Sermon
Be Miserable (James 4:9-12) [2026-1-11]
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Transcript
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Good morning. Once again, church family.
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If you have your Bibles, if you would turned to James chapter 4
James 4 chapter mention
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or type in your devices, James chapter 4.
James 4 chapter mention
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And this morning we're going to be in verses 9 to 12.
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The past two weeks we've only been doing 2 verses at a time
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because they've been pretty dense passages and this morning
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we're going to double that. We're going to get the four
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verses. James 49 to 12:00.
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Let me read the text, open us in a word of prayer, and then we'll
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jump into the sermon this morning.
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James chapter 4, beginning in verse 9.
James 4 chapter mention
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Be wretched and mourn and weep. Let your laughter be turned to
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mourning and your joy to gloom. Humble yourselves before the
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Lord, and He will exalt you. Do not speak evil against one
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another, brothers. The one who speaks against the
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brother or judges his brother, speaks evil against the law and
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judges the law. But if you judge the law, you
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are not a doer of the law, but a judge.
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There is only one law giver and judge, he who was able to save
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and to destroy. But who are you to judge your
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neighbor? Let's pray for this morning as
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we get to a text that deals with the topic of contrition and
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deals with the topic of of judging one another.
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Lord, I pray that you would give us a broken and contrite heart
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this morning, Lord, That you would help us to see what a gift
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of grace it is when we are able to be broken over our sin.
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That it is not meant to be foreign to us.
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That we are not to be a stranger to brokenness.
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That we are to feel comfortable in this place, not that we
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should stay there. Lord, help us to to be a people
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who receive and freely receive the forgiveness and the love
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that are so abundant at your feet.
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But on the path to getting there, God, would you help us to
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not be strangers to the road of contrition.
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I pray this in Jesus name, Amen. I wonder if a counselor has ever
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told their client, or if a parent has ever told their
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child, or if a pastor has ever told his congregation.
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Be miserable. You should be miserable.
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We live in a society where feelings are everything, aren't
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they? That's the society we live in.
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Feelings are everything. They even supersede truth in our
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society. We go to counseling, we take
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medication, we seek out friends, we perhaps go to church, we
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listen to music, we watch TV. We do all these things to
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console our emotions and the effort that we would feel good.
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We seek out things that will make us feel better, feel happy.
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So what do we do when we come to the apostle James and he tells
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us be miserable, be wretched? I wonder if James is the type of
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friend we would call when we need some affirmation.
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Maybe not. So what is James saying here?
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What is he getting at? That's what I hope to clarify
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this morning. So as we look at the text this
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morning, I, I, I have woven together the exposition and the
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application together. So they will, we won't have
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separate sections for them. They'll be woven together.
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And let's look at this section by section.
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Let's start in verse 9A where James writes to us, Be wretched
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and mourn and weep. Now last week we had looked at 5
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imperatives that James gives and two verses.
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And this morning we're going to look at six more imperatives
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that he gives in the first 3 verses of our passes.
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This morning, three of those six imperatives all occur in verse
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9A, that here they are #1 be wretched #2 mourn #3 weep.
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Let's look at those individually #1 be wretched.
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This is the only time this verb is used in the New Testament.
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Here's a Greek definition of it. To experience distress, to
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endure sorrow, to be miserable. Now I want you to think about
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this. This is a command.
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This is in the imperative mood. It's not every day that somebody
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commands you be miserable. Now, why would James tell them
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to do this? Why would he command the church
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to do this? We'll see in just a minute.
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The second imperative is this morn.
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This verb is used 10 times in the New Testament.
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The Greek verb is defined as this to experience sadness as a
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result of some condition or circumstance.
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And the third imperative this morning is weep.
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This Greek verb is actually used 40 times in the New Testament
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and it simply means to cry. Now here's the question that I
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had, and maybe you have this morning.
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James had previously said to us in James chapter one, verse 2,
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to count it all joy. My brothers, when you meet
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trials of various kinds, count it all joy.
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So why did the man who exhorted the Church to count everything
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as joy, just a few chapters later, command them to feel
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miserable, to mourn, and to weep?
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Why would he do that? And I think that the reason is
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actually given to us through the wisdom of the author of
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Ecclesiastes. If you remember in Ecclesiastes,
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he said there is a time to weep and a time to laugh.
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There's a time to mourn and a time to dance.
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And James is basically saying to the church, church body, this is
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not or churches, this is not the time to laugh and to dance.
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This is the time to weep and to mourn.
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This is a time to weep and mourn.
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Weep and mourn over what? Why is he commanding them to
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weep and to mourn? They are to weep and mourn over
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their sin, over the sin. If you remember, we've been
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looking at that. There are some in the church who
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have become friends with the world.
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They have grown comfortable with the world.
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They have propped their feet up on the coffee table of the
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world. James calls them sinners.
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He calls them double minded. And he's exhorting these people,
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these people, these particular people to feel miserable, to
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weep and to mourn over their sin.
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Now, this does raise a few questions, doesn't it?
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I had four and we're looking at 4 questions.
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You may have more, but I wrote down 4 questions that I that I
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thought of when I was thinking about this.
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Number one, is there any other biblical precedent for doing
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this? Is there any other biblical
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precedent for this? The reason I asked this question
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is because we all know that people can have different
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personalities. We all know that people can have
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different dispositions, right? Some of us are serious people.
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Some of us are more playful people.
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Some of us like sad music. Some of us only like happy
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music, right? I'll give you one example.
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Like I every week I kind of, I come up with a list of sermon
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titles and I'll go to Lauren. I'll ask her like, which one's
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your favorite, right? And I gave her a list and one of
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them was be miserable. She reads and she goes.
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She looks at me seriously. Safe to say she didn't pick that
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title. I picked that title.
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Is James just a melancholy type of guy?
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You know, is he just one of those guys who just likes he's
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like very serious and just you know, he's always wearing black,
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maybe has eyeliner and eyeshadow on and it's just or you know,
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like is that, is that who James is?
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Is there any other biblical precedent for this?
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Yes. I'll give you 2 examples.
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A Matthew 54, Jesus says blessed are those who mourn, for they
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shall be comforted. Now certainly Jesus may be
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referring to those who mourn over death and loss.
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I think that's true. But many scholars believe that
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when Jesus says blessed are those who mourn, he may
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specifically intend to hear blessed are those who mourn over
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their sin, for they shall be comforted.
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Trust family. It is a great blessing of the
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Lord to be able to feel broken over your sin.
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It is a blessing. B Here's another example, First
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Corinthians 52, the apostle Paul says, and you are arrogant.
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Ought you not rather to mourn? Do you remember the context
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there In First Corinthians 52, there is a man in the Church of
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Corinth that had his father's wife, whether it's his
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stepmother or is, you know, we don't know the situation, but he
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has his father's wife. And the church is happy about
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this. Why?
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Because they think it's a symbol of their freedom in Christ.
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It had been reported to him. And and they're arrogant.
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Like look at us. Look at how free we are in
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Christ that we even we even accept a brother in our church
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who has his father's wife. And Paul says you should be
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mourning over this. Paul is rebuking the church that
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instead of privately boasting it of freedom in Christ, they
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should be mourning over this man's sin.
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So yes, there is biblical precedent.
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This is not just a James thing. This is a Bible thing.
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That's the first question #2 should we feel bad for our sin?
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You know, like we all can maybe agree we should confess our sin.
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But should I feel bad for my sin?
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Should I feel bad? I asked this question because I
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have been around Christians. I've been around many
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Christians, including pastors, who have said in so many terms
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that we shouldn't feel bad for our sin.
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I have heard Christians give counsel.
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I've listened to Christians where one person came, they were
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in sin or they maybe done something.
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They went and got counsel from somebody and the other person
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said to them, hey, don't, don't feel bad.
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Don't feel bad. You shouldn't feel bad.
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And the the premise of their counsel is that God loves us, He
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forgives us, He has mercy on us, His favor is upon us.
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And brothers and sisters, those are all wonderfully true.
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Praise God, those are all wonderfully true.
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And they are not mutually exclusive with what James is
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commanding the church to do. They're not mutually exclusive.
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Last year I did a series on repentance, and I said that
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repentance has three components. I literated them so we can
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remember them. Confession, contrition and
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change. Repentance needs to have
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confession, contrition and change.
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And here James is highlighting the contrition component of
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repentance, contrition. And this contrition is so
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important in repentance because confession of sin absent of
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contrition is simply an acknowledgement of reality.
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If we confess our sin without contrition of our sin, all we've
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done is acknowledge reality, nothing more.
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Contrition must prick the emotions or otherwise it's not
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contrition. It's not enough to say I
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acknowledged that I sinned. We must also feel remorse.
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We must also feel guilt. We must also feel regret.
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We must also feel shame. We must also feel sorrow.
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We must feel these things #3 Question three.
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Can we feel too bad for our sin? Can we feel too bad for our sin?
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When James gives these commands, is it possible to be too
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wretched, to be too mournful, to weep too much?
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Yes, yes, we must remember that contrition is a road.
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It is not the destination. It's a Rd.
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Prolonged contrition, you say? What's wrong with that?
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Prolonged contrition robs the cross of its glory, you say,
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What's the destination then? Joy in the Lord.
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Joy in the Lord is the destination.
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That's always the destination. Contrition is the road to get
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there. And #4 are we to feel this
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question for? Are we to feel this way for
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every sin? Are we to Should I feel
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miserable for every sin that I commit?
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No, no, he say. Well, what?
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What do you mean? What?
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What? What?
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Listen, we sin every day, if not every hour, if not every minute.
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If we felt this way for everything, we would never get
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anything done. We cannot feel miserable like in
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this sense for everything we do. But the pattern that we see in
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Scripture is that when there is egregious sin, when there is
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ongoing sin, when there is unrepentant sin, there is
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mourning and there is weeping. Ezra and Nehemiah wept at the
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thought of Israel marrying foreign women.
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They both wept at it. The sinful woman, when she came
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to Jesus, she wept at His feet. Peter, after denying Christ,
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went out and wept bitterly. So those are four questions.
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One last thing I want to mention to you, this is very important
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and I, and I say this is very important because I know this
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doesn't apply to everybody. Some of us are more emotional
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than others. But if I'm painting with a very
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broad stroke, if I'm painting with a very broad stroke, we are
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not the most emotional church, including myself.
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Be careful that your emotions don't develop calluses.
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Be careful that your emotions don't develop calluses.
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It is a terrifying thing to be able to send frequently and to
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not feel bad for it. It is terrifying when you can
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send over when a husband can be unkind to his wife over and over
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and over again and not feel bad for it.
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When a woman can be idolize material things over and over
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and over again and not feel bad for it.
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When a man can look at pornography over and over and
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over again and not feel bad for When a woman or a mother can be
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unkind to her children over and over and over again and not feel
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bad for it. It is a terrifying thing if we
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can sin over and over again and not feel bad for it.
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Every time we do that, those calluses, they get thicker.
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They do. They get thicker and it becomes
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more difficult to feel. Look at verse 9B.
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Let your laughter be turned to mourning and your joy to gloom.
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Let your laughter be turned to mourning and your joy to gloom.
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The next imperative that James gives is found in this verb
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turned turned. It's the only time this Greek
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word is used in the New Testament.
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It's defined as this to cause a change of state with emphasis
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upon the difference and the resulting state.
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So the people are experiencing laughter and joy.
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That's, that's that's a good thing, right?
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I mean, when you're around your friends, we all experience
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laughter and joy. That's that's why they're our
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friends, because they make us happy.
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They bring laughter into our life.
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And James is commanding them. Let your laughter be turned to
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mourning. Let your joy be turned to gloom,
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which that word gloom can also be translated as despair,
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dejection, or depression. Now what exactly is James saying
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here? Why would he command the church
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to let their laughter be turned to mourning, to let their joy be
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turned to good? Why would he do that?
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Let me give an illustration. Suppose my wife found out that I
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was having an affair. I claim to her, I claim to all
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of you, that I love my wife with all my heart.
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But I've been having an affair for the past two years and she
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finds out. And suppose the day that she
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finds out, she expects that I would be broken.
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I would be remorseful, I would be sad.
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But instead I just went on as though nothing was wrong.
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I was cracking jokes around her. I was excited to go to the NBA
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game on Saturday night. I was talking about how the
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market is up right now, and later that night I had a big
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bowl of ice cream with a smile on my face.
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Would there be something wrong with that?
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Do we not all instinctively look at that and say something's
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wrong? Something's very, very wrong
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with that? Shouldn't she expect me to be
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mourning? Shouldn't she expect me to be
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distraught and dejected? You see, the same is true with
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these professing Christians who have prostituted themselves out
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with the world. That's what's going on right
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now. There are some of the church who
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have prostituted themselves out with the world.
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They are enjoying themselves, perhaps they are, they are
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laughing and and and feel joyful that their new found success.
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I would imagine that part of the reason they have made themselves
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friends with the world is because it has brought them
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prosperity. We all know that if you start a
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business in, in 1st century Israel, you're trying to sell
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basket weaving and you realize, man, you've got to go rub elbows
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with the world to get these baskets out.
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I've got to go wine and dine with them.
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I've got to learn their language and I've got to be friends with
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them. And, and I won't be successful
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in my business unless I do that. And they, they feel good about
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it. They don't feel broken about it.
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They have gained a small piece of the world, but they are not
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broken over the possibility of forfeiting their soul.
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I see this all the time at the church where people, college
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students, young professionals, you may be happy, but is your
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happiness a righteous happiness? And and and don't even like
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guys. It's not just the party scene
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moms. You can become friends with
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other lost moms and adopt their ways and not realize you're in
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sin. James commands them.
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Let your laughter be turned to mourning and your joy to gloom.
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Now one thing I want to point out is that the three
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imperatives and 9A, they're all active, but the imperative and
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9B is passive. The three imperatives and 9A are
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all active, but the imperative and 9B is passive.
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That's why it's translated as let your laughter be turned.
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Let your laughter be turned. This reminds us that contrition
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is something we are commanded to feel, but contrition is not
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something we can manufacture on our own.
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I mean, how many times do we mentally know that we should be
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broken over something, but emotionally we just don't feel
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it. Everybody in this room, that is
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true of everybody in this room where we know, it's like, I know
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that I should feel bad for doing this or saying this or thinking
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this or feeling this or not doing this or not saying this or
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not feeling this. We know that we should feel bad
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for. But the reality is, if we're
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honest with ourselves, we say, I just, I don't feel bad for it.
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Brothers and sisters, contrition is a gift.
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It is a wonderful gift of grace. Sometimes we have to come before
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the Lord and we have to confess to him.
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Help me, Lord, I recognize I don't feel what I should.
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Help me to mourn over my sin. Help me to mourn over my
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brothers and sisters sin. Don't let me grow calloused over
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this. Lord, you ever prayed that you
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ever started to feel you were growing calloused over something
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in your life. Alarm bells should be ringing
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and going off saying I man, I feel it.
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I know my disciples been challenging me to put the
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controller down, but and we want to tune it out and and it's like
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in that moment, you got to stop and beg the Lord.
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Don't let me grow callous to this verse 10 A humble
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yourselves before the Lord. Humble yourselves before the
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Lord. The 5th impaired that James
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gives us this humble yourselves before the Lord.
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There are three points that I want to mention about this
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command. Number one, it is a command.
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It is a command. Now, I point this out because we
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must remember that humility is not a personality trait.
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It's not it's not a personality like funny or extroverted,
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right? Humility is obedience.
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The reason why we must not categorize as personality traits
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because I can say all day, all day long, you know what?
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You know, guys, I've just never really been a funny person or
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I've never been an extroverted person.
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And if you're not a funny person, OK, fine, it's not your
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personality. If you're not an extraverted
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person, fine, it's not your personality.
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People are different, but we must not categorize humility as
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a personality trait. Humility is obedience #2 The
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verb here is a passive verb with a reflexive meaning.
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It's a passive verb with a reflexive meaning.
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What does that mean? If we translated this verb as
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passive, it would read like this.
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Be humbled before the Lord. Be humbled before the Lord.
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But almost no major translation translates it that way.
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Why? Why do they translate it as
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active? I think the reason is is because
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it appears that James doesn't intend for his readers to just
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idly sit by waiting for God to humble them.
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James gives a passive verb, but with a reflexive meaning.
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This is why the translator is translated as humble yourselves.
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Again, this brings out the divine causation and human
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responsibility to this command. Divine causation, human
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responsibility. I've told the story before, but
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I'll tell it again. I can distinctively remember a
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conversation with my former worship leader.
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This is many years ago. Like like almost maybe 2 decades
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ago, I remember I was sitting in my living room at seminary in
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New Orleans and we were talking about our spiritual walks and
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how we were doing. And I remember telling him how
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difficult humility was. I told him I was like, man,
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brother, like I've been praying for it and praying for it.
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And honestly, it just seems like God doesn't want to give it to
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me. And I remember him kind of
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looking at me and then quoting this passage saying, you know,
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Matt, the Bible charges us to humble ourselves.
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The Bible charges us to be responsible to humble ourselves.
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Now here's the question, which is it?
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Are we to pray for humility or are we to take the
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responsibility to humble ourselves?
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Both. Both.
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Not only does God give grace to the humble, God gives grace to
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be humble. We must pray for humility, but
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we can't just idly sit by and say he didn't give it.
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We have our responsibility to humble ourselves.
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Number three, Third Point I want to point out, we are to humble
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ourselves before the Lord. Don't miss that phrase.
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Don't overlook that phrase. We are to humble ourselves
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before the Lord. These phrases are so important
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in the New Testament. We are not just to rejoice.
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The command of Scripture is not to just rejoice.
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We are to rejoice in what? Say it in the Lord, Rejoice in
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the Lord. We are not just to humble
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ourselves, we are to humble ourselves before the Lord.
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Now why is that important? Because this command on paper,
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it's rather easy to do. Isn't it the command to humble
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ourselves? On paper it's rather easy to do.
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You don't need a high IQ to do it.
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No one needs a high IQ to humble themselves.
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You don't need to be rich to buy it.
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Nobody needs to be rich to buy humility.
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You don't need specialized training to understand it.
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Nobody needs to go to a class called Humility in order to know
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how to do this. You don't need years of
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experience to carry it out. This command on paper is rather
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easy to do. And yet we all know how
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difficult it is to humble ourselves in the moment somebody
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offends you. Ever had somebody offend you in
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that moment? Is it difficult to humble
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yourself? Someone is prideful towards us,
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you know, it's like if you're humble to me, it's very easy for
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me to be humble to you. But when you are prideful to me,
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it's very difficult to humble myself.
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When someone corrects us in front of others.
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You ever had somebody correct you in front of others?
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When we fail in front of others? You ever failed in front of
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others? Often when I tell people that,
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you know, like, would you like to give your testimony or give,
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you know, are we not, is it not fear of failure when we're faced
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with our own limitations and weaknesses, right?
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Do we, do we do we not? Is not going to bed a means of
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humbling ourselves? I am not a robot.
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If I don't go to bed at this time, I will be tired and I will
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not be able to listen very well. When someone unjustly criticizes
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us. It is one thing when they
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criticize us, and it's fair. But when somebody unjustly
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criticizes us, When someone hurts you and they're not sorry
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for it, or when someone is praised above you when you know
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that you did a better job than them or you can't do a better
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job than them and someone else is praised above you.
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In these moments, doesn't it feel impossible to humble
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ourselves? That just feel impossible to
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humble ourselves. How did we do it?
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And the answer lies in this last phrase.
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Humble yourselves before the Lord.
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We are not called to humble ourselves before man.
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We are called to humble ourselves before the Lord.
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It is only when we have our eyes turned upward and we see God the
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Father as holy and righteous. And it is only when we turn our
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eyes downward and we see our Savior washing our feet.
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It is only then that we are able to humble ourselves.
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But if you turn your eyes this way at others, I'll never be
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able to humble myself before you.
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I'll look at you and I'll see your sin.
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I'll see your pride and I'll match it or supersede it.
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It's only when my eyes are on the Lord that I'm able to do
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this. 10B. Humble yourselves before the
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Lord, and He will exalt you. Now, if we are looking for a
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prize for humility, our eyes will grow weary because it often
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doesn't come. If we think that in humbling
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ourselves, people will value that humility, they will prize
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it. Actually, in fact, quite the
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opposite. In fact, humbling ourselves will
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often come with more ridicule. It will come with more
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criticism, it'll come with more being taken advantage of.
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I think one of the most difficult parts of humbling
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ourselves is that often we feel unjustified, right?
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If I humble myself right now, I'm just going to feel
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unjustified. We'll feel misunderstood, We'll
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feel invisible. We'll feel undervalued.
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We'll feel underappreciated. We'll feel powerless.
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We'll feel exposed, We'll feel embarrassed, We'll feel foolish,
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We'll feel lonely. And we think humility won't
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solve this problem. There's a problem right now.
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And if I humble myself, it's not like humility is going to solve
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this problem. You know, after almost every
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conflict in my marriage, not every, but almost every conflict
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in my marriage through the years, over the past 18 years,
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7/17/18 years, I have this lingering thought in my head
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afterward. Why didn't I just humble myself
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there? Like, why didn't I just humble
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myself so often? The reason is that in the
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moment, in real time, I fear being misunderstood is that if I
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humble myself, I'm going to be misunderstood, or if I humble
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myself, a foolish decision is going to get made, or if I
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humble myself, I will be unjustified right now.
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So we don't want to humble ourselves.
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Now here's the question, How do we get over these reservations
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to humility? How do we get over these
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reservations to humility? By remembering this verse.
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Humble yourselves before the Lord, and here it is, and He
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will exalt you. These are words from our Lord
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Jesus Christ. Whoever exalts himself will be
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humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.
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I don't have to seek my exaltation.
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I don't have to seek my justification.
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I don't have to seek my validation.
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I don't have to seek my own understanding.
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I don't have to seek these things because I already have
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them. Remember in elementary school
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when we would? Maybe this, maybe not true for
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you, so if the story doesn't apply to you, I apologize.
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But for those it does apply to, remember in elementary school
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when we would play kickball at PE or gym class?
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It was a great honor to be picked first, and it was a great
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shame to be picked last. Isn't so much of life this exact
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same paradigm? School, work, relationships,
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families, We're all trying to figure out where we are in the
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pecking order. This even happens in the church.
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Do people see me as spiritually mature?
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Why do they say this person? I'm pretty sure I'm more
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spiritually mature than they are.
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And yet in all these situations, we can't humble ourselves.
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Why? Because God picked us first.
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If you're in Christ, God picked you first.
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And that means He will exalt you at the right time.
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And if the right time is not in this life, it will come in the
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next life. He will exalt you.
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He will validate you. He will make it right.
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Whatever was wrong in this life, he'll make it right.
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People will know. I have to think about this in
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the moment. I'm like, no, no, no, no, no,
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no, no. I can't humble myself right now
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because they won't know. They won't know they're wrong.
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They will. You just need to wait for it.
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He will exalt you at the right time.
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Look at verse 11. A Do not speak evil against one
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other brothers. Do not speak evil against one
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another brothers. After calling them adulterous
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people, sinners and double minded, James now returns to
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calling them brothers. He gives them a command.
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The 6th and final impaired this morning is this.
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Do not speak evil against one other brothers.
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What does this mean? The verb that's used here is
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only used five times in the New Testament.
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Three of them in this verse is defined as this to speak evil
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of, to speak degradingly of, to defame or to slander.
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Now, what's interesting is that the two other times that this
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word is used, it's in the context of the lost world
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slandering Christians. And so it's almost as if James
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is saying that when we speak evil of one another against our
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brothers, we become like the lost world because that's what
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the lost world does. They slander Christians.
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Now, what would this include for us?
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This would include everything from spreading rumors to
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gossiping about one another's sin, to tearing down a brother
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or sister behind their back or in front of their face, jumping
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to conclusions about their motives, unnecessarily shaming
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someone, publicly criticizing someone in front of others self
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righteously elevating ourselves and putting others down.
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These are things that characterize the world and they
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must not characterize Christians.
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And yet, sometimes we do see this in the church.
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We do see this among Christians. Do you know what's made this
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very easy to do in our day and age?
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It's made it too easy. Social media.
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Social media I have seen Christians who are public
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figures, even respectable public figures, tearing down fellow
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Christians online, a Christian they may not even met.
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There is a difference between speaking the truth and speaking
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evil, and even when we speak the truth, we are to speak it with
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grace and truth. Look at verse 11.
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B. The one who speaks against a
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brother or judges his brother, speaks evil against the law and
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judges the law. Now what does James mean by the
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statement? A few points are in order before
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explaining this number one. James here introduces a second
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category of judging a brother. He has a second category.
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So James is not prohibiting our need to judge actions in the
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church. We must judge actions.
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James is prohibiting the type of judgement that pronounces
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condemnation on one another. That's the first point.
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The second point here is that the law here is most likely
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referring to the Old Testament law.
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All right, so with those two points being said, in what sense
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is speaking evil against a brother or judging a brother?
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In what sense is that tantamount to speaking evil against the law
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and judging the law? What does he mean by that?
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Well, if you remember, the law gave us the second greatest
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commandment. Love your neighbor as yourself,
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which would include our brothers and sisters.
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Love your brothers and sisters as yourself.
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But to speak evil against our brothers and to judge them is
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not to love them as ourselves. And So what James is saying is
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that when we do this, when we speak evil against one another
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or we pronounce judgment over one another, we have basically
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decided which portion of the law we're going to obey and which
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portion we're not. We've essentially said to God,
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God, I don't think this law applies to me.
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I don't think this law needs to be followed, which is to speak
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evil about the law and it's to judge the law.
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That's the argument that James is making.
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The verse 11 C. But if you judge the law, you
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are not a doer of the law, but a judge.
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James says that if we judge the law, by definition we are not a
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doer of the law. We're just a judge of the law.
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How so? Let me give an example.
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Growing up, I was a rebellious kid.
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I wasn't the most the most rebellious kid, but I was, I was
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a rebellious kid. Part of the reason that I was
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rebellious is because I was a self appointed judge of the
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rules. I didn't think this as a kid,
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but looking back in my wisdom now in my older years, I look
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back and I'm like, that's what I was.
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I was a self appointed judge of the rules.
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So the teacher, for example, teacher would say no talking in
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class. And I would think that's a silly
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rule. You can talk if you talk
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quietly. The speed limit say 35, That's
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ridiculous. You can clearly go 55 and still
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be safe. Sometimes we do this with God.
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God said to be pure in your thought and your deeds.
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That's impossible, God. You can't expect men to do that.
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You gave us this desire. You can't really expect us to do
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this. Anytime we think this way, we
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have become a judge of the law. We have placed ourselves above
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God's law and said God, I will determine what makes sense to me
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and what doesn't. And by doing so we have
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effectively become self appointed judges.
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But remember what James said earlier.
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We are to be doers of the law, doers of the word, church
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family. Be careful that we don't
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subconsciously create a bifurcated list of God's law.
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These are the commands that make sense to me, and I will obey
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them. And these are the ones that I
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kind of find rather silly or outdated or not relevant or too
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difficult or arbitrary or up for debate.
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Be careful you don't create this bifurcated list.
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Verse 12. Last verse, there is only one
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law giver and judge, he who is able to save and to destroy, but
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who are you to judge your neighbor?
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James reminds the churches. There is only one law giver,
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there is only one judge and that is God.
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Now some might think, what gives God the right to give the law?
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What gives God the right to be the sole judge?
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Because he holds the keys to life and death.
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He alone has the keys to life and death.
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I was reading an article about retail theft in Washington
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state. It it said that Washington state
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is number one in the country and retail theft.
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I believe it. Just go to Walmart in Renton and
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you this will be proven true to you.
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There is one exception to this, Issaquah.
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That's what the article was saying.
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Issaquah, Why? They have their own jail system
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in Issaquah. And so when people are caught
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stealing, they are immediately booked into jail.
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The officers were saying that when they arrest people, they
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are absolutely stunned that they're going to jail.
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They just assumed that like, because everywhere else they
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don't, they don't do anything about it.
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They're stunned at it, but they happen to steal from a Issaquah
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business. They're actually going to go to
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jail. Often when they get arrested,
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they will say, what gives you the right?
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This badge gives me the right. There is only one lawgiver and
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judge and his name tag says God. And because he is God, he alone
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has the power to save and to destroy.
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Sometimes I can be guilty of thinking that I know what people
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deserve. I go out in society, I'm like, I
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know what this person deserves. This person deserves punishment.
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This person deserves hell. Who am I to make such a
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judgment? If God wanted to save Adolf
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Hitler and condemn Mother Teresa, who am I to say
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otherwise? James asked the church.
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Who are you to judge your neighbor?
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We must not be like the Pharisees who could not accept
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the salvation of a blind man, a tax collector, an adulterous
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woman and a Samaritan. They just couldn't.
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I would imagine that when we get to heaven, we will be very
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surprised at who was there and who is not there.
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I want to close with a short quote that I read this week in
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our small group book. It's just one line, but we're
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reading through a book in small group right now and I want to
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close with what we read this past week.
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Here's what she wrote. She wrote.
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Who else knows that the sin that will undo me is my own, not my
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neighbors, no matter how big my neighbors send may appear?
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Let's pray.