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Jesus is my Master

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  1. Folks, great to see you this morning with a finger in Colossians chapter 3.

    Colossians 3 chapter mention

  2. I want everybody to hold their Bibles up in front of you.

  3. If you need to grab a Bible roundabout, grab a Bible roundabout.

  4. But everybody needs you to do this.

  5. You need to hold your Bible here.

  6. And I'm going to pray in just a second, lead us in prayer.

  7. But I want us to understand what I'm going to pray.

  8. So I want everybody to hold their Bibles above your head.

  9. So we're going to pray together that we would sit under the Word of God.

  10. So this is God's Word.

  11. This is the Word of life that we need to be at work in our lives.

  12. This is the Word of our Creator.

  13. And we want our heart attitude to be that we want to sit under and listen to His Word.

  14. So we're going to pray that we'd sit under the Word.

  15. I want everyone to put their Bibles on the floor.

  16. And metaphorically, don't do this actually.

  17. But picture yourself standing on the Bible, okay?

  18. We're going to pray that we would stand on the Word of God.

  19. That this would be the foundation, the sure foundation for our lives and our times.

  20. And that we would build our lives, base our lives on every word that proceeds from the mouth of God as we find it in the Bible.

  21. And then thirdly, I want you to hold it on your chest.

  22. And we're going to pray that the Word of God would be at work in us.

  23. So this Word, we believe it's alive and it's active that God speaks today.

  24. And we're going to pray that God, by His Spirit, would be molding us and prompting us and challenging us and comforting us and encouraging us and making us more into the likeness of His Son, Jesus Christ, for His glory.

  25. So that's what we're going to pray.

  26. I'm going to pray it now, okay?

  27. Heavenly Father, thank You so much for Your Word.

  28. Father, where would we be without Your life-giving Word?

  29. And so, Father, we pray that You would help our attitude this morning, that You would help us to sit under Your Word, that You would help us to stand on Your Word, and that You would, by Your Spirit, work in us by Your Word.

  30. And Father, we just want this morning to be of glory to You.

  31. And so we pray these things in Jesus' precious name.

  32. Amen.

  33. Well, with Colossians chapter 3 open in front of you, let me ask us a random rhetorical question just to set us off on the right track today.

    Colossians 3 chapter mention

  34. And here's the question, and it is a bit random, but stick with me.

  35. This is going somewhere okay.

  36. Do you know where your local pizza delivery place is?

  37. Yeah?

  38. Yes.

  39. Know where it is?

  40. Alex and I had a lovely Domino's pizza a couple of weeks ago.

  41. We were getting our oven fixed, and we thought, no, we're not going to cook.

  42. We're going to get a Domino's.

  43. So we went to Domino's.

  44. The reason I know where Domino's pizza is, our local pizza joint is,

  45. it's because so often they send people out onto the street around about us as walking billboards.

  46. I don't know if you've seen people like this.

  47. Yeah?

  48. So the people that they employ to go and stand on the street corner, and they're dressed as a giant Domino's pizza box,

  49. and they've got the words on the front, any pizza, any size, $6.99.

  50. This is normally what they say.

  51. And I always read this, read that every time I see it, and I think to myself,

  52. who is ringing up and ordering a small, right?

  53. Who's ordering a small with that deal?

  54. But this is the image I want us to carry through these verses today,

  55. because Paul is going to ask these Christians on Colossae to think of themselves,

  56. picture themselves as walking billboards.

  57. Now, we saw at the end of last week, Paul encouraged them, and this is verse 17,

  58. if you want to track with me the text, verse 17.

  59. He's encouraging them to think of worship as total.

  60. That's where we left off last week.

  61. Worship is total.

  62. Remember these false teachers?

  63. They're in the background in Colossae.

  64. They're pushing a compartmentalized, experiential, individualized Christianity.

  65. And Paul is saying, don't have any of it.

  66. Because this new identity in Christ, this was verses 1 to 4 of chapter 3,

  67. this new identity, because Jesus Christ, if you're a Christian, has claimed you,

  68. and he's changing you, the fact that that is true, that's an identity in your life,

  69. it shouldn't just affect your Sundays.

  70. It should affect your everyday.

  71. It should affect your Monday, and your Tuesday, and your Wednesday, and your Thursday, and your Friday, and your Saturday, and your back to Sunday.

  72. The whole thing should be affected by this new identity that you have in Christ.

  73. It was Dorothy Sawyers, the author of the last century, who commented and said this,

  74. How could anyone be interested in a religion that is no concern for nine-tenths of their life?

  75. And that is so true, isn't it?

  76. Why would anyone be interested in a religion that is no concern for nine-tenths of your life?

  77. Paul would heartily agree.

  78. It should transform your individual life.

  79. This is what he's already said.

  80. It should transform your corporate life together as a church, as this brought together body.

  81. We saw that last week.

  82. And today we're going to hear him tell them, this is verses 18 to chapter 4, verse 1,

  83. that it should transform your home life.

  84. And so he's speaking to this church.

  85. Remember, this church made up of tons of different kinds of people,

  86. lots of different things going on in their lives.

  87. And he's going to get them to think about their marriages.

  88. And he's going to get them to think about their families.

  89. And he's going to get them to think about their work.

  90. And in those areas of their lives, he wants them to think of themselves as walking billboards.

  91. And the question then is displaying what, saying what?

  92. Any pizza, any size, no, no, no.

  93. He wants them to say, with your life, display the message that Jesus is my Lord.

  94. Come with me to the text.

  95. Here's the key little phrase to this little section.

  96. Paul uses that word, Lord.

  97. Do you see it?

  98. We saw it kind of creep in at the end of last week.

  99. Lord or master, that's the word.

  100. He uses it six times in these nine verses.

  101. Lord, Lord, Lord, Lord, Lord.

  102. The whole of their lives has to be lived in the sphere of the Lord.

  103. So when it comes to these three years of their lives, the message is, Jesus is my master.

  104. He's my Lord.

  105. So people from the world should be able to look into your lives, dear Colossian Christians.

  106. And the same for us today is true.

  107. and he should in one way or another be able to conclude that Jesus is your master.

  108. He's your Lord.

  109. Jesus is the master that you live for.

  110. He's the one that you seek to give glory to.

  111. He is the one that you seek to present to the world.

  112. And I think it's fair comment to say, and we'll just acknowledge this up the top,

  113. that what Paul is urging here couldn't be any more counter-cultural.

  114. In our day, I mean, this stuff about husbands and wives and families and work,

  115. it runs so deeply against the grain of how our society tells us to think.

  116. But the truth is, and we need to hear this before we immediately jump to us,

  117. it was just as counter-cultural in the day that Paul wrote it,

  118. except that the cultural pendulum is on the other side.

  119. In the first century, who were the individuals deemed to be lower down the social ladder?

  120. Women, children, and slaves.

  121. But when it comes to their marriages and their families and their work,

  122. who does Paul address first in each instance?

  123. Wives, children, and slaves.

  124. You see what he's doing?

  125. You see how he's bestowing on them a real counter-cultural dignity and worth,

  126. and he's massaging home that truth that he stressed at verse 11?

  127. That in Christ, God has made them one.

  128. In other words, though the God-designed differences in creation, they remain.

  129. There's no second-class citizens in God's kingdom,

  130. because this new family that God has birthed, you're all one in Christ.

  131. This is what he's been saying all the way through this letter.

  132. So we need to understand that these words were just as counter-cultural then as they are today.

  133. Paul says,

  134. Be walking billboards that say to the world as you live your life,

  135. Jesus is my master.

  136. He's my master.

  137. He's the Lord.

  138. And do that in your marriage.

  139. Do you see it?

  140. Verses 18 and 19.

  141. Do it in your marriage.

  142. Now here's what we need to understand.

  143. As Paul speaks to husbands and wives, he's got the ultimate marriage in mind.

  144. The ultimate marriage in mind.

  145. The one that our marriages on earth are supposed to be based upon and point to and reflect.

  146. And that's the marriage that will happen on the last day when Jesus Christ our Lord returns between him and his bride, the church.

  147. That's the ultimate marriage.

  148. And Paul's got that in mind as he turns to address husbands and wives here in Colossae.

  149. Because their relationship together, the way that they relate to one another, the way that they love one another,

  150. is meant to project and point to that ultimate marriage.

  151. So to the married woman in this church, she says,

  152. In the same way that we've just sung, that the church submits to Christ,

  153. I urge you to reflect that by submitting to your husbands.

  154. And let me just deal with that word, submit, because it's a word that doesn't land softly to our 21st century ears.

  155. I guess because we've heard of people who have horribly abused that word.

  156. And because we live in a culture that is so deeply anti-authority.

  157. But let me just tell you, and this is the best quote on this I read this week.

  158. Let me just give this to you.

  159. This is how one commentator defines submission.

  160. Submission is a voluntary willingness.

  161. And it's so key, isn't it, that word voluntary.

  162. Voluntary willingness, a choice to recognize and put oneself under the loving leadership of another.

  163. So submission here has nothing to do with a wife's inferiority.

  164. Absolutely nothing to do with that.

  165. And that's clear as you trace the use of this word through the Bible.

  166. Because think what we've just sung.

  167. Jesus himself, the one who is fully and equal God.

  168. We see in John's gospel, we just sang it, he submitted himself to the will of the Father.

  169. If you trace it through in the Old Testament, we see God describe himself as being a helper to humanity.

  170. In creation, we see in creation.

  171. In creation, we see in the same way Eve in the creation account, she's described as being a helper to Adam.

  172. It's nothing to do with inferiority.

  173. And if it's nothing to do with that, equally it's nothing to do with the husband's superiority.

  174. Thinking he has carte blanche to rule the roost, that he's got license to take advantage.

  175. And Paul will make that so clear by what he goes on to say next to the husbands as they pursue the Lord.

  176. But Paul says, wives, bring all your gifts and your talents the way that God has wired you.

  177. And bring it to your marriage.

  178. And in the same way that the church submits to Christ out of love, I want you to reflect that as you affirm and you support and you encourage and you look to the loving and sacrificial Christ-like leadership of your husbands.

  179. It was Elizabeth Elliot, who was the late wife of Jim Elliot, who was the missionary to Ecuador.

  180. She's written some wonderful stuff on all of this if you want to go and check it out.

  181. Elizabeth Elliot said this, and I think this is very good, otherwise I wouldn't have put it in, okay.

  182. But she said, the fact that I'm a woman doesn't make me a different kind of Christian.

  183. But the fact that I am a Christian makes me a different kind of woman.

  184. And you see, as much as Paul's calling Christian wives to be so counter-culturally and attractively different, he's calling Christian husbands to be just as radical.

  185. And so to husbands, he urges them in the same way, in the same way that Christ has sacrificially laid down his life out of love for his bride, the church.

  186. That's how I want you to love your wives.

  187. Now feel the sting of that one of your husband here this morning.

  188. Remember, he's just teased out in this letter what love looks like, verse 12.

  189. Do you remember it last week?

  190. Love expresses itself in compassion, in humility, in meekness, in patience.

  191. And in verse 13, it expresses itself in forgiveness and long-suffering.

  192. So the kind of love that Paul is calling husbands to here is a love that always dies to self and puts somebody else first.

  193. And of course, it's the love that Jesus so wonderfully exemplified and showed, isn't it, on the cross?

  194. The one who had all authority in heaven humbled himself by coming down from heaven to earth to seek out and to die for and to give his life for,

  195. to shed his blood to redeem and to purify and win his bride, the church.

  196. He sets that bar.

  197. Then do you want to get them?

  198. He sets that bar.

  199. Do you see how that is what biblical, true, sacrificial, following after Christ with all your heart, love looks like for a husband?

  200. How counter-cultural then and how counter-cultural today?

  201. Husbands, let me ask you here this morning.

  202. If you are blessed to be a husband, do you love your wife like that?

  203. Do you love your wife like that?

  204. So do you see what he's saying to those who are married in this congregation in Colossae?

  205. He's saying in your marriages, it's together you pursue the Lord.

  206. Together you pursue the Lord.

  207. And the way that you love one another, and the way that you relate to one another,

  208. and the way that you sacrificially love one another,

  209. you are to be walking billboards that say, Jesus is my master.

  210. And you are to display that ultimate marriage for the world to see.

  211. And that means, friends, that if we are married here today,

  212. people should be able to look into our marriage and say,

  213. I've got no understanding of what that is about,

  214. except that that reflects something of what Jesus did for his church.

  215. That's the ultimate marriage.

  216. That is the ultimate marriage.

  217. It's not this one, it's that one.

  218. And it's so important that we have that in mind.

  219. Because if we look for completion,

  220. if we look for something kind of satisfying fulfillment,

  221. and our marriage is down here,

  222. and let me tell you, it will set us up massively for a fall.

  223. Massively for a fall.

  224. Some of you might remember the film,

  225. and this is me being a 90s child, okay,

  226. the film Jerry Maguire when it came out in 1996.

  227. Jerry Maguire, this film about a lovestruck sports agent.

  228. It was the reason I went into law.

  229. No, it wasn't.

  230. It wasn't.

  231. But Jerry Maguire was one of the most iconic and most quoted films of the 90s,

  232. if you remember it.

  233. And two of the most famous quotes from that film were,

  234. number one, the one that his sports,

  235. American football playing client said to him,

  236. and you'll remember this one,

  237. Jerry, show me the money.

  238. That's what he said.

  239. Jerry, show me the money.

  240. That was one quote from that film that everybody loves to quote.

  241. The second one from that film comes

  242. when Jerry speaks to the woman that he loves,

  243. and he says to her those three words.

  244. He says, you complete me.

  245. And it's so cute.

  246. And Hollywood loved it.

  247. And it sold millions upon millions upon millions of tickets.

  248. But let me let you into a little secret this morning, this afternoon.

  249. It's nonsense.

  250. It's absolute nonsense.

  251. To think that another human being could complete you,

  252. it's nonsense.

  253. Because, now don't hear me wrong,

  254. I love being married to Alex.

  255. She's not in here today.

  256. She's behind the back.

  257. I can't say this again.

  258. She's my best friend.

  259. If I had an evening off,

  260. she's the person I wanted to spend it with.

  261. I absolutely love her.

  262. But she knows,

  263. and I tell her this on a regular basis,

  264. that she does not complete me.

  265. And I can tell you from my own experience,

  266. I can tell you this categorically,

  267. that I certainly do not complete her.

  268. Okay?

  269. I'm an idiot.

  270. I do not complete her.

  271. Friends,

  272. if we look for completion,

  273. for satisfaction in anyone else but Jesus Christ,

  274. we will set ourselves up for a fall.

  275. And it was C.T. Studd,

  276. the famous English cricketer,

  277. turned missionary to China,

  278. who encouraged his wife to say a little poem to himself every day,

  279. that went,

  280. Dear Lord Jesus,

  281. as you are to me,

  282. dearer than Charlie ever could be.

  283. That's exactly what Paul is saying,

  284. isn't it?

  285. That's exactly what Paul is saying.

  286. The ultimate marriage.

  287. Keep that in mind.

  288. Because I realize that the truth for many of us here today

  289. is that your experience of marriage has been anything but what you see here.

  290. So painfully true.

  291. It's been anything but what you see here.

  292. In fact,

  293. it's been the polar opposite.

  294. And I realize there'll be some of us here today,

  295. and either you're struggling in your married life,

  296. or you're thinking to yourself,

  297. will I ever be married?

  298. Will that ever happen to me?

  299. Or whoever you are here today,

  300. let me encourage you to fix your eyes on that ultimate marriage.

  301. That if you're a Christian here today,

  302. if you're faithless in Jesus Christ,

  303. that you will be part of that bride.

  304. To fix your eyes on the perfect husband,

  305. in Jesus Christ,

  306. what he's done for you,

  307. shedding his blood for you,

  308. to buy you,

  309. ransom you to himself on the cross,

  310. and to fix your eyes on that marriage.

  311. And if you're married,

  312. to fix your eyes on that marriage.

  313. And as you fix your eyes on Jesus Christ,

  314. as the spirit of God,

  315. transform you more into his likeness,

  316. display his glory in your marriage.

  317. So in your marriages,

  318. Paul says,

  319. be walking billboards that display the message,

  320. Jesus is my master.

  321. And do the same in your family.

  322. Verse 20,

  323. we'll move on.

  324. So there's Paul's plea to the family.

  325. Again,

  326. let's just pick out the verbs.

  327. Children.

  328. And I think he's thinking about children,

  329. who are living with their parents,

  330. and they're old enough to understand,

  331. and make their own decisions,

  332. and respond.

  333. He says to them,

  334. obey.

  335. Obey your parents.

  336. This is what he says.

  337. And of course,

  338. he's rooting that instruction

  339. in the fifth commandment.

  340. That God had given Israel

  341. as a way of living

  342. that pleased the Lord.

  343. It's a wonderfully,

  344. is it not,

  345. dignifying thought in this day

  346. that Paul writes to children

  347. and says that in your lives,

  348. in the simple fact

  349. that you obey your parents,

  350. you can glorify the Lord.

  351. As their parents help you understand,

  352. that the family unit

  353. is something that the God,

  354. in his grace and in his mercy,

  355. has put in place.

  356. Not for your detriment,

  357. but for your good,

  358. for your protection,

  359. for your nurturing,

  360. and for your enjoyment.

  361. Obey your parents.

  362. This is what he says to the children.

  363. And so quickly off the back of that,

  364. he says to fathers,

  365. okay,

  366. I got a sting from the first one there.

  367. I've got the sting from the second one as well.

  368. Fathers.

  369. What does he say?

  370. Speaking to them,

  371. I take it first and foremost

  372. as the ones he wants to take

  373. the spiritual,

  374. sacrificial,

  375. and loving lead in the home.

  376. Because if you read around on this one,

  377. men in the Roman first century context

  378. have got a real reputation

  379. for being domineering in the home.

  380. So he's writing to them

  381. and says,

  382. Christian fathers,

  383. do not provoke your children

  384. by being harsh with them.

  385. Or discourage them

  386. because you lay upon them

  387. heavy expectations

  388. of what you want them to become.

  389. Which I take it

  390. is his way of saying,

  391. don't treat your children

  392. like you own them.

  393. Or that they're a burden to you.

  394. Rather encourage

  395. and love

  396. and nurture

  397. and instruct

  398. and pray for

  399. and take an interest in

  400. and care about

  401. and get to know

  402. and love

  403. your children.

  404. This is what he's saying.

  405. Because they are a gift from the Lord,

  406. they're a precious heritage from him,

  407. and your heavenly father

  408. loves these children

  409. way more than you do

  410. in his gracious and perfect way.

  411. Parents here today,

  412. let me ask you,

  413. do you love your children like this?

  414. Do you love your children like this?

  415. Let me ask you,

  416. come at it from a different angle.

  417. What do you long to be true for them

  418. as they grow up?

  419. I was thinking on it this week

  420. for my two little girls.

  421. What do you long to be true for them

  422. as they grow up?

  423. And our ultimate longing for them

  424. shouldn't be

  425. that they'd come top of the class,

  426. that they'd win the egg and spoon race

  427. on sports day,

  428. that they'd get into that school,

  429. that they'd get that job,

  430. that they'd get their grade 8

  431. on the clarinet.

  432. Our ultimate longing

  433. for our children

  434. is that they should come

  435. to know the Lord Jesus

  436. as their saviour

  437. and their king

  438. and know it for themselves.

  439. It should be our ultimate longing

  440. for them.

  441. Because that is

  442. the source of their

  443. greatest joy.

  444. You know,

  445. I long that Chloe and Grace

  446. would grow up

  447. and they would have

  448. the most boring testimonies ever.

  449. Honestly,

  450. the most boring testimonies ever.

  451. Because I remember

  452. when I was at a minister's lunch

  453. after Chloe was just born

  454. and I was sharing something

  455. that my fellow brothers

  456. and sisters could pray for me

  457. and I said,

  458. would you pray for my little girl?

  459. Just being handed

  460. this bundle of responsibility

  461. straight out of the womb,

  462. I don't know what to do.

  463. And they simply prayed for me

  464. and they prayed for her

  465. and they said,

  466. Lord Jesus,

  467. would it be true for her

  468. that there would never be a day

  469. where she wasn't conscious

  470. of you as her Lord

  471. and her Saviour

  472. and her King.

  473. And do you know what?

  474. Those words almost four years ago

  475. have stuck with me ever since.

  476. And that's what I pray for my girls.

  477. Now how is that going to happen?

  478. What's my job as a parent?

  479. Well, my job,

  480. I can't make them Christians,

  481. can I?

  482. It's your theology of salvation.

  483. You can't make them Christians.

  484. But my job as a parent

  485. is to put all the Jesus-shaped kindling

  486. that I possibly can

  487. around their lives

  488. as Alex and I,

  489. we live out in front of them

  490. a vibrant love for

  491. and a need for

  492. the Lord Jesus Christ

  493. and pray that the Holy Spirit

  494. would take that kindling,

  495. spark it and ignite it.

  496. That's my job.

  497. And I tell you what,

  498. it's just personally,

  499. it's wonderful to think

  500. we do that in a church family context,

  501. isn't it?

  502. Because they have got

  503. tons of spiritual sisters and brothers

  504. and tons of spiritual grandmothers

  505. and grandfathers.

  506. And it means so much to us

  507. that you are praying for those girls

  508. and it means so much

  509. I know to the other parents in here

  510. to know that you're

  511. dedicating yourselves

  512. to praying for them as well.

  513. That's our job.

  514. That's our job.

  515. It says fathers,

  516. be the father that

  517. your children need them to be.

  518. And I hope this encourages you.

  519. This was John Wesley.

  520. I was reading this week,

  521. John Wesley,

  522. the guy who was the

  523. the former slave ship

  524. master

  525. turned

  526. Anglican minister

  527. who wrote the famous song

  528. Amazing Grace.

  529. He wrote this

  530. and I hope this encourages parents here.

  531. He said,

  532. I learned more about Christianity

  533. from my mother

  534. than I did from all the theologians

  535. in England.

  536. I learned more

  537. about Christianity

  538. from my mother

  539. than I did from all the theologians

  540. in England.

  541. Keep going, parents.

  542. Keep going.

  543. Keep going.

  544. What a countercultural vision

  545. for the Christian family

  546. he lays out here.

  547. In your families,

  548. be walking billboards

  549. that say

  550. Jesus is

  551. my

  552. master.

  553. And thirdly,

  554. make him known in your work.

  555. Make him known in your work.

  556. Verse 22,

  557. Paul speaks to slaves.

  558. Now,

  559. I don't think that's

  560. slaves

  561. like our minds

  562. would immediately think

  563. like 20 years a slave,

  564. the film,

  565. or Selma.

  566. Paul's speaking into

  567. a first century culture

  568. where slavery

  569. is a very different thing.

  570. It's why

  571. if you've got an ESV there,

  572. the translators

  573. are so keen

  574. to footnote

  575. the use of that word

  576. all the time

  577. with the word

  578. bondservant.

  579. You might notice that

  580. if you've got an ESV there.

  581. Because slave

  582. is a broad term

  583. that can just describe

  584. anybody

  585. who's under the authority

  586. of another.

  587. Slaves in this day

  588. are often

  589. well-educated professionals.

  590. Bankers are slaves.

  591. Doctors were slaves.

  592. In fact,

  593. I was reading this week

  594. that up to two-thirds

  595. of the Roman Empire

  596. at this point

  597. are deemed slaves.

  598. Whole economy

  599. based on slaves.

  600. And so,

  601. although it's not

  602. identical to it,

  603. it is actually

  604. a lot closer

  605. to our modern-day

  606. employee-employer

  607. relationship

  608. that he's got in mind

  609. here as he writes.

  610. And look what he says

  611. to them.

  612. He says,

  613. obey.

  614. He says,

  615. work well.

  616. Be known

  617. for your reliability

  618. and diligence

  619. and gain

  620. a good reputation

  621. in the eyes

  622. of your master.

  623. And you see

  624. how he says,

  625. do it

  626. not just when

  627. the master

  628. is watching,

  629. do it

  630. all the time.

  631. Why?

  632. Well,

  633. because the eyes

  634. of your true master

  635. are on you

  636. all the time.

  637. And it's a heart thing,

  638. isn't it,

  639. what he's saying here?

  640. Work for the Lord

  641. from your heart.

  642. from your heart.

  643. And when he returns,

  644. your master,

  645. you will receive

  646. your inheritance.

  647. And so into a culture

  648. today

  649. that thinks little

  650. of having an extra

  651. five minutes

  652. on your lunch break

  653. or being five minutes

  654. late in the morning

  655. or slagging off

  656. a colleague or client

  657. behind their back

  658. or surfing the internet

  659. until the boss

  660. walks in the room

  661. and then changing the thing

  662. to pretend that

  663. you are working.

  664. Paul says,

  665. work for the Lord.

  666. I don't know if you

  667. remember that as well

  668. that the

  669. Bed and the Apprentice

  670. the last series

  671. when we're talking

  672. about dishonesty

  673. where the guy

  674. was asked to interview

  675. about some

  676. false claims

  677. that were made

  678. on his website

  679. and the person

  680. interviewed and asked him

  681. did you write them

  682. and he said,

  683. no,

  684. I don't know how

  685. they came onto

  686. my website.

  687. And he said,

  688. did you write them?

  689. And he said,

  690. well,

  691. I could have written them.

  692. He said,

  693. did you write them?

  694. Oh,

  695. there's a good chance

  696. I could have written them.

  697. Did you write them?

  698. Yes,

  699. I wrote them.

  700. To a world that thinks

  701. nothing of lying

  702. and of deceit,

  703. Paul says,

  704. be different,

  705. work for the Lord.

  706. Work for the Lord.

  707. Show them in the way

  708. that you work.

  709. Show them that Jesus

  710. is your master.

  711. Show them how Jesus

  712. has claimed you

  713. and changed you

  714. and do it all the time.

  715. I remember the job

  716. I was in before this one

  717. down south.

  718. Some of my colleagues

  719. would get together

  720. and they would jokingly

  721. have their own

  722. little award ceremony.

  723. And one of these

  724. little awards

  725. that they used to

  726. kind of hand out

  727. every year

  728. was the Dolly Parton Award.

  729. The Dolly Parton Award

  730. wasn't for somebody

  731. who was good at singing.

  732. The Dolly Parton Award

  733. went to the person

  734. who was seen to be

  735. simply working

  736. nine to five.

  737. Right?

  738. It was a corporate law firm,

  739. very different world,

  740. simply working nine to five.

  741. But the subtext

  742. of that award

  743. was that this person

  744. we saw

  745. did the bare minimum.

  746. This person we saw

  747. was not interested

  748. in going the extra mile.

  749. They were quite happy

  750. to clock in and clock out.

  751. This person we saw

  752. had no interest

  753. in the business

  754. and he had no interest

  755. in the people

  756. that worked there.

  757. They got the Dolly Parton Award.

  758. Now don't hear what I'm not saying.

  759. I'm not saying

  760. sell yourself to your work.

  761. Don't do that.

  762. But the Christians

  763. should never be up

  764. for the Dolly Parton Award.

  765. We should never be up for that.

  766. We should deeply care

  767. about what we do

  768. because we are serving

  769. the Lord.

  770. Friends,

  771. we want to be

  772. the best kind of employees,

  773. do we not?

  774. The best kind of employees.

  775. The best to hire,

  776. the best to work with.

  777. Think about your place of work.

  778. Is that how you're known?

  779. If you were ever

  780. to move on

  781. from your place of work,

  782. would people be deeply saddened

  783. that you've moved on?

  784. Or would they be

  785. delighted to see

  786. the back of you?

  787. Do people at work

  788. know that you work

  789. for the higher master?

  790. Think about how

  791. that might work out

  792. in your office

  793. tomorrow morning

  794. as you speak

  795. about your weekend.

  796. Do they know what you do?

  797. Do they know

  798. who the master is?

  799. And to masters,

  800. that is to bosses,

  801. Paul says,

  802. verse 1 of chapter 4,

  803. remember Christ

  804. is your master too.

  805. Therefore,

  806. treat your slaves justly,

  807. treat them fairly,

  808. treat them considerately.

  809. And particularly

  810. in the immediate context

  811. that he's picturing,

  812. if your slave

  813. is a fellow believer,

  814. I think that's right

  815. at the heart

  816. of the little letter

  817. of Philemon,

  818. if you want to go home

  819. and read that,

  820. which is written

  821. at the same time,

  822. written to a member

  823. of this Colossian family

  824. who was a slave

  825. and a master,

  826. talking about how

  827. the gospel has totally

  828. transformed that relationship.

  829. But Paul says,

  830. in your work,

  831. in your work,

  832. be walking billboards,

  833. whatever you do,

  834. be walking billboards

  835. that say,

  836. Jesus is my master.

  837. He's my master.

  838. So let me just ask you

  839. once again as you close,

  840. do you know where

  841. your local pizza

  842. delivery shop is?

  843. Do you know where it is?

  844. Paul argues these believers

  845. to live in such a way

  846. that when people

  847. look at you

  848. and they look

  849. into your home,

  850. they see walking billboards

  851. that are displaying

  852. the message,

  853. Jesus is our master.

  854. He's my master.

  855. Now here's where

  856. I want to end today.

  857. Now you probably know

  858. that I love to quote songs.

  859. Here's another song

  860. for you.

  861. It's one that my dad

  862. used to play in the car

  863. when I was growing up

  864. by Scotland's favorite son

  865. called Rod Stewart.

  866. And it went like this.

  867. I wish that I knew

  868. what I know now

  869. when I was younger.

  870. Remember that one?

  871. Some of us?

  872. No?

  873. Some of us remember it.

  874. I wish that I knew now,

  875. I wish that I knew

  876. what I know now

  877. when I was younger.

  878. Now here is what I know now.

  879. Okay?

  880. I've been doing this marriage thing

  881. for almost eight years.

  882. I've been doing this parenting thing

  883. for almost four years.

  884. I've been doing the work thing

  885. between a mixture of part-time

  886. and full-time

  887. since I left school

  888. almost 16 years ago.

  889. And nothing has taught me more

  890. but the depths of the sin

  891. in my own heart

  892. and the realities of living

  893. in a broken and a fallen world

  894. and my need for help

  895. and my need for my brothers

  896. and sisters

  897. and for my absolute need

  898. for the grace of God

  899. and for a savior in my life.

  900. I don't quite like marriage,

  901. being a husband,

  902. being a father,

  903. and being an employee.

  904. Because if we leave these verses

  905. this morning

  906. and the message is internal,

  907. let's try harder,

  908. let's be better.

  909. Let me just tell you

  910. from the little experience

  911. that I've got

  912. that we've totally missed the point.

  913. This passage

  914. should throw us to our knees

  915. saying,

  916. Lord Jesus,

  917. we need you.

  918. we need you.

  919. And it should send us

  920. running to the Christ

  921. that's right at the heart

  922. of this letter to Colossians.

  923. Remember the Christ

  924. who has claimed us,

  925. that our identity

  926. is not in these things,

  927. our identity is in him.

  928. The Christ who's claimed us,

  929. the Christ who's changing us

  930. by his spirit,

  931. and the Christ who loves

  932. to show grace

  933. to those who would

  934. humble themselves

  935. before him

  936. and say,

  937. Lord,

  938. I need you.

  939. Now I realize

  940. we'll have hit

  941. a lot of painful things

  942. this morning.

  943. And I hope a lot of challenges

  944. and a lot of encouragements

  945. at the same time as well.

  946. But just as we close,

  947. let's not rush on

  948. from this today.

  949. And just before I pray,

  950. and I'm going to pray

  951. for the different people

  952. that come out of this one,

  953. I just want you to have

  954. a moment of silence.

  955. And wherever this passage

  956. finds you this morning,

  957. I want you just to

  958. bear your soul to the Lord.

  959. God,

  960. because he knows

  961. and he cares

  962. and he calls us,

  963. doesn't he,

  964. to cast our burdens

  965. on him

  966. because he cares for us.

  967. And then I'll pray

  968. and we'll be done.

  969. And so, Father,

  970. we thank you so much

  971. for the Lord Jesus,

  972. the image of the invisible God,

  973. the creator

  974. and the sustainer

  975. and the redeemer

  976. of all things.

  977. And we thank you

  978. that you are the God

  979. of all grace

  980. and for the gifts

  981. that you give us

  982. so unmerited,

  983. particularly the gift

  984. of marriage

  985. and the gift of family

  986. and the gift of work.

  987. And so, Lord,

  988. we ask that as we respond

  989. to this passage this morning,

  990. I ask, Father,

  991. for those who

  992. are deeply hurting,

  993. Father,

  994. that you would bring healing.

  995. Father,

  996. for those who are

  997. dwelling on mistakes,

  998. I pray that you would bring

  999. forgiveness

  1000. and knowledge of that.

  1001. For those who are struggling,

  1002. I pray that you would bring

  1003. strength

  1004. and endurance

  1005. and patience.

  1006. and for all of us,

  1007. lords,

  1008. I pray that you would help us

  1009. to fix our eyes

  1010. on Jesus Christ,

  1011. our perfect

  1012. and all-sufficient

  1013. Savior.

  1014. So, Father,

  1015. help us to look to him

  1016. this week,

  1017. we ask,

  1018. in Jesus'

  1019. precious

  1020. and worthy name.

  1021. Amen.

  1022. Amen.

  1023. Amen.

  1024. Amen.

  1025. Amen.

  1026. Amen.

  1027. Amen.

  1028. Amen.

  1029. Amen.

  1030. Amen.

  1031. Amen.