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A Family Tragedy

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  1. Well, good evening everyone.

  2. Somebody out there, it's very bright, light's shining on me.

  3. It's great to be here with you in Brentsfield.

  4. Again, can I wish you a very happy new year and God's blessing,

  5. a year of change for you as a church.

  6. I've been praying for you, for Graham, for the elders,

  7. the team that God's going to bless you richly in this coming year.

  8. Well, Christmas is over.

  9. Remember, we now have grandchildren aged five and three,

  10. so we've been discovering the delights of children's toys,

  11. which are very different to the toys that we had when we were growing up,

  12. says he, having just had his 70th birthday.

  13. Pause for gas of amazement there, thank you.

  14. So among all the presents, of course, the children want to know what you're going to buy them,

  15. and we got them one or two things,

  16. but my wife had the inspired idea that it was important for them to experience something a little more traditional.

  17. So we bought them,

  18. I do tell you this is not the only thing we bought them,

  19. but we did buy them a box set of traditional stories as well.

  20. Now you all know fairy stories.

  21. They always begin with the same words.

  22. So what do fairy stories begin with?

  23. Once upon a time.

  24. It's a story.

  25. It begins once upon a time,

  26. and then that follows a story.

  27. Many twists and turns,

  28. and they always end with the same words,

  29. which are?

  30. And they all lived happily ever after.

  31. Now this book,

  32. 66 books,

  33. makes up one book

  34. that is the story.

  35. It's the story of the Bible.

  36. And it begins not with a fictional statement,

  37. but with a factual statement,

  38. which you've got on your back wall

  39. in a variety of different languages.

  40. It begins not with once upon a time.

  41. It says,

  42. in the beginning,

  43. God.

  44. The Bible is a story.

  45. It begins with God,

  46. a God who creates the world

  47. in all its perfection.

  48. Everything he makes is good.

  49. It's a perfect world.

  50. And when he's finished creating the crown of his creation,

  51. the man and the woman,

  52. he saw that everything was very good.

  53. Unfortunately,

  54. did not remain very good,

  55. because Genesis 1 and 2 in the Bible

  56. are followed by Genesis 3.

  57. And sadly,

  58. our first parents rebelled against God,

  59. went their own way,

  60. with the result that a fallen world

  61. is the consequence.

  62. With disastrous consequences for them,

  63. and for the created order.

  64. Now thankfully,

  65. the Bible does not end at Genesis 3.

  66. It would be a very short book,

  67. and we would have a very short history.

  68. Because God,

  69. in his great love,

  70. determines to put things right,

  71. and to restore human beings

  72. to the relationship for which we are made

  73. to know and love God.

  74. And this,

  75. of course,

  76. culminates in a redeemed world,

  77. focusing finally

  78. in the coming to earth

  79. of God's Son

  80. that we've just celebrated

  81. at Christmas time.

  82. the Son of God

  83. who lives the life

  84. we could never live,

  85. who dies the death

  86. that we deserved

  87. in our place,

  88. who is declared with power

  89. to be God's Son

  90. by raising him from the dead,

  91. is raised to life,

  92. he ascends into heaven,

  93. and the last book of the Bible,

  94. this is a very potted history

  95. of a long book,

  96. but at the very end of it,

  97. the very last book,

  98. the very last chapter,

  99. we have a wonderful picture

  100. of a restored world.

  101. And in a sense,

  102. they all lived happily ever after.

  103. Well, not all, sadly.

  104. And so the final book of the Bible

  105. looks forward

  106. to the return from heaven

  107. of Jesus,

  108. God's Son.

  109. And then the curtain

  110. of human history

  111. will come down,

  112. and it ends in this way.

  113. It says,

  114. he who testifies

  115. to these things says,

  116. yes,

  117. I'm coming soon.

  118. Amen,

  119. come Lord Jesus.

  120. And then there's a

  121. kind of little postscript,

  122. the grace of the Lord Jesus

  123. be with God's people.

  124. Now,

  125. we live our lives

  126. within this story.

  127. We actually live

  128. in the last chapter.

  129. The last chapter

  130. of God's story of salvation.

  131. The last chapter

  132. is that period

  133. between the return

  134. of Jesus to heaven

  135. from earth,

  136. and the last chapter

  137. will finish

  138. with the return

  139. of Jesus

  140. from heaven

  141. to earth.

  142. And every part

  143. of the Bible,

  144. this wonderful book,

  145. God's book,

  146. his word,

  147. all the stories

  148. within it

  149. form part

  150. of that great story

  151. and contribute

  152. towards it.

  153. And all the characters

  154. in it

  155. play out their lives

  156. within that story.

  157. So what I've been

  158. trying to do

  159. is just set the context.

  160. You think,

  161. where is he going

  162. with this?

  163. I'm going to

  164. the book of Ruth,

  165. which is a wonderful

  166. little story.

  167. The German poet

  168. Goethe

  169. described it

  170. as the loveliest

  171. complete work

  172. on a small scale

  173. ever written.

  174. What a commendation.

  175. And it begins,

  176. as we begin our story

  177. today,

  178. it begins

  179. not with a happy story,

  180. but with a sad story.

  181. So our opening verses

  182. in Ruth

  183. begin with

  184. a family tragedy.

  185. And that's what

  186. we're going to focus on

  187. this evening.

  188. So if you've got a Bible,

  189. and there are Bibles

  190. in the pews,

  191. it really will be helpful

  192. to have a Bible

  193. in front of you.

  194. We're just going to look

  195. at these opening

  196. five verses.

  197. The words will come up

  198. on the screen as well,

  199. but it would be helpful

  200. to have your own Bible

  201. in front of you

  202. if you haven't got on there.

  203. So let's read

  204. this wonderful story,

  205. this beginning story.

  206. which sets the scene.

  207. In the days

  208. when the judges ruled,

  209. there was a famine

  210. in the land.

  211. So a man from Bethlehem

  212. in Judah,

  213. together with his wife

  214. and two sons,

  215. went to live for a while

  216. in the country of Moab.

  217. The man's name

  218. was Elimelech,

  219. his wife's name

  220. was Naomi,

  221. and the names

  222. of his two sons

  223. were Marlon

  224. and Kilion.

  225. They were Ephrathites

  226. from Bethlehem

  227. in Judah,

  228. and they went to Moab

  229. and lived there.

  230. Now,

  231. Elimelech,

  232. Naomi's husband,

  233. died,

  234. and she was left

  235. with her two sons.

  236. They married Moabite women,

  237. one named Orpah,

  238. the other Ruth.

  239. After they had lived there

  240. about ten years,

  241. both Marlon

  242. and Kilion

  243. also died,

  244. and Naomi was left

  245. without her two sons

  246. and her husband.

  247. It's God's word.

  248. Now,

  249. look with me

  250. at this introduction

  251. that sets the scene

  252. for this story.

  253. I want to focus,

  254. this is going to be

  255. really simple,

  256. and

  257. the points even begin

  258. with the same letter.

  259. All right?

  260. So you'll be able

  261. to remember them easily.

  262. They don't always work

  263. that way,

  264. but I think these do.

  265. And we're going to look

  266. at three aspects

  267. of the story

  268. which apply to the characters,

  269. these six named people here,

  270. but they also apply

  271. to your life

  272. and to my life.

  273. All right?

  274. Here's the three.

  275. I'll tell you what they are

  276. before we begin,

  277. and then we'll look

  278. at each one in turn.

  279. First of all,

  280. circumstances,

  281. the setting in which

  282. the story takes place

  283. and their lives take place.

  284. Secondly,

  285. choices,

  286. which the characters make.

  287. And finally,

  288. arising from those choices

  289. are consequences.

  290. Those three things

  291. apply to you and me.

  292. We live in a context

  293. in circumstances.

  294. We make choices

  295. in our lives,

  296. and the choices we make

  297. determine certain consequences.

  298. So look with me

  299. at each in turn.

  300. So let's start with

  301. consequences.

  302. And what did I do then?

  303. I forgot to put the words

  304. up on the screen.

  305. Sorry.

  306. That's me with PowerPoint.

  307. Circumstances.

  308. The setting is given

  309. right at the beginning.

  310. In the days

  311. when the judges ruled,

  312. there was a famine

  313. in the land.

  314. Now notice in this

  315. opening sentence,

  316. we have a general context,

  317. and then we have

  318. a specific situation.

  319. A general context.

  320. It says,

  321. in the general context,

  322. in the days

  323. when the judges ruled.

  324. It's really simple

  325. because maybe

  326. you're getting to know

  327. the Bible.

  328. Some of you are

  329. very familiar with it.

  330. Others maybe don't know

  331. it very well,

  332. so I'll be absolutely simple.

  333. So just excuse me

  334. if you know all this

  335. already, all right?

  336. In the days

  337. when the judges ruled.

  338. After the...

  339. Here's a little chart.

  340. Can you see it?

  341. No, it's not too bad.

  342. I'm looking at that

  343. big thing up there.

  344. After the...

  345. You know the story

  346. of the Bible.

  347. After the exodus

  348. from Egypt,

  349. under the leadership

  350. of Moses,

  351. the people of Israel

  352. eventually,

  353. after a 40-year hiatus

  354. around the wilderness,

  355. finally arrive

  356. in the promised land.

  357. Moses dies,

  358. succeeded by Joshua,

  359. and the book of Joshua

  360. tells us the story

  361. of the conquest of Canaan,

  362. a somewhat patchwork event.

  363. And this is followed

  364. by a period

  365. of around about

  366. three centuries.

  367. Think of that for a moment.

  368. 300 years.

  369. 300 years

  370. when Israel was ruled

  371. by a succession of leaders

  372. who had the title

  373. of judges.

  374. And the book

  375. which precedes you,

  376. if you've got your Bible

  377. open at Ruth,

  378. if you turn back

  379. the preceding book

  380. in our English Bibles,

  381. the experts will tell you

  382. that in the Hebrew Bible

  383. it's not the case.

  384. But anyway,

  385. in the English Bibles

  386. the preceding book

  387. is the book of Judges.

  388. It's named after these

  389. Judges.

  390. And the last verse,

  391. if you look,

  392. just page over,

  393. if you look back

  394. it says,

  395. it's characterized by this,

  396. in those days

  397. Israel had no king,

  398. everyone did

  399. as they saw fit.

  400. Literally,

  401. I think in Hebrew

  402. it's everyone did

  403. what was right

  404. in his own eyes.

  405. Am I right,

  406. David?

  407. Thank you very much.

  408. David's got the Hebrew Bible

  409. there to keep me straight.

  410. Now,

  411. the little nation of Israel

  412. chosen in love by God,

  413. not because of any merit

  414. on their part,

  415. the Lord said to them

  416. in New Tionomy 7,

  417. 7,

  418. it's not because you

  419. were more in number

  420. or better than anyone else.

  421. I loved you

  422. because I loved you.

  423. He chose this nation,

  424. delivered them

  425. from slavery in Egypt,

  426. brought them to their own land,

  427. and yet sadly

  428. they constantly turned

  429. against God

  430. and went their own way.

  431. And the book of Judges

  432. describes how

  433. this terrible cycle

  434. took place.

  435. The people turned

  436. against God,

  437. God allowed

  438. neighboring tribes

  439. and nations

  440. to invade,

  441. to subjugate,

  442. to oppress them.

  443. The people then

  444. cried out to God

  445. for help.

  446. God raised up

  447. these leaders,

  448. these judges.

  449. The people turned

  450. back to God

  451. and yet within a generation

  452. the cycle is repeated

  453. as they turn

  454. against the Lord again.

  455. And this is this kind

  456. of cycle

  457. where people are just

  458. doing what's right

  459. in their own eyes.

  460. It's a period

  461. of political uncertainty.

  462. Some of the judges

  463. are well known.

  464. Most people know

  465. about Samson,

  466. Gideon,

  467. Samuel.

  468. Others are not

  469. so well known.

  470. Ophnil,

  471. Ehud,

  472. Deborah,

  473. Jephthah,

  474. Shamgar,

  475. Tola,

  476. Jair.

  477. What is familiar

  478. is this repeated

  479. cycle over

  480. and over again.

  481. That was the

  482. general context

  483. in which this

  484. little family lived.

  485. But we're told

  486. they also faced

  487. a specific situation.

  488. There was a famine

  489. in the land.

  490. This family did not

  491. live in one of

  492. the economic upturns

  493. that took place

  494. in the nation

  495. from time to time.

  496. They lived in a

  497. down time

  498. when a famine

  499. hit the land.

  500. Now we're not told

  501. where during

  502. the book of Judges

  503. this actually took

  504. place.

  505. It may have

  506. been the period

  507. if you know

  508. the book of Judges

  509. a little bit

  510. further back.

  511. There was a judge

  512. named Gideon

  513. who was raised

  514. up by God

  515. because a

  516. neighboring nation

  517. the Midianites

  518. kept invading

  519. the land

  520. on camels.

  521. They were

  522. a camel

  523. what's the word

  524. I'm looking for?

  525. Camel seated.

  526. They sat on camels

  527. and invaded Israel

  528. for a period

  529. of seven years

  530. and they particularly

  531. did it when

  532. harvest came.

  533. So they kind of

  534. looted the land

  535. and everyone

  536. was desolate.

  537. Maybe this

  538. exacerbated the

  539. situation.

  540. This is maybe

  541. the famine.

  542. Whatever the case

  543. this family

  544. lived in hard

  545. times at this

  546. specific point

  547. in history.

  548. I think about it

  549. for a moment.

  550. If they'd lived

  551. 200 years before

  552. they'd have

  553. experienced

  554. crossing the

  555. river Jordan.

  556. They'd have

  557. experienced the

  558. mighty conquest

  559. under Joshua.

  560. If they'd lived

  561. a couple of

  562. hundred years

  563. later maybe

  564. they'd lived

  565. at the glorious

  566. time of King

  567. David and Solomon

  568. in the amazing

  569. temple that he

  570. erected.

  571. But they didn't.

  572. They lived in the

  573. days when the

  574. judges ruled where

  575. there was a famine

  576. in the land.

  577. Now,

  578. 2017 AD.

  579. We live in history.

  580. Present history.

  581. We live in the days

  582. of Islamic State.

  583. Terrorist atrocities.

  584. We live in the days

  585. of mass migration.

  586. Of Brexit.

  587. Economic uncertainties.

  588. People in boats

  589. trying to get to

  590. Europe.

  591. We live in the days

  592. of President-elect

  593. Trump.

  594. And we live in this

  595. amazing celebrity

  596. culture where,

  597. can you believe it,

  598. all of this is

  599. superseded for 15

  600. minutes on BBC

  601. by the death of a

  602. pop star.

  603. kind of strange

  604. days we live in,

  605. don't we?

  606. For those of us

  607. who are Christians,

  608. we do not live,

  609. though we wish we

  610. did,

  611. and we hope we

  612. may,

  613. we do not live in

  614. days of spiritual

  615. revival.

  616. I think,

  617. to be fair,

  618. in our nation,

  619. we live in days of

  620. spiritual decline.

  621. Says he now,

  622. having lived his

  623. allotted three-score

  624. years and ten.

  625. And we cannot

  626. escape the context

  627. in which we live.

  628. While we're

  629. drawing into our

  630. ghettos,

  631. wallowing in

  632. spiritual nostalgia.

  633. We are,

  634. Jesus reminded us,

  635. we are in the

  636. world,

  637. but we are not

  638. of the world.

  639. You are,

  640. said Jesus to

  641. his followers,

  642. the salt of the

  643. earth.

  644. death.

  645. You are the

  646. light of the

  647. world.

  648. That is the

  649. context in which

  650. we live.

  651. And we have no

  652. choice about that.

  653. We have no choice

  654. about the times in

  655. which we live.

  656. We do have a

  657. choice about how

  658. we respond to

  659. the times in which

  660. we live.

  661. So,

  662. here's my second

  663. point.

  664. Choices.

  665. What are Elimelech

  666. and his family to

  667. do?

  668. Living at this

  669. time of famine,

  670. in these

  671. uncertain days?

  672. Well,

  673. we're told in

  674. the text.

  675. So a man from

  676. Bethlehem in

  677. Judah,

  678. together with his

  679. wife and two

  680. sons,

  681. went to live for

  682. a while in the

  683. country of Moab.

  684. They just hopped

  685. over into the

  686. neighboring nation

  687. of Moab.

  688. They did what

  689. many people are

  690. doing today,

  691. they became

  692. economic migrants.

  693. Now,

  694. the writer of

  695. this book,

  696. will you notice,

  697. he makes no

  698. comment about

  699. the wisdom or

  700. folly of what

  701. they did.

  702. not everyone

  703. agrees with this,

  704. and I'll agree to

  705. disagree and live

  706. with you if you

  707. disagree,

  708. but I think

  709. there is no

  710. comment on this

  711. because it

  712. doesn't need any

  713. comment.

  714. For anyone who

  715. knows the

  716. history of Israel

  717. will make the

  718. correct judgment.

  719. I was trying to

  720. think of a modern

  721. illustration.

  722. It is like saying,

  723. in 2012,

  724. when Rangers were

  725. demoted to the

  726. third division of

  727. Scottish football,

  728. a certain supporter

  729. decided to go to

  730. Celtic Park,

  731. you don't need to

  732. comment on the

  733. wisdom or folly

  734. of such a move.

  735. Well,

  736. it depends who

  737. you support.

  738. So,

  739. for those who

  740. are not familiar

  741. with the Bible,

  742. there is a whole

  743. history behind

  744. this comment about

  745. going to Moab.

  746. Let me give you

  747. again a brief

  748. summary of the

  749. origin and

  750. history of the

  751. nation of Moab,

  752. and what I think

  753. is the folly of

  754. moving to Moab.

  755. And,

  756. in Genesis 19,

  757. we read about

  758. the unsavoury

  759. origins of the

  760. nation of Moab.

  761. It's the story of

  762. how Lot,

  763. the nephew of

  764. Abraham,

  765. fleeing from the

  766. destruction that

  767. the God poured

  768. out upon Sodom,

  769. running away with

  770. his two daughters.

  771. His wife was the

  772. one who was

  773. turned into a

  774. pillar of salt

  775. when she looked

  776. back.

  777. And at the end

  778. of the day,

  779. he and his two

  780. daughters,

  781. the two daughters

  782. get their father

  783. drunk,

  784. sleep with him

  785. in successive

  786. evenings.

  787. And the elder

  788. daughter gives

  789. birth to a

  790. son called

  791. Moab,

  792. which sounds

  793. like the Hebrew

  794. for from my

  795. father.

  796. The other one

  797. gives birth to

  798. another nation

  799. called Ammon.

  800. Lot was a man

  801. who, because of

  802. his materialism,

  803. was dragged into

  804. idolatry and

  805. immorality,

  806. traits which soon

  807. became characteristic

  808. of the nation

  809. that emerged from

  810. him, as we see

  811. in later history.

  812. We then meet

  813. them in Numbers

  814. 22 and 25.

  815. When the people

  816. of Israel are

  817. traveling from

  818. Egypt through to

  819. Canaan, they

  820. asked the king

  821. of Moab for

  822. permission to go

  823. through their

  824. land, not to do

  825. anything hostile.

  826. He refuses.

  827. Instead, it's one

  828. of these stories in

  829. the Bible, if you

  830. went to Sunday

  831. school, you

  832. remember, he

  833. hired a prophet

  834. called Balaam to

  835. put a curse on the

  836. people of Israel.

  837. Balaam was

  838. prevented from doing

  839. this by talking

  840. donkey, and

  841. instead he

  842. pronounced a

  843. blessing on

  844. Israel, but

  845. even though that

  846. is not successful,

  847. the women of

  848. Moab enticed

  849. the men of

  850. Israel into

  851. pagan revelry

  852. and gross

  853. sexual immorality

  854. and 24,000 of

  855. them are struck

  856. dead.

  857. In more recent

  858. times, in

  859. Judges 3, we

  860. read of recent

  861. oppression by

  862. Moab.

  863. Eglon, king of

  864. Moab, attacks and

  865. subjugates the

  866. nation of Israel

  867. for 18 years.

  868. No wonder, then,

  869. that later

  870. prophets, Isaiah,

  871. Jeremiah, Ezekiel,

  872. Amos, Zephaniah, all

  873. utter judgment

  874. against Moab.

  875. And the law of

  876. Moses is very

  877. clear.

  878. The law of

  879. Moses says, no

  880. Ammonite or

  881. Moabite or any

  882. of their

  883. descendants may

  884. enter the

  885. assembly of the

  886. Lord, not even

  887. in the tenth

  888. generation.

  889. We will see

  890. gloriously there

  891. is an exception

  892. to this as we

  893. come to this

  894. series later.

  895. But can you

  896. see the irony

  897. of a man

  898. called Elimelech,

  899. whose name

  900. means my

  901. God is king,

  902. leaving Bethlehem,

  903. which means the

  904. house of bread,

  905. to emigrate to a

  906. place like Moab,

  907. even in times of

  908. famine.

  909. So why did he do

  910. it?

  911. What was his

  912. motivation in

  913. moving to Moab?

  914. Well, it's obvious.

  915. Famine in Israel,

  916. bread in Moab.

  917. It seems a no-brainer

  918. just across the

  919. border.

  920. It is, I would

  921. say, the peril of

  922. pragmatism, where

  923. pragmatism overrules

  924. principle.

  925. And I simply say,

  926. how many people,

  927. how many Christians,

  928. how many of us,

  929. myself included,

  930. how many at times

  931. have allowed

  932. pragmatism,

  933. interest, self-interest

  934. to overrule

  935. principle, what is

  936. right?

  937. How did he

  938. justify it?

  939. How do we justify

  940. it?

  941. Well, the answer

  942. lies in the little

  943. words.

  944. His intention is,

  945. it's for a little

  946. while.

  947. Notice what it

  948. says.

  949. It says,

  950. So a man from

  951. Bethlehem in

  952. Judah, together

  953. with his wife and

  954. two sons, went to

  955. live for a while

  956. in Moab.

  957. To tide things

  958. over.

  959. It's a temporary

  960. expedient.

  961. I can imagine him

  962. saying, well, it's

  963. not the right thing.

  964. I realize that and

  965. it's not a good

  966. thing for his

  967. Israelites.

  968. But a man's got

  969. to live.

  970. We've got to eat.

  971. So let's do it.

  972. But listen, we'll be

  973. back soon.

  974. It's the peril of

  975. procrastination.

  976. See, every choice

  977. begins with the

  978. first step that you

  979. make.

  980. And if the first

  981. step is a wrong

  982. step, someone said

  983. to me the other

  984. day, it's like a

  985. ship.

  986. If it's just two

  987. degrees off, a few

  988. miles out at sea,

  989. you're a long way

  990. off and your

  991. destination is a

  992. very different

  993. destination.

  994. See, every choice

  995. begins with the

  996. first step.

  997. How many of

  998. Christians decides

  999. to stop going to

  1000. church just for a

  1001. while?

  1002. You know, I just

  1003. don't get on with

  1004. those other

  1005. Christians, you

  1006. know.

  1007. It caused me a lot

  1008. of hassle.

  1009. How many Christians

  1010. decide, just for a

  1011. while I'm going to

  1012. stop reading the

  1013. Bible because I'm

  1014. just not getting

  1015. much out of it.

  1016. Just for a while

  1017. I'm going to stop

  1018. praying.

  1019. Just for a while

  1020. I'll come to church

  1021. but I'm not going to

  1022. do anything.

  1023. I need to take a

  1024. back seat for a

  1025. while.

  1026. See, what does a

  1027. Christian do in

  1028. times of crisis?

  1029. What do you do in

  1030. times of famine?

  1031. Where do you look

  1032. for a solution?

  1033. You either continue

  1034. to trust God,

  1035. remaining within the

  1036. security of his love

  1037. and his people,

  1038. or you look

  1039. elsewhere to Moab

  1040. for a solution.

  1041. Now, maybe you're

  1042. there this evening.

  1043. Maybe there's a

  1044. crisis in your life

  1045. and you look to the

  1046. wrong place for a

  1047. solution.

  1048. Or maybe you're

  1049. tempted to look to

  1050. the wrong place for a

  1051. solution.

  1052. See, the Christian is

  1053. the only one who can

  1054. make such a choice.

  1055. Before you become a

  1056. Christian, the Bible

  1057. says you're a slave to

  1058. sin.

  1059. You have to obey its

  1060. whims and desires.

  1061. But when you are set

  1062. free by Christ,

  1063. filled with his

  1064. spirit, the prison

  1065. door is flung open,

  1066. but you have a choice.

  1067. You can walk out or

  1068. you can walk back in.

  1069. That's why the Bible

  1070. and the epistles

  1071. constantly says,

  1072. you know,

  1073. put off the old

  1074. nature, put on the

  1075. new nature.

  1076. Don't yield the parts

  1077. of your body to sin,

  1078. but to righteousness.

  1079. Make the right

  1080. choices.

  1081. Or you choose to go

  1082. your own way.

  1083. Every choice has a

  1084. consequence.

  1085. It's put most

  1086. succinctly in the

  1087. letter that the

  1088. Apostle Paul wrote to

  1089. the Christians in the

  1090. Roman province of

  1091. Galatia.

  1092. It talks about the law

  1093. of cause and effect.

  1094. Do not be deceived.

  1095. God cannot be mocked.

  1096. A man reaps what he

  1097. sows.

  1098. Whoever sows to

  1099. please their flesh

  1100. from the flesh will

  1101. reap destruction.

  1102. Whoever sows to

  1103. please the Spirit

  1104. from the Spirit

  1105. will reap eternal

  1106. life.

  1107. There are consequences

  1108. that follow

  1109. from our choices.

  1110. So we come

  1111. thirdly back to

  1112. our story.

  1113. Consequences.

  1114. Elimelech,

  1115. head of the house,

  1116. makes his choice.

  1117. Probably his wife

  1118. had little say in it

  1119. in a patriarchal

  1120. society.

  1121. The husband said

  1122. that sadly still

  1123. happens today in

  1124. our more egalitarian

  1125. society that my

  1126. experience pastoral

  1127. is that often men

  1128. set a lead and

  1129. women are sometimes

  1130. quite often the ones

  1131. who suffer not always.

  1132. He went to Moab

  1133. for a while.

  1134. For a while

  1135. became a long

  1136. while.

  1137. And the consequences

  1138. for him and his

  1139. family are enormous.

  1140. for a while

  1141. became a long

  1142. while.

  1143. And for Elimelech

  1144. there is no

  1145. return.

  1146. He dies in

  1147. Moab.

  1148. I kind of think

  1149. about him maybe

  1150. saying every year

  1151. to his family

  1152. well we're going

  1153. to go back

  1154. home soon.

  1155. Yep.

  1156. This is going

  1157. to be the year

  1158. and then something

  1159. just kind of puts

  1160. it up you know.

  1161. We live under

  1162. an illusion if we

  1163. think we can set

  1164. the agenda you

  1165. know.

  1166. Okay I'm not

  1167. where I should be

  1168. spiritually at the

  1169. moment but believe

  1170. me I'm going to

  1171. put it right.

  1172. Believe me the

  1173. years go by year

  1174. after year

  1175. unless you make

  1176. a clear and

  1177. definite choice

  1178. to return.

  1179. What I want to

  1180. say and I say

  1181. with all seriousness

  1182. you can be a

  1183. believer and you

  1184. can die in Moab.

  1185. You can die in

  1186. Moab.

  1187. He dies there.

  1188. As always happens

  1189. with families the

  1190. children assimilate

  1191. more quickly and

  1192. easily into the

  1193. prevailing culture

  1194. than the parents

  1195. the two sons

  1196. Marlon and

  1197. Kilion.

  1198. Their names

  1199. both probably

  1200. mean something

  1201. like weakness

  1202. or frailness

  1203. expressed in the

  1204. fact that both

  1205. of them

  1206. both of them

  1207. marry Moabite

  1208. girls

  1209. contrary again

  1210. to the law

  1211. of Moses

  1212. and then great

  1213. tragedy each of

  1214. them in turn

  1215. dies.

  1216. But notice the

  1217. irony.

  1218. Why did they

  1219. go to Moab

  1220. in the first

  1221. place?

  1222. To save their

  1223. lives in time

  1224. of famine.

  1225. But Moab

  1226. was never

  1227. is an

  1228. answer.

  1229. The promise

  1230. of life

  1231. always proves

  1232. false in

  1233. the end.

  1234. The wise

  1235. little writer

  1236. of the

  1237. Proverbs

  1238. summarizes it

  1239. so well in

  1240. Proverbs 14

  1241. 12 he

  1242. says

  1243. sorry I

  1244. should put a

  1245. picture on

  1246. there sorry

  1247. there's a

  1248. family tree like

  1249. the program

  1250. who do you

  1251. think you are

  1252. and you look

  1253. at it and

  1254. you see

  1255. died in

  1256. Moab

  1257. died in

  1258. Moab

  1259. died in

  1260. Moab

  1261. and there's

  1262. Naomi

  1263. left on

  1264. her own

  1265. a little

  1266. writer

  1267. of Proverbs

  1268. puts it

  1269. there is a

  1270. way that

  1271. seems right

  1272. to a man

  1273. but in the

  1274. end

  1275. it leads

  1276. to death

  1277. and the

  1278. story of

  1279. Elimelech

  1280. and his

  1281. family

  1282. is a

  1283. tragedy

  1284. that is

  1285. sadly

  1286. repeated

  1287. time and

  1288. again in

  1289. Christian

  1290. homes and

  1291. families

  1292. for you

  1293. can be a

  1294. church member

  1295. and live

  1296. in Moab

  1297. you can be

  1298. a

  1299. you can be

  1300. here this

  1301. evening

  1302. physically

  1303. here but

  1304. spiritually you

  1305. can be living

  1306. in Moab

  1307. how

  1308. by making

  1309. wrong choices

  1310. oh you may

  1311. have your

  1312. excuses

  1313. and you may

  1314. be saying to

  1315. yourself it's

  1316. only for a

  1317. little while

  1318. I'm not going

  1319. to stay there

  1320. I'm going to

  1321. put this right

  1322. eventually

  1323. I'm going to

  1324. return home to

  1325. the Lord

  1326. and his

  1327. people but

  1328. you may not

  1329. it's a sobering

  1330. message really

  1331. you may die

  1332. in Moab

  1333. because life

  1334. goes past so

  1335. quickly doesn't

  1336. the older we

  1337. get we suddenly

  1338. think you

  1339. know where

  1340. did 70

  1341. years go

  1342. the older you

  1343. get the more

  1344. you begin to

  1345. reflect on

  1346. those things

  1347. don't you

  1348. and you begin

  1349. to think about

  1350. things like

  1351. what legacy

  1352. will you leave

  1353. for your

  1354. family

  1355. Elimelech

  1356. made the

  1357. wrong choice

  1358. and he

  1359. left behind

  1360. an embittered

  1361. wife and

  1362. two pagan

  1363. daughters-in-law

  1364. yes we're

  1365. going to see

  1366. in this book

  1367. and in our

  1368. series how

  1369. God transformed

  1370. the situation

  1371. but it was

  1372. in spite of

  1373. Elimelech

  1374. not because

  1375. of him

  1376. and God

  1377. willing we'll

  1378. see more

  1379. about her

  1380. and the

  1381. choice she

  1382. then made

  1383. as the story

  1384. unfolds

  1385. God willing

  1386. next week

  1387. in the

  1388. weeks that

  1389. follow

  1390. some kind

  1391. of sobering

  1392. message isn't

  1393. it but

  1394. but maybe I

  1395. think you might

  1396. maybe at the

  1397. beginning of a

  1398. new year it's

  1399. it's maybe a

  1400. good message for

  1401. us to to

  1402. pause and take

  1403. stock and say

  1404. where are you

  1405. living where are

  1406. you living today

  1407. I don't mean are

  1408. you living in

  1409. Brentsville or

  1410. Edmond I mean

  1411. are you living in

  1412. Moab are you

  1413. living in Bethlehem

  1414. are you living in

  1415. Israel are you

  1416. living among God's

  1417. people are you

  1418. rooted in God's

  1419. people

  1420. challenging

  1421. daughter's name

  1422. well

  1423. looked at the

  1424. sad story of a

  1425. family tragedy

  1426. a man

  1427. who left

  1428. home and went

  1429. to a foreign

  1430. country

  1431. because of a

  1432. famine

  1433. and died

  1434. there

  1435. but I want

  1436. to finish on a

  1437. positive note

  1438. because I want

  1439. to remind you

  1440. it need not

  1441. happen

  1442. you need not

  1443. end up in

  1444. Moab

  1445. let me finish

  1446. with another

  1447. story

  1448. a story Jesus

  1449. told us I

  1450. reflected on it

  1451. I began to

  1452. notice some

  1453. interesting

  1454. connections

  1455. these are

  1456. preachers

  1457. connections

  1458. not necessarily

  1459. biblical

  1460. connections

  1461. but it may

  1462. help us to

  1463. think about

  1464. these things

  1465. so let me

  1466. finish with a

  1467. happy ending

  1468. there's a

  1469. story about a

  1470. young man

  1471. who like

  1472. Elimelech

  1473. left his

  1474. home country

  1475. not because of

  1476. a famine

  1477. but because he

  1478. was attracted

  1479. by the bright

  1480. lights of a

  1481. distant far

  1482. country

  1483. which seemed

  1484. to offer so

  1485. much more

  1486. than all the

  1487. boring stuff at

  1488. home

  1489. restricted by

  1490. family and

  1491. father

  1492. armed with

  1493. his share of

  1494. the family

  1495. fortune

  1496. he set out

  1497. on his

  1498. journey and

  1499. for a time

  1500. as is always

  1501. the case

  1502. his destination

  1503. seemed to

  1504. fulfill

  1505. all he had

  1506. hoped for

  1507. as he

  1508. squandered

  1509. his wealth

  1510. in wild

  1511. living

  1512. wine

  1513. women

  1514. and song

  1515. but it

  1516. didn't

  1517. last

  1518. as Jesus

  1519. goes on to

  1520. explain in

  1521. this wonderful

  1522. story

  1523. let me read

  1524. from the

  1525. text

  1526. after he'd

  1527. spent everything

  1528. now notice the

  1529. connection

  1530. there was a

  1531. severe famine

  1532. in that

  1533. whole country

  1534. and he began

  1535. to be in

  1536. need

  1537. so he went

  1538. and hired

  1539. himself

  1540. to a citizen

  1541. of that

  1542. country

  1543. who sent

  1544. him

  1545. to his

  1546. fields

  1547. to feed

  1548. pigs

  1549. he longed

  1550. to fill

  1551. his stomach

  1552. with the

  1553. pods

  1554. that the

  1555. pigs

  1556. were eating

  1557. but no

  1558. one gave

  1559. him

  1560. anything

  1561. what a

  1562. place for

  1563. a Jewish

  1564. boy to

  1565. end up

  1566. in a

  1567. pigsty

  1568. eating

  1569. pig

  1570. swill

  1571. but you

  1572. see

  1573. the story

  1574. Jesus tells

  1575. us

  1576. reminds us

  1577. that he

  1578. didn't end

  1579. up he

  1580. didn't die

  1581. in the

  1582. pigsty

  1583. instead

  1584. the famine

  1585. God used

  1586. the famine

  1587. to remind

  1588. him

  1589. of what

  1590. he left

  1591. behind

  1592. it was

  1593. the famine

  1594. in this

  1595. case that

  1596. was the

  1597. means of

  1598. his salvation

  1599. we just

  1600. sang a hymn

  1601. by John

  1602. Newton

  1603. Amazing

  1604. Grace

  1605. John

  1606. Newton

  1607. of course

  1608. lived in

  1609. the 18th

  1610. century

  1611. he was

  1612. this slave

  1613. trader who

  1614. lived a

  1615. life of

  1616. utter

  1617. depravity

  1618. was gloriously

  1619. converted in a

  1620. storm at sea

  1621. and became

  1622. a minister

  1623. of the

  1624. gospel

  1625. and he

  1626. wrote this

  1627. wonderful hymn

  1628. Amazing

  1629. Grace

  1630. but he

  1631. wrote other

  1632. hymns and

  1633. maybe I'd be

  1634. surprised if

  1635. anyone here

  1636. maybe one or

  1637. two of you

  1638. might know

  1639. that he

  1640. actually wrote

  1641. a hymn

  1642. about the

  1643. parable of

  1644. the prodigal

  1645. son

  1646. and as I was

  1647. looking at it

  1648. I thought it's

  1649. a nice

  1650. place to

  1651. finish

  1652. so I'm

  1653. going to read

  1654. the words

  1655. of this hymn

  1656. now

  1657. the words

  1658. are a little

  1659. bit quaint

  1660. and old

  1661. fashioned

  1662. but I

  1663. think you'll

  1664. get the

  1665. meaning of

  1666. them

  1667. Newton is

  1668. a great

  1669. great

  1670. hymn

  1671. writer

  1672. so here's

  1673. what Newton

  1674. says

  1675. writes

  1676. listen

  1677. carefully

  1678. here's a

  1679. big star

  1680. picture

  1681. afflictions

  1682. though they

  1683. seem severe

  1684. in mercy

  1685. oft are

  1686. sent

  1687. they stopped

  1688. the prodigal's

  1689. career and

  1690. forced him

  1691. to repent

  1692. simple

  1693. isn't it

  1694. although he

  1695. no relentings

  1696. felt

  1697. change

  1698. your mind

  1699. till he

  1700. had spent

  1701. his store

  1702. his stubborn

  1703. heart began

  1704. to melt

  1705. when famine

  1706. pinched him

  1707. sore

  1708. what have I

  1709. gained by sin

  1710. he said

  1711. by hunger

  1712. shame

  1713. and fear

  1714. my father's

  1715. house abounds

  1716. with bread

  1717. while I am

  1718. starving here

  1719. I'll go and

  1720. tell him all

  1721. I've done

  1722. and fall

  1723. before his

  1724. face

  1725. unworthy

  1726. to be called

  1727. his son

  1728. I'll seek

  1729. a servant's

  1730. place

  1731. his father

  1732. saw him

  1733. coming back

  1734. he saw

  1735. and ran

  1736. and smiled

  1737. and threw

  1738. his arms

  1739. around the

  1740. neck

  1741. of his

  1742. rebellious

  1743. child

  1744. father I've

  1745. sinned

  1746. but oh

  1747. forgive

  1748. I've heard

  1749. enough

  1750. he said

  1751. rejoice my

  1752. house

  1753. my son's

  1754. alive

  1755. for whom

  1756. I mourned

  1757. as dead

  1758. now let

  1759. the fatted

  1760. calf be slain

  1761. and spread

  1762. the news

  1763. around my

  1764. son was

  1765. dead

  1766. but lives

  1767. again was

  1768. lost

  1769. but now

  1770. is found

  1771. and here's

  1772. the lesson

  1773. final bit

  1774. it is thus

  1775. the Lord

  1776. his love

  1777. reveals

  1778. to call

  1779. poor sinners

  1780. home

  1781. more than

  1782. a father's

  1783. love he

  1784. feels

  1785. and welcomes

  1786. all

  1787. that

  1788. come

  1789. maybe

  1790. this evening

  1791. you're

  1792. that poor

  1793. sinner

  1794. living in

  1795. a far

  1796. country

  1797. if truth

  1798. are told

  1799. in a

  1800. pigsty

  1801. life

  1802. maybe

  1803. you're

  1804. not a

  1805. Christian

  1806. and you're

  1807. living in

  1808. that far

  1809. country

  1810. and I

  1811. simply

  1812. want to

  1813. say

  1814. to finish

  1815. on a

  1816. gospel

  1817. note

  1818. that God

  1819. the father

  1820. loves you

  1821. his son

  1822. invites you

  1823. the Holy

  1824. Spirit

  1825. urges you

  1826. and welcomes

  1827. you home

  1828. we come

  1829. expecting

  1830. nothing

  1831. and we

  1832. receive

  1833. God's

  1834. love

  1835. and grace

  1836. his arms

  1837. around us

  1838. of great

  1839. assurance

  1840. and maybe

  1841. for you

  1842. 2017

  1843. is the

  1844. year

  1845. when you

  1846. return home

  1847. for the

  1848. first time

  1849. back to

  1850. the

  1851. father's

  1852. home

  1853. the fellowship

  1854. with God

  1855. to restoration

  1856. to forgiveness

  1857. to peace

  1858. to joy

  1859. all the

  1860. things you've

  1861. longed for

  1862. and prove

  1863. that this

  1864. world never

  1865. satisfies

  1866. but maybe

  1867. there's

  1868. someone here

  1869. this evening

  1870. and you're

  1871. actually a

  1872. Christian

  1873. but you're

  1874. far from

  1875. God

  1876. living in

  1877. the peace

  1878. time

  1879. living in

  1880. the far

  1881. country

  1882. living in

  1883. Moab

  1884. as it

  1885. were

  1886. and I

  1887. simply want

  1888. to urge

  1889. you this

  1890. evening

  1891. don't die

  1892. in Moab

  1893. return home

  1894. to your

  1895. heavenly

  1896. father

  1897. let's pray

  1898. and then I'll

  1899. hand over to

  1900. Carrie for

  1901. a final

  1902. song

  1903. just pause

  1904. for a moment

  1905. just to reflect

  1906. what God

  1907. has said to

  1908. us this

  1909. evening

  1910. for his

  1911. word

  1912. father we

  1913. thank you

  1914. for your

  1915. amazing

  1916. unconditional

  1917. love

  1918. here is

  1919. love not

  1920. that we

  1921. loved you

  1922. but that

  1923. you loved

  1924. us

  1925. and gave

  1926. your son

  1927. to be the

  1928. one to

  1929. pay the

  1930. price for

  1931. our sin

  1932. to restore

  1933. us

  1934. to

  1935. yourself

  1936. thank you

  1937. for your

  1938. great

  1939. patience

  1940. with us

  1941. forgive us

  1942. that so

  1943. often we

  1944. seek our

  1945. satisfaction

  1946. in things

  1947. that never

  1948. fulfill

  1949. things that

  1950. prove in

  1951. the end

  1952. worthless

  1953. even

  1954. degrading

  1955. thank you

  1956. thank you

  1957. thank you

  1958. that you

  1959. welcome

  1960. us

  1961. home

  1962. and as

  1963. we

  1964. bound

  1965. your

  1966. presence

  1967. you

  1968. know

  1969. our

  1970. hearts

  1971. you're the

  1972. one to

  1973. whom all

  1974. hearts are

  1975. open

  1976. from whom

  1977. no secrets

  1978. are hid

  1979. and so

  1980. knowing

  1981. our

  1982. hearts

  1983. grant to

  1984. us that

  1985. repentant

  1986. spirit

  1987. that desire

  1988. to return

  1989. and as we

  1990. turn we

  1991. thank you

  1992. that you

  1993. welcome us

  1994. home

  1995. may this

  1996. day

  1997. be a day

  1998. of rejoicing

  1999. in heaven

  2000. as jesus

  2001. said over

  2002. one sinner

  2003. who repents

  2004. over one

  2005. son who

  2006. is restored

  2007. who was dead

  2008. and is alive

  2009. again who

  2010. was lost

  2011. and is found

  2012. and may this

  2013. be a beginning

  2014. a new year

  2015. when we

  2016. experience the

  2017. joy of

  2018. belonging to

  2019. you and

  2020. belonging to

  2021. your people

  2022. we ask it in

  2023. jesus name

  2024. for your glory

  2025. amen