those who have been
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put into office
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and appointed by the Holy Spirit
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to serve the bride of Christ,
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you ought not be one
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who becomes partner
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with that attitude.
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Am I right?
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If you do,
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you're being disobedient
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to the Lord Jesus
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who gave explicit command
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that we're looking at here.
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Furthermore,
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it says that those
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who serve you
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are to be deliberately loved.
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Look at the passage.
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And esteem them
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very highly in love.
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What does love do
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in relationship
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to when there are
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misunderstandings?
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What does love do?
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Everybody smile,
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look at me.
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I want to wave at you
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so you know
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I'm talking to you.
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Love thinks the best
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and hopes the best
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and believes the best
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and endures all things
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and works through problems.
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Right?
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Beloved,
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I want you to think about it with this.
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This is God's word
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spoken explicitly
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to the family of God
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and says,
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follow these instructions.
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I want you to go
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to another passage.
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We're in 1 Thessalonians
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so just go over
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to 1 Timothy 5,
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verse 19.
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1 Timothy 5,
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verse 19.
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Do not admit
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a charge
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against an elder
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except on the evidence
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of two or three witnesses.
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As we read this text,
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it's important for us
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to stop and realize
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that it was written
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to be applied
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in the church.
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And while the church
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is an incredible group
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of people
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that have been saved
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by the grace of God,
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it's always also
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an environment
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in which people
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are still in the process
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of growing in grace
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and they end up
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having bumps and warts.
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I had an interesting
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conversation last week
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with a man
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talking about his marriage
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and he said,
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well,
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I suppose the problems
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in our marriage
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are because
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of our backgrounds.
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And I said,
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well,
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there is a sense
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in which that is
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entirely true
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and there is a sense
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in which it is not
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true at all.
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And he was talking
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about the fact
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that he'd grown up
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in this one kind of home
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and she'd grown up
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in this kind of home
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and as a result,
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they were at the point
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of coming apart.
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And I said,
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the truth of the matter
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is that marriage
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at its best
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is two sinners
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in a canoe.
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And it takes
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the work of the Holy Spirit
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to help them learn
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what it is
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to have a happy marriage
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so that you don't
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go sideways on this.
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I want you to look
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in your Bible
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just for a moment
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to Malachi.
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Malachi.
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We're talking about
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marriage just for a moment
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and I want you
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to step over
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to Malachi chapter 2.
Malachi 2 chapter mention
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I'm sorry,
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is chapter 2,
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verse 15.
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Hey,
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is marriage easy?
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And the answer is
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not on your life
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because it takes
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two sinners
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and brings them
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into inseparable
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proximity
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with one another.
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How many of you
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on occasion
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have wanted to have
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a little distance
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between you
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and other sinners?
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How many of you
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have had people
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who've wanted to have
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a little distance
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between you
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and them?
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Marriage at its best
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is a challenge
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and in the scripture
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we understand
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that marriage
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is supremely
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important to God.
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He cares a great deal
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about it
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and in order
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to help people
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in their marriages
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surprise,
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in the Old Testament
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he gave
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to the Old Testament
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saints
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a portion
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of the Holy Spirit.
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Now I want you
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to think with me
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just for a moment.
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How did Samson
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do all the miraculous
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powerful things
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that he did?
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How did he do it?
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Does anybody know?
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Through the Holy Spirit.
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How did the
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individuals
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who were involved
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in the exceptional work
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in building
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the tabernacle
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etc.,
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how did they do it?
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Through the Holy Spirit.
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And we understand
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that the Lord Jesus
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particularly in his ministry
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the thing that
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that set him apart
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above all others
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was the fullness
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of the Holy Spirit
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and the fact
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that it stayed on him.
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We understand
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how important
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marriage is
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to God
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because in the Old Testament
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it says there
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read it
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did he not make them
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one
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with a portion
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of the Spirit
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in their union?
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God cared enough
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in the Old Testament
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for marriage
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that he gave
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a portion
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of the Spirit
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for people
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in relationship
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to him.
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And by the way
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in the New Testament
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does every believer
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have the Holy Spirit
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abiding in him
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to help us
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with this business
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of growing in grace
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and in our marriage
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right?
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So coming back
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around to the subject
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of 1 Timothy
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here it is saying
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listen
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you're together
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and the church
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is a environment
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in which
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people who are
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still in the process
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of working
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through challenges
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are in close proximity
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with one another
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and we are dependent
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upon the Word of God
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and the Spirit of God
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to help us
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as we live
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and grow
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and work
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through the issues
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and he gives us
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explicit instructions
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how to solve
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problems.
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When you have
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a problem
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what it says
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there in 1 Timothy
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chapter 5
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verse 19
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is that you
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don't bring
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a charge
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in a formal way
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what is being said
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is to the church
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leadership
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hey
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don't entertain
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or accept
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one of these
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little
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scurrilous comments
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that's made
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in the lobby
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about one of the
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leadership
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of the fellowship
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without substantial
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evidence
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and people
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are willing
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to bear testimony.
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We see here
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that God
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instructs the body
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that they are
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to protect
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their leadership
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by following
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God's
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problem solving
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plan.
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I want you
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to think
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just for a moment
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what was happening
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in this case
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evidently
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is that the church
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that Timothy
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was responsible
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for
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would have
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periodic
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incidences
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in which
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people in the
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congregation
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would carry on
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a little bit
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of a whispering
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campaign
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about someone
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who was in
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leadership
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not happy
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with someone
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who was involved
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in Sunday school
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or not happy
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with something
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that had happened
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in youth group
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or not happy
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with one of the
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decisions
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that the pastor
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and deacons
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had made together
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instead of
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coming and
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handling the thing
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in a proper
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fashion
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little whispers
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would go along
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and people
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would kind of
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get involved
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I can't believe
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that.
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So let's figure
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out what God's
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plan is for
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solving problems
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in the congregation.
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Turn in your
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Bible to Matthew
Matthew 18 chapter mention
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chapter 18.
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Would you like
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to reduce
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seriously
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would you like
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to reduce
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the workload
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of your pastors
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and deacons
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be unrelenting
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in your
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application
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of Matthew
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chapter 18
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verse 15
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through 18.
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You will make
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all of our
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jobs
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profoundly
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simpler.
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How do you
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handle problems
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when there are
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differences?
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Can anybody
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tell me?
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How many of you
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know?
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Raise your hand.
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You got this
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down cold.
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When there is
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a problem
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and there is
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a misunderstanding
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that is causing
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tension between
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you and another
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person,
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you are to go
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to that person
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explicitly
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alone.
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Now you're
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not to gather
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a little group
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of people
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who support you
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and yeah,
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I've had the
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same problem.
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They're the most
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unreasonable person
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I've ever met
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so I hope
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I'm going to
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support you
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when you go
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to bell the cat.
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That was a bad
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one.
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I'm going to
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support you
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when you go
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to let them
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know that
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they're a bad
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person.
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Off you go.
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What you do
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is you go
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privately.
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Look at what
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it says.
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It says that
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you're to go
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alone.
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If that
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doesn't work,
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then you bring
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somebody else
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with you that
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they may be a
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partner in the
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process.
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What is the
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end goal of
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every confrontation
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that believers
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have in the
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body of Christ?
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Does anybody
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know what it
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is?
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It is
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reconciliation
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and restoration.
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I have
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occasional
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incidences where
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something happens
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to a finger or a
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foot or something
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like that and
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it gets hurt.
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Bob,
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sheet metal
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cut,
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there they are.
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And you know
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what?
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Bob Consul
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works on heating
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and air
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conditioning and
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so he understands
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sheet metal cuts.
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It happens all
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the time.
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And so when you
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get those little
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cuts, the body
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puts all its
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energy into
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healing that
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part, right?
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And the rest
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of my body
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doesn't say,
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well that stupid
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hand, that's the
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last time I'm
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sending blood to
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that one.
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You know, I
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have been at
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this forever.
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Same, same.
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Cut, cut,
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cut.
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Yeah.
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I'm done.
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So the next
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thing that happens
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is I'm walking
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around without a
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hand and it's
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like, hello,
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you're one-handed
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Tim, I hope
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not.
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You know, the
-
attitude that we
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have towards one
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another is we're
-
aiming for
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reconciliation.
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You know
-
what?
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One of the
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things that goes
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with being a
-
shepherd for as
-
many years as I
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have been here
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is I know that
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in the family of
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God there are
-
times where you
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end up with
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little attitudes
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and disputes
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among one
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another and my
-
plea before God
-
is that the
-
Holy Spirit
-
would drive you
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to obedience
-
in Matthew
Matthew 18 chapter mention
-
chapter 18.
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I assure you
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if God's
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people would be
-
faithful in
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Matthew 18
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it would be so
-
seldom that you
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end up having
-
problems that get
-
larger than that
-
and the body of
-
Christ would be
-
effective and
-
efficient in its
-
ministry.
-
ministry.
-
I for the most
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part want to
-
challenge you to
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take that passage
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and say hey
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listen we're not
-
going to bring
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charges without the
-
premise and the
-
effort that goes
-
into doing this
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and all God's
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people said
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consciously and
-
deliberately say
-
it with me amen.
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That's what God
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wants.
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Finally let's talk
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about one other
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thing you may help
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in prayer.
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You may help in
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prayer.
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Turn in your
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Bible to Hebrews
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chapter 13 verse
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18.
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Hebrews chapter
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13 verse 18.
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Obey pray for
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us I'm sorry
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pray for us for
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we are sure that
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we have a clear
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conscience desiring
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to act honorably
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in all things.
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We are about a
-
month away from
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our annual election
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and by extension
-
we are about two
-
months away from
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the first deacons
-
meeting.
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and following
-
the first deacons
-
meeting one of the
-
things that will
-
happen is that our
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secretary will put
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together a prayer
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bulletin that is
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reflective of the
-
requests the personal
-
requests that all of
-
your deacons are going
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to make.
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Can I tell you ahead
-
of time some of the
-
things that our deacons
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are going to ask you
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to pray for?
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They're going to ask
-
you to pray that God
-
would help them in
-
their own personal
-
lives and personal
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walk.
-
They're going to
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plead with you that
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you would remember to
-
pray for them.
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There is not a man that
-
does not come into that
-
board with a humility
-
and a certain amount of
-
fearfulness knowing the
-
responsibility of being a
-
helper of the bride of
-
Christ and they will come
-
with humility saying
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Lord help me in my own
-
devotional walk that I
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may be able to minister to
-
other people.
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Second thing that those men
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are going to say and I
-
know that they're going to
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say it ahead of time.
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Now watch the deacons.
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We have a group that's
-
going to say well if
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pastor said it I'm not
-
going to do it so I'm
-
going to throw them off
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but here's the deal.
-
They're going to say it
-
anyway.
-
They're going to say and
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help me in my ministry to
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my family.
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Help me in my ministry to
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my family.
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Help me be wise in my
-
care for my wife and help
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me to be a genuine
-
encourager of righteousness
-
in my children.
-
They're going to ask that
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they would also have the
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enabling of the spirit of
-
God because they have to
-
multitask and spend one
-
more plate than you do.
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They have their personal
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walk.
-
They have their family
-
needs.
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They have their
-
responsibilities by which
-
they pay their bills and
-
then they have what?
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They have you.
-
Do they take that
-
willingly?
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Yes they do.
-
But how many of you
-
understand what I mean by
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spending plates?
-
Our deacons have to
-
spend plates.
-
They have to keep things
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in balance.
-
And so they will
-
desperately ask that you
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join them praying that
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they would have the
-
ability to minister
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effectively with the
-
things that are going
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on.
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So think with me as we
-
look at this passage.
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First of all pray that
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their lives will be marked
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by a clear conscience.
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By a growing desire to
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walk uprightly before the
-
Lord in an unbelieving
-
world.
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Pray for them because they
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carry the burden and
-
heartache of other
-
people.
-
There is no doubt that
-
one of the things that
-
characterizes our
-
fellowship is that often
-
you will talk in a more
-
personal way with your
-
deacons, with your small
-
group leaders than you
-
will with your pastors.
-
And that's not because
-
we're alienated and
-
isolated from you but
-
your deacons and small
-
group leaders are closer
-
to you in your watch
-
care groups and in your
-
small groups and as a
-
result they're going to
-
hear those things and
-
they can't hear them and
-
not be affected.
-
Pray for them because
-
people tend to judge
-
motives and actions
-
without adequate prayer
-
and information.
-
How many of you have
-
been pretty persuaded you
-
know exactly what's going
-
on when you don't know
-
anything?
-
You pray for your
-
deacons.
-
I think of the number of
-
different times as a
-
pastor I have had people
-
say some rather surprising
-
things about the decisions
-
that your leadership have
-
made.
-
And one of the things
-
that I always chuckle at
-
is when people say well
-
pastor always gets his
-
way.
-
I told you last week that's
-
the furthest from the
-
truth.
-
But the other thing I have
-
heard people say is that
-
you guys made a rather
-
hasty decision.
-
If you have ever served as
-
a deacon at Maranatha you
-
know hasty decisions are not
-
on the menu.
-
I had one deacon's wife say
-
you guys are so deliberate
-
that you are like watching
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paint dry.
-
You know.
-
So.
-
Be careful.
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And pray for them.
-
Finally pray for them because
-
they desperately need his
-
power to serve and bless and
-
be a testimony of Christ.
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So let me bring this all
-
together and have you think
-
about it in practical terms.
-
What we have looked at this
-
morning is kind of the other
-
side of the responsibility that
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scripture lays out.
-
For one it told us we saw
-
last week that deacons are
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to be men who are qualified
-
tested men who are full of
-
the Holy Spirit and are ready
-
to serve.
-
We saw that last week.
-
So what's our part.
-
What's your part.
-
God calls you to support
-
them by being involved in
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the work.
-
So when your deacon or your
-
small group leader calls you
-
and said hey will you provide
-
a meal and you have happened
-
to have had three or four
-
times that different people
-
have stepped in and helped
-
you.
-
Don't say not on your life.
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I'm in.
-
I'll help.
-
And when someone calls and
-
says hey my the way so and so
-
is going to be moving and
-
they would appreciate if you
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I'll be there.
-
I'll help.
-
When you hear someone is
-
struggling with a problem and
-
a burden you join in helping
-
with that and you be a helper
-
to your deacon those that God
-
has put in a position of
-
responsibility and leadership.
-
So what's the outcome.
-
What's the outcome when a body
-
of believers works effectively
-
for the testimony of Christ
-
inside the family and really
-
works at loving each other.
-
What happens.
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Here.
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Follow me.
-
Here's what Jesus said.
-
By this shall all those other
-
people that don't know Jesus
-
pay attention and kind of wonder
-
what's the real deal.
-
because you will what.
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You'll love each other.
-
Is love natural to us.
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What's the answer.
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No.
-
It's the work of the Holy
-
Spirit.
-
It's the work of people who are
-
dependent upon the word of God.
-
It's the work of people that are
-
willing to engage in what God
-
does in drawing us together.
-
And so I would plead with you
-
this morning.
-
Beloved there is an unbelieving
-
world out there that is desperate
-
for the Lord Jesus Christ.
-
And the way in which we care
-
and bless and love one another
-
is a principal testimony
-
of the power of grace
-
in our fellowship
-
and in our neighborhoods.
-
And God's people
-
hearing the word of God
-
convicted by the spirit of God
-
say in their hearts privately
-
privately I hear what God wants
-
and I am saying yes
-
to the Holy Spirit.
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Let's close in prayer.
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Amen.