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  1. Thank you, worship team.

  2. That is a fitting song.

  3. Heart of my own heart, whatever befall, Lord, be my vision, O ruler of all.

  4. !

  5. It really is the key.

  6. That's the answer for how we can do what we're going to talk about this morning.

  7. That we see that Jesus is not only the ruler of life, not only the one who calls the shots

  8. in our life, not only the one who has supreme authority in life, but he's the one who governs

  9. all of life.

  10. Meaning, whatever happens to me, whether I think they're right or wrong, whether they

  11. lead to a sense of hurt or injustice, that I see that Jesus, as the absolute ruler of

  12. all, has all these things in order.

  13. And he's working all of these things, not only for my good and for his glory, but for my best.

  14. That's the key.

  15. It won't happen any other way.

  16. So before we even begin to talk about spiritual ministry, we have to really understand and orient

  17. our heart towards the real motivation for spiritual ministry and what helps to anchor our soul,

  18. anchor our activity in the midst of spiritual activity.

  19. Because as we're going to see this morning, true spiritual ministry doesn't always lead us to happy places.

  20. As a matter of fact, true spiritual ministry will lead you to some of the most difficult,

  21. one of the most agonizing places of suffering and adversity and opposition and antagonism and criticism

  22. and fill in the blank with any other word you want to use.

  23. It is not a happy human experience.

  24. So how do you go the distance if it is not for the stabilizing confidence in a God who is able to superintend

  25. and rule over all of these things?

  26. That's what grounds us in spiritual ministry that we've been called to.

  27. Wherever that spiritual ministry might be.

  28. That is the starting place.

  29. And it's just not going to be worth it if Christ is not your supreme affection.

  30. It is not going to be worth it.

  31. So as I open us up this morning in prayer,

  32. let's plead with God for he to be the supreme affection for our ministry.

  33. Oh God, we come to you this morning as broken and desperate people.

  34. Weak and frail and fractured in so many ways.

  35. God, we need you to put those pieces together and forgive us even this week for the ways that we have not only displeased you,

  36. but we have been rebels.

  37. We have absolutely opposed the true word that we know in our hearts.

  38. We know what you've called us to,

  39. and yet we have decided to find pleasure in other things

  40. and to gratify ourselves in other ways.

  41. To have it now instead of having it later and having it in the best way that you choose for us.

  42. So as a starting point, Lord, this morning, we just come and we pray for your forgiveness.

  43. We pray for your mercy.

  44. We pray for your cleansing and for your help on our time today.

  45. We cannot be people who are involved in spiritual ministry without the God who creates spiritual ministry in us.

  46. Who leads us to spiritual ministry.

  47. Who makes us fit for spiritual ministry.

  48. And then, by your grace, gives us the opportunity to be involved in spiritual ministry wherever we might be.

  49. So, Lord, as we come to this passage, I pray that you would connect it to our hearts and our situations

  50. in the specific ways that each person who is here this morning needs it applied.

  51. What a diverse group that we have here.

  52. Older and younger.

  53. Those who are in school and those who are not.

  54. Those who are working and those who are retired.

  55. And those with families and those who don't.

  56. And you know each situation this morning.

  57. And you know how to connect this word to each individual.

  58. And so I pray, Lord, that you would do that work.

  59. Forgive us for the arrogance that would say that we have arrived.

  60. Help us to submit ourselves, Lord, to the teaching of your word this morning.

  61. So we can walk out of this place being refreshed, being renewed, being encouraged, being exhorted and challenged.

  62. Inspired to represent you well in this world.

  63. As representatives, as ambassadors of the only one that matters.

  64. Ambassadors for Christ.

  65. Lord, there are so many people this morning in this service who are wrestling with real and tangible hurts.

  66. We need you to overcome our hurts.

  67. Our pains.

  68. Those are real pains.

  69. Real hurts.

  70. We need the comfort of God to comfort us.

  71. So that we can have the ministry of comfort.

  72. So that we can comfort others with the same comfort with which we ourselves have been comforted by God.

  73. That too is a ministry.

  74. That you use our pain to encourage others around us.

  75. And Lord, you use your word.

  76. The word that you have spoken to us directly and you have connected to our hearts.

  77. You have used that as an opportunity for us to then encourage and exhort others as well.

  78. Help us to be faithful to the word we know.

  79. Help us to be ready vessels.

  80. Ready for the ministry that you have placed right in front of us.

  81. We pray in Jesus' name.

  82. Amen.

  83. I had a friend text me this week and ask me this question.

  84. He said, what is a disciple?

  85. What is a disciple?

  86. That's kind of an important question, wouldn't you say?

  87. Because if we're called to discipleship and we're called to be disciples,

  88. then we kind of need to know the destination.

  89. We kind of need to know where we're going.

  90. We need to know how we, whether or not we're on the right road.

  91. We need to know what sort of characteristics would be true of that individual so that we can help that person be a disciple.

  92. My response to him was, well, a disciple is a Christ follower.

  93. It makes sense.

  94. We look in the gospel of Luke in particular and we see that Jesus is constantly saying to the people that he's in connection with,

  95. follow me.

  96. It begins with being a Christ follower and the consistent testimony of a life that is following Christ is certainly indicative of a disciple.

  97. His question back to me then was, okay, what is a Christ follower?

  98. Because that is so broad and so general.

  99. And I sarcastically said, well, it's a disciple.

  100. Shoot.

  101. I guess it wasn't a very good answer.

  102. I said, well, obviously you know what a disciple and a Christ follower is,

  103. so help me overcome some of the Sunday school answers that we tend to have.

  104. But I don't think it's complex.

  105. I don't think it needs to be sophisticated.

  106. Because the message of Christ is a message of simplicity.

  107. It's a message that he advocates that even a young child should be able to understand this, these truths,

  108. and yet deep enough to inform the heart of the strongest believer.

  109. And it really boils down to, yes, this person is a Christ follower.

  110. And the more you follow after Christ, the more you realize how difficult it is to do.

  111. To really not only embrace Christ, but to reflect the heart, the actions, the attitude, the motives, the priorities,

  112. and the faith of Christ to the world.

  113. That's what we've been called to.

  114. To be a Christ follower.

  115. But how does that look?

  116. What form does that take?

  117. And I think Paul helps to fill that out for us in our study this morning.

  118. But maybe to kind of summarize it in an encapsulating statement,

  119. we find in Colossians chapter 3, verse 23, this verse.

    Colossians 3:23

  120. Whatever you do, work heartily, ask for the Lord, and not for men.

  121. Knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as you, your reward.

  122. You are serving the Lord Christ.

  123. That really is the anthem of the message this morning.

  124. Your spiritual ministry is first ministry to God.

  125. Be thou my vision, ruler of all.

  126. Anchor my soul in the understanding, in the truth,

  127. that everything I do and everything I am is first oriented to you.

  128. That's the only way true spiritual ministry can happen.

  129. But we get some details.

  130. This morning in our passage in 1 Thessalonians chapter 2.

    1 Thessalonians 2 chapter mention

  131. I see this breaking down in three different ways.

  132. First, Paul gives us a testimony of spiritual ministry.

  133. He gives us his personal testimony of what this looks like.

  134. How can you begin to see and differentiate between true spiritual ministry and that which is false?

  135. Because there are certain indicators that help us recognize what true spiritual ministry is all about.

  136. What does a ministry that is oriented first to God look like?

  137. So Paul gives us several verses that begin to talk about what his testimony of spiritual ministry is.

  138. And by the way, although Paul is speaking from his own experience,

  139. he's talking about what spiritual ministry looks like.

  140. I want us all to recognize this morning that you are a spiritual minister.

  141. Regardless of your title, regardless of your occupation, regardless of your social standing,

  142. you are a spiritual minister today.

  143. And that there is a ministry that only you can accomplish.

  144. There is a ministry that God has ordained for you to do.

  145. We find that in Ephesians chapter 2.10.

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  146. You are his workmanship created in Christ Jesus for good works.

  147. There is a work, a ministry that only you can do this morning.

  148. So wherever you find yourself, God has called you to spiritual ministry in that context.

  149. Maybe even as a young person in a family, God has called you to ministry in your family,

  150. to your siblings, to your parents, to your friends in your community,

  151. to your friends at school, wherever you might be.

  152. God has called you, if you are a child of his, to a spiritual ministry.

  153. But as Paul begins to describe this ministry, we begin to see how distinctive this ministry is.

  154. How different that ministry is than what we would expect spiritual ministry to look like.

  155. Let me just read the first couple of verses,

  156. because Paul begins by calling attention to the commitment that is required in true spiritual ministry.

  157. That's our first point this morning.

  158. The commitment of true spiritual ministry, serving at all costs.

  159. Let me read verses 1 and 2 of chapter 2.

  160. I don't know about you, but this is not a great way to call people to ministry.

  161. This isn't a good way to say, hey, this is really attractive.

  162. You should try it too.

  163. If you're going to be involved in spiritual ministry, it's going to require a bit of commitment.

  164. Commitment at all costs.

  165. Now, Paul here refers to his suffering in Philippi, because that's what would have been fresh.

  166. That's what would have been familiar to the church of Thessalonica,

  167. given the fact that Paul had just left Philippi to then make his way there to Thessalonica to serve there.

  168. But make no mistake, in his first and second and third missionary journey,

  169. every place, I can't think of any, and maybe you can help me,

  170. every place that Paul went, he was met with opposition.

  171. Every single place.

  172. In his first missionary journey, he goes to Cyprus first.

  173. And he's opposed by Elimus, the magician.

  174. And God works there through the heart of the Pearl Council.

  175. Does some work, but he's opposed.

  176. Then he sets sail to Paphos and come to the city of Perga,

  177. and he's abandoned by John Mark.

  178. John Mark leaves the team.

  179. So then they go to Antioch and Pisidia.

  180. And the Jews oppose him there and contradict them

  181. and incite high-standing officials and the people

  182. and stir up persecution among the town and drive them out.

  183. So Paul goes to Iconium.

  184. Iconium and Lystra, the region where Timothy grew up.

  185. The unbelieving Jews there were stirred up,

  186. and the Gentiles as well,

  187. and they tried to stone Paul and Barnabas and his team.

  188. So then they come to Lystra.

  189. And that's where Paul was actually stoned.

  190. They didn't just attempt it.

  191. They dragged him out of the city

  192. and threw stones at him until they thought he was dead.

  193. They returned back to Antioch and Jerusalem,

  194. and then they go on their second missionary journey,

  195. and it doesn't go very well then either.

  196. Paul tries to go to Asia,

  197. but he's forbidden by the Holy Spirit.

  198. He attempts to go to Bithynia,

  199. but the door is closed.

  200. Then he comes and he's told to go to Macedonia,

  201. and the first town of Macedonia is the town of Philippi.

  202. And we all know what happens in Philippi.

  203. Things begin to go well,

  204. but once Paul casts out a demon from a slave girl,

  205. he's hauled before the marketplace,

  206. he's attacked by the crowd,

  207. he's beaten with rods,

  208. and he's put in prison.

  209. They move to Thessalonica,

  210. and things don't go much better there.

  211. You see, the same in Berea,

  212. and the same in every other location

  213. that Paul sets his mind to serve.

  214. The point is this.

  215. Serving at all costs

  216. is what spiritual ministry looks like.

  217. And Paul would say,

  218. suffering is not a mark of failure.

  219. Hear it.

  220. Suffering is not a mark of failure.

  221. And suffering is not a mark of God's displeasure.

  222. And suffering is not a mark

  223. of the adversary getting the upper hand.

  224. Rather, suffering is a means of God's power.

  225. In a way for God to authenticate

  226. his messenger and his message.

  227. It is the way to crystallize

  228. in the minds of the people

  229. who are being served.

  230. Ah, this is one who means what he says.

  231. This is one who has the fortitude by God

  232. to press on in the midst of adversity.

  233. And as Peter would say in chapter 4

  234. of his little letter,

  235. don't be surprised by the fiery trial

  236. when it comes upon you

  237. to test you as though

  238. something strange were happening,

  239. but rejoice insofar

  240. as you share Christ's sufferings

  241. that you may also be glad

  242. when his glory is revealed.

  243. If you are insulted for the name of Christ,

  244. you are blessed because the spirit of glory

  245. and of God rests on you.

  246. That's what suffering does.

  247. Do you want the spirit of God

  248. to rest on your life and ministry?

  249. Do you want the power of God

  250. to make your ministry,

  251. your spiritual ministry to others

  252. in your home,

  253. in your school,

  254. in your workplace,

  255. in your community?

  256. Do you want to make it efficient

  257. and effective?

  258. Then don't run from persecution.

  259. Press in.

  260. Press in and allow the spirit of glory

  261. and of God to rest on you.

  262. That is the promise.

  263. That's pretty remarkable,

  264. wouldn't you say?

  265. The problem is that we so often

  266. push against persecution.

  267. We push against adversity.

  268. We push against injustice in our lives.

  269. We push against those things

  270. and by pushing against those things,

  271. we push against God.

  272. That's the danger.

  273. Suffering marked Paul's ministry

  274. time and time again.

  275. And through suffering,

  276. God showed himself faithful.

  277. And God made his gospel

  278. effective and fruitful.

  279. Suffering is a means

  280. of seeing God do his work

  281. for you

  282. and in you

  283. and through you.

  284. Second,

  285. Paul points to the motive

  286. of ministry.

  287. Not only his commitment

  288. to ministry,

  289. serving at all costs,

  290. but his motive for ministry,

  291. which is serving

  292. to please God.

  293. Let me read for us

  294. verses 3 to 6.

  295. It says this,

  296. For our appeal

  297. does not spring

  298. from error or impurity

  299. or any attempt

  300. to deceive,

  301. but just as we have been

  302. approved by God

  303. to be entrusted

  304. with the gospel,

  305. so we speak.

  306. Not to please men,

  307. but God

  308. who tests our hearts.

  309. For we never came

  310. with words of flattery,

  311. as you know,

  312. nor with a pretext

  313. for greed.

  314. God is witness.

  315. Nor did we seek glory

  316. from people,

  317. whether from you

  318. or from others,

  319. though we could be made,

  320. have made demands

  321. as apostles of Christ,

  322. but we were gentle

  323. among you.

  324. And we'll get to that piece

  325. in a second.

  326. Paul begins to describe

  327. the purity

  328. of the ministry

  329. that he had

  330. among the Thessalonian church.

  331. He commends it

  332. in particular

  333. because at this point

  334. in time,

  335. even at the very

  336. beginning stages

  337. of the development

  338. of this church,

  339. Paul was facing

  340. significant criticism.

  341. False teachers

  342. assailed him,

  343. as they often do

  344. other faithful shepherds,

  345. by impugning his character

  346. and challenging

  347. his authority.

  348. Thus,

  349. the opening statements

  350. we find in chapter 2

  351. is this polemic

  352. that Paul gives

  353. in defense

  354. of his ministry

  355. to the church

  356. of Thessalonica.

  357. In spite of the purity

  358. of Paul's life

  359. and the transforming power

  360. of his message,

  361. the enemies

  362. of the gospel

  363. were having some success

  364. in convincing

  365. the Thessalonians

  366. that Paul

  367. and his companions

  368. were wicked

  369. in their intentions.

  370. So Paul needs

  371. to go about

  372. demonstrating

  373. the purity

  374. of his message

  375. in the gospel

  376. ministry

  377. to this church.

  378. He pushes

  379. against

  380. the accusations

  381. that are being levied

  382. against him

  383. as a missionary.

  384. He says in verse 3,

  385. there is no error.

  386. There was no impurity.

  387. There was no deception.

  388. There was no flattery,

  389. no greed

  390. or desire

  391. for personal glory.

  392. There were no demands

  393. that we made of you

  394. as we could have

  395. as apostles.

  396. Just the pure,

  397. untainted,

  398. radiant message

  399. of the word.

  400. There were no

  401. ulterior motives.

  402. Paul walks through

  403. this piece by piece.

  404. He says,

  405. you may essentially

  406. feel that we had

  407. ulterior motives

  408. but we have been

  409. approved

  410. by God.

  411. Notice the number

  412. of times

  413. that he points

  414. their attention

  415. to the fact

  416. that God

  417. is at the front

  418. and center

  419. of their ministry

  420. and he is at

  421. the end point

  422. of their ministry.

  423. He's the one

  424. who got this all going.

  425. He's the one

  426. who initiated this

  427. to begin with.

  428. We have been

  429. approved by him

  430. and entrusted

  431. by him

  432. to do the work.

  433. We wouldn't be here

  434. if it wasn't for the fact

  435. that God had told us

  436. to come.

  437. We wouldn't be here

  438. unless God had given us

  439. the strength

  440. to overcome

  441. the adversity

  442. that we had experienced

  443. in every single place

  444. that we have been.

  445. He's the one

  446. who gave us boldness.

  447. He's the one

  448. who fanned the flames

  449. of our hearts

  450. to serve in this way.

  451. He's the one

  452. who gave us endurance

  453. to overcome.

  454. He's the one

  455. whose message

  456. we bring to you.

  457. He's the one

  458. who sustains us

  459. in this work.

  460. We have been approved

  461. by God.

  462. And you may feel

  463. that we had ulterior motives

  464. but our primary aim

  465. is to please God

  466. and not

  467. to please men.

  468. I've recognized

  469. in my own life

  470. how difficult

  471. that is

  472. and how subtle

  473. how subtle

  474. the indications are

  475. that my heart

  476. and my desire

  477. for ministry

  478. is really

  479. man-centered

  480. rather than God-centered.

  481. Oh, it is subtle.

  482. To be involved

  483. in ministry

  484. and to walk away

  485. feeling

  486. as though

  487. you didn't perform

  488. the way you wanted to.

  489. There is

  490. a sense

  491. that you didn't meet

  492. your own expectations.

  493. Well,

  494. why would you be

  495. concerned about that

  496. if you are

  497. trusting

  498. in a God

  499. who is able

  500. to make

  501. your ministry

  502. successful

  503. and fruitful

  504. regardless of how

  505. terrible you communicate

  506. that God's

  507. ministry

  508. in the heart

  509. will be effective

  510. in spite of you

  511. because of the power

  512. of his word.

  513. Who are you trusting in?

  514. your ability

  515. to

  516. convey the truth

  517. or God's ability

  518. to make that truth

  519. grow

  520. in a life.

  521. The

  522. desire to be

  523. up front

  524. or

  525. the

  526. jealousy

  527. that we feel

  528. when others

  529. get certain positions

  530. that we want

  531. or the

  532. idea that

  533. there's no way

  534. we're going to serve

  535. in a certain ministry

  536. because it's just

  537. not up my alley.

  538. It's not my passion.

  539. It's just

  540. it's

  541. children's

  542. ministry.

  543. I can tell you

  544. that God

  545. by his grace

  546. has given me

  547. more refreshment

  548. in areas

  549. of ministry

  550. I didn't feel

  551. like I was

  552. inclined to

  553. because it gave him

  554. the opportunity

  555. to show up.

  556. it gave him

  557. the opportunity

  558. to demonstrate

  559. to me

  560. in my arrogant

  561. heart

  562. that it is

  563. he

  564. who creates

  565. the ministry

  566. work

  567. not me.

  568. It's not built

  569. on my

  570. personal

  571. giftedness

  572. but it's

  573. based upon

  574. the power

  575. of God

  576. alone.

  577. We'll never

  578. get there

  579. if our

  580. orientation

  581. is to please

  582. men

  583. and not to

  584. please God.

  585. in his

  586. mind

  587. it is

  588. offensive.

  589. Paul

  590. points to this

  591. in Galatians

  592. 1.10

  593. when he says

  594. for am I

  595. now seeking

  596. the approval

  597. of men

  598. or of God

  599. or am I

  600. trying to

  601. please men

  602. if I were

  603. still trying

  604. to please

  605. men

  606. I would

  607. not

  608. be a

  609. servant

  610. of Christ.

  611. You can't

  612. have it

  613. both ways.

  614. maybe Paul

  615. was also

  616. saying this

  617. you may

  618. feel that

  619. we had

  620. ulterior

  621. motives

  622. but it

  623. is God

  624. who tests

  625. our hearts.

  626. He says

  627. that

  628. there in

  629. verse 4b

  630. God is

  631. the one

  632. who approves

  633. us for

  634. ministry

  635. and God

  636. is the one

  637. who tests

  638. us

  639. throughout

  640. the ministry.

  641. ministry

  642. we are

  643. accountable

  644. to him

  645. and by

  646. the way

  647. God knows

  648. the very

  649. depths of

  650. our hearts

  651. doesn't he?

  652. There is no

  653. masquerade

  654. with God

  655. he sees

  656. to the very

  657. heart

  658. of the matter

  659. and Paul

  660. says

  661. I am open

  662. and laid

  663. bare

  664. to the

  665. penetrating

  666. gaze

  667. of God

  668. and he

  669. is the

  670. one

  671. who is

  672. testing

  673. our

  674. ministry.

  675. He is

  676. the one

  677. who is

  678. approving

  679. us

  680. for

  681. ministry.

  682. And there is

  683. a sense

  684. of refreshment

  685. in Paul's

  686. heart

  687. that says

  688. whatever may

  689. happen

  690. in this

  691. place

  692. happens

  693. because

  694. God is

  695. in control.

  696. I am

  697. trusting

  698. in him.

  699. Finally

  700. you may

  701. feel that

  702. we have

  703. ulterior

  704. motives

  705. but God

  706. is witness

  707. we see

  708. that in

  709. verse 5.

  710. God

  711. testifies

  712. to the

  713. authenticity

  714. of our

  715. faith

  716. by doing

  717. his work

  718. in

  719. lives

  720. and

  721. you

  722. have

  723. personally

  724. witnessed

  725. it.

  726. He has

  727. been

  728. talking

  729. about

  730. that

  731. since

  732. chapter

  733. 1.

  734. The

  735. fact

  736. that

  737. they have

  738. responded

  739. to the

  740. word

  741. and the

  742. Holy

  743. Spirit

  744. has

  745. done

  746. a

  747. work

  748. in

  749. their

  750. life.

  751. And it

  752. is

  753. refreshing

  754. for the

  755. apostle Paul

  756. to see

  757. that God

  758. is giving

  759. witness

  760. to the

  761. authenticity

  762. of the

  763. ministry

  764. that Paul

  765. had

  766. by confirming

  767. that in

  768. the work

  769. of the

  770. people

  771. that Paul

  772. was in

  773. touch

  774. with.

  775. God

  776. is witness.

  777. Nothing

  778. is hidden

  779. from his

  780. sight.

  781. There is

  782. no secret

  783. motive,

  784. no hidden

  785. agenda,

  786. no interest

  787. in profiting

  788. from you

  789. or taking

  790. advantage

  791. of you.

  792. God

  793. has approved

  794. us,

  795. tested

  796. us,

  797. and given

  798. witness

  799. to the

  800. purity

  801. of our

  802. ministry.

  803. I would

  804. say,

  805. the

  806. greater

  807. the

  808. purity

  809. of your

  810. ministry,

  811. the

  812. greater

  813. the

  814. effectiveness

  815. of the

  816. work

  817. that God

  818. can accomplish

  819. through you.

  820. Now

  821. moving on

  822. to verses

  823. 7 and

  824. 8.

  825. That was

  826. the testimony

  827. of spiritual

  828. ministry.

  829. Now we

  830. get to

  831. see a

  832. little bit

  833. of the

  834. tenderness,

  835. the

  836. tenderness

  837. of spiritual

  838. ministry.

  839. ministry.

  840. The

  841. tenderness

  842. of spiritual

  843. ministry.

  844. Let me

  845. read verses

  846. 7 and

  847. 8 to

  848. you.

  849. It says,

  850. but we

  851. were gentle

  852. among you

  853. like a

  854. nursing

  855. mother

  856. taking care

  857. of her

  858. own

  859. children.

  860. So being

  861. affectionately

  862. desirous

  863. of you,

  864. we were

  865. ready to

  866. share with

  867. you not

  868. only the

  869. gospel of

  870. God,

  871. but also

  872. our own

  873. selves,

  874. because you

  875. had become

  876. very dear

  877. to us.

  878. Now,

  879. I don't

  880. know what

  881. your

  882. perception

  883. of the

  884. apostle

  885. Paul is.

  886. I think

  887. of this

  888. battle-weathered,

  889. crusty,

  890. bold guy

  891. who's moving

  892. from one

  893. place to

  894. the other,

  895. and he's

  896. got this,

  897. I don't

  898. know,

  899. this courage,

  900. this tenacity

  901. that drives

  902. him from

  903. one city

  904. to the

  905. next.

  906. And when

  907. I think

  908. of tenacity,

  909. I think

  910. of courage,

  911. I think

  912. of strength,

  913. I don't

  914. think of

  915. tenderness.

  916. And yet,

  917. everywhere you

  918. see the

  919. apostle go,

  920. there is

  921. this great

  922. affection for

  923. the people

  924. that he

  925. serves.

  926. There's no

  927. wonder why

  928. his ministry

  929. was so

  930. effective,

  931. because he

  932. didn't just

  933. communicate the

  934. truth to

  935. them,

  936. he gave

  937. them his

  938. very self.

  939. There was

  940. nothing that

  941. was held

  942. back from

  943. you,

  944. of me,

  945. he says,

  946. because I

  947. wanted you

  948. to have

  949. it all.

  950. I wanted

  951. you to

  952. have all

  953. of me,

  954. not just

  955. my message,

  956. but me

  957. too.

  958. I wanted

  959. to invest

  960. in your

  961. life,

  962. I wanted

  963. to give

  964. you what

  965. you needed

  966. most,

  967. and that

  968. is the

  969. tenderness

  970. and encouraging

  971. ministry,

  972. just like a

  973. mother has

  974. with a

  975. child.

  976. It's

  977. interesting,

  978. the play

  979. on words

  980. that Paul

  981. uses here

  982. in verse

  983. 7.

  984. He says,

  985. but we

  986. were gentle

  987. among you.

  988. And there

  989. are some

  990. manuscripts

  991. that would

  992. use the

  993. word

  994. hapeoi,

  995. which is

  996. the word

  997. gentleness,

  998. or the

  999. word

  1000. napioi,

  1001. which is

  1002. the word

  1003. infant.

  1004. And we

  1005. don't know

  1006. exactly which

  1007. one is

  1008. best here,

  1009. but they

  1010. both point

  1011. to the

  1012. same thing.

  1013. They both

  1014. point to

  1015. tenderness

  1016. and gentleness

  1017. and innocence

  1018. in ministry.

  1019. It's probably

  1020. actually best

  1021. to see this

  1022. as an

  1023. infant

  1024. among you,

  1025. because the

  1026. best manuscripts

  1027. use that

  1028. word,

  1029. and the

  1030. connotation

  1031. would be

  1032. we were

  1033. so innocent

  1034. and so

  1035. frail,

  1036. we came

  1037. without any

  1038. desire to

  1039. do anything

  1040. to you,

  1041. just to be

  1042. a blessing

  1043. to you.

  1044. And then to

  1045. move from

  1046. that metaphor

  1047. of being an

  1048. infant to now

  1049. talking about

  1050. being a

  1051. mom.

  1052. We're like

  1053. mothers to

  1054. you,

  1055. showing the

  1056. gentleness

  1057. and care

  1058. that only

  1059. comes from

  1060. a mom.

  1061. Any of you

  1062. who've had

  1063. kids,

  1064. and I'll

  1065. speak for

  1066. dads,

  1067. because that's

  1068. what I am.

  1069. You know,

  1070. the first couple

  1071. of days is

  1072. great,

  1073. you know,

  1074. so happy

  1075. to have this

  1076. little bundle

  1077. of joy

  1078. in your

  1079. house.

  1080. And the

  1081. couple of

  1082. sleepless

  1083. hours at night

  1084. is no

  1085. problem,

  1086. I can

  1087. handle it.

  1088. But then

  1089. after week

  1090. two,

  1091. it's like,

  1092. enough already.

  1093. But you

  1094. moms are

  1095. just amazing

  1096. because there

  1097. seems to be

  1098. this unending

  1099. affection and

  1100. gentleness for

  1101. your kids.

  1102. To the

  1103. extent that

  1104. the word

  1105. that Paul

  1106. uses here

  1107. of nursing

  1108. moms is

  1109. is the

  1110. word that

  1111. helps us

  1112. understand

  1113. the closeness

  1114. of a mom's

  1115. care for

  1116. her kids.

  1117. It's the

  1118. word that

  1119. is used

  1120. to describe

  1121. softness

  1122. and heat

  1123. to make

  1124. warm.

  1125. There is

  1126. this sense

  1127. of intimacy

  1128. and closeness

  1129. that can only

  1130. happen through

  1131. body heat.

  1132. It is the

  1133. sense that

  1134. Christ

  1135. communicates

  1136. when he

  1137. says,

  1138. follow me.

  1139. I don't

  1140. want there

  1141. to be

  1142. separation.

  1143. I want

  1144. there to

  1145. be

  1146. proximity.

  1147. It's the

  1148. same sense

  1149. we get

  1150. from John

    John 15 chapter mention

  1151. chapter 15

  1152. where he

  1153. says,

  1154. abide in

  1155. me and

  1156. I in

  1157. you.

  1158. I want

  1159. there to

  1160. be

  1161. nearness.

  1162. I want

  1163. there to

  1164. be

  1165. intimacy.

  1166. I look

  1167. forward to

  1168. the opportunity

  1169. to know

  1170. you

  1171. intimately

  1172. and to

  1173. love you

  1174. completely.

  1175. It was

  1176. also marked

  1177. by affection,

  1178. not only by

  1179. gentleness but

  1180. also by

  1181. affection.

  1182. He says

  1183. that here in

  1184. verse 8,

  1185. so affectionately

  1186. longing for

  1187. you, this

  1188. word is only

  1189. used in the

  1190. New Testament

  1191. right here in

  1192. 1 Thessalonians

    1 Thessalonians 2 chapter mention

  1193. chapter 2.

  1194. It is used of

  1195. grieving parents

  1196. whose child has

  1197. just died.

  1198. You can get a

  1199. sense of the

  1200. raw, emotional

  1201. grieving and

  1202. feeling of

  1203. Paul for this

  1204. church.

  1205. This emotional

  1206. outflow of

  1207. affection for

  1208. this group of

  1209. individuals, his

  1210. yearning for

  1211. them.

  1212. Paul would

  1213. say, this

  1214. affection led

  1215. us to give

  1216. you what was

  1217. essential for

  1218. spiritual life.

  1219. We gave you

  1220. everything we

  1221. had.

  1222. We gave you

  1223. what was best.

  1224. We gave you

  1225. what we knew

  1226. could lead to

  1227. ultimate joy.

  1228. Because that's

  1229. what spiritual

  1230. affection does.

  1231. Spiritual

  1232. affection understands

  1233. and discerns

  1234. between what is

  1235. good and what

  1236. is best.

  1237. What is

  1238. helpful and

  1239. what is

  1240. supreme.

  1241. Because we

  1242. understand as

  1243. parents that

  1244. sometimes our

  1245. kids ask for

  1246. things that

  1247. really aren't

  1248. very helpful in

  1249. the end.

  1250. But a truly

  1251. affectionate parent

  1252. will always give

  1253. their kids,

  1254. the people they

  1255. love, the very

  1256. best.

  1257. And that's what

  1258. Paul in his

  1259. ministry to this

  1260. church was

  1261. desiring to

  1262. do.

  1263. It was a

  1264. ministry that

  1265. pointed to

  1266. Christ because

  1267. it was a

  1268. ministry that

  1269. emulated the

  1270. love of Christ

  1271. to them.

  1272. I like what

  1273. one commentator

  1274. says when he

  1275. puts it this

  1276. way.

  1277. A gospel

  1278. messenger who

  1279. stands detached

  1280. from his

  1281. audience has

  1282. not yet been

  1283. touched by the

  1284. very gospel he

  1285. proclaims.

  1286. a gospel

  1287. messenger who

  1288. stands detached

  1289. from his

  1290. audience has

  1291. not yet been

  1292. touched by the

  1293. very gospel he

  1294. proclaims.

  1295. Maybe this

  1296. goes without

  1297. saying.

  1298. But you

  1299. cannot

  1300. communicate a

  1301. message effectively

  1302. without having

  1303. a heart that

  1304. truly loves the

  1305. audience that

  1306. you're speaking

  1307. to.

  1308. And so the

  1309. deeper the

  1310. relationships that

  1311. you have, the

  1312. deeper the

  1313. ministry that you

  1314. can participate

  1315. in with that

  1316. individual.

  1317. That's why we've

  1318. been talking about

  1319. the significance

  1320. of neighboring.

  1321. Having sincere

  1322. affection for the

  1323. people that God

  1324. has put in your

  1325. proximity, not only

  1326. in your community

  1327. but in your

  1328. workplace, wherever

  1329. you might be on a

  1330. regular basis

  1331. because the

  1332. ministry that you

  1333. have with them

  1334. will be dependent

  1335. upon a true

  1336. affection for

  1337. them that only

  1338. God can create

  1339. in your heart.

  1340. Paul uses these

  1341. endearing terms

  1342. throughout these

  1343. first three

  1344. chapters.

  1345. He says in

  1346. chapter 1,

  1347. verse 2,

  1348. we give thanks to

  1349. God for you.

  1350. In chapter 2,

  1351. verse 8,

  1352. so affectionately

  1353. desirous of you.

  1354. In chapter 2,

  1355. verse 20,

  1356. you are our

  1357. glory and our

  1358. joy.

  1359. In chapter 3,

  1360. verse 9,

  1361. for what

  1362. thanksgiving can

  1363. we return to

  1364. God for you,

  1365. for all the joy

  1366. that we feel for

  1367. your sake before

  1368. our God.

  1369. And there is no

  1370. other little

  1371. epistle that has

  1372. been written by

  1373. Paul that uses

  1374. the word brother

  1375. more than

  1376. first Thessalonians.

  1377. He had a heart

  1378. connection with

  1379. these people.

  1380. There's no wonder

  1381. why his ministry

  1382. to them was so

  1383. effective.

  1384. And finally,

  1385. we find in

  1386. verses 9 to 12,

  1387. we find a

  1388. ministry of

  1389. toil and

  1390. truth.

  1391. A spiritual

  1392. ministry of

  1393. toil and

  1394. truth.

  1395. It shows up in

  1396. three different

  1397. ways.

  1398. First, it shows

  1399. up through

  1400. personal sacrifice,

  1401. then through

  1402. personal holiness,

  1403. and finally,

  1404. through practical

  1405. teaching.

  1406. practical

  1407. teaching.

  1408. I got way

  1409. more than I

  1410. can say.

  1411. And so what I'll

  1412. probably do is

  1413. come back to this

  1414. portion later on,

  1415. because I think

  1416. this is really

  1417. significant.

  1418. But what I want

  1419. you to begin to

  1420. understand is what

  1421. makes this

  1422. ministry so

  1423. important,

  1424. is that it is a

  1425. ministry, not just

  1426. that emulates the

  1427. ministry of Paul,

  1428. but more importantly,

  1429. mimics the

  1430. ministry of the

  1431. Savior.

  1432. The Savior who

  1433. came in truth

  1434. and in grace

  1435. is the ministry

  1436. that we've been

  1437. called to emulate

  1438. in our own lives.

  1439. Maybe we can

  1440. close on just the

  1441. last chart that I

  1442. put together here.

  1443. It helps you see

  1444. the similarities.

  1445. authorities.

  1446. Maybe you can't

  1447. see that.

  1448. Shucks.

  1449. I want you to

  1450. know that verses

  1451. 1 through 6,

  1452. or 1 through 8,

  1453. are parallel to

  1454. verses 9 to 12.

  1455. Okay?

  1456. The very things

  1457. you see in the

  1458. ministry of Paul,

  1459. like moms to the

  1460. church of Thessalonica,

  1461. are emulated by the

  1462. ministry that he has

  1463. just like dad to

  1464. the church.

  1465. So, he wants you

  1466. to understand that

  1467. they're inseparable.

  1468. That if you have the

  1469. one, that you're

  1470. going to have the

  1471. other.

  1472. If you have a

  1473. ministry of grace,

  1474. you're going to also

  1475. have a ministry of

  1476. truth.

  1477. If you're going to

  1478. look like moms in

  1479. your affection for

  1480. people that God has

  1481. put you in ministry

  1482. with, you're going

  1483. to look like dads

  1484. because that ministry

  1485. is going to be

  1486. bolstered and

  1487. strengthened by the

  1488. ministry of truth

  1489. and toil.

  1490. I mean, just for

  1491. your benefit, just

  1492. point some of these

  1493. things out.

  1494. Verse 1 says,

  1495. you yourselves

  1496. know.

  1497. Verse 9 begins

  1498. with, you

  1499. yourselves know.

  1500. In verse 2, it

  1501. says, we declare the

  1502. gospel of God.

  1503. In verse 9, we

  1504. proclaim the gospel

  1505. of God.

  1506. In verse 3, it's

  1507. our appeal, which

  1508. uses the word

  1509. periclesis.

  1510. In verse 12, it

  1511. says, we exhorted,

  1512. which uses the word

  1513. pericleo.

  1514. In verse 3, it

  1515. says, God tests

  1516. our hearts.

  1517. And in verse 5, it

  1518. says, God is our

  1519. witness.

  1520. And then in verse

  1521. 10, you, our

  1522. witness, is in God

  1523. also.

  1524. In verse 3, we

  1525. didn't come with

  1526. impurity or

  1527. attempt to deceive.

  1528. In verse 5, we

  1529. never came with

  1530. flattery or with

  1531. greed.

  1532. And then in verse

  1533. 10, we were

  1534. holy, righteous,

  1535. and blameless

  1536. towards you.

  1537. Verse 5, you

  1538. know how we

  1539. acted.

  1540. Verse 11, you

  1541. know how we

  1542. acted.

  1543. Verse 7, we

  1544. were like a

  1545. mother.

  1546. Verse 11 and

  1547. 12, we were

  1548. like a father.

  1549. If you're going

  1550. to have true

  1551. spiritual ministry,

  1552. you need to be

  1553. like a mom.

  1554. You need to be

  1555. full of grace.

  1556. There needs to be

  1557. godly affection for

  1558. the people that God

  1559. has put you in touch

  1560. with.

  1561. But that can't be

  1562. lacking the spiritual

  1563. ministry like dad,

  1564. a ministry of toil

  1565. and truth.

  1566. The two go hand

  1567. in hand.

  1568. Because true

  1569. spiritual ministry

  1570. is a ministry

  1571. that emulates

  1572. our Savior,

  1573. a man of truth

  1574. and grace.

  1575. Oh, that we

  1576. would be like

  1577. our Savior.

  1578. Let's pray.

  1579. Thank you.