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1 John 4:10 - Doctrine of the Cross

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  1. Good morning everyone.

  2. Good morning.

  3. The reading is taken from 1 John chapter 4 verse 7.

    1 John 4:7

  4. ! It's on page 1227.

  5. ! Dear friends, let us love one another for love comes from God.

  6. ! Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.

  7. Whoever does not love does not know God because God is love.

  8. This is how God showed his love among us.

  9. He sent his one and only son into the world that we might live through him.

  10. This is love.

  11. Not that we loved God but that he loved us and sent his son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.

  12. Dear friends, since God so loved us we also ought to love one another.

  13. No one has ever seen God but if we love one another God lives in us.

  14. And his love is made complete in us.

  15. Well keep your Bibles open at 1 John chapter 4.

    1 John 4 chapter mention

  16. Let me pray and ask for the Lord's help as we come to his word.

  17. Let me pray.

  18. Lord we do pray and ask for your help now as we come and look at your words.

  19. We're very conscious of the slowness of our hearts to trust you, to listen to you.

  20. And so we pray please that you would be at work by your spirit.

  21. Please help me in the words that I say.

  22. Help all of us in our hearts to trust you, to listen carefully and respond in obedience and faith.

  23. In Jesus name.

  24. Amen.

  25. Amen.

  26. Amen.

  27. So as Louise pointed out, it is Palm Sunday today.

  28. We are in the build up to Easter weekend.

  29. And what we've been doing the last couple of weeks is taking a pause from our regular working through a passage of the Bible

  30. to have a think about the doctrine of the cross.

  31. So what does the Bible say in greater detail about the work of Christ on the cross?

  32. What is happening as Jesus dies?

  33. And if you were with us last week, we considered the idea of substitution.

  34. That Jesus died in our place.

  35. And at the heart of the cross is this exchange, isn't there, between Christ and us.

  36. You know, our sin for his righteousness.

  37. So on the cross, Christ the innocent son is made sin for us.

  38. Our sin is transferred onto him so that we in him might be made righteous.

  39. And if you weren't with us last week, I'd encourage you to listen online if you can.

  40. And this week I want to see how the New Testament builds on the idea

  41. because I want us to see the fact that substitution means that Jesus necessarily on the cross

  42. is paying the penalty that my sin deserves.

  43. He is facing the punishment that I deserve.

  44. Now, my hope is, and maybe this is an unrealistic hope,

  45. that, you know, preaching is the art of unrealistic hopes.

  46. You know, that's why I'm standing here.

  47. I want you to be beginning to put those two things together

  48. and see that to a certain extent the message of the cross can be summarized like this,

  49. that Jesus is facing my penalty in my place, right?

  50. That's the summary of the message of the cross.

  51. It's what theologians have called penal substitution.

  52. Penal to mean penalty and substitution to mean in our place.

  53. Sometimes it's lengthened to mean penal substitutionary atonement.

  54. That is the idea that through Jesus on the cross facing our penalty as our substitute,

  55. we are made at one meant with God.

  56. We are reconciled to God through the cross as Jesus faces our penalty in our place.

  57. Now, there might be some of you here, I don't know who you are,

  58. and I'm not going to look at anyone particularly as I say this,

  59. but you might be thinking, oh, well, Steve, this is all a bit nerdy, isn't it?

  60. I mean, who uses words like penal substitutionary atonement other than doctrine nerds?

  61. Is it really necessary?

  62. I mean, maybe if I was taking A-level theology, you might expect to have a lesson like this,

  63. but why would we really need to do that in church?

  64. Why are we doing this?

  65. Why not just go through the stories of the Bible?

  66. Well, let me try and answer that really quickly,

  67. because I think it's a really important question.

  68. So turn to 1 Corinthians 1, verse 18.

    1 Corinthians 1:18

  69. It's on page 1144.

  70. It's also on the screen behind me, if you don't have time to find it.

  71. Let me read it to you.

  72. 1 Corinthians 1, verse 18.

    1 Corinthians 1:18

  73. We're told there by Paul,

  74. for the message of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing,

  75. but to us who are being saved, it is the power of God.

  76. Now, let me ask you a trick question as you look at that verse.

  77. What is the power of God according to 1 Corinthians 1, verse 18?

    1 Corinthians 1:18

  78. What is the power of God?

  79. Well, notice that it's not the cross itself, yeah?

  80. Notice that that's not exactly what it says.

  81. I think that's what we would be inclined to think,

  82. but it says that it is the message of the cross which is the power of God.

  83. In other words, the power of God, God's saving of his people,

  84. is seen in the message of the cross, the logos,

  85. of what Christ has done at the cross,

  86. because the power is in understanding what has happened there.

  87. Of course, the message would have no power if the cross itself didn't happen, right?

  88. It requires the cross to have happened,

  89. but it is the explanation of what Christ has done and achieved on the cross

  90. that is the power of God for salvation for those who believe.

  91. So, of course, we want to take time to make sure that we get this right.

  92. You know, if we are not clear on the message of the cross,

  93. then we, well, the power of God is gone, isn't it?

  94. The power is in the truth.

  95. I think you could probably say with a fairly high level of certainty

  96. that the death of a local church is almost always preceded

  97. by a loss of the doctrine of the cross.

  98. If we don't get this, we will cease to exist.

  99. And to be honest, rightly so,

  100. because this is the power of God for salvation for everyone who believes.

  101. Now, with that in mind, and hopefully you persuaded

  102. that it's worth listening for the next few moments,

  103. turn back to 1 John chapter 4,

    1 John 4 chapter mention

  104. and I want to spend most of our time in just verse 10,

  105. and I want us to ask it four different questions.

  106. So let's read the verse again.

  107. 1 John 4 verse 10.

    1 John 4:10

  108. This is love.

  109. Not that we love God, but that he loved us

  110. and sent his son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.

  111. Let me ask four questions.

  112. And the first question is this.

  113. What is the penalty for sin?

  114. What is the penalty for sin?

  115. Really, you'll notice if you look down at the verse

  116. that it is captured in those two words towards the end of the sentence

  117. in the words atoning sacrifice.

  118. Now, the NIV there is using two English words

  119. to translate one Greek word.

  120. The Greek word literally means to deal with anger

  121. or to satisfy judgment.

  122. If you've got a different translation, maybe an ESV,

  123. I think it uses the word propitiation.

  124. But that's not a word that we regularly use.

  125. So the NIV picks up this kind of temple sacrifice language

  126. where an animal is sacrificed in the place of someone else,

  127. their life in place of others.

  128. Now, think what this means.

  129. It means, doesn't it, that the penalty for sin,

  130. the price of forgiveness is a sacrificial death, right?

  131. Not just a physical death, but a sacrificial death,

  132. a death offered to God to face justice and wrath at sin.

  133. And John is saying,

  134. that is what Jesus is doing as he dies on the cross.

  135. Jesus didn't die just because he kind of miscalculated

  136. the hostility of the Jewish leaders.

  137. Oh, whoops, I kind of got that wrong.

  138. No, it's not that at all, isn't it?

  139. It's not even just that he died to show you that he loves you,

  140. although he does, and that's going to come out in this passage.

  141. It's not just that, is it?

  142. Rather, he died because the price of forgiveness is the shedding of blood.

  143. Blood is life in the Bible, and God's wrath has to be dealt with,

  144. and the price is life, a blood sacrifice.

  145. Now, I don't know how you feel about that.

  146. I think for some people, they think, well, you know,

  147. sure, I don't really like the idea of an angry God.

  148. I don't really like the idea of an angry God punishing his son

  149. as a substitute for our sin.

  150. I mean, demanding blood, that sounds kind of gross, doesn't it?

  151. That sounds sort of medieval.

  152. It's the kind of thing that you put on stained glass windows

  153. to scare people into giving money to the church.

  154. Doesn't our passage say that God is love, not angry?

  155. Well, of course, you're right.

  156. God is love, and the passage does say that.

  157. God is the definition of love, the source of all love.

  158. But it's important to notice here in this passage

  159. that John doesn't seem to think that God's love and God's anger

  160. are opposite to one another or exclusive of one another,

  161. not least because God's anger is not the rage of a man or woman out of control.

  162. It is the holy response of a holy God, a loving God,

  163. to sin and wickedness.

  164. And it's the satisfaction of this godly anger on the cross

  165. that uncovers his love.

  166. We'll think more about that in a moment.

  167. But what we need to see and understand is forgiveness is never very easy.

  168. Right?

  169. I know we think forgiveness is easy.

  170. Perhaps you think, oh, I'm a forgiving kind of guy.

  171. You know, I have no problem forgiving others.

  172. Let me suggest to you, if you think like that,

  173. that's because no one's really wronged you very seriously yet.

  174. And that will happen.

  175. As soon as you've been wronged properly,

  176. you know that forgiveness is very complicated and a lot more costly.

  177. And when you've been betrayed or let down

  178. or deserted by those who you thought loved you,

  179. then you will be shocked at the emotional pain that you will feel.

  180. The subtle ways that you'll find yourself trying to get back at them

  181. to make yourself feel better.

  182. And that's because forgiveness comes at a price.

  183. Let me try and illustrate what I mean here to show you by an example.

  184. Imagine that I came round to your house

  185. and you were very kind and you offered me a cup of tea

  186. as I came into your house.

  187. And we were chatting with one another

  188. and then sort of inexplicably as I finished my cup of tea,

  189. I threw my cup at the television and broke it.

  190. Imagine that the TVs aren't actually broken, Nick.

  191. Don't worry.

  192. Now, what does that mean if I do that?

  193. It means I owe you a television, right?

  194. Yeah?

  195. I broke it.

  196. My debt to you is to replace the TV.

  197. But if you choose to forgive me,

  198. if you say, don't worry, Steve,

  199. I forgive you for breaking my television,

  200. what are you doing in that moment?

  201. What you are saying is,

  202. I take on myself the cost of that.

  203. I will replace it.

  204. Don't worry.

  205. I forgive you.

  206. And if you don't replace the TV,

  207. then you have the suffering of living without a television.

  208. In other words,

  209. my sin of throwing the teacup at the television

  210. incurs a debt that must be dealt with

  211. for forgiveness to take place

  212. and for reconciliation to come about.

  213. And that is always how forgiveness works.

  214. There is always a cost.

  215. It's not often one tangible like a television.

  216. It is rare that someone comes around to your house

  217. and throws a cup at the TV.

  218. If you know that story and it's happened to you,

  219. tell me, I'll be intrigued.

  220. But it's more often than not something like

  221. you break one another's happiness

  222. and the cost of forgiveness

  223. is that we have to voluntarily suffer the sadness

  224. for a period of time.

  225. The opposite of forgiveness in that

  226. is to inflict unhappiness on the person

  227. who has wronged you

  228. to make them pay the debt.

  229. But you can't ignore it.

  230. It's more likely perhaps

  231. that someone's damaged your reputation

  232. and the cost of forgiveness

  233. is for you to live through

  234. the misunderstanding and misrepresentation

  235. that will come.

  236. Choosing not to slander them,

  237. not to get back to them in like manner.

  238. But whatever it is,

  239. forgiveness is never free.

  240. And to offer someone forgiveness

  241. is in effect to say,

  242. I will suffer for your sin

  243. so that I can forgive you.

  244. And if that's true between you and I,

  245. it's even more true between God and us, isn't it?

  246. You know, think about this.

  247. What is our offense before God?

  248. We were talking about this with the children,

  249. weren't we?

  250. We've not broken God's television.

  251. We've not slandered him in the workplace.

  252. We've not jeopardized his happiness.

  253. What have we done?

  254. Well, the Bible will tell you

  255. that you and I have stolen something

  256. that belongs to God.

  257. What is that?

  258. Our lives.

  259. God graciously and generously gives us life

  260. to live for him and his glory.

  261. And yet we steal it back

  262. and live it for ourselves

  263. and for our own glory.

  264. We've disobeyed his law.

  265. We've run the other way.

  266. And of course, God can't just say,

  267. oh, do you know what?

  268. Just forget about it.

  269. There's no debt there.

  270. Yeah, let's just pretend that never happened.

  271. You know, if God were like that,

  272. he wouldn't be God or he wouldn't be good.

  273. You'd have no reason to trust him.

  274. There's a debt and it needs to be paid.

  275. And the debt for stealing life is life itself.

  276. I know this is obvious,

  277. but let me just rub this in if I can for a moment.

  278. Imagine back in that scenario

  279. that I threw that cup at the television

  280. and broke the TV

  281. and it incurs this debt

  282. of needing to replace the television.

  283. And I said, you don't worry.

  284. You don't have to forgive me.

  285. I'm going to repay it myself.

  286. And I turn up the next day at your house

  287. and I've got a brand new notebook.

  288. I said, you don't worry about the television.

  289. I bought you a notebook.

  290. And if you like,

  291. you can draw pictures in the notebook.

  292. And if you flick through the notebook really fast,

  293. it looks like they're moving.

  294. And that will be an adequate replacement

  295. for your television.

  296. What do you say?

  297. Well, I've added to my offense,

  298. haven't I really?

  299. I've offended you that I thought

  300. that I could buy and replace your TV

  301. with a notebook.

  302. But that's what we do with God, isn't it?

  303. All the time.

  304. Nothing less than the sacrifice of a life

  305. in the place of a life

  306. could pay the debt that we owe to God.

  307. It's underlined over and over in the Bible.

  308. It's why God does not delight

  309. in the animal sacrifices of the Old Testament.

  310. Why?

  311. Well, because really they're just the drama

  312. of what will come

  313. in the sacrifice of the Lord Jesus.

  314. A blood of a lamb can never swap in

  315. for the life of a person.

  316. And our good works,

  317. our religious observance,

  318. the idea that I can buy forgiveness from God

  319. by my diet,

  320. by my attendance at a special place of worship,

  321. by my observation of particular spiritual days

  322. or seasons,

  323. that massively underplays the nature of my debt

  324. before a holy God.

  325. It's offering a notebook for a TV

  326. when I owe him life, my life.

  327. And so God the Son,

  328. in human flesh,

  329. the perfect one in the place of sinful ones

  330. like you and me,

  331. sheds his blood,

  332. lays down his life,

  333. breathes his last

  334. to pay the payment

  335. that our sin deserves.

  336. And of course,

  337. the death of the perfect son

  338. is payment not just enough

  339. for the salvation of one other person.

  340. He is the author of life itself.

  341. His death is of infinite value.

  342. Salvation sufficient for all who would turn to him.

  343. I want to move on.

  344. There's other things I need to say,

  345. and I'm probably running over time already,

  346. but let's just pause

  347. and just consider this for a moment.

  348. Can I say to you,

  349. have you considered

  350. that the cross of Jesus Christ

  351. says to you really loudly,

  352. you matter,

  353. and what you do matters.

  354. Your life is a serious business.

  355. God cares about what you do.

  356. Sin is serious.

  357. Punishment is real.

  358. You know,

  359. the Christian message

  360. is not a message about self-improvement.

  361. It's a message about rescue and escape

  362. from the wrath of God that we deserve.

  363. Because either we turn to the son

  364. and the infinitely valuable

  365. of the cross of Christ

  366. pays for our sin,

  367. or we spend eternity

  368. under the just judgment of God

  369. paying ourselves

  370. the debt that we owe to God.

  371. Here, forgiveness is being extended to you.

  372. I will pay, says God,

  373. but you must receive it.

  374. Can I ask you if you've received it?

  375. Have you received it from the Lord?

  376. Second question,

  377. who is it paid to?

  378. Now, I know,

  379. these are obvious questions, aren't they?

  380. And you're probably thinking,

  381. I know the answer already,

  382. but let's just slow down

  383. and make sure we've thought

  384. about this carefully.

  385. In the temple language

  386. that John is using here,

  387. Jesus, God the Son,

  388. is the sacrifice.

  389. Yeah, he is the atoning sacrifice.

  390. And it would also be right

  391. to say from the verse

  392. that it is God

  393. who is making the sacrifice.

  394. So God is both the priest

  395. and the sacrifice.

  396. Yeah, you get that.

  397. The Roman soldiers

  398. might have been the people

  399. who drove the nails

  400. into the hands and feet of Jesus.

  401. But if you look down at verse 10,

  402. it's God who sent the Son.

  403. God made the sacrifice.

  404. He was the priest.

  405. And he made the sacrifice

  406. to himself, right?

  407. Because he was the one

  408. to whom the debt was owed.

  409. It is before God

  410. that we owe the debt of life.

  411. In other words,

  412. what you've got here

  413. in these verses

  414. is God making the sacrifice

  415. of himself

  416. to himself

  417. for the satisfaction

  418. of himself.

  419. Do you get that?

  420. It's incredible, isn't it?

  421. God is satisfying

  422. his own holiness

  423. with his own sacrifice.

  424. Do you just see

  425. just how God-centered

  426. the cross is right now?

  427. This is not

  428. us asking God

  429. for forgiveness

  430. and him going,

  431. okay, let me see

  432. whether I can make the way

  433. for that to happen.

  434. It's not even God

  435. building a bridge

  436. or opening a door

  437. for us to kind of

  438. walk across.

  439. No, this is God

  440. coming down

  441. in the person of the Son,

  442. taking the initiative,

  443. sending, coming,

  444. dying, paying

  445. before we did anything.

  446. I wonder whether

  447. you really thought

  448. about this.

  449. You know,

  450. the cross isn't

  451. really about you.

  452. I mean,

  453. I know it is about us

  454. and in a way

  455. and we'll get to there

  456. in a moment,

  457. but it's really about

  458. who God is first.

  459. It's about God's holiness,

  460. his just,

  461. right,

  462. wrathful response

  463. to sin,

  464. satisfied in himself.

  465. You know,

  466. the cross tells you

  467. if you didn't know it

  468. from anywhere else,

  469. the cross tells you

  470. God is absolutely

  471. consistent with himself.

  472. He is unflinchingly holy.

  473. God will not,

  474. even at the price

  475. of his own Son,

  476. for a moment

  477. compromise his holy goodness.

  478. He won't.

  479. He can't.

  480. And he is now able

  481. to forgive sinners

  482. with joyful liberty

  483. and without any compromise

  484. of his righteousness

  485. or his goodness

  486. because of the cross.

  487. You know,

  488. the cross of Christ

  489. means that the forgiveness

  490. that we've got from God

  491. is not some kind of

  492. back alley deal,

  493. you know,

  494. where God sort of agree,

  495. I'll turn a blind eye

  496. to that for the people I like.

  497. It's not that,

  498. is it?

  499. No,

  500. sin is always paid for.

  501. And here it's paid

  502. by Jesus on the cross

  503. instead of us

  504. in the judgment of hell.

  505. And so because the cross

  506. we can cry,

  507. holy,

  508. holy,

  509. holy is the Lord God Almighty

  510. and salvation belongs

  511. to our God

  512. who sits on the throne.

  513. It means,

  514. doesn't it,

  515. if you're a Christian

  516. this morning

  517. that the holiness of God

  518. is no longer

  519. a danger to you.

  520. In fact,

  521. it's a joy to you.

  522. Do you know that?

  523. When you,

  524. when you think

  525. of the holy otherness

  526. of God,

  527. the fact that God

  528. cannot even look on sin,

  529. it's kind of scary,

  530. isn't it?

  531. How awesome he is.

  532. But actually,

  533. when you understand

  534. the cross,

  535. that everything

  536. about his holiness

  537. is satisfied

  538. in the sacrifice

  539. of his son

  540. in our place,

  541. that means his holiness

  542. is no longer

  543. terrifying for you.

  544. It's a good thing

  545. for us.

  546. The cross means

  547. that the goodness

  548. of God

  549. is now wonderfully

  550. attractive to us.

  551. Thirdly,

  552. why does he pay it?

  553. Why does he pay it?

  554. It does beg the question,

  555. doesn't it,

  556. why?

  557. Why would God

  558. choose to go

  559. to such lengths

  560. to make a way

  561. to save his people

  562. without compromising

  563. his character?

  564. I have to say,

  565. if you smash my television

  566. with a cup,

  567. that might be the last time

  568. you came round to my house,

  569. right?

  570. Why does God

  571. go to such lengths?

  572. Well,

  573. read the verse

  574. and let's see.

  575. This is love.

  576. This is love.

  577. Not that we love God,

  578. but that he loved us

  579. and sent his son

  580. as an atoning sacrifice

  581. for our sins.

  582. Verse 11,

  583. dear friends,

  584. since God

  585. so loved us,

  586. we also

  587. ought to love

  588. one another.

  589. I think of all

  590. the aspects of this,

  591. this is both

  592. the simplest

  593. to understand,

  594. but the most astounding.

  595. God pays the price

  596. of our forgiveness

  597. in the death

  598. of his son

  599. because

  600. he loves us.

  601. That's it.

  602. In other words,

  603. God's love

  604. is not a response

  605. to our love for him.

  606. He loves us first.

  607. It's not even

  608. a general response

  609. to the loveliness

  610. of humanity.

  611. No.

  612. Rather,

  613. God's love

  614. is not that

  615. we loved God,

  616. but that he loved us.

  617. So here,

  618. John says

  619. that God pays

  620. for our forgiveness

  621. in the death

  622. of the son

  623. because he loves

  624. sinners,

  625. people who don't

  626. yet love him

  627. in a way

  628. that's completely

  629. beyond our understanding.

  630. This is so important.

  631. Let me try and prove it

  632. to you with another passage.

  633. It's going to come up

  634. on the screen.

  635. You might want to turn to it.

  636. Romans chapter 5,

    Romans 5:6

  637. verse 6.

  638. It's page 1132

  639. if you want to turn to it.

  640. Paul writes this.

  641. You see,

  642. just at the right time,

  643. when we were still powerless,

  644. Christ died for the ungodly.

  645. Very rarely will anyone

  646. die for a righteous person,

  647. though for a good person,

  648. someone might possibly

  649. dare to die.

  650. Oh, they're good enough.

  651. I might give my life

  652. for them.

  653. But God demonstrates

  654. his own love for us

  655. in this.

  656. While we were still sinners,

  657. Christ died for us.

  658. It's exactly the same,

  659. isn't it?

  660. God demonstrates

  661. his love

  662. by Christ's death

  663. while we were still sinners.

  664. I said last week

  665. that substitution

  666. means,

  667. the doctrine of the

  668. substitution of Jesus Christ

  669. at the cross,

  670. means that

  671. my contribution

  672. to salvation

  673. is my sin, right?

  674. Because that's been

  675. counted over

  676. to the Lord Jesus.

  677. Well, here,

  678. if you like,

  679. it's exactly the same story.

  680. What is my contribution

  681. to the love of God?

  682. What is it that I have done

  683. that's made myself

  684. so attractive to God?

  685. Well, nothing really.

  686. I'm a sinner.

  687. But God loves sinners.

  688. He loves sinners.

  689. Not because he approves

  690. of their lifestyle choices.

  691. Not because he doesn't

  692. judge sin.

  693. Not because sin itself

  694. doesn't arouse

  695. his righteous anger.

  696. It's not because God

  697. has no standards.

  698. No, the cross screams

  699. the moral justice of God.

  700. Rather, the point is

  701. that the God

  702. who is love,

  703. freely,

  704. for reasons only

  705. understood by him,

  706. freely chooses

  707. to love sinners

  708. like you and me.

  709. Incredible as that might be.

  710. In fact,

  711. according to John,

  712. this is the very definition

  713. of God's love.

  714. God is love,

  715. he says,

  716. and the overspill

  717. of his character

  718. is as it overspills

  719. onto the undeserving.

  720. God's love

  721. is by its very nature

  722. not deserved

  723. or earned

  724. or merited.

  725. Anything it is,

  726. it's spilling out

  727. from God's very character.

  728. And so he lovingly

  729. doesn't compromise

  730. his justice

  731. or act as if

  732. sin doesn't matter.

  733. He upholds

  734. the holiness

  735. of his character

  736. while in love

  737. saving the lost

  738. by paying the price

  739. for their sin.

  740. Again,

  741. can we just

  742. pause there

  743. and can I ask you

  744. the question

  745. whether you've seen

  746. that God

  747. really loves you?

  748. God loves you.

  749. And that's not

  750. because he has

  751. a gushy feeling

  752. welling up inside of him

  753. when he thinks about you.

  754. It's way better than that.

  755. God loves you

  756. even in the depths

  757. of your sin

  758. and so provides

  759. a way through

  760. the atoning sacrifice

  761. of the Son

  762. to save you.

  763. And you do know,

  764. don't you,

  765. as I say to you

  766. that God loves you,

  767. you know

  768. that no one else

  769. in the world

  770. loves you like that.

  771. No one else

  772. loves you like that.

  773. There is not a person

  774. in your life

  775. that if you didn't,

  776. if you shared with them

  777. exactly what was going on

  778. in your head

  779. at every single moment

  780. that they would still

  781. feel the same way

  782. about you.

  783. Maybe you're married.

  784. You know that's true,

  785. don't you?

  786. You know that's true

  787. of your parents.

  788. And so,

  789. to some measure

  790. or other,

  791. we are always going

  792. about this process

  793. of kind of hiding

  794. ourselves from one another

  795. in order to make sure

  796. that we don't compromise

  797. people's love for us.

  798. Because we're afraid

  799. if they really saw

  800. what we were really like,

  801. they wouldn't want

  802. anything to do

  803. with us anymore.

  804. But God knows

  805. all about you.

  806. He knows everything

  807. you've done.

  808. He knows everywhere

  809. you've been.

  810. He knows the thoughts

  811. of your heart.

  812. He knows what you're

  813. thinking right now.

  814. He knows where you're

  815. going this week.

  816. He knows what you will do.

  817. And He loves you.

  818. He loves you.

  819. There's no one else

  820. like that.

  821. Finally then,

  822. what difference

  823. does this make?

  824. What difference

  825. does this make?

  826. Just as we finish,

  827. I want to look

  828. just a little bit

  829. outside of verse 10

  830. to see what difference

  831. this penalty-paying love

  832. makes to us.

  833. Just have a look down

  834. at verse 7.

  835. Dear friends,

  836. let us love one another

  837. for love comes from God.

  838. Everyone who loves

  839. has been born of God

  840. and knows God.

  841. Whoever does not love

  842. does not know God

  843. because God is love.

  844. This is how God

  845. showed His love among us.

  846. He sent His one

  847. and only Son

  848. into the world

  849. that we might live

  850. through Him.

  851. This is love.

  852. Not that we love God,

  853. but that He loved us

  854. and sent His Son

  855. as an atoning sacrifice

  856. for our sins.

  857. Dear friends,

  858. since God so loved us,

  859. we also ought

  860. to love one another.

  861. No one has ever

  862. seen God,

  863. but if we love one another,

  864. God lives in us

  865. and His love

  866. is made complete in us.

  867. Notice what John

  868. is saying here

  869. about this love of God

  870. in Christ's sacrifice.

  871. Notice that he's saying

  872. it changes us.

  873. In verse 7,

  874. he says that

  875. encountering this love

  876. is like being reborn

  877. into someone

  878. who then loves others

  879. in the same way

  880. that God has loved us.

  881. He says,

  882. verse 7,

  883. everyone who loves

  884. has been born of God.

  885. The logic here

  886. is that if we are able

  887. to love like God,

  888. it is because we,

  889. not because we're good people

  890. or because we're particularly

  891. good at this kind of thing,

  892. it's because that love

  893. has not come from us,

  894. it's come from God Himself.

  895. We have been born of God

  896. into these kind of lovers.

  897. It's not so much that,

  898. sorry,

  899. so much so that the loveless

  900. are those who haven't

  901. encountered this love.

  902. Those who are unable

  903. to love like this

  904. is because they haven't

  905. been loved like this

  906. by God.

  907. Verse 9 pretty much

  908. repeats the same point,

  909. but here the image

  910. is not birth but life.

  911. So we live through

  912. the one and only Son

  913. who was sent into the world

  914. to lovingly pay

  915. the penalty for our sin.

  916. The verses are really dense,

  917. aren't they?

  918. There's a lot going on here

  919. but the big idea

  920. is really simple,

  921. that encountering

  922. the love of God

  923. in the wrath-bearing

  924. penal substitution

  925. of the cross

  926. remakes us.

  927. It remakes us.

  928. John is like,

  929. it's like saying

  930. encountering Christ's cross

  931. is as significant

  932. as being created

  933. in the first place

  934. because you are being

  935. remade.

  936. You are being given

  937. a new life to live

  938. and you are now living it

  939. not in that old way

  940. but you are living it now

  941. through the love of God

  942. seen at the cross

  943. bringing a life

  944. that we've not experienced

  945. before that's capable

  946. of loving others

  947. in a way that we were

  948. not capable before.

  949. You know,

  950. we sometimes experience this,

  951. don't we,

  952. on a human level.

  953. You know when you've

  954. fallen out with a friend

  955. and then you are able

  956. to sit down together

  957. and have a conversation

  958. and you agree

  959. that the debt will be paid

  960. and that forgiveness

  961. will mean reconciliation

  962. for the two of you

  963. and as you walk out

  964. from that kind of meeting

  965. there's a new kind

  966. of freshness,

  967. isn't there?

  968. It's like you've been

  969. reborn again

  970. in your relationship.

  971. This is that

  972. but on a whole new level

  973. that through the cross

  974. we are reconciled

  975. to the God who made us.

  976. The death sentence

  977. that was hanging over us

  978. has been lifted

  979. through Christ's

  980. atoning sacrifice

  981. and we are remade

  982. to live new lives.

  983. Coming to Christ,

  984. trusting in him,

  985. receiving the forgiveness

  986. of the cross

  987. is nothing less significant

  988. than being made

  989. completely new,

  990. says John,

  991. and new in a way

  992. that is able to love

  993. and forgive others.

  994. A life that is even

  995. able to do that

  996. to the extent

  997. to which it reveals God

  998. to other people.

  999. A love that can't

  1000. generate itself

  1001. but comes from

  1002. the power of the cross.

  1003. The cross, if you like,

  1004. is the kind of

  1005. moral capital

  1006. that pours into us

  1007. and flows out of us

  1008. to those around us

  1009. as Christ dies

  1010. facing my punishment

  1011. in my place.

  1012. Let's pause

  1013. and have a moment

  1014. for quiet prayer

  1015. and then I'll pray

  1016. for us.

  1017. Heavenly Father,

  1018. we thank you so much

  1019. that you love us.

  1020. As unlovely as we are,

  1021. you love us.

  1022. And not with a kind of

  1023. sentimental,

  1024. gushy love

  1025. but with a

  1026. committed,

  1027. active,

  1028. saving love

  1029. that you sent

  1030. your son,

  1031. the Lord Jesus Christ

  1032. to face

  1033. our punishment

  1034. and die

  1035. in our place.

  1036. How we praise

  1037. and thank you

  1038. for Jesus.

  1039. Give us, we pray,

  1040. just even this morning

  1041. a fresh grasp

  1042. on what he has done

  1043. that we might

  1044. love one another

  1045. as he has loved us.

  1046. In Jesus' name.

  1047. Amen.

  1048. Amen.

  1049. Amen.