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The Hallmarks Of A Faithful Pastor’s Heart

Carryduff Free Presbyterian Church

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  1. Tremendous. We're going to read God's Word

  2. returning to Paul's epistle to the Thessalonians, the first

  3. epistle, and we're reading from chapter 2, and we'll read again

  4. chapters one through to 12, sorry, verses one through to 12,

  5. First Thessalonians chapter 2, verses one through to 12.

    1 Thessalonians 2 chapter mention

  6. Let's hear the word of God. We're reading, of course, from

  7. the authorised version. I'm having a wee chuckle to

  8. myself because when we was sort of varnet on Sunday night, they

  9. had a little plaque just on the pulpit and it said only the

  10. authorised version is to be read from this pulpit.

  11. And I made mention of that and the man says to me at the end,

  12. do you know why he says no, He said well there's a retrapped

  13. door in the pulp and if you hadn't have said that we'd have

  14. pulled the lever and you'd have been gone.

  15. So I had a chuckle at that. David McCann has a sense of

  16. humour, right? Thessalonians chapter 2, verses

  17. one through to 12. Let's hear God's word for

  18. yourselves. Brethren, know our entrance in

  19. unto you, that it was not in vain, but even after that we had

  20. suffered before, and were shamefully and treated.

  21. As you know, at Philippi we were bold in our God to speak unto

  22. you the gospel of God with much contention.

  23. For our exhortation was not of deceit, nor of uncleanness, nor

  24. in guile. But as we were allowed of God to

  25. be put in trust with the gospel, Even so we speak not as pleasing

  26. men, but God, which triath our hearts.

  27. For neither at any time used we flattering words, as you know,

  28. nor a cloak of covetousness. God is witness nor of men

  29. sought. We glory neither of you, nor yet

  30. of others, when we might have been burdensome as the apostles

  31. of Christ. But we were gentle among you,

  32. even as a nurse cherisheth her children.

  33. So being affectionately desirous of you, we were willing to have

  34. imparted unto you not the gospel of God only, but also our own

  35. souls, because you were dear unto us.

  36. For you. Remember, brethren, our labour

  37. and travail for labouring night and day, because we would not be

  38. chargeable unto any of you. We preached unto you the gospel

  39. of God. Ye are witnesses, and God also,

  40. how holy and justly and unblameably we behaved ourselves

  41. among you that believe, as you know how we exhorted and

  42. comforted and charged everyone of you, as a dear Father doth

  43. His children, that you would walk worthy of God, who hath

  44. called you unto his Kingdom and glory.

  45. Amen to the Lord of Stamp, with his own approval and blessing,

  46. this reading of his own precious and infallible word.

  47. Now this morning I want to ask you this question.

  48. What do we need here in carried off FPC?

  49. Let me spell it out one thing that we need very much the

  50. presence of God. Moses said to the children of

  51. Israel, If thy presence go not with us, then carry us not up

  52. hands. And if we meet here Lords day,

  53. by Lords day, morning and evening, if we meet for our

  54. times of prayer, if we meet for our various other meetings and

  55. don't have the presence of God with us, then I have to say

  56. ashamedly, I would believe that our meeting together would be in

  57. vain. We are not just a social club,

  58. we are meant to be a spiritual club tied into meeting with God

  59. and him coming amongst us. So that's the first thing.

  60. The second thing we need of course, is we need the power of

  61. God. We need the power of God's

  62. Spirit to work so that the word of God that's preached is taken

  63. by the Spirit of God and applied into our hearts and lives so

  64. that we profess this is not only what we believe, but this is

  65. impacts upon our behaviour. You see, I was interacting with

  66. some people through the week and I was trying to say to them, you

  67. know, it's not about being a fan of Jesus.

  68. Oh, I can tell you there's hundreds of people in Northern

  69. Ireland and they're fans of Jesus, but they're not true

  70. followers of the Lord Jesus Christ.

  71. And there's a vast difference, a vast difference.

  72. We're called not to be fans. We're called to be followers of

  73. Christ. That's the second thing we need.

  74. We need the power of the Spirit. And I would urge you, I would

  75. ask you coming into the autumn and into the winter work when

  76. you're praying for this church, you're praying for the gospel

  77. ministry here. You pray for the power and the

  78. presence of God. The third thing we need is

  79. people. And I've had the joy, as you

  80. know, over the years, we've seen people come and we've seen

  81. people go And, and we're, we're, we're thankful to everyone that

  82. the Lord has brought in. We're thankful for souls to be

  83. saved. Last week I had a middle-aged

  84. man tell me that he'd come to faith in Christ through

  85. listening to my testimony. On Sunday night, when we were

  86. revived, a young man told us that he had also come to faith

  87. in Christ through listening to my testimony.

  88. And that was, of course, a, a, a joyous thing, a thing that

  89. filled me with great delight. But our great need is for people

  90. to come from within our community and join us as part of

  91. God's family. And that's very, very important.

  92. This fourth thing that we need, and I'm only speaking from my

  93. heart, is we need pounds. Let me tell you a little story.

  94. Whenever I got converted, I I went along having been invited

  95. to the Presbyterian Church in Bally Sally.

  96. That was my first visit to the church and the minister preached

  97. for 20 minutes on the subject of giving money to God's work.

  98. Now I didn't know they were in a building programme and going out

  99. the door I was asked what I thought of the service and I

  100. said, well, Reverence, I think you've got things wrong a wee

  101. bit. You preach 20 minutes about

  102. giving money and 5 minutes for the gospel and of course he get

  103. very upset and he get annoyed and he said all sorts of things

  104. that would be a bit off the cuff and a bit hasty about my

  105. attitude. I was only speaking from my

  106. heart, but looking back now after being so long amongst you

  107. these 26 years, I realise now that when you're in a resident

  108. ministry, that part of that resident ministry does involve a

  109. call for giving. And he was calling his people to

  110. give because there was a special need for his building work, and

  111. he wanted to see that need met to the glory of God.

  112. Now, you've heard what I've said.

  113. I've got 4 PS for you. So you want to remember we're

  114. talking just about what we need, right?

  115. And we're talking about the giving of God.

  116. God giving himself by his presence, God giving us his

  117. power by his Spirit. God giving us people in

  118. salvation, bringing in the lost and converting them.

  119. And you have a role to play in that.

  120. But also God giving us pains. And I would love to take the

  121. rest of the service just to tell you how the Lord has supplied

  122. the need right up to the present time.

  123. Maybe we'll write a little booklet sometime, the giving of

  124. God and explain some of that. But anyway, on Sunday night I

  125. received a little gift which I have here for the building fund

  126. of 25 lbs. And you see, the Lord has has

  127. people everywhere. And this dear lady came and she

  128. said she had found this in her husband's Bible.

  129. If she's listening, she knows who she is.

  130. And she gave this little gift to our church building fund.

  131. And then I had the joy then through the week of going to the

  132. bank, and this time it wasn't worth £25 inside this envelope

  133. as evidence of a gift that totals the sum of 31,000 pounds

  134. 500. Where's Graham?

  135. Shout. Amen, Graham.

  136. Amen. Let's all hear you saying Amen,

  137. Amen. You see, God again has met the

  138. need. So whether it's £25 or whether

  139. it's in total of a gift and the gift date of 31,000 pounds 500,

  140. God is meeting the need. So we have reason to be

  141. encouraged and reason to be thankful.

  142. But we've got to of course pray on.

  143. We need to get outside finished. There's other things that we

  144. want to do and need to do as a church if we want to grow and if

  145. want to expand. So I I just bring those few

  146. thoughts to you. They're really unprepared.

  147. They're off the cuff, but I had thought about them just that

  148. little bit this morning and I pray that the Lord will help us

  149. in our giving. Of course, you can give like

  150. these others, A1 off gift. You can give regularly to the

  151. building fund. Remember the building fund in

  152. your prayers. You can give a gift in your will

  153. or you can give a legacy that could be put into some sort of

  154. trust form and then used for the well-being of the church in the

  155. future. These are all ways to give

  156. because that minister that day in Bally, Sally preached about

  157. this. Why give?

  158. He preached about what to give and he preached about the way

  159. that you give. Whatsoever you do, he emphasised

  160. do it with all your heart as unto the Lord.

  161. And that's true about us and our attitudes, in our announcements,

  162. in our actions, whatever we we do, let's make sure I'm doing

  163. this to the glory and the honour of God.

  164. And I want to thank the donors today, the donor of this gift

  165. and the donor of this very large, substantial gift.

  166. Really tremendous humbling, but we're so thankful to God and we

  167. trust and pray that the Lord will have many more gifts to add

  168. to the story. So when the story of Carrie Duff

  169. was written up, then we'll be able to testify.

  170. The Lord has done great things for us for off we are glad.

  171. Amen. Now this morning we are

  172. continuing with our studies in the book of Thessalonians.

  173. And today my text is taken from First Thessalonians chapter 2,

    1 Thessalonians 2:7

  174. verses 7 through to 12. And I want to deal with a follow

  175. up message. Last week we dealt with the

  176. features of a faithful ministry. Today we're dealing with the

  177. hallmarks of the heart of a true minister of the Gospel.

  178. I told you chapter 1 and 1st Thessalonians is all about Paul

  179. as a preacher. Remember we read there in

  180. chapter one, verse 5. For our gospel came not unto you

  181. in Word only, but also in power, and in the Holy Ghost, and in

  182. much assurance, as you know what manner of men we were among you

  183. for your sake. Well, if that's true, and it is,

  184. then chapter 2 has to deal with Paul the pastor.

  185. Remember in chapter 2, Paul is defending himself against the

  186. critics who were attacking his motives.

  187. They accused him of deceit. They accused him of uncleanness.

  188. They accused him of guile. These false critics who were

  189. attacking her motives were saying this.

  190. And I'm paraphrasing, This religious huckster ran away

  191. suddenly in the night. Remember, they came to attack

  192. Paul. Have not heard from him since.

  193. He is guilty of using religion to take your money, seduce your

  194. women and your children, and exalt themselves as a Lord and a

  195. master over you. He's not sincere.

  196. He's not true and genuine. And when we aim to expose him,

  197. well, he ran away showing himself that he doesn't care

  198. about you now. That's what they were saying.

  199. So Paul had to defend his motives and his ministry, not

  200. because he wanted to look good, not because he even wanted to

  201. feel better, but because he knew what this accusation meant.

  202. It was undermining the gospel, and because it undermined the

  203. gospel, then he began to open up his heart and mind and show him

  204. true self unto the people. And when we look into his heart,

  205. when I look into his heart, I see the hallmarks of the heart

  206. of a faithful man of God. There's three things here that I

  207. want to leave with you. As a good minister.

  208. He had a genuine love for the gospel.

  209. Listen to verse 9. Because we would not be

  210. chargeable unto any of you, we preached unto you the gospel of

  211. God. You see, when you examine this

  212. portion of Scripture, you notice the word gospel.

  213. It's mentioned in chapter 1 verse five that I've already

  214. read. It's mentioned in Tutu.

  215. He says, as you know, at Philippi, we were bold in our

  216. God to speak unto you the gospel of God with much contention.

  217. He mentions it in verse 4. But as we were allowed of God to

  218. be put in trust with the gospel, Even so we speak.

  219. He mentions it in verse 8. So being affectionately desire

  220. of you, we're willing to have imparted unto you, not the

  221. gospel of God only, but also our own souls, because you were dear

  222. unto us. He mentions it in verse 9.

  223. Be chargeable unto any of you, as we preached unto you the

  224. gospel of God. And he mentions it again in

  225. chapter 3, verse 2, and sent Timotheus, our brother and

  226. minister of God, and our fellow labour in the gospel of Christ,

  227. to establish you and to comfort you concerning your faith. 6

  228. times he's mentions the gospel in this first epistle.

  229. Now 6 is the number of man. Why mention the gospel 6 times?

  230. Here's the answer. Because Paul knew that the

  231. gospel is the foundation of the Christian life.

  232. It's the foundation upon which everything else is built and

  233. based. And remember what the gospel is.

  234. The gospel is a message from God.

  235. He calls it the gospel of God. It begins with God.

  236. It's a message from God. It's God's good news.

  237. And Paul proclaimed that message.

  238. How did he proclaim it? He said we preached unto you the

  239. gospel of God. And that word preached means we,

  240. we acted as an herald. Think of the old days.

  241. Think of the days when kings and Queens ruled the land, and the

  242. king would have a message and he wanted that message to go out

  243. into the cities and the towns and the villages of his Kingdom.

  244. They didn't have telephones, young people, they didn't have

  245. e-mail. They didn't send letters,

  246. carrier pigeons. That came later.

  247. In the early days. They had a herald and he went

  248. from one city to another and he heralded forth the message that

  249. the king wanted to be heard. He didn't deviate from the

  250. message. He didn't add to the message,

  251. didn't modify the message, didn't take away from the

  252. message. He wasn't free to.

  253. He couldn't add to it. He couldn't dilute it.

  254. What if the messenger was unpopular?

  255. What if they threw tomatoes at them?

  256. What if they threw lettuces? What if they threw eggs?

  257. What if they threw stones and attacked them?

  258. He was still not free to modify, add, or to delete any of the

  259. message. He didn't originate the message.

  260. It wasn't his message. It was the message of the king.

  261. Just like the gospel is the good news of God.

  262. And he had to proclaim it just as the king had given it.

  263. And you see the gospel of God, it's from God.

  264. It's produced by God. The gospel of God that comes

  265. from God because he produced it. Paul didn't make it up.

  266. Paul didn't invent the gospel. He didn't dream it up in bed.

  267. He didn't get it out of a library book.

  268. He didn't learn it in a school or university.

  269. It wasn't part of the collective thinking of wise men.

  270. No, it came from God himself. It was divinely revealed to

  271. Paul. It was directly revealed to

  272. Paul. It was deliberately revealed to

  273. Paul as the gospel of God. It was a message from God and

  274. not grip Paul. I'll tell you something else.

  275. That's a message from God that reveals God's remedy for human

  276. sinfulness. Remember Romans 3 and 23?

  277. For all of sin and come short of the glory of God.

  278. The reality is we are sinners by nature and practise.

  279. We were born in sin and we were shapen in iniquity and that's

  280. something that we should bear in mind.

  281. And we know that that hurts our pride.

  282. We know that that humble us before God, but that's the place

  283. that every individual has to come to, that we are guilty

  284. political sinners before a holy God.

  285. The gospel is also a message that centres in the personal

  286. work of Christ. Remember Acts 4 and verse 12.

  287. Peter said neither is there salvation and any other, for

  288. there's no other name under heaven given among men whereby

  289. we must be saved. Remember again the Lord Jesus

  290. said to Thomas in the upper room.

  291. Jesus saith unto him, I am the Way, the Truth, the life.

  292. No man comes unto the Father, but by me.

  293. You see, you and I need a perfect righteousness to live in

  294. God's holy presence, and that perfect righteousness that is

  295. provided in the person and work of the Lord Jesus.

  296. Paul says this being justified freely by His grace through the

  297. redemption that is in Christ Jesus and God have set forth to

  298. be a propitiation through faith in His blood to declare His

  299. righteousness for remission of sins that are passed through the

  300. forbearance of God. Are you dressed in that

  301. righteousness this morning? That righteousness that was

  302. earned by the personal word of Christ in the sinless life and

  303. atoning death, that that righteousness that can be yours

  304. but must be received. You see, in the gospel, it's not

  305. only good news from God and it's not only about his remedy for

  306. human sinfulness and not only centres in the personal word of

  307. Christ, but the gospel is a call for repentance toward God as

  308. well as faith in the Lord Jesus Christ.

  309. Acts 3 verse 19, repent ye or Matthew 3 verse 17 repent ye and

    Acts 3:19 Matthew 3:17

  310. believe the gospel. It's a message that calls us to

  311. a life of holiness and loving obedience.

  312. And that call to a life of loving obedience and holiness is

  313. not the ground of our salvation. That's where many go wrong.

  314. It is but the evidence. When we're born of God, He

  315. enables us to live a life of holiness under God.

  316. That's our motto, a life of loving obedience.

  317. We love Him because He first loved us.

  318. And in the gospel message, there's a warning about hell and

  319. eternal punishment. It's also a message about heaven

  320. and home. Remember the psalmist?

  321. Psalmist David in Psalm 23, verse 6 closed with this

    Psalms 23:6

  322. thought. Surely goodness and mercy shall

  323. follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the

  324. House of the Lord forever. Now that's the gospel.

  325. That's a summary of the gospel. That's really the substance of

  326. the gospel in a nutshell. And all of that message can be

  327. found in many wonderful texts in the Scripture, including John 3

  328. and 16. For God shall love the world

  329. that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in

  330. him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

  331. Now the gospel today is under attack as it was in Paul's day.

  332. Why is it under attack? Because the gospel is

  333. foundational. And the question is asked by the

  334. psalmist, and we'll look at it in Psalm 11, verse 3 something

    Psalms 11:3

  335. if the foundations can be destroyed, what can the

  336. righteous do? And if the gospel is destroyed,

  337. if it's diluted, if it's modified, if it's added to, if

  338. there's a subtraction from the gospel, then you've got a a

  339. false and faulty gospel message. Paul knew that it was

  340. foundational to the whole of the Christian life.

  341. And then he said this to the Philippians.

  342. I am set for what? I am set for the defence of the

  343. gospel. See there's so many false

  344. gospels today. I think that during COVID

  345. Brother Mark and I through the websites set out maybe 8

  346. possible little things to do with false gospels.

  347. The health and wealth heresy that's alive and well.

  348. Northern Ireland, the United Kingdom, especially the United

  349. States of America. What about the self esteem

  350. gospel? Popular popularised by Robert

  351. Schuller. He said this you don't have to

  352. fear pride, even though the Bible teaches the praise of sin.

  353. He says that we're not to see ourselves as sinners, that

  354. that's too harsh. Being born again is is not being

  355. regenerated by the Spirit of God.

  356. Being born again means you set aside all that negative image

  357. about yourself and adopt the positive image so you go from an

  358. inferior feeling to full self esteem.

  359. I'm proud of who I am. And we're living in a day when

  360. people are proud that they're murderers, people are proud that

  361. they're adulterers, people are proud that they're thieves,

  362. people are proud that that they're they're homosexuals,

  363. that that's what pride is all about.

  364. But that's not what the new birth is.

  365. Then you of course you've heard of the cheap grace Gospel

  366. redefined repentance. Just a change of mind, not a

  367. change of behaviour. That's why we've got so many

  368. people that are fans of the gospel and not true followers.

  369. You see what we're called to turn from a lifestyle of sin

  370. where we no longer live a life of sin and wickedness.

  371. We live a life for God and for God's grace and for God's glory.

  372. What about the works righteousness gospel?

  373. Paul was conscious that there was those that are using the law

  374. to tell people here's how you earn righteousness to be

  375. acceptable and pleasing to God. Paul was different.

  376. Paul's heart was gripped by the gospel.

  377. Paul had a genuine heart for the gospel.

  378. It gripped him and he had a grasp of the gospel.

  379. Now here's a revelation of the nature of a God-given pastor

  380. that churches need. God give us men gripped with the

  381. gospel, men set for the defence of the gospel.

  382. This is the kind of man that we need in every generation.

  383. Paul was a faithful stall work of the gospel.

  384. He was a faithful steward. As I've said, this is the kind

  385. of man, the type of man that we need today, and we should pray

  386. that God would give our churches such men that God would send us

  387. labourers. We need labourers in our own

  388. church, we need labourers in the foreign field, in the home

  389. front, but men who would labour in Word and doctrine for the

  390. glory of God. Paul was a good minister with a

  391. genuine love for the gospel. That's a revelation of his

  392. heart. That's the hallmark of a

  393. faithful pastor. Secondly, and quickly, Paul was

  394. a gentle mother who had a godly life for the gospel.

  395. If you go back there to Thessalonians, I wonder if you

  396. picked it up in the verse 7. But we were gentle among you,

  397. even as a nurse cherishes her children.

  398. Can you feel the weight of that? Listen again to verse 6.

  399. Not of men sought to be glory, nor of you, nor yet of others,

  400. when we might have been burdensome as the apostles of

  401. Christ. You see, He had authority as an

  402. apostle of Christ. He could have commanded these

  403. people do this and go that, give this and give that.

  404. But he didn't. But here's the contrast.

  405. We were gentle among you, even as a nurse cherishes her

  406. children. See Paul was conscious that

  407. godly integrity, a godly example is handed on and through a godly

  408. life. He says in verse 7, but we were

  409. gentle among you even as a nurse cherishes her children.

  410. He says in verse 10, ye are witnesses and God also how holy

  411. and justly and unblameably we behaved ourselves among you not

  412. believe. He says in verse 11, as you know

  413. how we exhort it and comfort and charge every one of you see, he

  414. was thinking that as a pastor, he behaved as a gentle mother

  415. who had a godly life for the gospel.

  416. Her godly influence would impact upon our own children.

  417. So what's Paul saying in verse 7?

  418. He's saying this I was like a nursing mother among you who

  419. lived for her children. Notice the word we not just

  420. Paul, but Paul's team, Timothy and Silas and others who were

  421. with them. So, so think for a moment of a

  422. nursing mother. He says here's how we behaved.

  423. How did he behave amongst them? He was gentle like a nursing

  424. mother. He had a gentle, mild manner.

  425. Now you think of a nurse not in the hospital could apply there,

  426. but in the home and a nursing mother with little children at

  427. home. Mother knows that at times the

  428. children can be difficult times. The children will not listen,

  429. they'll not behave. They're may be disruptive,

  430. they're unwilling to learn, they've no real interest and

  431. their little mind is wandering. They might even have a bad

  432. attitude, but that nursing mother in the home, because

  433. they're her children, knows how best to get their attention so

  434. she can stamp upon them her influence at lifetime and the

  435. way that she does. That is, we were gentle among

  436. you as a nurse cherishes her child.

  437. The word nurse here is not young people in the hospital.

  438. And I think of a nurse and that's what I wear.

  439. I read it, but it has to do with a nursing mother at home looking

  440. after the children. In other words, she goes about

  441. her work of raising and rearing her children with a spirit of

  442. gentleness. Now this word gentle is a common

  443. word. Paul used it in Second Timothy

    2 Timothy 2 chapter mention

  444. chapter 2 and verse 24. It says, and the servant of the

  445. Lord must not strive, but be gentle unto all men, apartment

  446. to teach and patient. In other words, he's saying to

  447. Timothy, here's how to conduct yourself as a pastor in the

  448. church at Ephesus. You strive to be gentle even in

  449. the midst of those that are opposing you as you stand for

  450. the gospel. Don't strive with them, don't

  451. fight with them. Be gentle.

  452. You see, that's what Christ likeness is all about.

  453. Did you know that gentle Jesus making mild is not just part of

  454. a hen? The Bible talks about the

  455. gentleness of Christ. Listen to this word with Paul.

  456. But now I, Paul myself, beseech you by the meekness and

  457. gentleness of Christ. 2nd Corinthians 10 verse one, The

  458. gentleness of Christ. Christ was not harsh.

  459. Christ was not cruel. He didn't pedal with people in a

  460. harsh, cruel manner. No, he, he behaved himself with

  461. a spurt of gentleness. So there's the pattern here.

  462. Notice something else As you look back at Thessalonians, if

  463. we think of the word, it says in verse 7, even as a nurse,

  464. Cherith, as her children, her children, speaks of birth.

  465. And that's tremendous to think about children born into the

  466. family. It's a reference to a mother

  467. giving birth to children and being tasked with a keeper at

  468. home. And her aim and object is to

  469. nurse those children and look after those children and impart

  470. her own life to the children. And that means making

  471. sacrifices. That means manifesting patience.

  472. That means giving nourishment to the children.

  473. A mother has time and energy for her children.

  474. She's not just turning them over to the television or to the

  475. babysitter, to a book. And Paul is using that as an

  476. illustration. You see, Paul had been

  477. sacrifices. Paul had cared for these

  478. believers in Thessalonica as as if he was their father and he

  479. was their spiritual father. But he was amongst them not just

  480. as a father, but as a nursing mother.

  481. He listened to their fears. He listened to their worries.

  482. He listened to their stories. He he was give himself by way of

  483. his personal time and energy for them to help them unto God.

  484. He displayed tremendous patience.

  485. He knew children don't grow up instantly.

  486. He knew that they have grown pains.

  487. He knew that they would encounter problems.

  488. He knew that they would soil themselves, but they have sin

  489. and guilt. Paul had tremendous patience as

  490. a nursing mother. He he cherished them in in fact

  491. he he tells us here so being affectionately desires.

  492. If you were willing to have imparted unto you not the gospel

  493. of God, only listen to these words, but also our own souls.

  494. Why? Because you were dear unto us.

  495. He was willing to impart even his own life.

  496. A mother protects your children. A mother so loves her children

  497. that she would die for her children.

  498. I, I read a very sad story very quickly of a mother in the park,

  499. some park in England. Her husband maybe had other

  500. children. The husband was slightly, a bit

  501. in front and she was coming behind with the pram and the

  502. little baby in it and, and as she walked there was some sort

  503. of accident, a Beech tree, a big branch of the Beech tree fell

  504. off and she pushed the pram forward.

  505. She was crushed under that Beech tree branch and the little child

  506. received her immediate reaction, the husband said was to protect

  507. the child from the falling branch got the child away.

  508. She hadn't time to get herself out of the way and sadly she

  509. lost her life. Remember in the days of King

  510. Solomon First Kings chapter 3 there was two women and they had

    1 Kings 3 chapter mention

  511. both children. One child died, and one of the

  512. woman then took the other woman's child, and there was a

  513. bit of dispute as to who owned the child.

  514. And what did Solomon say this was?

  515. This was Solomon's speak. And the king said, divide the

  516. living child and two, and give half to the one and half to the

  517. other. Then speak the woman who the

  518. living child was under the king for her bowels yearned upon her

  519. son. And she said, Oh my Lord, give

  520. her the living child, and in no way slain.

  521. But the other said, let it be neither mine nor thine, but

  522. divided. Then the king answered and said,

  523. give her the living child in a no wise sled.

  524. She is the mother thereof. You see, the one who didn't want

  525. their child put to death was the one who really loved and cared

  526. for the children. And I know it's a difficult

  527. topic, but for those mothers in Northern Ireland who have

  528. conceived little babies and carrying them are their womb, I

  529. want to tell you, you should never, never feel or satisfy

  530. that urge to to abort your little baby.

  531. Why? Because it's a life given by God

  532. and and out of love for that child, you should not wish it

  533. any harm or any ill to it. Could you think for a moment of

  534. Paul when he gave the gospel? He gave his own life also.

  535. Why? Because he saw himself not as a

  536. good minister of the gospel only, but also as a nursing

  537. mother who had a godly life as she lived out the gospel, a

  538. mother who was full of love for the offspring that were born

  539. from her. See, all true children,

  540. remember, are born born of God, born of the Holy Ghost Very

  541. quickly. Think of the word cherisheth

  542. there in verse seven. That is tremendous.

  543. Do you know what that word cherishes means?

  544. It means brooding over them. Think of a mother hen.

  545. I think of Wolver Garrett and his hens.

  546. She's sitting on the eggs. She's seen her brood hatch and

  547. she's sitting brooding to keep the chicks warm.

  548. That's the meaning of that word cherisheth.

  549. So it's not only a mother who's given birth to the children, but

  550. a mother who's brooding over them to keep them warm and to do

  551. them good. And Paul had a warm ministry in

  552. the gospel. That's the night.

  553. Nothing harsh, nothing uncaring, nothing unloving.

  554. A heart full of the warmth of Christ and Calvary love, A

  555. ministry that did the people good, a ministry that warmed

  556. people, a ministry that told people the truth, a ministry

  557. that put hate even into people's souls.

  558. Because Christ remembers so cherishes the church.

  559. It's not what Paul could say in Ephesians 5 verse 29.

    Ephesians 5:29

  560. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh, but nourish and

  561. cherishes it even as the Lord, the church.

  562. What did the Lord do for the church?

  563. He cherishes that. He nourishes it.

  564. Why? Because it's born of him and he

  565. broods over it to bring his own provision and protection and

  566. everything else that's needed very quickly.

  567. And thirdly, this morning in the hallmarks of the heart of the

  568. pastor, there's not only a a good minister with a genuine

  569. love for the gospel, and there's not only a gentle mother with a

  570. godly life of the gospel, but there's also a gracious master

  571. who had a great lifestyle of the gospel.

  572. See, Paul presents himself not only here as he opens his heart

  573. as a good minister and a gentle mother who gave birth to the

  574. children and bruised over her children, but he was a gracious

  575. master. Notice this as we finish, he

  576. says in verse 11, For ye know how we exhorted and comforted

  577. and charged everyone of you as a father doth his children that

  578. you would walk worthy of God hath called you into his Kingdom

  579. in glory. Think of the Father's work.

  580. He begets the children. Like the mother, he too cares

  581. for the children, He provides for the children.

  582. He he defends his children. He's in the home as a prophet, a

  583. priest, a king. He works to support his family.

  584. You've got the words here, verse 9 for you.

  585. Remember, brethren, our labour and travail for labouring night

  586. and day, because we'd not be chargeable unto any of you who

  587. preached unto you the gospel of God.

  588. The word labour and travail means hard work.

  589. The word travail has to do with struggles.

  590. You've got to think of toil and hardship.

  591. Wasn't easy for Paul to make tents and work from home and do

  592. the Lord's work and fest and thank you at the same time.

  593. But he did it. He laboured night and day.

  594. Why? Because he loved these

  595. believers. He wanted to be relinquished

  596. from the charge of being chargeable unto them.

  597. There's his work. Think of his walk.

  598. He he, he says that you would walk worthy of God.

  599. He wanted to set them an example.

  600. He wanted to be a good example as a father is to his children.

  601. He comforted them. He charged them.

  602. Notice the word witness here. It was exemplary.

  603. It wasn't a pure example. It was a good example of

  604. dedication, dedication to the church family, dedicated to live

  605. a holy life, dedicated to and be careful to fulfil his duties

  606. according to the mind of God, knowledge that he was

  607. accountable to God. All that he did in his walk, he

  608. did for the good of the work of God.

  609. And I would urge you to do the same.

  610. Pray for me that I'll be enabled to do the same.

  611. Not only will we work and walk to worthy of the calling of God,

  612. but we'll we'll witness by we have an exemplary example and

  613. think of his closing word. He said exhorted and ye know how

  614. we exhorted and comforted and charged Everyone of you feel the

  615. weight of those words. The word exhorted means an

  616. appeal. He taught by good example, but

  617. he appealed by speech. He had good exhortation that

  618. they might learn to walk worthy of their calling of God.

  619. He comforted them in all their struggles and fears and cares.

  620. He he charged them in the knowledge that they were

  621. accountable to to God to walk worthy of God.

  622. When you pledge to walk worthy of God, will you aim to be a

  623. gracious master fathers in the home, and you'll work and you'll

  624. walk and you'll witness and your words will be to the glory of

  625. God for the well-being of your family in relation to the Lord's

  626. work. Here's the hallmarks of the

  627. heart of a good pastor. May the Lord help us to follow

  628. in Paul's example. At this time, we're going to

  629. close. We'll sing a few verses of hymn

  630. #409. I would encourage you to study

  631. as much as you can in this passage of Scripture.

  632. I'm only giving you highlights. I can't deal with every verse

  633. and every word because we'd be here for weeks and end.

  634. So I'm trying to incorporate a broader picture.