Sermon
God's Design for Servant-Leaders
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Well, I want to encourage you to open up your Bibles, if you would please, to 1 Timothy chapter 3.
1 Timothy 3 chapter mention
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We're continuing our study from last week and picking it up halfway through there at verse 8.
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! Last week covering the first seven verses about elders and now trying to begin to work on the subject of deacons beginning in verse 8.
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If you're using the Pew Bible, I would encourage you to turn there with us. It's on page 992.
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It would be beneficial for you to be able to follow along with us in your Bibles.
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Have you ever heard someone use the phrase, that's not my job? Anybody heard that phrase before?
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I wish I could say I never used that phrase. And I wish I could say I've never heard that phrase.
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But even in the home, you know how this works in a home setting.
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Hey, will you please pick up the dishes from the table?
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Well, that's not my job!
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Or, hey, would you be willing to help collect the trash and put it in the bin outside, please?
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Well, come on! That's just not my job!
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Maybe you've heard that phrase before.
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Maybe you've used that phrase before.
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Maybe even here in the church setting, you're encouraged to be a part of the ministry that's here.
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And, of course, there's lots of opportunities in children's ministry.
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And like, hey, I don't have the gift of children.
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I don't have the gift of those little rugrats.
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Now, you may have one or two or three or four running around your house,
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but for some reason, you don't have the gift of it here.
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I get it.
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Or maybe you don't have the spiritual gift of mowing a lawn, sitting on a tractor.
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You do it every week when you're mowing your lawn at home.
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But we find different reasons not to be able to fulfill service opportunities here at church.
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And I get it, because there's lots to do.
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There's work to be done.
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But as we're going to see in the passage today, that God has called every single one of you
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who is a follower of Jesus Christ, every single one of us that calls ourselves a disciple,
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those who have bowed the knee before Christ in faith, asked forgiveness of our sins,
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you are now a follower of Him.
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You are a servant.
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And the word for servant in the New Testament is the word deacon.
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We're going to press into that a little bit more as we go.
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Here are some examples that I found on the Internet of people not doing their job.
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So this sign, illegally parked cars will be fine.
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I love that one.
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How many people did that have to get through in order for it to get hung up?
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You know, the person who is writing the letters, the person who is editing the sign,
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the person who is actually hanging it up and reading to themselves,
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oh, I like this sign.
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I can actually park here.
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I'll be fine.
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Or how about this?
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A person who is trying to connect pipes and realizes a rock is in the way.
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I don't know why that rock was so hard to move,
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but they're going to route the pipe around the rock.
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Or this next one.
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If you can't see, that's a possum that's on the road.
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And the people who are painting lines decided,
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we don't move possums, we just paint lines.
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So there you have it, a possum with some lines.
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And then on the side of the road, there's some moss that is growing,
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line that's going right through.
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Final picture here.
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This is a sidewalk, and if you can't tell,
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you know, a bike lane and walking lane,
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but for some reason, you're not going to get too far on this sidewalk.
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The tree is right in the way.
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And then finally, if you can't read this sign,
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it says this is a surgical lounge,
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and after hours, they are encouraged.
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The visitors who are sitting in the lobby waiting for their turn are encouraged,
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will you please answer the phone for us?
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We need some help around here.
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And it's easy to say, hey, time out, not my job.
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The truth is that God has given us a job to do.
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And it's not only a good job, a good work.
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It is a way for us to point to the one to whom we follow.
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It's a way for us as God's people to demonstrate that the work of Christ is happening in our life,
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that the preeminent servant that we're going to just look at and remember throughout this entire passage today,
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that the preeminent servant, Jesus Christ, has and should have done a work in our life
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to make us servants, to make us deacons, as it were.
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So if you're with me there, in 1 Timothy chapter 3,
1 Timothy 3 chapter mention
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there's a phrase that I put on your outline.
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I want it to kind of guide our thinking today as we work through this passage.
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And it's there on your outline.
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It says this,
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Elders serve by leading, and deacons lead by serving.
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Elders serve by leading, and deacons lead by serving.
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And we're going to fill this out and kind of develop this thought for us as we work our way through this passage.
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So if you're there with me in 1 Timothy chapter 3,
1 Timothy 3 chapter mention
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let me read the passage for us, and we'll dig in.
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It says in verse 8,
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Deacons likewise must be dignified, not double-tongued, not addicted to much wine,
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not greedy for dishonest gain.
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They must hold the mystery of the faith with a clear conscience,
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and let them also be tested first.
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Then let them serve as deacons if they prove themselves blameless.
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Their wives likewise must be dignified, not slanderers,
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but sober-minded, faithful in all things.
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Let deacons each be the husband of one wife,
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managing their children and their own households well.
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For those who serve well as deacons gain a good standing for themselves
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and also great confidence in the faith that is in Christ Jesus.
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So similar to last week, I want to take this into sections.
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First, I want us to see the ministry of servant leaders.
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What is it that they do?
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How do they benefit the church?
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What is the role that they play?
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And so as we dig into this,
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I want us to recognize this first word likewise
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demonstrates to us that there are some similarities,
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but also some differences that they play.
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A deacon's role is both similar but different.
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This may seem really obvious, but it's important for us to note.
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To explore this word likewise
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and to recognize that there are some similarities here.
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And the fact that elders and deacons stand side by side in this passage
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will help us to recognize that there is something that they do,
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some distinction that they have in the church
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that allows it to play out in a healthy way.
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So, Paul introduces elders there in verse 1.
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I'm going to just draw your attention to verse 1 for a moment.
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It says,
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So, the likewise that is here draws attention to several similarities.
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I want to just draw your attention to them briefly.
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First is they have a distinct function.
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They have a distinct function.
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The fact that elders qualifications and deacon qualifications are here
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means that deacons, like elders, have a specific role to fill.
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Second, they provide some leadership in some way.
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Like elders, deacons provide a measure of leadership and service for the body.
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Third, they are selected on the basis of their character.
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Meaning, you're not just looking for competencies.
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You're not just looking for somebody who can mow a straight line.
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You're looking for somebody who has a character quality about him.
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He's leading a team of individuals.
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And you want to make sure that there is this spiritual maturity,
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this quality about his character that has been tested
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and it's demonstrated through his life.
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But unlike elders, there are some differences.
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First, they are not encouraged to aspire to the work.
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It's fascinating to me how simple and abrupt the very beginning of verse 8 is.
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Having provided an introduction for elders in verse 1,
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to begin this section on deacons with just one word, likewise,
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before spilling into the characteristics,
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draws some attention and I just want to draw this out as an observation for us
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that whatever a deacon is supposed to do,
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he doesn't necessarily aspire to this role of deaconing.
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Second, Paul does not mention a specific office like he does with elders.
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Aspire to the office of overseer, we see in verse 1.
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No such correlation is made here for us in this verse, verse 8.
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Now, while they have a title and they have a role to play,
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Paul does not designate necessarily in this spot an office.
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And I think that's important for us to notice.
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Third, while it's clear that deacons serve in some ways,
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Paul does not indicate a specific work for them to do,
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like he does with elders in verse 1.
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He desires a noble task.
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That is, the Greek words kalos ergon,
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which is the two words good work.
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Now, Paul could have talked about a work,
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which he does in Ephesians chapter 4.
Ephesians 4 chapter mention
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Ephesians 4, 11 and 12, he talks about a work.
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Notice with me.
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And he gave the apostles, speaking of Christ,
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the prophets, the evangelists, the shepherds and teachers,
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to equip the saints for the work, that's ergon,
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of ministry, that is, diakonia,
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to building up the body of Christ.
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There is a ministry work, a deaconing, serving work to do,
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but guess what?
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Guess who is supposed to fill out the deaconing work
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in a service-related way?
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Every believer.
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And elders are in place, pastors are in place,
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to help equip the saints to do and carry out the function of serving,
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which is really just kind of the basic word for service throughout the New Testament,
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that we're all called to a measure of service,
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and pastors, elders, overseers are intended,
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they're put in place to help you serve better,
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to help you do what God has called you to do.
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It's clear that deacons are important for the welfare of the church.
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Otherwise, they wouldn't be listed here side by side with an elder.
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So let's develop this some more.
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Let's kind of understand a little bit more about what a deacon is supposed to do.
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And now I'm speaking more specifically about kind of this function of leadership,
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this service kind of leader, this deacon.
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We're going to look at their function in the early church from Acts chapter 6.
Acts 6 chapter mention
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If you've spent any time reading through the book of Acts,
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you understand how the church has developed.
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It's developed significantly from Acts chapter 2.
Acts 2 chapter mention
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There at the day of Pentecost,
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where Peter is preaching his first sermon in front of the masses,
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we find in Acts chapter 2, verse 41,
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this incredible response.
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It says,
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So that those who received the word were baptized,
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and there were added that day about 3,000 souls.
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Now, this church of 120 believers exploded overnight,
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and then exploded to this church of 3,000 at least individuals.
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And then as the church begins to interact with one another,
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they're growing in a spiritual way.
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We find in verse 47 of chapter 2 that the Lord was adding to their number each day
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those who were being saved.
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This multiplication, this gospel work, these open hearts,
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the ministry of the Spirit and convicting hearts and drawing them to faith,
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this multiplying work that's happening.
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Well, in Acts chapter 3, Peter and John will go to the temple.
Acts 3 chapter mention
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They go there to pray, and there at the temple, they meet a lame man,
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and they heal this lame man.
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They walk into the temple.
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People recognize him and see the work of God in healing him,
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and they all are celebrating,
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and Peter capitalizes on the opportunity and preaches another message.
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And then in Acts chapter 4, we find that 5,000 more are added to the number.
Acts 4 chapter mention
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So now we're at least at 8,000 plus.
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So that when the church is now in the process of laying down their possessions,
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selling their possessions, sharing with one another,
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we find from Acts chapter 5, verse 14,
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that more than ever, believers were added to the Lord,
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multitudes of both men and women.
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The church is exploding in a very good way.
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Numbers of people are being added.
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And then we turn our attention to Acts chapter 6.
Acts 6 chapter mention
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We find this in verse 1.
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It says,
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Now, in the days when the disciples were increasing in number,
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a complaint among the Hellenists arose against the Hebrews
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because their widows were being neglected in the daily distribution.
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And that's the diakonia.
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That's the ministry of service that we find throughout the New Testament.
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So now we've come to a crisis moment.
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Now we've come to a point of decision.
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There's ministry to do, but there aren't enough people to go around.
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And a decision has to be made.
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What are the apostles going to do in terms of fulfilling the call to ministry that they've been given?
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Well, so they devise a plan.
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The plan shows up in verse 2.
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It says,
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And that's our verbal form of deacon, this diakoneo.
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And so they recognized that the ministry that was in front of them was a significant work.
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But the ministry that they've been called to was also a significant work.
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It wasn't that the apostles had to make a decision between the more important ministry and the less important ministry
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and to prioritize that, but to say,
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No, both ministries need to happen in this crisis moment of the church.
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And so we need to distribute the load of ministry to other qualified men to help lead in this effort
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so all the ministry within the church can happen.
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Which, by the way, is really shocking to me that here we are,
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a church of 15,000, 20,000 or more,
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and now finally the apostles are recognizing,
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This is too big a load for us to handle.
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We need to draw in some other people to help us with this.
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And so that's what they do.
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This word to serve that we find in verse 2 is the verbal form of deacon.
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So the apostles are not going to oversee this ministry anymore.
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They're going to entrust this delegated ministry to a group of faithful men.
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That's what we find in verse 3.
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Therefore, it says,
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Brothers, pick out from among you seven men of good repute,
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full of the Holy Spirit and wisdom,
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whom we will appoint to this duty.
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But we will devote ourselves to prayer and to the ministry,
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that's important, diakonia of the word.
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There is a ministry to do.
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There is a ministry of the word.
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There is a ministry to these Hellenistic widows.
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Both ministries are vital for the health and progress of the church.
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And so raising up leaders to help fulfill that ministry was essential
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to ensure that God's work was being done.
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These two ministries taking place here, both important,
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both by qualified men to fulfill.
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But I want to draw your attention to this phrase here at the beginning of verse 3,
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Pick out from among you.
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And I think that's significant for us.
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It means that these men have already shown a heart to serve.
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It means that these men are already doing the work.
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It means that these men have already demonstrated their proven character,
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their dependability, their leadership, their spiritual maturity.
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They are vested.
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They are trusted.
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They are engaged.
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They are active.
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They are dependable.
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In a very real way,
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they've already established themselves as servant kind of leaders.
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The title of deacon wasn't going to change anything about the way
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that they engaged the people, these Hellenistic widows.
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It was only going to activate the work that they were already doing
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and help to enhance it in some way
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so that the widows knew who to look to for this kind of help and leadership.
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It was to ensure that that work was going to continue.
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It was going to be done.
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It wasn't that the title of deacon was going to change anything about that work,
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but just recognize the work that was already taking place.
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All this process was meant to identify these servant leaders
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who were already engaged.
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And notice the primary purpose of their ministry.
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There in the verse 4,
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we will devote ourselves to prayer and the ministry of the Word.
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It was a compatibility between elders and deacons
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to allow the ministry of teaching and praying to continue.
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That focus that the apostles had to continue to be enhanced.
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So overseeing this ministry,
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the apostles was to free them up, as it were,
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to preach and to pray.
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We find this throughout the New Testament,
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these kinds of examples of faithful men
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who were willing to fill this kind of responsibility
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and serving in this kind of way.
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But it does beg the question,
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then who is a deacon?
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And the scripture is clear about this too.
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So the goal for every believer
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is serving the body.
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Who is a deacon?
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And I want to confuse the subject,
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but I want to just suggest
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that everybody who is a follower of Jesus
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is a servant,
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and thus, in a very technical sense,
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is a deacon in that God has called them
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to servant kind of leadership.
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Of course, we find this preeminently
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in our Savior Jesus.
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You remember when the disciples,
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they're on this road,
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and they're arguing about who is first
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and who is the greatest,
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and Jesus turns his attention to them,
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and he confronts them,
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and he says,
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he sits down,
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he calls the disciples
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in Mark 9, verse 35,
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if anyone would be first,
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he must be last of all
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and servant diakonos of all.
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God calls his people to be servants.
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And by the way,
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service is the building block of Christianity.
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Service is at the foundation
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and at the heart of spiritual maturity.
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It's what God has called every one of us to do
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because it is preeminently
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a picture of Christ,
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as we find in Mark 10, 45,
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where Jesus says of himself,
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for even the Son of Man
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came not to be served
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diakono,
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but to serve diakono
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and to give his life a ransom for many.
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You want to be like Christ?
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You want to pattern your life
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so that it looks like Jesus?
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Wear the robe of service.
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Choose to be,
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for lack of a better word,
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a deacon.
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Choose to serve
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in a deacon kind of way.
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Expend yourself like Jesus.
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Serve to the end
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like Jesus.
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Grow in service
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like Jesus.
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That's what we're all called to.
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We see examples
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throughout the New Testament.
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We don't have time
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for this this morning,
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but Timothy
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is referred to
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in 2 Timothy 4, 5,
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he's referred to
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as a deacon.
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His ministry
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is deacon-like.
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Stephanas
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and his family
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was referred to
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in 1 Corinthians chapter 16.
1 Corinthians 16 chapter mention
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It was a deaconing
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kind of ministry.
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The apostle Paul
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actually referred to himself
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in 1 Timothy 1, 12
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as he's filling out
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his own credentials.
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He speaks of himself.
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His service
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was the deaconing
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kind of service
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because foundationally
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every single believer
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is a servant.
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Deacon.
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You are a deacon
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in that
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you are called
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to serve
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the body.
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You are called
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to look
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like Jesus,
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to serve
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in that way.
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We find this
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in the church.
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We saw this verse already,
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but I want to
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bring it back up.
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Ephesians chapter 4
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verses 11 and 12.
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He gave
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the apostles,
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the prophets,
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the evangelists,
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the shepherds,
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and teachers
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why?
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Well,
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to equip the saints
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for the work
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of ministry,
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diakonia,
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for the building
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up the body of Christ.
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So,
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we as pastors,
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elders,
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overseers,
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are preeminently
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called
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to equip you
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to serve
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like a deacon.
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We're called
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to help build out
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in your life
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a heart
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and affection
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for serving others.
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In 2 Corinthians
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chapter 9,
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verse 12,
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Paul,
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in speaking about
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the gift
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that was given
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by the church
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of Corinth
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to the church
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in Jerusalem,
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says this,
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for this ministry,
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diakonia,
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of this service,
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leturgia,
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which is another
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word for service,
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is not only
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supplying the needs
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of the saints,
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but also is overflowing
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in many thanksgivings
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to God.
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This expression
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of ministry
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and service
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and pouring out
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and spending self
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for the sake
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of serving the body.
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in 1 Peter
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chapter 4,
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verses 10 and 11,
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we find this,
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as each has received
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a gift,
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and how many
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of us
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have received
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a gift?
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Every one
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of you
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in this room
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who has
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the Holy Spirit,
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who has asked
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forgiveness for sin,
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has confessed
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your faith
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in God,
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you have the Spirit,
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so you have
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a spiritual gift.
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So,
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this applies
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to everybody
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in this room
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who has
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the Holy Spirit,
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okay?
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So,
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as you have
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received a gift,
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use it to serve
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diakanao,
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one another,
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as a good steward
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of God's
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varied grace.
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Whoever speaks
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is one who speaks
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the oracles of God.
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Whoever serves
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diakanao
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as one who serves
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by the strength
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that God supplies.
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And here's
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the glorious
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privilege
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of our service.
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It's this,
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in order that,
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in everything,
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God may be
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glorified
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through Jesus Christ.
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To Him
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belong glory
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and dominion
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forever and ever.
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Amen.
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When we put
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the spiritual gifts
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that God
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has given to us,
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when we put them
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to work,
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we glorify God.
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Which,
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I think we can
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make the correlation
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without being
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in jeopardy
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or danger
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that if we choose
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to shelf
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our gift,
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if we choose
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to push it
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to the side,
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if we choose
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to just let it
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languish,
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then at least
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as it relates
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to service
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and being a good
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steward,
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we are not
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bringing glory
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to God.
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What a privilege,
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what a responsibility.
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We are servants.
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The joy
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of that entrustment,
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the joy
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of that stewardship
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to put to work,
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the gift
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to serve
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as a deacon
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as it were.
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The church,
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serving the church
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but especially
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and preeminently
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serving Christ.
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Maybe you're listening
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and you're like,
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okay,
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thank you Andrew,
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I get all that
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but I still don't know
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who this deacon is
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here in
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1 Timothy chapter 3
1 Timothy 3 chapter mention
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and I don't know
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what this deacon
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is supposed to do.
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So let's try
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to build that out
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a little bit more.
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We're going to see
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that deacons
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are there
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to multiply
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the work of pastors.
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A deacon
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multiplies
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the work
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of pastors.
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The Bible says,
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by the way,
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almost nothing
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about deacons.
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We find no job description.
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We find no roles
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and responsibilities.
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We only get
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a glimpse
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of the prototype
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of deacons
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from Acts chapter 6
Acts 6 chapter mention
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and we only have
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these qualifications
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for deacons
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in one place
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in 1 Timothy chapter 3
1 Timothy 3 chapter mention
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and we only get
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a glimpse
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of maybe
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what they do
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through the use
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of the word
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servant.
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Diaconess
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is servant
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and so
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it's still
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a little fuzzy
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as it were.
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What is it
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specifically
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that a deacon
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is meant to do?
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I think the best
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way to answer
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this question
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is to
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understand
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that we've
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just begun
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chapter 3
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in a discussion
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about elders.
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And so I think
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we can say
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with a fair amount
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of certainty
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and without
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any
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pushback
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that a deacon
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is not
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an elder.
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Would you agree?
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I think that's
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pretty clear
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from the text.
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A deacon
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is not an elder.
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It's a separate
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category,
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a separate function.
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So just to review
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from last week
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in understanding
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what elders
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are meant to do,
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we come to
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realize
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that elders
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are there
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to exercise
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spiritual oversight.
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1 Timothy
1 Timothy 5 chapter mention
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chapter 5.
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They're there
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to preach
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and to teach.
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1 Timothy
1 Timothy 5 chapter mention
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chapter 5.
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They are tasked
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with equipping
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the saints
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for ministry.
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Ephesians
Ephesians 4 chapter mention
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chapter 4.
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They are to
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guard the flock
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from false teachers
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in Acts
Acts 20 chapter mention
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chapter 20.
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They're to
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shepherd the flock
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by providing
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some measure
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of spiritual
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oversight
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in 1 Peter
1 Peter 5 chapter mention
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chapter 5.
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They're to
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hold firm
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the trustworthy
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word in order
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to give instruction
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and rebuke
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those who
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contradict.
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Titus
Titus 1 chapter mention
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chapter 1.
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We understand
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from 1 Timothy
1 Timothy 1 chapter mention
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chapter 1
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that leaders
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and spiritual
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pastors
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are there
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to charge
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some
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if they teach
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no other
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doctrine.
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They're also
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to set an
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example for
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the believers.
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1 Timothy
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chapter 4
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verse 12.
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They're to
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have nothing
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to do with
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foolish controversies
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or quarrels
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but to be
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kind,
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enduring evil,
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correcting opponents
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with gentleness.
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2 Timothy
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chapter 2
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verse 23
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and 24.
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That is the
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function and
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role of a
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pastor,
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leader,
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overseer.
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It is not
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the role
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of a deacon.
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But
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the function
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that deacons
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have,
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although different
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from an elder,
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is compatible
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with an elder.
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and so
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they are
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side by
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side in
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this passage
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for a
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significant
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reason
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because
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pastors
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and elders
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need the
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support
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and the
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help
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in ministry
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of others.
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There are times
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when ministry
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gets to be
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unwieldy
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and they need
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the supportive
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help and
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service of
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other gifted
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and qualified
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men to come
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alongside them.
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It is
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then with
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the discretion
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of the
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elders
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then to
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determine
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how the
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deacons
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will be
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put to
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work.
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As I
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have said
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in the
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opening,
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elders
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will serve
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by leading
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and deacons
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will lead
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by serving.
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Deacon
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multiplies
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the work
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of pastors
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by carrying
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various
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ministry
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burdens
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so that the
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church can
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remain healthy
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and pastors
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can continue
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to devote
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themselves
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to the
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primary
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work
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of
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equipping
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and
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discipling
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and teaching
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and preaching.
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It's not
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that every
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pastor,
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especially,
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it's not
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that any
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pastor
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will be
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independent
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of service
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because
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at the
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foundational
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level,
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since we're
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all called
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to service
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kind of
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ministry,
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you would
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expect your
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pastors to
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serve as
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well.
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But the
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deacons come
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alongside to
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help support
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that effort.
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We don't have
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time this
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morning to
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build out
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this next
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point,
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the life
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of a servant
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leader.
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We find in
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verses 8 to
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13,
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we're going to
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turn our
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attention to
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that a little
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bit more
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next week,
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but I just
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want to
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kind of give
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you a preview
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of what we're
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talking about.
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The life of a
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servant leader.
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Let me read
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this passage
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one more time
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and then I'll
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show you a
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couple of
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tables that
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demonstrate the
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similarities and
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the differences
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between an
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elder and a
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deacon so
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you can see
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that for
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yourself and
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then like I
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said we'll
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explain it
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more next
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week.
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It says
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deacons likewise
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must be
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dignified,
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not double
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tongue,
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not addicted
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to much
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wine,
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not greedy
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for dishonest
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gain.
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They must
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hold the
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mystery of
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the faith
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with a clear
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conscience and
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let them also
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first be tested
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then let them
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serve as
-
deacons.
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If they prove
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themselves
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blameless,
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their wives
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likewise must be
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dignified,
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not slanderers,
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but sober-minded,
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faithful in
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all things,
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let the deacons
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each be the
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husband of one
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wife, managing
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their children and
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their households
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well.
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For those who
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serve well as
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deacons gain a
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good standing for
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themselves and
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also great
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confidence in the
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faith that is in
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Christ Jesus.
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There are 15
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qualifications for
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elder, there are
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nine qualifications
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that are given to
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us here for
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deacons and
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there are five
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qualifications that
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find really good
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comparison and
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overlap with one
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another.
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There are things
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that are similar.
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What is the same?
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And here's a table
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that will demonstrate
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several of those
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things that are the
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same.
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They are above
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reproach.
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They have the kind
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of character that
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is not guilty of
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blame.
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They're blameless.
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There is this
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essence of their
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character that you
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can't attach blame
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to.
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These are individuals
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who are faithful to
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their wife.
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They're a one woman
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man.
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We talked about that
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last week.
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There is this
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faithfulness to their
-
partner.
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There is a desire of
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their heart to make
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sure that they're
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guarding their eye as
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Job says in his
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book.
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He guards his eye.
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He has a single
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mind and a single
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heart for the woman
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that God gave to
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him.
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He's not given to
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much wine.
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He's not greedy for
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gain.
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He manages his house
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well.
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You can see the
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quality of leadership
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and service that
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echoes itself through
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his family.
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You can recognize
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that their needs are
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met, that they're
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cared for, that
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dad has paid
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attention to them.
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There's a measure of
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stability and respect
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in the home.
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But there are some
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things that are
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different.
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What is different?
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And this next table
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will help show some
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comparisons.
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While elders have
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some qualifications
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regarding their
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tongue at not being
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quarrelsome, deacons
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are told not to be
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double-tongued.
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They're not to be
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hypocrites in the way
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they speak.
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Speaking one way to
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one person a different
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way to a different
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person.
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For elders, they're
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not violent but
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gentle.
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And for deacons, they
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hold the mystery of
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the faith.
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And we'll talk about
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that some more next
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week, especially in
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light of the mission
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that God has called us
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as a church to be on.
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They're not a recent
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convert.
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And for deacons,
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there's not a
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qualification for how
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soon they can become
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a deacon because
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essentially, we're all
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to be deacons the
-
moment we become
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Christians in
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following after Jesus.
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But of course, we're
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building and growing
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through that process
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of doing it better.
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But they do need to
-
be tested.
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We find this
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qualification, it's
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actually in verse 11,
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for their wives.
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And we'll develop that
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some more next week
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as well.
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But there's nothing
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about hospitality.
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There's nothing about
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a good reputation.
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Not that those things
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don't matter.
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And again, as we come
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back to this next week,
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we'll see the
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significance of the
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way Paul describes
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their function.
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But I do want to end
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with this.
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There is a reward.
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What is the reward?
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And the reward is
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found for us in
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verse 13.
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Those who serve well
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as deacons gain a
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good standing for
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themselves and also
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great confidence in
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the faith that is in
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Christ Jesus.
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They gain a good
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standing for
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themselves.
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One commentator
-
says, this linear
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aspect of this verb
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to gain or to
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inquire helps us
-
understand this
-
ongoing process.
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There is this
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process of growing
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and developing and
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being sanctified
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through serving
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others.
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And as people
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watch and evaluate
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their life, they're
-
going to see this
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growing concern for
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individuals, this
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growing heart to
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spend themselves for
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others, this desire
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to be useful to
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Jesus and especially
-
to point to his
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perfect service.
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And as they are
-
moving and growing
-
in this good
-
standing, they're
-
growing in confidence
-
and faith as well.
-
And the reason for
-
that is because as
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they see the Lord
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working in their life
-
and helping them to
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grow in their
-
expression of service
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for others, they're
-
recognizing that the
-
process of Philippians
-
chapter 1 verse 6 is
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playing out.
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That he who began a
-
good work in them has
-
been faithful to
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complete it, is being
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faithful to complete
-
it.
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This growing process of
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God sanctifying their
-
life helps to confirm
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the fact that they
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have the fruit of the
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spirit, they're loving
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God's people, and
-
they're growing in
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service for others.
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But as we turn our
-
attention now to the
-
preeminent servant to
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Jesus, we remember
-
what Jesus demonstrates
-
to us again from Mark
-
chapter 10 verse 45.
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Even the Son of Man
-
came not to be served,
-
but to serve and to
-
give his life a ransom
-
for many.
-
Jesus has demonstrated
-
for us the foundational
-
level of growing in
-
spiritual maturity.
-
it begins with
-
recognizing who Jesus
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is, and begins with
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recognizing what we
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really deserve in light
-
of judgment, and the
-
privilege that we have
-
of now being united in
-
Christ, and being able to
-
serve Christ's body.
-
Do you realize, as you
-
look around, you'll be
-
the people who are
-
sitting with you on your
-
pew.
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the people who are
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sitting before you and
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behind you.
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That they are part of
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God's family.
-
So when you serve the
-
family of God, when you
-
serve God's children, you
-
are serving God.
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What an incredible
-
privilege.
-
What an incredible
-
responsibility.
-
And so as we do this, as
-
we grow in service for
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others, we have the joy
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through service of
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pointing to Christ.
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Because let me tell you,
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our world does not
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serve.
-
They don't serve by
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their own desire.
-
They don't choose to
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serve.
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But when we follow in
-
the footsteps of Christ,
-
when we choose to do the
-
things that really we
-
don't get attention for,
-
we don't get promoted
-
for, we demonstrate that
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there is a work of God in
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our lives, and we point
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to Christ, the gospel
-
through our service.
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I'm going to pray for
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us.
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I'm going to invite the
-
men to come forward.
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We'll commemorate and
-
remember this work of
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Christ, of drawing us
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into himself.
-
And then we'll close our
-
time together.
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Father, thank you for
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sending Jesus.
-
Thank you for overcoming
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our sin.
-
Thank you for making a
-
way of forgiveness, in
-
salvation, in cleansing,
-
and relationship with
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you.
-
Thank you that that new
-
relationship, that new
-
position that we enjoy
-
because of Jesus, has not
-
only drawn us in to this
-
rich union with God, but
-
has drawn us in to
-
fellowship with one
-
another.
-
And the distinct joy that
-
we have because of the
-
work of the Spirit in our
-
life to serve those around
-
us and to point to
-
Christ.
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Oh God, may we grow in
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this service.
-
And may all glory and
-
praise redound to you
-
because of it.
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In Jesus' name.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Thank you.