Sermon
Adorning The Doctrine
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Transcript
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Please open your Bibles this morning to the book of Titus.
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The book of Titus.
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If you're a visitor, a guest with us this morning,
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we have been walking together through the book of Titus.
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We've made our way this morning to chapter 2,
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and we're going to be in verses 1 through 10.
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If you're using the pew Bibles there in front of you or behind you,
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you can find that on page 938.
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You might remember that we've titled this sermon series
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A Church of Sound Doctrine.
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A Church of Sound Doctrine.
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That's what we, by God's grace, hope and pray and aim to be.
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And in chapter 2, verses 1 through 10,
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we get a look at exactly what that might look like practically for us.
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So Bibles open, Titus chapter 2, verses 1 through 10.
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Follow along with me as I read the Word of God.
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Paul says,
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But as for you, teach what accords with sound doctrine.
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Older men are to be sober-minded, dignified, self-controlled,
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sound in faith and love and in steadfastness.
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Older women, likewise, are to be reverent in behavior,
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not slanderers or slaves to much wine.
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They are to teach what is good,
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and so train the young women to love their husbands and children,
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to be self-controlled, pure, working at home,
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kind and submissive to their own husbands,
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that the Word of God may not be reviled.
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Likewise, urge the younger men to be self-controlled.
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Show yourself in all respects to be a model of good works,
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and in your teaching show integrity, dignity,
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and sound speech that cannot be condemned,
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so that an opponent may be put to shame,
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having nothing evil to say about us.
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Bond servants are to be submissive to their own masters in everything.
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They are to be well-pleasing,
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not argumentative,
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not pilfering,
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but showing all good faith,
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so that in everything they may adorn the doctrine of God,
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our Savior.
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Let's pray.
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Lord, again, we pray that we would look like this.
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This is a work of your grace, of your doing,
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and this is impossible for us in the flesh,
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and so we pray that the things that we just read,
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that the things that we hear described in Titus,
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would move from knowing to being in our lives together,
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that we would look like this.
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And we pray and we ask this in Jesus' name.
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Amen.
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Well, if you are a fan of energy drinks,
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or have watched television, commercials,
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or even walked into a gas station over the past several years,
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you are probably familiar with Red Bull.
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And you are probably familiar with its slogan,
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Red Bull.
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Help me.
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It gives you wings.
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At least that is what they say.
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The popular energy drink has built a reputation around that slogan,
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and the commercials typically,
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they feature somebody who is down in the dumps,
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having a hard moment, a hard day,
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sad, depressed.
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Then they get a sip of Red Bull energy drink,
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out of their back sprouts wings,
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and up they go, flying away to a better life.
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Well, this slogan that has drawn so much attention,
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you may not know this,
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it was also the basis of a class action lawsuit in 2014.
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Consumers filed a lawsuit stating that
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the company had falsely advertised.
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Despite what they may have claimed,
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Red Bull does not, in fact, actually give you wings.
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One consumer, Mr. Corathers,
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he was quoted saying he drank Red Bull for 10 years,
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but that he had not once developed wings,
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or shown any improvement either intellectually or physically,
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and we can't argue with that, can we?
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As ridiculous as that sounds,
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Red Bull ultimately agreed to pay off up to $13 million
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to settle the lawsuit and to move on.
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The lesson?
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False advertising is costly.
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If you're going to claim something,
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promote something about yourself,
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say something about who you are,
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you had better make sure that the product
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matches the advertisement.
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That's exactly what Paul is saying here to Titus.
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Not about Red Bull, of course,
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but about the church.
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See, false teachers have crept in
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to these newly forming churches in Crete,
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and they're leading men and women
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to claim to be Christian,
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yet live like a Cretan.
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And so Paul says,
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no, this type of false advertising,
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false professing, false teaching,
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that is costly.
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It discredits our profession.
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It damages our witness to the outside world,
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and at worst,
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it distracts from the glory of God.
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So Paul tells Titus,
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Titus,
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you teach what accords with sound doctrine.
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You teach that faith accords with godliness.
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You establish elders who will hold firm
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to the trustworthy word as taught.
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Titus,
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you teach them there in Crete
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that to say you are a Christian
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advertises something about yourself.
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It says,
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I have been redeemed.
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I once was lost,
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dead in my sin,
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hellbound because of my own rebellion against God,
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but God,
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by his grace,
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has rescued me,
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and he has saved me,
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but not only that,
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he has changed me.
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He has transformed me from the inside out.
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So now my heart is transformed.
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I'm not the same as what I once was.
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I am a product of the redeeming grace of God.
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If anyone is in Christ,
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he is a new creation.
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The old has gone,
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the new has come.
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To say you are a Christian
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is to say that type of new heart transformation
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has happened right here.
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Well,
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here in the year 2022,
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not much has changed,
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has it?
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There are many who,
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like the Cretans,
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profess to know God,
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but deny him
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by their works.
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These verses here in chapter 2,
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verses 1 through 10,
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they are a reminder for us
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that gospel believing
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leads to gospel living.
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Gospel believing
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ought to lead to godly living.
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So this morning,
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what we're going to see
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is four facts about godly living.
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Four facts about godly living
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in these verses.
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This is going to be our outline this morning.
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If you're a note taker,
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like to take notes to follow along,
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I encourage you to do that.
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You're going to find four facts
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for godly living this morning.
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First,
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godly living
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accords with gospel believing.
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Godly living
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accords
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with gospel
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believing.
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Some of you are musical,
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and so this will make sense to you,
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but even if you're not,
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most of you have
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decent enough ears
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to where you may not be able to say
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exactly what's wrong,
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but when you hear something off,
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you can tell,
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hey,
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that doesn't sound quite right.
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A wrong note was hit,
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a wrong chord was struck,
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something's off here,
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musically.
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A chord,
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musically speaking,
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is when three or more notes
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work together.
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They play nice together.
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They harmonize together.
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They sound good together.
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And interestingly,
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the French word for
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accord
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that you play musically
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is accord.
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You may not know that.
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That's the idea here.
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One thing
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aligns with something else.
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It accords with something else.
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They're in harmony.
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They go together.
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They make music.
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They play nice.
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And on the other side of that
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is discord.
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Discord
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is a lack of harmony.
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And you may not
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recognize that term,
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but you know,
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again,
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you know what it sounds like.
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It sounds bad.
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You can hear
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something
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is off.
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That sounds terrible.
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One person's playing
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one thing.
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One person's singing
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another thing.
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And it just makes you want
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to close up your ears
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because it sounds awful.
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And what we saw last week,
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Paul said,
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the behavior of these
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false teachers
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was not in accord
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with what they professed.
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You remember what he said.
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Cretans are always liars,
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evil beasts,
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lazy gluttons.
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They profess to know God
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with their mouths,
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but they deny him
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with their work.
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Something's off.
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They say they believe,
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but they don't live
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like they believe.
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So Paul says here
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in chapter 2,
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verse 1,
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he says,
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but as for you,
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Titus,
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see there's a difference here.
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Yes,
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there are false teachers
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saying the opposite,
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but as for you,
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Titus,
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you are to be distinct.
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You are to teach
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the church to be distinct.
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Teach what accords
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with sound doctrine.
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You see that,
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right?
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He does not just say,
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teach sound doctrine.
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As valuable as that is,
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he's told us that earlier.
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Sound doctrine,
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incredibly valuable.
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That's the beginning.
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That's where it starts.
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He does not say,
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teach sound doctrine.
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What does he say?
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Teach what accords
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with sound doctrine.
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Don't just teach
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the information.
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He says,
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teach the life transformation
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that goes in harmony
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with the right information.
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The sound living
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that works in harmony
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with sound doctrine.
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Teach that godly living
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accords with gospel believing.
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Now,
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this is a warning for us,
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church.
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This is a warning for us
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that it is not enough
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to know the right information.
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It is not enough.
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You see,
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the problem here in Crete,
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it was not the pagans.
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It was not the outside world.
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It was not those
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who would never step foot
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into a church.
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The problem here in Crete,
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it was church people.
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It was people
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who know the right answers.
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They sat through the sermons.
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They read their Bibles.
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They would say,
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I know God.
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I believe in Jesus.
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I profess to be a Christian.
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But they denied him
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with their works.
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Their lives
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were in tension
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with their profession.
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Do not buy the lie,
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church.
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Do not buy the lie
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that you can have God
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and live however you want.
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It's not true.
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Do not buy the lie
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that your actions,
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your life,
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your behavior
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doesn't matter.
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So long as you come to church,
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pray your prayers,
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say that you believe,
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so long as you're not
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as far off as this person
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or that person.
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These are all lies
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of the enemy.
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If you have been given
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the gift of salvation,
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then you have been given
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the gift of sanctification.
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They are a package deal.
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You can't separate them.
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You cannot have one
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without the other.
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You can go to church
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your whole life.
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You can know the whole Bible
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inside out.
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You can know all the right facts
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and still not know God.
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Now all of us in Christ
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are growing.
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We are progressing.
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None of us are perfect.
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We are striving by His grace
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to put sin to death
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and to pursue holiness.
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But friend,
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if there is no godliness,
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no transformation,
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if there is no growth
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in your life,
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no distinction between you
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and the world around you,
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it is right for you to ask
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whether you know God
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or just know about Him.
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See, this is a warning for us.
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Church, knowing about God
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saves no one.
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Knowing God truly,
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personally,
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through faith in Jesus Christ,
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knowing God is the only hope
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for sinners like me
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and like you.
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And you cannot know Him
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and remain unchanged.
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That's what Paul is telling us here.
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Amanda and I,
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we celebrated 10 years of marriage
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the other day.
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10 years.
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It's hard to believe
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that it's already been 10 years.
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We've known each other
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for about 14 years.
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And we started dating
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about two years before that.
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So all in all,
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about 12 years
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of actually being together.
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together.
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And that's a lot of time
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with one person.
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A lot of time.
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It's a good time.
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Okay?
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And we were talking
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the other day
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at dinner.
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You have to ask her
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her opinion on that.
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But for me,
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for me,
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it's been a good time.
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We were talking
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the other day
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about the fact
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that we are different people
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than when we first met.
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We are different people
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than when we started dating.
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And we're different people
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than when we first got married.
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And I hope she would
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praise God for that.
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But how could you
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not be different?
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Spending so much time
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with one person,
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engaging with one person,
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how could you get
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to know someone personally
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at that level
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for 14 years
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and not be different?
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Well, Paul says,
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if you know God,
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you will be different.
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If you spend time with Him,
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Paul says,
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you will be changed.
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Maybe not instantly,
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some dramatic,
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life-changing change
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suddenly,
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all of a sudden,
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but gradually,
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over time,
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with prayer
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and patience
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and pursuit,
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you will be changed.
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You will become
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like Him.
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You will become godly,
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godly living accords
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with gospel believing.
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Well, what does that look like?
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What does that look like?
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Paul shows us
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throughout the rest
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of this passage,
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what godliness looks like
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for every believer.
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And this is our second point
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this morning.
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Godliness is for every believer.
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Godly living
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is for every believer.
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These descriptions
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in this passage,
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they're not exhaustive.
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This is not all
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that we need to know.
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But Paul gives us
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an overview here
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of what godliness
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should look like
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for every member
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of the church
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in verses 2 through 10.
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Every member.
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There's something here
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for all of us.
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And Paul speaks,
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I think,
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to three distinct categories here.
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Three distinct categories.
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He speaks to men,
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women,
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and workers.
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Follow along with me here.
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He speaks to men,
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women,
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and workers.
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Well, first,
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he speaks to the men.
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He speaks to the old men
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and to the young men.
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Look here with me
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to verse 2.
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Titus 2, verse 2.
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He says,
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Older men,
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you are to be
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sober-minded,
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dignified,
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self-controlled,
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sound in faith,
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in love,
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and in steadfastness.
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And the order here,
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I think,
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is important.
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Older men,
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older Christian men
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are to lead the way
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as examples of godliness
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in the church.
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He says,
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they should be
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sober-minded.
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He says,
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they're under control.
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Their thoughts
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aren't clouded by anger,
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or by sensuality,
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or by greed.
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They are not easily
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deceived or led astray.
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These older Christian men
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are rocks in the home,
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and in the church,
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and in society.
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He says,
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they are respectable,
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dignified,
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able to control themselves.
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But not only that,
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look here.
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Look at this.
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Paul says,
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they are to be
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sound in faith,
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in love,
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and in steadfastness.
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Think about that.
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Sound in faith,
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and love,
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and steadfastness.
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You know,
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that word sound
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has come up before,
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hasn't it?
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And we keep hearing that.
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An elder must be able
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to give instruction
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in sound doctrine.
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Paul says,
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as for you,
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teach what accords
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with sound doctrine.
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We've titled this series
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in Titus,
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A Church of Sound Doctrine.
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What that word means
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is healthy.
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Healthy.
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These men,
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these older men,
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are to be spiritually,
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morally healthy,
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in faith,
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in love,
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and in steadfastness.
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Do you see the picture
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of godliness
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that he's laying out
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for us here,
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men?
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These men
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know the word.
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They know the faith.
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They know what they believe
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and why.
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They could pick out a lie
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because they know,
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well,
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God's word doesn't say that.
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These men are healthy
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in love.
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They love God
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and they love their neighbor.
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But not only that,
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it says these are
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faithful men.
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Reliable.
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Steadfast.
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They're enduring men.
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Do you want to be
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a man of God?
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Know your Bible.
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Know your Bible.
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Love God with all your heart.
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Love God with all your mind.
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Love God with all your soul.
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And love your neighbor
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as yourself.
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And stick around a while,
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men.
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You want to be a godly man?
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Be faithful.
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Don't be a wishy-washy man.
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Be stable.
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Be reliable.
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Be someone that others
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can depend on
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and know that
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what they get from you
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is rooted,
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not just in duty,
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but in delight in the Lord.
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That is godly manhood.
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I pray for a church
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full of men like this.
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Are you pursuing
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that, men?
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He not only speaks
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to the older men,
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he also speaks directly
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to young men here
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in verse 6.
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Verse 6.
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He says,
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the young men
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just have one job
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here in verse 6.
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And probably because
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mastering this
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will take all
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of your attention.
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So young men,
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listen with me.
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Young men,
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you are to be
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self-controlled.
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Self-controlled.
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We've got to get this right
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before we can move on
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to anything else.
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The fruit of the Spirit
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is what?
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It's love,
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joy,
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peace,
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patience,
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kindness,
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goodness,
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faithfulness,
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gentleness,
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and what?
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Self-control.
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One of the first verses
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that I memorized
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as a young Christian,
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it was Proverbs 25, 28.
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It says this.
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It says,
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a man without self-control
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is like a city
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broken into
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and left without walls.
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I'll say that again.
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A man without self-control
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is like a city
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broken into
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and left without walls.
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What happens to a city
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without walls?
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It is open to attack.
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It has no defense.
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Anyone can come and go
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as they please,
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take what they want,
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do what they want.
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And Paul says,
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without self-control,
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men,
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we are open to
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all sorts of attack.
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A lack of self-control,
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young men,
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is at the root
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of a thousand sins.
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But a young man
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with self-control,
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he has his defenses up.
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He's prepared for attack
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when it comes,
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and it will come.
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Does your speech
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demonstrate self-control?
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Do you show self-control
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by the way you use your time?
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And the way you engage
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with your family at home?
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When you go to work,
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when you're with your friends,
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do you act in self-control?
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With your temptations,
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men,
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do we demonstrate
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self-control?
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You know,
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the greater the access
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to temptation,
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the greater our need
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for self-control is.
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I'll tell you something,
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we have greater access
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to temptation now
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than any time ever before.
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We better get some
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self-control, men.
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Are your defenses up?
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Second,
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he speaks here
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to the women,
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and just like
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with the men,
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he speaks to both
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older women
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and to younger women.
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And listen,
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I will not tell you
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which category
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you belong in.
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I'm not going to do that.
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I'm just going to say
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he speaks to both here.
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Some of you ladies
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prefer to identify
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as a younger woman.
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Fair enough.
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Look to verse 3.
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He says,
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older women likewise,
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just like the men,
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are to be reverent
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in behavior,
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not slanderers,
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not slaves to much wine.
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And they are to teach
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what is good
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and so train
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the younger women.
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And I think you can see
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the influence
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of the Cretans
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here in Paul's instructions.
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It was normal in Crete
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to slander.
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Remember,
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Cretans are liars.
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It was normal
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to be a slave
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to food and drink.
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Remember,
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they're evil beasts,
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lazy glutton.
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But Paul says,
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Christian woman,
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you be distinct.
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Christian woman,
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you let your speech
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be seasoned with salt.
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Only speaking what is good
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for building up.
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Only speaking the truth
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in love.
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Christian woman,
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exercise self-control
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with food
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and with drink.
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Don't be a slave.
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Don't get drunk
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with wine,
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but be filled
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with the Holy Spirit.
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Be reverent
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in your behavior.
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Does this describe you?
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See,
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we don't age
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out of pursuing
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godliness.
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I served
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at a church
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in North Myrtle Beach.
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We have a few
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visitors this morning
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that came from
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North Myrtle Beach
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to come and join us
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this morning.
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They're gluttons
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for punishment here.
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But the mentality
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in that community
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is I'm retired.
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It's a retirement area.
-
I'm retired.
-
I've earned the right
-
to check out
-
and do what I want.
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Live as I please.
-
I came to the beach
-
to check out
-
and to live
-
the rest of my days
-
in beach
-
and sunshine
-
and sand.
-
Paul says,
-
older women,
-
you don't ever age
-
out of godliness.
-
You don't ever retire
-
from godliness.
-
You still have
-
big responsibility
-
even in your old age.
-
Great responsibility.
-
You still have work
-
to do.
-
If you're looking
-
for a way
-
to serve the church,
-
if you,
-
older women
-
are looking
-
for a way
-
to make meaningful
-
contributions
-
to the life
-
of this church,
-
Paul gives you
-
two ways right here.
-
Do you see it?
-
Live a life
-
worth imitating
-
and pass it on.
-
If you want
-
to serve this church,
-
live a life
-
worth imitating
-
and pass it on.
-
Look again
-
what he says
-
in verse 3.
-
He says,
-
these older women
-
are to teach
-
what is good
-
and so train
-
the younger women.
-
So younger women,
-
this is for you now.
-
He says,
-
train the younger women
-
to love their husbands
-
and children
-
and to be self-controlled.
-
There's that word again.
-
Pure,
-
working at home,
-
kind,
-
and submissive
-
to their own husbands.
-
Most of the focus
-
here for the young woman
-
seems to be
-
on their sphere
-
of influence
-
and service
-
in the home.
-
I don't believe
-
that that means
-
they can't work
-
outside of the home,
-
but it does mean
-
that this is primary.
-
And again,
-
it seems like
-
the influence
-
in Crete,
-
the influence
-
of the Cretans
-
was toward
-
a kind of laziness
-
or indifference
-
in the home.
-
And so Paul says,
-
young women,
-
young Christian women,
-
be distinct,
-
be diligent.
-
Pursue love
-
for your husbands.
-
That is hard sometimes,
-
I know.
-
Pursue it.
-
Pursue love
-
for your children.
-
It is easy
-
to be a half-hearted spouse.
-
It is easy
-
to be a half-hearted,
-
lazy parent.
-
I'm speaking as a father.
-
It is easy
-
to be a half-hearted parent.
-
It's much easier
-
to let the television
-
disciple your kids
-
than it is for you
-
to take the time
-
and the energy
-
to train up your children.
-
It's much easier
-
to avoid discipline
-
for your children
-
than it is
-
to enforce discipline
-
and godliness
-
in the homes.
-
Paul says,
-
work hard
-
in the home,
-
young women,
-
for the glory of God.
-
But not only that,
-
third category here.
-
He also speaks
-
to workers.
-
I want us to see
-
that Paul is crossing
-
every box here.
-
Checking off every box.
-
Young,
-
old,
-
men,
-
women,
-
and now he addresses
-
Titus,
-
who is a pastor,
-
an organizer
-
of the church.
-
He's a teacher.
-
He's a servant
-
of God
-
and slaves
-
Titus.
-
You see that?
-
The distinction
-
here.
-
Godly living
-
is for everyone
-
in the church.
-
Paul says,
-
verse 7,
-
you,
-
Titus,
-
he's speaking to Titus,
-
verse 7,
-
you show yourself
-
in all respects
-
to be a model
-
of good work.
-
Show integrity
-
in your teaching.
-
Show dignity.
-
Show sound speech
-
that cannot be condemned.
-
Don't give anyone
-
an opportunity
-
to mock God
-
by what you say
-
or by how you live.
-
Your life matters,
-
Titus.
-
Your godliness matters.
-
Your speech matters.
-
And we say,
-
of course it does.
-
He's a pastor.
-
Everybody's looking at him.
-
He's a public representative
-
of God Almighty.
-
Everybody's looking
-
at the way he lives.
-
But then he goes
-
to the lowest rung
-
of the social totem pole
-
and says the same thing
-
to the slaves.
-
Just consider the dignity
-
that he's giving them
-
right now.
-
He says to some
-
of the lowest members
-
of society here,
-
your actions,
-
your behavior,
-
your attitude matters.
-
You think nobody's
-
looking at how you live?
-
Think again.
-
You think that your actions,
-
because you're not
-
an older man,
-
you're not a leader
-
in the church,
-
you're not wealthy,
-
you're not well respected,
-
that godliness
-
doesn't matter for you?
-
Think again.
-
He says,
-
your godliness matters.
-
Your speech matters.
-
Your actions,
-
even as a slave,
-
adorn the doctrine
-
of God our Savior.
-
Church,
-
no one is exempt.
-
No one is exempt.
-
Godliness is for all of us.
-
There's no distinction here.
-
Male, female,
-
young, old, black,
-
white, rich, poor,
-
white collar, blue collar,
-
whatever your job,
-
whatever your role,
-
no one is excluded.
-
We share in one
-
sanctifying spirit of God.
-
So godliness is for you.
-
But how will we get there?
-
How will we become a church
-
that looks like this?
-
Third,
-
godly living requires training.
-
Our third point this morning,
-
godly living requires training.
-
You cannot do this on your own.
-
Church,
-
you cannot do this on your own.
-
Anyone who's ever done
-
any exercise training,
-
understands this?
-
Breeze and Linda did not pay me
-
to say this, okay?
-
Just a disclaimer.
-
There is a limit to how much
-
you can accomplish by yourself.
-
You can only push yourself so far.
-
There's a benefit to having training
-
from someone who knows
-
what they're talking about,
-
who has done the move before,
-
who can show you
-
where you're making mistakes,
-
give you feedback along the way,
-
push you to where you need to go.
-
You can lift more,
-
do more,
-
and avoid getting hurt along the way
-
if you have good training
-
to help you get to your goal.
-
It's the same with our pursuit
-
of godliness, church.
-
You cannot do this by yourself.
-
We're just,
-
we're so independent.
-
We don't want anybody else
-
in our business.
-
We think we can do it ourselves.
-
We think we got this under control.
-
We don't want anybody to,
-
nobody needs to judge me.
-
Nobody needs to tell me
-
how to live my life.
-
I don't need help.
-
You want to know another lie
-
of the enemy that we tend to believe?
-
It's that we got this.
-
We got this.
-
I don't need anybody's help.
-
I got this.
-
Church, that is a lie,
-
and we've bought it.
-
The way we will grow up
-
in godliness
-
is to love each other enough
-
to say,
-
let's do this together.
-
The way that you will grow up
-
in godliness
-
is by linking arms
-
with everybody else around you
-
in this place,
-
your brothers and sisters
-
in this church,
-
to say we are pursuing this
-
together as a family.
-
That's what Paul says.
-
Older women,
-
verse 4,
-
look there,
-
again,
-
verse 4,
-
are to what?
-
Train the younger women.
-
They won't get there
-
on their own.
-
They need your wisdom,
-
older woman.
-
Have you learned anything
-
about what it means
-
to be a godly spouse,
-
to honor God as a wife,
-
as a mother,
-
as a woman?
-
Share it.
-
Train them up.
-
They need your help.
-
Younger men,
-
likewise,
-
verse 6,
-
they need to be,
-
what?
-
Urged to be self-controlled.
-
He doesn't just say,
-
be self-controlled.
-
He says,
-
urge the younger men
-
to be self-controlled.
-
Who's doing the urging?
-
It's us, church.
-
Older men,
-
where are you?
-
Where are you?
-
Urge the younger men
-
to be self-controlled.
-
Show them with your lives
-
and urge them
-
with your words
-
to live in godliness.
-
Get in one another's business.
-
We can't do it
-
by ourselves.
-
And young men,
-
young women,
-
humble yourself to listen,
-
to receive words of wisdom,
-
godly input
-
from those who have developed
-
godly character.
-
You know,
-
the devil loves our privacy.
-
privacy.
-
The devil loves
-
our love affair
-
with privacy.
-
We need one another.
-
Personal holiness
-
is a group project,
-
church.
-
Who here
-
is committed
-
to pray for you?
-
Who here knows
-
your sins,
-
specifically?
-
Who here
-
has committed
-
to follow up with you?
-
Who here is walking
-
with you in the word?
-
Who here is helping you
-
root your life
-
in the word?
-
Helping you to live
-
what you profess
-
to believe?
-
That's what discipleship is.
-
And we've been talking
-
a lot about discipleship.
-
It's very simple.
-
It's helping one another
-
pursue God.
-
Are we doing that,
-
church?
-
And if you're struggling
-
in any way
-
to pursue godliness,
-
and we all do,
-
if you're struggling
-
in any way
-
with pursuing godliness,
-
ask yourself,
-
have I ever been trained?
-
Or am I trying
-
to do this on my own?
-
Am I being trained now?
-
And if not,
-
what will I do about it?
-
You know,
-
Treg and I
-
would love nothing more
-
than to connect you
-
with someone.
-
Maybe that's us.
-
That's great.
-
But to connect you
-
with someone
-
or a group of someone
-
who would be committed
-
to making this happen
-
in your life.
-
Ephesians 4,
-
11 through 16.
-
We're going to wear out
-
this passage
-
in this place.
-
It says this,
-
He gave the apostles,
-
the prophets,
-
the evangelists,
-
the shepherds and teachers,
-
that's the pastors,
-
to equip the saints
-
for the work of ministry.
-
That's our role.
-
The role of pastors
-
is to equip you,
-
the saints,
-
for the work of ministry.
-
Well, what's that?
-
For building up
-
the body of Christ
-
until we all attain
-
to the unity of the faith
-
and of the knowledge
-
of the Son of God.
-
to mature manhood,
-
to the measure
-
of the stature
-
of the fullness
-
of Christ.
-
So that we may
-
no longer be children
-
tossed to and fro
-
by the waves
-
and carried around
-
by every wind
-
of doctrine,
-
by human cunning,
-
by craftiness
-
and deceitful schemes,
-
by lies and false teachers
-
like here in Crete.
-
Rather,
-
how are we going
-
to get there?
-
What's the key
-
to this ministry?
-
Rather,
-
speaking the truth
-
in love.
-
Older men
-
speaking the truth
-
in love.
-
Older women
-
speaking the truth
-
in love.
-
Young men,
-
young women,
-
workers of every kind
-
speaking the truth
-
in love.
-
We are to grow up
-
in every way
-
into Him
-
who is the head,
-
into Christ,
-
from whom the whole body
-
joined and held together
-
by every joint
-
with which it is equipped.
-
When each part
-
is working properly,
-
it makes itself grow.
-
So that it builds itself up
-
in love.
-
Church,
-
there's no other way.
-
Godliness requires training.
-
But why?
-
Why does it matter?
-
What's behind all of this
-
pursuit of godliness?
-
Why does it matter ultimately
-
how I choose
-
to live my life?
-
This is our final point
-
this morning.
-
Number four.
-
It's because godly living
-
adorns the doctrine
-
of God.
-
Fourth and finally,
-
godly living
-
adorns
-
the doctrine
-
of God.
-
All of this talk
-
of godliness,
-
of pursuing godliness,
-
of godly living,
-
of the expectation
-
that Christians
-
should live godly lives.
-
Please don't get
-
the wrong idea.
-
Please don't mix up
-
the order here.
-
This can be incredibly dangerous
-
if the order
-
is mixed up here.
-
We are not saved
-
by our works.
-
We are not saved
-
by our works.
-
we are saved
-
by the grace
-
of God.
-
Undeserved,
-
unmerited,
-
it is a free gift
-
without any view
-
towards our goodness.
-
What did we just,
-
what did I just read
-
about justification earlier?
-
It's not our works.
-
It's the work
-
of Christ.
-
We have no goodness
-
in ourself.
-
Any goodness
-
that comes from us,
-
any ability
-
to do any good work
-
comes from the grace
-
of God.
-
It is,
-
if anyone is saved,
-
it's through faith
-
in Christ Jesus alone.
-
His perfection,
-
His goodness,
-
His perfect obedience,
-
credited to our
-
bankrupt account
-
through faith.
-
For our sake,
-
He made Him
-
who knew no sin
-
to be sin for us,
-
so that in Him
-
we might become
-
the righteousness
-
of God.
-
But don't stop there.
-
That's not the end
-
for us,
-
Christian.
-
We were saved
-
for good works.
-
Unto good works,
-
which He prepared
-
beforehand for us,
-
that we should walk
-
in them.
-
And that fruit
-
of godliness
-
in our life
-
bears witness
-
to the fact
-
that we have been
-
redeemed
-
from our sinful ways,
-
delivered from the
-
domain of darkness
-
and transferred
-
into the kingdom
-
of His beloved Son
-
in whom we have
-
redemption,
-
the forgiveness
-
of sins.
-
Our godliness
-
bears witness
-
to the goodness
-
of God
-
and the beauty
-
of the gospel.
-
That's what it means
-
to adorn the doctrine
-
of God.
-
Church.
-
Our godly living,
-
it lifts up
-
His beauty.
-
It's meant to
-
function like
-
beautiful decorations
-
or like a piece
-
of jewelry
-
that catches your eye
-
and it draws
-
your attention.
-
Your life,
-
Christian,
-
your godliness
-
is meant to
-
draw attention
-
to the worth
-
and beauty
-
of the gospel.
-
It's meant to
-
draw attention
-
to the worth
-
and the beauty
-
of God.
-
And we see that
-
throughout the passage,
-
don't we?
-
This is the purpose
-
of our godliness
-
is that God
-
might receive
-
glory in us.
-
Why does He
-
give commands
-
here for young women?
-
Verse 5.
-
Look there.
-
Verse 5.
-
That the word
-
of God
-
may not be reviled.
-
That it wouldn't
-
be mocked
-
or disdained
-
that our behavior
-
would give no reason
-
for anyone
-
to mock
-
the goodness
-
of God.
-
Why does He
-
give commands
-
for Titus
-
for his speech
-
and for his actions
-
to be above reproach?
-
Verse 8.
-
So that an opportunity,
-
so that an opponent
-
may not be put
-
to shame,
-
having nothing evil
-
to say about us.
-
And why are even
-
slaves called
-
to live in a way
-
that is honoring
-
to God?
-
Verse 10.
-
That in everything
-
they might adorn
-
the doctrine
-
of God
-
our Savior.
-
I remember
-
when I
-
bought Amanda's
-
engagement ring.
-
I had never
-
bought something
-
so valuable
-
in my life.
-
And I went
-
several times
-
to the jewelry store
-
back and forth
-
to get the right ring
-
and to check it out,
-
to inspect it.
-
And then I bought
-
the ring
-
and now I had
-
something incredibly
-
valuable in my possession.
-
And I had to protect it
-
at all costs.
-
So immediately
-
I put it
-
in its case.
-
Shut it.
-
There was a couple
-
weeks there
-
in between
-
when I bought
-
the ring
-
and when it found
-
its way onto
-
Amanda's finger.
-
And the ring
-
just sat in the box
-
in my room.
-
And every now
-
and then
-
I would come
-
back to my apartment
-
from class
-
or from whatever
-
I was doing
-
and I would just
-
go to the box
-
and I would
-
open it.
-
Just take a peek.
-
Get a look at it,
-
make sure it's still there.
-
Then back in the box
-
and tucked away
-
in its place.
-
See, that box
-
served two purposes.
-
One, it protected
-
the ring.
-
It's valuable.
-
It guarded it.
-
It secured it.
-
It protected it.
-
It kept it from harm.
-
Nobody was going to
-
smush it or step on it.
-
It was safe
-
in the box.
-
And two,
-
when opened up,
-
it showcased
-
the beauty
-
of the ring.
-
The point's not
-
the box.
-
The point is
-
what it is
-
drawing attention
-
to.
-
The beauty
-
of the ring.
-
Church,
-
there is nothing
-
more beautiful
-
or valuable
-
or precious
-
or worth
-
guarding
-
or worth
-
drawing attention
-
to
-
than the gospel
-
of Jesus Christ.
-
The good news
-
that the perfect
-
son of God
-
has come.
-
He has lived
-
perfectly
-
where we couldn't.
-
He has died
-
in our place
-
on our behalf.
-
He has risen
-
from the grave
-
and he offers
-
his perfect
-
righteousness
-
to any
-
who would come
-
to him in faith.
-
That's beautiful.
-
Our lives,
-
our godliness
-
defends that gospel
-
from attack,
-
from mockery,
-
from disdain,
-
from hatred.
-
And when we live
-
lives that are
-
worthy of the gospel
-
of God,
-
it draws attention
-
to his beauty.
-
It brings God
-
the praise
-
that he intends
-
to get from us.
-
shines a spotlight
-
on the beauty
-
of the doctrine
-
of God our Savior
-
to say,
-
look what God
-
has done.
-
My life
-
is proof
-
of the goodness
-
of God
-
and his power
-
to save.
-
May God
-
be pleased
-
to do that
-
in you
-
and to do that
-
here with us.
-
Let's pray.
-
not to us,
-
O Lord,
-
not to us,
-
but to your name
-
be glory
-
for the sake
-
of your steadfast
-
love
-
and your faithfulness.
-
Lord,
-
we have no good
-
apart from you.
-
We have no goodness
-
in ourselves.
-
None is good
-
but God alone.
-
But God,
-
you are pleased
-
to take
-
wrecked sinners
-
not because
-
we're good
-
but because
-
you are merciful.
-
You are pleased
-
to take ruined
-
sinners
-
and to purify
-
and sanctify
-
us
-
through the blood
-
of Christ
-
and then to make
-
us shine
-
like lights
-
in the midst
-
of darkness
-
in this present
-
evil age.
-
Lord,
-
so we pray,
-
Father,
-
that we would
-
be distinct
-
not for us
-
but for the glory
-
of your name.
-
We pray
-
in Christ's name.
-
Amen.