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Repeat Offender

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  1. Please take your Bibles and open them up this morning to Genesis chapter 20.

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  2. !

  3. But we encourage everybody to have a copy of God's Word open in front of you so that we can see and hear from the pages of Scripture as we walk through this text together.

  4. So Genesis chapter 20, and when you found it, let's stand in honor of the reading of God's Word this morning.

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  5. Genesis chapter 20, and when you found it, let's stand in the reading of God's Word.

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  6. Behold, you are a dead man because of the woman whom you have taken, for she is a man's wife.

  7. Now Abimelech had not approached her, so he said, Lord, will you kill an innocent people?

  8. Did he not himself say to me, She is my sister?

  9. And she herself said, He is my brother?

  10. In the integrity of my heart and the innocence of my hands I have done this.

  11. Then God said to him in a dream, Yes, I know that you have done this in the integrity of your heart, and it was I who kept you from sinning against me.

  12. Therefore, I did not let you touch her.

  13. Now then, return the man's wife, for he is a prophet, so that he will pray for you and you shall live.

  14. But if you do not return her, know that you shall surely die, you and all who are yours.

  15. So Abimelech rose early in the morning and called all his servants and told them all these things.

  16. And the men were very much afraid.

  17. Then Abimelech called Abraham and said to him, What have you done to us?

  18. And how have I sinned against you that you have brought on me and my kingdom a great sin?

  19. You have done to me things that ought not to be done.

  20. And Abimelech said to Abraham, What did you see that you did this thing?

  21. Abraham said, I did it because I thought there is no fear of God at all in this place, and they will kill me because of my wife.

  22. Besides, she is indeed my sister, the daughter of my father, though not the daughter of my mother, and she became my wife.

  23. And when God caused me to wander from my father's house, I said to her, This is the kindness you must do to me.

  24. At every place to which we come, say of me, He is my brother.

  25. Then Abimelech took sheep and oxen and male servants and female servants and gave them to Abraham and returned Sarah, his wife, to him.

  26. And Abimelech said, Behold, my land is before you.

  27. Dwell where it pleases you.

  28. To Sarah he said, Behold, I have given your brother a thousand pieces of silver.

  29. It is a sign of your innocence in the eyes of all who are with you, and before everyone you are vindicated.

  30. Then Abraham prayed to God, and God healed Abimelech and also healed his wife and female slaves, so that they bore children.

  31. For the Lord had closed all the wombs of the house of Abimelech because of Sarah, Abraham's wife.

  32. The grass withers and flower fades, but the word of the Lord endures forever.

  33. Father God, we praise you for your word, and we praise you for this story of obvious sin in Abraham's life.

  34. We pray that we would take many lessons from it to apply to our own life.

  35. And we praise you for Christ, who is the Savior of sinners.

  36. We pray this in Jesus' name. Amen.

  37. You may be seated.

  38. I wonder if you've ever experienced deja vu.

  39. Weird feeling that you've been here before, had that same conversation before.

  40. It's a strange sensation of things are happening again exactly like they've happened before.

  41. You all know I was at the Pillar Conference this week.

  42. I've lost count now of how many of those I've been to.

  43. Six, seven, maybe eight.

  44. And each year, I can almost guarantee that many of the experiences there are similar, if not exactly the same, year after year after year after year.

  45. It's always at the same location.

  46. It's at Southeastern Seminary there in Wake Forest.

  47. The schedule, the order of events is usually roughly the same.

  48. I know when to expect the breakouts and when to expect the main sessions.

  49. Even the food is almost exactly the same year after year.

  50. I told the guys as we walked in, I said, listen, we're going to have a sandwich.

  51. We're going to have Chick-fil-A.

  52. We're going to have some barbecue.

  53. And lo and behold, that was what the menu held.

  54. Some of the details around the periphery shift here and there.

  55. The topic of the conference rotates year after year.

  56. It was honey-baked ham sandwiches instead of which-which sandwiches this year.

  57. My company was different this year.

  58. Bill and Treg joined me this time.

  59. But for all intents and purposes, many of the same things happen year after year.

  60. I found myself in a familiar place feeling a sense of deja vu.

  61. You might have felt a little bit like that this morning as we read this story here in Genesis chapter 20.

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  62. And if you did, I want you to know that you are not crazy.

  63. We have been here before.

  64. We are in familiar territory.

  65. Some of the details around this story have shifted.

  66. The location has changed.

  67. Some of the characters have changed.

  68. But you should notice we have been here before.

  69. I want to kind of jog your memory all the way back to Genesis chapter 12.

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  70. I realize it's been a while since we've been there, Genesis chapter 12.

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  71. But see if this story sounds familiar to you at all.

  72. Genesis chapter 12 tells the story of Abram and Sarai.

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  73. Little different names.

  74. Abram and Sarai.

  75. There's famine in the land.

  76. And so Abram and Sarai go down to Egypt.

  77. Abram is afraid that the Egyptians will see how beautiful Sarai, his wife, is.

  78. And they'll kill Abram.

  79. And so Abram comes up with this brilliant plan.

  80. You're going to tell them that you're my sister.

  81. Sound familiar?

  82. She goes along with it.

  83. They take her.

  84. And then they bless Abram with all sorts of goods.

  85. But we see the Lord sovereignly.

  86. He sees all this happening.

  87. He afflicts Pharaoh.

  88. And so he sends Sarai back to her husband.

  89. And Sarai and Abram leave wealthier and better off than before.

  90. Does that sound familiar to you?

  91. Here in Genesis chapter 20, this is essentially the same story.

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  92. Details have changed, but we are on familiar ground.

  93. And we're right to ask, well, what in the world is going on here?

  94. Why are we circling back to this again?

  95. You know, there's a proverb that I think helps sum up this story well.

  96. Proverbs 26, 11.

  97. Anybody know it?

  98. Proverbs 26, 11 says this.

  99. Like a dog that returns to his vomit is a fool who repeats his folly.

  100. Like a dog that returns to his vomit is a fool who repeats his folly.

  101. What we're seeing here in this repeat story in the life of Abraham is a cycling pattern of sin in Abraham's life.

  102. Some of the details have changed, but like a dog returning to his vomit,

  103. here Abraham is foolishly repeating his folly.

  104. And as we look at this story of repeat sin, I hope that we can admit and be honest that each one of us is prone to do the exact same thing, aren't we?

  105. Sometimes we find ourselves feeling a sense of deja vu as we wander back to familiar places and familiar patterns of sin in our lives.

  106. So let's take a look here.

  107. And what we'll see this morning is three lessons about our sin.

  108. This will be our outline this morning if you're taking notes.

  109. Three lessons about our sin.

  110. First, we see our sin is self-seeking.

  111. Our sin is self-seeking.

  112. We see this here in verses 1 through 7 of the passage.

  113. Look there with me starting in verse 1.

  114. And we see in the aftermath of Sodom, we saw that last week in chapter 19,

  115. that we're told that Abraham, he journeyed down toward the territory of the Negev,

  116. and he lived there between Kadesh and Shur, and he sojourned in Gerar.

  117. And once again, just as he did in Egypt, he executes this same brilliant plan, doesn't he?

  118. Abraham says to Sarai, his wife, says of his wife, she is my sister.

  119. And Abimelech, the king of Gerar, sent and he takes Sarah.

  120. Here we go again.

  121. But God came to Abimelech in a dream and said to him,

  122. Behold, you are a dead man.

  123. That sounds more like a nightmare to me, right?

  124. God speaks and says, you are a dead man.

  125. Why?

  126. Because you've taken another man's wife.

  127. She's married.

  128. She belongs to somebody else.

  129. And you know, this isn't the main point of the passage,

  130. but I think it's worth mentioning here.

  131. We see very clearly, God takes a high view of marriage, doesn't he?

  132. God protects the boundaries of marriage.

  133. God created marriage.

  134. God instituted it.

  135. It's his design.

  136. One man and one woman in covenant relationship for a lifetime.

  137. The seventh commandment, the men studied this this week.

  138. The seventh commandment says what?

  139. Thou shalt not commit adultery.

  140. Now God is protecting the boundaries here of the covenant of marriage.

  141. But it's interesting.

  142. Verse 4 says that Abimelech had not yet approached her.

  143. He was to this point innocent.

  144. He had not yet committed adultery.

  145. And so he says to the Lord, Lord, will you indeed kill an innocent people?

  146. I've been tricked, God.

  147. Did he not say she's my sister?

  148. And she herself, does she not say, well, he's my brother?

  149. I've done all this in the integrity of my heart, in the innocence of my hands.

  150. I have done this.

  151. So the Lord responds, yes, I know that you've done this in the integrity of your heart.

  152. Because it was I who kept you from sinning against me.

  153. The Lord says that I have not let you touch her.

  154. Now you better return her or there's going to be consequences for you and for your household.

  155. Now, I want you to think with me here about the selfishness of Abraham's sin.

  156. How self-seeking Abraham's sin is.

  157. It's clear, isn't it?

  158. He is not thinking about anybody else in this situation besides himself.

  159. His sin is self-seeking.

  160. In fact, his sin is putting everyone else around him in danger.

  161. Did you notice that?

  162. For one thing, Abraham's sin is putting his wife in danger, isn't he?

  163. Abraham's sin is putting his wife Sarah in danger.

  164. Just think about this little plan of his.

  165. His sin is putting her in harm's way, but he doesn't seem to really care about that, does he?

  166. He's just protecting himself two times now.

  167. Sarah's a lot more patient than I would be.

  168. Two times now, she has been traded away for his own protection.

  169. Two times, she's been given away into another man's hands to be his wife.

  170. This is completely self-seeking behavior, isn't it?

  171. And you notice that it harms the person who is closest to him.

  172. Do we realize that our sin harms those who are closest to us?

  173. We may think that our sin only hurts us.

  174. If anybody, it's only impacting us.

  175. But we ought to realize our sin, it also hurts those who are closest to us.

  176. Even so-called secret sins, they harm those who are closest to us.

  177. For a married man or a married woman to have a secret affair, that hurts your family.

  178. Even a secret pornography addiction, it will impact your relationships.

  179. Even internal, invisible sins like selfishness or pride or laziness.

  180. Those often wind up manifesting themselves in external ways that hurt others around us.

  181. We need to know our sin impacts those closest to us.

  182. Not only this, but Abraham's sin also puts Abimelech in danger.

  183. Abraham doesn't know Abimelech as far as we can tell.

  184. This is their first interaction.

  185. They don't have any sort of relationship.

  186. This guy is a stranger.

  187. But does Abraham's sin impact Abimelech?

  188. You better believe so. Absolutely.

  189. He is put at risk of death.

  190. It puts his life at risk.

  191. And not just him, but also his whole family is at risk because of Abraham's sin.

  192. Do we realize that our sin also hurts those around us?

  193. A few weeks ago, the northbound lanes on the Ravenel Bridge were shut down.

  194. I don't know what happened.

  195. I can only assume a cell phone was involved or a northerner maybe.

  196. I'm not sure.

  197. One slip up from one driver caused another car or two to crash, which caused the whole side to be shut down,

  198. which caused hundreds of other vehicles to be stuck in standstill traffic,

  199. including some of you who couldn't make it to where you were attempting to be,

  200. which I am certain caused a lot of anger and a lot of hearts,

  201. which I am certain overflowed in a lot of words that ought not to be said.

  202. But our sin is often like this.

  203. It reverberates.

  204. It echoes.

  205. You see the chain reaction here.

  206. One little decision now has put one man and his whole family at risk.

  207. The impact of our sin is often much wider than we can possibly imagine,

  208. which is why we need to understand that sin, first, is a failure to love God,

  209. but second is a failure to love neighbor.

  210. How does Jesus sum up the commandments?

  211. What's the first greatest commandment, Jesus?

  212. Love the Lord your God with all your heart and all your mind and all your soul and all your strength.

  213. And the second is like it.

  214. What is it?

  215. Love your neighbor as yourself.

  216. Not only this, Abraham here also puts the promise in danger.

  217. Puts the promise in danger.

  218. Let's zoom out here just for a minute.

  219. You remember the big picture context of what's going on here in the book of Genesis?

  220. Do you remember the promise that God has made to Abraham?

  221. God promised Abraham that Isaac would be born to Abraham within the year,

  222. specifically from Sarah's womb.

  223. I don't think I have to explain this to you,

  224. but if Sarah had gotten pregnant by Abimelech,

  225. that promise could not come to pass, could it?

  226. Abraham selfishly and protecting himself,

  227. he has completely lost sight of the big picture, hasn't he?

  228. In this moment, he acts like he's forgotten God's promises.

  229. He's only thinking about himself, not Sarah, not Abimelech, not God.

  230. Praise God.

  231. What we see here, he does not let our foolishness nullify his faithfulness, does he?

  232. Look how God steps in and intervenes.

  233. God makes certain that even despite Abraham's foolishness,

  234. his plan, his promises will come to pass.

  235. What does he say to Abimelech?

  236. Yes, I know you're innocent, but think about why.

  237. I kept you from sinning against her.

  238. I know you didn't touch her, Abimelech.

  239. Why?

  240. I did not let you touch her.

  241. Why?

  242. God's promises, God's plan to bring about the promised offspring,

  243. through Abraham, through Sarah, will come to pass.

  244. You realize our sin is exactly the same.

  245. Our sin, it harms those who are close to us.

  246. Our sin, it harms our neighbor.

  247. And our sin, ultimately, you know what?

  248. It shows a real lack of trust in God and his promises.

  249. So we see sin is self-seeking.

  250. Not only this, second, second, we see our sin is shameful.

  251. Our sin is shameful.

  252. And we see this starting in verse 8.

  253. There's an irony here in the passage.

  254. Did you notice it?

  255. This pagan king, Abimelech, who does not know the Lord,

  256. he is more righteous than Abraham, the man of faith.

  257. His hands are innocent here, but Abraham is guilty.

  258. Do you see the irony here?

  259. This pagan king rebukes Abraham, the great father of the Jewish people.

  260. He comes out looking like the bigger, better man in the whole ordeal,

  261. while Abraham comes off looking pretty bad, doesn't he?

  262. Look there to verse 8.

  263. Verse 8 says that Abimelech rose early in the morning.

  264. He responds immediately to the word of God.

  265. He called all his servants and told them all these things that the Lord had said.

  266. The men were very much afraid.

  267. And then Abimelech calls Abraham.

  268. And he says,

  269. What have you done to us?

  270. How have I sinned against you?

  271. Why have you done this?

  272. What have you seen here that you're doing this?

  273. You've done these things that ought not to be done.

  274. Why in the world have you done this?

  275. What do you have to say for yourself?

  276. Abraham's caught in his lie, isn't he?

  277. This pagan king exposes this great father of the faith.

  278. And right here is the opportunity, right?

  279. Right here is the chance to say,

  280. You're right.

  281. I've sinned.

  282. You caught me.

  283. I put you in harm's way.

  284. I put my wife in harm's way.

  285. I've not loved my neighbor as I ought.

  286. I've failed to trust in the promises of God.

  287. Forgive me, God.

  288. God.

  289. That would be the right response, right?

  290. But what does he do?

  291. Abraham does what you and I so often do.

  292. Abraham begins making all sorts of excuses for his sin, doesn't he?

  293. Three of them here.

  294. Excuse number one, it's your fault.

  295. You don't fear God.

  296. I did this because I thought there's no fear of God in this place,

  297. and so I better come up with a plan.

  298. I thought you were going to kill me.

  299. It's ultimately your fault.

  300. If you were more godly, I wouldn't have to sin so much.

  301. Excuse number two, here in verse 12.

  302. Boy, you know, I didn't really lie.

  303. Technically, she is my sister.

  304. Listen to how he just twists himself up in a knot, trying to explain this away.

  305. Well, she's the daughter of my father, though not the daughter of my mother,

  306. and then she became my wife.

  307. So technically, technically I'm not lying, right?

  308. I mean, who's he fooling?

  309. Third excuse here in verse 13.

  310. Who does he blame?

  311. Ultimately.

  312. Ultimately, he says, you know what?

  313. It's God's fault.

  314. He puts the blame on God.

  315. God made me do it.

  316. When God caused me to wander from my father's house,

  317. I said to her, this is the kindness you must do for me at every place to which we come.

  318. Save me.

  319. He is my brother.

  320. God made me do it.

  321. God put me in this impossible situation.

  322. What was I supposed to do?

  323. I was happy where I was.

  324. God called me out into this dangerous place.

  325. He made me a sojourner.

  326. So really, if you think about it,

  327. you trace it all back up to the top of the food chain,

  328. it's God's fault.

  329. Friend, when we wander back into places and patterns of sin,

  330. God is not to blame.

  331. When we fall into sin,

  332. it is not God's fault.

  333. Yes, we believe in a totally sovereign God.

  334. We believe that nothing happens apart from the counsel of his will.

  335. Amen.

  336. Yes, we believe this.

  337. And we believe that we are fully responsible for our sin.

  338. God is not to blame for our sin.

  339. We should learn from Abraham here.

  340. We ought not make excuses for our sin.

  341. When God brings our sin into the light,

  342. that's a grace, by the way.

  343. That is a kindness for him to expose our sin,

  344. to bring it out into the light so that we can see it as it is.

  345. When he does that,

  346. please, Christian,

  347. don't make excuses for your sin.

  348. Don't blame others.

  349. Don't try to explain it away on some technicality.

  350. And certainly do not blame God for your sin.

  351. Acknowledge your sin and bring it to the feet of Jesus.

  352. The word tells us if we confess our sin,

  353. he is faithful and just to forgive us our sin

  354. and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

  355. I don't know how Abimelech responded to all of this.

  356. I can just imagine he's just standing there nodding like,

  357. okay, yeah, buddy, really?

  358. That's how you're going to handle this?

  359. Well, he doesn't say a word.

  360. Abimelech here, he takes the high road.

  361. You see what he does?

  362. Abimelech blesses Abraham.

  363. He gives these gifts to Sarah,

  364. 1,000 pieces of silver.

  365. You realize that would be about 150 years worth of labor in that day.

  366. More than a lifetime.

  367. He opens up the land.

  368. He gives them full access to the land.

  369. He clears his name in every way.

  370. Abraham prays.

  371. God heals Abimelech.

  372. And he blesses him.

  373. Do you see how backwards all of this is?

  374. Abimelech comes out looking better than Abraham.

  375. He looks more righteous than Abraham.

  376. Do you see the issue here?

  377. Church, it is a shameful thing

  378. for pagans to appear more righteous than the people of God.

  379. Amen?

  380. Do you understand?

  381. It is a shameful thing

  382. for non-believers

  383. to live a more visibly moral life

  384. than the people of God.

  385. And of course we all sin, church.

  386. We all mess up.

  387. I'm not saying that we are perfect.

  388. We are not perfect, myself especially.

  389. But,

  390. we are meant to be light

  391. in the midst of darkness, aren't we?

  392. We are called to be holy.

  393. As God is holy.

  394. We are meant to be distinct.

  395. There is meant to be a difference

  396. between us and the non-believing world around us.

  397. And when there isn't any difference,

  398. we should recognize something is not right here.

  399. This is off.

  400. This is shameful.

  401. Isn't this what Paul does

  402. when he admonishes the Corinthian church?

  403. He says,

  404. it's actually reported

  405. that there's sexual immorality

  406. among you

  407. and of a kind

  408. that's not even tolerated

  409. amongst pagans.

  410. How can this be?

  411. Church, my desire for us

  412. is that we would be a holy people.

  413. My desire for this church

  414. is that we would be distinct.

  415. I don't want our neighbors to say,

  416. man, they're just like us

  417. over there at Seaweed Bay.

  418. They talk like us.

  419. They think like us.

  420. They cheat.

  421. They steal.

  422. They lie.

  423. They sleep around.

  424. They do all the same things that we do.

  425. They value all the same things that we do.

  426. No, I want our neighbors to say,

  427. man, they are different from us.

  428. Something's different over there.

  429. What is that about those people at Seaweed Bay?

  430. Oh, they're not prideful

  431. or holier than thou.

  432. They're not condemning.

  433. They're not rude,

  434. but there's just,

  435. there's a difference there.

  436. They're joyful.

  437. They don't seem to need this drink

  438. when the clock hits five.

  439. They don't have the same apps

  440. downloaded on their phones

  441. as I do on mine.

  442. Sure, they like football,

  443. but they don't worship it like I do.

  444. If South Carolina happens to lose to LSU,

  445. they're mad,

  446. but their life goes on.

  447. And something's different

  448. about these people.

  449. And then guess what, church?

  450. We get to answer.

  451. It's Jesus.

  452. Jesus is alive in me.

  453. Christ Jesus has rescued me

  454. from slavery to sin.

  455. I'm not better than you.

  456. By the grace of God,

  457. I've been redeemed.

  458. Jesus died and rose again

  459. to set me free.

  460. Now let me tell you

  461. how you can get in on this.

  462. Christ came to bear our sin

  463. and our shame, church.

  464. He came and he removed the penalty

  465. and the guilt and the shame of sin

  466. off of us, praise God.

  467. But not only this,

  468. Christ also came,

  469. Ephesians 5 tells us,

  470. Christ also came to present you

  471. holy and blameless and above reproach.

  472. And above reproach before him.

  473. He came to make his people holy.

  474. As he is holy.

  475. To the praise of his glorious grace.

  476. And the good news for us, church,

  477. is that one day,

  478. he will finally complete this work in us.

  479. Do you believe that?

  480. One day,

  481. we will be fully and finally holy.

  482. We can hardly imagine it.

  483. We will be totally free from sin.

  484. Totally clean.

  485. Christ purchased the sinless future for us

  486. at the cross.

  487. We look backwards and see

  488. the atonement and what he's done

  489. so we can look forwards with confidence

  490. at what will come when he returns.

  491. We will be holy.

  492. But it's not here yet.

  493. You and I still wrestle

  494. in the flesh

  495. and wrestle with all sorts of patterns of sin.

  496. We're still prone to wonder.

  497. We're still prone to walk in ways

  498. that dishonor the Lord

  499. and harm those around us.

  500. We're prone to return back again to our vomit.

  501. So in our third point, church,

  502. I want to ask,

  503. what in the world do we do

  504. with this habitual,

  505. persistent,

  506. stubborn sin in our lives?

  507. How do we handle it?

  508. How can we fight it?

  509. Because third,

  510. we see here,

  511. sin is often cyclical.

  512. And we could add,

  513. sanctification is often slow.

  514. Amen?

  515. Now what is sanctification?

  516. Sanctification

  517. is this process

  518. of being made righteous.

  519. We are becoming more like Christ.

  520. Abraham was declared righteous

  521. by faith.

  522. That's justification.

  523. And so are we, church.

  524. The moment you put your faith in Christ,

  525. you are legally,

  526. objectively,

  527. formally,

  528. officially,

  529. truly righteous in the sight of God.

  530. No one can take that away.

  531. Jesus' righteousness is credited to you by faith.

  532. Praise God.

  533. sanctification.

  534. But sanctification,

  535. being made righteous,

  536. whoo,

  537. that takes some time.

  538. it is painfully slow.

  539. A lifetime,

  540. in fact.

  541. John Owen compares it to a tree.

  542. He says,

  543. the growth of trees and plants

  544. take place so slowly

  545. that it's not easily seen.

  546. Daily,

  547. we notice little changes.

  548. But in the course of time,

  549. we see that a great change

  550. has taken place.

  551. So it is with grace.

  552. Sanctification

  553. is a progressive,

  554. lifelong work.

  555. And we see it here with Abraham.

  556. And you realize the first time

  557. that this happened

  558. was 25 years ago.

  559. Here Abraham is,

  560. back to the same thing.

  561. Back to the same thing.

  562. They were young back then.

  563. They were in their 70s.

  564. And now he's in his 90s.

  565. He's almost 100.

  566. And it seems like

  567. that righteousness

  568. hasn't quite taken root.

  569. Sometimes we can find ourselves

  570. right back in familiar places,

  571. familiar patterns,

  572. familiar temptations.

  573. So what do we do

  574. about this habitual,

  575. persistent sin?

  576. I want to finish here

  577. by giving you a strategy.

  578. Okay?

  579. Ten parts.

  580. Ten points.

  581. I promise.

  582. I'll move quickly.

  583. Ten of them.

  584. First,

  585. you must make certain

  586. that your sins are forgiven.

  587. This is a starting point.

  588. If you are not in Christ,

  589. no strategy for fighting sin

  590. will help you at all.

  591. Do not pass go.

  592. Do not collect $200.

  593. Do not put a strategy in place.

  594. Unless your sins have been forgiven

  595. by faith in Christ,

  596. no strategy for fighting sin

  597. will be of any help to you.

  598. You must repent of your sin

  599. and come to Christ by faith.

  600. That's number one.

  601. Make certain your sins

  602. are forgiven.

  603. Then,

  604. and only then,

  605. from this position

  606. of full forgiveness,

  607. full acceptance,

  608. how do we grow in holiness?

  609. Second,

  610. see yourself as dead to sin

  611. and alive to God in Christ.

  612. See yourself as dead to sin

  613. and alive to God in Christ.

  614. Who are you, Christian?

  615. This is Paul's command in Romans 6.

  616. We must recognize

  617. that we are united to Christ

  618. by faith,

  619. so much so

  620. that Jesus' death

  621. is our death,

  622. and Jesus' resurrection life

  623. is our resurrection life.

  624. That Jesus' victory over sin

  625. is our victory over sin.

  626. So you also must consider yourselves

  627. dead to sin

  628. and alive to God in Christ.

  629. Number three,

  630. speak.

  631. And that might sound strange,

  632. but you know,

  633. you can actually speak out loud

  634. when temptation comes.

  635. You can speak and say no.

  636. Say no to yourself

  637. and your desires.

  638. You can speak and say no

  639. to the enemy.

  640. Tell him no, not today.

  641. I'm not going there again.

  642. You can speak to your Savior.

  643. Lord, would you help me?

  644. Would you strengthen me?

  645. Would you keep me from evil?

  646. God, help me.

  647. I'm tempted right now

  648. and I'm weak.

  649. Would you speak out loud?

  650. But of course,

  651. in order to speak the truth

  652. to yourself

  653. and remind yourself of truth,

  654. what do you need to do?

  655. Number four,

  656. you must saturate your mind

  657. with the truth.

  658. Saturate your mind

  659. with the Word of God.

  660. If you just treat God's Word

  661. like a reference book,

  662. if you just crack it open

  663. once or twice a week,

  664. if the pages of your Bible

  665. still stick together,

  666. I'm not sure what to say

  667. other than you are neglecting

  668. the very means

  669. that God has given you

  670. to fight sin in your life.

  671. How did Jesus resist

  672. the temptation of the devil?

  673. What did He do?

  674. Three times,

  675. He quoted the Word of the Lord.

  676. What does the psalmist say?

  677. How can a young man

  678. keep his way pure?

  679. By guarding it

  680. according to your Word.

  681. I have hidden your Word

  682. in my heart

  683. that I might not sin

  684. against you.

  685. You must saturate your mind

  686. with the truth.

  687. Number five,

  688. cultivate spiritual dependence.

  689. Spiritual dependence.

  690. Walk by the Spirit

  691. and you will not gratify

  692. the desires of the flesh,

  693. Paul says in Galatians 5.

  694. Or again, Romans 8,

  695. if you live according

  696. to the flesh,

  697. you will die.

  698. But if by the Spirit

  699. you put to death

  700. the deeds of the body,

  701. you will live.

  702. We have to cultivate

  703. a posture of spiritual dependence.

  704. You know,

  705. Christians are needy people.

  706. That's okay.

  707. We don't just grit through it

  708. and try to be better.

  709. We need the Lord.

  710. We need His help.

  711. We need the Spirit.

  712. Number six,

  713. study yourself

  714. and strategize.

  715. Study yourself

  716. and strategize.

  717. You know,

  718. if you can memorize

  719. the stats

  720. on your fantasy football team,

  721. you can study

  722. your own patterns

  723. of your own sin.

  724. Pay attention

  725. to yourself.

  726. Paul tells Timothy,

  727. keep a close watch

  728. on yourself

  729. and on your hearers.

  730. Zoom out

  731. and try hard to notice.

  732. When do I tend to let

  733. my anger get the best of me?

  734. What are the circumstances?

  735. What are the factors?

  736. What's going on

  737. when I'm most vulnerable

  738. and fall into lust?

  739. What am I feeling

  740. when I feel like

  741. I need that drink?

  742. What circumstances

  743. are leading up to me

  744. bursting out

  745. in rage and anger?

  746. What inside of me

  747. compels me to boast

  748. or to stretch the truth?

  749. What are the patterns here?

  750. Am I lonely?

  751. Am I isolated?

  752. Am I afraid?

  753. Am I stressed?

  754. Maybe I shouldn't

  755. drive past the liquor store

  756. every day on the way

  757. home from work.

  758. Maybe I set some rules

  759. and some boundaries

  760. around my phone

  761. and around my computer.

  762. Study yourself.

  763. Strategize.

  764. Or you can be certain

  765. the enemy is studying

  766. you.

  767. But you know,

  768. as good as that sort

  769. of strategizing is,

  770. at the root of all sin

  771. is something

  772. infinitely bigger,

  773. which is why,

  774. number seven,

  775. you must seek

  776. real satisfaction

  777. in Christ.

  778. Seek

  779. to satisfy

  780. your heart

  781. in the glory

  782. of God,

  783. in the gospel

  784. of Christ.

  785. This is the key.

  786. If you hear nothing else,

  787. this is it.

  788. Listen.

  789. this is the key

  790. to conquering

  791. repeat sin

  792. in your life.

  793. You do it.

  794. You go back there

  795. because you think

  796. it's satisfying.

  797. You do it

  798. because you enjoy it.

  799. Be honest.

  800. The only way

  801. to really change this

  802. is to truly begin

  803. to develop

  804. in your heart

  805. a deeper

  806. and greater

  807. love for Christ.

  808. John Piper

  809. says,

  810. I know of no other way

  811. to triumph

  812. over sin

  813. long term

  814. than to gain

  815. a distaste

  816. for it

  817. because of a

  818. superior

  819. satisfaction

  820. in God.

  821. Thomas Chalmers,

  822. he calls this

  823. the expulsive

  824. power

  825. of a new

  826. affection.

  827. You get that image

  828. in your mind?

  829. That new

  830. love,

  831. that superior

  832. satisfaction

  833. in God.

  834. It launches

  835. the old

  836. satisfaction out.

  837. It's expelled

  838. from your heart.

  839. Cultivate a love

  840. for the glory

  841. of God.

  842. Church,

  843. I go back

  844. to the Pillar Conference

  845. every year

  846. because I love it.

  847. And we go back

  848. to our vomit

  849. because we

  850. love it.

  851. Do you actually

  852. believe

  853. that the glory

  854. of God

  855. is better

  856. and more

  857. satisfying

  858. for your soul

  859. than all

  860. the pleasures

  861. of the world?

  862. Psalm 1611

  863. would be

  864. a good verse

  865. for you to memorize.

  866. You make known

  867. to me

  868. the path

  869. of life

  870. in your presence.

  871. There is fullness

  872. of joy.

  873. At your right hand

  874. are pleasures

  875. forevermore.

  876. Satisfy your heart

  877. in Christ.

  878. Number eight,

  879. surround yourself

  880. with others.

  881. Now this is why

  882. we need a church

  883. family.

  884. You are not

  885. meant to be

  886. isolated.

  887. There are no

  888. lone ranger

  889. cowboy

  890. Christians.

  891. If you are

  892. isolated,

  893. guess what?

  894. You become easy prey

  895. for the enemy

  896. who prowls around

  897. like a roaring lion

  898. seeking someone

  899. to devour.

  900. Who's he going

  901. to go after?

  902. The one with the herd

  903. or the straggler

  904. off on his own?

  905. You need others

  906. in your life

  907. in such a way

  908. that they can help you

  909. and pray for you

  910. and walk with you

  911. and encourage you.

  912. God's mechanism

  913. for this

  914. is the local church.

  915. Number nine,

  916. strap up.

  917. Get ready

  918. for a fight.

  919. Two things are true

  920. at this very same time

  921. here.

  922. Sanctification

  923. ultimately

  924. is God's work.

  925. He is the one

  926. who brings victory

  927. over sin.

  928. It's his work.

  929. He's the one

  930. who brings his people

  931. to holiness.

  932. Only he can give you

  933. a love for him

  934. and for his word

  935. in such a way

  936. that it overpowers

  937. your natural love

  938. for sin.

  939. That is God's work.

  940. It is God

  941. who works in you

  942. to will

  943. and to work

  944. for his good pleasure.

  945. That's true.

  946. And it's true.

  947. You must pursue holiness.

  948. Some seem to think

  949. that holiness

  950. doesn't require

  951. any effort.

  952. Well, then why in the world

  953. does the Bible

  954. command us

  955. over and over

  956. and over again?

  957. Put to death,

  958. therefore,

  959. what is earthly in you,

  960. Paul says in Colossians 3.

  961. Do not let sin,

  962. therefore,

  963. reign in your mortal bodies,

  964. he says in Romans 6.

  965. Don't let it.

  966. You fight it.

  967. Do not present

  968. your members

  969. to sin

  970. as instruments

  971. for unrighteousness,

  972. but present yourself

  973. to God

  974. as those who have been

  975. brought from death

  976. to life

  977. and present your members

  978. to God

  979. as instruments

  980. for righteousness.

  981. The Bible

  982. seems to think

  983. that we ought to do

  984. something about this.

  985. put on the whole armor

  986. of God

  987. that you may be able

  988. to stand

  989. against the schemes

  990. of the devil.

  991. You will not just

  992. happen to stumble

  993. into holiness

  994. by accident.

  995. It must be pursued

  996. by the grace of God

  997. and in the power

  998. of God.

  999. J.C. Ryle

  1000. says it like this.

  1001. He says,

  1002. In justification,

  1003. the word to be addressed

  1004. to man

  1005. is belief.

  1006. Only believe

  1007. in sanctification.

  1008. The word must be

  1009. watch,

  1010. pray,

  1011. and fight.

  1012. Strap up,

  1013. finally.

  1014. Number ten.

  1015. Here's where we close,

  1016. church.

  1017. Set your hope

  1018. fully on

  1019. Christ Jesus,

  1020. our Lord.

  1021. Set your hope

  1022. fully

  1023. on Jesus.

  1024. Jesus.

  1025. The fact is,

  1026. Christian,

  1027. this may or may not

  1028. be encouraging to you,

  1029. I don't know.

  1030. The fact is,

  1031. you will wrestle with sin

  1032. until the day you die.

  1033. We will not

  1034. fully be freed

  1035. from the presence

  1036. of sin

  1037. until glory,

  1038. until the Lord

  1039. returns,

  1040. or we go to be with Him.

  1041. I know that may not

  1042. sound too encouraging,

  1043. but it's true.

  1044. You will wrestle,

  1045. you will struggle,

  1046. you will fight,

  1047. and you will grow.

  1048. You will have some victories,

  1049. and you will

  1050. have some defeats.

  1051. You might find yourself

  1052. back in that same

  1053. familiar place,

  1054. maybe some details

  1055. are different here

  1056. and there,

  1057. but right back

  1058. in that same

  1059. old cycle.

  1060. Church,

  1061. remember Paul

  1062. in Romans chapter seven?

  1063. I'm so glad

  1064. this chapter

  1065. is in my Bible.

  1066. Romans chapter seven,

  1067. don't you love

  1068. this chapter?

  1069. Paul,

  1070. the apostle,

  1071. champion missionary,

  1072. hero of the early church,

  1073. he says,

  1074. I don't understand

  1075. my own actions.

  1076. I don't do

  1077. what I want,

  1078. I do what I hate.

  1079. Can you relate to that?

  1080. He goes on,

  1081. he says,

  1082. I know nothing good

  1083. dwells in me

  1084. that is in my flesh.

  1085. I have this desire

  1086. to do what is right,

  1087. but not the ability

  1088. to carry it out.

  1089. I do not do

  1090. the good that I want.

  1091. Instead,

  1092. I do the evil

  1093. that I do not want.

  1094. That's what I keep

  1095. on doing.

  1096. Wretched man

  1097. that I am,

  1098. who will deliver me

  1099. from this body of death?

  1100. Who will save us

  1101. from our patterns

  1102. of sin?

  1103. Who will finally

  1104. rescue us

  1105. and put an end

  1106. to this lifelong

  1107. battle

  1108. and wrestling

  1109. with sin

  1110. and darkness

  1111. and the weakness

  1112. of our own flesh?

  1113. Who can do it?

  1114. Thanks be to God

  1115. through Jesus Christ,

  1116. our Lord.

  1117. Christ alone

  1118. has done it.

  1119. Christ alone

  1120. is the hope

  1121. for sinners.

  1122. There is therefore

  1123. now no condemnation

  1124. for those

  1125. who are in

  1126. Christ

  1127. Jesus.

  1128. Jesus has come

  1129. to defeat

  1130. the powers

  1131. of sin

  1132. and darkness

  1133. for all

  1134. who know

  1135. Him by faith.

  1136. And though we

  1137. wrestle with

  1138. the presence

  1139. of sin

  1140. in our life,

  1141. yet we look

  1142. to Him.

  1143. We look

  1144. to the power

  1145. of the cross.

  1146. We look

  1147. to His return

  1148. to the day

  1149. when He will

  1150. finally put an end

  1151. to sin,

  1152. death,

  1153. and the devil

  1154. and we will

  1155. be holy

  1156. as He

  1157. is holy.

  1158. Church,

  1159. put your hope

  1160. fully in

  1161. Christ

  1162. and know

  1163. that God's

  1164. grace towards

  1165. you in Him

  1166. is greater

  1167. than all

  1168. your sin.

  1169. Father God,

  1170. we confess,

  1171. Lord,

  1172. each one of us

  1173. is so prone

  1174. to wonder.

  1175. We are prone

  1176. to pursue

  1177. the sins

  1178. of the flesh

  1179. and the desires

  1180. of the flesh

  1181. and to wind

  1182. back up again

  1183. in familiar

  1184. places,

  1185. familiar patterns

  1186. of sin.

  1187. Lord,

  1188. we ask with Paul

  1189. who will rescue

  1190. us from this

  1191. body of death

  1192. and we praise

  1193. you with him.

  1194. Thanks be to God

  1195. through Jesus Christ

  1196. our Lord.

  1197. Christ gives us

  1198. the victory.

  1199. We praise you

  1200. for the good news

  1201. of the gospel,

  1202. for freedom

  1203. from sin,

  1204. for the hope

  1205. of holiness

  1206. in the age to come.

  1207. We love you.

  1208. We pray this

  1209. in Jesus' name.

  1210. Amen.