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2 Samuel 19, The graciousness of the king

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  1. So let me read God's word for us to Samuel chapter 19 verse 9.

  2. Throughout the tribes of Israel, all the people were arguing among themselves and saying,

  3. the king delivered us from the hand of our enemies. He is the one who rescued us from

  4. the hand of the Philistines, but now he has fled the country to escape from Absalom,

  5. and Absalom whom we anointed to rule over us has died in battle.

  6. So why do you say nothing about bringing the king back?

  7. King David sent this message to Zadok and Abathar, the priests, asked the elders of Judah,

  8. why should you be the last to bring the king back to his palace, since what is being said

  9. throughout Israel has reached the king at his quarters? You are my relatives, my own flesh and

  10. blood. Why should you be the last to bring back the king? Say to Amasa, are you not my own flesh and

  11. blood? May God deal with me, be it ever so severely, if you are not the commander of my army for life

  12. in place of Joab. He won over the hearts of the men of Judah, so that they were all of one mind.

  13. They sent word to the king, return all your men. Then the king returned and went as far as the Jordan.

  14. Now the men of Judah had come to Gilgal to go out and meet the king and bring him across to Jordan.

  15. Shimei, the son of Gerai, the Benjamite from Bahurim, hurried down with the men of Judah to meet King

  16. David. With him were a thousand Benjamites, along with Ziba, the steward of Saul's household, and his

  17. fifteen sons and twenty servants. They rushed to the Jordan where the king was. They crossed at the

  18. ford to take the king's household over and to do whatever he wished.

  19. When Shimei, the son of Gerai, crossed the Jordan, he fell prostrate before the king and said to him,

  20. My lord, do not hold me guilty. Do not remember how your servant did wrong on the day my lord the

  21. king left Jerusalem. May the king put it out of his mind. For I, your servant, know that I have sinned.

  22. But today I have come here as the first from the tribes of Joseph to come down and meet my lord the king.

  23. Then Abishai, the son of Zariah, said, Shouldn't Shimei be put to death for this? He cursed the

  24. Lord's anointed. David replied, What does this have to do with you, sons of Zariah? What right do you

  25. have to interfere? Should anyone be put to death in Israel today? Don't I know that I am king over

  26. Israel? So the king said to Shimei, You shall not die. And the king promised him on oath.

  27. Mephibosheth, Saul's grandson, also went down to meet the king. He had not taken care of his feet

  28. or trimmed his mustache or washed his clothes from the day the king left until the day he returned

  29. safely. When he came from Jerusalem to meet the king, the king asked him, Why didn't you go with

  30. me, Mephibosheth? He said, My lord the king, since I, your servant, am lame, I said, I will have my donkey

  31. saddled and I will ride on it so that I can go with the king. But Ziba, my servant, betrayed me.

  32. He has slandered your servant to my lord the king. My lord the king is like an angel of God,

  33. so do whatever you wish. All of my grandfather's descendants deserve nothing but death from my lord

  34. the king, but you gave your servant a place among those who eat at your table. So what right do I

  35. have to make any more appeals to the king? The king said to him, Why say more? I order you and Ziba to

  36. divide the land. Mephibosheth said to the king, Let him take everything, now that my lord the king

  37. has returned home safely. Barzillia the Gileadite also came down from Rogalim to cross the Jordan

  38. with the king and to send him on his way from there. Now Barzillia was very old, 80 years of age.

  39. He had provided for the king during his stay at Mahanim, for he was a very wealthy man.

  40. The king said to Barzillia, Cross over with me and stay with me in Jerusalem and I will provide for

  41. you. But Barzillia answered the king, How many more years shall I live that I should go up to

  42. Jerusalem with the king? I'm now 80 years old. Can I tell the difference between what is enjoyable

  43. and what is not? Can your servant taste what he eats and drinks? Can I still hear the voices of

  44. the male and female singers? Why should your servant be an added burden to my lord the king?

  45. Your servant will cross over the Jordan with the king for a short distance, but why should the king

  46. reward me in this way? Let your servant return that I may die in my own town near the tomb of my father

  47. and my mother. But here is your servant Kimham. Let him cross over with my lord the king. Do for him

  48. whatever you wish. The king said, Kimham shall cross over with me and I will do for him whatever you

  49. wish and anything you desire from me I will do for you. So all the people crossed the Jordan and then

  50. the king crossed over. The king kissed Barzillia and bade him farewell and Barzillia returned home.

  51. When the king crossed over to Gilgal, Kimham crossed with him. All the troops of Judah and half the troops

  52. of Israel had taken the king over. Soon all the men of Israel were coming to the king and saying to him,

  53. why did our brothers, the men of Judah, steal the king away and bring him and his household across

  54. the Jordan together with his men? All the men of Judah answered the men of Israel, we did this because

  55. the king is closely related to us. Why are you angry about it? Have we eaten any of the king's provision?

  56. Have we taken anything for ourselves? Then the men of Judah answered them, sorry, then the men of Israel

  57. answered the men of Judah. We have 10 shares in the king, so we have a greater claim on David than you

  58. have. Why then do you treat us with contempt? Weren't we the first to speak of bringing back our king?

  59. But the men of Judah pressed their claims even more forcefully than the men of Israel.

  60. Well, that's God's word for us this morning. Do keep that open in front of you. We are going to

  61. follow along as we work our way through the story together. I think probably if you have been around

  62. churches for any length of time, you might have noticed that Christians have this habit of calling

  63. one another brother or sister. You might have heard that this morning as you walked in, but I know we

  64. live in a corner of the world where everyone calls each other bro, right? So it maybe doesn't stand out to

  65. as an extraordinary thing, but the truth is that churches like to think of themselves and like to

  66. talk of themselves as being like families. Communities of people where their relationships

  67. between one another are strong and meaningful and purposeful. Now, it is definitely true that churches

  68. do not always live up to that hype, right? You might have experienced that. Brothers and sisters in church

  69. fall out just as much as brothers and sisters in families fall out. Maybe that's put you off church in the past.

  70. But still, you don't have to read much of the Bible to know that churches is meant to be a family like that.

  71. The New Testament calls the church the household of God, the idea that we are all in God's house and we are

  72. brothers and sisters together. The house which is not this building, but the house which is the kingdom which Jesus

  73. is building, a community with strong bonds between one another. In fact, this is meant to be the distinctive

  74. of the church, that the bonds between one another in the life of the church are meant to distinguish the church

  75. from any other grouping in the world. You know, so things which would be strong enough to put people off

  76. having a friendship or a relationship with one another outside of the church are set to one side

  77. inside the church as people come together as brothers and sisters. So black and white, rich and poor, young and old,

  78. drug addicts and doctors, prisoners and police officers, taxi drivers and parking wardens,

  79. Arsenal fans and Spurs fans, all brothers and sisters together in the church.

  80. And what I want to show you from 2 Samuel chapter 19 this morning is why that is the case. Why is it so

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  81. that churches have relationships in them that you wouldn't see anywhere else in the world? Why is it that

  82. the community of the church breaks down the barriers that the world sets up? What is it about the church

  83. that sticks people together like that? Now, in order to see that, we are going to have to work our way

  84. through the story and do a little bit of work together. But I think it should be obvious once

  85. we do that. It will help you if you've not been here before to know that this is the story of King

  86. David. 2 Samuel traces the reign of King David, one of Israel's most famous kings. And in the part of the

  87. story that we are in, he has been betrayed by his son Absalom. Absalom has kicked him out of the palace,

  88. kicked him out of Jerusalem, robbed the kingdom from David. And then there was a civil war,

  89. between Absalom's forces and David's forces. And David, with a little help from a forest,

  90. defeated Absalom and his army. And then Absalom has been killed. Now, if you look at the passage that

  91. we've just read, you'll notice then that having all those events happened, the passage this morning

  92. starts with a great deal of confusion. Absalom, the king, the one that they anointed as king, is dead.

  93. So who knows what's going to happen next? So much so that in the second sentence, all the people are

  94. arguing throughout all the tribes. This is like a national mess. And the exact nature of the problem

  95. is spelt out at the end of verse 9 and 10. David, who is the most famous king, who has saved the nation

  96. from the Philistines, he is alive, but he's on the run from Absalom. And now Absalom, the one who most of

  97. the nation had backed as the new king, is dead. So what are they going to do? He's being judged and

  98. condemned by God. So there's national confusion. People are all going in different directions.

  99. What you've got at the start of the passage is the opposite of cohesion. You've got everybody

  100. splitting up and arguing all the time. You've got disunity, not unity at the beginning of the passage.

  101. All the people arguing all the time. There's also a really particular fracture in the nation,

  102. one which grows in significance in the Old Testament story. Now you might not notice this at first,

  103. but if you look at the end of verse 10, the U there refers to the tribe of Judah. What's going on

  104. here is that the northern tribes of Israel are saying to Judah, why don't you bring your king back

  105. to Jerusalem? That fact becomes clearer at the end of the chapter when we find the arguments between the

  106. tribes carrying on in verse 41. We jump down to the end, the 10 northern tribes are arguing against Judah

  107. about who owns the king. It might be worth you knowing as you read the Bible that the nation splits

  108. into 10 northern tribes and one southern tribe, that the 12th tribe, the tribe of the Levites, is kind of

  109. spread all amongst them. And this starts here. You get to see it here. The northern tribes are saying

  110. to Judah that you've effectively stolen David from us to install him as your king. And they're arguing

  111. about it with one another. And Judah say, no, he's our flesh and blood. He belongs to us. Then Israel

  112. bring up the ratio. It's 10 to 1. But none of that seems to get solved. And the end of the chapter ends

  113. with those ominous words where it says the men of Judah pressed their claims more forcefully than the

  114. men of Israel. Literally, their words are heavier, more weighty, more forceful, and they carry the day

  115. for the time being. Now, there's more that could be said about that fracture, and I'll mention it

  116. briefly again in a moment. But notice for now that our passage begins with fighting and ends with

  117. fighting. So there's squabbling and disunity at both the beginning and the end of the passage.

  118. And what you have in the middle is five different encounters with King David. First with the priests,

  119. then with Shimei, then Ziba and Mephibosheth, and then Barzillia. And we're just going to work through

  120. those quickly and see the theme pop out, hopefully, as we do that. So let's start first with the priests

  121. in verse 11 to 15. David's first action, as he is called back to Jerusalem, is to speak to these

  122. Levite priests and send them ahead of him to ask Judah to bring him back to Jerusalem.

  123. But notice the detail of how he does this. In verse 12, he points out to them that they are his

  124. brothers. I'm from Judah, he says, you're my flesh and bone. David knows that it's not their family

  125. relationship which is the real issue. Instead, Judah's reluctance to bring him back as king is

  126. because, and you'll imagine this, wouldn't it, they all supported Absalom. A few weeks previous to

  127. this, those guys had come out to fight David. So of course, they're not going to now welcome him back

  128. in because, well, they are all traitors. And so they're going to be terrified that David is going

  129. to exact some kind of punishment on them. Under the command of a guy called Amasa, they'd marched out

  130. against David. And notice what David does. He tells the priest to do something absolutely extraordinary.

  131. Look at verse 13. He says, priest, tell Amasa, tell Amasa who was the guy who was in charge of the army

  132. that was marching against me, tell him that I appoint him in the place of Joab to be commander of my army.

  133. Wow, that's brilliant. Not only is it a brilliant thing, it's holding Joab to account for disobeying

  134. David's orders and killing Absalom, but more clearly what's going on here is that this is him absolving

  135. all of that army against their responsibility for being traitors. Listen, Amasa, I know you let

  136. the forces against me, but you are forgiven and you're now head of my army. What incredible generosity.

  137. You're all forgiven. And the plan works, doesn't it? Verse 14, we're told that Judah's heart is swayed.

  138. David crosses the Jordan River and in verse 15, he's on his way back to Jerusalem as the king.

  139. Next, David meets on his way back the guy called Shimei. Now, if you remember Shimei, he's got some

  140. groveling to do because back in chapter 16, if you were with us, he met David on his way out of Jerusalem

  141. and lobbed stones at him and hurled insults at him. He called David a worthless man or a scoundrel,

  142. I think as the NIV translates it. It's clear now, isn't it? That that was a terrible, terrible,

  143. terrible, terrible mistake. That's like being at school and insulting someone terribly and then

  144. realizing that they all substitute teacher, right? And you're like, oh, shouldn't have said that,

  145. right? Shimei now realizes, oh my goodness, David is now the king again. I really probably shouldn't

  146. have been insulting him and throwing stones at him. And so he rushes down, doesn't he? Begging for

  147. forgiveness for the wrong that he knows he's done. It's all very good, isn't it? But in a way,

  148. it's unclear how sorry he is because in verse 17, he brings a thousand men with him, which reads

  149. rather like a garrison of soldiers just in case it gets ugly. But it didn't. And despite Abishai

  150. asking to kill him again, still in verse 22 and verse 23, David says to him, what does this have

  151. to do with you, sons of Zariah? What right do you have to interfere? Should anyone be put to death in

  152. Israel today? Don't I know that today I am king over Israel? Verse 23. So the king said to Shimei,

  153. you shall not die. How gracious of David to Shimei. After that, he meets Ziba and Mephibosheth.

  154. Ziba, if you remember, is the guy who's meant to be looking after Mephibosheth, the cripple.

  155. Mephibosheth is crippled and he is Jonathan's son and David is being kind to him. But at the same time,

  156. he has betrayed Mephibosheth. He told David a lie, didn't he? He told David that Mephibosheth was hoping

  157. to become the king himself. Anyway, now Ziba is also running across the Jordan to meet David and help him

  158. out with his bags. And when they get to Jerusalem in verse 25, they meet Mephibosheth. And David is told

  159. exactly what did happen. He's told that actually he didn't want to get his kingdom back. Instead, Ziba

  160. had tricked him and abandoned him and left him stuck in Jerusalem so that he couldn't flee with David when

  161. Absalom arrived. It's not just Mephibosheth's word though, is it, that David gets to take? It's not

  162. just Mephibosheth saying, no, Ziba didn't bring me with you, which is what I asked him to do. He has a

  163. great witness to the truth of what he's saying. What is the witness of Mephibosheth to the truth of his

  164. claim? Well, it's his smell. Yeah, he smells, he stinks. Why? Because he's not being looking after

  165. himself. He's not washed his clothes. He's not trimmed his mustache since David left. It's kind

  166. of gross really, isn't it? It sounds like he's really kind of stinky. But the guy is a mess. And I

  167. think we're to understand that means two things. One is that Mephibosheth hadn't hidden from Absalom that

  168. actually he wanted to be with King David. Every time Absalom bumped into him in Jerusalem,

  169. Mephibosheth, you stink. He's like, yes, that's because I'm for David, not for you. And also it's

  170. almost as if Mephibosheth has sort of in his own way joined David in exile in the wilderness, isn't it?

  171. You know, you might be going off to the wilderness. I wanted to go with you. I can't go with you. So I'm

  172. going to live a kind of wilderness life inside of Jerusalem. Anyway, David's response in verse 29 is

  173. to restore his inheritance. And amazingly, Mephibosheth replies that he doesn't want it. It is enough for him

  174. that King David has returned. Then you get a guy called Barzillia the Gileadite. I think that's another one of my

  175. favorite names in the Bible, Barzillia the Gileadite. Back in chapter 17, Barzillia had been the guy who

  176. provided for David and his family when they arrived in exile. And he is extremely old. I know some of you

  177. are amused by that because he's only 80, isn't he? That's not extremely old, is it? Anyway, he is a very wealthy

  178. man and he has provided for David. And David wants to extend to him the same kindness that he has

  179. received. So he invites him to return to Jerusalem with him. But Barzillia says he doesn't want it.

  180. I'm too old to taste the good food anyway. I'd rather stay here and be buried with my father and my

  181. mother, he says, and suggests instead that he takes a complete stranger, a guy called Kimham, with him

  182. instead. Who presumably, maybe we're not told, but probably was a relative of Barzillias. Now David does

  183. that. And significantly in Jeremiah 41, there is a place near Bethlehem named Kimham, which I think

  184. indicates that David has done for this guy everything he promised, even though he was a total stranger to

  185. him. Now that is like a super quick run through the passage, but just zoom out with me for a moment and

  186. try and see the whole thing together. Okay, so it begins and ends with rivalry and fighting. And what

  187. you've got in between are five encounters with David, where in each of the encounters, and this is the key

  188. to understanding what's going on here. In each of these encounters, David is gracious to his enemies,

  189. forgiving and promoting the captain of Absalom's army, who only a few days ago had been trying to kill him,

  190. allowing Shimei, the guy who'd thrown stones at him to go unpunished, restoring Mephibosheth and even Ziba,

  191. and giving a total stranger, Kimham, a place at his table, and eventually in a village outside Bethlehem.

  192. Verse 14 is about the effect on Judah, but I think it sums up the whole thing. And that is that David has

  193. swayed the heart of all the men of Judah to become one man with him. Now I grant you this is going to

  194. unravel in chapters to come. But for now, in this little snapshot, and at this kind of overarching

  195. height, what you've got is this, okay? You have got the grace of King David being the glue of the

  196. nation, sticking it together. In other words, right at the center of the chapter, what the writer wants

  197. us to see is that it's not actually David's political skill. It's not his military might that

  198. is going to hold this fragile nation together. Rather, it is the fact that King David is consistently

  199. resolved to move towards his people in mercy and grace, forgiveness and love, to give them what

  200. they don't deserve and spare them from the judgment they do deserve. So much so that in the middle of a

  201. chapter of chaos, at the beginning and the end, attention is just perpetually drawn to the graciousness

  202. of God's anointed king. The leader of God's people is gracious. He absorbs in himself the cost of

  203. people's rebellion and restores them to himself. Interestingly, in 1 Kings chapter 12, the nation

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  204. does split apart. This crack between Judah and the other 10 tribes becomes a huge rift and the nation

  205. is split in two forever. And what is it that splits the nation? If you know the story, David's grandson,

  206. a guy called Rehoboam, shows absolutely no grace and no mercy to the nation and it splits apart.

  207. And what you've got here is the opposite of 1 Kings 12. You've got the grace of David

  208. gluing the nation together, bringing people together. Now you might read that and go,

  209. okay, so David's graciousness brings people together. That's a great moral example, isn't it?

  210. And it is. If you are a father or a mother or an uncle or an aunt or a grandparent,

  211. bringing people together in your family requires grace and mercy and forgiveness. It's the extent to

  212. which you are able to extend mercy and forgiveness to one another that you will glue your families

  213. together and not rip them apart. It's the same for a friendship group at school or a team at work.

  214. But if you've been with us for this series in 2 Samuel, you will know that the point of these

  215. stories is not just a moral example for you and for me. You and I are not David in the story. That's

  216. not how we're meant to read it. What's going on here is David is a signpost, a pointer forwards to a

  217. future king, to King Jesus. The Bible would call it like a type. David is a type of Christ. This is how

  218. the Bible works, you see. So there is one story from the beginning to the end of your Bible.

  219. Now, it's written by lots of different authors, but it is inspired by the Holy Spirit all the way

  220. through. So there is only one story. The story of the Bible is the story of how the creator God,

  221. the triune God, Father, Son, and Spirit, saves a rebellious creation for an eternity with him in a remade

  222. world. And the story centers on the plan of the Father, accomplished in the work of the Son, in the power

  223. of the Spirit. So much so that the Old Testament, before the coming of the Son, the birth of Christ,

  224. that the story is shadowed in various different types. So what you've got in the Old Testament is

  225. the story of the whole thing summarized on a number of different occasions. Let me give you a few famous

  226. examples. Noah's Ark. What is going on in Noah's Ark is not a great moral that when it rains, you need to

  227. build a boat. That's not what's going on. No, it is a type. The Ark is a type of Christ. A picture of

  228. the cross where we find rescue from the flood of God's judgment through the forgiveness of Christ on

  229. the cross. Come to the cross, says Noah's Ark. Get in the boat. It's the only place of safety from the

  230. judgment of God. Take the rescue of Israel from slavery in Egypt. It's a type or a picture of Christ's

  231. rescue. Christ is the true Passover lamb who is painted on the beams, not of our doorposts, but on

  232. the cross, rescuing us from slavery, not in Egypt, but slavery to sin under the judgment that that

  233. deserves. And David, when we come to 2 Samuel, David is a type of Christ, a prototype, if you like, of the

  234. king of God's people, the shepherd of God's sheep. I have a kingdom, says God, a people for myself, and I

  235. appoint a king to be ruler over them who will love them and take care of them and be gracious to them.

  236. And sometimes and oftentimes, David fails and points us to the fact that we need someone better than David.

  237. And here in chapter 19, we see that what we really need to bring God's people together

  238. is a gracious, forgiving, merciful king. And that's exactly what we've got.

  239. When we jump forward to the New Testament, it's perhaps no surprise that we find that at the center

  240. of Christ's kingdom, the center of the church, the glue that keeps together this disparate group of

  241. people is not Jesus's political skill. It's not his military might. It's not his brute strength.

  242. Instead, it is his grace and his mercy. It is not our commitment to moral living, which keeps the church

  243. together. It's Christ's forgiveness in the face of our immoral living. We have a king who takes sinners

  244. who were his enemies and moves towards them as a savior, cancelling their sin. You know, as we read 2 Samuel 19,

  245. we're to think, you know, I'm a spiritual amasser. I've marched out in rebellion against King Jesus,

  246. but in his great kindness, he's invited me to join his people and his army. I'm like Shimei. I've cursed

  247. Christ. I've thrown stones at his followers. I am full of regret for what I've done, but Christ has shown

  248. me grace. Mephibosheth and Ziba who have just not been wholehearted, they find mercy. I'm a stranger.

  249. I'm like Kim Ham. Who's ever heard of Kim Ham? No one, right? I'm a Kim Ham. I'm a nobody. Yet Jesus

  250. shows me mercy, gives me a place in his kingdom. No one too bad, no one too far away, no one beyond

  251. the pale, all brought together as one kingdom because like in 2 Samuel 19, King Jesus is full

  252. of grace and it's that grace which is the glue of the kingdom. Now let me kind of emphasize this and

  253. rub this in a little bit more and I want you to jump forward to Ephesians chapter 2. It is going

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  254. to come up on the screen behind me, but I do think it would help you to turn there in your Bible if

  255. you can. So keep a finger in 2 Samuel 19 and turn to page 1174 which we looked at with the children

  256. and we're going to just look at Ephesians chapter 2 just a bit further down that passage. Page 1174.

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  257. Let me read to you from verse 13. Paul writes this to the Ephesian church. He says,

  258. but now in Christ Jesus, you who were once far away have been brought near by, not your good works,

  259. not Jesus's conquering military power, but by the blood of Christ. For he himself is our peace who has

  260. made the two groups one and has destroyed the barrier, the dividing wall of hostility by setting

  261. aside in his flesh the law with its commandments and regulations. His purpose was to create in

  262. himself one new humanity out of the two, thus making peace and in one body to reconcile both of them to

  263. God through the cross by which he put to death their hostility. He came and preached peace to you who are

  264. far away and peace to those who are near for through him we both have access to the Father by one spirit.

  265. Now the situation as Paul writes is slightly different to 2 Samuel 19 isn't it? It's not

  266. the fighting of 10 tribes versus one tribe, it's the rivalry between Jews and Gentiles in the church in

  267. Ephesus and his concern is that they see that the glue at the center of their church, the thing that

  268. will hold them together, is not a shared cultural identity. They don't have one. It's not a shared history

  269. or a shared geography. They don't have that either. It's not a shared preference for a style of music

  270. or a preaching method, rather is a common experience of the gracious saving power of Jesus.

  271. So notice what does he say? Verse 13, the blood of Christ has brought those who are far away, he's

  272. brought them near, drawing people from all nations to the center of God's plans and purposes.

  273. Verse 14, he makes peace not just between God and people but peace between people and people

  274. and not peace as in an abstract thing but a peace from Jesus and in Jesus. He describes it in verse 14

  275. as the removal of the dividing wall of hostility. Removed how? Well in the flesh, the body, the cross of

  276. the Lord Jesus Christ. Verse 15 explains how this works because Jesus by his gracious cross does two

  277. things. He abolishes the law covenant designed to separate the Jewish nation from the world, meaning access

  278. to the spiritual heavenly eternal kingdom of God is not through joining a nation but coming to Christ.

  279. And the other is that he makes one new humanity from Jews and Gentiles together. Not just kind of

  280. enabling them to get along with one another, but like David in 2 Samuel 19 verse 14, enabling them to be

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  281. as one man with one purpose and one goal. Verse 16 summarizes it as reconciling us both to God in one

  282. body through the cross and thereby killing the hostility. Jump down to the conclusion with me.

  283. What's the result in the church of this shared experience of the cross of Christ? Well verse 19 of

  284. Ephesians chapter 2, consequently you are no longer foreigners and strangers. You're no longer people

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  285. from different nations, different backgrounds. You're no longer people who like different things and

  286. support different teams, but you are fellow citizens with God's people and members of his household,

  287. built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets with Christ Jesus himself as the chief

  288. cornerstone. In him the whole building is joined together and rises to become a holy temple in the

  289. Lord, and in him you too are being built together to become a dwelling in which God lives by his

  290. spirits. The grace of the king is the glue of the kingdom. The graciousness of Jesus keeps the church

  291. together and that's the point of 2 Samuel chapter 19. You and I, we are, you can come back to 2 Samuel 19

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  292. now, we are a company of people like Shimei and Mephibosheth or like Amasa and Ziba. By nature we are the

  293. fighting tribes of Judah and Manasseh, always something against each other. None of us deserve to be here,

  294. do we? But the glue of the church is the grace of Jesus Christ. Now let me suggest to you that there are a

  295. whole load of implications of that for us this morning, but I just want to draw your attention to two.

  296. The first one is this, the first implication of this is that belonging to church is really firstly

  297. about belonging to Christ. Belonging to church is really about knowing and experiencing for yourself

  298. the grace of King Jesus. The truth is you can't actually short-circuit this to belong to the church in

  299. any other way. The church is founded on every individual experiencing this grace of the Lord

  300. Jesus Christ personally and then being brought into the community that way. So if you're a visitor here

  301. or this is your first week in church in a long time, if you think I'd love to be connected with a church,

  302. I'd love to belong here, then let me tell you this is where it starts. It doesn't start with joining a

  303. voter, it doesn't start with attending super regularly, it doesn't begin by joining in with

  304. the singing of the songs and knowing how that harmony goes in over a thousand tongues, which I

  305. don't even know. It doesn't begin like that. It begins by coming to Christ and experiencing his grace

  306. and mercy. It begins by saying, I have nothing to claim here, I have no right to belong here. I, me,

  307. I have no right to belong here. I don't belong to God's people by my own good works, but by the grace

  308. of Jesus Christ, I have nothing to bring, no rights to claim. I am an amasser and a shimmy eye who deserve

  309. the condemnation of the King, but I have found him to be full of grace and mercy. On the cross you died

  310. in my place to conquer my sin, so much so that through his grace we don't only belong to him, but we belong

  311. to one another. So let me say to you this morning, if you have never ever joined the church, let me

  312. invite you this morning to join the church. Not by signing a card, but by coming and putting your faith

  313. and trust in Jesus Christ. Come that way and belong to us by belonging to Christ. Now the second thing to

  314. say is that if that's where church membership starts, if that's where belonging to church starts,

  315. the second thing to say is this is what church unity is all about. This is how church unity continues.

  316. As a church, we protect the unity of our church by making much of the forgiving power of Jesus.

  317. We protect the unity of our church by being honest about our sin and certain of our hope in Christ.

  318. I guess at that level, Mephibosheth, you could use Mephibosheth as a great example of what it means to be

  319. a Christian this morning. Okay, so this is what our church life is to be like. I would long that when you

  320. come to church, you can, like you could with Mephibosheth, you can smell our trust in Jesus. Not because we

  321. haven't washed, at least I hope that's not the case, right? But that you can smell the fact that these people,

  322. I don't know everything about them, but what I know about these people is that they depend on Jesus

  323. and not themselves. I can see that. It's what they sing about. It's what they pray about. When they

  324. read the Bible, that's what they talk about. When they talk with one another, that's what they discuss.

  325. When they invite me to church and talk to me about what church belongs, that's what they say it's about.

  326. So can we smell our loyalty to Jesus? Can we smell that we belong to him and therefore belong to one

  327. another? This kind of coming to Christ should fuel our love. It should enable us to forgive each other

  328. when we make mistakes and when we hurt one another as we seek grace together. And let me say as well,

  329. at this particular point in our church life too, as we look to unite our church with another church for

  330. the sake of the work of the gospel here, we'll find, won't we, that lots of things about church

  331. change. There'll be new people here. What's going to stick that group together? This, the grace of the

  332. king, the grace of the king. It's not that we're all the same. It's not that we've all got the same

  333. background, but that we've all experienced the grace of King Jesus. And that has brought us to him

  334. and that has brought us to one another. Let me pray and then we'll sing.

  335. Heavenly Father, how we thank you that in the life of King David here, we glimpse

  336. the beauty and the wonder of your grace to us in the Lord Jesus. Thank you that through Christ,

  337. you don't treat us as we deserve, but you invite us to belong to your kingdom. That though we were

  338. far off, though we were strangers, though we've insulted you, though we've been half-hearted and

  339. looked after ourselves and not others, though we have wandered from you, yet you invite us to come back

  340. to find mercy and grace and forgiveness. I just want to pray especially for us as a company of

  341. your people this morning. We pray, please, that you might help us to find our unity in the Lord Jesus.

  342. We pray that you might join others to our church through faith in Jesus Christ. Even this morning,

  343. we pray for the sake of your glory and in Jesus' name. Amen. Amen.