Faith That Forms Generations: How Mothers Shape the Church

And we thank you, Lord, today for the women who have shaped our faith through

quiet obedience, through sincere love.

Strengthen every mother here today, every grandmother here to remain faithful

in the small, the unseen moments, trusting that, Lord, that you're at work beyond what they can see.

Lord, and anchor the next generation in a deep, genuine faith in Jesus,

Lord, that echoes for years and years to come.

In Jesus' mighty name we pray.

Amen. Amen. It's great again to see y'all today.

We're talking about a faith that forms generations.

And we pause like we did to honor the mothers and grandmothers in our midst,

the women who carried us, who raised us, who prayed for us, changed us,

corrected us, fed us, forgave us, and loved us.

In ways we often don't understand until much, much later.

Mother's Day is not just a sentimental day or a holiday, right?

It's sacred, y'all, because whether the world sees it or not,

motherhood is one of the most influential callings on earth.

And nations rise and fall. Churches grow and decline.

Cultures actually shift. But long before any of that happens,

someone is shaping a child's heart.

At a kitchen table. When the Apostle Paul actually writes to his young protege,

Timothy, he could have started with Timothy's leadership, his courage,

or his gifting, but you know he doesn't.

He actually reaches back further, and as we see in this opening slide,

he writes in 2 Timothy 1, verse 5,

2 Timothy 1:5

he said, I am reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother

Lois and in your mother Eunice.

And I am persuaded now lives in you also.

Before Timothy was a pastor, he was a son.

Before he actually preached sermons, he watched faith at home.

Before he led a church, he was led by his mother and grandmother.

Paul actually understood something I don't think we can miss here at all.

The future of the church is shaped in living rooms long before it's ever seen

on platforms, right? Or in any other leadership area.

And to every mother, to every grandmother in the room today,

what you do, what you do matters more than you know.

The prayers that are whispered at a bedside, the scripture read in exhaustion

sometimes, the forgiveness that's extended after a hard day.

Those aren't small acts.

Those are generational seeds. The most powerful spiritual formation often happens

in rooms where nobody is applauding.

And today here at Eastwood Baptist, we're going to see that God takes that quiet,

faithful day in, day out obedience, and he uses it to actually shape generations.

So as we think about this, if Paul traces Timothy's bold, his enduring faith

back to his mother and grandmother,

the question becomes this, how does that kind of faith actually take root?

What was happening in that home that shaped a young man into a courageous leader?

I think the answer begins with this. Faith that shapes generations is first

lived before it's ever explained.

Some would even say that faith is caught before it is taught.

And that really is our first point today.

Sincere faith is caught before it is taught. And Paul says in 2 Timothy 1.5,

I am reminded of your sincere faith.

Reminded of your sincere faith. That word sincere, by the way,

means unhypocritical, without a mask, in other words. It's real.

It's consistent. It's integrated.

It's integrated. And Timothy wasn't formed by perfectly crafted theology,

when you look at it here, and doctrine necessarily.

He watched faith under pressure in his home.

He witnessed y'all real repentance in his closest relatives.

He actually saw prayer that looked to God when life felt uncertain.

Y'all children don't just absorb what we say, do they? They absorb how we live.

They actually mimic our moves, right? And our moods, by the way, and our mouths.

That's why scripture, y'all, consistently roots discipleship in just everyday life.

You know, Deuteronomy chapter 6, God says this. He says, impress these commands on your children.

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Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road.

Or we might say when you go to Walmart, right?

Okay, wherever it is you're going. And not once a week, not just in a crisis

moment, but woven into normal, mundane, repetitive tasks, y'all.

Everyday life, in other words. And then y'all all know this verse. I know you do.

Proverbs 22, verse 6 says this.

Proverbs 22:6

It says, start children off on the way they should go.

In other words, if you teach them in the way they should go,

when they're old, they won't depart from it. implying that direction,

consistency, intentionality there.

Mothers, this means that your bedtime prayers matter.

Your apology after you actually lose patience, that matters.

Your decision to worship when life is crowded, heavy, that matters,

y'all. Every bit of it. your consistency.

When nobody else is watching, that matters because your children,

your grandchildren are not just listening to your faith.

They're learning how to live by watching you.

Wow. I kind of think about just as compound interest grows exponentially over

time through little, small, constant deposits, generational faith that we're

talking about today works the same way.

You know, a $5 daily investment over 30 years becomes over $100,000 if you're

just getting 7% interest return.

And similarly, five minutes of bedtime prayer repeated faithfully compounds

spiritually across decades, y'all, generations.

The power isn't in the size of

the deposit, in other words. It's in the consistency and the time horizon.

Timothy's faith here is really the compound interest, if you will,

of Lois and Eunice's daily deposits.

They're faithful living in front of him.

Because again, your children are not just listening to your faith.

They're learning how to live by watching you.

As we see in this next slide, Elizabeth Elliot actually said this. She said it this way.

She said the process of shaping the child shapes also the mother herself.

Reverence for her sacred burden calls

her to all that is pure and good that she

may teach primarily by her

own humble daily example y'all it's the small things right it's the small things

timothy's bold public faith didn't start on a stage it started where in a home

it started where faith was real, didn't it?

Day in and day out. So if we want a faith, y'all, that shapes generations,

it begins when a faith that is sincere, a faith that is actually lived,

a faith that is real at home.

It starts in the home, y'all. And that's really point number two today,

as we see, the home is a God-ordained discipleship platform.

We often think ministry happens on stages. We think it happens in church buildings,

under lights, behind microphones. But when you read the scripture,

when you read God's word, God keeps bringing us back somewhere much more ordinary.

Kitchens, living room tables, dinner tables, bedtime conversations.

Because long before faith is ever performed or platformed, really, it's formed in the home.

It's formed in the home. You see, we see that pattern really all throughout

the Bible, really. You know, think about Hannah.

She doesn't just pray for a son in 1 Samuel chapter 1, does she?

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She actually disciples Samuel through that prayer.

Before he ever hears the voice of God in the temple, he's shaped by a mother

who knows how to seek God.

Y'all, this is so important. Luke chapter one and two.

Mary models something very profound to us, not just motherhood,

but you know what? Surrender.

Listen to what she says. I am the Lord's servant. May it be to me as you have said.

And then later it says she treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart.

Y'all, Jesus grows up in an environment where obedience to God is normal,

where surrender is actually lived out, not just spoken about.

You know, I have a question for us all today. If a stranger lived with you for

a week, what would they hear repeated most in your home?

Would it be criticism or encouragement?

Would it be anxiety or trust? Would it be complaints or would it be gratitude?

Would it be entertainment or would it be scripture?

What echoes in your home and my home will eventually echo in your children's hearts?

Timothy here echoed what he learned from Lois and Eunice.

The question for all of us today is what will your children echo?

What will they echo? And then you get to Timothy again here.

Paul doesn't say, Timothy, I'm so glad I taught you everything you know.

He didn't say that, did he?

Again, he points backwards.

In 1 Timothy 1.5, he says that faith is first lived in your grandmother Lois

and in your mother Eunice.

And then in 2 Timothy 3, by the way, in verse 14 and 15, he actually reminds

Timothy, this is important, y'all, from infancy, you have known the Holy Scriptures.

Y'all, it's never too early to start, is it?

I mean, before Paul ever discipled Timothy, before Timothy ever stepped into

ministry, his foundation was laid at home.

That's how God works, Eastwood. Over and over again, he chooses homes as his

primary training ground for world changers, y'all.

Which means that we got to be honest about something.

If we outsource discipleship entirely to the church, you know what's going to happen?

You're going to raise consumers and not disciples.

The church was never meant to replace the home.

It was meant to reinforce what's happening in the home.

Because the home is not just where kids sleep, is it? It's where they learn what matters.

It's where they see genuine faith lived out, executed.

It's where their worldview is formed. It's where their identity is shaped.

It's where they begin to understand who God is. not just by what's said again,

but y'all by what's lived.

Ephesians chapter six, verse four, Paul actually says this. He says,

bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.

That word there, bring them up, that phrase, bring them up.

It carries the idea of y'all of nourishing, of cultivating, of intentionally forming.

And that doesn't just happen accidentally, does it?

It happens through what? through presence, through conversations,

through correction, yes, and also through grace.

It happens in a thousand small moments that don't feel spiritual at all.

But over time, y'all, they become deeply spiritual.

And this calling is bigger than just biological motherhood as well.

Did you know in Titus chapter 2, verses 3 through 5, you remember this,

Titus 2:3–5

older women are called to teach and train younger women in the church.

That's not a suggestion by the way. That's a model for generational discipleship.

So as we see in this next slide, it means just this.

Spiritual motherhood is biblical.

Mentorship is biblical. Investing in the next generation, whether they share

your last name or not, that is biblical.

Some of the most Powerful discipleship doesn't happen through programs, does it?

You know what happens through proximity, through relationships?

Through somebody saying, come walk with me as I follow Jesus.

Because when the home actually becomes a discipleship platform,

when faith is actually lived, when it's talked about and passed on intentionally,

it doesn't impact just one life, does it?

It actually builds generations, which leads us to point number three.

Generational faith is built through small repetitive yeses anchored in the gospel.

Wow. When you look at this passage, you see a progression, don't you?

Lois, Eunice, Timothy.

Wow. I mean, it's easy to read that quickly and miss what's really happening,

I think, because that's not a viral moment.

It's a lifetime of quiet, consistent faithfulness.

Generational faith, in other words, is built through small, repeated yeses.

Yes, I'll pray again. Yes, I'll open God's word again. Yes, I'll forgive again.

Yes, I'll trust God again. Yes, I'll show up again.

And most of the time, if we're honest, it doesn't feel significant at the embalmment sometimes.

You know how it feels? It feels ordinary. It feels repetitive.

Sometimes it even feels like it's not working. Sometimes it may get overwhelming.

But scripture, I want y'all to know this today, tells a different story.

In Psalm chapter 78, verses 4 through 7, it says this, we will tell the next

Psalms 78:4–7

generation the praiseworthy deeds of the Lord so the next generation would know them,

and they in turn would tell their children.

Do you see the pattern there?

Tell so they know, so they tell.

Let me repeat it. Tell so they know, so they tell.

That's generational faith, and it doesn't happen through one moment.

It happens through ongoing rhythms systems of faithfulness.

Consistency is lived out in proximity over time.

In other words, right in your home, close, close.

But here's where we have to be really clear, I think, today,

because that's where people can, I think, drift into pressure or performance if we're not careful.

Timothy's faith, as we see in this passage today, wasn't just about behavior.

It was anchored in the gospel, anchored in the gospel.

Because a few verses later, 2 Timothy 1, verses 9 and 10, listen to this.

2 Timothy 1:9

Paul reminds him of something.

He says, he has saved us, talking about the Lord, and called us,

not because of anything we have done, but because of his own purpose and grace.

And then in 2 Timothy 3.15, he actually says, the holy scriptures are able to

make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus.

In other words, Eastwood, Timothy wasn't just raised to be a good person,

because there's not nothing good we've done, right? None are good. No, not one.

He was pointed to a savior, wasn't he?

And that's important because it helps us to reframe, if you will, the entire calling.

And as you see in this next slide, mothers are not called to produce perfect children.

They're called to point to a perfect savior. Amen.

Called to point to a perfect savior. You're not responsible for saving your children.

You are not responsible for controlling every outcome. You're not.

But guess what? You are responsible for faithfulness.

1 Corinthians 3, verses 6 and 7, Paul says this.

1 Corinthians 3:6

He said, I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God has been making it grow.

That's the model. you plant, you water, you show up again and again,

and God brings the growth.

Which really means this. You don't control the outcome, do you?

But you know what you do? You steward the input.

You don't control the outcome, but you steward the input. And that should,

I think, y'all both humble us all and free us too.

Because some of you, some of you mothers maybe even today are wondering,

is this working? Am I doing enough?

Am I getting this right?

And the answer that scripture gives is this, stay faithful in the small things.

In Galatians 6 verse 9, we're reminded, let us not grow weary in doing good.

Galatians 6:9

For at the proper time, we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.

The harvest is real, but it's rarely immediate, is it?

Lois and Eunice likely never saw the full ripple effect of Timothy's life.

You know, they didn't see every sermon or hear every sermon he would preach,

every church he would strengthen, every life that would be impacted.

But heaven did. Come on, heaven saw. And here's the hope we hold on to today.

God multiplies what you faithfully pour out.

Not a single prayer is wasted mothers not a moment of obedience is overlooked

not a single quiet act of faithfulness is insignificant in the kingdom of god

so here's my challenge keep saying yes keep showing up keep pointing to who jesus.

Because over time, those small repeated yeses anchored in the gospel don't only

shape one life, they shape generations.

Isn't that the kind of faith you want to have? You know, someday someone will

describe the faith of the next generation.

And when they do, what will they say?

Excuse me, what will they say? I remember their talent. I remember their success.

I remember their platform. Or will they say, I remember their sincere faith.

And I saw in it first in their mother, their grandmother, adopted mother,

auntie, whatever, right?

That's the legacy Paul points us to in 2 Timothy 1 verse 5.

2 Timothy 1:5

Before Timothy was a leader, he was shaped by faithful women who loved God in ordinary rooms.

That's the legacy, y'all, that outlives everything else.

So what do we do with that this morning? Three things I want to share with you,

and they each have a slide. And here's the first one.

Model repentance as much as obedience.

Did you hear it? Model repentance as much as obedience. Your children don't need a perfect mother.

They need a humble one.

Let them see grace at work in you. And then second, establish small, repeatable rhythms,

short prayer, scripture at dinner or wherever it's appropriate in your family,

blessing before bed, keep it sustainable.

Generational faith is built in repetition, not intensity, right?

And then lastly, number three, play the long game. Don't panic over seasons.

Don't measure your calling by a bad week.

Seeds grow underground before they ever break the surface, right?

And hear this clearly again today.

You are not responsible for saving your children.

Jesus already accomplished that work. You are responsible for faithfulness.

God multiplies what you faithfully pour out.

So to every mother this morning who feels unseen, to every grandmother praying

for prodigals to every spiritual mother wondering if it matters.

It all matters because the sincere faith that's lived in you today may echo

in somebody else for generations to come, y'all.

That's the kind of faith that Paul saw in Timothy's mother and grandmother.

And I pray that's the kind of faith that God sees in every mother today that's here. Let's pray.

Father God, I thank you again for your word today. I thank you for the high

and holy calling that you give to our mothers today.

I thank you for the many hours and the faithfulness.

God, I thank you for a godly mother.

I thank you, Lord, for the impact, the influence, because I saw it lived out in front of me.

I didn't see a hypocrite. I saw a faithful follower of Jesus.

I didn't see a perfect one, but I saw a humble one who repented when she needed

to and who said, I'm wrong, please forgive me when she needed to,

and who taught us to do the same.

God, I pray every person in this room today are thankful for their mothers who've

lived this kind of faith.

We give you all the glory and all the praise in Jesus' name.

Right now this morning, as Ms. Sharon plays softly. I want to challenge each

of us today as we stand together, heads bow just for a moment to shut out distractions.

First of all, if you're thankful that God has given you the type of mother that

we see here that Paul talks about in Timothy's life or grandmother,

today ought to be today you're just saying, thank you, Jesus.

Just saying, praise you, Lord.

And today, maybe the moms that are here, maybe you needed encouragement today.

Maybe you needed to see that what you're doing really does matter.

And that some of you today may have said, you know what? I realize today that

I can't live out generational faith because I don't have that faith.

And if that's you today, I pray right now where you're at, God's Holy Spirit

has convicted your heart that, you know what?

My first step is to humble myself under the mighty hand of God,

to say, God, please forgive me, Lord, for my sin.

Cleanse my heart, Lord. I want to be made right with you, Lord,

so I can love and live and be faithful for my kids, for my grandkids.

That may be your prayer today. And I pray if that is, I pray as you come before

God and your posture of your heart is one of repentance and faith,

and you know that He died for you, died in your place on the cross,

He rose again on the third day, that right now you can say, Lord, forgive me a sinner.

Lord, forgive me. Lord, change my heart. And if that's you, I encourage you

to step out today, to come down this aisle to let others know so we can rejoice with heaven with you.

Some of you may have been praying about what God would have you do in your family.

Maybe today's the day that, I don't know, maybe you join Eastwood Baptist Church

because this is where God has led you to serve.

Maybe there's some area in your life, something that you need to be humble about

or to forgive or to love or to shape generations for the future.

I challenge you, whatever business God wants you to do with Him,

that you step out in faith and do that.

Step out in faith. Come before Him. Don't leave this place the same as you came in.

Do business with your God today.