Sermon
A Family Tragedy
Publisher transcript
Transcript
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Well, good evening everyone.
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Somebody out there, it's very bright, light's shining on me.
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It's great to be here with you in Brentsfield.
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Again, can I wish you a very happy new year and God's blessing,
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a year of change for you as a church.
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I've been praying for you, for Graham, for the elders,
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the team that God's going to bless you richly in this coming year.
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Well, Christmas is over.
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Remember, we now have grandchildren aged five and three,
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so we've been discovering the delights of children's toys,
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which are very different to the toys that we had when we were growing up,
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says he, having just had his 70th birthday.
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Pause for gas of amazement there, thank you.
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So among all the presents, of course, the children want to know what you're going to buy them,
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and we got them one or two things,
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but my wife had the inspired idea that it was important for them to experience something a little more traditional.
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So we bought them,
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I do tell you this is not the only thing we bought them,
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but we did buy them a box set of traditional stories as well.
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Now you all know fairy stories.
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They always begin with the same words.
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So what do fairy stories begin with?
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Once upon a time.
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It's a story.
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It begins once upon a time,
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and then that follows a story.
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Many twists and turns,
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and they always end with the same words,
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which are?
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And they all lived happily ever after.
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Now this book,
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66 books,
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makes up one book
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that is the story.
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It's the story of the Bible.
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And it begins not with a fictional statement,
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but with a factual statement,
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which you've got on your back wall
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in a variety of different languages.
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It begins not with once upon a time.
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It says,
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in the beginning,
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God.
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The Bible is a story.
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It begins with God,
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a God who creates the world
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in all its perfection.
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Everything he makes is good.
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It's a perfect world.
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And when he's finished creating the crown of his creation,
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the man and the woman,
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he saw that everything was very good.
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Unfortunately,
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did not remain very good,
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because Genesis 1 and 2 in the Bible
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are followed by Genesis 3.
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And sadly,
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our first parents rebelled against God,
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went their own way,
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with the result that a fallen world
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is the consequence.
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With disastrous consequences for them,
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and for the created order.
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Now thankfully,
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the Bible does not end at Genesis 3.
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It would be a very short book,
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and we would have a very short history.
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Because God,
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in his great love,
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determines to put things right,
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and to restore human beings
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to the relationship for which we are made
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to know and love God.
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And this,
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of course,
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culminates in a redeemed world,
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focusing finally
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in the coming to earth
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of God's Son
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that we've just celebrated
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at Christmas time.
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the Son of God
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who lives the life
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we could never live,
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who dies the death
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that we deserved
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in our place,
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who is declared with power
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to be God's Son
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by raising him from the dead,
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is raised to life,
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he ascends into heaven,
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and the last book of the Bible,
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this is a very potted history
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of a long book,
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but at the very end of it,
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the very last book,
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the very last chapter,
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we have a wonderful picture
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of a restored world.
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And in a sense,
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they all lived happily ever after.
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Well, not all, sadly.
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And so the final book of the Bible
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looks forward
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to the return from heaven
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of Jesus,
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God's Son.
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And then the curtain
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of human history
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will come down,
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and it ends in this way.
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It says,
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he who testifies
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to these things says,
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yes,
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I'm coming soon.
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Amen,
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come Lord Jesus.
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And then there's a
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kind of little postscript,
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the grace of the Lord Jesus
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be with God's people.
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Now,
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we live our lives
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within this story.
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We actually live
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in the last chapter.
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The last chapter
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of God's story of salvation.
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The last chapter
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is that period
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between the return
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of Jesus to heaven
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from earth,
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and the last chapter
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will finish
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with the return
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of Jesus
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from heaven
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to earth.
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And every part
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of the Bible,
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this wonderful book,
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God's book,
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his word,
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all the stories
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within it
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form part
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of that great story
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and contribute
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towards it.
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And all the characters
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in it
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play out their lives
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within that story.
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So what I've been
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trying to do
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is just set the context.
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You think,
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where is he going
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with this?
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I'm going to
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the book of Ruth,
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which is a wonderful
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little story.
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The German poet
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Goethe
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described it
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as the loveliest
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complete work
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on a small scale
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ever written.
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What a commendation.
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And it begins,
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as we begin our story
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today,
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it begins
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not with a happy story,
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but with a sad story.
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So our opening verses
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in Ruth
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begin with
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a family tragedy.
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And that's what
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we're going to focus on
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this evening.
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So if you've got a Bible,
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and there are Bibles
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in the pews,
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it really will be helpful
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to have a Bible
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in front of you.
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We're just going to look
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at these opening
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five verses.
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The words will come up
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on the screen as well,
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but it would be helpful
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to have your own Bible
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in front of you
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if you haven't got on there.
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So let's read
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this wonderful story,
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this beginning story.
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which sets the scene.
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In the days
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when the judges ruled,
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there was a famine
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in the land.
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So a man from Bethlehem
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in Judah,
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together with his wife
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and two sons,
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went to live for a while
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in the country of Moab.
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The man's name
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was Elimelech,
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his wife's name
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was Naomi,
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and the names
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of his two sons
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were Marlon
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and Kilion.
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They were Ephrathites
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from Bethlehem
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in Judah,
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and they went to Moab
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and lived there.
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Now,
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Elimelech,
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Naomi's husband,
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died,
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and she was left
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with her two sons.
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They married Moabite women,
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one named Orpah,
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the other Ruth.
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After they had lived there
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about ten years,
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both Marlon
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and Kilion
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also died,
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and Naomi was left
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without her two sons
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and her husband.
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It's God's word.
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Now,
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look with me
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at this introduction
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that sets the scene
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for this story.
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I want to focus,
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this is going to be
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really simple,
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and
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the points even begin
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with the same letter.
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All right?
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So you'll be able
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to remember them easily.
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They don't always work
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that way,
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but I think these do.
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And we're going to look
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at three aspects
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of the story
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which apply to the characters,
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these six named people here,
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but they also apply
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to your life
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and to my life.
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All right?
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Here's the three.
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I'll tell you what they are
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before we begin,
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and then we'll look
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at each one in turn.
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First of all,
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circumstances,
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the setting in which
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the story takes place
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and their lives take place.
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Secondly,
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choices,
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which the characters make.
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And finally,
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arising from those choices
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are consequences.
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Those three things
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apply to you and me.
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We live in a context
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in circumstances.
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We make choices
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in our lives,
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and the choices we make
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determine certain consequences.
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So look with me
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at each in turn.
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So let's start with
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consequences.
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And what did I do then?
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I forgot to put the words
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up on the screen.
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Sorry.
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That's me with PowerPoint.
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Circumstances.
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The setting is given
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right at the beginning.
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In the days
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when the judges ruled,
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there was a famine
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in the land.
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Now notice in this
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opening sentence,
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we have a general context,
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and then we have
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a specific situation.
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A general context.
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It says,
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in the general context,
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in the days
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when the judges ruled.
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It's really simple
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because maybe
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you're getting to know
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the Bible.
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Some of you are
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very familiar with it.
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Others maybe don't know
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it very well,
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so I'll be absolutely simple.
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So just excuse me
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if you know all this
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already, all right?
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In the days
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when the judges ruled.
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After the...
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Here's a little chart.
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Can you see it?
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No, it's not too bad.
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I'm looking at that
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big thing up there.
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After the...
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You know the story
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of the Bible.
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After the exodus
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from Egypt,
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under the leadership
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of Moses,
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the people of Israel
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eventually,
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after a 40-year hiatus
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around the wilderness,
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finally arrive
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in the promised land.
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Moses dies,
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succeeded by Joshua,
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and the book of Joshua
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tells us the story
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of the conquest of Canaan,
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a somewhat patchwork event.
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And this is followed
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by a period
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of around about
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three centuries.
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Think of that for a moment.
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300 years.
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300 years
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when Israel was ruled
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by a succession of leaders
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who had the title
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of judges.
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And the book
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which precedes you,
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if you've got your Bible
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open at Ruth,
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if you turn back
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the preceding book
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in our English Bibles,
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the experts will tell you
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that in the Hebrew Bible
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it's not the case.
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But anyway,
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in the English Bibles
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the preceding book
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is the book of Judges.
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It's named after these
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Judges.
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And the last verse,
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if you look,
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just page over,
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if you look back
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it says,
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it's characterized by this,
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in those days
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Israel had no king,
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everyone did
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as they saw fit.
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Literally,
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I think in Hebrew
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it's everyone did
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what was right
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in his own eyes.
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Am I right,
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David?
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Thank you very much.
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David's got the Hebrew Bible
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there to keep me straight.
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Now,
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the little nation of Israel
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chosen in love by God,
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not because of any merit
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on their part,
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the Lord said to them
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in New Tionomy 7,
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7,
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it's not because you
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were more in number
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or better than anyone else.
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I loved you
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because I loved you.
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He chose this nation,
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delivered them
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from slavery in Egypt,
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brought them to their own land,
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and yet sadly
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they constantly turned
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against God
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and went their own way.
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And the book of Judges
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describes how
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this terrible cycle
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took place.
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The people turned
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against God,
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God allowed
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neighboring tribes
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and nations
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to invade,
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to subjugate,
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to oppress them.
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The people then
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cried out to God
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for help.
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God raised up
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these leaders,
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these judges.
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The people turned
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back to God
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and yet within a generation
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the cycle is repeated
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as they turn
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against the Lord again.
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And this is this kind
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of cycle
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where people are just
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doing what's right
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in their own eyes.
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It's a period
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of political uncertainty.
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Some of the judges
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are well known.
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Most people know
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about Samson,
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Gideon,
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Samuel.
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Others are not
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so well known.
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Ophnil,
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Ehud,
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Deborah,
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Jephthah,
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Shamgar,
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Tola,
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Jair.
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What is familiar
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is this repeated
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cycle over
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and over again.
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That was the
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general context
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in which this
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little family lived.
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But we're told
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they also faced
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a specific situation.
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There was a famine
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in the land.
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This family did not
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live in one of
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the economic upturns
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that took place
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in the nation
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from time to time.
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They lived in a
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down time
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when a famine
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hit the land.
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Now we're not told
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where during
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the book of Judges
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this actually took
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place.
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It may have
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been the period
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if you know
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the book of Judges
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a little bit
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further back.
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There was a judge
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named Gideon
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who was raised
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up by God
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because a
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neighboring nation
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the Midianites
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kept invading
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the land
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on camels.
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They were
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a camel
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what's the word
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I'm looking for?
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Camel seated.
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They sat on camels
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and invaded Israel
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for a period
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of seven years
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and they particularly
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did it when
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harvest came.
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So they kind of
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looted the land
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and everyone
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was desolate.
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Maybe this
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exacerbated the
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situation.
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This is maybe
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the famine.
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Whatever the case
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this family
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lived in hard
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times at this
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specific point
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in history.
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I think about it
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for a moment.
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If they'd lived
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200 years before
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they'd have
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experienced
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crossing the
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river Jordan.
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They'd have
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experienced the
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mighty conquest
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under Joshua.
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If they'd lived
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a couple of
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hundred years
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later maybe
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they'd lived
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at the glorious
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time of King
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David and Solomon
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in the amazing
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temple that he
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erected.
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But they didn't.
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They lived in the
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days when the
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judges ruled where
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there was a famine
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in the land.
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Now,
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2017 AD.
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We live in history.
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Present history.
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We live in the days
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of Islamic State.
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Terrorist atrocities.
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We live in the days
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of mass migration.
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Of Brexit.
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Economic uncertainties.
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People in boats
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trying to get to
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Europe.
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We live in the days
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of President-elect
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Trump.
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And we live in this
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amazing celebrity
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culture where,
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can you believe it,
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all of this is
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superseded for 15
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minutes on BBC
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by the death of a
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pop star.
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kind of strange
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days we live in,
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don't we?
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For those of us
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who are Christians,
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we do not live,
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though we wish we
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did,
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and we hope we
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may,
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we do not live in
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days of spiritual
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revival.
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I think,
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to be fair,
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in our nation,
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we live in days of
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spiritual decline.
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Says he now,
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having lived his
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allotted three-score
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years and ten.
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And we cannot
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escape the context
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in which we live.
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While we're
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drawing into our
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ghettos,
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wallowing in
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spiritual nostalgia.
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We are,
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Jesus reminded us,
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we are in the
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world,
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but we are not
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of the world.
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You are,
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said Jesus to
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his followers,
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the salt of the
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earth.
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death.
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You are the
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light of the
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world.
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That is the
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context in which
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we live.
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And we have no
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choice about that.
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We have no choice
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about the times in
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which we live.
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We do have a
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choice about how
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we respond to
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the times in which
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we live.
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So,
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here's my second
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point.
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Choices.
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What are Elimelech
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and his family to
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do?
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Living at this
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time of famine,
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in these
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uncertain days?
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Well,
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we're told in
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the text.
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So a man from
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Bethlehem in
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Judah,
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together with his
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wife and two
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sons,
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went to live for
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a while in the
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country of Moab.
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They just hopped
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over into the
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neighboring nation
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of Moab.
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They did what
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many people are
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doing today,
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they became
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economic migrants.
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Now,
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the writer of
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this book,
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will you notice,
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he makes no
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comment about
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the wisdom or
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folly of what
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they did.
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not everyone
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agrees with this,
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and I'll agree to
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disagree and live
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with you if you
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disagree,
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but I think
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there is no
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comment on this
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because it
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doesn't need any
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comment.
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For anyone who
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knows the
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history of Israel
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will make the
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correct judgment.
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I was trying to
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think of a modern
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illustration.
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It is like saying,
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in 2012,
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when Rangers were
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demoted to the
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third division of
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Scottish football,
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a certain supporter
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decided to go to
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Celtic Park,
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you don't need to
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comment on the
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wisdom or folly
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of such a move.
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Well,
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it depends who
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you support.
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So,
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for those who
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are not familiar
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with the Bible,
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there is a whole
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history behind
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this comment about
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going to Moab.
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Let me give you
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again a brief
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summary of the
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origin and
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history of the
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nation of Moab,
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and what I think
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is the folly of
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moving to Moab.
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And,
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in Genesis 19,
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we read about
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the unsavoury
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origins of the
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nation of Moab.
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It's the story of
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how Lot,
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the nephew of
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Abraham,
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fleeing from the
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destruction that
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the God poured
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out upon Sodom,
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running away with
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his two daughters.
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His wife was the
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one who was
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turned into a
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pillar of salt
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when she looked
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back.
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And at the end
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of the day,
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he and his two
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daughters,
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the two daughters
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get their father
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drunk,
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sleep with him
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in successive
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evenings.
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And the elder
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daughter gives
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birth to a
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son called
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Moab,
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which sounds
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like the Hebrew
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for from my
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father.
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The other one
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gives birth to
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another nation
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called Ammon.
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Lot was a man
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who, because of
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his materialism,
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was dragged into
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idolatry and
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immorality,
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traits which soon
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became characteristic
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of the nation
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that emerged from
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him, as we see
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in later history.
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We then meet
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them in Numbers
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22 and 25.
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When the people
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of Israel are
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traveling from
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Egypt through to
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Canaan, they
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asked the king
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of Moab for
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permission to go
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through their
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land, not to do
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anything hostile.
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He refuses.
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Instead, it's one
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of these stories in
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the Bible, if you
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went to Sunday
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school, you
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remember, he
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hired a prophet
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called Balaam to
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put a curse on the
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people of Israel.
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Balaam was
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prevented from doing
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this by talking
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donkey, and
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instead he
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pronounced a
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blessing on
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Israel, but
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even though that
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is not successful,
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the women of
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Moab enticed
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the men of
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Israel into
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pagan revelry
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and gross
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sexual immorality
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and 24,000 of
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them are struck
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dead.
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In more recent
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times, in
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Judges 3, we
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read of recent
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oppression by
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Moab.
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Eglon, king of
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Moab, attacks and
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subjugates the
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nation of Israel
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for 18 years.
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No wonder, then,
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that later
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prophets, Isaiah,
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Jeremiah, Ezekiel,
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Amos, Zephaniah, all
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utter judgment
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against Moab.
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And the law of
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Moses is very
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clear.
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The law of
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Moses says, no
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Ammonite or
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Moabite or any
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of their
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descendants may
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enter the
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assembly of the
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Lord, not even
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in the tenth
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generation.
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We will see
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gloriously there
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is an exception
-
to this as we
-
come to this
-
series later.
-
But can you
-
see the irony
-
of a man
-
called Elimelech,
-
whose name
-
means my
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God is king,
-
leaving Bethlehem,
-
which means the
-
house of bread,
-
to emigrate to a
-
place like Moab,
-
even in times of
-
famine.
-
So why did he do
-
it?
-
What was his
-
motivation in
-
moving to Moab?
-
Well, it's obvious.
-
Famine in Israel,
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bread in Moab.
-
It seems a no-brainer
-
just across the
-
border.
-
It is, I would
-
say, the peril of
-
pragmatism, where
-
pragmatism overrules
-
principle.
-
And I simply say,
-
how many people,
-
how many Christians,
-
how many of us,
-
myself included,
-
how many at times
-
have allowed
-
pragmatism,
-
interest, self-interest
-
to overrule
-
principle, what is
-
right?
-
How did he
-
justify it?
-
How do we justify
-
it?
-
Well, the answer
-
lies in the little
-
words.
-
His intention is,
-
it's for a little
-
while.
-
Notice what it
-
says.
-
It says,
-
So a man from
-
Bethlehem in
-
Judah, together
-
with his wife and
-
two sons, went to
-
live for a while
-
in Moab.
-
To tide things
-
over.
-
It's a temporary
-
expedient.
-
I can imagine him
-
saying, well, it's
-
not the right thing.
-
I realize that and
-
it's not a good
-
thing for his
-
Israelites.
-
But a man's got
-
to live.
-
We've got to eat.
-
So let's do it.
-
But listen, we'll be
-
back soon.
-
It's the peril of
-
procrastination.
-
See, every choice
-
begins with the
-
first step that you
-
make.
-
And if the first
-
step is a wrong
-
step, someone said
-
to me the other
-
day, it's like a
-
ship.
-
If it's just two
-
degrees off, a few
-
miles out at sea,
-
you're a long way
-
off and your
-
destination is a
-
very different
-
destination.
-
See, every choice
-
begins with the
-
first step.
-
How many of
-
Christians decides
-
to stop going to
-
church just for a
-
while?
-
You know, I just
-
don't get on with
-
those other
-
Christians, you
-
know.
-
It caused me a lot
-
of hassle.
-
How many Christians
-
decide, just for a
-
while I'm going to
-
stop reading the
-
Bible because I'm
-
just not getting
-
much out of it.
-
Just for a while
-
I'm going to stop
-
praying.
-
Just for a while
-
I'll come to church
-
but I'm not going to
-
do anything.
-
I need to take a
-
back seat for a
-
while.
-
See, what does a
-
Christian do in
-
times of crisis?
-
What do you do in
-
times of famine?
-
Where do you look
-
for a solution?
-
You either continue
-
to trust God,
-
remaining within the
-
security of his love
-
and his people,
-
or you look
-
elsewhere to Moab
-
for a solution.
-
Now, maybe you're
-
there this evening.
-
Maybe there's a
-
crisis in your life
-
and you look to the
-
wrong place for a
-
solution.
-
Or maybe you're
-
tempted to look to
-
the wrong place for a
-
solution.
-
See, the Christian is
-
the only one who can
-
make such a choice.
-
Before you become a
-
Christian, the Bible
-
says you're a slave to
-
sin.
-
You have to obey its
-
whims and desires.
-
But when you are set
-
free by Christ,
-
filled with his
-
spirit, the prison
-
door is flung open,
-
but you have a choice.
-
You can walk out or
-
you can walk back in.
-
That's why the Bible
-
and the epistles
-
constantly says,
-
you know,
-
put off the old
-
nature, put on the
-
new nature.
-
Don't yield the parts
-
of your body to sin,
-
but to righteousness.
-
Make the right
-
choices.
-
Or you choose to go
-
your own way.
-
Every choice has a
-
consequence.
-
It's put most
-
succinctly in the
-
letter that the
-
Apostle Paul wrote to
-
the Christians in the
-
Roman province of
-
Galatia.
-
It talks about the law
-
of cause and effect.
-
Do not be deceived.
-
God cannot be mocked.
-
A man reaps what he
-
sows.
-
Whoever sows to
-
please their flesh
-
from the flesh will
-
reap destruction.
-
Whoever sows to
-
please the Spirit
-
from the Spirit
-
will reap eternal
-
life.
-
There are consequences
-
that follow
-
from our choices.
-
So we come
-
thirdly back to
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our story.
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Consequences.
-
Elimelech,
-
head of the house,
-
makes his choice.
-
Probably his wife
-
had little say in it
-
in a patriarchal
-
society.
-
The husband said
-
that sadly still
-
happens today in
-
our more egalitarian
-
society that my
-
experience pastoral
-
is that often men
-
set a lead and
-
women are sometimes
-
quite often the ones
-
who suffer not always.
-
He went to Moab
-
for a while.
-
For a while
-
became a long
-
while.
-
And the consequences
-
for him and his
-
family are enormous.
-
for a while
-
became a long
-
while.
-
And for Elimelech
-
there is no
-
return.
-
He dies in
-
Moab.
-
I kind of think
-
about him maybe
-
saying every year
-
to his family
-
well we're going
-
to go back
-
home soon.
-
Yep.
-
This is going
-
to be the year
-
and then something
-
just kind of puts
-
it up you know.
-
We live under
-
an illusion if we
-
think we can set
-
the agenda you
-
know.
-
Okay I'm not
-
where I should be
-
spiritually at the
-
moment but believe
-
me I'm going to
-
put it right.
-
Believe me the
-
years go by year
-
after year
-
unless you make
-
a clear and
-
definite choice
-
to return.
-
What I want to
-
say and I say
-
with all seriousness
-
you can be a
-
believer and you
-
can die in Moab.
-
You can die in
-
Moab.
-
He dies there.
-
As always happens
-
with families the
-
children assimilate
-
more quickly and
-
easily into the
-
prevailing culture
-
than the parents
-
the two sons
-
Marlon and
-
Kilion.
-
Their names
-
both probably
-
mean something
-
like weakness
-
or frailness
-
expressed in the
-
fact that both
-
of them
-
both of them
-
marry Moabite
-
girls
-
contrary again
-
to the law
-
of Moses
-
and then great
-
tragedy each of
-
them in turn
-
dies.
-
But notice the
-
irony.
-
Why did they
-
go to Moab
-
in the first
-
place?
-
To save their
-
lives in time
-
of famine.
-
But Moab
-
was never
-
is an
-
answer.
-
The promise
-
of life
-
always proves
-
false in
-
the end.
-
The wise
-
little writer
-
of the
-
Proverbs
-
summarizes it
-
so well in
-
Proverbs 14
-
12 he
-
says
-
sorry I
-
should put a
-
picture on
-
there sorry
-
there's a
-
family tree like
-
the program
-
who do you
-
think you are
-
and you look
-
at it and
-
you see
-
died in
-
Moab
-
died in
-
Moab
-
died in
-
Moab
-
and there's
-
Naomi
-
left on
-
her own
-
a little
-
writer
-
of Proverbs
-
puts it
-
there is a
-
way that
-
seems right
-
to a man
-
but in the
-
end
-
it leads
-
to death
-
and the
-
story of
-
Elimelech
-
and his
-
family
-
is a
-
tragedy
-
that is
-
sadly
-
repeated
-
time and
-
again in
-
Christian
-
homes and
-
families
-
for you
-
can be a
-
church member
-
and live
-
in Moab
-
you can be
-
a
-
you can be
-
here this
-
evening
-
physically
-
here but
-
spiritually you
-
can be living
-
in Moab
-
how
-
by making
-
wrong choices
-
oh you may
-
have your
-
excuses
-
and you may
-
be saying to
-
yourself it's
-
only for a
-
little while
-
I'm not going
-
to stay there
-
I'm going to
-
put this right
-
eventually
-
I'm going to
-
return home to
-
the Lord
-
and his
-
people but
-
you may not
-
it's a sobering
-
message really
-
you may die
-
in Moab
-
because life
-
goes past so
-
quickly doesn't
-
the older we
-
get we suddenly
-
think you
-
know where
-
did 70
-
years go
-
the older you
-
get the more
-
you begin to
-
reflect on
-
those things
-
don't you
-
and you begin
-
to think about
-
things like
-
what legacy
-
will you leave
-
for your
-
family
-
Elimelech
-
made the
-
wrong choice
-
and he
-
left behind
-
an embittered
-
wife and
-
two pagan
-
daughters-in-law
-
yes we're
-
going to see
-
in this book
-
and in our
-
series how
-
God transformed
-
the situation
-
but it was
-
in spite of
-
Elimelech
-
not because
-
of him
-
and God
-
willing we'll
-
see more
-
about her
-
and the
-
choice she
-
then made
-
as the story
-
unfolds
-
God willing
-
next week
-
in the
-
weeks that
-
follow
-
some kind
-
of sobering
-
message isn't
-
it but
-
but maybe I
-
think you might
-
maybe at the
-
beginning of a
-
new year it's
-
it's maybe a
-
good message for
-
us to to
-
pause and take
-
stock and say
-
where are you
-
living where are
-
you living today
-
I don't mean are
-
you living in
-
Brentsville or
-
Edmond I mean
-
are you living in
-
Moab are you
-
living in Bethlehem
-
are you living in
-
Israel are you
-
living among God's
-
people are you
-
rooted in God's
-
people
-
challenging
-
daughter's name
-
well
-
looked at the
-
sad story of a
-
family tragedy
-
a man
-
who left
-
home and went
-
to a foreign
-
country
-
because of a
-
famine
-
and died
-
there
-
but I want
-
to finish on a
-
positive note
-
because I want
-
to remind you
-
it need not
-
happen
-
you need not
-
end up in
-
Moab
-
let me finish
-
with another
-
story
-
a story Jesus
-
told us I
-
reflected on it
-
I began to
-
notice some
-
interesting
-
connections
-
these are
-
preachers
-
connections
-
not necessarily
-
biblical
-
connections
-
but it may
-
help us to
-
think about
-
these things
-
so let me
-
finish with a
-
happy ending
-
there's a
-
story about a
-
young man
-
who like
-
Elimelech
-
left his
-
home country
-
not because of
-
a famine
-
but because he
-
was attracted
-
by the bright
-
lights of a
-
distant far
-
country
-
which seemed
-
to offer so
-
much more
-
than all the
-
boring stuff at
-
home
-
restricted by
-
family and
-
father
-
armed with
-
his share of
-
the family
-
fortune
-
he set out
-
on his
-
journey and
-
for a time
-
as is always
-
the case
-
his destination
-
seemed to
-
fulfill
-
all he had
-
hoped for
-
as he
-
squandered
-
his wealth
-
in wild
-
living
-
wine
-
women
-
and song
-
but it
-
didn't
-
last
-
as Jesus
-
goes on to
-
explain in
-
this wonderful
-
story
-
let me read
-
from the
-
text
-
after he'd
-
spent everything
-
now notice the
-
connection
-
there was a
-
severe famine
-
in that
-
whole country
-
and he began
-
to be in
-
need
-
so he went
-
and hired
-
himself
-
to a citizen
-
of that
-
country
-
who sent
-
him
-
to his
-
fields
-
to feed
-
pigs
-
he longed
-
to fill
-
his stomach
-
with the
-
pods
-
that the
-
pigs
-
were eating
-
but no
-
one gave
-
him
-
anything
-
what a
-
place for
-
a Jewish
-
boy to
-
end up
-
in a
-
pigsty
-
eating
-
pig
-
swill
-
but you
-
see
-
the story
-
Jesus tells
-
us
-
reminds us
-
that he
-
didn't end
-
up he
-
didn't die
-
in the
-
pigsty
-
instead
-
the famine
-
God used
-
the famine
-
to remind
-
him
-
of what
-
he left
-
behind
-
it was
-
the famine
-
in this
-
case that
-
was the
-
means of
-
his salvation
-
we just
-
sang a hymn
-
by John
-
Newton
-
Amazing
-
Grace
-
John
-
Newton
-
of course
-
lived in
-
the 18th
-
century
-
he was
-
this slave
-
trader who
-
lived a
-
life of
-
utter
-
depravity
-
was gloriously
-
converted in a
-
storm at sea
-
and became
-
a minister
-
of the
-
gospel
-
and he
-
wrote this
-
wonderful hymn
-
Amazing
-
Grace
-
but he
-
wrote other
-
hymns and
-
maybe I'd be
-
surprised if
-
anyone here
-
maybe one or
-
two of you
-
might know
-
that he
-
actually wrote
-
a hymn
-
about the
-
parable of
-
the prodigal
-
son
-
and as I was
-
looking at it
-
I thought it's
-
a nice
-
place to
-
finish
-
so I'm
-
going to read
-
the words
-
of this hymn
-
now
-
the words
-
are a little
-
bit quaint
-
and old
-
fashioned
-
but I
-
think you'll
-
get the
-
meaning of
-
them
-
Newton is
-
a great
-
great
-
hymn
-
writer
-
so here's
-
what Newton
-
says
-
writes
-
listen
-
carefully
-
here's a
-
big star
-
picture
-
afflictions
-
though they
-
seem severe
-
in mercy
-
oft are
-
sent
-
they stopped
-
the prodigal's
-
career and
-
forced him
-
to repent
-
simple
-
isn't it
-
although he
-
no relentings
-
felt
-
change
-
your mind
-
till he
-
had spent
-
his store
-
his stubborn
-
heart began
-
to melt
-
when famine
-
pinched him
-
sore
-
what have I
-
gained by sin
-
he said
-
by hunger
-
shame
-
and fear
-
my father's
-
house abounds
-
with bread
-
while I am
-
starving here
-
I'll go and
-
tell him all
-
I've done
-
and fall
-
before his
-
face
-
unworthy
-
to be called
-
his son
-
I'll seek
-
a servant's
-
place
-
his father
-
saw him
-
coming back
-
he saw
-
and ran
-
and smiled
-
and threw
-
his arms
-
around the
-
neck
-
of his
-
rebellious
-
child
-
father I've
-
sinned
-
but oh
-
forgive
-
I've heard
-
enough
-
he said
-
rejoice my
-
house
-
my son's
-
alive
-
for whom
-
I mourned
-
as dead
-
now let
-
the fatted
-
calf be slain
-
and spread
-
the news
-
around my
-
son was
-
dead
-
but lives
-
again was
-
lost
-
but now
-
is found
-
and here's
-
the lesson
-
final bit
-
it is thus
-
the Lord
-
his love
-
reveals
-
to call
-
poor sinners
-
home
-
more than
-
a father's
-
love he
-
feels
-
and welcomes
-
all
-
that
-
come
-
maybe
-
this evening
-
you're
-
that poor
-
sinner
-
living in
-
a far
-
country
-
if truth
-
are told
-
in a
-
pigsty
-
life
-
maybe
-
you're
-
not a
-
Christian
-
and you're
-
living in
-
that far
-
country
-
and I
-
simply
-
want to
-
say
-
to finish
-
on a
-
gospel
-
note
-
that God
-
the father
-
loves you
-
his son
-
invites you
-
the Holy
-
Spirit
-
urges you
-
and welcomes
-
you home
-
we come
-
expecting
-
nothing
-
and we
-
receive
-
God's
-
love
-
and grace
-
his arms
-
around us
-
of great
-
assurance
-
and maybe
-
for you
-
2017
-
is the
-
year
-
when you
-
return home
-
for the
-
first time
-
back to
-
the
-
father's
-
home
-
the fellowship
-
with God
-
to restoration
-
to forgiveness
-
to peace
-
to joy
-
all the
-
things you've
-
longed for
-
and prove
-
that this
-
world never
-
satisfies
-
but maybe
-
there's
-
someone here
-
this evening
-
and you're
-
actually a
-
Christian
-
but you're
-
far from
-
God
-
living in
-
the peace
-
time
-
living in
-
the far
-
country
-
living in
-
Moab
-
as it
-
were
-
and I
-
simply want
-
to urge
-
you this
-
evening
-
don't die
-
in Moab
-
return home
-
to your
-
heavenly
-
father
-
let's pray
-
and then I'll
-
hand over to
-
Carrie for
-
a final
-
song
-
just pause
-
for a moment
-
just to reflect
-
what God
-
has said to
-
us this
-
evening
-
for his
-
word
-
father we
-
thank you
-
for your
-
amazing
-
unconditional
-
love
-
here is
-
love not
-
that we
-
loved you
-
but that
-
you loved
-
us
-
and gave
-
your son
-
to be the
-
one to
-
pay the
-
price for
-
our sin
-
to restore
-
us
-
to
-
yourself
-
thank you
-
for your
-
great
-
patience
-
with us
-
forgive us
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that so
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often we
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seek our
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satisfaction
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in things
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that never
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fulfill
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things that
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prove in
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the end
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worthless
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even
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degrading
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thank you
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thank you
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thank you
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that you
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welcome
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us
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home
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and as
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we
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bound
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your
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presence
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you
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know
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our
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hearts
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you're the
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one to
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whom all
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hearts are
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open
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from whom
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no secrets
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are hid
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and so
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knowing
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our
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hearts
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grant to
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us that
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repentant
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spirit
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that desire
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to return
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and as we
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turn we
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thank you
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that you
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welcome us
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home
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may this
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day
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be a day
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of rejoicing
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in heaven
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as jesus
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said over
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one sinner
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who repents
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over one
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son who
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is restored
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who was dead
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and is alive
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again who
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was lost
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and is found
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and may this
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be a beginning
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a new year
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when we
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experience the
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joy of
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belonging to
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you and
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belonging to
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your people
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we ask it in
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jesus name
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for your glory
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amen