Sermon
Stretch Your Attitude
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Transcript
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Well, let me just go ahead and ask you what the slide's asking you. Have you ever been triggered before?
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! Does everybody even know what I mean by that?
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! Some of you triggered. You're wondering if I'm asking you if you've ever been shot.
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It's not what that means.
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If you've spent any time on the curse that is social media, then you have probably come across somebody saying, you're triggering me?
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It means you are, something is causing in you a powerful negative emotional response.
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And so that's what we're talking about when we say, have you been triggered?
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Listen, that's not the topic of today's sermon, but it is a good lead-in to it.
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And so, what we're actually talking about is controlling our attitude.
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Attitude. Or, to keep it in the theme of our series, Summer Stretch, stretching our attitude.
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We've talked about stretching our time.
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Talked about stretching our talk.
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Last week, we talked about stretching our habits.
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We're trying to break it down into where we live, week in, week out, day in, day out.
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How do we stretch ourselves like God wants to stretch us?
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The easiest thing is to never stretch.
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We did this in week one of this series, and I think some of y'all really enjoyed it.
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So, go ahead. You have permission. Let's all stretch.
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Just get a nice, good one in there.
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That way you don't get it out when I'm about halfway through the sermon,
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and I think that you're falling asleep on me.
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Stretching can feel really nice, right?
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But like we said a few weeks ago, how about when you go to physical therapy?
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Does stretching feel nice at that point?
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If it does, they'll very quickly fix it and make it not feel nice, right?
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That's their job, is to stretch you beyond your comfort zone.
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Well, believe it or not, that's what God wants to do with us, too.
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He wants to stretch us beyond our comfort zone.
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Would you go to Numbers chapter 13?
Numbers 13 chapter mention
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Numbers chapter 13.
Numbers 13 chapter mention
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Today we're going to talk about stretching our attitude.
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I need to go there myself.
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Numbers chapter 13.
Numbers 13 chapter mention
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We're going to look at a few verses in chapter 13,
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and we're going to get into chapter 14 as well.
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We're reading quite a number of scriptures.
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I'm going to let you keep your seats today.
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But as we get into this idea of stretching our attitude,
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let's keep that in the back of our mind as we read through this passage from the Old Testament.
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The Lord spoke to Moses.
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Boy, that ought to get your attention.
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Anytime God is speaking, we ought to listen up, right?
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So the Lord spoke to Moses,
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send men out to scout out the land of Canaan.
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I'm giving to the Israelites.
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Send one man who's a leader among them from each of their ancestral tribes.
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So Moses did it.
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This is, without diving into a lot of the backstory and taking up too much time for you this morning,
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let's just focus on God promised this land to his people.
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And so they have arrived.
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They've gotten out of their captivity in Egypt,
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and they have gotten to the place where he says,
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all right, now it's time to go and scout out this land that I promised to you.
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And so he said, here's how you're going to do it.
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You're going to recruit some spies, some secret agents,
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and these guys are going to go on a top secret mission,
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and they are going to check out this land that I have promised to you.
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So they did it.
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Skip down now, would you, to verse 17.
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Tell you what.
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So let's look back in verse 6.
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One of the spies was Caleb, son of Jephunneh.
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I was waiting to see if anybody corrected my Hebrew, but there you go.
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From the tribe of Judah.
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Then jump down to verse 16.
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These were the names of the men Moses sent to scout out the land,
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and Moses renamed Hosea, son of Nun.
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That's why we didn't read verse 8, Hosea, son of Nun.
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Moses renamed him Joshua.
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Joshua, the son of Nun.
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Who was the only person who had no father and mother?
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Joshua, the son of Nun.
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Thank you.
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I'm a dad.
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I have to throw a dad joke in there somewhere, all right?
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Somebody just got that.
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That's good.
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All right, verse 17.
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When Moses sent them to scout out the land of Canaan,
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just like God had told him to do,
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he told them, go up this way to the Negev.
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Then go into the hill country.
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See what the land is like.
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Whether the people who live there are strong or weak, few or many.
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Is the land they live in good or bad?
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Are the cities they live in encampments or fortifications?
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What's the deal here, guys?
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Give me a good report.
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Verse 20.
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Is the land fertile or unproductive?
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Are there trees in it or not?
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Be courageous.
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Did y'all catch that?
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That was their instruction.
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Be courageous.
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Some of you who already know how this turned out know the significance of that.
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Bring back some fruit from the land.
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By the way, it was the season for the first ripe grapes.
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When we're talking about ripe grapes, this is what we're talking about.
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So let's jump down to verse 27.
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Tell you what, just by sake of the slide on the screen, let's look at verse 23.
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They scouted all this area, then they came to the valley of Eshkel.
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They cut down a branch with a single cluster of grapes.
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Now look, my favorite place to buy grapes is Spring Market.
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Have y'all noticed?
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The grapes there are better than anywhere in Wichita Falls.
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They are awesome.
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I've gotten grapes at I think just about every grocery store in Wichita Falls,
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and the best ones are at Spring Market right here.
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So, now yeah, you know, Costco, or what is it, Sam's Club has the cotton candy grapes and stuff like that.
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But we're not talking about your bougie, just grapes.
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They're good.
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But I have never seen a cluster that looked like that.
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So what did they do?
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They had to carry it on a pole with two guys, one cluster of grapes, unique to this valley of Eshkel.
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So jump down now to verse 27.
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They got back.
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They got home.
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And I can imagine that these guys starting out on their journey had a little different attitude than they did when they got back.
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Why?
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Well, we're going to see in just a minute.
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But starting out, it's like, hey man, this is cool.
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We got selected for a top secret mission.
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This is awesome.
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We're going to go do the spy thing.
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We're going to hang out with our buddies, and we're going to go out, all 12 of us.
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You put 12 guys together on a road trip, you think some hijinks are not going to ensue?
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It's going to get crazy.
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So I'm sure they had themselves a time.
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Until they got to Negev and Hebron and this area where the descendants of Anak were.
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Do you know the significance of that?
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We're about to read it.
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Verse 27.
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They reported to Moses.
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We did it, Moses.
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We accomplished our mission.
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Mission accomplished.
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We went into the land where you sent us.
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Indeed, it is flowing with milk and honey.
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That's an expression that means it was very fertile.
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It was great for growing crops.
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It was good, attractive land that you would want to settle in.
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Here is some of the fruit.
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See, Moses?
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Have a great.
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However, verse 28.
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The people living in the land are strong and the cities are large and fortified.
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We also saw the descendants of Anak there.
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The Amalekites are living in the land of the Negev.
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The Hethites, Jebusites, Amorites live in the country.
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And the Canaanites live by the sea along the Jordan.
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Do you realize who all these people are?
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They're all Israel's enemies.
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They're all big, strong, scary warriors.
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The descendants of Anak were mighty, mighty people.
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So, these guys brought back the grapes.
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And they also brought back this terrifying report
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that this land is inhabited by our strongest enemies.
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God didn't know what he was doing by promising it to us.
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This is crazy.
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We can't go there.
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So, Caleb jumps in.
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Remember those two?
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Joshua, the son of Nun, and Caleb.
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Caleb quieted the people in the presence of Moses.
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Now, why would he have to do that?
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Why would he have to quiet all the Israelite people
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after the ten spies got done talking?
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Fear.
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Because they're scared, right?
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They're freaking out.
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What if I got up here today and said,
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listen, there's a group of people that want to kill us
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and they're all circled outside the church waiting for us to leave.
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Would you all just settle in and enjoy my sermon?
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Some of you would be jumping up.
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I'm packing, baby.
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Let's go.
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Now, there might be a little unrest, right?
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And so, that is what is happening
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as the people are intent on going into this land.
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They've marched there.
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They're ready to go.
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And all of a sudden, it's going to be war.
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So, they start talking.
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Caleb gets up and quiets them in the presence of Moses
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and says, let's go up now and take possession of the land
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because we can certainly conquer it.
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Why would Caleb think that they could take on all their enemies and win?
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Because God's on their side.
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We have this thing called faith, right?
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We believe in the one true almighty God, right?
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He promised us this land, right?
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Okay, let's go take it.
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Do we think he's not strong enough to beat these armies that hate us?
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Of course he is.
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But the men who had gone up with him outvoted him.
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They responded and said, we can't attack the people
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because they're stronger than we are.
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We by ourselves or we with God?
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I'm sure that's what Caleb was trying to make the point.
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So, they gave a negative report to the Israelites
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about the land they had scouted.
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Now, watch this.
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The land we pass through to explore
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is one that devours its inhabitants.
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All the people that we saw in it are men of great size.
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There are no women there, apparently.
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Just men of great size.
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We even saw the Nephilim there.
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The descendants of Anak come from the Nephilim.
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To ourselves, we seemed like grasshoppers,
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and we must have seemed the same to them.
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They went from,
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hey, there are our enemies living in this region,
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to all of a sudden,
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the fish story just got bigger and bigger and bigger,
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and now there's these like mythical creatures
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who are going to eat you
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is kind of how they passed it off to the people of Israel.
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It just kept getting worse and worse and worse
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as they talked.
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The Nephilim,
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if you want to know about the Nephilim,
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talk to Wade Pierce.
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He's sitting back there.
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He can tell you all about it.
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I am not going to take the time in this sermon,
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but go back to the beginning of the Bible.
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We don't even know 100% sure what it's talking about,
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what it says.
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The sons of God came from heaven
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and bore children with the daughters of men,
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and it produced this crazy race or species of people
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that was like giants and huge and massive.
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This is kind of what we're talking about here, okay?
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The little guy on the left down there,
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he's about six feet tall.
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Legend has it,
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they grew as big as like 36 feet tall.
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Who knows, y'all?
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Well, I don't know that we've found dinosaur bones
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or human dinosaur bones
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that would correlate to that,
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but listen,
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saying the word Nephilim
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was like a buzzword around the Israelites.
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Man, what?
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The Nephilim are there?
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And then there was this rumor
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that they were bloodsuckers
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and maybe even cannibalistic,
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and so if we go into the promised land,
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we're going to get eaten.
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That was kind of the terror
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that they were experiencing at this moment.
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And what happened?
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Verse 14,
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the whole community,
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I'm sorry,
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chapter 14, verse 1,
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the whole community broke into loud cries
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and they wept that night.
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Probably had bad dreams too.
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And then they started complaining,
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and then it just got worse from there.
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Now look,
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without following this story on,
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you should keep reading in numbers.
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Fascinating reading right here.
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But without following to its conclusion,
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let's stop
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and see
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what the power
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of your attitude
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can do.
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Your attitude
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can change everything.
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Yours,
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mine,
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it can change
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everything.
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So,
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let's see what
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Paul has to talk about it
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when he was teaching
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Timothy.
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We talked about this
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last week.
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Have nothing to do
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with godless myths
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and old wives' tales.
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I brought this verse back in.
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Because last week
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we talked about training,
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we talked about habits,
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we talked about all that stuff.
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But look,
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this right here
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has exactly to do
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with what those ten spies
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were doing.
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Two of them had faith,
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Caleb and Joshua.
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But the ten,
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their attitude
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was completely overtaken,
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completely changed,
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completely affected
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by fear
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and lack of faith
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in the one
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who had brought them
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all that way.
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So the warning is,
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don't get caught up
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in that trap.
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and then don't
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you be the one
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to spread
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those godless myths
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and old wives' tales.
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And often,
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our attitude
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will make us
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do that.
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If we are
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against something,
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then we'll all of a sudden
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make it sound
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a whole lot worse
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than it really is.
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Because
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we don't want to do it.
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Or we don't like it.
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So we're going to go
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on the attack about it.
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And we're going to
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trump it up in our mind.
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And it's going to
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become bigger
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than it ever
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really is.
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Instead,
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train ourselves
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to be godly.
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Start those habits.
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And we talked about
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that last week.
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So,
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how do we do it?
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How do we stretch
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our attitudes?
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How do we change
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our attitudes?
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First of all,
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we have to understand
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that our attitude
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shapes our perspective.
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Our attitude
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shapes
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our perspective.
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perspective.
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You ever been
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triggered by something?
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Those spies
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got triggered
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by giants.
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Listen,
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I think I would
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probably get
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triggered by giants too.
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If all of a sudden
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God wanted me
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to go out
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and fight a giant,
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I would be
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a little terrified.
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I'd be like,
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God,
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can you put me
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on the phone
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with David
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or something?
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Because I need
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a lesson
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in how to do this.
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But our attitude
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shapes our perspective.
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So,
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if I have
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an attitude
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of faith
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and reliance
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on God
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and he said,
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you get out there
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and fight that giant,
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then I would say,
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God,
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kind of like Peter
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when God told him
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to get out of the boat
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or Peter
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when God told him
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to put the boat
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back into the water
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and go catch fish
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when we've been fishing
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all night
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and caught nothing
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and say,
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God,
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I don't really know
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what you're doing.
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This doesn't seem
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like a good idea.
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It doesn't seem
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like it's going to work.
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But because you told me
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to do it,
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I'll do it.
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Sometimes that's
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enough faith
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to change our attitude
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enough from a no
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to a yes.
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Listen,
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I'm not saying
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that there weren't
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dangerous enemy tribes
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waiting for the Israelites
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in the promised land.
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There were.
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But God was going
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to give them
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victory over them.
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And all they had
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to get to
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was from a no
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to a yes.
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And that is what
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God is waiting
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for me
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and for you
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to do.
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We don't have
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to be sunshine
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and roses
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all the time.
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We don't have
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to be all bubbly
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about everything
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that we feel
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like God
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is leading us
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to do.
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But we have
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to get from
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a no
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to a yes.
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And that's
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going to come
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from our
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perspective.
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So,
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the ten spies'
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perspective
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is fear,
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panic,
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discouragement.
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Joshua and Caleb's
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perspective
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was faith,
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courage,
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and truth.
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They knew.
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They knew
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that God
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would deliver them.
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And the attitude
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shaped
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their perspective
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on it.
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Yes,
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there are enemies,
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but we have
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God on our side.
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So,
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let's go
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take them.
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Let's go
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see God
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win a mighty
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victory.
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Not,
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let's run
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in fear.
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1 John chapter 5
1 John 5 chapter mention
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talks about this.
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Everyone born
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of God
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overcomes
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the world.
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I underline
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that word.
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It's in this verse
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three times,
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these two verses.
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This is the victory
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that has overcome
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the world,
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even our faith.
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It's not our strength,
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it's not our might,
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it's not our smarts,
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it's not how good
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looking we are,
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thankfully.
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It's not how big
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our bank account is,
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thankfully.
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It's not contingent
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on all those
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human things,
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it's contingent
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on our faith
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in almighty God.
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Because if we have
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faith in God,
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then that unlocks
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God's power
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to step in
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and move.
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So this is the victory
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that's overcome
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the world.
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It's our faith.
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Faith is the victory.
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There's an old song
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that said that.
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Who is it
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that overcomes
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the world?
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Only the one
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who believes.
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If you really believe,
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then faith
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will change
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your attitude.
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Faith will change
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your perspective.
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And you can go
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from one
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who cowers
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in fear
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or a negative Nancy,
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so to speak,
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into an overcomer.
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This is what Caleb
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was trying to get
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the Israelites
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to do.
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He was trying
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to break through
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into those spies'
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mind and say,
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listen guys,
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yeah,
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they look scary,
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but we can be
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overcomers.
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So are you
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an overcomer today?
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Does that characterize
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your life?
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Have you been able
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to overcome
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everything that the
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devil throws at you?
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You cannot
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in your strength,
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but by faith
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you can.
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By faith
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you can overcome.
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So attitude
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shapes your perspective.
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Can I get a volunteer
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up here?
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I need a volunteer.
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Christopher,
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I saw your hand first.
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Come on,
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let's go.
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Let's go,
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brother.
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Come on,
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son,
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run,
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let's go.
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Come on,
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let's go.
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I don't get to coach
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anymore,
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I just wanted to do
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something like that.
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All right,
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sir,
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can you look out there
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and see the crowd
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pretty well?
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Yes.
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You see everybody's faces?
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Yes.
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They look nice,
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don't they?
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Some of them.
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Some of them?
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Wow.
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I did not even
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coach him to do that.
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He just,
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we need to stop
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and pray for your
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heart right now.
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All right,
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cool.
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Would you just
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put these on?
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Do you wear glasses?
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Yes.
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You do wear glasses?
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I have contacts.
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You have contacts.
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That ought to make
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this real fun.
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All right,
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here you go,
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man.
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Would you mind
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looking through those
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and just see,
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do they look as clear
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as they did before?
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No.
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No?
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Can you describe
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how they look right now?
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No.
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No?
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There are no words,
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right?
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Can you see Clayton
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waving at you down there
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vaguely?
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Yeah.
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Is it a little blurry?
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Yes.
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Okay.
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Okay.
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That's great,
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man.
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So would you say
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that those lenses
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are affecting your vision
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and how you see
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our beautiful church?
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Yes.
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Okay.
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Good to know.
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Great to know.
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You can take those off.
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Would you say that
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distorted or changed
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your perspective
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a little bit?
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Yes, sir.
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Okay.
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Would you try those on?
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Look at that.
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Pretty cool, right?
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By the way,
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these were Dollar Tree's
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finest lenses right here,
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so.
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What does that do?
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How's everybody look?
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Darker.
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Darker.
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Darker.
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Interesting.
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You can see them
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more clearly probably,
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right?
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Yes.
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But everything's
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a little darker?
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Yes.
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That's cool.
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All right, man.
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Would you take those off?
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You see everybody good again?
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It didn't permanently damage your...
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No.
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All right, good.
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All right.
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Thanks, man.
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That was awesome.
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High five.
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Let's give them a clap.
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You did great, buddy.
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By the way,
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do you want these?
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Here, Chris.
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You can have these.
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Catch.
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Yeah!
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Nice catch.
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That was awesome.
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Brandy was like,
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you are going to kill me.
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Does anybody wear
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3.25 reading lenses?
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Anybody?
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No?
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Just like,
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thumbs down.
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Nobody wants them!
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All right.
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Somebody come get them.
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They're right up here.
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I do not wear them.
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All right.
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The first time
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he looked through
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the enhanced readers,
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y'all looked blurry.
-
I know that
-
because I tried them out
-
myself earlier.
-
He's still wearing them.
-
That's great.
-
You're awesome, Chris.
-
The second time,
-
he could see clearly,
-
but everybody
-
looked darker.
-
Everything looked darker.
-
Now look,
-
that's a silly little example.
-
But the truth is,
-
depending on the lens
-
you are looking through,
-
everything can look
-
a little darker
-
than it really is.
-
Believe me,
-
I've been there.
-
Or,
-
everything can look
-
distorted.
-
And you are not getting
-
an accurate view
-
of what you're looking at.
-
It's all because
-
of your lenses.
-
Y'all didn't change.
-
We didn't change.
-
The truth,
-
reality,
-
did not change.
-
Do you know
-
who always has
-
20-20 vision?
-
God.
-
He's the only one
-
who sees reality
-
as it really is.
-
The rest of us
-
are looking
-
through different lenses.
-
Looking through
-
different lenses
-
at different moments.
-
Those are driven
-
by our emotions.
-
Those are usually
-
driven by circumstances.
-
Those are driven
-
by what's going on
-
around us,
-
the people around us,
-
our experiences,
-
the triggers
-
that set us off.
-
And that immediately
-
changes our lenses.
-
And now,
-
the reality
-
that we're seeing,
-
the people
-
that we're listening to,
-
what we're watching
-
happen in the service,
-
what we're seeing
-
happen in the community,
-
what's happening
-
with our loved ones,
-
our friends,
-
what's happening
-
at home,
-
what's happening
-
the truth about ourselves,
-
those all of a sudden
-
become distorted.
-
We're not seeing it
-
accurately.
-
Or,
-
it might become
-
darker.
-
Everything just doesn't
-
look as bright anymore.
-
Everything doesn't
-
look as cheerful.
-
Everything doesn't
-
look as good.
-
The lenses
-
are our attitudes.
-
And that changes
-
our perspective.
-
Philippians 4.8
-
tells us
-
how to combat that.
-
Think on
-
these things.
-
Whatever's true,
-
whatever's righteous,
-
whatever's worthy
-
of praise,
-
there's a whole list.
-
Philippians 4.8.
-
This is what you think on.
-
This is what shapes
-
your attitude.
-
So,
-
what you look through,
-
the lens you look through,
-
shapes how you see life.
-
And a small shift
-
in that perspective
-
can have big impact
-
in your life.
-
number two.
-
Number two.
-
Before we get there,
-
I forgot to put this up there.
-
Do you see obstacles
-
or a chance
-
to overcome?
-
Do you see obstacles
-
or a chance
-
to overcome?
-
You can put that
-
in your bulletin.
-
Caleb was trying
-
to get the people
-
to be overcomers,
-
but the lens
-
those spies
-
were looking at
-
changed their
-
opportunity
-
to overcome
-
into obstacles
-
that they just
-
could not see past.
-
You ever been there?
-
Had an obstacle
-
in your life
-
you just can't see
-
how to get around?
-
God says
-
you can be an overcomer.
-
You might have
-
to take the long way.
-
Might be tough
-
going through it.
-
But God says
-
nothing is too hard
-
for Him.
-
You've got Him
-
if you're His child.
-
Now look,
-
if you're not
-
His child this morning,
-
then I can't help you.
-
You've got to take
-
that first step.
-
You have to take
-
that first step.
-
Become a child of God.
-
Recognize that
-
Jesus Christ
-
came and died
-
for your sins.
-
Not for anything
-
He did wrong,
-
but for your sins,
-
for mine.
-
Sacrificed His life
-
on the cross
-
and then rose
-
back from the dead.
-
We heard a wonderful
-
gospel presentation
-
from Ford Bachman
-
on his video
-
this morning
-
before he got baptized.
-
He put his faith
-
in that.
-
So many in this room
-
have put their faith
-
in the saving power
-
of Jesus
-
to forgive your sin,
-
to make you His child,
-
to give you a home
-
in heaven forever.
-
That's step number one.
-
And then,
-
God can help you
-
change your perspective.
-
God can help you
-
look through His lens,
-
not yours.
-
Point number two,
-
wow,
-
I am really getting
-
ahead of myself
-
and I apologize for that.
-
Before we get there,
-
oh,
-
that was not supposed
-
to be in there.
-
That's like an old version
-
of my slide.
-
Sorry guys,
-
I gave you the wrong thing.
-
Let's move along.
-
That was last week.
-
If you missed it last week,
-
it's on YouTube.
-
Here we go.
-
How do we stretch
-
our attitudes?
-
Our attitudes shape
-
the people around us.
-
Isn't that interesting?
-
Our attitudes do not
-
just shape our perspective,
-
they also shape our people.
-
They affect the people
-
that you care about.
-
I can promise you,
-
when I've got a rotten attitude,
-
everyone in my home knows it.
-
And Bo is like the biggest
-
empath in the world,
-
you know,
-
he feels deeply
-
and so he will come to me
-
and be like,
-
Dad,
-
are you stressed?
-
I'm like,
-
man,
-
you're too young
-
to be asking me that.
-
Yes,
-
I am.
-
Sorry.
-
But you know what?
-
It helps me start
-
changing my attitude
-
because it's like,
-
yeah,
-
you know,
-
it's affecting the kids
-
and they don't need
-
to carry that burden
-
right now.
-
Truth is,
-
I don't even need
-
to carry that burden
-
right now.
-
I need to give it
-
back to Jesus.
-
He's the one
-
who can carry it.
-
So our attitude
-
shapes our people.
-
Ephesians 4,
-
29,
-
do not let any
-
unwholesome talk
-
come out of your mouths
-
but only what is helpful
-
for building others up.
-
We talked about that
-
a couple weeks ago.
-
We talked about shaping
-
our talk,
-
building others up,
-
not tearing them down,
-
according to their needs
-
that it may benefit
-
those who listen.
-
I promise you,
-
someone is always listening.
-
Someone is always watching.
-
Someone is always affected.
-
And I'm not even
-
talking about the sense
-
in that someone's
-
checking up on you.
-
I'm talking about the sense
-
that whatever you do,
-
say,
-
think,
-
it affects others.
-
And usually,
-
the ones that affect the most
-
are the ones you care
-
about the most.
-
The ones I care about the most.
-
So let's benefit
-
those under the sound
-
of our voice.
-
Those in our circle
-
of influence.
-
The ten spies
-
fear,
-
spread,
-
panic.
-
You know what else it did?
-
Their negative attitude
-
caused Israel
-
to wander
-
in the desert
-
for 40 years.
-
But Joshua
-
and Caleb,
-
their response
-
was faith.
-
The people of Israel
-
still had to pay the price.
-
But Joshua
-
and Caleb
-
and all their families
-
got to go
-
into the promised land
-
someday.
-
Because they had faith.
-
Their attitude
-
of faith
-
affected
-
those around them
-
positively.
-
Those spies'
-
attitude of fear
-
affected all the people
-
negatively.
-
Ephesians 4.29
-
told us
-
to speak
-
words that
-
build up,
-
not tear down.
-
Can I tell you something?
-
Attitudes
-
are contagious.
-
You saw what happened
-
with the children of Israel.
-
Those guys
-
started telling
-
their tall tales
-
of just how bad it was
-
and they're going to get eaten
-
and all that stuff.
-
And what happened?
-
The people
-
lost it.
-
They freaked out.
-
That attitude
-
was contagious
-
and it spread
-
like wildfire
-
through the people.
-
So if attitudes
-
are contagious,
-
make yours worth catching.
-
Caleb and Joshua's
-
attitude was worth
-
catching that day.
-
Not too many
-
caught it.
-
So,
-
look at the person
-
next to you,
-
would you?
-
Say,
-
watch your attitude
-
around me.
-
Come on,
-
y'all can do it.
-
Say,
-
watch your attitude
-
around me.
-
I don't want
-
to catch
-
your bad attitude.
-
The kids
-
are having
-
way too much fun
-
saying this
-
to their parents,
-
man.
-
Bible says
-
respect your parents,
-
alright?
-
Honor them.
-
But listen,
-
sometimes parents,
-
we got to watch
-
our attitudes
-
around our kids.
-
Sometimes kids,
-
you got to watch
-
your attitude
-
around your parents
-
or around your siblings
-
or around your friends.
-
sometimes parents,
-
we got to watch
-
our attitudes
-
around each other.
-
We got to watch
-
our attitudes
-
in moments of conflict,
-
moments of disagreement.
-
Watch your attitude
-
around me.
-
Why?
-
Because it's contagious.
-
Because it can affect
-
so much.
-
It not only
-
affects your perspective,
-
it affects the people
-
around you.
-
And then number three,
-
your attitude
-
shapes your path.
-
It shapes
-
where you're going.
-
It shapes
-
what you're heading,
-
where you're heading.
-
Anybody like
-
Patti LaBelle?
-
Nobody likes
-
Patti LaBelle
-
in that room.
-
Okay, alright,
-
thank you.
-
Penny,
-
count on somebody.
-
I'm feeling good
-
from my head
-
to my shoes,
-
know where I'm going
-
and I know what to do.
-
I tidied up
-
my point of view.
-
I got a
-
new attitude.
-
There you go,
-
alright.
-
Nobody listens
-
to that stuff.
-
That's alright.
-
Listen,
-
I went through
-
that song,
-
I was like,
-
is there anything
-
wicked or unbiblical
-
in this song?
-
We're like,
-
no,
-
alright,
-
we're safe.
-
Look,
-
did you catch
-
that line though?
-
That's a silly
-
kind of example,
-
but did you catch
-
that line,
-
I know where I'm going
-
and I know what to do.
-
Why?
-
Because I got
-
a new attitude.
-
You know when you
-
usually don't know
-
where you're going
-
or what to do
-
is when you got
-
a rotten attitude
-
about life.
-
And that's when
-
you're kind of
-
sitting around like,
-
I don't know
-
what to do.
-
Like,
-
no,
-
but God does.
-
If you start
-
looking through
-
the lens of the Holy Spirit,
-
all of a sudden
-
He tells you
-
what to do.
-
The next thing is,
-
go make up
-
with your wife.
-
Go make up
-
with your kids.
-
Go make up
-
with your brother
-
or sister in Christ.
-
Go open the Bible
-
and read it.
-
Go for a walk.
-
The dog probably
-
wants to.
-
God will help you
-
figure out
-
what to do next.
-
It'll shape
-
your path.
-
And usually
-
what God's going
-
to do
-
is give you
-
the next thing,
-
not the next
-
hundred things
-
that's going to
-
take you ten years
-
to accomplish.
-
He's got all that
-
figured out,
-
but your attitude
-
day in
-
and day out,
-
moment by moment
-
will shape
-
the path
-
that you're on.
-
So,
-
Romans chapter 8
Romans 8 chapter mention
-
and verse 6,
-
the mind governed
-
by the flesh
-
is death,
-
but the mind
-
governed
-
by the Spirit
-
is life
-
and peace.
-
I love that
-
it uses
-
the word governed.
-
We've got some
-
people in the room
-
who are in
-
county government.
-
We've got some
-
people in the room
-
who are in
-
school government.
-
We've got some
-
people who understand
-
firsthand what
-
governing is.
-
It's a legal
-
term.
-
Whose laws
-
are you living
-
by?
-
Whose laws
-
are governing
-
your mind?
-
Is it your
-
own?
-
Is it mine?
-
Is it society's?
-
Is it culture?
-
What's governing
-
you?
-
Your weaknesses?
-
Your flesh?
-
Your rotten
-
attitude?
-
The mind
-
governed
-
by the Spirit
-
equals
-
life
-
and peace.
-
We're all
-
chasing peace,
-
aren't we?
-
We all just
-
want that
-
inner peace.
-
Gurus
-
and shamans
-
and everybody
-
out there,
-
self-help
-
people,
-
they're all
-
trying to
-
figure out
-
how to get
-
inner peace.
-
Jesus
-
is the
-
only way
-
to find
-
peace.
-
God
-
gave us
-
his Spirit
-
to walk
-
with us
-
every moment,
-
never leaves
-
us.
-
So let
-
him govern
-
your mind.
-
And that's
-
kind of how I
-
want to close
-
this morning.
-
Whose laws
-
are you living
-
by?
-
Or we could
-
ask it this
-
way.
-
What lens
-
are you looking
-
through?
-
Christopher,
-
thanks for being
-
a good sport
-
up here.
-
He's still
-
looking through
-
those lenses.
-
It was a
-
little bright
-
in the room,
-
wasn't it?
-
Now it's all
-
darker,
-
yeah.
-
The lenses
-
make a
-
difference.
-
That cityscape
-
is so blurry
-
until you put
-
on the
-
correct lenses.
-
Change
-
your lens,
-
change
-
your life.
-
That's our
-
takeaway this
-
morning.
-
Change your
-
lens,
-
change your
-
life.
-
It's my
-
challenge to
-
all of you,
-
to all of
-
us.
-
Whatever
-
is going
-
on,
-
it doesn't
-
really
-
matter.
-
What
-
triggers me
-
is different
-
than what
-
might trigger
-
you.
-
When the
-
longhorns
-
lose,
-
I get
-
triggered,
-
all right?
-
But there's
-
serious stuff,
-
isn't there?
-
If everything's
-
not okay with
-
me and my
-
wife,
-
I get
-
triggered.
-
She knows
-
that.
-
It's like,
-
I gotta have
-
everything okay.
-
I don't need
-
to be looking
-
through my
-
lens at that
-
moment.
-
I need to be
-
looking through
-
the lens of
-
the Holy Spirit.
-
So moment
-
by moment,
-
whatever the
-
conflict is,
-
whatever triggers
-
you,
-
whatever's going
-
on in your
-
little world,
-
give it to
-
Jesus and
-
say,
-
God,
-
change my
-
lens.
-
Change my
-
lens right
-
now.
-
I might be
-
looking through
-
a blurry
-
lens and it's
-
distorted.
-
I'm not seeing
-
an accurate
-
picture of
-
this situation.
-
I might be
-
looking through
-
a polarized
-
lens and
-
everything's a
-
little darker
-
and it changes
-
the color and
-
things just
-
don't look
-
as good as
-
I know you
-
really are.
-
So God,
-
change my
-
lens.
-
Would you
-
make that your
-
prayer this
-
morning?
-
Would you
-
bow your
-
heads with
-
me right
-
now?
-
I've been
-
trying to give
-
you a little
-
prayer to say
-
and listen,
-
this is not
-
anything magical,
-
it's just
-
helping you
-
out if you
-
need that.
-
So I'll
-
give you this
-
right now and
-
if you'd like
-
to pray it in
-
your heart,
-
if you'd like
-
to pray it
-
out loud,
-
you can do
-
this.
-
God,
-
help me see
-
through the
-
lens of
-
trusting you.
-
I'll say it
-
one more time
-
if you need
-
to hear it
-
again.
-
God,
-
help me see
-
through the
-
lens of
-
trusting you.
-
Change my
-
attitude and
-
change my
-
life.
-
Change my
-
attitude and
-
change my
-
life.
-
In Jesus'
-
name,
-
amen.
-
God,
-
that is what
-
we pray for
-
in this room.
-
God,
-
there are
-
people who
-
don't know
-
you personally
-
as Savior
-
in this room.
-
I believe
-
that in a
-
group this
-
size,
-
it'd be
-
foolish to
-
think otherwise.
-
I'm sure
-
the majority
-
of the people
-
in the room
-
would raise
-
their hand
-
and say,
-
yes,
-
I'm a
-
Christ follower.
-
I do my
-
best to
-
follow Jesus.
-
Truth is,
-
we don't
-
always do
-
our best.
-
But God,
-
we just
-
don't want
-
to say no.
-
We want
-
to get to
-
that amount
-
of faith
-
where we say
-
yes to
-
whatever you're
-
telling us
-
to do.
-
There might
-
be somebody
-
in the room
-
who needs
-
to put on
-
the lens
-
of your
-
Holy Spirit
-
and say,
-
I see
-
how God
-
wants me
-
to see
-
this.
-
I'm going
-
to stop
-
looking at
-
it through
-
the lens
-
of my
-
selfishness,
-
my pride,
-
my self-centeredness,
-
my lack
-
of experience,
-
my lack
-
of wisdom.
-
God,
-
you're the
-
fountain of
-
all that,
-
so let me
-
see through
-
your lens
-
and trust
-
you
-
in this
-
situation.
-
How many
-
of you would
-
raise your
-
hand and say
-
there's something
-
going on in
-
my life
-
that I need
-
to trust
-
God in
-
and ask
-
him to help
-
my perspective
-
on it,
-
change my
-
attitude on it.
-
Would you
-
slip your hand
-
up right now?
-
Thank you.
-
Thank you.
-
Thank you.
-
Thank you.
-
Some of you are
-
in prayer and I don't
-
want to disturb you
-
from that.
-
Would you just
-
keep your seats
-
for a moment?
-
Linda's praying.
-
If you need somebody
-
to come pray with,
-
Jared and I are
-
up here,
-
you can come
-
grab us.
-
If you need
-
to turn around
-
and kneel
-
in your seat,
-
do that.
-
If you need
-
to come kneel
-
at these steps,
-
do that.
-
Whatever you
-
need to do
-
to do business
-
with God
-
for just a
-
moment.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.