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Serving The Lord by Serving Others
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you turn in your Bibles to the book of Ephesians with me, Paul's letter to the church in Ephesus.
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This is our second to last sermon in this series, and I'm a little bit sorry to see it
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close. I've thoroughly enjoyed diving into this book. It is one of my favorite to read
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in the New Testament, and I have thoroughly enjoyed sharing it with you and what God has
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given me along with you. Ephesians chapter 6. Ephesians chapter 6. We'll read
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down through the first nine verses today, and then next Sunday, anybody want to guess what the
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topic is going to be? Armor of God. There you go. That's good. If you have kind of cheated and read
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ahead in Ephesians, that's all right. Ephesians 6, the second half there, talks about the armor,
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so to speak, that a Christian can wear to protect him against the attacks of the evil one, and so
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we're looking forward to diving into that. But today, we're going to be talking about serving God by
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serving others. The book of Ephesians has been divided up into two sections. First section is
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who we are, and the second section is how we live. That's right. Much of my study for this series
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has come from these two books, Christ-centered exposition and the Bible exposition commentary.
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Those are good resources. The background of the book, written by the Apostle Paul, who wrote much of
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the New Testament around the year A.D. 62, and he wrote it from prison in Rome, likely under house arrest,
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after he had been the pastor of this church that he's writing this letter to back in Ephesus for
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about three years. And you can read his exploits during that time back in Acts chapter 19. So the
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breakdown, boy, they just divided it nice in half there. The first three chapters are our identity
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in Christ, who we are in Christ. The second three chapters talk about the practical side, what we're
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supposed to do, how we're supposed to live. And so that's what we've been talking about in this second
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half. Today, we're talking about, I'm sorry, last week, last week we talked about mutual submission.
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And we covered kind of the second half of Ephesians 5. And that was understanding the lesson
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that we submit to God's Spirit within us when we voluntarily, willingly submit to each other.
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Whether that looks like husbands and wives or fellow believers. And today we're going to get into
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more of these relationships. So this mutual submission theme carries on through our reading
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today in Ephesians 6. So let's keep that in the back of our mind as we get into it. Today I'll be
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reading from the New Living Translation, Ephesians chapter 6 and verse 1. If you're able to and willing,
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would you join me in standing and let's read Ephesians 6 verse 1. Children, any kids still in the room?
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I know a lot of them are off in junior church, but I think we've got some of the older kids in here
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with us. Ephesians 6 verse 1. Children, all right, children, anybody paying attention? They're talking
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to you. Children, obey your parents because you belong to the Lord, for this is the right thing to do.
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Honor your father and mother. This is the first commandment. Remember those 10 commandments
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that God gave Moses back in the Old Testament? This is the first commandment that has a promise
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attached to it. If you honor your father and mother, things will go well for you and you will have a long
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life on the earth. Okay, now we're moving on to fathers. Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger
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by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the
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Lord. Slaves, obey your earthly masters with deep respect and fear. Serve them sincerely as you would
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serve Christ. Try to please them all the time, not just when they are watching you. As slaves of Christ,
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do the will of God with all your heart. Work with enthusiasm as though you were working for the Lord
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rather than for people. Remember that the Lord will reward each one of us for the good we do,
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whether we are slaves or free. And finally, masters, treat your slaves in the same way.
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Don't threaten them. Remember, you both have the same master in heaven and he has no favorites.
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Let's pray together. God, I ask that you would open our minds and give us clear understanding of
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the words that we read from Ephesians 6 today. Help it to impact us, change the way we think,
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change the way we live. In Jesus' name, amen. You may be seated. Thank you for standing.
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We saw a lot of different categories of relationships here, didn't we?
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So the topic we're going to talk about today that kind of carries through all these relationships and
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even started back in the second half of the previous chapter is this, serving the Lord by serving others.
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Mutual submission, not regarding one of us as higher or more important or greater than another,
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mutually submitting to one another, and serving God by serving each other.
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So that's the theme that we're going to be talking about today. And the first category we read here in
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Ephesians 6 is kids, children. Kids obey God by obeying their parents. Let's look back at verse 1
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down through verse 3. Children, obey your parents in the Lord. That's what my Bible read growing up.
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Obey your parents in the Lord. And I love how the New Living Translation kind of expands on that.
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It says, obey your parents because you belong to the Lord. Kind of clarifies. What are we saying?
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What are we saying when we say you're in the Lord? We're saying you belong to the Lord.
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So because you belong to God, you should obey your parents. Why?
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Because verse 2 goes back to the commandment that God gave so many centuries earlier,
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honor your father and mother. And there's a promise attached to that command.
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If you honor your father and mother, things will go well for you. You'll have a long life
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on this earth. And we don't know and how long exactly we're given to live. And God even tells us,
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don't number your days. Don't begin to predict how long of a life you'll have on this earth.
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There's no, tomorrow is not guaranteed. There's no promise or guarantee that you'll have the next 10,
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15, 20, 50 years. But God does say you will have a long life. And I believe the connotation is a full
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life. The meaning there is a full life that will be as long as God planned for you to have on this earth.
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If you do that simple thing of honoring your father and mother and children, that means obey.
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When you become an adult, sometimes honoring your mom and dad can take on different perspectives,
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different angles, different ways of honoring your mom and dad as the relationship takes on a new stage.
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But we are continually for our entire life to honor our mom and dad and children.
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That means obedience to your mom and dad. Kids, that means you've got to obey them, even if you're mad at
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them. Even if you're justified, even if you're right and you know they're wrong, you've still got to obey
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your parents. God says it. He commands it. And there's a reason for it. Those are the people that he has placed
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in your life to give an account to him for the job they did in raising you. They will stand before God
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and answer for how they raised you, how they trained you. And so your responsibility as a child is to
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honor them and honor God because you belong to God. He has assigned you to those parents.
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And so you honor God and you serve God by serving them. Let's look at a couple other verses that kind
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of say a similar command. Children, Colossians 3, always obey your parents for this pleases the Lord.
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Now let me just tell you a little sneak peek ahead. We're going to be going back and forth from Ephesians
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6 back to Colossians 3 throughout this entire day. And we could have even done it last Sunday,
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but I was kind of saving it for this week. Colossians 3 and Ephesians 5 and 6 are what we
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call parallel passages. They're going to have very, very similar commands. Why? Because those were
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written to two different churches, one in Colossae and one in Ephesus. But God gave the same commands
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in many ways to both churches. So Paul wrote about both of them in his letters to these churches. So we get
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to read back and forth and see the similarities in these two passages. And the first one is to children.
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Children, always obey your parents. I love how he put that word in there. Always. Sorry kids,
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you've always got to obey. Even if your parents aren't asking you the thing to do that you want
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to do or the thing that you think will actually work, your responsibility is just to honor God by
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honoring them and obeying them in this season of your life. Because this pleases God. It won't please
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God if you can turn back around and say, that's why I didn't do that because you were wrong and I was
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right. That's not is what's going to please God. You being right. What's going to please him is you
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humbling yourself before God by humbling yourself before your parents and saying, okay, I understand
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that God wants me to obey you and so I'm going to honor God by obeying you. Exodus 20, 12. Here's the
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commandment. Here's the commandment they were talking about. Honor your father and mother. Then you will
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live a long full life in the land the Lord your God is giving you. God holds the keys to life and death.
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We want to honor God by honoring our father, heavenly father. And then he promises he will give you that
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long full life. Proverbs 23 verse 22. Listen to your father who gave you life. By the way, just a general
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reminder, you wouldn't be here if it wasn't for your mom and dad. Okay, you wouldn't be here. Listen to your
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father who gave you life and don't despise your mother when she is old. God knows that as we get
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older, sometimes our minds can get weaker. Sometimes our bodies definitely get weaker. Sometimes we're not
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what we used to be, right? That's not that's not your concern. You don't have to worry about that.
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God says don't despise your mom and dad because of that. They love you. They gave you life. It poured so
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much into you that you'll never even know or remember. And you can honor them. You honor God
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by honoring them. So children, obey your parents. You obey God by obeying your parents. Parents,
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on the other hand, obey God by loving their kids well. Parents, we obey our God by loving our kids
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well. Let's look back at Ephesians 6 verse 4. Fathers. And look, mothers, you don't get left
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out here as well. But God instituted, like we talked about last week, the father as the leader of the
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home. We're supposed to mutually submit to each other, mutually serve each other. But God did put
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that leadership role on the father's shoulders, that responsibility. And so he addresses the fathers
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to set the tone in the home by not provoking your children to anger or wrath by the way you treat
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them. Don't intentionally push your kids buttons as good as it feels sometimes because they've been
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driving you up the wall pushing yours all day. We can't respond in anger, right? Our children are
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developing. Their brains are developing. Supposedly, our brains are fully developed, right? We don't
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always act that way. But do not provoke your children to wrath by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them
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up with the discipline and instruction, your Bible might say nurture and admonition, that comes from the
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Lord. That should be the tone of our home. Loving our kids well, giving them an accurate view of who God
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is and how God treats us. That should be how we're treating our children. Now, if any of you have been
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perfect in that role, I would love to meet you and you should write a book afterwards. But I don't think
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any of us have any of us have none of us are going to be perfect parents. Kids are thinking right now, I knew my
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parents weren't perfect. Problem is, none of you are perfect kids either. All of us are imperfect, right? And so our
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relationships bear the fruits of our imperfect treating of each other. So, Colossians, back again in chapter 3.
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Fathers, do not aggravate your children or they will become discouraged. Have you ever seen your kids get
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discouraged? I know I have. And mine are young. They're about to be nine and seven. I've seen them get
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discouraged. I've seen them get discouraged as after, as a direct result of the way I treated them.
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I have seen my treatment of them cause discouragement in their faces, in their countenance, in their
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heart. I've seen it. So, I have to instantly learn in that moment, I went astray. I provoked them to wrath
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or I crushed their spirit. Don't aggravate your children. You'll either cause anger or discouragement
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frequently in your children. And often that'll lead to resentment. And resentment can lead to rebellion.
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Rebellion is a dangerous, dangerous path to walk. Because then you're not walking according to the
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Holy Spirit of God. You're walking to what seems right in your eyes in getting back at someone else
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and rebelling against what you were taught. And then the baby goes out with the bathwater. You understand?
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Then it's not just, I'm mad at my dad. Now it's, I'm mad at God. I'm mad at the church. I'm mad at my
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parents. I'm mad at anybody who taught me this way because I reject that now. And now I walk a
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different path. You don't want to see your kids walk down that path. You don't want to see what
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becomes of your children or even your grandchildren because you provoked your children to anger, which
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caused resentment, which caused rebellion. So, it might start with discouragement and then it might go to
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anger. There is a way to correct, to discipline, to instruct our children without causing discouragement
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and anger. And we've got to learn it. If we don't, then we have failed not only God, not only ourselves
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and our family. We've failed our children. We've failed future generations. Because we couldn't control
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our own spirit. We couldn't manage our own spirit by the power of God. You see how all this works together?
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See how it all builds on top of each other? You and I have to maintain our personal relationship
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with Jesus. We have to say no to the flesh and yes to God's spirit because our children need us in that
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space. Our children need that version of us. Our spouses need that version of us. When we continually
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live in that flesh and say yes to ourselves, our homes are not filled with harmony. Our homes are harmful.
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Proverbs 22. Direct your children onto the right path. And when they're older, they won't leave it.
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If you, in a godly, loving, compassionate way, direct your children onto the right path,
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then when they're older, they won't leave it. There might be a time when they walk away from that path,
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but they'll find their way back because you showed them who God really is. And once they go off and
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taste something else like the story of the prodigal son, and all of a sudden, everything that looked
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so attractive turns out to not be so attractive, and all the allure of chasing your own desires and your
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own sinful flesh doesn't work out as well as they thought it would, then they'll remember how good God really
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was. How right the instruction about God that their parents gave them really was. So we've got to direct
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our children on the right path and do it in a loving way, in a tender way, in a compassionate way, in a consistent
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way, managing our own flesh and emotions. So when they're older, they'll remember, boy, God is good, isn't he?
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I've got to run back to God. There's a concept here. I mentioned it a moment ago, the harmonious home
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versus a harmful home. What do we mean by harmonious? It means we're living in harmony. Y'all heard how good
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the choir sounded up here, didn't you? I thought they sounded good. I don't know.
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You know why they sound so good? Because they're singing in harmony with each other. You've got your
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altos, and you've got your sopranos, and your tenors, and your basses, and how many of you looked at,
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you know, I don't know if we still have the the hymnals in there. You can look, you can see the
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different parts in music written, and when all those parts are mixed together, it's this beautiful
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harmony that sounds so much better than if we were all just singing one same part.
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So that is how a home is supposed to live. We're supposed to live in harmony with each other.
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We're not all filling the same role. We're not all exactly the same. We don't all think about things
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the same way. We don't all want the same things. But when we are all pursuing God and trying to serve
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God, then we serve one another, and we're not living in discord, we're not producing this sound that's
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hard to listen to, which is probably more characteristic of our home sometimes, unfortunately.
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But instead, we would be producing this beautiful music, so to speak, okay? And that would be the way
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our home moves forward. Sometimes we hit a wrong note. Sometimes we hit a wrong key. And in that moment,
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we have to apologize. We have to humble ourselves before God and before each other and go back so as
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not to produce a harmful home. Instead, a home full of harmony. So parents, here's the question. Are you in it
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for the long haul with your kids? There's two ways of approaching this. One is giving your kids whatever
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they want? Because that satisfies the initial controversy. It satisfies the initial bumping of
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heads. I want this. You won't give it to me. I don't like you. Fine. Here, you can have it. Are you happy now?
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How many times have we treated our children that way, whether they were a baby or a toddler
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or an elementary age kid, junior high, high school? How many times has that been the relationship and
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the response with our children? Or on the other side, it's the overly harsh side. You better do what I say
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or you're going to regret it. You better listen to me. You better do this just because I told you to
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and shut up and sit down. That might get obedience. But is that provoking them to anger, to wrath?
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That's going to build up bitterness, resentment? They just can't wait to get out of your house so they
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can do what they can do. They can do what they want instead of what you make them do.
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Both can produce immediate results. They're happy they got what they wanted or they're scared for
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what's going to happen. Now, y'all, we've got to discipline our kids and there is a healthy fear
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fear of God and of parents, but it's got to be a healthy fear. We owe it to our children to not live
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in either extreme. God doesn't deal with us that way. God deals with us patiently. He works through
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our hang-ups. He works through our frustrations, our fears. He works through them with us patiently
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year after year after year after year, getting us to understand who he is, how much he loves us,
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what's important. Think about the journey that you've been on with God and how long that's taken.
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So the question is, do we treat our children the same way? Are we in it for the long haul with our
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children, not just for immediate moments of peace or immediate moments of order?
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Are we consistently showing our children this is who God is? And I'm not always going to be perfect,
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but that's a big part of who God is, how he treats us when we're not perfect.
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So are you in it for the long haul with your kids? Number three, employees. Employees.
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Now, we read the word slaves in our Bible, and that was the world they were living in. Remember how
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a couple weeks ago, I think it might have been last week, we talked about how patriarchy was not the
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message of the Bible, it was the cultural backdrop of the Bible. Same thing for slavery. Slavery was
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certainly not the message of the Bible, it was the cultural backdrop of the Bible. So that's how
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the world was when Paul was writing to them back then. There were slaves and masters, and we read about
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a specific slave in the New Testament named Onesimus. So instead of slavery, which, thank God,
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God is a God of freedom and liberty, and in our world today, slavery is illegal just about everywhere,
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though it still is in existence, oftentimes in the case of human trafficking. And so nowadays,
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we can institute that word employees into slaves. So employees, obey your earthly masters or your
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earthly leaders, authorities, supervisors, bosses. With deep respect and fear, serve them sincerely
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as you would serve Christ. Try to please them all the time, not just when they're watching.
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As slaves of Christ, do the will of God with all your heart. Let's look back at Ephesians 3 again.
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Remember our parallel passage? Slaves, obey your earthly masters in everything you do. Try to please them
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all the time, not just when they're watching you. You see how closely this runs together?
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Serve them sincerely because of your reverent fear of the Lord. Work willingly at whatever you do,
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as though you were working for the Lord rather than for people. Boy, God must really want us to get this
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if he puts it into two different letters to two different churches. It's the same commands,
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the same instructions. And he included both of them in our holy scriptures, which he has preserved
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all the way to 2024 and beyond. Okay? So God must think this is really important. Let's pay attention
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to it. Remember that the Lord will give you an inheritance as your reward, and the master you are
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serving is Christ. But if you do what is wrong, you'll be paid back for the wrong you've done.
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God doesn't have any favorites. Okay? So think about that concept that the master we are serving
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is Christ. If you work for Sonic, the master you're serving is not Sonic, it's Christ. And God has placed
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an earthly master over you, and he is telling you, you must then treat that master as you would treat
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your heavenly father, your heavenly master. Okay? Christ is a good master.
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So it's easy to show him love. It's easy to be grateful for him. But sometimes it's hard
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to show love and be pleasing to our earthly masters who are not always good masters.
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But that is how we show them who Jesus is. That's how we show them how Christians really
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should be. That even when we're poorly treated, even when we're mistreated, we still show the
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same kind of obedience, respect, love that we would show to our heavenly master.
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So that's the concept here. Look over Matthew chapter 5, verse 16. This is from the New International
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Version. In the same way, let your light shine before others that they may see your good deeds
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and glorify your Father in heaven. That's what it's talking about. When you have an opportunity
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in the middle of the darkness of your workplace to let your light shine, then people are drawn to that light.
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And the goal is not for them to glorify you, it's to glorify God who shines that light through you.
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That's evangelistic. That's evangelistic. Employee ship. Is that a word?
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Evangelistic working. All right? That's showing Jesus to other people through our work.
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Say, man, I work on a ranch. How am I supposed to show? Well, whoever you work with, show them
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what Jesus would look like working on a ranch. Show them what Jesus would look like working in an
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office. Show them what Jesus would look like teaching in the school. Show them what Jesus
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would look like wherever God leads you in this world. Show them what Jesus would look like there.
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How am I supposed to do that? With God's help. He wants to help you do that. That's his goal for you.
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So if you open up your heart and lay aside your own fears and anxieties and let God take over,
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he can do things through you that you never thought possible. Believe me, I have lived that.
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I've seen that happen. So we must let our light shine before others that they see
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our good deeds and don't glorify us, but glorify our Father in heaven. Y'all remember this song?
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This little light of mine, I'm gonna let it shine. It's a good song, isn't it? Shine all over
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Henrietta. Shine all over Clay County. Shine all over your home. Shine all over your job site.
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Shine all over wherever you are. God has given you that light and you can let it shine.
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So how do we serve our leaders well? Specifically, number one, give the same respect,
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enthusiasm, and effort we would give God himself. How do we serve our leaders well? We give the same
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amount of respect that we would give to God himself. That's not blasphemous. That's what we are instructed
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to do. As though our master was Christ himself. We give the same amount of respect.
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We don't talk to them or talk, ready for this, about them like we would someone that we don't respect.
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Humanly speaking, you might not respect your master, but you're not serving him. You're not serving her.
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You're serving God. He's your master. So because you love God and you want to let your light shine
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and not be just another contributor to the darkness, not just another employee who's talking bad about
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their supervisor behind their back, who's griping and complaining with legitimate reason and cause,
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instead, you're going to let your light shine and go against the grain and give that same respect
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that you would to God. You're going to give the same enthusiasm that you would if God was your boss.
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You're going to give the same level of enthusiasm. There might be nothing that really appeals to you
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about the work you do on a given day in your job. There might be nothing exciting about that,
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but you're going to get excited about it because you're serving God. You woke up that day and God
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not only kept you alive and kept you fed with a roof over your head and maybe a family to wake up to
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who loves you and loves the Lord and maybe a church family who loves you and loves the Lord. He also
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provided a healthy enough body for you to go to work. He provided a job for you to pay your bills.
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He provided all of this for you. So whatever work that God has put on your plate, you're going to tackle
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it with enthusiasm. Whatever you do, do it heartily. Do it with all your mind, all your soul, all your
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strength as unto the Lord and not unto people. So give the same respect, enthusiasm, and give the same
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effort that we would give for God himself. How many of y'all have ever had a day when you just wanted to
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mail it in? It's like, look, I showed up, okay? I'm here. What more do you want from me? I get it, y'all.
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There are days like that, but that cannot be how we're known. That cannot be the norm for us. And in
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those moments, we've got to find five minutes, whether it's a bathroom break or whatever you got to do,
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and get alone and say, God, I can't today. So you're going to have to, you're going to have to help me.
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Because I don't want to work for them. I want to work for you. And this is the work that you've
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given me to do. Help me to do it as though you had given it to me, because he has. That is the work
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he's given to you. For that day, for that moment, that is the task that he set before you. So that's
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how we serve our leaders well. And then secondly, we work for a heavenly reward. Why? The earthly
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reward may never come. You may not get the promotion. Your business may not take off how
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you thought it would or should. COVID might happen. Sickness might happen. Financial problems
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may crop up. There might be all kinds of problems that keep you from getting the earthly reward
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that you feel like you need or deserve or want. And the truth is, even if you get that heavenly
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reward, even if your ship comes in, so to speak, and it all works out better than you could have
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thought it would, because sometimes God does grant us those blessings and those seasons of plenty.
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Even if that comes in, it does not compare with the heavenly reward that is waiting for those who
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faithfully serve God. So how do we serve our leaders well? We show them respect.
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We show them the enthusiasm and effort that we would show to God. And secondly, we work for our heavenly
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reward. He's promised it. He's promised us an inheritance if we faithfully serve in the here and
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now. Then someday, he's got the someday taken care of. And then finally, leaders. He doesn't leave the
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leaders and bosses out, all right? So leaders, obey God by loving their employees well. Let's look back
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at Ephesians 6 and we'll be done. Verse 9. Masters, treat your slaves in the same way. Now, hopefully
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nobody in here has slaves, all right? But you might have employees. You might have people working for you.
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You might be in the church in a leadership position in our church, whether you're in charge of a
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ministry team or a Sunday school class or in charge of a committee or serve on staff. Whatever leadership
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position that God has placed you in, in the job site, in a charity, in a non-profit, on a board, whatever
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God has placed you in a leadership capacity, you obey God by loving those under you well. Treat your
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slaves in the same way that he instructed slaves to treat their masters. Don't threaten them. Don't
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have that culture of fear. So back in Colossians, we've finished chapter 3, moved into chapter 4 now
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in that same passage over in Colossians. Masters, be just and fair to your slaves. Remember that you also
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have a master in heaven. You're not better than them. You're not greater than they are. God is your
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master, even if he has made you their master. And then Philippians 2, do nothing out of selfish
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ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility, value others above yourselves. How many bosses do you know
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that that characterizes? That describes them accurately. They value others above themselves.
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Anybody ever had a boss like that? Boy, not many, huh? Not many. That's pretty rare, isn't it? Pretty uncommon.
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And if you did have a boss like that, you probably never forgot them. And you wish they were still your
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boss today. That is a rare leadership trait, but it is highly effective. Leaders, it's not your job to have
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all the praise and honor coming to you. It's your job to serve those under you well. It's your job to help
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them succeed. That's why you've been placed in that leadership role. It's not selfish ambition. It's not
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a career maker for you. It's not you trying to climb the ladder and get more for yourself. It's not trying
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to build that ego that's probably already too big. Instead, it's serving others well. So how do we do that?
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How do we love well from a position of leadership? Number one, build a culture of mutual success and
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equality. Build a culture of mutual success and equality. If I succeed, we all succeed. If you
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succeed, we all succeed. We all want to succeed at the same time, not me above you. You're not working
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to contribute to my success, a leader would say. We're all working to be successful together.
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We're all equals in this. And then number two, resist a culture of fear and favoritism. These are
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the two warnings given to us in Ephesians 6 and Colossians 4. Fear and favoritism. Okay, God doesn't
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play favorites and neither should a leader. God doesn't come at us from a perspective of fear.
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You better watch out or I'll get you. That's not how God treats us. So we must not treat others that way.
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People are coming to work every day in fear for their jobs. That's not a healthy culture. That's
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not going to produce what you want it to produce. Same way as parenting. Might work in the here and now,
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but that's not going to work long term. Are you in it for the long term with your employees?
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At the end of the day, my leadership effectiveness is not measured by what I'm able to accomplish,
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but by what those whom I lead are able to accomplish.
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A leader's effectiveness is not measured by what you accomplished, but by what your team accomplished.
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How successful were the people that you were leading?
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This slide came from last week and I kept it in here. The whole theme of this mutual submission,
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mutual service, whether it's husbands and wives, children and parents, bosses and employees,
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it's less hierarchy and more humility. It's less who's in charge and more how can I serve?
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That is an accurate picture of Jesus and that should be an accurate description of us in our
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relationships. So I challenge you, release the pressure of the pecking order. Embrace the blessing
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of mutual service. All right? I'm going to mention this verse again, but I keep mentioning it every
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Sunday. God can change the way we think. It's got to require that, okay? It's got to require God
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changing the way we think. This isn't naturally how we think and how we approach things. God's got to
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do the changing, the transforming within us to make us a new person. So here's a question for you.
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How does God want to change my thinking to see my relationships as he would see them? How does God
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want to change my thinking to see my parent-child relationships, my workplace relationships as God
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would see them? How does he want to change me? We serve God when we willingly serve each other.
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We serve God when we willingly serve each other. Would you bow your heads with me? God, I ask that you
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would reveal this to us. I can't individually apply the truth that you're teaching us here to every life.
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I can't point to relationships that they have with children, with grandchildren, with friends, with
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employees, with supervisors, husbands, wives. I can't walk up to each person in here and say, here's the
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steps you need to make. Here's the changes you need to make. Here's how you need to change your thinking.
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But God, you can do exactly that. So I ask that you would.
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That you would individually speak to every man, woman, and child in this room.
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Right now, in these quiet moments while the piano plays, I ask that you would speak to us, that you
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would open our hearts. Church, with our heads bowed and our eyes closed, let me ask you, let me speak
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to you directly for a moment. Nobody's looking around, but would you be bold enough to slip your hand up if
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you need to put your faith in Jesus for the first time today? If you need to understand that
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you have sinned, you are not perfect, but Jesus came down to this earth, lived a perfect life, and died
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on the cross. Then rose from the dead and proved that he was God.
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And now he says, my death was a sacrifice for you. That blood that was shed on that cross that day
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can cleanse you of all your sin. It can offer you hope now. You can become my child. You can know that
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your future is secure if you'll put your faith in me for the first time. I'm not talking about coming to
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church or being a good person. I'm talking about placing your faith once and for all in Jesus Christ
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for the forgiveness of your sins. If that's you and God's working on you right now, would you slip your
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hand up so I can pray for you?
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Thank you. Let me ask you this question. How many of you would say, God is speaking to me about something else?
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Whether it's putting your membership in this church, whether it's changing how you approach a relationship
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in your life, would you slip your hand up if you just need prayer in this moment? Say, just pray for me
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and I'll pray for you. Would you slip your hand up? Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. You can put your
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hands down. God, you see these hands, but you know what's going on in each heart, in each mind.
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I pray that you would jump right into the middle of that. Don't let the devil get in and convince these
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dear people of deceit and lies. I pray that your Holy Spirit would reign the day.
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And I pray that we as a church would be a church that's known for how well we love.
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And it's in Jesus' name we pray. Amen.