Sermon
What is a Christian?
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Thanks very much, Alice, and good morning, everyone.
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What a wonderful passage, isn't it, that we're looking at today.
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We're only going to be able to scratch the surface of it in the next half hour,
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but I hope as we do that we'll be thrilled by what Jesus has to say to us,
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but also very deeply challenged by it.
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And the two really go together.
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There's much in this passage that we should rejoice in.
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There is also a lot that should help us to examine ourselves
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and our relationship with Jesus.
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Let me begin with a very basic question.
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What is a Christian?
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Or to put it another way,
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what difference is there between a Christian and someone who's not a Christian?
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Now, Peter's given us one answer to that already.
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A Christian is someone who follows Jesus.
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It's not directly on my list.
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It is certainly true.
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But if we're thinking of what is a Christian,
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then very simply,
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a Christian believes in Jesus.
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We've been going for some time now,
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with a little gap just in the last few weeks,
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we've been going for some time through John's Gospel.
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And we've come back quite often
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to a verse right at the end of chapter 20 of the Gospel,
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where John gives the purpose for writing.
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And he says,
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So John says,
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if you want to have life,
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if you want to have a relationship with God,
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you need to believe in Jesus.
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And if we read through the rest of the New Testament,
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that's what others say.
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Paul, when he was in a Philippian jail,
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and the jailer in desperation asked him,
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what must I do to be saved?
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Paul said,
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believe in the Lord Jesus Christ,
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and you will be saved.
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So fundamentally,
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a Christian believes in Jesus.
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We believe that Jesus is the Son of God,
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who came into the world and lived among us,
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who died on the cross at Calvary
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to take the punishment for sin,
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who rose again,
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who is now with God,
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and who is coming back.
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And we believe that Jesus is the only way to God.
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If we want to have forgiveness
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for all the wrong we've done,
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if we want to have a relationship
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with the God of heaven,
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the only way is through Jesus.
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A Christian believes in Jesus.
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Let me suggest something else.
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A Christian behaves like Jesus.
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I think I need to give two caveats to that.
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The first of these is,
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none of us in this world
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will ever be exactly like Jesus.
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We all remain sinners,
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those who go our own way,
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who disobey God's way,
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and that will be the case,
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to some extent at least,
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for as long as we live.
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And so we know
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that we can't by ourselves
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win God's favour.
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We need Jesus.
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We need to believe in Jesus
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as the only way to God.
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The second caveat is,
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it's not just Christians
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necessarily live upright,
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moral lives.
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There are people of other religions
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and of no religion
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who try to live well
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and to do good to others.
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But if we are a Christian,
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then we want to be like Jesus.
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We want to live the way that he lived.
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We want to live good,
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moral lives.
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We want to be self-controlled.
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We want to have a real concern
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for others.
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We want to spread the good news
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about Jesus to others.
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All things that Jesus did
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that we should do as well.
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The last few weeks,
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as I'll mention,
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we've been going through
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the book of Titus,
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a great letter of Paul,
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and that is very much
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a focus of Titus.
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How we should live as Christians.
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For example,
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in chapter 2,
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Paul says,
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the grace of God
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teaches us to say no
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to ungodliness
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and worldly passions
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and to live self-controlled,
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upright,
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and godly lives
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in this present age.
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Because of God's grace to us,
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because of what God has done for us
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through the Lord Jesus,
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we should want to live like Jesus
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and to follow his example.
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A Christian behaves like Jesus.
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But I think there's something else,
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and this is where we're going
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to come to John chapter 15.
John 15 chapter mention
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I would suggest
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that a Christian belongs with Jesus.
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Now, I've not said belongs to Jesus,
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although that is true.
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A Christian belongs with Jesus.
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You see, being a Christian
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is not just a matter
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of believing the right things,
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of having good doctrine.
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It's not just a matter
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of doing good things,
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of having good ethics.
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fundamentally,
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it's about a relationship
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that we have with the Lord Jesus.
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We belong with Jesus.
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And the passage we're looking at in John 15,
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the Lord gives us two lovely pictures
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of what that means.
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He says that if we are Christians,
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if we belong with him,
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then we are branches in a vine,
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where he is the vine.
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And then he says later on,
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if we obey him,
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then we are his friends.
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Now, the picture of the vine
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in some ways is quite mystical,
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supernatural,
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and maybe quite difficult to grasp,
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but very important.
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Picture of friendship,
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perhaps we can grasp more easily.
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We understand,
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we all understand
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what friendship is,
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although we'll see
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the friendship we have with Jesus
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is a little different
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from our other friendships.
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But perhaps we could say
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that the Christian belonging with Jesus,
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we share in his life,
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that's the picture of the vine
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and the branches,
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and we share in his love,
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that is the friendship
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we enjoy with him.
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These are the two sections,
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two subsections,
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of what we're going to be looking at
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in a minute.
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Maybe it's worth, though,
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just taking a minute
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to position ourselves
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in John's Gospel,
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because it has been a few weeks
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since we've looked at it together.
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So John's Gospel divides
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quite naturally into two sections.
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The first 12 chapters
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are about Jesus going around,
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interacting with people,
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teaching, discussing,
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performing signs, miracles,
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to demonstrate that he is God.
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And it seeks to answer the question,
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who is Jesus?
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From chapter 13
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to the end of John's Gospel,
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it changes a bit,
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and it is very much concerned
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with the events around
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Jesus' crucifixion
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and resurrection.
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What happened before
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and what happened after.
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And chapters 13 to 16,
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which we're in just now,
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are sometimes called
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the upper room ministry
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of Jesus.
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It's Jesus,
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the night before he died,
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spending real quality time
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with his disciples,
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teaching them the things
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that he believes
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they need to know
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as he is about
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to leave them.
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Within that,
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there's a bit of a break
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at the end of chapter 14.
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So as we pick up
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in chapter 15,
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it's after the end
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of a bit of a break point.
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If you've got your Bible
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in front of you,
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you'll see that right
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at the end of chapter 14,
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Jesus says,
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come now,
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let us leave.
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So actually,
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what we're reading
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in chapter 15
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may not have happened
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in the upper room.
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It may have been
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if Jesus' disciples
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were walking.
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It may even be
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when they were standing
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in the temple precinct
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where there was
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a huge golden vine
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that would have been
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very visible.
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We don't know,
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but I think there is
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a change of thought.
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So I think the end
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of chapter 14
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is a break point
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in that the focus
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is slightly different.
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In chapters 13 and 14,
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Jesus is preparing
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his disciples
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for what is to follow
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immediately.
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He's giving them
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comfort that they
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can hold on to
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as they witness
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his crucifixion
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and then later on
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after he rises
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from the dead
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as he goes to be
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with his father.
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Broadly speaking,
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the focus of chapters
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13 and 14
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takes us up
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to Pentecost
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when the Holy Spirit
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comes on the believers.
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I think chapters 15 and 16
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are looking further ahead.
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Jesus is saying
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to his disciples,
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here is how you should live
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as the church.
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As my representatives
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on earth
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when I'm no longer there,
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here's what you should do
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and here's what you can expect.
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What you can expect
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from the world around you,
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large rejection,
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we'll see that next week,
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and what you can expect
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from God
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through the power
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of the Spirit.
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And so what we're looking
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at this morning
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is really the introductory
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part of that
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as Jesus tells us
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two things
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that are pivotal
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in our relationship
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with him
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that are part of us
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belonging to Jesus.
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You've probably already
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worked out that I quite
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like alliteration,
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so we're going to use
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a bit of alliteration again.
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We're going to talk about
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lasting fruit
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and about loving friendship.
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And these will be
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the two sections
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we'll be thinking about.
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Broadly speaking,
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lasting fruit
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goes up to about verse 8
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and from verse 9 onwards
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it is loving friendship.
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So lasting fruit.
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The analogy of the vine
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and the vineyard
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would have been very familiar
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to Jesus' disciples.
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In the Old Testament,
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many times it talks about
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God as the vineyard keeper
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and the nation of Israel
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as the vineyard.
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And what characterizes that
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in many, many of these occasions
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is that the vineyard
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is failing.
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That it is not meeting
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the expectations
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of the vineyard owner.
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Classic example of that
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in Isaiah chapter 5
Isaiah 5 chapter mention
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where God says,
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what more could I have done
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for my vineyard
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than I have done for it?
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He then says
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he will allow it
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to be destroyed
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and he says
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he looked for justice
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but saw bloodshed,
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for righteousness
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but heard cries
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of distress.
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And there are other passages
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similar to that
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in the Old Testament.
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Israel was designed
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to be God's vineyard
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but it was a vineyard
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that didn't produce fruit
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because people's lives
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hadn't really been changed
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because the leaders
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weren't leading them
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in a way
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that was in accordance
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with God's will.
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And so in chapter 1
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of verse 1
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of chapter 15
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Jesus says,
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I am the true vine.
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The old vineyard
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is not the thing
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that we should be looking at now.
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We should be looking at one vine
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and that vine is Jesus.
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And many of you know
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this is the last of seven
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I am sayings
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of the Lord Jesus
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in John's Gospel
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where he reveals
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truths about himself
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but also truths about us
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and our relationship
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with them.
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And that's very much
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going to be the case
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in this one.
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Now I'm no gardener.
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If you ever come
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to our house
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and admire anything
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in the garden
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all the credit
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goes to Bridget.
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And that includes
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two trees
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that we've got.
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Two fruit trees.
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We've got a plum tree
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and an apple tree.
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And we've only had them
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a relatively short time
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a few years
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but they are very fruitful.
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We had a good crop
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from them last year.
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But I look at them
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just now in the winter
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there are no leaves
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there is no fruit
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and I think we need
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to think about
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cutting these back a bit
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in the new year.
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They've got nice
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long branches
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but actually growing
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nice long branches
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is not what fruit trees
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are all about.
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What you want
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from fruit trees
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is good fruit.
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And how do you get
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good fruit?
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Well the fruit comes
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from the life
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of the tree
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which comes up
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through the trunk
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of the tree
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and the sap
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that goes out
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and you want
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that sap
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to be producing
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fruit
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rather than
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producing extended
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branches.
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So you need
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if you've got a tree
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occasionally
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to prune it.
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And that's the picture
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that the Lord Jesus
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is presenting
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to us here.
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Much more skilled
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than I would ever do
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in terms of pruning
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but God
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he says
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is pruning
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his vine.
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And there are
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two things
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that he does
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says Jesus.
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He takes
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the dead wood
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the wood
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that has no fruit
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growing in it
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and he cuts
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that off
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and he throws
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that away.
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Not entirely
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clear what Jesus
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is talking about
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there
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but it may well
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be people
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who appear
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to be Christians
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who come to church
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who present
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as being followers
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of Jesus
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but actually
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they're not
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really Christians
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and not displaying
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the fruit
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that a real
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Christian should
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and maybe
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their trust
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is not really
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in Jesus.
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That might be
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what the Lord
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is describing.
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You might be thinking
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particularly of Judas
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who had been one of his disciples
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for three years
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and now had betrayed him.
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But let's focus more
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on the second action
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that the gardener takes
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because the branches
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that are bearing
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good fruit
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he prunes.
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He cuts a bit
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of them
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in the expectation
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that they will
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produce
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even better
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fruit.
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Now at first sight
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that might seem
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a rather strange
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thing to do.
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Why do you cut back
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the thing
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that is fruitful?
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You're going to
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reduce the fruit
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are you not
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in the short term?
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Well maybe you are
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but what you will get
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in the long term
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is both more fruit
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and better fruit.
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Fruit says Jesus
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that will
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last.
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And vineyard keepers
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whether in Israel
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or whether in southern Europe
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they are very skilled
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at knowing
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when and how
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to prune
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the branches
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to produce
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the best
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crops.
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What does that mean
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for us?
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If we take
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ourselves
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how does God
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prune us?
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How does he
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help us
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to be
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more
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fruitful?
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Well I think it
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could come in a number
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of ways
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and they tend
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to be
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painful
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for us.
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Sometimes
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perhaps when we have
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done something
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we know is wrong
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or when we're
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reading God's word
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and we recognise
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that we're not
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meeting the standards
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as Christians
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we may feel
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a bit of a sense
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of shame.
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We may recognise
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all that Jesus
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has done for us
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all that we owe him
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how we should live
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and we say
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I'm just not
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meeting that
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standard.
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I'm not
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good enough.
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And then perhaps
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the Lord Jesus
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comes to us
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and through the
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Spirit he reminds
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us that yes
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we're not
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good enough
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but Jesus
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has taken
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the penalty
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for our sins
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and there is
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forgiveness
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for us
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even as we
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continually
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fail him.
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So by
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helping us
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to understand
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our own
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inadequacy
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by bringing
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that sense
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of failure
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on us
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God can
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help us
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to grow
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as Christians
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and to
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become more
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like Jesus
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as we realise
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again
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just how much
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we owe him.
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Then there's
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a second example
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which we sometimes
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call the trials
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we experience
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in life.
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We suffer
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illness
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or someone
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close to us
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suffers illness.
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We suffer
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bereavement
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perhaps we
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get made
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redundant
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from our
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job
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or there's
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something else
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that is
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causing us
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great stress
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in our
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lives.
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And we
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might be
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tempted to
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say to
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God
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well why
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is this
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and it's
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not wrong
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to ask
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that question
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why is
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this
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happening?
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Well one
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of the
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reasons
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why these
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things
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happen
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is to
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draw us
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closer
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to the
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Lord Jesus
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to help
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us to realise
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that there
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are things
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which we
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can't
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control
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in our
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own
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strength
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but to
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know we
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have a
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God
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who is
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in
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control
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of
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everything
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and our
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Christian
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trials
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the
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difficulties
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we
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face
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they
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build
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our
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Christian
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character
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they
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help us
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to become
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more
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dependent
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on the
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Lord
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Jesus
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they
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increase
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the bond
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if you
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like
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between
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the
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branches
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and the
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vine
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and they
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help us
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to be
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better
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disciples
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of the
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Lord
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Jesus
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that
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pruning
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process
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that God
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uses
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for us
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it is
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painful
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but it
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is so
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important
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that we
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never
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suffer
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we
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never
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develop
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character
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and we
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need to
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develop
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fruit
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by being
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pruned
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by our
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heavenly
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father
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but that's
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the role
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of the
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father
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what about
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the Lord
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Jesus
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the Lord
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Jesus
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who is
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the vine
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well the
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key word
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that comes
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again and
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again in
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these verses
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is
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remain
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we are
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to remain
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in him
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Jesus
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says
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if we
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remain
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in him
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we will
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have his
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life
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we will
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bear
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fruit
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we will
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become
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like
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him
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so what
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does it
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mean then
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if we
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want to
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think about
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remaining
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in
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Jesus
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well we
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have to
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recognize
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first again
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that without
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Christ we
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have no
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spiritual
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life
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without him
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we would
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be dead
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in our
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sins
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and we
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need to
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repent
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and trust
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him
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but we
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need to
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do more
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than that
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we need
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to cultivate
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our
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relationship
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with him
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he wants
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us to
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have a
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living
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active
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vital
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relationship
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where he
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is part
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of our
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everyday
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lives
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he is a
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key part
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of our
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everyday
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lives
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and we
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seek to
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follow him
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and live
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for him
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we maintain
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the relationship
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when we
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read and
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meditate
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on the
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bible
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when we
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come to
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him
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in prayer
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when we
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prioritize
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serving
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Jesus
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and living
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for him
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above
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everything
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else
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when as
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we're
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looking later
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on
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when we
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obey him
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when we
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love
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others
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that is
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what
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remaining
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in Jesus
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means
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it is
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he is
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at the
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center
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of our
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lives
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and we
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recognize
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that any
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life we
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have
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any
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spiritual
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life we
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have
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is only
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because he
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is the
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vine
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and we
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are attached
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to him
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as the
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branches
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his life
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is flowing
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through us
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and making
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us fruitful
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and what
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then is
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the fruit
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the good
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fruit that
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is going
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to last
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as I
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expect for
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many of
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us when
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we talk
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about fruit
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our minds
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go automatically
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to the book
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of Galatians
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where Paul
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lists the
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fruit of the
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spirit
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love
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joy
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peace
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patience
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kindness
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goodness
-
faithfulness
-
gentleness
-
self-control
-
these are the
-
things which
-
characterize the
-
Lord Jesus
-
and they're the
-
things that should
-
characterize us
-
as Christians
-
and as we read
-
through that list
-
I'm sure all of us
-
see there are
-
things there
-
that perhaps I'm
-
not doing too
-
badly on
-
but there are
-
things there
-
where I really
-
need to
-
improve
-
where I need
-
to be
-
bearing
-
more
-
fruit
-
and a
-
fruitful
-
Christian is
-
not primarily
-
about what
-
we do
-
it's about
-
who we are
-
it's about
-
our character
-
it's about
-
how we live
-
our daily
-
lives
-
but I think
-
when we think
-
about fruit
-
we need to go
-
a little bit
-
beyond that
-
because there
-
is fruit
-
that is
-
displayed
-
through other
-
people
-
as well
-
so for example
-
if we have
-
the privilege
-
of being able
-
to lead someone
-
to trust
-
in the Lord
-
Jesus
-
that is fruit
-
for the work
-
that we have
-
done
-
not that we
-
would take
-
credit for
-
it is from
-
the Spirit
-
but it is
-
fruit of what
-
we've done
-
that we can
-
rejoice in
-
what we've been
-
thinking about
-
the last couple
-
of weeks
-
we are a church
-
together many
-
of us
-
old and young
-
and we have
-
the opportunity
-
to interact
-
with one another
-
to encourage
-
each other
-
in our faith
-
and in our
-
relationship
-
with the Lord
-
Jesus
-
and when we
-
can see that
-
character of Christ
-
developing in
-
others
-
to an extent
-
that is
-
our fruit
-
as well
-
we are being
-
fruitful
-
by setting
-
a good example
-
and by
-
encouraging others
-
in their faith
-
and you can
-
probably think
-
of other
-
examples of
-
fruit
-
as well
-
but as we
-
remain in
-
Jesus
-
as we
-
bear fruit
-
in our
-
lives
-
what wonderful
-
things he
-
promises
-
to us
-
so in verse
-
10
-
the Lord
-
Jesus
-
says
-
if you keep
-
my command
-
you will remain
-
in my love
-
just say I kept
-
my father's
-
commands
-
and remain
-
in his
-
love
-
so we will
-
enjoy
-
Christ's
-
presence
-
with us
-
and the
-
knowledge
-
that he
-
loves us
-
more than
-
we could
-
ever
-
understand
-
and that
-
he has
-
the best
-
in store
-
for us
-
the Lord
-
Jesus
-
also says
-
that if
-
we remain
-
in him
-
this is
-
verse 7
-
if we remain
-
in him
-
ask whatever
-
you wish
-
and it will
-
be done
-
for you
-
what a
-
marvellous
-
promise
-
that we can
-
come to our
-
heavenly father
-
in Jesus
-
name
-
as those
-
remaining
-
in Jesus
-
and we can
-
present the
-
requests
-
of our
-
heart
-
knowing that
-
God listens
-
and that
-
God will
-
answer
-
now it has
-
to be said
-
with that
-
that this
-
is for people
-
who remain
-
in Jesus
-
and if we're
-
remaining in
-
Jesus
-
our desire
-
should be
-
not for
-
our own
-
comfort
-
or our
-
own wealth
-
or whatever
-
it should
-
be for
-
his glory
-
but that
-
doesn't take
-
away from
-
the greatness
-
of the
-
promise
-
that those
-
who remain
-
in Jesus
-
can come
-
to God
-
the father
-
and can
-
see
-
answers
-
to prayer
-
and then
-
finally
-
and there's
-
lots more
-
we could
-
talk about
-
Jesus
-
talks about
-
joy
-
verse 11
-
I've told
-
you this
-
so that
-
my joy
-
may be
-
in you
-
and that
-
your joy
-
may be
-
complete
-
joy
-
whatever
-
our
-
circumstances
-
joy
-
through the
-
difficult
-
times
-
as well
-
as easy
-
times
-
if we
-
remain
-
in Jesus
-
if we
-
are enjoying
-
his life
-
and his
-
presence
-
we can
-
take comfort
-
and strength
-
from that
-
and we can
-
rejoice in his
-
goodness
-
whatever
-
circumstances
-
we face
-
what a great
-
privilege it is
-
to be part
-
of the vine
-
that is
-
the Lord
-
Jesus
-
and to
-
produce
-
lasting
-
fruit
-
let's move
-
on though
-
and look at
-
the second
-
part
-
of the
-
passage
-
which I've
-
called
-
loving
-
friendship
-
I'm going
-
to focus
-
particularly
-
on verses
-
12 to
-
14
-
but we
-
will
-
cover
-
the other
-
verses
-
as we
-
go along
-
one of
-
the first
-
sermons
-
I ever
-
preached
-
was on
-
these
-
three
-
verses
-
and the
-
reason
-
was that
-
I was
-
really
-
intrigued
-
by the
-
structure
-
of them
-
and it
-
is tremendous
-
look in
-
the way
-
I've tried
-
to illustrate
-
in the
-
slide
-
to look
-
at how
-
the verses
-
fit together
-
you can
-
start with
-
any of
-
them
-
and read
-
round and
-
round in
-
a circle
-
going back
-
from verse
-
14 to
-
verse 12
-
every time
-
and it
-
follows on
-
it flows
-
very naturally
-
my command
-
is this
-
love each
-
other as
-
I have
-
loved you
-
greater
-
love has
-
no one
-
than this
-
to lay
-
down
-
one's
-
life
-
for one
-
friend
-
you are
-
my
-
friends
-
if you
-
do
-
what I
-
command
-
my
-
command
-
is this
-
love
-
each
-
other
-
and we
-
go round
-
and round
-
and just
-
marvel
-
at what
-
God
-
what the
-
Lord
-
Jesus
-
is saying
-
to us
-
and what
-
it means
-
for us
-
we'll start
-
at the end
-
today
-
and work
-
our way
-
round to
-
the middle
-
so verse
-
14
-
says
-
you are
-
my
-
friends
-
if you
-
do
-
what
-
I
-
command
-
now that
-
should
-
immediately
-
say to
-
us
-
our
-
friendship
-
with the
-
Lord
-
Jesus
-
that he
-
offers
-
to us
-
is a
-
different
-
kind
-
of
-
friendship
-
you
-
you
-
probably
-
wouldn't
-
be
-
very
-
impressed
-
if I
-
came up
-
to you
-
and said
-
you can
-
be my
-
friend
-
but only
-
if you
-
do
-
everything
-
I
-
tell
-
you
-
to
-
that's
-
not
-
the way
-
a
-
normal
-
friendship
-
works
-
friendship
-
is
-
normally
-
a
-
relationship
-
between
-
those
-
who
-
treat
-
each
-
other
-
broadly
-
as
-
equals
-
our
-
friendship
-
with
-
Jesus
-
is
-
different
-
we
-
are
-
in
-
no
-
way
-
Jesus
-
equals
-
the
-
best
-
analogy
-
perhaps
-
would
-
be a
-
king
-
or in
-
those
-
days
-
an
-
emperor
-
the
-
king
-
would
-
have
-
a
-
court
-
and
-
there
-
would
-
be
-
courtiers
-
who
-
might
-
regard
-
as
-
his
-
friends
-
they
-
would
-
be
-
his
-
confidants
-
people
-
who
-
might
-
give
-
him
-
advice
-
people
-
who
-
he
-
would
-
tell
-
what
-
he
-
was
-
thinking
-
but
-
they
-
would
-
still
-
be
-
his
-
subjects
-
they
-
would
-
still
-
be
-
under
-
him
-
and
-
need
-
to
-
obey
-
his
-
commands
-
and
-
that's
-
the
-
kind
-
of
-
friendship
-
that
-
Jesus
-
is
-
talking
-
about
-
here
-
and
-
the
-
contrast
-
he
-
makes
-
in
-
the
-
friendship
-
is
-
not
-
between
-
friends
-
and
-
enemies
-
it's
-
between
-
friends
-
and
-
servants
-
he
-
says
-
I'm
-
no
-
longer
-
going
-
to
-
call
-
you
-
servants
-
I'm
-
going
-
to
-
call
-
you
-
my
-
friends
-
and
-
he
-
says
-
the
-
distinction
-
there
-
is
-
a
-
servant
-
just
-
has
-
to
-
do
-
what
-
they're
-
told
-
and
-
not
-
ask
-
any
-
questions
-
master
-
says
-
do
-
this
-
and
-
they
-
go
-
and
-
do
-
it
-
a
-
friend
-
is
-
privileged
-
to
-
understand
-
why
-
they're
-
being
-
told
-
and
-
to
-
know
-
a
-
little
-
bit
-
more
-
about
-
the
-
background
-
so
-
Jesus
-
says
-
up
-
till
-
now
-
you've
-
treated
-
yourself
-
as
-
my
-
servants
-
you've
-
been
-
my
-
disciples
-
and
-
you
-
have
-
taken
-
it
-
as
-
your
-
role
-
to
-
serve
-
me
-
I
-
now
-
want
-
to
-
call
-
you
-
my
-
friends
-
because
-
I've
-
told you
-
everything
-
you need
-
to know
-
and so
-
the
-
relationship
-
is much
-
more
-
one of
-
friendship
-
than
-
of
-
serving
-
servants
-
servants
-
to
-
serve
-
to
-
serve
-
to
-
serve
-
to
-
serve
-
to
-
serve
-
the
-
will
-
of
-
the
-
one
-
who
-
is
-
talking
-
with
-
them
-
what a
-
privilege
-
it is
-
for us
-
to
-
understand
-
the
-
mind
-
of
-
Jesus
-
and
-
to
-
understand
-
God
-
now
-
in
-
the
-
context
-
Jesus
-
obviously
-
was
-
talking
-
to
-
his
-
disciples
-
who
-
spent
-
a
-
long
-
time
-
with
-
him
-
that
-
we
-
haven't
-
physically
-
but
-
yet
-
in
-
the
-
Bible
-
we
-
can
-
see
-
God's
-
mind
-
and
-
God's
-
will
-
and
-
something
-
about
-
our
-
God
-
and
-
who
-
he
-
is
-
and
-
so
-
Jesus
-
says
-
you're
-
my
-
friends
-
you
-
understand
-
then he
-
repeats
-
the promises
-
he's
-
made
-
earlier
-
the
-
promise
-
of
-
fruitfulness
-
the
-
promise
-
of
-
answered
-
prayer
-
but
-
it's
-
all
-
dependent
-
on
-
obeying
-
Jesus
-
commands
-
you
-
are
-
my
-
friends
-
he
-
says
-
if
-
you
-
do
-
what
-
I
-
command
-
so
-
then
-
we
-
need
-
to
-
go
-
back
-
to
-
verse
-
12
-
what
-
does
-
Jesus
-
command
-
Jesus
-
says
-
my
-
command
-
is
-
this
-
love
-
each
-
other
-
as
-
I
-
have
-
loved
-
you
-
if
-
we
-
were to
-
go a bit
-
further
-
back
-
to
-
verse
-
9
-
we
-
can
-
see
-
the
-
love
-
that
-
Jesus
-
has
-
for
-
us
-
and
-
he
-
has
-
us
-
to
-
have
-
for
-
each
-
other
-
is
-
also
-
the
-
love
-
that
-
God
-
the
-
Father
-
had
-
for
-
Jesus
-
this
-
is
-
an
-
enormous
-
standard
-
that
-
he's
-
setting
-
for
-
us
-
the
-
love
-
in the
-
most
-
intimate
-
relationship
-
in the
-
universe
-
between
-
God
-
the
-
Father
-
and
-
God
-
the
-
love
-
sacrificial
-
and
-
wholly
-
undeserved
-
that the
-
Lord
-
Jesus
-
has
-
shown
-
to
-
us
-
that
-
is
-
the
-
kind
-
of
-
love
-
that
-
we
-
should
-
be
-
showing
-
to
-
each
-
other
-
it
-
might
-
seem
-
impossible
-
in a
-
sense
-
maybe
-
it
-
is
-
impossible
-
but
-
as
-
we
-
develop
-
the
-
character
-
of
-
Jesus
-
as
-
we
-
come
-
to
-
understand
-
more
-
of
-
the
-
love
-
that
-
Jesus
-
had
-
for
-
us
-
that
-
should
-
be
-
reflected
-
in
-
the
-
love
-
that
-
we
-
have
-
for
-
one
-
another
-
we
-
are
-
to
-
love
-
each
-
other
-
as
-
Jesus
-
has
-
loved
-
us
-
and
-
how
-
has
-
Jesus
-
loved
-
us
-
well
-
we're
-
on to
-
verse
-
13
-
aren't
-
we
-
greater
-
love
-
has
-
no
-
one
-
than
-
this
-
to
-
lay
-
down
-
one's
-
life
-
for
-
one's
-
friends
-
Jesus
-
saying
-
I'm
-
laying
-
down
-
my
-
life
-
for
-
my
-
friends
-
you
-
are
-
too
-
as
-
well
-
now
-
Jesus
-
actually
-
went
-
beyond
-
that
-
he laid
-
down
-
his
-
life
-
for
-
us
-
when
-
we
-
were
-
his
-
enemies
-
when
-
there
-
was
-
nothing
-
in
-
us
-
that
-
would
-
deserve
-
him
-
to
-
do
-
that
-
great
-
sacrifice
-
for
-
us
-
where
-
only
-
the
-
grace
-
of
-
God
-
was
-
sufficient
-
to
-
save
-
us
-
from
-
our
-
sins
-
Jesus
-
Jesus
-
Jesus
-
says
-
I
-
have
-
done
-
that
-
I
-
have
-
died
-
laid
-
down
-
my
-
life
-
for
-
you
-
you
-
should
-
lay
-
down
-
your
-
life
-
for
-
one
-
another
-
that
-
might
-
sound
-
on the
-
face
-
of it
-
quite
-
unlikely
-
how
-
likely
-
is it
-
that
-
any
-
of
-
us
-
will
-
have
-
to
-
die
-
for
-
our
-
Christian
-
brothers
-
and sisters
-
literally
-
physically
-
die
-
well
-
it is
-
possible
-
we
-
couldn't
-
rule
-
it
-
out
-
but
-
probably
-
it's
-
not
-
going
-
to
-
happen
-
for
-
most
-
of
-
us
-
but
-
it's
-
just
-
indicative
-
of
-
the
-
kind
-
of
-
love
-
that
-
we
-
should
-
have
-
that
-
we
-
should
-
sacrificially
-
be
-
willing
-
to
-
give
-
of
-
ourselves
-
for
-
one
-
another
-
that
-
our
-
relationships
-
our
-
interests
-
in
-
others
-
shouldn't
-
be
-
superficial
-
and
-
just
-
for
-
the
-
good
-
times
-
that
-
when
-
people
-
are
-
going
-
through
-
difficult
-
times
-
when
-
they're
-
struggling
-
when
-
it
-
is
-
really
-
hard
-
for
-
them
-
perhaps
-
it's
-
hard
-
for
-
us
-
to
-
be
-
involved
-
in
-
their
-
lives
-
we
-
should
-
be
-
willing
-
to
-
sacrificially
-
show
-
love
-
for
-
them
-
John's
-
gospel
-
the
-
ministry
-
of the
-
Lord
-
Jesus
-
has
-
many
-
parallels
-
in
-
John's
-
first
-
epistle
-
the book
-
we call
-
first
-
John
-
you can
-
see
-
again
-
and
-
again
-
as
-
you
-
read
-
through
-
first
-
John
-
this
-
is
-
based
-
on
-
something
-
that
-
Jesus
-
said
-
in
-
the
-
upper
-
room
-
and
-
first
-
John
-
chapter
-
three
-
verse
-
16
-
says
-
this
-
this
-
is
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how
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we
-
know
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what
-
love
-
is
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Jesus
-
Christ
-
laid
-
down
-
his
-
life
-
for
-
us
-
and
-
we
-
ought
-
to
-
lay
-
down
-
our
-
lives
-
for
-
our
-
brothers
-
and
-
sisters
-
and
-
we
-
might
-
say
-
yes
-
I
-
agree
-
with
-
that
-
if
-
it
-
comes
-
to
-
the
-
bit
-
I
-
would
-
be
-
willing
-
to
-
lay
-
down
-
my
-
life
-
for
-
someone
-
else
-
what
-
what
-
does
-
John
-
say
-
next
-
what
-
is
-
the
-
example
-
he
-
gives
-
that
-
might
-
give
-
us
-
an
-
idea
-
of
-
what
-
it
-
is
-
to
-
lay
-
down
-
our
-
lives
-
for
-
brothers
-
and
-
sisters
-
he
-
says
-
if
-
anyone
-
has
-
material
-
possessions
-
and sees
-
a brother
-
or sister
-
in need
-
but has
-
no pity
-
on them
-
how
-
can
-
the
-
love
-
of
-
God
-
be
-
in
-
that
-
person
-
and
-
that
-
brings
-
us
-
right
-
down
-
to
-
earth
-
doesn't
-
it
-
this
-
isn't
-
all
-
about
-
being
-
heroic
-
of
-
sacrifice
-
for
-
others
-
this
-
is
-
in
-
our
-
day
-
to
-
day
-
life
-
being
-
able
-
to
-
help
-
people
-
with
-
their
-
needs
-
might
-
be
-
physical
-
might
-
be
-
material
-
needs
-
might
-
be
-
spiritual
-
might
-
be
-
emotional
-
being
-
able
-
in
-
some
-
way
-
as
-
the
-
Lord
-
enables
-
us
-
to
-
show
-
the
-
love
-
of
-
Christ
-
to
-
our
-
Christian
-
brothers
-
and
-
sisters
-
the
-
test
-
of
-
our
-
love
-
is
-
not
-
in
-
the
-
big
-
gestures
-
it's
-
in
-
the
-
everyday
-
way
-
in
-
which
-
we
-
interact
-
and
-
in
-
which
-
we
-
show
-
our
-
love
-
so
-
John
-
concludes
-
that little
-
section
-
in his
-
epistle
-
dear
-
children
-
let us
-
not
-
love
-
with
-
words
-
or
-
speech
-
but
-
with
-
actions
-
and
-
in
-
truth
-
that
-
is
-
where
-
we
-
have
-
Christ
-
honoring
-
evidence
-
of
-
life
-
of
-
fruitfulness
-
of
-
our
-
friendship
-
with
-
the
-
Lord
-
Jesus
-
let me
-
end
-
with a
-
quote
-
from
-
Charles
-
Spurgeon
-
Spurgeon
-
was a
-
great
-
preacher
-
from
-
the
-
19th
-
century
-
sometimes
-
called
-
the
-
prince
-
of
-
preachers
-
his
-
servants
-
are
-
marvelous
-
read his
-
sermons
-
you'll be
-
so blessed
-
by them
-
take some
-
getting into
-
sometimes
-
languages
-
a little
-
old
-
fashion
-
but there
-
is so
-
much
-
in
-
them
-
writing
-
on this
-
passage
-
Spurgeon
-
said
-
this
-
the
-
moon
-
cannot
-
shine
-
as
-
brightly
-
as
-
the
-
sun
-
does
-
and
-
you
-
cannot
-
love
-
as
-
much
-
as
-
Christ
-
does
-
but
-
you
-
can
-
be
-
like
-
the
-
moon
-
and
-
shine
-
with
-
borrowed
-
light
-
you can
-
reflect
-
on
-
others
-
the
-
light
-
of
-
the
-
love
-
which
-
Christ
-
has
-
shed
-
upon
-
your
-
soul
-
if
-
you're
-
a
-
Christian
-
this
-
morning
-
as
-
we've
-
described
-
it
-
think
-
on
-
these
-
words
-
we're
-
not
-
going
-
to
-
be
-
able
-
to
-
be
-
exactly
-
like
-
Christ
-
we're
-
not
-
going
-
to
-
have
-
the
-
love
-
that
-
he
-
had
-
which
-
is
-
beyond
-
our
-
understanding
-
but
-
we
-
can
-
reflect
-
that
-
love
-
in
-
the
-
way
-
that
-
we
-
deal
-
with
-
others
-
whether
-
it's
-
those
-
in
-
the
-
church
-
or
-
those
-
outside
-
whom
-
we're
-
seeking
-
to
-
help
-
and
-
to
-
help
-
to
-
the
-
reflected
-
light
-
of
-
the
-
Lord
-
Jesus
-
so
-
I hope
-
that's
-
been
-
encouraging
-
this
-
morning
-
to
-
us
-
I
-
hope
-
as
-
I
-
said
-
the
-
start
-
is
-
being
-
challenging
-
so
-
here
-
are
-
the
-
challenges
-
I'll
-
leave
-
you
-
with
-
first
-
of
-
these
-
is
-
can
-
we
-
ask
-
ourselves
-
am
-
I
-
part
-
of
-
the
-
vine
-
am
-
I
-
really
-
a
-
Christian
-
do
-
I
-
believe
-
in
-
Jesus
-
as
-
the
-
only
-
way
-
to
-
God
-
do
-
I
-
try
-
to
-
live
-
like
-
him
-
do
-
with
-
him
-
in
-
that
-
living
-
relationship
-
of
-
the
-
vine
-
if
-
the
-
answer
-
to
-
that
-
is
-
yes
-
then
-
the
-
next
-
question
-
is
-
is
-
the
-
life
-
of
-
Christ
-
evident
-
to
-
others
-
life
-
of
-
Christ
-
in
-
me
-
evident
-
to
-
others
-
am
-
I
-
bearing
-
spiritual
-
fruit
-
am
-
I
-
showing
-
the
-
character
-
of
-
the
-
Lord
-
Jesus
-
in
-
my
-
daily
-
life
-
and
-
becoming
-
more
-
and
-
more
-
like
-
him
-
and
-
in
-
particular
-
is
-
the
-
love
-
of
-
Christ
-
in
-
me
-
do
-
I
-
reflect
-
that
-
great
-
love
-
that
-
Jesus
-
had
-
for
-
me
-
do
-
I
-
obey
-
him
-
as
-
I
-
show
-
that
-
love
-
to
-
others
-
and
-
if
-
we
-
can
-
if
-
we
-
do
-
then
-
we
-
will
-
be
-
fruit
-
we
-
will
-
enjoy
-
the
-
presence
-
of
-
the
-
Lord
-
Jesus
-
with
-
us
-
we
-
will
-
bathe
-
in
-
his
-
love
-
we
-
will
-
have
-
joy
-
whatever
-
our
-
circumstances
-
and
-
we
-
will have
-
the
-
ear of
-
who
-
will
-
answer
-
our
-
prayers
-
let
-
that
-
be
-
true
-
of
-
all
-
of
-
us
-
let's
-
pray
-
together
-
now
-
father
-
we
-
thank
-
you
-
for
-
your
-
word
-
we
-
thank
-
you
-
for
-
this
-
tremendous
-
teaching
-
of
-
the
-
Lord
-
Jesus
-
that
-
we
-
are
-
living
-
branches
-
if
-
we
-
are
-
believers
-
in
-
him
-
that
-
our
-
life
-
flows
-
to
-
us
-
from
-
him
-
producing
-
fruit
-
making
-
us
-
more
-
like
-
him
-
we
-
pray
-
that
-
you
-
help
-
all
-
of
-
us
-
to
-
ensure
-
that
-
we
-
have
-
that
-
life
-
that
-
our
-
faith
-
is
-
in
-
Jesus
-
and
-
help
-
us
-
to
-
be
-
fruitful
-
particularly
-
as we
-
show to
-
one
-
another
-
the
-
love
-
of
-
Christ
-
that
-
in
-
our
-
everyday
-
life
-
we
-
may
-
build
-
one
-
another
-
up
-
that
-
we
-
may
-
see
-
fruit
-
in
-
each
-
member
-
of
-
the
-
church
-
we
-
thank
-
you
-
for
-
our
-
time
-
together
-
this
-
morning
-
we
-
commit
-
ourselves
-
to
-
you
-
now
-
in
-
the
-
name
-
of
-
the
-
Lord
-
Jesus
-
Amen