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Adorning The Doctrine

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  1. Please open your Bibles this morning to the book of Titus.

  2. The book of Titus.

  3. If you're a visitor, a guest with us this morning,

  4. we have been walking together through the book of Titus.

  5. We've made our way this morning to chapter 2,

  6. and we're going to be in verses 1 through 10.

  7. If you're using the pew Bibles there in front of you or behind you,

  8. you can find that on page 938.

  9. You might remember that we've titled this sermon series

  10. A Church of Sound Doctrine.

  11. A Church of Sound Doctrine.

  12. That's what we, by God's grace, hope and pray and aim to be.

  13. And in chapter 2, verses 1 through 10,

  14. we get a look at exactly what that might look like practically for us.

  15. So Bibles open, Titus chapter 2, verses 1 through 10.

    Titus 2:1–10

  16. Follow along with me as I read the Word of God.

  17. Paul says,

  18. But as for you, teach what accords with sound doctrine.

  19. Older men are to be sober-minded, dignified, self-controlled,

  20. sound in faith and love and in steadfastness.

  21. Older women, likewise, are to be reverent in behavior,

  22. not slanderers or slaves to much wine.

  23. They are to teach what is good,

  24. and so train the young women to love their husbands and children,

  25. to be self-controlled, pure, working at home,

  26. kind and submissive to their own husbands,

  27. that the Word of God may not be reviled.

  28. Likewise, urge the younger men to be self-controlled.

  29. Show yourself in all respects to be a model of good works,

  30. and in your teaching show integrity, dignity,

  31. and sound speech that cannot be condemned,

  32. so that an opponent may be put to shame,

  33. having nothing evil to say about us.

  34. Bond servants are to be submissive to their own masters in everything.

  35. They are to be well-pleasing,

  36. not argumentative,

  37. not pilfering,

  38. but showing all good faith,

  39. so that in everything they may adorn the doctrine of God,

  40. our Savior.

  41. Let's pray.

  42. Lord, again, we pray that we would look like this.

  43. This is a work of your grace, of your doing,

  44. and this is impossible for us in the flesh,

  45. and so we pray that the things that we just read,

  46. that the things that we hear described in Titus,

  47. would move from knowing to being in our lives together,

  48. that we would look like this.

  49. And we pray and we ask this in Jesus' name.

  50. Amen.

  51. Well, if you are a fan of energy drinks,

  52. or have watched television, commercials,

  53. or even walked into a gas station over the past several years,

  54. you are probably familiar with Red Bull.

  55. And you are probably familiar with its slogan,

  56. Red Bull.

  57. Help me.

  58. It gives you wings.

  59. At least that is what they say.

  60. The popular energy drink has built a reputation around that slogan,

  61. and the commercials typically,

  62. they feature somebody who is down in the dumps,

  63. having a hard moment, a hard day,

  64. sad, depressed.

  65. Then they get a sip of Red Bull energy drink,

  66. out of their back sprouts wings,

  67. and up they go, flying away to a better life.

  68. Well, this slogan that has drawn so much attention,

  69. you may not know this,

  70. it was also the basis of a class action lawsuit in 2014.

  71. Consumers filed a lawsuit stating that

  72. the company had falsely advertised.

  73. Despite what they may have claimed,

  74. Red Bull does not, in fact, actually give you wings.

  75. One consumer, Mr. Corathers,

  76. he was quoted saying he drank Red Bull for 10 years,

  77. but that he had not once developed wings,

  78. or shown any improvement either intellectually or physically,

  79. and we can't argue with that, can we?

  80. As ridiculous as that sounds,

  81. Red Bull ultimately agreed to pay off up to $13 million

  82. to settle the lawsuit and to move on.

  83. The lesson?

  84. False advertising is costly.

  85. If you're going to claim something,

  86. promote something about yourself,

  87. say something about who you are,

  88. you had better make sure that the product

  89. matches the advertisement.

  90. That's exactly what Paul is saying here to Titus.

  91. Not about Red Bull, of course,

  92. but about the church.

  93. See, false teachers have crept in

  94. to these newly forming churches in Crete,

  95. and they're leading men and women

  96. to claim to be Christian,

  97. yet live like a Cretan.

  98. And so Paul says,

  99. no, this type of false advertising,

  100. false professing, false teaching,

  101. that is costly.

  102. It discredits our profession.

  103. It damages our witness to the outside world,

  104. and at worst,

  105. it distracts from the glory of God.

  106. So Paul tells Titus,

  107. Titus,

  108. you teach what accords with sound doctrine.

  109. You teach that faith accords with godliness.

  110. You establish elders who will hold firm

  111. to the trustworthy word as taught.

  112. Titus,

  113. you teach them there in Crete

  114. that to say you are a Christian

  115. advertises something about yourself.

  116. It says,

  117. I have been redeemed.

  118. I once was lost,

  119. dead in my sin,

  120. hellbound because of my own rebellion against God,

  121. but God,

  122. by his grace,

  123. has rescued me,

  124. and he has saved me,

  125. but not only that,

  126. he has changed me.

  127. He has transformed me from the inside out.

  128. So now my heart is transformed.

  129. I'm not the same as what I once was.

  130. I am a product of the redeeming grace of God.

  131. If anyone is in Christ,

  132. he is a new creation.

  133. The old has gone,

  134. the new has come.

  135. To say you are a Christian

  136. is to say that type of new heart transformation

  137. has happened right here.

  138. Well,

  139. here in the year 2022,

  140. not much has changed,

  141. has it?

  142. There are many who,

  143. like the Cretans,

  144. profess to know God,

  145. but deny him

  146. by their works.

  147. These verses here in chapter 2,

  148. verses 1 through 10,

  149. they are a reminder for us

  150. that gospel believing

  151. leads to gospel living.

  152. Gospel believing

  153. ought to lead to godly living.

  154. So this morning,

  155. what we're going to see

  156. is four facts about godly living.

  157. Four facts about godly living

  158. in these verses.

  159. This is going to be our outline this morning.

  160. If you're a note taker,

  161. like to take notes to follow along,

  162. I encourage you to do that.

  163. You're going to find four facts

  164. for godly living this morning.

  165. First,

  166. godly living

  167. accords with gospel believing.

  168. Godly living

  169. accords

  170. with gospel

  171. believing.

  172. Some of you are musical,

  173. and so this will make sense to you,

  174. but even if you're not,

  175. most of you have

  176. decent enough ears

  177. to where you may not be able to say

  178. exactly what's wrong,

  179. but when you hear something off,

  180. you can tell,

  181. hey,

  182. that doesn't sound quite right.

  183. A wrong note was hit,

  184. a wrong chord was struck,

  185. something's off here,

  186. musically.

  187. A chord,

  188. musically speaking,

  189. is when three or more notes

  190. work together.

  191. They play nice together.

  192. They harmonize together.

  193. They sound good together.

  194. And interestingly,

  195. the French word for

  196. accord

  197. that you play musically

  198. is accord.

  199. You may not know that.

  200. That's the idea here.

  201. One thing

  202. aligns with something else.

  203. It accords with something else.

  204. They're in harmony.

  205. They go together.

  206. They make music.

  207. They play nice.

  208. And on the other side of that

  209. is discord.

  210. Discord

  211. is a lack of harmony.

  212. And you may not

  213. recognize that term,

  214. but you know,

  215. again,

  216. you know what it sounds like.

  217. It sounds bad.

  218. You can hear

  219. something

  220. is off.

  221. That sounds terrible.

  222. One person's playing

  223. one thing.

  224. One person's singing

  225. another thing.

  226. And it just makes you want

  227. to close up your ears

  228. because it sounds awful.

  229. And what we saw last week,

  230. Paul said,

  231. the behavior of these

  232. false teachers

  233. was not in accord

  234. with what they professed.

  235. You remember what he said.

  236. Cretans are always liars,

  237. evil beasts,

  238. lazy gluttons.

  239. They profess to know God

  240. with their mouths,

  241. but they deny him

  242. with their work.

  243. Something's off.

  244. They say they believe,

  245. but they don't live

  246. like they believe.

  247. So Paul says here

  248. in chapter 2,

  249. verse 1,

  250. he says,

  251. but as for you,

  252. Titus,

  253. see there's a difference here.

  254. Yes,

  255. there are false teachers

  256. saying the opposite,

  257. but as for you,

  258. Titus,

  259. you are to be distinct.

  260. You are to teach

  261. the church to be distinct.

  262. Teach what accords

  263. with sound doctrine.

  264. You see that,

  265. right?

  266. He does not just say,

  267. teach sound doctrine.

  268. As valuable as that is,

  269. he's told us that earlier.

  270. Sound doctrine,

  271. incredibly valuable.

  272. That's the beginning.

  273. That's where it starts.

  274. He does not say,

  275. teach sound doctrine.

  276. What does he say?

  277. Teach what accords

  278. with sound doctrine.

  279. Don't just teach

  280. the information.

  281. He says,

  282. teach the life transformation

  283. that goes in harmony

  284. with the right information.

  285. The sound living

  286. that works in harmony

  287. with sound doctrine.

  288. Teach that godly living

  289. accords with gospel believing.

  290. Now,

  291. this is a warning for us,

  292. church.

  293. This is a warning for us

  294. that it is not enough

  295. to know the right information.

  296. It is not enough.

  297. You see,

  298. the problem here in Crete,

  299. it was not the pagans.

  300. It was not the outside world.

  301. It was not those

  302. who would never step foot

  303. into a church.

  304. The problem here in Crete,

  305. it was church people.

  306. It was people

  307. who know the right answers.

  308. They sat through the sermons.

  309. They read their Bibles.

  310. They would say,

  311. I know God.

  312. I believe in Jesus.

  313. I profess to be a Christian.

  314. But they denied him

  315. with their works.

  316. Their lives

  317. were in tension

  318. with their profession.

  319. Do not buy the lie,

  320. church.

  321. Do not buy the lie

  322. that you can have God

  323. and live however you want.

  324. It's not true.

  325. Do not buy the lie

  326. that your actions,

  327. your life,

  328. your behavior

  329. doesn't matter.

  330. So long as you come to church,

  331. pray your prayers,

  332. say that you believe,

  333. so long as you're not

  334. as far off as this person

  335. or that person.

  336. These are all lies

  337. of the enemy.

  338. If you have been given

  339. the gift of salvation,

  340. then you have been given

  341. the gift of sanctification.

  342. They are a package deal.

  343. You can't separate them.

  344. You cannot have one

  345. without the other.

  346. You can go to church

  347. your whole life.

  348. You can know the whole Bible

  349. inside out.

  350. You can know all the right facts

  351. and still not know God.

  352. Now all of us in Christ

  353. are growing.

  354. We are progressing.

  355. None of us are perfect.

  356. We are striving by His grace

  357. to put sin to death

  358. and to pursue holiness.

  359. But friend,

  360. if there is no godliness,

  361. no transformation,

  362. if there is no growth

  363. in your life,

  364. no distinction between you

  365. and the world around you,

  366. it is right for you to ask

  367. whether you know God

  368. or just know about Him.

  369. See, this is a warning for us.

  370. Church, knowing about God

  371. saves no one.

  372. Knowing God truly,

  373. personally,

  374. through faith in Jesus Christ,

  375. knowing God is the only hope

  376. for sinners like me

  377. and like you.

  378. And you cannot know Him

  379. and remain unchanged.

  380. That's what Paul is telling us here.

  381. Amanda and I,

  382. we celebrated 10 years of marriage

  383. the other day.

  384. 10 years.

  385. It's hard to believe

  386. that it's already been 10 years.

  387. We've known each other

  388. for about 14 years.

  389. And we started dating

  390. about two years before that.

  391. So all in all,

  392. about 12 years

  393. of actually being together.

  394. together.

  395. And that's a lot of time

  396. with one person.

  397. A lot of time.

  398. It's a good time.

  399. Okay?

  400. And we were talking

  401. the other day

  402. at dinner.

  403. You have to ask her

  404. her opinion on that.

  405. But for me,

  406. for me,

  407. it's been a good time.

  408. We were talking

  409. the other day

  410. about the fact

  411. that we are different people

  412. than when we first met.

  413. We are different people

  414. than when we started dating.

  415. And we're different people

  416. than when we first got married.

  417. And I hope she would

  418. praise God for that.

  419. But how could you

  420. not be different?

  421. Spending so much time

  422. with one person,

  423. engaging with one person,

  424. how could you get

  425. to know someone personally

  426. at that level

  427. for 14 years

  428. and not be different?

  429. Well, Paul says,

  430. if you know God,

  431. you will be different.

  432. If you spend time with Him,

  433. Paul says,

  434. you will be changed.

  435. Maybe not instantly,

  436. some dramatic,

  437. life-changing change

  438. suddenly,

  439. all of a sudden,

  440. but gradually,

  441. over time,

  442. with prayer

  443. and patience

  444. and pursuit,

  445. you will be changed.

  446. You will become

  447. like Him.

  448. You will become godly,

  449. godly living accords

  450. with gospel believing.

  451. Well, what does that look like?

  452. What does that look like?

  453. Paul shows us

  454. throughout the rest

  455. of this passage,

  456. what godliness looks like

  457. for every believer.

  458. And this is our second point

  459. this morning.

  460. Godliness is for every believer.

  461. Godly living

  462. is for every believer.

  463. These descriptions

  464. in this passage,

  465. they're not exhaustive.

  466. This is not all

  467. that we need to know.

  468. But Paul gives us

  469. an overview here

  470. of what godliness

  471. should look like

  472. for every member

  473. of the church

  474. in verses 2 through 10.

  475. Every member.

  476. There's something here

  477. for all of us.

  478. And Paul speaks,

  479. I think,

  480. to three distinct categories here.

  481. Three distinct categories.

  482. He speaks to men,

  483. women,

  484. and workers.

  485. Follow along with me here.

  486. He speaks to men,

  487. women,

  488. and workers.

  489. Well, first,

  490. he speaks to the men.

  491. He speaks to the old men

  492. and to the young men.

  493. Look here with me

  494. to verse 2.

  495. Titus 2, verse 2.

    Titus 2:2

  496. He says,

  497. Older men,

  498. you are to be

  499. sober-minded,

  500. dignified,

  501. self-controlled,

  502. sound in faith,

  503. in love,

  504. and in steadfastness.

  505. And the order here,

  506. I think,

  507. is important.

  508. Older men,

  509. older Christian men

  510. are to lead the way

  511. as examples of godliness

  512. in the church.

  513. He says,

  514. they should be

  515. sober-minded.

  516. He says,

  517. they're under control.

  518. Their thoughts

  519. aren't clouded by anger,

  520. or by sensuality,

  521. or by greed.

  522. They are not easily

  523. deceived or led astray.

  524. These older Christian men

  525. are rocks in the home,

  526. and in the church,

  527. and in society.

  528. He says,

  529. they are respectable,

  530. dignified,

  531. able to control themselves.

  532. But not only that,

  533. look here.

  534. Look at this.

  535. Paul says,

  536. they are to be

  537. sound in faith,

  538. in love,

  539. and in steadfastness.

  540. Think about that.

  541. Sound in faith,

  542. and love,

  543. and steadfastness.

  544. You know,

  545. that word sound

  546. has come up before,

  547. hasn't it?

  548. And we keep hearing that.

  549. An elder must be able

  550. to give instruction

  551. in sound doctrine.

  552. Paul says,

  553. as for you,

  554. teach what accords

  555. with sound doctrine.

  556. We've titled this series

  557. in Titus,

  558. A Church of Sound Doctrine.

  559. What that word means

  560. is healthy.

  561. Healthy.

  562. These men,

  563. these older men,

  564. are to be spiritually,

  565. morally healthy,

  566. in faith,

  567. in love,

  568. and in steadfastness.

  569. Do you see the picture

  570. of godliness

  571. that he's laying out

  572. for us here,

  573. men?

  574. These men

  575. know the word.

  576. They know the faith.

  577. They know what they believe

  578. and why.

  579. They could pick out a lie

  580. because they know,

  581. well,

  582. God's word doesn't say that.

  583. These men are healthy

  584. in love.

  585. They love God

  586. and they love their neighbor.

  587. But not only that,

  588. it says these are

  589. faithful men.

  590. Reliable.

  591. Steadfast.

  592. They're enduring men.

  593. Do you want to be

  594. a man of God?

  595. Know your Bible.

  596. Know your Bible.

  597. Love God with all your heart.

  598. Love God with all your mind.

  599. Love God with all your soul.

  600. And love your neighbor

  601. as yourself.

  602. And stick around a while,

  603. men.

  604. You want to be a godly man?

  605. Be faithful.

  606. Don't be a wishy-washy man.

  607. Be stable.

  608. Be reliable.

  609. Be someone that others

  610. can depend on

  611. and know that

  612. what they get from you

  613. is rooted,

  614. not just in duty,

  615. but in delight in the Lord.

  616. That is godly manhood.

  617. I pray for a church

  618. full of men like this.

  619. Are you pursuing

  620. that, men?

  621. He not only speaks

  622. to the older men,

  623. he also speaks directly

  624. to young men here

  625. in verse 6.

  626. Verse 6.

  627. He says,

  628. the young men

  629. just have one job

  630. here in verse 6.

  631. And probably because

  632. mastering this

  633. will take all

  634. of your attention.

  635. So young men,

  636. listen with me.

  637. Young men,

  638. you are to be

  639. self-controlled.

  640. Self-controlled.

  641. We've got to get this right

  642. before we can move on

  643. to anything else.

  644. The fruit of the Spirit

  645. is what?

  646. It's love,

  647. joy,

  648. peace,

  649. patience,

  650. kindness,

  651. goodness,

  652. faithfulness,

  653. gentleness,

  654. and what?

  655. Self-control.

  656. One of the first verses

  657. that I memorized

  658. as a young Christian,

  659. it was Proverbs 25, 28.

  660. It says this.

  661. It says,

  662. a man without self-control

  663. is like a city

  664. broken into

  665. and left without walls.

  666. I'll say that again.

  667. A man without self-control

  668. is like a city

  669. broken into

  670. and left without walls.

  671. What happens to a city

  672. without walls?

  673. It is open to attack.

  674. It has no defense.

  675. Anyone can come and go

  676. as they please,

  677. take what they want,

  678. do what they want.

  679. And Paul says,

  680. without self-control,

  681. men,

  682. we are open to

  683. all sorts of attack.

  684. A lack of self-control,

  685. young men,

  686. is at the root

  687. of a thousand sins.

  688. But a young man

  689. with self-control,

  690. he has his defenses up.

  691. He's prepared for attack

  692. when it comes,

  693. and it will come.

  694. Does your speech

  695. demonstrate self-control?

  696. Do you show self-control

  697. by the way you use your time?

  698. And the way you engage

  699. with your family at home?

  700. When you go to work,

  701. when you're with your friends,

  702. do you act in self-control?

  703. With your temptations,

  704. men,

  705. do we demonstrate

  706. self-control?

  707. You know,

  708. the greater the access

  709. to temptation,

  710. the greater our need

  711. for self-control is.

  712. I'll tell you something,

  713. we have greater access

  714. to temptation now

  715. than any time ever before.

  716. We better get some

  717. self-control, men.

  718. Are your defenses up?

  719. Second,

  720. he speaks here

  721. to the women,

  722. and just like

  723. with the men,

  724. he speaks to both

  725. older women

  726. and to younger women.

  727. And listen,

  728. I will not tell you

  729. which category

  730. you belong in.

  731. I'm not going to do that.

  732. I'm just going to say

  733. he speaks to both here.

  734. Some of you ladies

  735. prefer to identify

  736. as a younger woman.

  737. Fair enough.

  738. Look to verse 3.

  739. He says,

  740. older women likewise,

  741. just like the men,

  742. are to be reverent

  743. in behavior,

  744. not slanderers,

  745. not slaves to much wine.

  746. And they are to teach

  747. what is good

  748. and so train

  749. the younger women.

  750. And I think you can see

  751. the influence

  752. of the Cretans

  753. here in Paul's instructions.

  754. It was normal in Crete

  755. to slander.

  756. Remember,

  757. Cretans are liars.

  758. It was normal

  759. to be a slave

  760. to food and drink.

  761. Remember,

  762. they're evil beasts,

  763. lazy glutton.

  764. But Paul says,

  765. Christian woman,

  766. you be distinct.

  767. Christian woman,

  768. you let your speech

  769. be seasoned with salt.

  770. Only speaking what is good

  771. for building up.

  772. Only speaking the truth

  773. in love.

  774. Christian woman,

  775. exercise self-control

  776. with food

  777. and with drink.

  778. Don't be a slave.

  779. Don't get drunk

  780. with wine,

  781. but be filled

  782. with the Holy Spirit.

  783. Be reverent

  784. in your behavior.

  785. Does this describe you?

  786. See,

  787. we don't age

  788. out of pursuing

  789. godliness.

  790. I served

  791. at a church

  792. in North Myrtle Beach.

  793. We have a few

  794. visitors this morning

  795. that came from

  796. North Myrtle Beach

  797. to come and join us

  798. this morning.

  799. They're gluttons

  800. for punishment here.

  801. But the mentality

  802. in that community

  803. is I'm retired.

  804. It's a retirement area.

  805. I'm retired.

  806. I've earned the right

  807. to check out

  808. and do what I want.

  809. Live as I please.

  810. I came to the beach

  811. to check out

  812. and to live

  813. the rest of my days

  814. in beach

  815. and sunshine

  816. and sand.

  817. Paul says,

  818. older women,

  819. you don't ever age

  820. out of godliness.

  821. You don't ever retire

  822. from godliness.

  823. You still have

  824. big responsibility

  825. even in your old age.

  826. Great responsibility.

  827. You still have work

  828. to do.

  829. If you're looking

  830. for a way

  831. to serve the church,

  832. if you,

  833. older women

  834. are looking

  835. for a way

  836. to make meaningful

  837. contributions

  838. to the life

  839. of this church,

  840. Paul gives you

  841. two ways right here.

  842. Do you see it?

  843. Live a life

  844. worth imitating

  845. and pass it on.

  846. If you want

  847. to serve this church,

  848. live a life

  849. worth imitating

  850. and pass it on.

  851. Look again

  852. what he says

  853. in verse 3.

  854. He says,

  855. these older women

  856. are to teach

  857. what is good

  858. and so train

  859. the younger women.

  860. So younger women,

  861. this is for you now.

  862. He says,

  863. train the younger women

  864. to love their husbands

  865. and children

  866. and to be self-controlled.

  867. There's that word again.

  868. Pure,

  869. working at home,

  870. kind,

  871. and submissive

  872. to their own husbands.

  873. Most of the focus

  874. here for the young woman

  875. seems to be

  876. on their sphere

  877. of influence

  878. and service

  879. in the home.

  880. I don't believe

  881. that that means

  882. they can't work

  883. outside of the home,

  884. but it does mean

  885. that this is primary.

  886. And again,

  887. it seems like

  888. the influence

  889. in Crete,

  890. the influence

  891. of the Cretans

  892. was toward

  893. a kind of laziness

  894. or indifference

  895. in the home.

  896. And so Paul says,

  897. young women,

  898. young Christian women,

  899. be distinct,

  900. be diligent.

  901. Pursue love

  902. for your husbands.

  903. That is hard sometimes,

  904. I know.

  905. Pursue it.

  906. Pursue love

  907. for your children.

  908. It is easy

  909. to be a half-hearted spouse.

  910. It is easy

  911. to be a half-hearted,

  912. lazy parent.

  913. I'm speaking as a father.

  914. It is easy

  915. to be a half-hearted parent.

  916. It's much easier

  917. to let the television

  918. disciple your kids

  919. than it is for you

  920. to take the time

  921. and the energy

  922. to train up your children.

  923. It's much easier

  924. to avoid discipline

  925. for your children

  926. than it is

  927. to enforce discipline

  928. and godliness

  929. in the homes.

  930. Paul says,

  931. work hard

  932. in the home,

  933. young women,

  934. for the glory of God.

  935. But not only that,

  936. third category here.

  937. He also speaks

  938. to workers.

  939. I want us to see

  940. that Paul is crossing

  941. every box here.

  942. Checking off every box.

  943. Young,

  944. old,

  945. men,

  946. women,

  947. and now he addresses

  948. Titus,

  949. who is a pastor,

  950. an organizer

  951. of the church.

  952. He's a teacher.

  953. He's a servant

  954. of God

  955. and slaves

  956. Titus.

  957. You see that?

  958. The distinction

  959. here.

  960. Godly living

  961. is for everyone

  962. in the church.

  963. Paul says,

  964. verse 7,

  965. you,

  966. Titus,

  967. he's speaking to Titus,

  968. verse 7,

  969. you show yourself

  970. in all respects

  971. to be a model

  972. of good work.

  973. Show integrity

  974. in your teaching.

  975. Show dignity.

  976. Show sound speech

  977. that cannot be condemned.

  978. Don't give anyone

  979. an opportunity

  980. to mock God

  981. by what you say

  982. or by how you live.

  983. Your life matters,

  984. Titus.

  985. Your godliness matters.

  986. Your speech matters.

  987. And we say,

  988. of course it does.

  989. He's a pastor.

  990. Everybody's looking at him.

  991. He's a public representative

  992. of God Almighty.

  993. Everybody's looking

  994. at the way he lives.

  995. But then he goes

  996. to the lowest rung

  997. of the social totem pole

  998. and says the same thing

  999. to the slaves.

  1000. Just consider the dignity

  1001. that he's giving them

  1002. right now.

  1003. He says to some

  1004. of the lowest members

  1005. of society here,

  1006. your actions,

  1007. your behavior,

  1008. your attitude matters.

  1009. You think nobody's

  1010. looking at how you live?

  1011. Think again.

  1012. You think that your actions,

  1013. because you're not

  1014. an older man,

  1015. you're not a leader

  1016. in the church,

  1017. you're not wealthy,

  1018. you're not well respected,

  1019. that godliness

  1020. doesn't matter for you?

  1021. Think again.

  1022. He says,

  1023. your godliness matters.

  1024. Your speech matters.

  1025. Your actions,

  1026. even as a slave,

  1027. adorn the doctrine

  1028. of God our Savior.

  1029. Church,

  1030. no one is exempt.

  1031. No one is exempt.

  1032. Godliness is for all of us.

  1033. There's no distinction here.

  1034. Male, female,

  1035. young, old, black,

  1036. white, rich, poor,

  1037. white collar, blue collar,

  1038. whatever your job,

  1039. whatever your role,

  1040. no one is excluded.

  1041. We share in one

  1042. sanctifying spirit of God.

  1043. So godliness is for you.

  1044. But how will we get there?

  1045. How will we become a church

  1046. that looks like this?

  1047. Third,

  1048. godly living requires training.

  1049. Our third point this morning,

  1050. godly living requires training.

  1051. You cannot do this on your own.

  1052. Church,

  1053. you cannot do this on your own.

  1054. Anyone who's ever done

  1055. any exercise training,

  1056. understands this?

  1057. Breeze and Linda did not pay me

  1058. to say this, okay?

  1059. Just a disclaimer.

  1060. There is a limit to how much

  1061. you can accomplish by yourself.

  1062. You can only push yourself so far.

  1063. There's a benefit to having training

  1064. from someone who knows

  1065. what they're talking about,

  1066. who has done the move before,

  1067. who can show you

  1068. where you're making mistakes,

  1069. give you feedback along the way,

  1070. push you to where you need to go.

  1071. You can lift more,

  1072. do more,

  1073. and avoid getting hurt along the way

  1074. if you have good training

  1075. to help you get to your goal.

  1076. It's the same with our pursuit

  1077. of godliness, church.

  1078. You cannot do this by yourself.

  1079. We're just,

  1080. we're so independent.

  1081. We don't want anybody else

  1082. in our business.

  1083. We think we can do it ourselves.

  1084. We think we got this under control.

  1085. We don't want anybody to,

  1086. nobody needs to judge me.

  1087. Nobody needs to tell me

  1088. how to live my life.

  1089. I don't need help.

  1090. You want to know another lie

  1091. of the enemy that we tend to believe?

  1092. It's that we got this.

  1093. We got this.

  1094. I don't need anybody's help.

  1095. I got this.

  1096. Church, that is a lie,

  1097. and we've bought it.

  1098. The way we will grow up

  1099. in godliness

  1100. is to love each other enough

  1101. to say,

  1102. let's do this together.

  1103. The way that you will grow up

  1104. in godliness

  1105. is by linking arms

  1106. with everybody else around you

  1107. in this place,

  1108. your brothers and sisters

  1109. in this church,

  1110. to say we are pursuing this

  1111. together as a family.

  1112. That's what Paul says.

  1113. Older women,

  1114. verse 4,

  1115. look there,

  1116. again,

  1117. verse 4,

  1118. are to what?

  1119. Train the younger women.

  1120. They won't get there

  1121. on their own.

  1122. They need your wisdom,

  1123. older woman.

  1124. Have you learned anything

  1125. about what it means

  1126. to be a godly spouse,

  1127. to honor God as a wife,

  1128. as a mother,

  1129. as a woman?

  1130. Share it.

  1131. Train them up.

  1132. They need your help.

  1133. Younger men,

  1134. likewise,

  1135. verse 6,

  1136. they need to be,

  1137. what?

  1138. Urged to be self-controlled.

  1139. He doesn't just say,

  1140. be self-controlled.

  1141. He says,

  1142. urge the younger men

  1143. to be self-controlled.

  1144. Who's doing the urging?

  1145. It's us, church.

  1146. Older men,

  1147. where are you?

  1148. Where are you?

  1149. Urge the younger men

  1150. to be self-controlled.

  1151. Show them with your lives

  1152. and urge them

  1153. with your words

  1154. to live in godliness.

  1155. Get in one another's business.

  1156. We can't do it

  1157. by ourselves.

  1158. And young men,

  1159. young women,

  1160. humble yourself to listen,

  1161. to receive words of wisdom,

  1162. godly input

  1163. from those who have developed

  1164. godly character.

  1165. You know,

  1166. the devil loves our privacy.

  1167. privacy.

  1168. The devil loves

  1169. our love affair

  1170. with privacy.

  1171. We need one another.

  1172. Personal holiness

  1173. is a group project,

  1174. church.

  1175. Who here

  1176. is committed

  1177. to pray for you?

  1178. Who here knows

  1179. your sins,

  1180. specifically?

  1181. Who here

  1182. has committed

  1183. to follow up with you?

  1184. Who here is walking

  1185. with you in the word?

  1186. Who here is helping you

  1187. root your life

  1188. in the word?

  1189. Helping you to live

  1190. what you profess

  1191. to believe?

  1192. That's what discipleship is.

  1193. And we've been talking

  1194. a lot about discipleship.

  1195. It's very simple.

  1196. It's helping one another

  1197. pursue God.

  1198. Are we doing that,

  1199. church?

  1200. And if you're struggling

  1201. in any way

  1202. to pursue godliness,

  1203. and we all do,

  1204. if you're struggling

  1205. in any way

  1206. with pursuing godliness,

  1207. ask yourself,

  1208. have I ever been trained?

  1209. Or am I trying

  1210. to do this on my own?

  1211. Am I being trained now?

  1212. And if not,

  1213. what will I do about it?

  1214. You know,

  1215. Treg and I

  1216. would love nothing more

  1217. than to connect you

  1218. with someone.

  1219. Maybe that's us.

  1220. That's great.

  1221. But to connect you

  1222. with someone

  1223. or a group of someone

  1224. who would be committed

  1225. to making this happen

  1226. in your life.

  1227. Ephesians 4,

  1228. 11 through 16.

  1229. We're going to wear out

  1230. this passage

  1231. in this place.

  1232. It says this,

  1233. He gave the apostles,

  1234. the prophets,

  1235. the evangelists,

  1236. the shepherds and teachers,

  1237. that's the pastors,

  1238. to equip the saints

  1239. for the work of ministry.

  1240. That's our role.

  1241. The role of pastors

  1242. is to equip you,

  1243. the saints,

  1244. for the work of ministry.

  1245. Well, what's that?

  1246. For building up

  1247. the body of Christ

  1248. until we all attain

  1249. to the unity of the faith

  1250. and of the knowledge

  1251. of the Son of God.

  1252. to mature manhood,

  1253. to the measure

  1254. of the stature

  1255. of the fullness

  1256. of Christ.

  1257. So that we may

  1258. no longer be children

  1259. tossed to and fro

  1260. by the waves

  1261. and carried around

  1262. by every wind

  1263. of doctrine,

  1264. by human cunning,

  1265. by craftiness

  1266. and deceitful schemes,

  1267. by lies and false teachers

  1268. like here in Crete.

  1269. Rather,

  1270. how are we going

  1271. to get there?

  1272. What's the key

  1273. to this ministry?

  1274. Rather,

  1275. speaking the truth

  1276. in love.

  1277. Older men

  1278. speaking the truth

  1279. in love.

  1280. Older women

  1281. speaking the truth

  1282. in love.

  1283. Young men,

  1284. young women,

  1285. workers of every kind

  1286. speaking the truth

  1287. in love.

  1288. We are to grow up

  1289. in every way

  1290. into Him

  1291. who is the head,

  1292. into Christ,

  1293. from whom the whole body

  1294. joined and held together

  1295. by every joint

  1296. with which it is equipped.

  1297. When each part

  1298. is working properly,

  1299. it makes itself grow.

  1300. So that it builds itself up

  1301. in love.

  1302. Church,

  1303. there's no other way.

  1304. Godliness requires training.

  1305. But why?

  1306. Why does it matter?

  1307. What's behind all of this

  1308. pursuit of godliness?

  1309. Why does it matter ultimately

  1310. how I choose

  1311. to live my life?

  1312. This is our final point

  1313. this morning.

  1314. Number four.

  1315. It's because godly living

  1316. adorns the doctrine

  1317. of God.

  1318. Fourth and finally,

  1319. godly living

  1320. adorns

  1321. the doctrine

  1322. of God.

  1323. All of this talk

  1324. of godliness,

  1325. of pursuing godliness,

  1326. of godly living,

  1327. of the expectation

  1328. that Christians

  1329. should live godly lives.

  1330. Please don't get

  1331. the wrong idea.

  1332. Please don't mix up

  1333. the order here.

  1334. This can be incredibly dangerous

  1335. if the order

  1336. is mixed up here.

  1337. We are not saved

  1338. by our works.

  1339. We are not saved

  1340. by our works.

  1341. we are saved

  1342. by the grace

  1343. of God.

  1344. Undeserved,

  1345. unmerited,

  1346. it is a free gift

  1347. without any view

  1348. towards our goodness.

  1349. What did we just,

  1350. what did I just read

  1351. about justification earlier?

  1352. It's not our works.

  1353. It's the work

  1354. of Christ.

  1355. We have no goodness

  1356. in ourself.

  1357. Any goodness

  1358. that comes from us,

  1359. any ability

  1360. to do any good work

  1361. comes from the grace

  1362. of God.

  1363. It is,

  1364. if anyone is saved,

  1365. it's through faith

  1366. in Christ Jesus alone.

  1367. His perfection,

  1368. His goodness,

  1369. His perfect obedience,

  1370. credited to our

  1371. bankrupt account

  1372. through faith.

  1373. For our sake,

  1374. He made Him

  1375. who knew no sin

  1376. to be sin for us,

  1377. so that in Him

  1378. we might become

  1379. the righteousness

  1380. of God.

  1381. But don't stop there.

  1382. That's not the end

  1383. for us,

  1384. Christian.

  1385. We were saved

  1386. for good works.

  1387. Unto good works,

  1388. which He prepared

  1389. beforehand for us,

  1390. that we should walk

  1391. in them.

  1392. And that fruit

  1393. of godliness

  1394. in our life

  1395. bears witness

  1396. to the fact

  1397. that we have been

  1398. redeemed

  1399. from our sinful ways,

  1400. delivered from the

  1401. domain of darkness

  1402. and transferred

  1403. into the kingdom

  1404. of His beloved Son

  1405. in whom we have

  1406. redemption,

  1407. the forgiveness

  1408. of sins.

  1409. Our godliness

  1410. bears witness

  1411. to the goodness

  1412. of God

  1413. and the beauty

  1414. of the gospel.

  1415. That's what it means

  1416. to adorn the doctrine

  1417. of God.

  1418. Church.

  1419. Our godly living,

  1420. it lifts up

  1421. His beauty.

  1422. It's meant to

  1423. function like

  1424. beautiful decorations

  1425. or like a piece

  1426. of jewelry

  1427. that catches your eye

  1428. and it draws

  1429. your attention.

  1430. Your life,

  1431. Christian,

  1432. your godliness

  1433. is meant to

  1434. draw attention

  1435. to the worth

  1436. and beauty

  1437. of the gospel.

  1438. It's meant to

  1439. draw attention

  1440. to the worth

  1441. and the beauty

  1442. of God.

  1443. And we see that

  1444. throughout the passage,

  1445. don't we?

  1446. This is the purpose

  1447. of our godliness

  1448. is that God

  1449. might receive

  1450. glory in us.

  1451. Why does He

  1452. give commands

  1453. here for young women?

  1454. Verse 5.

  1455. Look there.

  1456. Verse 5.

  1457. That the word

  1458. of God

  1459. may not be reviled.

  1460. That it wouldn't

  1461. be mocked

  1462. or disdained

  1463. that our behavior

  1464. would give no reason

  1465. for anyone

  1466. to mock

  1467. the goodness

  1468. of God.

  1469. Why does He

  1470. give commands

  1471. for Titus

  1472. for his speech

  1473. and for his actions

  1474. to be above reproach?

  1475. Verse 8.

  1476. So that an opportunity,

  1477. so that an opponent

  1478. may not be put

  1479. to shame,

  1480. having nothing evil

  1481. to say about us.

  1482. And why are even

  1483. slaves called

  1484. to live in a way

  1485. that is honoring

  1486. to God?

  1487. Verse 10.

  1488. That in everything

  1489. they might adorn

  1490. the doctrine

  1491. of God

  1492. our Savior.

  1493. I remember

  1494. when I

  1495. bought Amanda's

  1496. engagement ring.

  1497. I had never

  1498. bought something

  1499. so valuable

  1500. in my life.

  1501. And I went

  1502. several times

  1503. to the jewelry store

  1504. back and forth

  1505. to get the right ring

  1506. and to check it out,

  1507. to inspect it.

  1508. And then I bought

  1509. the ring

  1510. and now I had

  1511. something incredibly

  1512. valuable in my possession.

  1513. And I had to protect it

  1514. at all costs.

  1515. So immediately

  1516. I put it

  1517. in its case.

  1518. Shut it.

  1519. There was a couple

  1520. weeks there

  1521. in between

  1522. when I bought

  1523. the ring

  1524. and when it found

  1525. its way onto

  1526. Amanda's finger.

  1527. And the ring

  1528. just sat in the box

  1529. in my room.

  1530. And every now

  1531. and then

  1532. I would come

  1533. back to my apartment

  1534. from class

  1535. or from whatever

  1536. I was doing

  1537. and I would just

  1538. go to the box

  1539. and I would

  1540. open it.

  1541. Just take a peek.

  1542. Get a look at it,

  1543. make sure it's still there.

  1544. Then back in the box

  1545. and tucked away

  1546. in its place.

  1547. See, that box

  1548. served two purposes.

  1549. One, it protected

  1550. the ring.

  1551. It's valuable.

  1552. It guarded it.

  1553. It secured it.

  1554. It protected it.

  1555. It kept it from harm.

  1556. Nobody was going to

  1557. smush it or step on it.

  1558. It was safe

  1559. in the box.

  1560. And two,

  1561. when opened up,

  1562. it showcased

  1563. the beauty

  1564. of the ring.

  1565. The point's not

  1566. the box.

  1567. The point is

  1568. what it is

  1569. drawing attention

  1570. to.

  1571. The beauty

  1572. of the ring.

  1573. Church,

  1574. there is nothing

  1575. more beautiful

  1576. or valuable

  1577. or precious

  1578. or worth

  1579. guarding

  1580. or worth

  1581. drawing attention

  1582. to

  1583. than the gospel

  1584. of Jesus Christ.

  1585. The good news

  1586. that the perfect

  1587. son of God

  1588. has come.

  1589. He has lived

  1590. perfectly

  1591. where we couldn't.

  1592. He has died

  1593. in our place

  1594. on our behalf.

  1595. He has risen

  1596. from the grave

  1597. and he offers

  1598. his perfect

  1599. righteousness

  1600. to any

  1601. who would come

  1602. to him in faith.

  1603. That's beautiful.

  1604. Our lives,

  1605. our godliness

  1606. defends that gospel

  1607. from attack,

  1608. from mockery,

  1609. from disdain,

  1610. from hatred.

  1611. And when we live

  1612. lives that are

  1613. worthy of the gospel

  1614. of God,

  1615. it draws attention

  1616. to his beauty.

  1617. It brings God

  1618. the praise

  1619. that he intends

  1620. to get from us.

  1621. shines a spotlight

  1622. on the beauty

  1623. of the doctrine

  1624. of God our Savior

  1625. to say,

  1626. look what God

  1627. has done.

  1628. My life

  1629. is proof

  1630. of the goodness

  1631. of God

  1632. and his power

  1633. to save.

  1634. May God

  1635. be pleased

  1636. to do that

  1637. in you

  1638. and to do that

  1639. here with us.

  1640. Let's pray.

  1641. not to us,

  1642. O Lord,

  1643. not to us,

  1644. but to your name

  1645. be glory

  1646. for the sake

  1647. of your steadfast

  1648. love

  1649. and your faithfulness.

  1650. Lord,

  1651. we have no good

  1652. apart from you.

  1653. We have no goodness

  1654. in ourselves.

  1655. None is good

  1656. but God alone.

  1657. But God,

  1658. you are pleased

  1659. to take

  1660. wrecked sinners

  1661. not because

  1662. we're good

  1663. but because

  1664. you are merciful.

  1665. You are pleased

  1666. to take ruined

  1667. sinners

  1668. and to purify

  1669. and sanctify

  1670. us

  1671. through the blood

  1672. of Christ

  1673. and then to make

  1674. us shine

  1675. like lights

  1676. in the midst

  1677. of darkness

  1678. in this present

  1679. evil age.

  1680. Lord,

  1681. so we pray,

  1682. Father,

  1683. that we would

  1684. be distinct

  1685. not for us

  1686. but for the glory

  1687. of your name.

  1688. We pray

  1689. in Christ's name.

  1690. Amen.